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5'4 I think the high difference really just comes down to daily inconveniences. I would keep in within 5 inches.
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:49 AM
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I am a fairly short guy as well. It is what it is. There will always be women who screen out men under a certain height. Live with it. But understand that height is just one element of a complex value system: personality, social power, etc. So find those first, and then immerse yourself in environments that accentuate your positive values. Then everything else happens from there. And as a final encouragement, I have dated women several inches taller than me and there hasn't been big problem, oth…
/r/seduction11/08/19 07:38 AM
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Whoosh
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:58 AM
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Yeah. But why male models?
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:33 AM
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No. The game is to develop yourself into the higher league man. Your way of thinking will always puts you into trickery and lower value.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:05 PM
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But why male models?
/r/seduction13/06/19 12:59 PM
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PUA is a bit like having a power that most don't. But how you do with it is up to you. I choose to use it to meet the love of my life.
/r/seduction26/05/19 06:06 AM
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Rationalizing never gives me the motivation. I have a simple technique called "three second rule": you see a beautiful woman you want to approach, count to 3 and just go. No thinking, no pickup line. Just "Hello I just want to say hi, and my name is..." Seriously if your body language is that if confidence and calm you will succeed most of the time.
/r/seduction14/10/18 05:04 AM
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Wow, to achieve such clarity in your age is very impressive! Good luck!
/r/seduction30/07/18 07:40 PM
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keep ya head up, buddy
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:34 AM
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Missing the point there, buddy.
/r/seduction06/02/18 04:47 PM
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As a short guy I really agree a lot with this video. Never dated much taller girls but I have no trouble attracting taller women. I tend to think of seduction as a collective of points. Sure, I may lose some points on height but I make up plenty with my wit, charisma, confidence, talents and intelligence. Also it has a lot to do with holding your frame. Basically your world view and self aesthetic is that you are an attractive mofo and while some women may initially disagree, after interacting w…
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:30 AM
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Not denying your view, but it actually confirms what the video is talking about too. If you take two guys equal in every way except their height and appearance, of course you are gonna want the better looking one. But hear comes the rub: men differ so much and the seduction process is so complicated that appearance matters very little overall.
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:25 AM
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Yeah, that's pretty sad when someone can't get the bigger picture of just improving oneself and transcend the game.
/r/seduction26/07/16 02:30 PM
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The more I think about it, the stronger the parallels: Sales, as with seduction, all have an ulterior motive: to close the sale, to take the woman home. And the client and the woman are very well aware of this motive. They actually seek it, but only if you show yourself to be a good match. And like women, clients know they are in the position to choose.
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:08 PM
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With seduction, you ask open ended, leading questions that her women to open up, feel more emotional with you. I feel that often with sales, the more I tell, the less they listen. This is very similar with women.
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:42 PM
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Nothing brings you closer than sharing a joke that others don't get.
/r/seduction17/11/14 04:15 PM
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not everything is shit test fuck sake. learn to listen to people. tone the fuck down.
/r/seduction20/09/14 09:03 PM
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I'm glad my little theory helps. Once again I have been too busy living life and practicing my game to post any update. I promise I will add more stuff on the Push Pull Theory soon. Probably more specific details and concrete methods. And likely some field reports as well. Stay tuned!
/r/seduction19/10/13 12:47 AM
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Exactly. To me seduction implies control and manipulation. Control both in the sense of yourself and her perception of you. On the other hand, I can't say if love necessarily means being vulnerable.. to me, being too vulnerable feels very naive. I suppose that's the contradiction. In seduction you try to control everything, while in love you feel out of control
/r/seduction31/07/13 06:08 AM
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Dude, you have A LOT of work to do, if you want to have any success with women with that mindset. First of all, stop the self-victimizing. Like the other guy said, no one, including women, can make if you feel anything if you don't allow them to. If you what's the main difference between a loser and a winner? A loser gives into his environment, while a winner actively tries to overcome it. I know if you have a lot of social programming done into you all these years to feel and think as you do. B…
/r/seduction02/07/13 10:06 PM
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Stop thinking that you are interrupting their fun. Instead that of all the amazing dance, conversation and sex you are going to give her. You are doing her a favor! Plus even if they all say that they are just here to have fun with their friends, deep down they want the thrill of having a wonderful guy giving them a wonderful night. It does great things for their ego, and if you create a great vibe and rapport with the whole group, her friends will actually feel proud of her for being picked by …
/r/seduction31/12/12 03:20 PM
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Look for happy hours or anything that's set in bars or clubs. These kinds of environment screen out most of the social awkward people.
/r/seduction31/12/12 06:00 AM
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I was out for around 4 hours. Approached around 5 to 6 girls.
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:19 AM
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Installed. Checking how good it is. Living in sf
/r/seduction12/11/12 12:17 AM
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Time to make your life mellow with some yellow
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:01 PM
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Well against my better judgment I continued to entangle myself with this girl. We had talked a lot, and made out a few more times (no sex, she stopped it all). She said she needed more time to sort out her emotions, and I played to emotional support the whole time. Tonight after not responding my text the whole night, I confronted her and asked her what's wrong. She sent me a lengthy text saying she didn't mean to play with my emotions, but she still loves her abusive boyfriend (go figure). She …
/r/seduction19/09/12 07:30 AM
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Thank you for your thoughtful response. I guess my major worry is to be used as an emotional tampon, bring her out of her depression just for her to date another guy later (typical rebound situations). In other words: how do I keep the balance between being supportive without being take for granted? An extra tidbit from last night. I posted up some pics of me having dinner on fb. She texted me asking about the dinner. Perhaps she's suspecting that I went on a date. I kept my answers pretty short…
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:45 PM
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I get that you are being funny, but a little more helpful advice will be appreciated. In fact, she always talks about how much she admires me (I showed her many things that I know), and she said I am a really good catch. The problem is that she doesn't think I really take her seriously, and that she is not completely over the bad experience yet (she IS over her ex. That's what she's told me.)
/r/seduction11/09/12 06:29 AM
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I wonder if it would be better, if you go on with your game with a swagger DESPITE that women don't show you interest? I agree that one's self worth is built over time through self actualization. Whereas it is common knowledge that assuming attraction often begets it, I feel that this assumption must come from your belief in yourself, not your history with women.
/r/seduction06/09/12 08:37 PM
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So you are basing your sense of self worth on how women view you? I'm sorry to say this, but that's pretty pathetic. The whole concept of being a man is to be self-determined. You are your own man with your own volition. Sure, having women showing interest feels good, but why should you live for it?
/r/seduction06/09/12 04:22 PM
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I really like the central message of this article, where confidence comes from the acceptance of oneself. My view of confidence takes on a cosmological perspective: I believe that we, as in the entire species, are insignificant in the grander, universal schemes of things. All of our social constructions of what make someone better than the other, are ultimately inconsequential. That girl over there who thinks she's better than you? She's but the same stardust from which you are made of. That dou…
/r/seduction04/09/12 06:38 PM
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Thanks for the all replies. You are right. I should cool it with this girl, and give her one more chance in a couple of weeks. Btw, I was not being needy when I kino'd her. I was rather debonaire about it. Also, I only contact her about twice a week. Whatever.
/r/seduction26/05/12 07:30 PM
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