| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceOut of curiosity, what's your (You, your friend and the girl) ages? | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:09 AM |
| 4 | My Ex gf reached out..She dumped me after xmas. After 2 weeks NC she messaged asking if I wanted to have a chat (framed it like I wanted to have the chat). I'm sorry to write this, but what do you think she did during those two weeks? And what do you think made her breakup with you.. if perhaps she met someone else.. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 10:46 PM |
| 3 | From insecurity to happinessThank you!! I had to read it multiple times to understand. You just observe how your emotional pain comes from painful thoughts, ... When I notice that I feel emotional pain, then I should try & notice what my thoughts are? Most likely that my current emotional pain is caused by previous thoughts, so trying to notice on my current thoughts wouldn't help? Here's an example: 1. I notice that I feel bad ( = emotional pain). 2. I think to myself "what are my thoughts?" and trying to notice my curren… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/21 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Well boys I did it...I asked out my cougar hairdresser.There's a level of sarcasm which sounds ambiguous ("too try hard") | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 08:03 AM |
| -1 | Well boys I did it...I asked out my cougar hairdresser.I’m going back right now with a bouquet of flowers to try again Really? I don't understand whether your comments are cynical or not. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 06:07 AM |
| 3 | From insecurity to happinessThere are thoughts which can be easily dismissed because there are no "real & immediate consequences" in life. For example, when a person ignores me then I could think "Did I do something wrong? Maybe it's because I didn't say Hi the other day, he/she thinks I'm a snob." But others have some kind of a consequence or they rely on a long history of facts ( = failures). I have a few examples about which I'm interested in how would you react / process the thoughts: The example above (when a person i… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | What makes a quality woman?Start with NOT being entitled. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 9 | I’ve got a woman obsessed with meIf a girl is that desperate... maybe she has an infection. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 10:00 AM |
| -2 | How to hold frame when guy asks LTR if I am her brother?"Her brother from another mother" 😏 | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Do I let her know before cumming in her mouth?Tricky when the place is your own car | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 08:04 PM |
| 41 | What are your Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks stories of girls playing, leading or giving different treatment to another dude while with you?She sounds like a marriage material | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Frustrated that I can’t get laid. Any advice?looks-wise my smv is no doubt around a 7 and will be a 9 in about a year or two I doubt that SMV which is based on looks can raise in two(!!) levels by merely working out? A guy which is a 9 will be also handsome. But you say that you're a 7 - that's after already improving with lifting. Which means that you aren't particularly handsome (no offense). You might be above average, but that doesn't count as handsome. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | What's your best way of inviting a woman for a drink etc.? (The 1st date)Some of these girls expect you to text them every day. Otherwise, suddenly on the day of the date they just ignore you. Did you experience this? I mean, how could you (from the girl's perspective) go for two days without communication and then on the third day suddenly "Hey ..." ? They find it disrespectful or uncommitted. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 8 | All I'm doing is nexting girlsAtm, I try and set a dates with a lot of girls and just as logistics conclude I am forced to "next" because she counters my date offer. Like we " meet x at y time. That time work for you?" She "meet at x? let's meet at z" . Na, we'll do x and then she no replies. In this case - because that she suggested another time then you should take it (if you're available on that time). See the thread entitled "What's your best way of inviting a woman for a drink etc.? (The 1st date)" opened by the user u/… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | What's your best way of inviting a woman for a drink etc.? (The 1st date)During the Corona bars could be closed. What's your alternative? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 02:16 PM |
| 1 | What's your best way of inviting a woman for a drink etc.? (The 1st date)What do you do if she wants a phone conversation before the date? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Should you actually go for women nearing the wall because its probably easier to get with them?But... Be warned. That "experience" of having "been around the block" can make an older woman 10x more lethal than ANY young entitled materialistic bitch you ever met. LMAO | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 10:28 AM |
| -4 | Got called Good Guy and Gentleman during a fling - what is means?Additional reason for the "why she's a virgin": she's religious. All these combined - surely she's a virgin. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Got called Good Guy and Gentleman during a fling - what is means?I thought she would want to meet me again, so anyway I preferred to do it on the second meeting so that my car won't have blood stains. But only later I realized she even doesn't want a second meetup which is weird to me. I believe that she's a virgin, see my post above for reasons. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Got called Good Guy and Gentleman during a fling - what is means?Thanks. I learned from this experience and hope to get better next time. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Got called Good Guy and Gentleman during a fling - what is means?I know you guys think she isn't a virgin, but I believe that she is because: She isn't that attractive. She's very shy (I brought beer to lighten her up). It felt throughout the fling that she doesn't know what to do. Literally she's doing things too harsh or just she has no idea. It felt really different than with other women which are experienced. Going to take a stab in the dark that you haven't read up on the side bar I read it but time has passed since then. After reading what you guys wrot… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Got called Good Guy and Gentleman during a fling - what is means?Any advice for a comeback? She wrote an excuse for not meeting - in this sense: She had good time and connection but she's not looking for it right now, it's too difficult for her. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Can some of you more experienced brothers explain to me what does "give her tingles" actually mean? Maybe some examples, appreciate any inputAlso she feels tingles in her vajayjay | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 07:33 PM |
| -1 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingDoesn't help | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 02:35 PM |
| -9 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingDoesn't help | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 12:41 PM |
| 5 | I don't feel like it - life, girls and everythingI'm not passionate about anything | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Matches on Tinder but no responses.while 99.999999999% never send a first message..... | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Texting a girl during days preceding a date.Normally the girls expect you to make contact between dates. So if you don't contact the girl - then she suddenly disappear and the date is lost (she will ignore your messages if you attempt to message her on the day of the date.) | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Mistake after mistake, what now?What??? Dude just leave her, why are you fixating about her for so long? This is done between you two. She doesn't want you. You don't need her - you have your own life. There are many other women outside, find yourself some other fish. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Thank youWow, man.. Sounds rough. That's so weird.. if women are that crazy.. what's the point of everything. She can love you more than life itself one day and then the next day hate you to the core with all the previous love turning into fuel for her contempt. That sounds like she was a narcissist person (?) They are known to be a rollercoaster of emotions. I would never consider anyone as "irresponsible and lazy" for not getting a proper job within a month. That's crazy thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Woman shows interest but suddenly disappearWhat??? Did you read my post? She engaged a real-time phone conversation with me and wanted me to get to her place immediately - How is that "no interest" ? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Woman shows interest but suddenly disappearCheers. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Thank youHonestly that doesn't sound that significant such that it would lead to a divorce.. You're being BP and "makes sure wife is happy" and then she says "I want divorce !!" ? You had some passive dread + good at sex - that's better than many BP guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Woman shows interest but suddenly disappearYeah that's my attitude. Though I thought that you guys could shed a light on this. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Woman shows interest but suddenly disappearYeah I figured, but what happened? She called herself and then - SNAP - not interested ? Probably because that I suggested a later time instead of right now. But still.. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Thank youWhat was the reason for the divorce? I mean, what happened over the years until the divorce? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | RP way to deal with girl that skips you in lineI find the best way to deal with any argument is to turn it into a question - "did you know that I was next in line?" I get your point. It sounds more PC than RP. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 04:45 PM |
| 3 | RP way to deal with girl that skips you in lineEven the fact that you're pondering about what the best course of action in this situation would be indicates that you care a bit too much about the opinions of others Right, but all of this redpill is "pondering about best course" cuz you're building your own mindset. This is a must. But if you let go, doesn't it bother you that someone else stepped all over you like that? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 0 | RP way to deal with girl that skips you in lineBasically you're right - outcome shouldn't even matter. But then you could say that to anything really.. In this case, outcome does matter cuz you're creating yourself a reputation wherever you go according to your behavior. But I get your point about asserting yourself. For some reason, it happened to me before and I did exactly as you said, and I made the other person to go back and register in line. I did it in an assertive fashion, full of charisma. That was satisfying. But at other times it… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 04:41 PM |
| 0 | RP way to deal with girl that skips you in lineAre you going to beat a woman because she cut you in line? Obviously not. Beating - in this scenario - is very not RP - regardless of gender. Stand up for yourself, and be assertive. But that's exactly the issue - what could you do? There will presumably be other people in line who can confirm what happened. Right, but doesn't that make this event to be considered an "issue"? So then you make "noise" and you attract unwanted attention about such a minor incident that otherwise you could've j… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 03:30 PM |
| 0 | RP way to deal with girl that skips you in lineRight, that's what I meant. Even if you say anything assertively the first time - she can still ignore you.. I noticed that "ignoring" is very common reaction in human, in general. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 03:23 PM |
| 0 | RP way to deal with girl that skips you in lineYou're right, it should be a person in general. Actually in these situations I would (attempt to) behave the same regardless of her attractiveness. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | RP way to deal with girl that skips you in lineIf she continues to ignore you after that you assertively said "Excuse me, I was next" ? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Posting shirtless picks...Doesn't have to be at the beach if you're attractive. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | An alpha guy gets cheated on before & after weddingBut the cheating happened even before the wedding. Also, "alpha-like" behaviors should still be able to prevent the wife from misbehaving. The assumption he's alpha is based on your own perception, and doesn't take into account the reality of their intimate life, and the level of complacency. That's true, but I'm sure that once you see him in person then you'd think similar. I'd argue he's top 10% alpha in our population. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | An alpha guy gets cheated on before & after weddingI didn't mean 100% alpha, but he definitely has alpha tendencies and behaviors, though it seems that he's unaware to RP. See my comment to "Unlikely_Composer" for details. Still, his "alpha-like" behaviors should prevent the wife from misbehaving. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | An alpha guy gets cheated on before & after weddingI didn't mean 100% alpha, but he definitely has alpha tendencies and behaviors, though it seems that he's unaware to RP. Define this. How does he treat her? The guy: ~100% confident in himself. Knows its own value. Very charismatic. Has abundance. He had many girls. He's a player. So preselection. He immediately lets her know when he thinks she's doing wrong. He'd do it in a position of a teacher or similar (he'd teach her the correct thing to do). Meaning he doesn't agree to anything she says… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 12:46 PM |
| 1 | For those of you that don't read the side bar..On Friday night I pick her up from her house. She is late. Nothing major but at least 5 minutes and I text her that I'm going to meet her if she needs more time. Test 1. Doesn't your texting here comes out as beta? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl at work mostly ignores me, but few times engagedActually it didn't seem like she's interested in anyone. No one is talking to her really. Nor she with others. At least that's what I've noticed. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Girl at work mostly ignores me, but few times engagedThanks, I needed this. It takes time to complete the sidebar. I'm actually lean (about 10% fat) and good looking (muscles). Getting compliments. Face is average. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women - the exceptions?Thanks. Somehow it feels that most people on this TRP reddit are talking about "trashy" girls - because how do we really know that AWALT is an absolute truth? The AWALT isn't based on "real" (academic) research. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Women - the exceptions?Still nature has flaws. To procreate with the best suited genes and to settle down with a provider. Men are similar in that perspective. Men want the most physically attractive girl ("best genes" to men). So if a man is with a HB6 but suddenly he has a good chance with HB8 - wouldn't he seriously consider to drop the HB6 and engage with HB8 ? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Women - the exceptions?I find it hard to believe that out from 3 billion women in the world, none of them is different. Nothing's a 100%, right? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Tucker Carlson drops a redpill: Something ominous is happening to men in AmericaI can see the Red Pill in his belly | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/20 08:56 PM |
| 13 | How do you make small talk with brosTry getting on ur knees and put ur hands together and beg them to be ur friend and love u That's a horrible advice. OP, you should get on your knees and s*ck his D. This way you won't have to talk and he would do the talking. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Anything to do for a very facially unattractive no life loserand people would always figuratively and literally punch down on me and told they look like shit on me Disregard them, they're low quality people.It is just the classic "school bullying". Different locations have different kinds of people. Once you change your location (either different work or college or home) then people be different too (meaning: Not as shitty as you wrote). Also, adulthood (after high school) changes people too. unless they need something from me then they then proceed t… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 08:24 AM |
| -13 | I’m getting married in 40 days and I don’t know if I can go through with it.Your sex life wont ever get better I wouldn't immediately consider that as a fact. What about improving game such that she "falls for you" ? Though a month is too short. Edit: To all the downvoters, read the blog entry: Relationship Game Week: A Reader’s Journey August 14, 2009 by CH by Heartiste. Link: https://web.archive.org/web/20170623220551/https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/14/relationship-game-week-a-readers-journey/ | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 10:15 AM |
| 2 | healthy mother/son relationshipSo sad. Skills are needed nonetheless than ever. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Passive-Aggressive comment at meeting - how to handle?Yeah I'm aware of it. I asked this in order to understand whether I should've replied differently according to RP knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Passive-Aggressive comment at meeting - how to handle?It's not really a too-fancy word, it was simply the only word I could use to convey an idea. But I used it too many times. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Passive-Aggressive comment at meeting - how to handle?I think it is a shit test because the fact that I heard him saying the "big word". He was sufficiently distant such that I shouldn't hear him saying anything... It is like that he wanted me to hear it. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | How to fix? Sometimes I'm flirty, sometimes completely offThank you. it makes you come across as border line autistic Yep that's kinda the looks that I get sometimes 🤔 | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | How to fix? Sometimes I'm flirty, sometimes completely offIt doesn't seem to happen to other people. For example, a girl at work engages a conversation with me, but all I want to do is just avoid any conversation with anyone and just be with myself, having my quiet time. So I reply to her but without any enthusiasm and try to attend to the original activity for which I came. It can last for several days. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 11:16 AM |
| 3 | How to fix? Sometimes I'm flirty, sometimes completely offIt's Not only with women but with people in general. Whenever I'm flirty I do "the right thing" - per the responses that I get. But when I'm Not - I barely can get myself to talk to people, I feel a deep disinterest. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 11:15 AM |
| 10 | Setting a date in an assertivelyThat's what I thought... I asked a HB9 in a similar fashion and she replied totally different.. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 4 | The Testosterone Epidemic: How Endocrine Disruptors are Crushing MenPlastic makes people Trans and Gay? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/19 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl in dance club rejected hanging out - proper action?I already moved on. I'm constantly moving between girls and checking. But what do I do when she asks me to dance? How should I react? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl in dance club rejected hanging out - proper action?I don't have oneitis and I anyway talk to all women. But what do I do when she asks me to dance? How should I react? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:04 PM |
| -1 | What Do You SuggestWhat do these mean: "you DEERd" "DARE statement" ? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Why dont i have a sex drive?What is PMO ? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Are all women like this?They even flirt very subtle, but experienced men can pick up on it. Could you provide some examples? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 11:04 AM |
| 3 | It seems like only taken or married girls want to fuck. What makes me side dick material?This is really depressing to read. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 09:46 AM |
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