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LEVEL UPrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:35 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:37 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:02 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:48 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:00 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:58 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:40 PM
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STRATEGYrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:23 AM
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DISCUSSIONrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:53 AM
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LIES MEN TELLrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:21 PM
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DISCUSSIONrunawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:20 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!runawayfast999/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:37 PM
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Let’s talk about how many frequently refer to themselves as above average looking when it’s clear they are not.... the confidence of trolls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:24 AM
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I’m not following what’s going on where. The grammar and spelling...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:45 AM
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More so this is an annoying copy and paste message that he sends to all his matches seeing which one is sad enough to go along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:53 PM
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Good for you and good for your company. Just take care of yourself. As we know... men, are not forgiving creatures 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:05 PM
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Please. Not today 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:55 PM
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Thanks for sharing these. I haven’t thought about how young it starts but I will definitely commit to teaching my son not to be a dick like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:52 PM
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Thank you for this reminder. This was all of us. When we want to write paragraphs, better to stay silent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:44 PM
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Thanks everyone for your perspectives! Really enlightening. I’m going to rethink this. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:26 PM
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True. He’s prob just watching the movies anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:58 PM
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Men. Their time is soooooooo precious. There are like 8 books in that Harry Potter series. Books don’t read themselves ladies. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:38 PM
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What. The. Fuzz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:24 PM
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Lol. Men’s suggestions: be more aggressive, spit on her, degrade her more, yada yada Women’s one and only suggestion: give her an orgasm. I am going to venture a guess who’s advice he’s going to ignore. Clearly there’s been a precedent of ignoring exactly what women are telling him....
/r/seduction12/11/20 07:50 PM
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Uh... i feel like she already said. Specifically, YOU DIDN’T GIVE HER AN ORGASM. This is not rocket science. There’s only one answer. She felt like after all the direction you still were unable to do it and unlikely not able to do it like she likes it.
/r/seduction12/11/20 07:12 PM
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“I like parks and coffee but not for a date”. I dunno. Try that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:06 PM
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Thanks. It’s nerve wracking though. Stepping up for the first time. Like I’m presad because i think he won’t message me again, but also proud that i finally am articulating my standards and boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:52 PM
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This is just laziness and low effort and we know that very well. Hey, I’m hanging out in my bed, come over, because I don’t have anywhere else to sit it will naturally lead to sex. Easy. Brilliant actually, let me not make enough to get a real apartment so i can have more sex. Men’s brains 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:24 PM
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Lol. All of us. Here I am in my condo. There you are in your shared apartment one room no kitchen. And you keep inviting me over....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:12 PM
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Wanted to provide a field report and a check in as well, maybe some words of encouragement. I have been seeing someone for a bit and I can tell them are into me but I am busy and they are dropping let’s hang outs and also, the last time we were intimate, he finished before me (twice). So these two things bothered me greatly, and I sent a long message about how showing interest in me means also respecting my time and caring about my pleasure. I didn’t do it in the nicest way, to be fair, I should…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:21 PM
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That’s why you have to block them so you don’t see their clownery this time around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:58 AM
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Are men confused about the consequences of sex and how babies work? A woman grows them in her own body!!!! What the F has he done?!? I would leave him so fast for saying something disparaging about my body carrying HIS child. I’m so disgusted rn. Edit: I went to read the post and at least everyone said that he’s the Ahole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:14 PM
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Basically. “I’m just teasing you.” They just can’t help themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:48 PM
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And they say women are bad at math and science 🙄. This is some diligent research. Waste of time OLD is. Thanks for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:44 PM
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Steer clear of “most girls...” nice one. I’m also feeling proud, told this guy I had a TA for one course and no TA for another course I’m teaching and he says “you can hire me as a TA and pay me in a different way”. I blocked him on whatsapp but didn’t block on text and i get a text this morning with an apology that he was hungry and what he meant was i can pay him in food. TLDR- they know when they are being crass and yet they choose to be crass (since he apologized and called this out). So lam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:37 PM
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I mean, his own Snapchat handle is dipshyt... at least he’s self aware
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:42 AM
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I hope they voted him the asshole. What has he ever done to ensure that he remains attractive to her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:19 PM
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This: an investment in a relationship is NOT the same as investment in yourself. Nice reminder to never stop investing in yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:50 PM
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Also... just some dude with nothing to offer, WASTING women’s time. Lovely. And for what? To realize that he’s completely screwed in life if he doesn’t just embrace who he is? Here we are, embracing ourselves exactly as we are, feeling pretty in our skin no matter who thinks what, because at the end of the day, the only opinion that matters is your own. What a piece a crap 💩. I’m most annoyed he’s out there wasting women’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:02 PM
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I agree. Like, they are failing that marshmallow test they used to do with kids. That kind of neediness is sad to see in grown men, tbh. Like, what kind of woman is going validate that kind of behaviour? On OLD they are having conversations with themselves until they frustrate themselves into self-deletion. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:55 PM
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Ahaha double text / indignation that you haven’t jumped to respond and then they delete themselves all in a huff 😂 that’s the best. But yeah i feel this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:55 PM
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Totally. Same. I don’t save any names or bother looking at their names on bumble. Sometimes right before the date i have to check. Sure it sounds heartless but we have to do what’s best for us. You’re just a number until you’re my person. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:05 PM
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This is always my go to question. How are we like this? As a species?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:45 AM
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Thanks for the daily laughs ladies 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:08 PM
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You ladies are so sweet. Let’s pass the clown wig around and then burn it in a dumpster fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:58 PM
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lol also this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:10 AM
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Yeah. I saw that. I’m not sure how to process it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:35 PM
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That’s fair. But I did appreciate his level of disgust with porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:05 PM
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Me too. When i start feeling uncomfortable for whatever reason, i stop and think about if it will get better or worse. It’s a great mindshift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:46 PM
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Ahaha this is so true. Honestly FDS is what makes dating stress free. Do you have to explain something? Delete. Do you get the feeling that you’re waiting for him to ask you out? Delete. Is he not responding within a reasonable time frame? Delete. I like that feelings don’t matter here, just our objective standards that we are holding high. Edit: I mean we have to pay attention to our feelings of want, discomfort, etc. but at the end of the day, we ask ourselves, is it fun or does it feel good t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:19 PM
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Hahaha omg. I snort laughed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:53 AM
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You’re definitely right. Rom coms have ruined our brains. And for men, it’s a numbers game. They don’t care, even guys who want relationships, they are happy to bang along the way. So the more the merrier, chat up everyone. They want maximum return for minimum effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:16 AM
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I kind of love her. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:39 AM
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Lol this is every platform 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:20 AM
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Forget that one, the one to the right speaks to me. The women’s GTF away from me masks 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:42 AM
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How are we alive? Like seriously. How do we as a group of humans even survive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:15 PM
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Just 🙄. They made a stupid group that combines their political ideology with the ethnicity of their wives. Just how dumb can you get? How many people are in this group? Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:50 PM
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👑 great call. Pettiness is unnecessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:59 PM
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I’ve been there before. Deleted but should’ve blocked. If he rears his head, you know what to do 😊. These guys are such dicks. Honestly. Like I’m doing great without you, don’t drag me back to 2 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:53 PM
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😳 wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:52 PM
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Now that you have his number again, use it to block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:51 PM
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Haha let’s see what OP says.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:50 AM
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Also, unless he’s working as a doctor or night shift, or saving lives cuz he’s Batman, any man who wakes up at 2pm on a Wednesday is LV. I reserve judgement since he might be one of those jobs above, but if you’re “just waking up” at 2pm on a weekday, I am not talking to you because it tells me you have no job and no ambition to get one and you were gaming all night. Or he’s an ER doctor or works night shift. Judgement reserved though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:33 AM
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The negative sign is that he said he’s not interested in you. Two months is him reaching his max. horniness peak and you’re easy pickings because he already had you. I do wish you would listen to all of the advice so far from the women (including myself) who have been in this exact situation. Stop entertaining him. Block and delete. Your questions are futile. What signs should i look for. Men know what they want within days/weeks of what they want. He was your FWB. And explicitly told you he did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:28 AM
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100%. They cook for themselves, not for us. Have you noticed how they constantly compliment their own cooking? It’s not for your enjoyment much of the time. I learned this with two different guys. Very odd. But i wanted to say this resonated with me so much, part of it is just that. We don’t feel like we are food enough to be wined and dined. But we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:23 PM
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Geeez. If he doesn’t ask you out within in a week, delete. Don’t overthink it.
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:11 PM
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I get it. I had a friend who I only now realize is pretty low value. He would always tell me it’s harder for me because of kids and that men don’t want that blah blah and he was just projecting his own low value as he just wanted to find a wealthy woman to support him, since he was a “writer”. So, in hindsight what he said didn’t make sense. The right person for me won’t see it as a “problem”. That makes it easier, not harder. I’d drop this friend too. They always show their true colors, and tbh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:28 PM
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This is such a shitty feeling. Like oh sorry, You’re great, if only you didn’t have kids. I have two kids and dating and I hear this a lot and it used to make me sad. Now, when I see or hear something like “oh I’m scared to date someone with kids”, I just let it go, and let him go too. Like, that’s fine, but don’t expect me to try to convince you that I’m worthy. In the past I would’ve tried to explain like how I’m not expecting you to be their dad (you idiot). Now, I don’t bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:12 PM
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Can I just say, you don’t have to finish the book just because you started. It’s the same principle as when you’ve met a man and find out he’s a dud. We gotta learn how to walk away from duds. Books and otherwise. It’s a sunk cost. Leave it. Burn it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:39 PM
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This seems like waaaaaaaay too much explanation. We are not here to teach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:20 PM
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🤮. What a troll. “Rape” isn’t my fault. She was asking for it with her clothes. I’m so sorry that she’s someone’s dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:39 AM
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Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable. It’s cold outside for sure, we went to a heated patio. An hour outside isn’t bad, but i think i might give up soon as it’s not sustainable... even for 2nd, 3rd date. It’s going to get colder and colder. I don’t know, I’d say meet once for an hour and do video calls if you’re into each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:41 AM
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You did the right thing. Disrespecting something you care about is reason enough. Sorry about your tree. That really sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:37 PM
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But so cute this story. There’s a movie coming I’m sure....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:02 PM
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As someone who is doing a 30 day bumble experiment it’s also a shitshow. Imagine 9 am and someone’s first thought that they then share with you is “I want to sleep with you”. Just be ffn normal. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:38 PM
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Ahaha agreed. Would’ve just unmatched but love this 😂. These guys...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:20 PM
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When guys decided they’d rather meet more women and see which will bang with minimum effort. That’s why we can’t have nice things 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 12:18 PM
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Lol guy showed up in a Canadian tuxedo. I dunno man....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:40 AM
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I love being given an ultimatum by a stranger, really makes my side boobs pop in excitement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:38 AM
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I’m thinking the same thing to be honest. I gave myself 30 days with OLD, and time is almost up. I’m kind of okay with it too. Always next year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:24 PM
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Ahaha I’m about to head to what will be a cold patio dinner 😂. It’s not inspiring. Will likely just hibernate for the winter 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:19 PM
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Same here. Patios are still open though 🙄. Although dating might be over for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:16 PM
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Yup. Mitigating that feeling of “why did i even bother?!”. Standards have been set. Thanks FDS and the lovely women here. Honestly, it’s been such a revelation. To say, “that offer is not good enough for me to leave my house”, feels like the first step to taking control of our own feelings and desire. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:04 PM
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And ofc it goes without saying I will not be reaching out to him. If I don’t hear back within 48 hours he gets deleted from OLD. I also don’t give out my number anymore. I’m tired of blocking numbers. Rather just delete. No exceptions are made to this rule. No communication for 48 hours delete delete, cuz you ain’t serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:28 PM
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Yes! Totally. Thanks for sharing. I mean it’s too bad we didn’t hear back, but somehow it makes the whole engagement so much more respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:22 PM
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Me too. Like haha I’m not stuck up LIKE OTHER GIRLs. Oh honey (saying to my old self), those girls just had standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:18 PM
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Yeah, I just got a off putting vibe from him. It was hard actually, to say we are not a match and walk away. It’s hard to find another parent sometimes who doesn’t look like a pile of poop from lack of self care. But it felt like a pity party. He also showed up wearing shorts. Anyway; no regrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:52 PM
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Ugh yes. I went on a first date with a guy, divorced, two kids, chef apparently, but hearing him talk about all the jobs he quit because they weren’t being good to him was so off putting. I get it’s a difficult time these days, but you just know when you meet someone who blames the world and takes no responsibility for what happens to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:32 PM
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They really have to realize it themselves. That’s the point. Nothing a woman can do to inspire that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:15 AM
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Nope. They be bored. Trying to disturb your peace. I welcome the zombie messages now, so i can promptly block them now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:13 AM
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I did that a few times too! Thanks for the reminder. Might try it out again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:02 AM
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I’m also just digging his entire vibe. Will watch later!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:55 PM
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I hope it’s a joke but her voice and tone... that’s some real pain man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:51 PM
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I don’t know! I don’t think they do but i will see. I just stopped this month. They ripped out lashes but hope it all grows back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:25 AM
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I love this. I recently stopped getting eye lash extensions. I’m just tired of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:56 AM
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Also maybe you shouldn’t be posting her FULL NAME.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:03 AM
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I’m totally with you. I had to leave those groups because the answer seems so obvious. Staring at them in the face. This guy I know said it best: I’m happy to make compromises but not sacrifices. If anything makes you uncomfortable, in your body, in your gut, in your heart, that’s a sacrifice, in my mind. These guys don’t sacrifice their well-being. Don’t sacrifice yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:38 PM
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The Scrote part is him asking you for your permission, testing what you will accept and give him permission to completely perv on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:23 PM
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Definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:31 PM
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I feel you. I am just going to lay low by myself. I was going to make a little report on 30 days of OLD. It’s depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:34 PM
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I totally agree. Explaining how you want to be treated is tiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:45 PM
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Do it back. Copy and paste messages. Why should we waste time? (Bumble)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:08 PM
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Also. I know I’m not supposed to explain but I couldn’t help myself, I was like, women probably get a lot of walk offers everyday, what are you doing to stand out? And the guy, PROPERLY READING BETWEEN THE LINES, says “oh Well I don’t ask that many women on walking dates.” 🙄 Bye dum dum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:55 PM
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So. much. time. wasted. Good riddance honestly. I also get offers of running dates 😂 like WTF. Edit: I went on one once and the guy just stared at my butt. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:53 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:52 PM
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But gawd that saves us so much time. Like I if I accepted every walking date I’d be walking marathons every week. I don’t have time for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:43 PM
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Preach! And totally, I used to Uber down to guys. Like a dum dum. It’s so important. And to summarize: THEY KNOW! and now I finally get it, I don’t want a guy who’s first instinct is to low ball me to see if I will accept. So unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:00 PM
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Yikes. Too close to home. Thank you for validating every block!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:27 PM
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Men are masters of spinning stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:11 PM
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“I’m a nice guy” = run for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:15 PM
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So it’s a real thing. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:12 PM
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Totally. The other day this boy said good bye to my daughter and she just glared at him. I instinctively to tell her to be nice and say hi back, and the correct myself and tell her “you don’t have to talk to anyone you don’t want to.” She doesn’t have to be nice to everyone!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:10 PM
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😂 i know, I’m picturing it and it’s so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:08 PM
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This: “WHEN A MAN SAYS NO IT IS THE END OF A DISCUSSION. WHEN A WOMAN SAYS NO IT IS THE BEGINNING OF A NEGOTIATION.” -Gavin De Becker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:07 PM
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Haha no.... It’s a joke 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:03 PM
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100% agree. It’s another way to diminish your agency and play down what you want. Drop them immediately if they say they want to “see what happens” or “see where it goes”. They don’t want to commit to anything, not even a plan for themselves or they don’t want to communicate that with you. I use this now as a quick filter. Straight up as what they are looking for. If they can’t say relationship and give a waffly “see where it goes”, I unmatch. I’ve wasted enough times trying to be cool and go wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:30 PM
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This is so helpful. It also is framed in such a way you feel like you have to compete with all the other girls into the non fun group. I mean this guy is an idiot but what you said makes a lot of sense. Other girls do this, or I’ve heard “I love passionate woman” (eg who have sex in public because they cannot resist the man). So to your point, don’t let him frame the conversation in such binaristic terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:46 PM
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Hahaha maybe if you’re lucky he won’t even wash his hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:28 PM
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Totally agree this is nonsense. But super disturbing this is how men think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:33 PM
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Yup. And this isn’t just trying to get you to have sex. Even if you’re having sex with someone they will use the same lines to make you do things you don’t want to. They will tell you stories of other girls that were “fun” and “adventurous” hoping to guilt you into going along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:58 AM
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And also: “I’ve had tons of car sex before” reads like “I’ve never had any kind of sex before.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:39 AM
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I follow this sub purely to log in examples of male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:38 AM
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Agreed. But this is sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:37 AM
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This is a FANTASY scenario that he’s playing out for his IDEAL kind of meeting with a woman. It doesn’t have to be real to serve as a reminder of just how disturbed and sex-focused men are. And the kind of verbiage they use: “tease” you for being boring and not adventurous just so they can get you to have sex in a car because that is what cool, fun, adventurous girls do. Some of these men... it’s the fact that this is how they see women, nothing short of a quick bang, not even dinner in this cas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:34 AM
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I got an essay on Friday. I just blocked. I hesitated. It was a nice and sentimental kind of apology email but nah. Not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:55 PM
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Omg these guys are a dime a dozen. I’m waiting for a handful to pop up again so I can block them this time around. No more wasting another second even glancing and getting annoyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:50 PM
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This is madness. This is some sadistic F*ck who gets off on her getting hurt. Not even a question of her being an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:43 PM
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What’s a water date?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:46 AM
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What are those two dums dums about? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:31 AM
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And if you want to know anything about them, don’t forget their hot tip to “just ask”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:11 AM
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On that note, maybe throw Coffee Charlie in there too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:11 AM
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Lol well i gave him an out with a dumb fox line line, oh you must be tired and wanting to chill at home is what I’m hearing. You just take it easy and you can reschedule our date. And also, i don’t go to people’s houses. So maybe it wasn’t that dumb fox 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:31 AM
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Exactly. It’s so disappointing. Like we spent time talking, face time, first date and then it’s like they drop the facade because they can’t anymore. Like two weeks of being a gentleman was too much 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:28 AM
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Ahhh everyday it’s something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:25 AM
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It’s okay. Honestly. Thanks for sharing. Glad we can put our sad pick me life behind us 😂. These stories keep us humble, i think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:20 AM
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You forgot Walking William
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:14 AM
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Anybody else feel like the pot is calling the kettle black?
/r/seduction04/10/20 02:54 AM
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This is amazing. Bet they are also “Fluent in sarcasm”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:16 AM
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Ahaha I know right. This is the fancy version of a field date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:07 AM
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Honestly any attempt to get you to their house that early on is all for sex. It’s annoying. They make it seem like it’s not. I’ve fallen for the cooking thing before, and that is how it always ends. Sigh. But let’s be better than before 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:12 PM
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Good luck. Mindshifts are so important and thanks for sharing your story. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:17 AM
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lol i know what you mean. But new people show up. Just ignore for a month or two. Let it repopulate. It’s going to get harder too unfortunately, with second wave and more shut downs. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:22 AM
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Whattttt i love this. Swap your clown for a crown 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:19 AM
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Noooo don’t do this. Everything you hard delete the same dum dums show up. Just delete app from phone but don’t delete your account. I learned this and saw the same 🤡 show up. Don’t be like me. Don’t hard delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:54 AM
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Ahaha well, i learned here that’s why we block. So zombies don’t come back to haunt us 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:57 PM
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Why do guys not realize the girl is laughing her ass off as she types her zinger responses to such clownery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:06 PM
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Totally. It’s hard but it’s a work in progress. It will get easier, I know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:53 PM
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😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:51 PM
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Oh yeah that just made me more annoyed. Like you know how to treat someone properly and you didn’t and now you’re acting as if we are all cool and asking me about the weather 😂 go away 🤣 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:51 PM
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Yes! It felt strange and liberating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:20 PM
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Good call. Will do that next time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:19 PM
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👑 ☺️ thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:17 PM
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😊 thank you everyone for this amazing sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:06 PM
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Like how’s your day, the weather is weird right? But the classic double text panic when the guy realizes he’s lost the woman 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:05 PM
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Thank everyone and it’s true. It’s hard to reprogram or deprogram that annoying condition of being nice to everyone for no reason. I deleted “sorry” from my message and felt good about that 😂. Step by step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:04 PM
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Again, reminder about how these bros are helping each other have sex with women in the fastest and cheapest way possible. Don’t stay too long but if you need a reminder about what men want, it’s a good place to start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:38 PM
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I agree. But one step at a time right? Let’s hope that woman is working through this and saying no next time to this kind of treatment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:30 PM
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Like others have said. The audacity to even ask if he’s in the wrong. This guy is complete scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:56 PM
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Or to just wait until something worthwhile comes along. Everything, include sex, is cheapened these days. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:55 PM
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I just have it in my feed, and everyday seeing the headlines of dudes ask other dudes how they can get sex/nudes is enough. No need to dumpster dive 😂...just gracefully walk past the trash and take note
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:52 PM
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I suggest you guys have r/seduction in your feed. I need my daily dose of male depravity to be remind me to be vigilant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:18 PM
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Agree. We’ve all be in situations like that, escalating and getting out of hand. Sounds like she was going along and feeling horrible. I’ve been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:32 PM
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“Oh I’m just watching Netflix but it’s lonely by myself” - yesterday’s LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:30 PM
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Oh dear lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:35 AM
13

Yes! Live your life for you. We can’t be waiting on people. They don’t want to join, no harm, we are always on our way 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:05 AM
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I hate this. This “how will I look?” I’ve been in her shoes, caring about how i look to the other person than just feeling my feelings and getting the f out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:48 PM
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I love this! You ladies are so inspiring. You get dressed up, you go out. Live your life. Cancellations just means more time to be in the company of someone you already know you like! You! Thanks for the everyday boost of confidence 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:19 PM
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Amen. There’s nothing you can do to change him. Only thing you can do is decide to stay or go. 👏 👏 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:01 AM
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Another example because this was me before. I went on 3 dates with a guy because he loved philosophy and we had great talks. But i didn’t know about red flags and he asked to split bills, and on the third date i ended up paying our whole bill. In conversation i asked why he pays cash and turns out he’s in major credit card debt. So.... don’t be fooled by smart guys, they think they can get away with intellect alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:34 AM
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I second this. I want someone sweet. I can talk to other people about smart things Edit: I’m in my PhD program and I don’t like how snooty everyone is about how smart they are. Give me a man that is emotionally available, i can have fun with and is sweet to me. Jobs and education is not everything. I once dated a neurosurgeon who would never say anything emotional to me in person, he’d rather text it. When he left the country he sent me a message from the airport saying oh i should’ve said goodb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:20 AM
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I feel you. Same situation here. Nice first date. Second date he suggested walk and back to his place for wine. No thanks. I can’t believe i used to go along with this crap. I’ve definitely gone before to be the cool girl. Now i feel demotivated for second date, couldn’t care if it happens or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:36 PM
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You’re totally right. He’d constantly ask if i was blushing, if he got under my skin, etc. Like h wanted to bother me. The whole thing was bizarre. He called me that morning to plan the date and then texted 3 hours before to cancel. It was bizarre. I’m not proud to say that i was going to go and hoping we can actually be nice, but there were red flags i ignored because i was silly. I definitely felt odd about him but it was a good lesson. That’s a big red flag for me now. Commenting on my body l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:17 AM
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I don’t know if they know.... this one guy would mock my hand gestures, he’d also say things like, you have the perfect body, but what’s your least favourite part?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:01 AM
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And agree with what others say, it’s like the start to “he’s just not that into you”, we should never interpret teasing, bullying as flirting. Some guys have been mean to girls since they were kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:37 AM
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No problem with “sucks”, but he followed up with “don’t be so sensitive” when i said he’s being rude since he asked me what artist i like. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:36 AM
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They are so repulsive. Grow up. When the first thing they write in response to a question you ask them is “that’s a gay question”, or you tell her the artist she recommended to you “sucks” and you tell him, that’s rude. And he calls you “sensitive”. Thank the lord for cutting to the chase and showing these nut jobs for who they are. Be aware: they will usually try to make some sarcastic joke in their profile. Don’t fall for it. They will put you down and put others down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:23 AM
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Who still talks like that? I got both these comments today. Automatic delete. It’s not funny when you start off by negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:14 AM
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But that reflects accurately on this man who is likely not of sound mind......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:04 AM
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The ones that keep you in his list are the worst. They message you when they want days later. You’re way faster, but i usually give 48 hours at the beginning. But if we have a connection after a day or two, it should be consistent. As we learn, consistency is the only things we can read and see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:42 AM
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Honestly i don’t mind hi, you’re figuring out if they will respond. But if i do respond, say more. Or just go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:40 AM
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Ahaha but it says “black belt” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:35 AM
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Yup, that was me too but honestly they have no intention of asking. They just want someone cute to banter with. I was chatting a cute guy, great banter, but I stuck to it and I’m happy. Even when i told him It doesn’t seem like we are on the same page and I’m going to say bye he still didn’t ask. Don’t waste your time. 2 weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:05 PM
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Same same. 48 hours to keep up the conversation. 2 weeks to ask for a date (which is generous)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:49 PM
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Share your question / vetting prompt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:26 PM
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I think maybe it started during Covid where there weren’t many options? But yeah it’s just ways for me to walk around, get coffee or ice cream. Tbh I would suggest this before as well, since I wanted an exit strategy. But now I realize I need to vet them before we meet for a proper date. And the date is a verification of mutual attraction (since the video call will verify what they look like and if they carry on a conversation). Edit: I don’t think it’s bad, but I haven’t had much success meetin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:41 PM
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This is the best advice and mindshift. Get paid for what you’re doing for free. Yesssss. Brilliant 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:25 PM
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That’s sounds awful. They know the attention women get, maybe that makes them more mad. Like how I can I break through the noise? Oh, attack her face. Women like that. She’ll be so madddddddd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:15 PM
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My experience is that even the normal looking guys seem entitled. But I had one “good looking guy” send me photos of his other bumble matches to show me how hot his matches were. 🙄 🤮. I did not ask for this obviously. The good looking ones are just way worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:54 PM
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I’m so happy I have this mindshift from FDS. So many things I would’ve laughed off trying to be cool girl, nothing bothers me. Here are my levels of filtering. So far, very few have progressed. Level 1: I’m on bumble, so i kick off with a standard question. They answer but no question back. Test of communication effort. NO QUESTIONS BACK. ZERO ABILITY TO CONVERSE. Level 2: they ask to meet right away, or ask for number, I tell them I prefer to chat for a day or two to get to know each other. Tes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:46 PM
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And yet we women think we are less than. It’s ridiculous. That’s why this mindshift is so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:53 PM
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They turn so quickly. I vetted through video chat, preplanned patio drink date (it was late), discussed we both wanted relationship, hug good night. The next time he wants me to come over for wine at his place. I politely declined and said i want to actually get to know someone. I’ve written him off but I’m curious as what he’s going to do next. Very low effort masquerading in basic gentleman behaviours IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:19 PM
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I have this exact thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:27 AM
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100%. Immediate delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:23 AM
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