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Many women get off on pleasing their partners and get aroused by turning them on. A willingness to do kinky shit is a turn on for anyone with kinks, so there’s a feedback loop that is enjoyable for these women even if they aren’t into the kinks themselves. That said, I’ve never been with a woman that didn’t enjoy some degree of domination in bed, even if it was just me being extra assertive and physically directing the encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:54 PM
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She has to “get it”. Like when she looks at the world she sees past the surface level bullshit and understands at least a bit about what the motivations and factors are that cause what you see happening on the surface. I’d say about 30-40% of the women my age that I talk to actually understand the world. The rest are just treading water or too privileged to ask questions that might undermine their living laughing loving. I can’t deal with overly negative or insecure people. I’m not here to be an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:12 PM
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Experience, mainly, with some insight to underlying motivations and desire from the seduction/PUA world. I’ve been reading this stuff since Ross Jeffries was telling guys to say “below me” like “blow me” on Usenet, it used to be a lot less hateful. The TRP view of women as a whole is extrapolated from the behavior of a certain type of woman that does exist but is rare past a certain age. Its the kind of stuff women do when they’re trying out the limits of the power their sexuality can have over …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:00 PM
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It was more like 70/30 when I was dating for serious relationships with red pill ideas stuck in my head and running beta game, where the thinking was that if I wanted to be loved, I had to get out the checkbook, regardless of her attractiveness, so why not go for the maximum hotness I could pull while disregarding personality, since AWALT anyway. It backfired badly. But I did get to fuck some really hot women so at least I got that validation at one point in my life. Now that I’m past all that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:59 PM
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Good point. the two get conflated because sex and romantic touch are the main ways that men fulfill their need for intimacy and skin contact. Younger generations than mine (genX) seem to be more touchy in platonic situations because they’re less homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:13 AM
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I think it’s important to seek more positive experiences at some point after a breakup, even if you don’t want a relationship anytime soon. There’s no need to rush it, that can be disastrous, but there’s a fine line between taking the time you need to process your feelings and self-isolating. Like earlier tonight, I saw someone on askreddit (yeah I know) saying they got divorced eight years ago and still weren’t dating because they were still working on themselves. That’s their choice of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:25 AM
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nah, it is just the n count effect going on. It happens to both sexes. the same way a high n count woman have difficult pair bonding, A high n count man have the same difficulty. I think the egg and chicken are backwards here. Some people have trouble with pair bonding because of some issue of mental health, their personalities, or their lifestyles. It follows then that the relationships they have would be short-lived and volatile, and that they’d end up trading quality for quantity over a long …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:02 AM
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Exactly. You’ll be able to get yourself a relationship with RP but it’ll be such a toxic hell that you’ll end up more miserable than if you were a blackpilled incel. This serves to reinforce RP’s AWALT model because if you only attract and interact with shitty women, why wouldn’t you eventually think they were all shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:38 PM
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Applying RP strategy can get you laid, so it’s hard to argue that it doesn’t work, but it has a long term trap built into it: it states that manipulation and insincerity are parts of every relationship (even ones that are otherwise healthy), and this leads directly to devaluing and depersonalizing women. The end result of believing in the AWALT dogma is that women are fuckable garbage who just want to use and hurt you and there’s no way to have a healthy relationship with a woman when you think …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:11 PM
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A lot of people with anxious attachment styles are attracted to poly because it puts such an emphasis on making sure everyone involved feels 100% absolutely secure. This means when the drama happens it blows up fast
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:52 PM
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The start of the community was just guys who had been screwed by the courts in bad divorces deciding not to put themselves in that position again. Incels latched onto it because a) they lost their subs and b) because of the pre-emptive rejection of women (before women rejected them for being stank and/or misogynist), but they never understood why the whole thing started.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:45 PM
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the MGTOW sub got taken over by incels when their subs were banned/quarantined. It used to be guys posting about their lives and occasionally drunken shitty divorce stories
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 09:04 PM
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Sex is as fun as heroin. Junkies don’t want to have to go without it. Here, I’ll do it for you: /r/Im14AndThisIsDeep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:54 AM
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Pass that shit over ^sex really isn’t a need though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:48 AM
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If I upvote can I get on the train of being liked because I’m willing to make fun of myself? Omg, validation 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:42 AM
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Would you live a satisfied life if you could only sleep with an unattractive woman for the rest of your life? I will never live a satisfied life, period. Is it better than being sexless? No. Sex is not a need, it is a desire, more accurately an addictive drug made up of neurotransmitters and hormones and used by both men and women to manipulate and control their partners. I’d rather die alone starved to death under a bridge than be used or controlled by anyone ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 02:35 AM
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Even though I replied elsewhere saying I was BB I agree with this, it’s way oversimplified. But women oversimplify too, and play along with these scripts, like milking men for money being what a relationship is supposed to be, in lieu of actually getting their shit together to be a good partner, because getting your shit together is hard. I got a call the other day from a collection agency looking for my ex who leeched off of me for years, they never learn. Eventually you just give up on having …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:42 AM
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That’s a fallacy. I don’t want a woman who’s so ugly that she has a desperation mentality. What does that say about me if such a woman fixates on me? I don’t want to be worshipped by anyone, because eventually you always fall off the pedestal and it’s always your fault for having the audacity to be human, and you pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:37 PM
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Attractiveness is just a pass/fail gate for whether or not she is willing to publicly use your resources. If I believed what women said I was very attractive to them and they lusted after me on a physical level. If I judged them by what they did, my attractiveness was irrelevant beyond whatever social capital they got from being seen with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:17 PM
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Every guy can be the alpha for some women or the other Yes, by spending money, and thus becoming the BB. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:00 PM
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You can tell if she's into you or not sexually when u bang if ur aware enough. Enthusiasm vs. starfish, whether she wants to actively please you, do things you like, etc. You can’t rely on this. There are women who will deploy every porn star move they know in order to keep the gravy train rolling regardless of their level of actual desire. For a lot of women it seems like sex is a sort of performance art where the pleasure they get from it is from going through the motions properly and creating…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:58 PM
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Its basically the only way I could ever get women, and it’s degrading, humiliating, and has real financial consequences that will result in a lower quality of life when she invariably leaves. I’m better served by learning to live without women entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:26 PM
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That’s bullshit and you know it. You can’t get past fifth grade without realizing humans can be shitty. You can’t get past your first hopeless crush without realizing you shouldn’t expect women to like you. You don’t need to frame all female behavior as generically cruel in order to tear down your pedestals, you just want to, because it takes the least amount of individual effort and it lets you play the righteous victim. Everyone’s shit stinks, but you can’t have an effective LTR if you’re trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:43 PM
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If your woman is best analogized as a deadly weapon, you need to rethink your tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:13 AM
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If they believe it’s casual, then sure, it’s when they decide it isn’t casual for them that they make your life hell. You have no say in that, other than whatever boundaries you set, and toxic women have many ways of assaulting male boundaries. Spermjacking is the classic hyperbolic case but they can be more subtle about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:12 AM
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TRP and arriving at a state of outcome independence on your own are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:39 AM
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TRP doesn’t liberate anyone. It torpedoes your capacity for normal relationships and that locks you into a prison where the only people who will interact with you are your cellmates and the Approved Contributor COs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:21 AM
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AWALT, because no, NAWALT, but many women do go through a phase in their life where they are like that. The majority of the ones who do this always grow out of it and settle down eventually and look back on those days and cringe, like guys do about certain 20s bro antics. If a woman doesn’t grow out of it, she’s severely mentally ill and you should avoid them like the plague, not try to game your way into their pants. But then TRPs do try to bang them anyway because they think AWALT and it’s jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:13 AM
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In my 20s I was clueless and still operating with a scarcity mentality and used my parents completely fucked up one sided dysfunctional marriage as a model. I got married at 26 and was a total asshole to her for 6 years. She was also an asshole for different reasons. In my 30s post divorce I operated with an abundance mentality. I had a good job and low external baggage and I did really well on the dating scene until I encountered two lying fucked up bitches that combined to torpedo all my trust…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:34 AM
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They can talk about and think about their hobbies and jobs on their own or with friends. Basic social interactions like conversations are second nature to women, they can do that any time they want, it’s nothing special. On dates, women are looking for stuff they only get from dates: flirting, tingles, romance, sex - in addition to intelligent-enough conversation to not feel embarrassed by you. The real world is completely devoid of whimsy and romance, so they want you to conjure that up for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:00 PM
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I don’t think it would fix basement dwelling neckbeards but I think something like mandatory service (military or civilian) would go a long way towards unifying the American public. On a social level, everyone will have served, perhaps seen true suffering, will have had a concrete example of true teamwork regardless of differences, and a common ideology of what it means to be an American. On a personal level, everyone who served would have a certain common ground that they don’t have today. My d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:08 PM
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I’m a 43/m and I’m in this weird black hole right now where I don’t have a lot in common with women my age. They’re all raising kids and actively prepping to become one of the Golden Girls. They want to go to the approved restaurants and bars and concerts and travel in comfort and be and look elegant (whatever that means to them), but have no real curiosity about the world at large or human behavior. The depth has been hollowed out of them and replaced with food and wine and beaches and soccer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:42 PM
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Depends on the workplace. My last job the only men who didn’t regularly bitch about other men were the ones who had it good (career progressing, in good positions, etc) and even then they still did from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:50 PM
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No, I’ve got nothing that I would feel the need to shamefully hide quite a bit.. piss, shit, cuckolding or other severe F2M humiliation, strange switch power games where stuff is never straightforward (this has actually happened more than once)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:31 AM
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I’m pretty sure I have before, in hindsight. If I knew it for a fact at the time I wouldn’t have, but as it is I can’t claim any moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:25 AM
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leading with my provider capability letting hot sex cloud my mind not listening to my gut
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:44 PM
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Does the pope shit in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:14 AM
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I attract mainly LC to MC white women who work in corporate jobs and have more issues that National Geographic. I can’t keep anyone, because I, too, have more issues than National Geographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:20 PM
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As always, extrapolating human behavior from data never tells the whole story. Being single doesn’t cause mental illness, being mentally ill causes singleness. Being homeless precludes marriage regardless of mental health. A man who wants to be married is looking for a socially acceptable life, which means he’s not looking to be a criminal. The idea of marriage being bad for men comes from guys who got screwed in divorces, who scream loudly about it because it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:12 PM
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Women do need to work a little bit, I agree. I’m explaining why they don’t. Sex is still taboo, embarrassing, and shameful to a huge number of women, and working at it makes them feel like sluts. So they lay back, think of England, and do it for the man. Men don’t work at their own pleasure either, for the same reasons. There is a whole universe of sexual sensations outside of “rub the dick til it squirts”, but it’s seen as either gay or unmanly to even pay attention to those feelings instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:11 PM
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That requires a woman to be in tune enough with her body to even be able to feel pleasure from her G and A spots (the A spot is a relatively new discovery anyway, at least to science) and uninhibited enough to finger her clit while being fucked. You underestimate the number of repressed women that exist out there. Even if they dress sexy and flirt and act like they love it, to a lot of them all that sexy bullshit, including sex itself, is just what they do to get a man, and then once they have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:58 PM
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Sometimes they won't do it ever because they don't know they can, or just don't want to do it. This is the point this thread is looking for. When a woman is having sex with a man, she’s doing it at least in part because a) she wants pleasure and b) she doesn’t want to have to do it for herself. Doing it for yourself is a lot easier and for women it’s a lot more reliable If you’re fucking a woman and you don’t take care of her (in whatever way she wants at that time) then of course she’s going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:43 PM
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I base generalizations on personal observations and experience. I believe stereotypical behaviors are culturally programmed, and some plurality of both men and women never think to question what they have been programmed to do. Therefore, exceptions exist. For example, I believe the AF/BB dynamic exists because I have personally seen it in action, but it is not a conscious decision by women. It’s more of a culturally defined life script that women who don’t choose their own path are pressured/ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:37 PM
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It doesn’t take true wealth to be used for your money, it just takes a woman with no shame who has less money than you. Right now I’m not working so I’m not dating and therefore I’m not being used for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 04:27 PM
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First thread I read there, I see this: I have served in the special forces of my country in the past Yeah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:25 PM
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This even happened with me with my relationships with single moms when I’d be around her in mom mode. Another thing, a lot of men don’t realize that once the kids happen that they will become priority #3 to their wife (after the kids and herself) instead of priority #1 (romantic hyperfocus). emotionally stunted/immature guys can’t handle that and get jealous of the kids and that leads to resentment of mom and hatred of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:34 PM
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Raised WC, but where we lived in KY that qualified as MC or almost UMC relative to the abject poverty that surrounded us. Dad had a union job, mom worked as a bookkeeper. I grew up pretty comfortable, materially speaking, because my parents worked very hard, especially my dad. When I worked in software I made it from MC to the UMC bracket. But, I’m mainly attracted to women with an artsy liberal mentality, and I don’t tend to get along with the overly formally educated, so most of my dating has …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 11:17 PM
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I like the UUs, I went to a local one a few times. Kind of the Church of None of the Above.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 01:57 AM
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I am also envious of the huge social support system the people who live in my rural area have. Most people have large extended families, almost everyone attends church, they all know each other and they have the same friends since high school. I have a few friends here 1/2 hour away, two I hang out with on a regular basis, and one an hour away, but miss the big social circle I used to have. Still have several very good friends from that crowd, but they are all far away. This is the only thing I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:56 PM
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Maybe. Depends on how she reacted when she found out about it. My last serious LTR didn’t know how much money I made until several months in, and it wasn’t an overnight change, but you could tell when she found out that she thought she hit the jackpot because we had honeymoon phase stuff going on at that time as well. All that AND a paycheck you can live off of? Score
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:19 AM
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I’m not sure where you’re coming from. In those cases they just wanted the dick and I accepted that and gave it to them. What I’m saying is that that is not my typical experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 06:46 AM
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I don’t appeal to the masses but some percentage of the female population has always found me attractive. Took me a long time to realize that though. Where I live, women don’t just want to fuck men, generally speaking; they want to marry them and take over their lives and use them to bankroll their kids and vacations and stupid ideas. Before I got out of IT, if I put my job on my profile I got about 4x the number of matches than if I left it off, because the morons that live here think “works wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:59 AM
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I hate it when people get attached to me. All affection feels like an attempt to use me for some selfish purpose. I’m very detached from the world and live in my own head most of the time. Every time I try to change this I’m reminded that I prefer it. I dislike foodie culture and don’t like bars. This means I have little to nothing in common with most of the single women in my age range in my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:43 AM
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I got over being validated by sex when a woman used it against me to distract me while she hollowed me out like a redneck field dressing a deer.. Now I see it as the strongest drug we have access to, that evolution has resulted in us all being pre-emptively addicted to at puberty, and for which there is no real detox
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:43 AM
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Here’s my take Where I grew up, rural east bumfuck KY, if you weren’t married by your early 20s people thought you were gay or that there was something wrong with you. The population density was low so there was a statistical imperative to lock down someone ASAP. Most of these marriages ended before 30 after various forms of abuse or emotional neglect. Then people end up never marrying again because they aren’t going through that shit again. People who are religious enough to value marriage abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 06:54 AM
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No. I’ve had that done before where someone stalked my FB and pretended to like the bands that I posted videos of (an old drunken habit of mine). It was desperate and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:01 PM
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People project. They tell you what they want to be, not who they are. This is true for men and women, so much so that being direct about it is off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 03:19 PM
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Basic Puts me at the center of the universe Smoker/heavy drinker/stoner Financially unstable Dishonesty Seems like #1 and #5 apply to 99% of the women left single at my age, they’re all looking for that ride off into the sunset viagra commercial life they think they earned and aren’t afraid to bullshit their way to it, which is probably why they’re still single at my age. #2 is avoidable by dating single moms, but they usually break #4 and kids are a long term complication. #3 is personal prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 11:31 PM
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Nothing’s slowing balloons down, they are suspended in the gases of the atmosphere. It’s like floating in water. The atmosphere is turning with the earth, and you are floating in that mass of air, so relative to the earth you remain stationary. With no wind and infinite fuel you would stay in the same spot in the air indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:29 PM
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You know how when football players get flagged for excessive TD celebrations, the announcers of the game will act all indignant and say that guy should “act like he’s been there before”? It’s like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 01:25 PM
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When I was dating last time I was looking for an LTR and I had the theory that if a woman was leading with sex she probably wasn’t looking for a relationship. Gave up on the LTR thing so I can’t say if I proved it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:42 AM
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