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no u”re not a faggot don”t let anyone convince u otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 08:23 AM
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did u read ”when i say no i feel guilty” yet? you sound like u”ve never experienced trauma before. good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 07:19 AM
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why did u marry him in the 1st place? when u married a man who”s financially weaker than you, what else did u expect?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 07:04 AM
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oh u didn”t say it. ur paragraphs are too long, makes it confusing. i think u”re overthinking things. i think a little bit of dread from her is healthy.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 06:55 AM
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did someone not say 'sidebar' already? anyway NMMNG has a free online ebook. ​
/r/askMRP23/10/18 05:54 AM
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you said you do not love her anymore. do you have kids? why are you staying?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 05:23 AM
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good luck! glad to hear u”re moving on!
/r/askMRP23/10/18 01:41 AM
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This place is not for you. That’s bcoz u’re too weak. You need a strong stomach for insults if u want to stay here. But why the fuck do you want to be insulted day-in-day out in the first place? Why would anyone happy want to join fight club? So just GTFO or STFU and lift.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 12:33 AM
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i”m sad to hear ur wife doesn”t love you anymore. love dies. it happens. maybe she expected u to be white knight that saves her soul. maybe you expected her to be a unicorn. but when dreams fade this is what you face. let her go in ur mind. if you cling onto her, she”ll use you up until every single dime is squeezed out of you. u”re the beta buck now. gd luck. if u can take it, you can come back for more insults, ppl here will gladly dish it out to you. and most importantly, STFU and lift, faggo…
/r/askMRP22/10/18 02:06 AM
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thank you very much for the step by step guide.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 02:00 AM
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thx for ur reply. very inspiring!
/r/askMRP19/10/18 01:57 AM
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Thank you for your post
/r/askMRP18/10/18 10:57 AM
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good way to go man
/r/askMRP18/10/18 02:00 AM
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She said she wants u to go file for divorce. R u afraid of a divorce? Bro i’ve learnt so much here in MRP. The stay plan is the go plan. Maintain frame and improve urself. Treat ur wife’s tamtrums like a 2 year old’s tantrums. However, i dunno how to do it too, when my wife shouts at me i feel stressed and just go away and lift. But i still feel stressed the next day. Anyway good luck! I’ve got no real advice to offer, just want u to know u’re not alone in this.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 05:06 PM
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good luck bro. i”ve gone rambo since aug 2018 since reading up on red pill. maybe the anger was always in me. i”m trying to do something productive with it but don”t really know what will happen. i don”t know why we feel stuck with our wives,. there”s nothing physical bounding us. the worse that can happen is losing out physical possessions. and we aren”t our physical possessions.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 04:14 AM
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good luck bro, get well soon!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 04:06 AM
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I didn’t really wanted to hide it tbh. I didn’t know flair was (never received one) and i was clicking around in reddit settings and then i couldn’t put it back. Give the flair back to me and i’ll wear “bitch tits bob” like a badge, until u decide i’m no longer bit tits bob.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 03:01 AM
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Ok
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:58 AM
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Yes. I’ve tried to book my cheapest locat gym last night online but couldn’t, but will try again soon. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:57 AM
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No. She’s old and ugly.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:55 AM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:55 AM
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Ok thx i’ll do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 04:03 PM
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yes i was being a bitch, did nothing for years except whinning and hiding. i”ll join a gym soon, let me clear up some fog in my mind first.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 03:34 PM
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thank you. the stay plan is the go plan. thank you very much this is very enlightening.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 03:32 PM
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yes u can call me bitch tits bob if u want. i accept i”m mostly just a whinny bitch these days.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 03:30 PM
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great insight bro. however i think OP is either a troll or has some mental illness.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 03:28 PM
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maybe i”m stuck in my head. but everytime she screams i just want to leave. i”ve gone rambo, i don”t care about her feelings, just want to end it a.s.a.p.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 11:54 AM
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Thx. Yes u’re right.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 11:07 AM
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yes u”re right in every aspect. i have 2 maids btw
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 10:34 AM
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thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 10:30 AM
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OYS #4 My Mission: Train up physically and mentally so that I can have the strength to deal with marriage counselling / divorce in early december 2018. (need to wait due to an ongoing work project) Stats: 36 Years Old. 170 cm, 150 lbs, Married 8 years, 2 kids, ages 5 and 6, to 31 year old SAHM wife. Lifts / physical: Dumbbells only. ran 20 km and lifted several days. feeling better generally. Sidebar Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Way of the Superior Man, Sidebar materials (x3). Background: I discovered …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 09:25 AM
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wtf is this? u guys are so mean!
/r/askMRP10/10/18 06:28 AM
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are you even married? do u suffer from some genuine life threatening situation? or r u just a tourist leeching attention from the subs, like edward norton?
/r/askMRP10/10/18 06:25 AM
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Bitch tits bob stopped crying, joined fight club and became a space monkey. Then he died during a mission. Then Edward norton said “he died because of us, you understand that?” But ppl were ignoring him and chanting “people in project mayhem has no name, in death, he has a name, his name is Robert Paulson” Remember?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:27 PM
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If u say there’s no meaning to his suffering, then u haven’t read / understood viktor frankl’s book “man’s search for meaning”. Great book, would recommend to all.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:13 PM
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Sorry bro i don’t think push push push is the answer. I think u don’t really know what u want. I think u’re setting urself up for a lose-lose game, even if u win (push push push), u still lose (ur wife still doesn’t fuck u, u’ll still be unhappy for another 41 weeks) I don’t think lack of sleep is the problem. I think lack of meaningful work to plow through “despite the lack of sleep” is the problem. Let me try asking u again. What do u do for a living? Where do ur inhibitions come from? Ur post…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 04:58 PM
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What do u do for a living? Where do ur inhibitions come from? I think mine came from my father. I do the same technical job as my father because when i was choosing subject for uni, my dad persuaded me to change my mind. I was young and didn’t know better. Just 2 days ago my dad was telling me if i were to send my kids overseas to study, don’t send them to the united states coz they’d never come back. Takes a lot of effort to grow out of my inhibitors, i’m trying and failing but never again will…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 04:12 PM
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OP’s not sleeping coz he’s feeling so much stress. I don’t think toughening up is the answer to every problem, and it takes a lot of courage to feel too. I want to help OP coz his situation is very similar to mine. He’s stonewalling his wife now, which is no problem if he’s actively planning to next his wife, but he’s not. He’s at OYS week 41, u guys are turning him into a grey stone and a psychopath. It’s not helping him. My take on this is he needs to feel his sadness, feel his disappointments…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 03:39 PM
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It’s about a taking a front seat at life and expressing ur emotions through work, so much so that reality rips apart and you deeply move another human soul. And about not afraid of making mistakes when doing it. I’m glad i met u here bro, and really hope you get it. It’s not about a bloke playing an instrument, not at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 02:20 PM
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hi bro, i saw this on youtube last night https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=u1_KOJ8h9qY i felt so much passion i cried. today i went to work and i understood what i was doing, or i understood my ”mission”. i”m engaged with work today so maybe i”ll share more in OYS later. but watch it and see if u understand what i mean. good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 10:23 AM
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I agree. OP is like a text book bluepill.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 08:53 AM
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Same here. That’s why i read mrp every single day to help myself stay awake. I’m still in ramboville. It’s a much harsher reality here, but at least when life hits me, i hit back. I still get knocked out a lot, but i’ve learned concepts like grey stone and rope a dope, so at least i’m toughening up now. Anyway time for me to quit bitching and lift. C u in OYS. (Or not, if u dun have it in u)
/r/askMRP06/10/18 08:51 AM
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i”m so sorry to hear ur son died of cancer. i”ve a young son too i can totally understand why u feel depressed. that said, if u ask questions without doing OYS the benefits are very limited.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 01:20 PM
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hi bro, there”s no short cut to this. u need to lift/sidebar, read books, hold frame, then review ur process on OYS with ppl torching you week after week after week. then gradually u”ll become stronger. and u”ll start to have the strength to do whatever the fuck u want, to go on ur own mission.
/r/askMRP04/10/18 08:44 AM
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hi bro, glad to see u finally butting heads with ur shit. it”s a vast improvement, staring directly at it instead of shoving it to the back of ur mind. i have the same fears as u. they are legitimate fears. but ur fears should be goalposts to be overcome, not ur defining features. last week i went to a seminar about divorcing with kids. i felt vibrant for 2 hrs. asked many questions, and went up to thank the speaker (she was a divorce judge). i”m not getting a divorce yet, but i need to know wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 02:55 AM
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”The challenge is.. the wife makes this sound "normal" and I'm making a big deal out of it” how is this normal if this is NOT what u want? i thought holding frame means u determine ur own reality. she can make the deadbedroom sound whatever she wants. it”s not normal TO YOU, and that”s what matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 09:28 AM
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don”t get discouraged if u get tourched. i read ur last ”menopause” post, many ppl gave u concerned trolling. but remember, none of our opinions matter, unless it reflects something real to u.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 09:15 AM
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yes and examine ur fears one by one, form action plans to lessen the fears, or at least confront the fears regularly.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 09:05 AM
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from what you said, you're less than roommates with ur wife. i still don't understand why u're planning to stay for another 15 months. ​ what are your fears?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 06:50 AM
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don”t proceed with counselling. why would u want to become beta again? consult a lawyer a.s.a.p. and get the papers done. ur marriage won”t last. how do u feel about being a beta mate guarder for the next 10, 20 years? waiting outside a club when she grinds chad? just don”t do it mate. do it now when u don”t have kids. also hysterical bonding is real so no backsliding.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 02:14 AM
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if u want good answers, u need to give more particulars abt urself. have u read sidebar / NMMNG? DYEL? how does ur gf shit test u, how do u hold frame? what lv of dread r u on?
/r/askMRP03/10/18 02:08 AM
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and that”s some badass OYS bro. keep it up! 15 months is good enough. i dunno abt u, but the biggest fear for me is backsliding, not unhappiness. how are u working ur levels of dread? can u give particulars as to which level u are at, what did u do specifically to dish out the dread, and what was her resistence / response / shit test, and how did u hold frame etc? u review ur shit with us here so when u confront her again ur skills get better, and u don”t get KO as easily.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 01:54 AM
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U sound like u’re in a dead end. But u also sound like u’re not looking for a way out. What’s ur real shot for happiness in the next 12 months? What sort of sickness is she in? Is it terminal? Do u think she’s ur personal cross to bear? Are you willing to spend the rest of ur life with her, as long as she lives? Are you staying due to Fear, Obligation or Guilt? (FOG)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 06:09 PM
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Hi bro, what’s your current status and goals for ur relationship? U said ghosting ur wife 2 weeks ago. Any updates? Btw, ur lifting isn’t ur shit, it is ur strength. It just helps u deal with ur shit. So u haven’t done own ur shit this week yet except for the last 3 lines IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 04:48 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 04:28 PM
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Time for me to quit being a whinny bitch and start lifting now. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 01:53 PM
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i don”t feel depressed. when i”m left alone / when i go out with the kids without the wife, i”m perfectly happy. i feel angry / unhappy only after i”m with wife. i want to feel the maximum unhappiness about my wife NOW, so i can stop delaying the divorce. i fear BACKSLIDING much more than unhappiness / depression. my greatest fear is becoming stuck in a sexless / unhappy marriage for 8 more years, not depression.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 01:38 PM
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OYS #3 My Mission: Train up physically and mentally, so that I can have the strength to deal with marriage counselling / divorce in early december 2018. (need to wait due to an ongoing work project) Stats: 36 Years Old. 170 cm, 150 lbs, Married 8 years, 2 kids, ages 5 and 6, to 31 year old SAHM wife. Lifts: Dumbbells only Sidebar Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Way of the Superior Man, Sidebar materials (x3). Background: I discovered RP in aug 2018. I’ve gone through a roller coaster ride in emotions. I”v…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 12:39 PM
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Good job man ur story’s very encouraging.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 02:27 AM
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Well said bro
/r/askMRP28/09/18 11:28 PM
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Yes i’m doing that as often as i can thx.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 11:10 PM
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thanks
/r/askMRP28/09/18 08:38 AM
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no she doesn”t physically harm the kids. the worst she did was a slap in the arm (more to get the kids to listen up then to hit them). she sometimes gets angry and frustrated when trying to teach the kids, and offload her worries in a verbal diarrhea. it”s too much for my kids to handle emotionally at times so i have to step in.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 11:23 PM
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yes i would walk away, but when wife shouts at the kids sometimes it”s diffcult to just leave. sometimes i need to physically stand between wife and kid and act as human shield.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 12:11 PM
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ok
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 11:01 AM
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OYS #2 My Mission: Train up physically and mentally, so that I can choose whether to leave or stay in 2 ½ months’ time. Stats: 36 Years Old. 170 cm, 150 lbs, Married 8 years, 2 kids, ages 5 and 6, to 31 year old SAHM wife. Lifts: Dumbbells only Sidebar Read: Way of the Superior Man, Sidebar materials (x3). Background: I discovered RP 6 weeks ago. I’ve gone through a roller coaster ride in emotions. Sometimes I feel I want a divorce a.s.a.p. Sometimes I want to drag it out. Why I’m Here: Dead bed…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 06:22 AM
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thanks for the concern. i don”t want to harm myself. i want to feel the raw physical pain so i stay angry and motivated.
/r/askMRP27/09/18 05:30 AM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP26/09/18 06:47 PM
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Yes. I need to feel the muscle pain from lifting.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:14 AM
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Yes i agree.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:12 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:11 AM
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Domestic violence (or threat of it) should be an absolute deal breaker. GTFO and good luck! I’m 100% sure u’ll get past this as a stronger person.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:07 AM
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“Review - I made mistakes. I communicated the Captain/FO model overtly in a way that was not persuasive. Mitw suggests that I should have done so with actions. ” The first rule about fight club is you do not talk about fight club. The second rule about fight club is you DO NOT talk about fight club.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 03:09 PM
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yes TRP is the answer. and believe me i”ve been looking for answers for a very long time.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 02:34 PM
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hang in there bro!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 09:51 AM
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yes that”s what i think too.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 09:50 AM
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thank you
/r/askMRP25/09/18 05:44 AM
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Yes, but physical pain itself is such a good motivator! I ran faster after i punched myself in the arm just now, when i felt i was slacking off.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 02:56 AM
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Guys i’ll reveal a little more abt myself. 6 Years ago i studied a 2 year part time masters degree in psychological counseling. Back then I thought i was the problem, my pregnant wife would change or whatever. My supervisor (also doing psychological counselling on me in a way) told me to learn to build an invisible wall when my wife nags me. Fast forward 3 years. 3 year ago i was with wife in couples counseling. Counselor suggested i should try to fix the marriage because keeping 2 houlsholds af…
/r/askMRP25/09/18 02:50 AM
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Do u even lift bro?
/r/askMRP24/09/18 11:47 PM
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No kids? No problem. Next!
/r/askMRP24/09/18 11:45 PM
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u”re not married and don”t have kids. what”s stopping u from demoting ur LTR to a plate or a FWB? just don”t get her pregnant, that”s all. btw u don”t belong to askMARRIEDredpill. repost ur question in askTHEredpill.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 03:12 AM
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i disagree ur “smv is 2x or 3x to hers“. i think she has ur balls. (asking u what custody u want - meaning she can leave u anytime and ask for child maintenance). i think SHE has put YOU on dread lv 10, not the otherway round. and u still have ONEITIS. so she owns u big time. gd luck unplugging bro.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 02:59 AM
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this is such a good reply. OP don”t ignore it if u”re serious abt improving urself. What are ur answers?
/r/askMRP24/09/18 02:48 AM
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u need to figure out what YOU want first. do u want to spin plates or a LTR or both? and u want to not hurt her? she”s always gonna feel hurt if u fuck other women. if u REALLY want to fuck other women, why not do it earlier in the relationship? so thay she can stay out of the kitchen if she can”t take the heat.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 12:04 AM
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i don”t understand. why are you concerned? is it a red flag in the relationship? if she pays u compliments just enjoy it? does it even matter whether it”s genuine or not?
/r/askMRP22/09/18 11:58 PM
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thanks
/r/askMRP22/09/18 12:29 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP21/09/18 11:54 PM
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Thanks for the support. Now i know have to find my own mission and complete it despite having a screaming cunt has a wife. I used to try wait for her to change, but now i’m just trainning up myself to become physically and emotionally stronger and see what happens. If she stays fucked up that’s fine too, i’ll live perfectly happy as a divorced father.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/18 11:53 PM
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Yes this is RP 101. Dun be lazy and read up. Bottom line is, can u be confident enought to live for ur own mission with or without ur wife? If think u can never live without ur wife, then u better cut out ur own balls and serve them to her on a plate.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 11:44 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:15 PM
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thanks
/r/askMRP21/09/18 10:25 AM
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Background: Age 36, 1.7m 150lbs, Married 8 yrs, together 10, 2kids: 5, 6 Unplugged in Aug. (newbie) Physical: Jogged 4 times last week, average 8 k.m. per time. lifting every other day with dumbbells only. some brother here suggested running is for skinny faggots, so trying to run less and lift more, but old habits are difficult to break. i sleep much better after a run, but i feel shoulder and neck pain after lifting. considering joining a gym, but my finances is a pile of shit now so maybe lat…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/18 06:51 AM
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thanks
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:23 AM
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good point thx
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:21 AM
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bro i liked ur previous post abt setting boundaries. i think u just slip up this time, as long as u were aware u entered her frame u”ll hold frame stronger next time.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:16 AM
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found the post thx.
/r/askMRP18/09/18 02:06 AM
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STFU whinner! cut loss, lift/sidebar. grow some balls. is she the best u can get? really? go on and sign a marriage coontract because u don”t wanna lose the money paid for vacation /ring?
/r/askMRP14/09/18 05:31 AM
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if u stay in this job, eventually all ur life force will be sucked out until u become a walking zombie. sure ur bills get paid, but whatever. good luck, faggot.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 05:06 AM
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