ruminajaali Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. You’re seen as a wasted resource. I hate it	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 12:54 AM
1	Fear mongering women over “dying alone” There’s one thing worse than being single and that’s being in a shitty relationship. Single is the devil they know	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 02:31 AM
1	In your experience, is it more common for partners to adopt the girlfriend’s or the boyfriend’s friend group? Or make new “couple-y” friends together	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 02:14 AM
2	Without the influence of modern culture, men would be more successful with women. Yep, breeding rights!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 02:02 AM
2	Woman really don't like most men sexually Haha nice 😊	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 06:55 PM
0	The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chances A woman will let a man know if she is into him. She won’t just hint, she’ll make it happen. If she’s on the fence, you’ll feel unsure and that she’s “hinting”. But, if she truly digs you, you will know. So, yes, be normal and treat her like anyone else you’re being respectful in public. Get to know one another. Women devise ways of letting the man she likes know about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 06:53 PM
1	Do you think older, single, childless, "cat ladies" are largely happy or not? Say it louder	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/23 01:06 AM
2	Are there more lonely men or lonely women? I agree that it doesn’t work	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 05:43 PM
–	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else No recognition and no chance for advancement	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 05:12 PM
8	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. Statistically, men die earlier than women, so women hit the “wall” when they’re in their late 70s, after their male partners have kicked the bucket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:12 PM
–	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. No notes. I agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:02 PM
6	Average and Just below average men are having a hard time because women are super pragmatic. Everyone can get laid if they lower their standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 04:15 AM
1	The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornier Everyone can get laid if they lower their standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 02:24 AM
2	Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optional It’s the whole package	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 01:21 AM
–	Let's talk about the recent TwoX post and the concept of "emotional labor" Everything you listed as emotional labour are the negative, sad, trauma-like ones. Emotional labour is also being emotionally available in the sense of ALL emotions, good and bad eg being able to feel a feeling and allow it to express, which very much includes the lovey dovey, mushy gushy, sappy feelings that many men feel uncomfortable to show. Sio SO many men stuff a wide range of different feeling down and they become an incomplete person full of issues and toxicity	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 01:44 AM
1	The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world. Raoe, assault, robbery, verbal abuse, just plain bad energy that has to be negotiated through. There are many risks involved and I agree with your statistical analysis point, but to say that women shouldn’t mitigate that risk is the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 12:27 PM
1	The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world. It clearly does matter because so many women take it upon themselves to mitigate that risk- too many men have shown they are willing to hurt women in various forms- and women’s behaviour in troubleshooting it, is the result.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 08:51 PM
1	Why are so many child free women not pet free? It doesn’t make sense to not want kids but want pets instead. Kids? Pets are better than most humans when living under one roof	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 05:31 PM
1	The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world. It doesn’t matter “how trivial”, the fact is just one time can reap a huge amount of turmoil and chaos, including the ultimate: death, that it’s warranted to be extra careful, just in case. It’s not worth taking the risk	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 05:06 PM
1	There is nothing wrong with todays dating world That’s not the horrible experience you seem to think it is. Many more women these day are choosing to not date and live in peace with pets because they have the choice now. Having a relationship with a man in the house is not easy and not a “win” like society has pushed for eons (because that’s what was created to MAKE women have to go for men in order to survive). Men have to bring much more than just “providing income” in order for women to give up their peace with their cats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 04:57 PM
1	“its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argument Yes, agree with you, we have evolved a pre-frontal cortex to over ride those biological instincts. We have thought processes that set up apart from the other great apes and make us able to not be guided purely by instincts and various hormones. That’s the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 04:51 PM
1	Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good? We can have it all, just not all at once	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 02:02 PM
1	Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke women Yea, because we want women to “have” to stay in shitty marriages /s The ones with financial means have the means to leave shitty relationships. That’s why there is that statistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:10 AM
1	In dating, whats the biggest - men/women say they want X, but their actions suggest otherwise? On your point about women “going for” emotionally unavailable men, welp, there are so many of those types out there, it’s mad difficult to avoid one; and while the times are changing, the majority of men have been raised to be such and women just pick the best of a bad lot. Thankfully, that’s changing tho (the men being more emotionally available).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:06 AM
2	Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore? Women are expected to do EVERYTHING and more a man can do without needing assistance. Men are expected to provide money and a few resources to make HIS life easier whilst she does everything to make HIS life easier. Hee life is not made any easier. Men crumble without women. Women flourish without men, even when they take the financial hit of poverty post-divorce. (Men go on to marry again.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 06:00 AM
10	Women NEED Men More Than Men Need Women Meh. Only because men created it that way. We all know that, psychologically, women can strip men raw and bloody. You’re speaking on physical terms, in which one man can easily over-power one woman, but the world is not black and white- there are nuances. Always. Men have worked very hard at hoarding resources and creating laws to control women, yet women STILL prove over and over that they truly don’t care for or need men . They’re forced to, but if there is no force, women aren’t pushing for i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 05:41 AM
2	Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive? It’s never fun “rejecting” someone. No one wants to hurst another person’s feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 05:10 AM
8	From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us. Anyone can get laid if they lower their standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:27 PM
2	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? Agree. Men are allowing women to have some power. However small. They can physically over power women at any time- they have the resources and biology to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:27 PM
1	"Unmarried women with no kids are the "healthiest and happiest" population subgroup, says the expert" \| Thoughts on this? What do you mean, " no real challenges"?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/20 06:29 AM
3	Discussion: Goldiggers, Baby-trapping, and date-rape Because there’s an overwhelming assumption in your post that these women are entrapping these men through dubious means I.e. poking holes in the condom. He, the male, with the sperm, can take responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/18 01:47 AM
3	Discussion: Goldiggers, Baby-trapping, and date-rape He nutted raw inside of her. Period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/18 12:24 AM
2	Discussion: Goldiggers, Baby-trapping, and date-rape Bingo!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/18 12:22 AM
1	CMV: The true reason reason why hookup culture exists is because women want it that way Son, you about to be slaughtered by the lesbians out there. They have libidos just as strong as any woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/18 12:10 AM
1	Do you think there is something "off" about Leo DiCaprio? If so, what do you think it is? Bah!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/18 05:55 PM
1	[Q4W] Ladies what do you feel when you see a guy start to approach you Hahaha I feel you on all this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/18 02:42 AM
2	We need to structure society around an assumption that men cannot be expected to exhibit impeccable sexual repression at the workplace in all situations at all times. How do your fare at work, and any other times, when there are no women around? Fishing with the boys? Road trip? You can manage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/17 07:21 PM
1	1) Older women are definitely desired by less men than younger women; however, they're desired by more men than most people think. 2) By enabling polyamory, women can gain sexual/romantic advantage over men. Aspie? Aspier? What does that look like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/16 07:11 PM
1	Dating / Hooking Up in NYC vs LA I don't know any female who has ever claimed that.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/15 11:51 PM
1	CMV: Women have it easier in the dating arena and are largely oblivious to it or in denial. Haha I like that: higher passive dread game. Well put.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/15 01:26 AM
2	CMV: Women have it easier in the dating arena and are largely oblivious to it or in denial. Hmm I'm feeling hopeful now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/15 12:35 AM
2	CMV: Women have it easier in the dating arena and are largely oblivious to it or in denial. Casual sex is just casual sex. We've established women can get casual sex easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 07:49 PM
1	CMV: Women have it easier in the dating arena and are largely oblivious to it or in denial. Men's "checklist" comes after sex, women's before. That's the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 07:47 PM
2	CMV: Women have it easier in the dating arena and are largely oblivious to it or in denial. The skill involved is keeping the man in a committed, mutually benefiting and satisfying relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 07:45 PM
0	CMV: Women have it easier in the dating arena and are largely oblivious to it or in denial. It's all subjective and could be argued against all day n night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 07:43 PM
1	CMV: Women have it easier in the dating arena and are largely oblivious to it or in denial. But, like the previous comment by OP, women have it easier getting laid, but who cares? It's not the be all and end all, and although men put a lot of emphasis on "on getting laid", it's not the same type of priority for ladies. So, ya, women can get laid more. But, it doesn't mean it's any easier dating. Unless dating is synonymous with getting laid (which it's not).	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/15 07:36 PM
1	CMV : It's not female nature, it's human nature. There's a book: The Selfish Gene It's a good read.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/15 09:24 PM
0	"The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man." http://cratesandribbons.com/2013/12/13/patriarchys-magic-trick-how-anything-perceived-as-womens-work-immediately-sheds-its-value/	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/15 04:01 PM
0	"The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man." The patriarchy I'm referring to is the one that pays men and their career choices more than women and their career choices. Women and "women's work" has always been undervalued compared to that of men's. I am also one of those women that has opted out of the full time work force in order to pursue a healthier, more enjoyable work life balance.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/15 01:43 PM
-5	"The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man." All over the world women have lower pay. It's a small few that get equal pay. Ask your co workers.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/15 02:01 AM
-7	"The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man." If women earned the same income as men, with access to positions of power, equally, they wouldn't have the need to latch on to men. They would obtain it on their own accord. Patriarchy keeps this status quo.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/15 01:04 AM
3	How SHE Sees You: Trick mode or Man mode And xxx is way better when you're really into someone and connected.	/r/seduction	02/07/14 07:26 AM