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3	Lifting and injuries. Rules for avoiding injuries. Ignore at your own risk. Limit your load increases to no more than 5-10 lbs TOTAL (a 2.5 lb or 5 ln plate each side). Large gains are acquired over a long period of persistent dedicated training. DO NOT do the same hard exercise 2 days in a row. These are squats, bench press, deadlift, barbell rows, overhead press (the exercises of the Stronglifts program). Follow this rule religiously if doing Stronglifts 5x5 or a similar hard lifting program. Pay attention. Always …	/r/becomeaman	20/04/14 04:10 PM
2	Dissolving the Ego Explained simply, its an evocative term about the process we go through to lie to ourselves.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/14 11:26 AM
1	Dissolving the Ego The methods of Buddhism help us deal with life's suffering. That's the Ego's job. Buddhism's methods are simply ways to develop some of the more mature defense mechanisms, specifically, Mindfulness and Acceptance. So no. We're talking about the same Ego. I'm talking about it in general and the Buddhist talks about a specific formation.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/14 11:05 AM
2	Dissolving the Ego Less Plato, more Nietzsche, friend ;)	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/14 06:02 PM
5	Dissolving the Ego Having an ego is important. The ego's job is to negatiate the desires of the Id and reality. I think what you're describing is how to not have a pathological ego. Pathological egos can't handle anxiety-causing knowledge like our own failings and frustrations productively. A pathological ego uses pathological defense mechanisms like denial to not deal with realities. A healthy ego deals with realities, frustrated sexual and aggressive desires, weaknesses, productively, healthily. The idea is to m…	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/14 05:27 PM
1	A discussion on appearance and why it's fucking important (in response to recent posts). Working out allows you to get in contact with your physicality, and this is essential to becoming a self-actualized man.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/14 05:15 PM
1	Just an example of a woman approaching the wall Be aggressive! Nice way to help her dig herself deeper in her own hole.	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/14 06:04 PM
2	Guy withdraws sex because he's tired from working so much, his girlfriend accuses him of cheating. She demands to see his phone, emails, facebook messages, previous locations via GPS and wants to monitor his GPS location in real time. He agrees. Projection.	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/14 05:05 PM
3	Guy withdraws sex because he's tired from working so much, his girlfriend accuses him of cheating. She demands to see his phone, emails, facebook messages, previous locations via GPS and wants to monitor his GPS location in real time. He agrees. I'm sure betas girlfriend is cheating because projection.	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/14 04:14 PM
4	Another example of how hypergamy doesn't care He knew she has Borderline Personality Disorder and still went with it? Fool. That's an ego-syntonic disorder. He can't win through benevolence.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 02:57 AM
0	Some musings about my experiences with female shoplifters I invite you to read this page about Kohlberg's Moral Stages of development. http://faculty.plts.edu/gpence/html/kohlberg.htm Because of these sex differences, Gilligan says, men and women frequently score at different stages on Kohlberg's scale. Women typically score at stage 3, with its focus on interpersonal feelings, whereas men more commonly score at stages 4 and 5, which reflect more abstract conceptions of social organization. Thus, women score lower than men. If, however, Kohlberg's scal…	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/14 06:20 PM
1	Hey, were the second worst Subreddit :D Never doubt the power of psychological defense mechanisms.	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/13 10:14 PM
2	Return of the King server crashes over internet outrage against 5 reason to date a girl with an eating disorder... My facebook feed is absolute gold right now More evidence as to how feminized Western society has become. Their reaction is typical female touchiness. Offended over an article. Haha what is this, their periods started early? These women and manginas should learn how to control and understand their emotions.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/13 02:30 PM
5	The Guiness ad for beta males Things Thelastpsychiatrist writes always makes me think.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/13 09:57 PM
14	This shit is blowing up my facebook wall betas are invisible to these women. Remember that for people used to special treatment, equality feels like demotion.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/13 08:48 PM
2	So my GF[22F] is arguing with me about when a girl should tell her partner she was raped.. Ok no problem! I agree with you that a girl can be ashamed to report being raped. But it is not a reason to destroy the process of law. There's responsibilities to being an adult, and being able to report crimes despite shame is one of them. There's real consequences to waiting, and we try to shield girls from the consequences of their actions too much.	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/13 02:36 AM
1	So my GF[22F] is arguing with me about when a girl should tell her partner she was raped.. because it's a crime. Let's say your house got robbed or you got mugged. Do you wait days, weeks, or months before going to the police and giving them the information they need to catch the perpetrator? There is a lot of evidence that decays in time, and it shows contempt for the legal process when a person can delay because they're embarrassed. If they wait and all the evidence is gone and it's been too much time to have reliable witness testimony, and you still let girls press charges, you're …	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/13 01:59 AM
11	So my GF[22F] is arguing with me about when a girl should tell her partner she was raped.. Accepting that kind of delay gives the female power over the interpretation of the event. If she can claim an event that happened weeks ago was a rape, how do you prove this? You can't without eroding the presumption of innocence. In my opinion, some one who is the victim of a crime must tell law enforcement in the shortest delays. Failure to do so makes the investigation more difficult and it also shows a kind of contempt for the crime committed against them. I know that people may feel shame a…	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/13 04:56 PM
2	MBTI personalities and dating I did some research and there are very few studies on mbti and love. Also, according to other well supported studies, similar but slightly different part ERS report highest satisfaction. The theoretical prediction is that opposite types woulfd not get along well as they are unable to understand each other. Best go for 0-2 different preferences, max. For example, I'm ENTP and I've been with an INTP woman for 6years. We get along great. The only problem our type difference does is that our stuff t…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/13 12:52 PM
9	To the woman who wants my commitment, this is what you're asking me to give up. her constant temper and overwhelming and annoying need for attention Are you sure you have something good going on? It seems like a case of "She's great but..." Please state facts, not interpretations.	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/13 09:27 PM
4	"68% of women said they would have an affair if they knew they could get away with it" No, the women you speak of have a logic to them. It's just that the basic assumptions behind their reasoning are so different that it looks like emotion and feeling, but it's not. Also, keep in mind that all of a woman's "emotional" or "feelings" behavior, like their crying, etc... are used because it gets them what they want. Very rational, if you ask me.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:05 PM
2	"68% of women said they would have an affair if they knew they could get away with it" So women who think like that have internalized the notion of blame, but only apply it to others? Sounds like hamsters are women stuck in the Self-Protective stage.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:01 PM
3	"68% of women said they would have an affair if they knew they could get away with it" It depends how you think about your own behavior. There are many psychological theories about the development of the self, morality, and and how one self-reflects. I argued in another post that because society is lenient to women and feeds their entitlement (which is just the egocentrism of a child that they have never grown out of), many women are stuck at an earlier stage. The theories are all very similar and show a progression from a child's egocentric perspective to wise individual that can…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:00 PM
3	So yesterday during an argument my girlfriend put her hands over her ears and started screaming at the top of her lungs like a 5-year-old. It seems that with what you say about Loevinger's stages, you haven't read all nine. When I read the description of someone at the Conscientious Stage (E6), I don't read a blue-piller. The Conscientious subject 'sees life as presenting choices; [s]he holds the origin of his own destiny...aspires to achievement, ad astra per aspera '[29] but by his or her own standards. Loevinger's stages are contested, but they are a theory of self-actualization, and no matter how they differ at the details, sel…	/r/TheRedPill	07/07/13 04:54 AM
1	So yesterday during an argument my girlfriend put her hands over her ears and started screaming at the top of her lungs like a 5-year-old. What I'm saying is only true about her if the willful deception and inability to self-criticize are habits.	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/13 04:33 PM
23	So yesterday during an argument my girlfriend put her hands over her ears and started screaming at the top of her lungs like a 5-year-old. She is a 5 year old, psychologically speaking. Female privileges in the home, especially during the critical years of development, prevent most females from progressing beyond the Conformist stage (E4) and many stay at the Self-Protective Stage (E3). I'm talking about Loevinger's stages of ego development. Red-pill readers, this might interest you. A description of the Impulsive Stage (E2) of ego development: "Here the child 'asserts his growing sense of self' and views the world in ego-centric …	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/13 04:21 PM
10	"The Western World has quietly become a civilization that undervalues men and overvalues women, where male nature is vilified but female nature is celebrated." -The Misandry Bubble Mandatory reading.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/13 08:22 PM
40	"An anonymous letter from a mom" = One of the best Red Pill pieces I have ever read A mother of a young man who was screwed over by feminism can easily become a men's rights activist. Don't forget that a very important men's rights book, The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar, was written by a woman.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/13 10:53 AM
0	The value of being an asshole: Some thoughts I had this morning on why it can be so attractive Nice insight!	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/13 09:27 PM
2	Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting Married Wife vetting: read about this just yesterday. Great advice!	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 07:20 PM
1	Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting Married I was sharing something interesting I read that was only related to the broad theme of marriage. Sorry for the misunderstanding, I was not refuting anything you said ;)	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 07:11 PM
3	Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting Married relevant http://www.avoiceformen.com/men/mens-issues/a-prayer-for-joe-bob/	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 05:09 PM
5	Another Reason Why You Should Not Think About Getting Married I quote: "Half of all marriages end in divorce." Yes, stupid, everyone says that, half of all marriages under 25 end in divorce, but wait till thirty and the deck is way more favorable, you have to learn how to count cards. But this isn't some kind of failing of marriage itself, some structural defect in a system that's been running for thousands of years, the problem isn't marriage, the problem is you. You think the string of butcheries in your past are the fault of monogamy? As they say everyw…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 05:00 PM
13	Only white knights, women and feminists objectify women. Men are to be condemned if they have sex with a horny, drunk girl (most of the time, the girl is drunk and horny and literally jumps on the guy to fuck)... masculine hyperresponsibility: it's a thing. I remember reading from Esther Villar's book "The Manipulated Man" that men are expected to sacrifice themselves to women, and that men who live only for themselves and what makes them happy are vilified.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/13 05:15 PM
9	Only white knights, women and feminists objectify women. I like your definition of objectification. Too often, ideologies from the tradition of critical studies have a very hard time providing clear definitions to their concepts. I remember from my Existentialism course that the process of objectification (of people) is that when someone has an identity pushed upon them by outside forces. It can be hard to know what this entails. There is also a lot of muddy waters around the concept of "othering" too, and it is also an integral part of feminist ideol…	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/13 05:07 PM
3	Is he beyond hope of ever changing? You are a good person. It is not silly, research suggests that improper mothering is responsible for most of the problems in the world. There is a high correlation between the number of experiences of neglect or abuse in a child and many, many bad things like suicide, violence, low productivity, depression, personality disorders, etc... There is a startling correlation between single, overbearing motherhood and psychopathy. Studies on crime have a hard time finding a criminal from a family that …	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/13 03:36 PM
2	Is he beyond hope of ever changing? Competition is often among men. As a woman partner, perhaps nurturing is better. But I don't know... maybe have him compete with other men? but don't boss, it is an overbearing female that brought him this way. Show him doors, let him take them.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/13 01:37 AM
1	Is he beyond hope of ever changing? Tell him to read The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar. Free pdfs are available online, as the book's copyright expired. Also, his masculinity was stifled. Maybe counseling will give him the tools to grow.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/13 01:34 AM
1	Calling someone 'fatty' could become a hate crime This kind of law gets voted in for the stupid reason that politicians need something to do to justify their salary. Similar situation: in Quebec, the road workers half-ass road work so they can have assured work in a few years. This means that the same roads are being repaired again and again. Look up Quebec potholes to know the sorry state of the province's roads. I'm saying that politicians do the same thing. Since a politician is paid to make laws, participate in committees, etc..., they will…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/13 01:29 AM
2	Looking for /r/thredpill's recommended resources on raising a daughter Just an idea here. It could be that today's feminized society caters to women so much that they do not develop past the self-protective or conformist stages of ego development. Read the descriptions, and maybe the hypergamy, the hamster and blue-pill thinking could be seen as characteristic thinking at a lower stage of development. Studies have shown that hypergamy practicing women are unhappy. Therefore, rationally, women ought to practice monogamy, i.e. sticking with their partner even when th…	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/13 08:20 PM
0	A New Spin On The Sluts And Studs I was thinking about this and it turns out that there is no double standard in the principles behind this difference. What we admire is skill and self-control. A stud knows game, a skill learned after much study, practice, and rejection. A stud also is into self-improvement and having a good life. Therefore, studs are admired. On the other hand, being a slut requires a loss of self-control. Acquiring make-up skills is easy, and any girl that isn't a landwhale or a troll just has to say yes to th…	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/13 03:33 PM
0	Does anyone watch the show Girls? Is it intended as the inspirational voice of a generation?	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/13 06:38 PM
17	Does anyone watch the show Girls? I watched Girls a few times and I thought it was intended as tragic-comedic, absurdist story that showcases the neuroses of 20-something females. I never knew it was meant as the ''positive and inspirational voice of a generation''.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/13 03:04 PM