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5

I agree with this, but on the flip side, when you're 18 an LTR could mean 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/23 02:49 PM
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Automation was also dreamed about, yet here we are. What solution have you seen that has also been tested in and out of the U.S. that you think we should entertain?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 02:53 PM
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5-10 years. There's always tail risk but it appears in both directions.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/23 02:43 PM
2

When I say "expand" I mean expand to the people with money and assets in a way that affects their ability to get what they need (not just lose a few luxuries). What would persuade me otherwise? Certain people with great lives here abandoning ship.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/23 02:42 PM
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My guess is within the next 5 years the pendulum will hit it's peak and be forced back the other way. I see society-wide changes coming with AI and automation. At first, it will be horrible for the people who aren't well off, because they will lose their jobs and have nothing to fall back on. The next step is to rethink welfare (since so many will be on it). I believe that turns into a form of UBI. After another 5 years things will look better again.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/23 02:38 PM
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When things start to get really bad, people will change and adjust. We've had other pendulums swing back and forth politically, soon we'll see it with the workforce as AI and automation advance. Labor will change. There are a lot of unknowns at this point, but typically, like in nature, equilibrium is reached. If that looks good to me then no need to change, but if I don't like what I'm seeing, it may be time to make a move. In short, if we have hard times, real men will step forward and there w…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/23 08:09 PM
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I'm covered elsewhere just in case, but plan on staying. We disagree on the failure piece. I believe it's possible, but not probable. No one knows for sure so we place our bets. Some of us have $$ on that insurance line and some are already folding.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/23 07:21 PM
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You joke, but I'm ready for that lab grown meat without bullshit pumped into it! I understand your point, but if you are getting everything you want and need and then some of the real stuff, you'd ride out a decline that doesn't affect you as well. If it looks like the decline will expand and continue I'll change my tune, but at least until then, I'm enjoying this grass-fed steak every night!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/23 07:19 PM
2

Ah ok we're talking about different things then. I'm fairly insulated from the shit smelling mud. It would take a lot for me to want to leave. Personally, I see this decline as movement in the negative direction, but the pendulum will swing back eventually. If I'm wrong and it doesn't then we'll have a failed nation. We'll see.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/23 06:47 PM
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There are still a ton of beautiful (real) women in the U.S.. If you want to keep them (marry) then sure, go far away from westernized locations - I completely agree, but if you're not keeping them anyway, then there's very few men out there to compete with. It's now on easy mode here.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/23 05:27 PM
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I guess I'm weird but I'm enjoying the decline. There's basically no competition out here and I'm killing it.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/23 03:48 PM
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Yes -- it's #30. Other relevant laws: 3 Conceal your intentions. 4 Always say less than necessary. 16 Use absence to increase respect and honor. 17 Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability. 20 Do not commit to anyone. 27 Play on people's need to believe to create a cult-like following. 32 Play to people's fantasies. 46 Never appear too perfect. 48 Assume formlessness.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/23 02:41 PM
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DM me whenever. I look forward to hearing about your progress. If you enjoy learning how to code then that's a good sign. All those terms you mentioned get mixed for the most part. Python is a good place to start. Once you learn that, I'd recommend taking a free online course in C. No need to be proficient there, but it helps to know how things work "under the hood" with a lower level language. You'll hit roadblocks along the way, but keep pushing forward. It's worth it. Notice the people who co…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 06:16 PM
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First step is figure out things you're good at (or just enjoy) and tie that together with using one of those things to make the most money. If you like programming, look for programming jobs and see which ones get paid the most. Then look at those qualifications and work your way up to obtain those. Build things while you're learning and bring those results to your interviews as examples. This is extremely important, especially if you are just starting and are without experience. Once you do the…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 02:52 PM
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I'm happy where I'm at, but I'm not content because there's always room for improvement. Always try to make more money, invest more, go after your passion(s), work out, eat well, don't drink, sleep 8 hours every night. Focus extra on why your SMV is low. Once you feel like you've got those things down, do them the next day, better than yesterday. Look at women as a bonus, don't chase. This doesn't mean you don't shoot your shot. If you don't have this kind of mindset it seems overwhelming and im…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 10:01 PM
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I'm older than OP, but I don't look old, because I've always worked out, ate right, haven't drank in many years, gotten great sleep, etc.. Regardless, yes, older men can still spin plates. SMV isn't just looks for us, but I will say I am lucky to be well over 6ft. The ages of the women, for me, are in their 20's and 30's. All walks of life.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 06:52 PM
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You're doing it right in my book. Children are too easily influenced and manipulated. With that said, don't underestimate the influence the mother's BFs can bring. You can't control it, but it is something to look out for and keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 05:34 PM
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Think about what you really want. If you're in the thick of it now with your divorce, why would you even be thinking about an LTR in the foreseeable future? I have much more than 50% custody, put my child first for everything, and spin a couple plates in part of my free time. LTR is usually an option, but I haven't been compelled to go that route because I wouldn't get anything out of that situation except for increased risk. In any case, my point is I have options. Spin plates first, figure out…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 02:35 PM
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Game should recognize game. Women play it too. The way they dress, the make-up, the way they smell, the way they talk -- what they say they like vs what they really like, etc. It's all game. You playing it puts you at equal footing - nothing more. Edit: Once you understand this you become what you are portraying, because you see things for what they are. It's all transactional.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 07:02 PM
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It's because most of the time nobody says a damn thing about it or there are white knights m'ladying around.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/22 03:34 PM
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I agree. Most guys don't have game. It's possible to be the exception. It's also possible to make it easier by getting in shape, make good money, etc.. That's what the OP is talking about. Give yourself the permission to do whatever you want and go for any women. Eventually you'll be an exception or you will increase other factors so that it's easier to pull off. In both cases, it starts with the individual.
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:39 AM
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You've never seen an odd ugly guy with a cute girl? C'mon...
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:24 AM
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Stop trying to figure them out. Do what you like, and think of women as a bonus to whatever you're striving for. Don't let them get in the way. Don't make them your focus. If you do those things, they become extremely simple and will go after you.
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:13 PM
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Plus. Having the option to leave - meaning, not married, no house together; Just make sure to check the laws in your location. You may want to add "no cohabitation" to that list. Otherwise, this is a solid plan if you don't want biological children or a traditional family.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 05:16 PM
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You're not paying the price based on what you want out of life. If you want a family, then when your turn is over, you still have to pay the bills. If you never want a family, then yeah, this is the best thing ever!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 04:54 PM
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record scratch sound
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:27 PM
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"Look at me! I'm worth it! Where's my smart and attractive guy that makes $$$?" Beta males: "Damn, she's fine - so worth it! I could provide a better place!" Chads: "I'm going to DM her and tell her she think she's fancy, LOL! Then hook up." Smart, Attractive Man: Another one of these... I won't take the bait. If I'm bored for the night, might do the whole Chad thing, but that's it.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:07 PM
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It's because being fit is who you are. It's the truth. You don't need to "hold" frame when it's all true. That's what makes it easy. Nice work getting fit!
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:22 AM
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You are in charge. You do what you want and like what you like. If a women joins in on this, great. If she doesn't, you don't care. People call this frame - but it's really how you feel down to your core. When people say, "Be yourself" I think this is what they mean, but it's the real self -- the internal self -- don't block any of that part of the real you based on external factors. When you do, you'll look weak, creepy, or weird because it's a mismatch of who you really are.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:50 PM
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I was that guy. Now I'm you. Is ignorance bliss? I say, "No - I'd rather know the rules before playing."
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:44 PM
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That IS you. The beta piece is blocking the real you. I agree it's difficult to shake, but you'll see that the best way to win this kind of frame battle is to not fight. Do what you want. Let others react. Do not emotionally react back. Be in your own world and invite who you want into that world.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:10 PM
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it feels natural in cases where women are already attracted to me Don't wait for their approval in the form of your perception that they may be attracted already. Be confident, lead, and talk about whatever you want. That's you, right? Don't hide it. Don't wait for anything or anyone.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 05:09 PM
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Women are into bands, working out, hiking, road trips, etc.. Your problem isn't your interests/passions. More likely you need to express what you're passionate about to them because you like talking about it and not really give two shits what they think because YOU KNOW it's interesting. That will come off as confident, passionate, interesting and mysterious (if you mix passions together). You should hear, "How do you know so much about everything?" It doesn't matter what it is. I've talked wome…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 04:12 PM
1

What is your version of a "best awesome life"?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 03:28 PM
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I grew tired of gaming chicks, tired of putting on the show. Quit thinking about the game to focus on things I cared about, things not involving girls. I figured since I had shed my insecurities and nice guy tendencies I could just live my fun life, quit playing games, and still get some girls here and there, being my authentic self. This is like a chick saying, "I got tired of working out and eating right. Wearing make-up was too much. I gained weight but I'm confident in how I look now. Societ…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 03:08 PM
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Best most valid point in this thread. You now KNOW how dangerous she is. Definitely playing with fire!!
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:11 AM
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You think she was a piece of shit to him from the start?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/22 03:18 PM
1

Yes, but it doesn't matter because I'm not keeping them.
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:21 PM
1

If lab is an option, go for it! I think that's a great path if available.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 02:02 AM
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You can have kids, get divorced and still kick back and retire early. Just live well below your means. Edit: Not saying that's the easiest or best path, but chances are high this will happen if you do want kids. If you don't, then why get married unless she makes more money than you? (rare due to hypergamy)
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 05:15 PM
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I have a similar attitude as you, however, the way I got there is different. I was married and will never do it again UNLESS the women makes significantly more than me (extremely small % of women), because you are correct - it is a scam. That scam can work in your favor in a very small set of circumstances. Casual Bachelor is great. I also really like how Darius M breaks things down. So spot on! I'm not MGTOW either, because relationships are fun so long as you know there's an expiration date.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 05:43 PM
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The driving force behind this is older women can still get laid if they stay in shape and are attractive. They can do this ALMOST as easy as they were younger, but these men are just going to hook up w/ them and drop them because they are too old. That's why they say there are no good men. It's because how they are treated. Too bad. Should have cashed out those chips when you were 25, ma'am.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 05:25 PM
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Between these two extremes there's the 'average' woman. Who, in my view, is not going to ditch their LTR for someone who is 5-10% 'better'. She might leave you for someone that is 50% better That's the problem. There's always someone who is 50% better - save for celebrity or ultra-wealthy status. Even then, they will cash out eventually.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 07:11 PM
9

Bro, you know she likes the leash thing, right?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 04:18 PM
5

That it. Stop seeking validation. Your bro does not seek validation, because it's there. It's not something you gain, it's something you assume.
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:08 AM
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No. Like respect - you earn equity. This doesn't include things like common decency.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/21 06:24 PM
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Yep, I agree. They feel entitled to equity.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/21 05:55 PM
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Do women still want equality?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/21 04:34 PM
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So guys fall for the trap and now you can post about it on twitter so you feel better about your life and pretend you're a 10 instead of a 6.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/21 05:55 PM
1

I understand where you're coming from. Maybe I've seen too many posts from /r/intermittentfasting but for the most part when people improve a lot they think they've "made it" and stop short of the top 20% of individuals. Right now, I could sit back and say "I'm the best version of myself" very easily. That would be a serious trap at least for me personally.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:19 PM
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I like "Always keep improving". "Be the best version of yourself" sounds like an attainable goal so some guys will get to the point where they think, "Ok, I'm so much better than before, this is the best version of me" and stop (or settle). That stopping point is well below the top 20% of men in the vast majority of cases - to be brutally honest.
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:15 PM
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Do you need to pretend you are improving all the time? I think you need to reframe what improving means to you. What are things you like to do? Can you do them better? Do that because YOU are passionate about it, not because you think others hold some value for it. You've already got the value via riches. Box is checked.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 04:32 PM
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I agree, nearly impossible to marry up financially anyway due to hypergamy. Even with all the factors in your favor -- you are a millionaire, famous, attractive, in shape, etc., divorce is still a high probability. We can look at plenty of examples with actors, rock stars, and sports stars. It really doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 04:04 PM
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It's more about how you carry yourself and what you'll put up with, but you should avoid red flags: https://www.youtube.com/c/EntrepreneursInCars/search?query=red I get wanting to have kids. Consider adoption if you have enough money on your own. Even if you avoid red flags and hold your own there will always be some other monkey branch to swing to if your wife is attractive. That's just how it is. There is no way to protect yourself emotionally. Meaning -- if she leaves you, she is also taking …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 02:27 PM
2

Marry a woman that makes more money than you do will be the only way to protect yourself financially. If you have kids 50/50 is the best scenario when you divorce but at least you'll have some leverage if she makes more than you do. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 10:58 PM
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Curious to know how or why you got banned?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 06:17 PM
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This was a test to see if she could walk all over you. You failed her test, but passed the test of being a real man and bullet dodger. GG
/r/PussyPassDenied08/08/20 10:33 PM
2

Right, so you know the problem. Easy to solve, but if your health and how you look/feel are less important than having carbs then at least you know the consequences of your choices.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/20 09:13 PM
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That's not just keto, that's the carnivorous diet. Also, being fat is big factor on basically all diseases American's die by. Source "A low-carb or ketogenic diet helps prevent diabetes and high blood pressure. Because these diseases are the biggest causes of kidney damage, a low-carb diet is not just safe for kidneys, it may actually help prevent kidney damage in those with normal kidney function or early-stage kidney disease" Source You can do it!! I'm doing keto and intermittent fasting and a…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/20 05:06 PM
2

Just eat meat and nothing else for 1 month and report back.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/20 04:36 PM
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At least you recognize it. You know you fucked up and that's that. Just think of the guys who have no clue and would be crying (for real crying) their eyes out right now instead of logically thinking it through and learning.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 03:27 AM
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No one should base anything on an extremely loose condition statement. There's always someone out there more "worth it." Plates can cook and clean too.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 03:55 PM
5

Yep, like all subreddits there's good and bad posts.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/04/20 12:08 AM
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Legally speaking, yeah it's not even close to a sure thing. However, socially speaking, this is some pretty bad press and will probably equal being blocked from future work in Hollywood as we're already seeing.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/20 03:26 PM
5

Exactly, here comes /r/The_Wall
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/20 03:21 PM
2

TeamJohnny wooooo!
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/20 03:20 PM
4

Next time grab her phone, put it face down, and kiss her. Skip the rest of the bullshit. She would have gone for it. Girls just don't sit on your bed unless they are down --- especially when they are complaining about guy problems.... c'mon dude!
/r/seduction23/03/20 09:51 PM
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Yep, that's what the down arrow is for though.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/20 04:56 PM
7

In my opinion, you're mentally in way too deep with this one. There are billions of women out there. Shoot your shot, but too much focus on one particular girl will not bode well for you.
/r/seduction23/01/20 07:47 PM
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It's because of the goals they set for themselves. I've been guilty of it in the past. Goal - get a good career. Done. Success! Why is everyone else failing? It's a trap if you stay there. It should be "goal complete; set new goal" then maybe fail and set another goal and probably fail etc until you make it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 04:44 PM
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Where is the pass denied in this?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/19 02:17 AM
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Right, where is the "denied" part of this?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/12/19 04:06 PM
3

He did the exact opposite, told her the truth about not wanting to be exclusive and allowed her to make her own decision (which she did). Furthermore, part of her decision making process prior to that was bribery and fucking magic! C'mon now....
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:29 PM
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Dude, you could have put a magical stone in your undies and she would have loved you for ever and ever!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:27 PM
2

then he is just as much of a mindless dopamine junky as cc riders That's not true. He was extremely mindful and also honest with the girl. She took his honesty and made her own choice that she didn't want to take that path and left. Sounds fair to both parties to me.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:17 PM
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Our legal system is based upon punishment for crimes. This is called justice. Without it, you can have people doing crimes without penalty. Women (and men BTW), can still come forward but if they are proven that accusations were made of malice then they should be brought to justice. Simple as that.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/19 09:01 PM
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I was hooking up with a stripper for a while. The biggest thing I learned was she had a very low self-esteem (outside of the club) to the point where she would cry when some chick at the bar gave her some negative remark. It was strange. Nope'd my way out soon after.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 01:28 AM
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Note: I didn't down vote you. I see this as you trying to interpret OPs post. I'll give you my interpretation based upon your comments: Be real with yourself. Feel free to fake it until you make it as a strategy though. Become better than you are now. There's always room for improvement. Be aware of why you are posting on TRP. General advice: Give more fucks about things that can make you a better man; give less fucks about everything else. We all have things we have to work on, definitely mysel…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 04:09 PM
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You must understand that the next generation will have gene editing capabilities (currently being used in this generation). The mental capabilities will even out between the sexes as well as everything else (if they so choose).
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 11:48 PM
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I think they will finally understand men-are-men and women-are-women and it's a beautiful joy to raise children and be cherished as a mother. Would be nice, but I don't think that will happen again. Laws will be hard to create against male privilege when we are dealing with some people wanting to give robots themselves rights.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 03:44 PM
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They need pretty basic social AI which we are very close to now. Are you planning to have full-on conversations during sex? It just needs to look, feel and move well. This isn't too far off from our current technology. They wouldn't be conscious either - meaning it's not like the movies where they will try and take over or be built with real feelings. AI just means machine learning, like it can recognize your phase, learn what you like, etc. It does not mean they think on their own and are free …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 03:40 PM
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At that point in time it will just be a preference. We'll be advanced enough to create women who aren't smaller, weaker, slower, etc via gene editing (already available, but looked down upon, today).
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 08:24 PM
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I was going to post something very similar to this. This is the pendulum swinging the other way and truly is the next step. We'll have sexbots and this will demolish porn, strip clubs, sex workers etc. Women's value will plummet extremely fast. Those women who lived through the first part of their lives worry-free, knowledge-free, and ability-free, will be (rightfully) criticized and looked down upon. They will be not only losing their good looks due to age but also have nothing in their brains …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 08:03 PM
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There are ways to cover yourself so these things don't happen to you, but if you want to GYOW, feel free.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 04:43 PM
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nah rather buy an trip around the world and fuck 3rd world country women for cheaper. But what if money wasn't a big deal to you? If you had a ton of money, the value of each dollar goes way down. This guy is getting way more value out of the women than those dollars are worth to him. He's not looking for a relationship, just convenience. It's basically free to him - similar to how others might think of a cup of coffee. You wouldn't say, "nah bro, you got to go to Columbia and get the right fuck…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 08:12 PM
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Put most simply: I stopped giving a fuck.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:37 PM
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I think the scale is fine for this purpose which is to show the modern deterioration of female beauty in the general population. On a day to day basis, your scale, "Fuck or nah," is best.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 06:35 PM
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I'm at 10% bodyfat. Doing IF (20:4) and keto. Any advice on dropping the last 2%?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 03:46 PM
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Not sure, I'm not a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 05:00 AM
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If you think you have a problem see a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 03:03 AM
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It's not what most women want and not what he said. "Jacked" means in really good shape. You can get in really good shape without steroids.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 03:02 AM
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Imagine if the roles were switched and a man said something like that to his famous woman. I think the internet would catch fire.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 03:16 PM
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Even if she makes more money, it's potentially still a shit deal if you have kids (and want to see them). This is regardless of marriage however.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 05:37 PM
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If there's nothing situational - "Hi" relaxed smile. That's it - no lines. Then I just go with the flow. If something stands out on her I'll point it out and compliment it (not her). If she's not very responsive after the initial "hi" I'll be harsher to snap her out of it. "That purse!.... can probably fit an animal in it. It's huge!" Sounds stupid, I know, but when you do it, you'll see women give you a smile with a "WTF?" face. Then you can talk about cats or animals or what's actually in her …
/r/seduction24/05/19 03:07 PM
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They get stuck in their own head and give too many fucks. Open convos situationally if possible. If not, just say "hi" - really that's it. Close it with something funny and while she's laughing say, "you know what? we have fun. put your number in my phone. (hand over phone)" text almost immediately something funny.
/r/seduction24/05/19 12:19 AM
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bahaha! Love it! These additions are pretty sweet! Glucose Guardian has the best ring to it though! 💲💸
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:17 PM
1

Use instagram on PC or create a arthur301.com with pictures and whatever else you want.
/r/seduction27/01/19 04:03 PM
2

I have never heard the term "glucose guardian"! Where did that come from? I'm stealing it.
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:53 PM
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You can definitely get them to qualify before attraction. Example: Girl sitting in general vicinity. You say: "Hey, who said you could sit with the cool kids?" Or you can do something like: "Had to say hi to you and see if you were more than just a cute face" keep a solid frame with confident body language and they will instantly qualify especially if they have friends around.
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:31 PM
2

I see the difference now, thanks!
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:31 PM
2

Isn't the act of RE-framing acknowledging the negative emotion? Ignoring it would just be a frame of denial (no re-framing going on). Am I looking at this the wrong way or is this just semantics?
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:59 PM
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Because they are hot - not everyone wants a relationship.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:07 PM
1

Models is enough to go out and get started. Stop reading now and start doing. After going out a bit, then you can come back and read more.
/r/seduction28/09/18 01:50 AM
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It's the last line. You are willing to make up an imaginary person and then tie that to a real person only because you want to fill some loneliness void. I don't have all the TRP answers as I'm still learning. I have chosen to put myself first over women. I do what I enjoy and do not need love from a woman to do that. Women are cool for companionship, sex, general feminine energy, but that's it. I no longer need to have a woman. I don't need to love a woman. They used to be my main focus in life…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 05:07 PM
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Most likely she doesn't exist. You have some idea about some girl, but that idea isn't what she truly is. That's the whole problem with this shit. The guy that OP is talking about has worked that much older women, who is married, with kids, into his dream girl. He's imagining she is someone she is not and can't break out of it - even with solid advice from OP.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 03:55 PM
12

No idea? Escalate n calibrate.
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:54 PM
2

This is also touched on in "Sex at Dawn" --- I highly recommend reading this one. It shows the why behind AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:08 PM
14

This is why I always swallow the condom and shit it out safely later on. (I'm just kidding, you fucks!)
/r/seduction09/10/17 01:59 AM
2

That sucks dude. I would ignore the first one because it seems like she just bounced /no hope / closed minded / don't bother, but would chat up the second one further. I'm not familiar with the culture there, but I would say something like, "awe, did you think I was hitting on you?" Then game on. Don't take that shit personally even though it's hard. Just push through and make shit happen. Good luck!
/r/seduction28/05/17 08:49 PM
15

tl;dr: Some guys need game as a stepping stone to get to a natural state like in the video. Yes, game is necessary for guys who aren't naturally like this. Guys who don't know how or can't approach and say "Where are you from?" Guys who don't dress well, aren't as fit and generally freak the fuck out when there's a person with a vagina close to them. They need those methods and sound bites to get to the point where it becomes them and all of this happens naturally like in the video.
/r/seduction16/09/16 03:15 PM
3

When you say you come off as immature, what do you mean? And is it something you notice about yourself only or do people call you out on it? The problem might be you're not confident in letting go. Example... when I used to go out I'd tell girls "I love girly drinks" and order a blue hawaii or something like that. They would call me out on it through-out the night, but really this was attractive to them because I didn't give a shit and drank it anyway. It turned into playful banter and I'll shoo…
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:52 PM
1

So many saying it's not possible. It IS possible. Many entertainers do this. Do you know Slim Shady? How about Eminem? These are alter egos -- they are fake. Beyoncé does it too... "Sasha Fierce" when she is on stage. You can read articles about why they do it but TL;DR: it's a confidence booster. Come up with an alter ego and play the part until you can switch it on at will. Once you do this it will become your norm and not a big deal to talk to women. You can then stick with it or introduce th…
/r/seduction28/01/16 12:48 AM
1

Approach and go out with girls (as friends) that you are not attracted to. This helped me hold my frame 100% of the time. It also helped with other stuff - like pre-selection.
/r/seduction16/01/16 07:32 PM
1

Yeah - I subscribe to the powder form - not the pre-bottled version. The powder is much cheaper.
/r/seduction13/01/16 05:20 AM
1

No, I consume 2,300 calories a day (I add in some protein powder because I workout).
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:46 PM
2

No longer shit. J/k - shits are perfect. By the time your stomach digests solids it's pretty much all liquid anyway. Once water is extracted in the process everything becomes more solid. Shit smells pretty bad though because it's healthy shits! Ok enough talking shit....
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:34 PM
1

It's about 95%. I eat sushi once a week for dinner as my "cheat meal."
/r/seduction12/01/16 08:01 PM
2

Sure - it takes me 10 minutes to prep a days worth of food so I can focus and have time for other things. I don't eat anything else so it ensures I get 100% of my daily nutrient needs and calories without thinking about it or tracking anything. It keeps me fit (I'm at around 9% body fat right now). It's cheap at less than 3 dollars per meal.
/r/seduction12/01/16 06:28 PM
4

Motivation is fleeting; discipline is not. It really helps to have a buddy to do stuff with you. Want to keep going to the gym? Get a workout partner. Set things up for success only. Remove failure as an option. Want to change your diet? Only drink Soylent. Want to go out more? Find someone in the community around you that is willing to help you out. Keep doing things that relax you. There's nothing wrong with that! Just setup times to do it. Wednesday night is TV night. Thursday night is video …
/r/seduction12/01/16 05:52 PM
2

I did give him credit for pursuing. He can add more to the story if he wishes. I'm listening.
/r/seduction02/01/16 03:54 AM
5

Fuck it- I'm telling the truth. As far as I can tell, this was a pity kiss. In the end, it doesn't matter and it's a good thing you went after her! Having the balls to approach is a great way to start off the year!
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:25 PM
2

Yep -- greet them / talk to them for a bit first and then ask how they know each other.
/r/seduction19/12/15 02:58 AM
1

This isn't the guys fault. It's "your" girl. Tell her to tell him to back off because it makes you uncomfortable. He doesn't need to know the details around you two being together. If she doesn't then drop her. Plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/12/15 12:10 AM
3

Approach first and greet both of them. If they look at all similar (same race and maybe hair color): "Are you brother and sister?" If they don't look alike just ask, "so how do you all know each other?"
/r/seduction19/12/15 12:07 AM
1

I think you should try it anyway. You may be surprised at the kind of responses you get.
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:19 PM
3

Build more attraction when with the girls and try to get to the point where they feel a little comfortable around you. Right now you aren't # closing solid enough. You're being let down easy. That's my best guess at least. It could be your messages after closing are lame too. Need more info. Good luck!
/r/seduction10/11/15 12:55 AM
3

Dude, just grow a big dick and you're all gravy!! Just kidding... Just have a good time when around women. Joke with them. Give them shit! Have a "no big deal" attitude and they will see past any issue because it will no longer be one. That's it really. The hard part is building up to that attitude. So don't! Just fake it! Eventually you'll notice it works and it will become your attitude - not just with women but in life.
/r/seduction10/11/15 12:47 AM
1

Having the heart to heart? Then don't. Just get a new wing and slowly phase your friend out.
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:11 AM
3

Either have a heart to heart or find a new friend to wing you.
/r/seduction03/10/15 06:38 AM
2

You bet!
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:42 PM
3

Hard to say but it doesn't seem like that would work based upon what I read. Best bet was to get her number and focus on that next date. Sometimes logistics don't work out.
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:26 PM
5

Bounce them to a place close to your apt. Go to your apt because you need to grab something. Get her familiar with your apt then go to the place close by. This will increase your chance of bringing her back - especially if you have something in your apt that is interesting. I used to keep my guitar in the front room just for this reason.
/r/seduction26/08/15 07:51 PM
10

I used to say something about being textually active. This brought on some good/fun responses.
/r/seduction09/08/15 04:14 AM
-1

I agree they won't consciously analyze the shit out of texts.
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:48 AM
-5

I don't think it works will with a strong frame, but she may not notice. Like I said, it's subtle.
/r/seduction13/07/15 10:03 PM
3

Yeah, that's good as well. :)
/r/seduction13/07/15 10:02 PM
-10

This is good, but I wouldn't say "if" like you're workout is dependent on her being there. I know it's subtle and not the intended message though. "I'm hulking out at the gym at 7. Come find me if you go!" would be my message.
/r/seduction13/07/15 09:30 PM
2

Hah this is how my dates used to go! Nice work! I'm married now but still miss my bike. Going to get another one... That's besides the point though. This was solid game.
/r/seduction10/07/15 03:38 AM
3

Just get comfortable talking to everyone. If you start doing this at 14 you'll be a natural by 18. Game will supplement this and you'll be a rockstar.
/r/seduction31/05/15 03:16 AM
1

She's either has something crazy going on or not interested (most likely the latter). Advice: Go out some place and tell her, but expect her not to be there. Hit on other chicks if she shows up or not. "Hey 2DateGirlNoResponse, I'm going to go to bar X tonight in case you want to get out for a bit." If she says she can't or no for whatever reason, do not respond - just let it go and have a good night.
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:54 PM
1

I'm assuming the women is attractive and gets a lot of compliments already. If that's the case she is used to it and brushes them off fairly quickly and doesn't think much of them. Like an instant feedback mechanism. The goal is to approach differently and get her thinking instead of boring auto responses. This leads to conversation and better yet intrigue toward the guy spitting awesome game.
/r/seduction02/12/14 12:02 AM
1

Being a bit offended is ok if you're an attractive women and used to only compliments. (I'm assuming this is the case)
/r/seduction01/12/14 05:58 AM
9

I wouldn't just call girls cute for nothing. Lean back or look back and make eye contact. Say, "Hey do you get this chemistry/math/whatever stuff -- You have this cute lost look right now...?" Give a half smile and offer to help if she really is lost (doesn't matter if she doesn't look it). Tada, you just called her cute, but it's not a big deal and her mind is already spinning as to why she looks lost, etc. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/11/14 05:03 PM
17

True confidence is: "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not, but she probably likes me. :-P"
/r/seduction13/06/14 01:43 AM
4

Since you're 25 this question really shouldn't come up very often if at all since they should assume you are not a virgin. You must be giving that information away by the way you are acting. With that said, act like you aren't a virgin. If they ask, throw it back at them, "Woah wait a minute... are you a virgin?!" A non-answer is best so there's no need to lie. You can also be obviously sarcastic: "How many girls have you been with?" You: "4 thousand six hundred and twenty nine. :) Don't you hat…
/r/seduction05/06/14 10:06 PM
1

Hey man, we've all been there (kissless virgins) at varying ages. You're at an age where it's not the norm so this is something you need to get over. The first kiss I had, the girl didn't know it was my first kiss. The first time I had sex, same thing, girl didn't know I was a virgin. You know what? It didn't matter! So don't get stuck on that. With that said, you need to learn to interact with society before you learn to interact with women. Luckily you have a job, and travel and work with some…
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:16 PM
2

Man, that's a bad place to be when you take everything as a negative. I agree with your assessment though. :(
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:30 PM
3

Exactly right. In context it was clear it was more of a "Barry White/Isaac Hayes" type voice which is not racist at all. I'm saying his fear and assumption sounded racist based on the context of the situation. I'm hope he didn't mean it that way which is why I mentioned rewording it.
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:09 PM
2

Sounding black does not equal inarticulate (his fear/assumption).
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:37 PM
9

Can I please get some advice on how to have handled the situation better? If you are nervous, you care too much. Why do you care about some chick you've never even met. Who gives a shit? You shouldn't. So, she said "really, I feel like a pedo is that even legal?" In other words she is saying, "I'd totally bang you!" She adds "you almost sound black". Afraid they're telling me I'm inarticulate or something You might want to reword this. This sounds a bit racist. Anyway some women like deep voices…
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:54 PM
2

Only if your real name is Richard...
/r/seduction04/05/14 11:11 PM
3

You mess with them. Most nice guys don't do this. When a girl stumbles her words nice guys will ignore it. Flirtatious guys will throw in something like, "easy for you to say!" When a girl has a horrible sounding sneeze, nice guys say "bless you," flirtatious guys say, "woah you sound like a duck when you sneeze. You're lucky your cute!" It can be anything you find weird or different about the girl. They can be more direct --- like "negs" for example: "wow you have freakishly long eyelashes". Th…
/r/seduction04/05/14 11:10 PM
1

Hah, I'm sure they won't mind. Report back later on if you actually remember to.
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:22 PM
40

This is good due to a built in time constraint since you getting back to your run is the assumption. Have the girls jump through a couple loops if you can while you catch your breathe... "Tell me about yourself while I catch my breathe... I want to know if it was worth the stop. (smile)" She should immediately qualify there. I like it! Good luck!
/r/seduction12/03/14 05:34 PM
1

You ignore it until you have an abundance. To cope, act like you already have the abundance.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:45 PM
3

1) Yeah most guys are creepy. 2) You don't know me? Pshh... I've already got you figured out!
/r/seduction19/02/14 01:18 AM
1

I see what you're saying but it won't work for most. Acting is the same as faking and I've already listed ways to build confidence. It's basically starting at or very close to what you are already confident about and then moving slightly outside of your comfort zone. Not everyone can jump in an F1 car without race experience and make good time. Even if they act like they can.
/r/seduction10/02/14 01:11 AM
5

Confidence should be built like anything else. You know how F1 drivers start? They drive go-karts. They learn racing lines, shift points, cornering, how to deal with traffic. Do they same by starting small. Talk to guys in the bar first. Talk to ugly girls. Once you understand the flow of this kind of interaction you can incorporate some game. Once you incorporate some game you can target more attractive women without it being a big deal (i.e. You're confident)
/r/seduction08/02/14 07:53 PM
4

It's very very hard to fake confidence. Women are like eagles who can spot bullshit/fake confidence from across the room. For most people who are not confident, you can't just say, "be confident" and expect them to know what that is or looks like without becoming a caricature. I think it's better (again, for most) to build their confidence. Create little wins and stepping stones. Like: Talk to some of the guys at the bar. Then, chat up a girl in their group without hitting on her. Just say somet…
/r/seduction08/02/14 07:46 PM
24

Bam! Free drink! :)
/r/seduction05/12/13 01:19 AM
13

Bam! Forced to kiss him because you pity the fool...
/r/seduction05/12/13 12:29 AM
1

Nope, not all at 20. Some earlier some later. See? Not an issue.
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:29 PM
19

We were all kissless virgins. So what? It's not as big of a deal as you are making it out to be.
/r/seduction02/12/13 05:42 AM
1

A career is important but should only be top priority for 8 hours 5 days a week and no more. That leaves you plenty of time to do more for yourself.
/r/seduction09/02/13 04:34 PM
1

You are worried about it being awkward which is weird. You shouldn't care if it gets awkward. If you keep thinking, "OMG it's gonna get awkward," you will stop relaxing and thinking about stuff to chat about. You'll also stop calibrating where she's at and how she's doing. Worst case scenario, if you feel your mind going into "OMG awkward" and it gets quite just say, "You're so quiet, you don't have to be nervous around me." with a smile. That will buy you some time. She will respond with someth…
/r/seduction09/02/13 03:42 AM
1

I like Fresno. Wifey is from there, but don't head up there much anymore.
/r/seduction09/02/13 02:01 AM
1

Good to hear! We really want the worst of the worst and grow them because they will gain in a lot of different aspects beyond pickup. We have a pretty good plan to work with and we will also learn and build upon it for teaching others.
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:02 PM
1

Just moves to SoCal, sorry man!
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:52 PM
1

Send me your email address and I'll add you to my list. Getting slammed with PM's and it's easier to work with an email thread.
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:52 PM
7

I actually just found seddit and r/seduction a month or two back. I've posted comments in one of the two or both a few times. No disrespect taken by you questioning it. Good to know about the OC lair! I'll look into GroupMe and check it out. Thanks!
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:03 AM
7

Much appreciated. I feel bad for the guys who can't approach because I was one of them for a long while. You gain skills that transfer elsewhere once you get this part figured out so it's a pretty big win.
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:12 AM
6

Good stuff, PM me with your location. I've got about 5 others who are interested so I'm trying to see if I can find a central spot for all of us to get together. Will probably start weekend after next.
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:11 AM
1

Well, if you ever decide to come visit... :)
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:05 AM
6

You don't know if we know what we're doing, but we can go out and you can watch if you like.
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:04 AM
1

I wouldn't say never, but definitely wouldn't have done it in this guys situation.
/r/seduction07/01/13 06:05 AM
2

Tonight is the easiest night to do it. A few years ago I f-closed on New Years. Started with a group of friends at a bar. Opened a mixed set 2 girls and 2 guys. Chatted them up and told the dudes I was going to get the girls to kiss each other. Became the leader pretty quickly after that. Got the girls to kiss, said, "one more" and I joined them in a 3 way kiss all before midnight. Ended up making out with HB7 (at the time she was an 8 to me) and she brought me back to her apartment for the win.…
/r/seduction31/12/12 04:03 PM
2

I used to point out things in the club or bar (or anywhere) on the fly. Some examples: "Why do you think that tall girl over there is wearing high heels? - do you think she really wants to be taller?" Or "Dang, look at that girls dress! Hot or too much?" (Looking at go go dancers) "do you think there should be guys dancing half makes too to be fair?" I've number closed starting with each of these. Time for bed... Just found this subreddit. I miss being out there but only for the game aspect of i…
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:44 AM
1

It will work - just as we'll as it would any woman. You'll get the whole, "I feel like you're a different person" stuff. Turn it back on her and say SHE'S different and your not sure if you like it but are down for the adventure to find out.
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:37 AM
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