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1

It sounds more like arrogance than confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:40 AM
4

You’re right. I feel like this is the fault of social media. It encourages everyone to be a raging egotistical asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:22 AM
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So people want to be the prize so they can be lazy/low effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:14 AM
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I’ve seen both men and women say they are the prize but recently it seems like more men are into wanting to be the prize. Probably due to the manosphere telling them this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:58 PM
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I’ve done it and I know quite a few women who make the first move. It may have never happened to you but it doesn’t mean it never happens. Plus there are way bigger risks than just approaching someone and asking for a date. Even if a woman prefers not to be the approacher she can still be a risk taker in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:42 PM
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So should everyone think they are a prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:31 PM
10

A lot of the guys who say they like introverted, quiet girls are either inexperienced or just say that to go against what’s popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:26 PM
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Isn’t this true for men as well? Men will use women they don’t see as being good enough for them but they still treat these women like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:16 PM
8

I’m introverted and quiet and my experience is men find it boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:09 PM
5

Well there will always be anomalies. But ime, men find introverted, shy women who don’t have a very active social life to be boring and this not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:36 PM
19

I think this true for both genders. Men don’t typically like introverted, quiet , risk averse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:55 PM
1

Did you read the post? The question is about people who insist on themselves being the prize in their relationship. Not equal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:47 PM
1

So taking advantage of someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:44 PM
3

So this is ultimately about being able to control someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:42 PM
6

Idk if your examples make sense. Cardi and Beyoncé are more successful than their husbands. If there had to be a prize it would be them compared to their husbands.They can always get someone better. I think they are just too attached to or too in love to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:41 PM
5

You think men are above women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:37 PM
1

You want your partner to think you are better than him/her? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:33 PM
2

Because you are a human not a prize or trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:28 PM
1

He doesn’t think a woman can be his equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:27 PM
7

Have you met black men? They do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:25 PM
1

Women are wired to be with a man who thinks he is a the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:56 PM
2

Grew up in a toxic black family. Just made me realize the black community is fucked up and backwards. And heathy relationships are almost impossible to find. Black culture loves dysfunction. Men think they have the right to cheat, they love having multiple kids by multiple women that they don’t take care of and blame the system for being deadbeats. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:55 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:41 PM
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I wish more men felt this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:11 AM
1

I feel like there be too much pressure from family or the white community to date inside the race. Also I wouldn’t want to have black/mixed kids that would have to deal with racial issues that I couldn’t understand. A lot of mixed kids grow up with issues because their white parent was consciously/ subconsciously racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:42 PM
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I agree. White people have more negative feelings about interracial dating. If I were white I wouldn’t date black.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:49 PM
1

But most wealthy white women like the Hilton’s, Kennedy’s, Rothschilds, trumps don’t marry black men. Black men usually get the poor or working class white women. How is that an upgrade?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:29 PM
1

Doesn’t the second point also apply to black men as well? Most are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:16 PM
1

Yes because it just gets thrown in our face by other races and black men to make us look stupid it doesn’t matter if I’m not the one engaging in this weirdo behavior I still get lumped in with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:11 PM
1

Aren’t Asians seen as more feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:02 PM
0

I’m already in therapy. I went to bleach to be seen as better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:01 PM
1

I agree. Looking young when you are old doesn’t help in the dating world. It just makes the individual feel good. Men still want the 20 year old over the 40+ who looks young for her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:00 PM
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It’s creepy and pathetic: it makes us all look like desperate delusional fools chasing after men who don’t like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:58 PM
1

Exactly what? You can easily find it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:57 PM
1

The BBC thing doesn’t explain black men’s preference for whites though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:54 PM
1

Why is it against the rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:53 PM
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I’m on mobile and can’t link but just go on Twitter and tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:52 PM
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The same gen z POC making fun of white people for unflavored food are the same ones crying about white people not dating them. It seems like younger people are still obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:44 PM
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I’m not worried about women on social media. I’m talking about a phenomenon in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:42 PM
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Most POC love white people. Asians love them. Africans love them. Latinos love them. It is weird but it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:38 PM
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Lol yes dawg. The swirlers all over the internet making up stories about Chris Evans loving black women. They’re under every white boy on tiktok asking if he likes black girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:36 PM
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It’s ok. I caught you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:35 PM
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Well yeah. There are tall women and short men. It’s not like all women are short and all men are tall. It’s called diversity. We’re not all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:34 PM
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Why wouldn’t you have sex with a asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:33 PM
0

How? It’s just pointing out a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:30 PM
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Go get a snowbunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:29 PM
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You chose to respond to the post. I didn’t force you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:28 PM
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Most white women don’t though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:27 PM
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Where are you from? I would say men in the US are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:27 PM
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You’re Greek so you’re white. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:26 PM
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Most black married men are baby boomers and they got married during a time where interracial wasn’t seen as a good thing. It’s also important to point out only 30% of black men are married. You also don’t always marry your preference, just who you can get to settle for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:24 PM
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No I’m not. You just want to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:22 PM
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I’m pretty sure this depends on the individual. Everyone has testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:21 PM
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He is an anomaly. And he most likely has some weird fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:20 PM
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I don’t think black people are better at sports they just go into sports more often because they feel that’s their way out of poverty. Either sports or music.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:19 PM
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I literally just asked your race. I’m not arguing your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:18 PM
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So black men feel they are corrupting white women? That is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:17 PM
1

What does being an introvert have to do with being easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:14 PM
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I just want an idea of where you’re coming from. Not trying to change what you like. If you’re scared to say your race that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:12 PM
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How does getting with a white women give black men any privilege? The guy will always be black being with a white person doesn’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:11 PM
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Hmm. That’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:10 PM
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Women sexlessness is also rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:10 PM
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Loose as in easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:09 PM
1

What race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:09 PM
2

I see a lot of white men with overweight white women. But I live in the US and most people here are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:09 PM
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What makes black people more masculine? Most people are difficult and disagreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:07 PM
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Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:03 PM
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Reddit,tiktok, YouTube, Twitter are proving otherwise. Black women seem to love white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:02 PM
1

By “real” hair do they mean straight hair? Black women have real hair too it just is Afro hair. What makes white women fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:02 PM
2

I think men have to be traditional too. Most millennial men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:00 PM
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Are you a white guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:59 PM
3

The bottom 80 still gets women easily. So it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:57 PM
4

I don’t think preference is necessarily racist. I just want to know if this is just the way people are wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:56 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:50 PM
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No I actually want to because it’s best for kids. Kids need their parents. It’s the safest option to stay and take care of your kids. Kids shouldn’t be left alone watching tv or playing on an iPad all the time nor should they be at a daycare where they may be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:22 AM
2

I don’t think wanting to be a SAHM has anything to do with racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:46 AM
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Have you ever worked? Because I have for many years and I know just how lazy workers are. People cut corners alll the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:25 AM
1

Forced everyone to work unless you’re insanely wealthy. You didn’t have to be top 1% income earner to be a SAHM in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:24 AM
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That didn’t work in my country. You won’t get that much time off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:17 AM
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The first group is what I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:16 AM
0

I’ve already been called a pick me. I guess if you like men and want to be liked by men you’re a pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:05 AM
0

I’m not a feminist. It’s not what I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:56 AM
0

SAHMs have no self respect? SAHMs do pursue their happiness, and are obviously helping others( their kids and husband). This doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:41 AM
0

I’m considered post wall but I still see being a SAHM as being better than being a “strong (lonely)independent woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:36 AM
1

I’m not a male supremacist. I think men and women are both equally important but we have strengths in different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:47 AM
-4

But this is being done now. Everyone is being forced to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:59 AM
1

You can’t be proud of being a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:54 AM
2

Is it wrong to force all women to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:53 AM
-1

Maybe they would but their thinking is still feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:17 AM
-1

They actually are because they think all women need to work outside the house to be valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:49 AM
0

I haven’t sniped at anyone. Society does devalue jobs that are seen as women’s jobs. There have even been men in this post who said SAHM don’t do anything because they aren’t on someone payroll.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:37 AM
3

Great. I have those all down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:26 AM
1

Are there any single men at churches?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:24 AM
2

I actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:24 AM
2

Again you brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:06 AM
3

“ you have a romanticized view of being a SAHM.remember that in years gone by women had no choice so if they were married to a man who cheated/abused them or just died -they had no fall back” This is what you typed.remember now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:03 AM
1

That was a response to your comment that brought up cheating and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:56 AM
2

I’m perfectly fine, what about you? You did bring up cheaters and abusers. Please look back at your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:49 AM
-1

Feminists have made prostitutes feel like they are winning in life. They tell them it is empowering. Another major L for feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:34 AM
2

Women are very judgemental towards each other. I get judged more by other women than by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:29 AM
1

People are unhappy now. We have more single parents, more adults living with their parents, adults living with roommates, the average life span has decreased, people are doing terrible now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:23 AM
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That’s just sad. People love working their shitty jobs for shit pay. What a pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:20 AM
1

She. And not sure what a reality show has to do with this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:18 AM
1

I don’t even know what your last comment was. I’m getting a bunch of responses. I’m not going to respond to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:06 AM
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I’m a woman. You can’t accuse everyone of being a man or not just because you don’t agree. You’re opinion isn’t the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:00 AM
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It’s both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:52 PM
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I don’t think what SAHMs do is lower than what men do. It’s different but both are important. There is no elevated status to being a woman. Not even sure what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:48 PM
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You do not have a choice now. We all work. Feminists just switched one for the other and think they are winning even though they are struggling single moms and struggling single adults living with their parents or roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:44 PM
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Capitalism responded to feminism. They both are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:41 PM
-2

SAHM are the better deal. Paying for a nanny and maid is a terrible deal. You’re wasting money on a person that does not care about your life and isn’t invested in making sure things are done right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:41 PM
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It’s not a choice . Society has made it so everyone has to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:36 PM
-2

I wouldn’t care if he cheated as long as he knows his role in the marriage. Men these days are lazy, can’t provide, bring nothing to the table that’s why they love feminism. It’s allows them to be bums and get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:35 PM
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Because it’s better for kids and the household in general. My husband wouldn’t have to worry about cleaning, cooking or doing the day to day things for the household like running errands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:32 PM
-1

Not me. I would’ve been better off without feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:31 PM
1

Feminists wanted what works for them and screwed everyone else over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:30 PM
-3

Feminists did ruin it. They pushed for this and now we aren’t any better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:18 PM
0

Stop comparing traditional marriages to slavery. That is very disrespectful. Slavery is slavery. Being married is not slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:17 PM
0

Men didn’t complain so much in the 50s. They just acted like men and did their jobs. Now feminism has encouraged men to act like women. And women to be the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:16 PM
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It’s so disrespectful for anyone to compare a traditional marriage to slavery. They don’t even know what slavery is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:14 PM
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Oh great. I get accused of being a bot for not agreeing with you. Amazing logic here. You’re right. Everyone who doesn’t agree with you is a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:05 PM
-1

You don’t get a choice. Almost every woman has to work now. If it was bad back then because almost every woman had to be a SAHM then why is it not bad now that almost everyone is forced into working?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:03 PM
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Women who are SAHMs do tons of work. Not only are the taking care of their kids, they are doing the grocery shopping, the cooking, the cleaning, etc. all the man has to do is go to work and come home to a clean home, a prepared meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:01 PM
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It’s a great deal for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:49 PM
1

Yes. Feminism didn’t really help. It didn’t give women choices. It just forced all the women into the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:46 PM
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Then be a stay at home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:42 PM
0

This is a problem. The cost of living shouldn’t have increased this much and made it so nobody can make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:39 PM
-1

It’s the fault of feminism and capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:32 PM
0

Yes and a lot of feminists screw themselves and other women over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:32 PM
1

I feel the opposite is true too. Society is pushing women into working. The whole “girl boss” thing is shoved down women’s throats. You’re only an “empowered woman” when you’re working.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:31 PM
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The majority of women aren’t SAHMs. This is the truth. A lot of women cannot make that choice because they don’t have a choice. It’s work or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:28 PM
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A SAHM isn’t on somebody’s payroll. That would be a working mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:26 PM
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By only pointing out negative things like abuser husbands. Not everyone is married to an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:25 PM
-2

I’d rather stay in the marriage than single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:23 PM
-1

Capitalism is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:23 PM
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That is the worst part. Now hardly anyone can be a SAHM. I see feminists commenting it’s a choice when it actually isn’t. We’re all forced to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:21 PM
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We’ll society is stopping me from being a SAHM. We are pretty much forced to work now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:16 PM
0

Except you don’t get to make that decision. Most women can’t do that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:14 PM
-1

You are also cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:11 PM
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I know a lot of unhappy people today, especially women. Is it better to be a struggling baby mama? Things clearly aren’t working now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:09 PM
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There are women today who choose to stay with abusice cheating men. Even when they have the choice they stay. If you’re going to stay with a cheater then at least make sure he is a provider. But women in 2021 don’t even do that. They stay with the abuser that offers nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:08 PM
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Not true. I have older family members who never worked and they definitely weren’t rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:05 PM
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But they have the option to not do those things and they still choose to. Nobody has to be overweight they just don’t care enough to lose weight. Nobody has to have a bunch of kids with different mothers/fathers but they still choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:04 PM
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Nah. I know that isn’t right. Neither of my grandmothers were rich or even upper middle class but neither of them worked because they had husband who worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:03 PM
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Most of the strong independent women and old single men aren’t happy. Why would anyone want to end up that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:01 PM
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Becaus esociety made it that way. 50-60 years ago it was extremely common and it worked. Society has made it so everyone has to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:57 PM
-2

Feminism has kind of ruined the ability to be a SAHM unless you are very beautiful or lucky. It use to be the norm until feminists complained about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:52 PM
-2

I think the traditional roles do lead to more functional families but it seems like so many people prefer broken families, single parents and dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:50 PM
-5

Well, most women and some men who want women to take on the role of the provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:49 PM
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No to all questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:33 PM
1

I’m not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:56 PM
-2

Having a wider range doesn’t mean you have more options. If the men aren’t choosing you they aren’t choosing you. There’s nothing you can do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:22 PM
1

What is an eggy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:00 PM
4

I’m not projecting. I’m going off of what me have told me they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:59 PM
4

Lizzo still isn’t the beauty standard. She’s just an example of the “everyone is beautiful” narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:57 PM
0

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:56 PM
5

I actually don’t. I’m speaking about people acknowledging their own shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:55 PM
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This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:54 PM
2

I can give examples but I’m not trying to insult anyone. I just think we should be able to admit when we are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:51 PM
5

No but that’s not the argument I’m making. I’m not advocating for people to go around calling other people ugly and fat. But surely we should be able to acknowledge when we ourselves are ugly or fat or dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:48 PM
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Makeup can only do so much. The women you see on social media have had their photos altered with photoshop and filters. And admitting you’re unattractive does not mean you should just kill yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:37 PM
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