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METArunway/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 08:54 PM
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DISCUSSIONrunway/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 10:56 PM
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Why are you with someone long enough to constantly be lied to? What went wrong in the vetting process? Arch had a great comment the other day that you might get some use out of. Don't confront him about his lies. Don't point them out to him. Simply tell him that things aren't working out, you're not feeling it, it's over. Since he's not a woman, he probably won't get dramatic about it and it'll be a clean break. He can go lie to some other girl. If he does get dramatic, thank your lucky stars yo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 03:28 PM
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Either choice would insult him. I couldn't win. "Babe, I love you and I'll love whichever ring you want me to have." Then let him make the unwinable choice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 03:06 PM
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I thought this was gonna be about a different wall. I was like, did RPW get political while I was gone? Great post, Sadie!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 06:55 PM
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I bought a cookie press and now I make perfectly formed sugar cookies and everyone I know is getting cookies for every major holiday until I get bored of this. Oh my God. This is the easiest thing in the world to use. Just add food coloring and you can make little green trees or blue snowflakes or pink hearts or whatever disc design there is! I even took excess cookie dough in different colors, rolled it all together and made multi colored fall leaves. I dye the dough because I lack the artistic…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 03:40 AM
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Exactly. I think maybe they think if she went to Cancun for spring break, she obviously had sex. That's a fair judgement call. But, yeah. I'm upper middle class and I've been around the world without my parents and I managed not to fall on a penis in each country/state I went to.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 05:51 PM
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TRP's opinions of rape are irrelevant to rape victims (and RPW and women in general).
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 04:54 PM
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No, not if asked. The general theme of the comments in this thread are "I've never been asked" or "I don't want to know." To say it's telling that women don't share it, well... if they're not being asked, when do they volunteer that information?
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 03:43 AM
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LOL - I just have to laugh when I see these bullet lists of slut tells. Some of them I can see a correlation, but others? Traveling anywhere without her parents? That just seems so out of left field to me.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 12:44 AM
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We'll agree to disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 08:04 PM
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Okay. Real talk: I'm not reading this entire comment because you're hung up this alpha widow business that has nothing to do with what I'm asking you about or even talking about. So we're just gonna have let this thread conclude.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 06:43 PM
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I'm only asking you how guys find out a girl is lying. But, regarding the rest of your comment, assuming you don't edit it 5 times, I just have a hard time following your logic. Why would any girl lie to snag a guy 3-5 points lower than the highest SMV she's been with or could get?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:44 PM
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Okay, what are some other actual ways guys discover the truth? your hamster is acting like lying solves the problem. it doesn't. What are you talking about?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:25 PM
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Hmm. What other hypothetical ways do guys discover the truth? Edit: Try to stay on one topic. Jesus.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:20 PM
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I see you people talking about when having sex, but is RPW mentioning anything about being good at sex? It's a great tool to assert commitment. Do Alpha TRP men who want to marry/commit to virgins or low n-count women expect those women to be good/great at sex the first (few) time(s)?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 02:54 PM
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I think it's sweet that you want to fix marriage 1.0. Unsolicited tip: try not to swear so much in your write up.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 08:48 PM
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Average courting is 5 years?!
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 08:36 PM
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Hmm. Okay. Maybe we have different definitions of the word hypergamy and that's why we're not understanding each other. btw, i don't know who downvoted you. I love all of my haters and they know it. 😘
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 08:03 PM
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A woman hopping from a yacht to a dingy is an example of hypergamy?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 07:31 PM
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I'm just trying to direct you to the conclusion that hypergamy isn't bad, as /u/the-capitan claimed, it just is.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:17 PM
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What do you mean? Entering his frame is simply allowing him to make the choice. You tell him what you want with no condition attached to it and see what happens.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 02:58 PM
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I mean, that's pretty close to how I imagined it. OP, make sure to have any weaponry pre-staged for easy access in case you don't get the answer you want. Walking away doesn't mean you can't have a little fun. "Babe, I love you so much. Today was perfect. I want every day to be like this. I want us to be exclusive. I don't like the idea of you with other girls." "I just can't commit to you like that..." "Wrong. Answer."
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 04:04 PM
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They call me bubbles 'cause I'm always rising to the top.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 05:06 AM
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Yeah... I don't know that she has to work the same kind of dread. I have a lot of manipulative ideas, but, really, some things don't need to be this complicated. OP, just enter his frame and be direct. After a particularly good day with him or after sex or whatever, just tell him, "I'm not comfortable with you seeing other girls and I would like us to be exclusive." But. Be prepared to walk if you don't get the answer you want.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 05:04 AM
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Hang on. Before I launch into something on the fly here, I want to back up and make sure I understand the premise of a few things. When a man dreads a woman, isn't he dreading her to get her hamster going? Omg, he's seeing someone else, why is he acting like this, I need to turn it up if I want to keep him. I think that's what's she's asking about, with the sexes flipped.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 04:06 AM
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I'm totally angry, if you are wondering, because your advice is mostly evil, as it promulgates negative tendencies. Hey, we don't go into the TRP locker room and complain about your methods (and if we do, we're promptly shown the door). Don't come in our kitchen and rage about our advice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:15 PM
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K.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 04:36 PM
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Assuming all you say, if evolution taught women to lie, it should also have taught men to ferret out those lies. Yet here 200,000+ men sit, needing TRP to explain to them why and how women are awful liars because they couldn't intuitively ferret out that manipulation. Additionally, they look at BP men with a sadness. Why can't those BP men see what we see? How do we make our BP buddies take the Red Pill? Why don't they want to hear that women are an awful, manipulative sex? You are also ignoring…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 02:12 AM
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OMG. Don't tempt me. I just have a few notes written down on How To Lie Effectively. The holidays are coming, I just don't have time to write 5,000+ TRP lurking trigger words.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 08:31 PM
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Careful. The last time amoral sexual strategy was discussed here (same exact topic, lying about the n count), I was called a sh-ty person and a psychopath. In addition, it was conveyed that anyone lying about their n count is akin to a murderer, rapist, and any number of other socially unacceptable behaviors (like being an alcoholic). The Red Pill teaches men to mislead and/or flat out lie about who they are to get sex, but somehow women doing the same to secure commitment is unspeakable. Do ref…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 04:21 PM
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If you’ve only known this group of girls for two weeks, are they really your friends? Maybe acquaintances? If that’s the case, who cares what they think of your boyfriend? If they are closer friends - and I mean real girlfriends who you can talk to about anything because those are the girls in your life who you know and who know you and you would do well to cultivate and keep those relationships in your life - I have some thoughts that I’ve curated over just being around on this planet for 30+ y…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/16 06:03 AM
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Admitting you have a problem is the first step! You’re still young. I think that, for most people, selfishness is something you age out of, for the most part. As you get older you might find that realizing you have more to lose in life will temper or alter how you react to things. One day, when you’ve made set plans with someone you love and they just don’t show up, your response won’t be, “WTF?, I was so looking forward to this, I’m so disappointed and bummed now!” It might be closer to, “OMG, …
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 05:37 PM
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Rollo's negativity triggers me. MODS!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 02:51 AM
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Short of murder, rape is the worst thing a man can do to a woman. It is a violation that exceeds any other. It makes me physically ill to think about. The casual way feminists throw the word around these days just … I lack the words to express that frustration. If he looks at you that way, he’s eye raped you. No. Can we not dilute our words? That said, I’m all for passing judgement on those who don’t take responsibility for their actions. When women dress and act a certain way and blur the conse…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 10:29 PM
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You can draw your own conclusions from this anecdote. That men are [secretly?] ooey gooey betas, deep down inside?
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/16 05:21 AM
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A love with an allowance to be emotional or vulnerable. I guess I just thought it was more complicated than that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 01:13 AM
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Oh.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 07:57 PM
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I just read this and have 20+ more questions. But really, I just want you to expand more on what men's ideal love is: As nice as it would be to relax, trust and be vulnerable, upfront, rational and open, the great abyss is still the lack of an ability for women to love Men as Men would like them to. How do men want women to love them? Edit: If you already have and I just haven't found that post, please share.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 06:45 PM
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Oh.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 02:06 PM
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Yeah - I only ever respond to PMs from other RPW (or users who have RP comment histories). Everyone else gets ignored or reported. Some guys are weird or just plain rude (one called me a psychopath! rude!).
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 05:27 AM
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Yeah. The whole thing is ridiculous. Up until this year, I never really deviated from the default subs/front page of Reddit. Until r/the_donald took over the front page, leading me to TRP, among other subs, I had no idea that subreddit drama was a thing or the amount of hateful and vitriolic and sad things that go on beneath the surface of Reddit. For nearly 9 years I have been a blissfully unaware Redditor, reading the front page and the occasional funny comment chain. I was reading in another …
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 01:20 AM
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You're avoiding and rephrasing. I just don't have the energy to get into this with someone who's being too emotional and accusatory.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 07:04 PM
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You're making a lot of very vehement accusations and assumptions about what I supposedly oppose. I was simply asking if it's he who wants to end the relationship - a relationship, if we accept the Red Pill model of how those relationships work - what you think she walks away with if he made most/all of the decisions/purchases/had all of the power in their relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 06:21 PM
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If it is just a personal relationship, well each goes on with their life, taking whatever possessions they personally bought, and they go and find another relationship. If it is a marriage, then the woman benefits from state-sanctioned theft, essentially. She is rewarded for breaking it up. What if he wants to break it up?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 05:34 PM
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That's for voting!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 04:39 PM
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But it wasn't until I raised the point that it wasn't fair for me to give him children--at the cost of my physical beauty that would attract other men should our union not work out--if we were not legally married. He can't have his cake and eat it too. Is it only childbirth that steals a woman's beauty?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 03:52 AM
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That's very sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 03:10 AM
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I like the word equitable.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 11:34 PM
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Was your father amused when he read the card? Of course. It was funny.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 02:00 PM
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You mean ideal men don't materialize on front doorsteps? Idk. Maybe friends will introduce us. All of my married friends met their husbands either back in HS, online, at a bar, at work, so there's no real pattern it seems. One day it'll just happen!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 01:54 PM
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Aww. Yeah, I think I'm pretty responsible out of necessity*, but I wouldn't mind giving up responsibilities to someone competent enough. *Though I did once give my dad a father's day card that said, "Thanks for supporting me financially so I can be an independent woman," so my level of responsibleness is open for debate.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 05:24 AM
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Hmm. Excessive drinking/smoking. I don't drink, so if he's going to get drunk a lot it's probably not gonna work out. And if he gets mean when he drinks? Yeah, no. But if he gets fun and/or introspective, maybe. Moderate to conservative views. Taller than me, 5'4, for ballroom dancing, naturally. He has to sleep on the right side of the bed. Can't be allergic to Chloe perfume (if I can't wear my favorite perfume for the rest of my life, idk how this is gonna work out). He has to be a good defens…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 04:44 AM
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:D
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 02:30 PM
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Are you saying my ideas are bad?!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 02:10 PM
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You are off the pep squad!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 01:23 PM
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"Mr. Hall, how can I answer that? The topic is Haiti and she's talking about some little party."
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 01:18 AM
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But deep down inside, they're still beta losers and the first RPW to come along will melt their red pill heart.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 03:43 PM
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While I totally agree with this, fortunately I have never posted about feminism (or actually any kind of social opinion) on social media. Wonderful. My comment was mostly a hyperbolic response to FRedington's completely and utterly pointless comment. it's more of an awareness thing - now that I'm aware of RPW and know the kind of relationship I want, I know what the best version of myself looks like, and I just have to try to get there. Yesss. Now go forth and live the gospel of the Red Pill.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 04:36 AM
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This is insightful advice, OP! Take a note! People are incapable of changing who they are, so whatever new RPW persona you're assuming will be considered fake by anyone who knew the old you. (All those alphas on TRP who used to be betas are still betas deep down inside and we all know it. You're either born an alpha or you're a cucked beta forever. This is the deep dark secret of every man who needs TRP.) Women are just not allowed to go through a feminist phase without it being a deal breaker. …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 10:59 PM
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I’m gonna start charging for pep talks. Is there hope? Of course! I’m going to tell you what a lot of people PM’d me after my initial RPW post that was basically 5,000 words of woe is meeeee: TRP has, what?, 200,000 subscribers? 200,000 males 18-25 of which, maybe 80-90% won’t do anything with their lives. The other 10% who internalize the truth are too young for you anyway. The rest of the world is still blue pill with varying shades of purple. If you’re cute and feminine and know what you want…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 09:55 PM
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I have heard people explicitly say that divorces happen all the time, but you'll always have your children. I don't know that it's just an expression of love, with some. I honestly don't understand the logic behind this statement, because it's not one with which I've ever agreed. And, unfortunately, having to explain that putting children first at the expense of a marriage is, in fact, not putting children first, is too complex a thought for the type of person who says, "Divorces happen all the …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 04:04 AM
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That doesn't really seem like a conscious decision though. I'm skeptical that people who explicitly say, "Children come first!" also think, "I'm not going to appreciate my husband!" Which is why I don't understand the context someone would say, "Children come first in marriage!" Like, I don't think the person who says that understands what they're really saying. I think maybe they're intending to say, "I love my kids so much." And there's nothing wrong that on its own. The mom who stays up to he…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 03:32 AM
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It's really hard to know how a man should love a woman if you don't grow up seeing it Ugh. That is so sad to think about. :(
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 02:22 AM
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Many years ago, I read this book - a collection of essays - titled Things I Learned About My Father In Therapy. It was a collection of essays and stories by women (and some men) about their husbands becoming fathers and interacting with their kid(s) at different stages in life or they wrote about their own fathers and the effects their fathers had on them. There was one essay - and I wish I could find my copy of this book to get the details right, but I can’t - by a woman who wrote the most amaz…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 01:52 AM
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So, I have a question. I don't have children or a husband, so I really don't know and this is a sincere question: What kinds of things do parents put children over their marriage for? Like, in what scenario does someone say, "I'm picking my kid over my spouse" on this? "My children always come first." What does that mean? What does that even look like in practice?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 12:38 AM
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Upvote for the Socratic method.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 07:17 PM
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I was looking for a good reaction gif when you deleted your original comment! We just talked about this!!! Edit: I have a verified email, so your original reply was emailed to me. :P I'm confused. I thought it wasn't personal, you daddy's girl. However, I'll agree to leave my future awfully phrased comments undeleted, so mean daddy's girls like you can mock them all you want, on the condition that you guess what kind of weddings my friends chose and choose to have. Legal contracts or extravagant…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 04:30 PM
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Do that. But also try to see that I'm just giving you a hard time - it's not personal. When some anonymous girl on the internet goes "agree & amplify" on you, you don't need to delete your comment in shame. You gave my joke very little context for future readers. It's like you don't care about me at all! :( We'll have you shutting down shit tests in no time! You just gotta focus!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 03:41 PM
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Gosh, I just have to ask: Did those good wives your friends are married to want weddings? Or did they insist on just a courthouse affair?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 11:53 PM
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lying about the truth to hide her flaws that she isn't proud of. Like how loser beta guys don't open with, "Hey, I'm a loser beta who has to read about how to be a man and get laid on Reddit, sup?"
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 04:42 PM
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Did we stop doing these? I feel like it's been forever. I stopped taking pictures every time I made something new. I think the last thing I made was a bunless burger when my friend said, "Hey let's do Keto," and I said, "Okay, but just this once." Can't live in a world without carbs, sorry. But I did put some past stuff in an album though.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 03:18 PM
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She said she wanted to do something like that for him! It was either that or a sock bunny. Edit: Further, it’s only disingenuous, maybe!, to us because we know where her idea came from. He isn’t going to know. It’s disingenuous if she’s only going through the motions. If she likes the idea and the things she writes and keeps are sincere and honest, then it’s still a true reflection and expression of her. Her finance doesn’t have a monopoly on journal keepsakes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/16 03:43 PM
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Well, you have to do the same thing for him now. Buy a nice leather bound journal and tape movie tickets or whatever inside, write down song lyrics, doodles, micro poems, expressions of your love as you think of them, tape down polaroids, did he say something funny or profound? write it down with a note, "oh, you said the funniest thing the other day - it's been making me laugh all week when I think about it." And when he gives you his journal and you accept it, surprised and eager to go through…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/16 05:21 AM
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Ballroom dancing?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/16 01:44 PM
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Oh, I’m very expressive. My mom and several friends have commented on it at times. I don’t have a poker face. I’ve made faces in the mirror to see what I look like when I make certain faces, but I don’t know that I ”practice” facial expressions. I can’t practice a natural reaction.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/16 03:20 AM
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And I pointed out to VRR how he glossed over half of her post, like you seemed to have as well. Wanting a wedding and wanting a marriage are not mutually exclusive and the OP is aware.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 07:57 PM
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You are excited to read the end of the chapter only, but not the whole chapter first--not great. Who's talking about just reading the end of the chapter though?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 07:39 PM
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Sorry, I can't always modulate my inner excitement. Sometimes it just expresses itself as hyper focus. I prefer the term passionate instead of obsessed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 07:32 PM
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Oh. Okay. I didn't know milestones and the journey of life were mutually exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 06:49 PM
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Well. You could've expanded on what you meant without the accusatory questions and wild assumptions, but hey - no hard feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 06:47 PM
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What did I say earlier? Say one more negative thing... CARE. BEAR. STAAAAAARE!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 02:02 PM
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I’m sorry I struck a nerve, Sean. Looking forward to things in life in no way means that people aren’t happy with what they have or where they are now. Sometimes people look forward to rain in the forecast when it’s been dry all summer. Oh! A storm! What a perfect day to stay in and watch old movies! Or sit in the backyard and watch the lightning and listen to the thunder. I’ll have you know, I can romanticize the hell out of anything - even the boring and mundane. No one is asking you to keep e…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 01:59 PM
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So... commitment is...? What? Monotony and boredom? What? Wanting to go through the stages of life is a red flag? Marriage, house, kids, promotions, anniversaries, trips, loving one man forever, sharing a life wth someone... All signs a girl can't be trusted?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 10:43 AM
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Ugh, right? Girls who want weddings are the worst! Avoid those women like the plague, Mr. Hayek! Next! AWALT amirite?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 10:29 AM
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Be the woman he can't let get away and wants to marry. ... If a man develops even the perception that his GF is pushing for marriage for external reasons such as pressure from her peers or family, this can become a huge repellent factor in a man's mind. Okay. Yes. I understand what you're saying. OP, you can obsess all you want about your wedding, but keep it to yourself, Pinterest, and maybe us here at RPW. Men have their locker room talk, girls have their Pinterest talk. He doesn't need to kno…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 03:38 AM
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Everyone's baffled? Why do they care? The next time someone starts running their mouth about your living situation, you just say, "Shhh... shhh... It's okay. You do not have to worry about this, I will carry this weight for you. It's going to be okay. I promise." Oh, married life! I wonder what that'll be like. I love living alone so much. Maybe I can marry someone who's never really home. Like, a pilot or a National Geographic photographer or war correspondent... Hmm. Edit: a letter
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 03:00 AM
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You're just being a fun ruiner then. Girl wants to get married and have a committed relationship with a man she's in love with and have a ceremony to mark that occasion and you just want to rain on the parade of love and commitment with, "Eh. It baffles me that you don't agree with me that ceremonies don't do anything." Dude. They don't do anything for you. Let her plan her wedding on Pinterest. Let her get caught up in the excitement of her friends also getting married. She's allowed to live vi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 11:18 PM
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Do you think all ceremonies are pointless or just weddings?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 10:51 PM
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Her post also noted: It's just I am looking for what is next. We have very openly talked about marriage and having children. I have tried to ask roughly when he wants these things and he just said not yet and that he's not ready. I'm just starting to worry that it is something he doesn't want, or whether he doesn't think I am the right person. It's probably just me over thinking as I know he loves me and doesn't see a future without me. And But it's not just this, I am looking forward to the com…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 10:38 PM
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Why is that an "or" question?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 09:31 PM
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Ugh. Being excited about marking the stages of life with people you love. Makes no sense! Women!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 09:00 PM
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One of our awesome Mods has compiled a handy list of RPW-esque stuff in the sidebar: but you can click this handy link!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 05:45 PM
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Future nostalgia post!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 05:34 PM
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Idk. And, honestly, the voice I hear in my head doesn't sound as high as the recordings I hear of my voice (which I assume is how others would hear me). It's weird.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 03:39 AM
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Ugh! My voice. I sound like a child. Like, my voicemail at work might as well say, "Please trust me with important stuff even though I'm outside playing on my slip'n'slide!" If I could find a happy medium between my own voice and, say, Chanel #3, I'd sound more like an adult.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 03:05 AM
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This sub needs a group hug.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 03:42 AM
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xoxo
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 03:47 PM
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I remember skimming your post/comments. A lot of others have posted similar intro posts, so know that there's real empathy for you here. You were given a lot of advice and perspective and I can tell by your comments and attitude that you're smart enough to take the best of what applies to you and use it to be better. I love that you're optimistic!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 03:20 AM
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It feels like I'm doing everything right, being realistic, but not seeing any results. That is going to happen in life, relationships, jobs and friendships and anything, really. Don't let that get you down or discourage you. Don't let it diminish your feminine sparkle! Stay open and available to people that enter your life. You gave some sound advice to someone else a while back so I know you have a good head on your shoulders. I see good things for you!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 02:46 AM
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Let's let the men worry about thinking!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 02:31 AM
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The only part that I disagree on is that new ideas aren't feminine (or you could give more details of what kind of ideas youre referring to) Some of my post was a bit cheeky and hyperbolic to sort of poke fun at ourselves and how others view traditional Red Pill ideas. It was supposed to be upbeat 'cause it's a pep talk!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 10:30 PM
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Heh. Well. You kinda have to take Edward’s sexual suppression in the context of the author and the intended audience. Meyer’s a good Mormon girl who probably loved Bronte (hence Bella’s reading Wuthering Heights, which bears some similarities between Heathcliff and Edward) and Edward goes into some of why he is the way he is in Eclipse. He did not grow up in a sexual revolution; he grew up in a more chaste world. His vampire family isn’t promiscuous - they’re all paired off with their complement…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 05:45 AM
3

I’ll defend Bella Swan. I’ll pre-empt this with the caveat that this was a fictional story not grounded in any reality so discussing it in terms of sexual strategy is pointless, but whatever. It’s Friday. Bella Swan does not “wait around” for her love to save her. She wasn’t even looking for romance when she moved to Forks. Her mom, on husband number whatever, was hitting the road with her new man, so Bella goes to live with her father in the Pacific Northwest where it’s cold and rainy and peopl…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 09:10 PM
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Do you think being bashful and avoidant of physical intimacy and requiring a long(er) time to feel comfortable with the idea of being intimate with a guy is a negative thing? Nope.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 03:54 PM
2

We're glad you're here! If you must, print out my comment and tape it to the mirror for your morning pep talk! Parenthetically, after reading some of the other comments here, I'd like to add that you hit the pause button on getting more tattoos - especially a sleeve tattoo. If you marry a guy who loves them, then you can get one later. Stick with the ink you have. While some guys like tattoos, those same men like girls without tattoos too. Why self select out of a larger pool of guys? Xoxo
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 10:22 PM
6

Well, Loveable, you’ve come to the right place. How lucky are you that at 23 you’ve found the honesty and common sense of The Red Pill? Here is a sexual and social strategy designed to get you what you want. You’ve only been reading for a few days, so I suggest you keep reading. Fortunately for you, a little self awareness goes a long way. You’re already aware of the effects of your relationship with your father, you’re working on your depression, and you’ve got plans to start shedding those ext…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 12:50 AM
2

Out of curiosity, how old are you two and how long have you been together? Why can't you hang out with them? Oh, he's catching up with an old friend? You'd love to meet her! She's a conduit to his past, you his future. Why shouldn't the two of you know each other? Is she his friend who's interested in his whole life (which includes you) or a girl who's just interested in him?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 02:31 AM
0

I don't think we are at a level where he would choose to be in a relationship with someone who dictates who he can be friends with since he doesn't see anything wrong. I think we can all agree that no one should dictate who anyone can be friends with. I was surprised you gave him an ultimatum but I totally understand why. I would feel the same way you're feeling if I were in your shoes. As I interpret the advice repeatedly given within TRP, we don't dictate who should be friends with who. But if…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/16 04:35 AM
3

Having an ex in the picture has always been a deal breaker for me and I told him that. I wish I had known how much power she had before I entered this relationship and let myself love him. Am I in the wrong? Is this wrong of me to ask? I just know myself and I know if she continues to be in his life then I can't be. I can't spend years with a person and have them go run off and catch up with an ex. I can't get married to someone and have an ex be at the wedding. I can't have kids and have my kid…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 11:17 PM
3

I have no experience with this. I can only think about what I would do/say if I were in your position. I’m a non-competitive introvert with a tiny but intense jealous streak. So, if I were in your position, the next time he leaves you to hang out and catch up with her, I’d say (in person), “[Boyfriend], I love you. I do. I’m sure of it. I love hearing about your day because I love the way you see the world. I love feeling safe when you wrap your arms around me. I love all the moments we spend to…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 10:39 PM
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This is not relationship advice or how to come to terms with very probably not getting what you think you’ll regret later in life. I don’t really think anyone can give you answers to what you’re asking. This is just an anecdote for, possibly, some perspective: I asked my mom once growing up why she didn't have more kids. Why am I an only child? (Not that I have any complaints.) She said that she wanted me to have siblings. She's one of 6 girls. She comes from a big family and knows what that env…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 09:13 PM
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I guess my husband then communicated to her we weren't going, for whatever reason. I was literally never involved in the conversation. And she didn't text you to get around your husband's no? You need to boot her out of your social circle. If everyone else finds her annoying, this shouldn't be that hard.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 10:31 PM
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Set boundaries while simultaneously making things tense for her. Lean into the tension. I would have so much fun with her if I were you. She also has a habit of texting me to make plans and texting my husband at the same time if I don't agree to something, which I find off-putting. Either make plans with him or with me, and don't go to him because I said no to something, that's just annoying. Because of that, I don't really want to be around her and would like to start declining(as a couple) whe…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 09:58 PM
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I agree with what you're saying, but I don't think it applies to her anymore than any other self aware RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:34 AM
2

I like to think if I must lie, which I would rather do only through omission... You would like to think that, but don't do that. TRP teaches men to lie about their N count by responding to any inquiries with jokes. How many women have you been with? "Today?" "A million." "I forget." That joke only works for men. You can laugh off an answer, but you will be likely pressed for the truth and, lucky you, you've got a whole new truth. You can change into the woman you want to become and that woman wi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:27 AM
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Here's the thing: Other than lying about her N count, there's no real con here. She's seen the error of her ways. She's growing as a person. She's already taking steps to become more feminine and live the Red Pill Woman way. If she is truly like that now, there's no pretending. It's her. This only fails if, once she gets a guy, she turns back to the person she was. The price of getting - and keeping - what you want in life is eternal vigilance.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:17 AM
2

Manipulation with and without its sexual connotation is the predominant purview of the feminine. If she spends her monk mode time reading our sidebar, TRP/AskTRP’s sidebar, the catalog of Rational Male, Illimitable Man, among others, then she’ll know what high value men are looking for and adapt. She’s 21, she’s got time. That said, I do agree with your point in a previous comment about the effects of lying and getting away with it with your partner. You will think less of them when you know you…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:02 AM
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Should I not focus on changing who I am? Of course you should! That's why you're here! You're already changing for the better!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 01:46 AM
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This is helpful, OP. Take note. Act a little sexually inexperienced (commensurate with the new you). If you're going to go with a, literally, life altering lie, you have to go all in. Be aware of what you should and shouldn't know. As such, I highly recommend keeping any lying in life down to an absolute minimum. Not for moral reasons (RP is amoral), but just for convenience. Having to keep up with different lies to different people is dangerous. You will be found out. In fact, I'd advocate your…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 01:41 AM
1

What if I disrespect him adorably?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 03:09 PM
1

Oh. I have an extreme view now: It's okay for girls to hit guys but not the other way around.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 04:59 AM
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Why hit them when psychological scars are so much deeper and permanent?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 03:44 AM
1

I don't have any extreme/unpopular views. The things I'm passionate about are pretty universal.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 09:32 PM
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I saw When Harry Met Sally too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 03:04 AM
5

I'm guessing guys camped out on your doorstep and lined up around the block like the Macy's Christmas Day Parade lol What do I want with a line full of betas?
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 03:15 AM
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So, funny/embarrassing story. [Edited because personal!]
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 01:59 AM
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Know this: we are all proud of you for losing weight and increasing your SMV and the general aesthetic of women everywhere. I'm sure the health benefits are a happy side effect. There is no shame in taking pictures of a body you're proud of. But to accidentally take a screenshot and send a bunch of mini nudes to a boy? You don't know how to use a smart phone? You know why we don't believe that. That said, you noted in another comment that you can't see your face in the nudes and that's rule numb…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 10:46 PM
1

Sure, Jan.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 08:49 PM
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"For some reason..." Mhmm. We all know the reason. Don't bring it up unless he does and don't do stupid things in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 08:47 PM
1

What is it that makes you want to stay?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 02:45 AM
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I'd love to be a SAHW too but I love my job. Maybe I'd go part time. But I work from home now, so, we'd have a double income and I'm home all day... hey, I'm halfway there! But I'd love to get married and have just one person to see the world and make a lifetime of memories with. I don't want kids. I just want to travel.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 02:00 PM
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I kinda wanna know what you do now!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 07:18 PM
2

After the marriage my father told my mother he was Schizophrenic. If it were another couple who weren't your parents and you didn't have the benefit of seeing how things worked out, would you consider this a red flag?
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 06:55 PM
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I've had multiple relationships fall apart due to something little like a broken leg. Are you sure it was because of the broken leg though? Men do dangerous things. Which is sort of why I phrased the question as the "event" not being his fault. Men do dangerous things, sure, but if you're dating an adrenaline junkie or someone who's generally reckless, you know that that's what he's like going into the relationship. Like, I couldn't be with an adrenaline junkie or someone who had a dangerous job…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 06:37 PM
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No, I mean his temperament. If he was a generally happy/positive guy before the accident, does his personality level off back to what it was before the accident? I assume he'll be frustrated and depressed for a while, but will his personality go back to what it was? But if he just becomes a grumpy jerk about his new lot in life...
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 06:16 PM
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TL;DW: It's basically TRP/AFBB rules for being an attractive man, but, you know, not delivered so harshly. Edit: Re: Be Vulnerable - I don't think the video's definition of vulnerable is the same as the rest of the world's. The video says men should say things like, "Oh yeah, I remember a time when..." which is really just saying, "Yeah, I can relate to your problem. I know how you feel." Or offering up, "Hey, you're sad, when I'm sad, I get away from life and go on a trip or do X fun things, le…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:29 PM
2

I want to see if you think its wise for me to buy a house as a single woman or continue renting? even if my monthly payments will be the same. If you're going to stay where you are, yes, buy a house. If you meet the man of your dreams and get married and move in with him, you can rent out your house and have passive income.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 03:50 AM
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Clothesline her the next time you see her make a b-line for your husband. Become her best friend. She's avoiding you? Seek her out. Ask her about her Pinterest boards or hobbies or whatever. Annoy her with kindness. She wont even want to come over at all she knows you're gonna be there to seek her out and buddy up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 11:27 PM
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Hmm. Okay. Well. I've read your post a few times. I've read some of the top comments on the xpost too. You're ~28. You've been with him for 8 years. You've got a 2.5 year old son. So for ~5 years it was just the two of you. It just seems like a really interesting demand that your husband, who isn’t home to supervise anyway, insists that you have your son right next to you all day while you clean the house or do anything. And he thinks millions of moms do this every day without issue. I don’t thi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 04:35 PM
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Its the same The Plan he had when we got married. What's The Plan?
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 03:48 AM
3

Bunny, his slutty 22 year old caretaker. RIP Anna Nicole Smith.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 11:41 PM
1

I don't think that them not planning on having a family together is clear from her post and that's one of the questions I have about her story.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 10:58 PM
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Assuming you’re sincere and you’ve shared all of the relevant details, I’m really sorry that you find yourself in this position. It seems incredibly unfair to have you in such a vulnerable place. I wonder why he waited until after the woman he wanted to expand his family with got pregnant to bring up a prenup, which really restricts what choices you can make (maybe) and makes the choices you can make all the more difficult. I disagree with some of the gentlemen posting here that you probably jus…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 07:51 PM
2

Then why does he want her to sign one?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 07:37 PM
2

Prenup.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 07:13 PM
2

OPs told us why he's averse: he's been burned before in a marriage and is afraid of it happening again. Material loss is one thing but emotional scars are another entirely. Then why does he want to get common law married?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 05:34 PM
2

If the end result of signing a prenup and getting married/common law married is the same, what difference does it make to him?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 05:26 PM
2

She does.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 05:14 PM
4

If they're going to be common law married anyway, why not just get married?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 05:10 PM
3

How is it beside the point?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 04:55 PM
2

If they're going to be common law married and treated as married in the eyes of the law, then what difference does it make to him?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 04:51 PM
0

Did she sign a prenup?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 04:47 PM
8

Then why not just get married?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 04:35 PM
7

'Cause she's not getting nupped.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 04:28 PM
4

That's so cute. OMG. It reminds me of the Door Test. "Alright, listen to me. You pull up right where she lives, right? Before you get outta the car, you lock both doors. Then, get outta the car, you walk over to her. You bring her over to the car. Dig out the key, put it in the lock and open the door for her. Then you let her get in. Then you close the door. Then you walk around the back of the car and look through the rear window. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so that you ca…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 01:06 AM
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I'm so glad you shared this. Dating a single dad is something I totally think about now. I've never wanted kids. The idea of taking care of a baby eludes me. But. Being a step mom to an older kid? I kinda wonder... I leave it up to my SO to handle his ex, major discipline, and anything that is uncomfortable/overwhelming to me while I take care of the day-to-day details and just enjoy our little family. It works for us. Yes! Like, you just sort of slid into a ready made family AND you get to do t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 01:57 AM
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Let it go. You know he lied. You don't need to ask leading questions about it. You don't need to play the gotcha game. You don't need to toy with him. You don't need to knowingly put him in a position where he would need to lie again to cover his past lie or fess up that he lied to begin with. You don't even need to let him know you know he lied. You don't need to invite a discussion or confrontation about it. He'll just get better at lying in the future if you corner him into admitting he lied.…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 09:21 PM
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I understood your point. It just seemed important to point out that if you're coming from a community or culture that is not the standard that it should be noted, since the person(s) asking for advice may not be part of that community and thus would have different expectations put on them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 03:28 PM
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Hmm. Thank you. What community is this?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 02:26 PM
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You have no flair, so I have no frame of reference for your advice. Would you like to elaborate on the practicality of how that worked out?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 01:58 PM
2

Now for some opinion on waiting for marriage from someone who waited for marriage. If you're going to wait for marriage, you ought to have a short dating and engagement period that doesn't include any touch at all. Did you not touch your husband at all before you married him?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 12:24 AM
2

Oh. I haven't been there but I've seen it mentioned in MRP. I just assumed it was because the husband was turned into a beta by his wife and she inexplicably lost interest in him and he stumbles into MRP and a lightbulb goes off. Like, their marriage didn't start with a dead bedroom, right? If that can be avoided with a Red Pill mindset going in, then that part of the equation solves itself.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 09:59 PM
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Do you want an IllimitableMan style send up of hyperbolic proportions and GayLubeOil humor on what it means to be the perfect woman for the perfect Dark Triad Alpha... if only such a man wanted one woman forever? 'Cause I could use a writing project for the summer...
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 10:38 PM
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What types of places would he hang out? That's where you need to be. Where do millionaire hedge fund managers hang out tho? (I kid. Sorta.)
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 11:03 PM
1

have been served Pampered Chef ads everywhere I go on the internet ever since. :D does the meat ever get localized hotspots that overcook the egg? Nope! It's really a perfect, even cook. But the meat is evenly dispersed in the mixture. If it was a solid piece in the center, maybe? I haven't done that, but I kinda doubt it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 03:52 AM
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The Pampered Chef Egg Cooker is stoneware. It's super easy to clean. I just rinse it out with warm water immediately while the eggs are cooling.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 11:36 PM
2

@jadorelexiecouture
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 02:26 PM
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I'll call it The Plate Academy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/16 12:04 PM
1

I made some yummy stuff a week or so ago - with pictures! A long time ago I was making 7 layer dip for a party and my best friend was like, "Oh, I can't have any..." 'cause she doesn't do sour cream. I was like, "I guess you're gonna miss out." But, for fun, I made a mini personalized 6 layer dip just for my friend, sans sour cream. 'Cause I'm a people pleaser. I recreated it in a mini trifle dish, with sour cream of course. On days I work from home, I have the time to make yummy breakfast tacos…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/16 02:34 AM
2

A man [worth having] will typically feel emasculated if he makes less than you... Eh. Depends on the guy. My mom made way more than my dad for a long time. Someone once made a tacky comment to him about his wife out earning him and he just laughed and said, "What do I care if she makes more than me? We have a joint checking account."
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/16 02:57 AM
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OMG
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 05:05 AM
1

I do start with frozen hash browns. Never had a problem with undercooking. And I do each one separately, even when I'm doing 6, because, yeah, the portions don't pour out evenly. I guess if you spooned them out, it could maybe be more even. But I just chop everything up at once and then mix it up in portions. Aaaand....since you mentioned breakfast sandwiches.... It's almost midnight here, but I'm gonna make breakfast again to show you how I make my own breakfast croissants. This requires using …
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 04:57 AM
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I tried this recipe off of Pinterest ages ago. I don’t even know what to call it. A breakfast popover? In an oversized cupcake pan, I put in a hash brown base, covered with an egg, (turkey) sausage, green pepper mix in the oven at 350 for ~30 mins. Give or take. See pics! It's a lot of work for one. I usually only make these when I'm hosting brunch with my girlfriends (which isn't often) so I make 6 at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 03:21 AM
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Ooh. What is postcrossing? This sounds relevant to my interests. I love postcards. They’re like these little asides that someone was thinking of you while they were out and about. I guess you can text people pictures and a note, but it’s not the same. People still like to get mail!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 05:30 PM
2

I loved Big Love! I'm the only one I know who watched it! And Amelie is one of my faves. Right up there with Love Me If You Dare.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 10:57 PM
2

Why are you taking it personally what TRP says? Good question! I think writing this post helped me let it go. I haven't been to TRP today and I've been feeling a lot less down since I wrote this out. I'm getting over it. If you really are a good girl, and are attractive, then realize you're different in a good way! it should make you feel hopeful, not sad. Optimistic is my default setting! I'm getting back there!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 12:44 AM
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So I get a plane ticket home to what? No house and no job? Is the state supposed to take care of me? Oh, how far I have fallen! I wouldn't be working in this scenario because his job has taken him around the world. It's not that simple to say, "Oh, okay, I'll get a job there too, then!" It might take more time if I don't speak the language, I might not be making as much, there are so many variables that now put me in a lesser role financially. You’re asking me to consider it from his point of vi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 04:08 PM
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No, I don't think that. That's why you get a prenup, to protect your assets and minimize fallout. It doesn't have to be spousal support forever. He can stipulate his own terms. If it's my fault, I could get nothing and the equivalent of a "Next!" I would have nothing to give him since I would have been dependent on him. (And I'd be the dumbest girl in the world to be dependent on a man and then be the cause of our break up.) If the marriage wasn't egalitarian, the divorce isn't going to be eithe…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 01:34 PM
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if you're no longer holding up your end of the bargain? Reread what I wrote. (And I don't want kids, so nix that from the thought experiment.)
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 04:35 AM
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Men and women don't love the same way. You pointed this out in your original post. A low n-count woman might come close. Probably not, but might. A high n-count woman never could. A pair bond is (partly) a chemical reaction. I was just curious if it was as strong for men as it is for women. I understand what you mean what you say that a girl who’s been with a lot of guys wouldn’t be able to bond since that chemical reaction in her brain is not new to her. Do guys pair bond their first time? Or i…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 03:19 AM
1

The first time you fall in love, there's nothing like it in the world. That person becomes your everything and you give your all to them. When that love is returned, it's truly glorious. Sounds pretty amazing! It shouldn't be much of a stretch to see that a woman who has fucked a different guy every week since she turned 18 can't ever form that pair bond. This is why a man looking for a long term relationship wants a woman with a low n-count. Does a pair bond only go one way? She bonds to him? D…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 01:33 AM
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I thought her parenthetical was a joke. A little levity given the topic.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/16 02:12 AM
2

Hi. I’m late to this party, but hi. I found RPW via r/the_donald, sort of. I’d been following that sub for a while, just watching it, largely ignorant of general reddit drama going on, when that CisWhiteMaelstrom guy made some long post (about a month ago) mentioning Red Pill Wives. I didn’t know what that was but when I started browsing that sub, I was appalled. But! I read the sidebar. What is Red Pill? Never heard of it. I’ve spent the last month or so reading nearly everything Red Pill. I’ve…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/16 05:28 AM
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Rachel Weisz married James Bond when she was, like, 40. A friend of mine got married at 39 last summer. They'd been living together for years but they got married shortly after getting engaged, it wasn't like some long engagement. I was at her wedding. He supported her through getting her masters. She texted me shortly after he proposed. Like, omg, guess what he did!!! He got our other friend to suggest they get dressed up and go to brunch so she would be all dressed up for when she got back hom…
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