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If all you are doing is monitoring cell phone communications I got news for you. That's not enough. There's a million other ways she can communicate with orbiters so you'd better take off them blue colored glasses and think like a Machiavellian if you want the whole truth. You know deep down inside your gut is telling you there's more to this story. And your hamster is trying to get you to ignore your gut by rationalizing it away. Well I'm here to tell you what the other guys here won't. Trust y…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 11:36 PM
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My friend, I hate to break this to you but women are expert liars. They are 100 times more skilled at deception than us men will ever be. That being said, you need to take a more realistic and less optimistic approach to this situation. Whatever your wife has chosen to reveal to you, you need to consider that she has probably gone much further. At this point it looks like you are content to just bury your head in the sand and wish away reality. Cut that shit out. Install nanny cams. Get a GPS tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 06:03 AM
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Sepean, you are the man. Based on your post, it looks like you are bringing her around. Make no mistake that most men (including myself) can not successfully turn a woman into a RPW, but you seem to be killing RP on impossible mode. No need to be frustrated, you knew this would be a battle. Just as most BP men have difficulty swallowing the pill, I imagine it's ten times more difficult for women.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 08:27 PM
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Let me tell you something brother. A cheating bitch does not and can not change in the long term. You can crank up the dread, you can self improve like a motherfucker. You can even keep tight controls on her actions. But eventually, you are playing a losing hand so keep in mind that you're gonna have to leave her ass at some point or the other. Because she can and will fuck up, it's already in her nature to do so.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 02:38 PM
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I would have loved to have commented more on this thread, but it looks like u/trudatness has it covered. I have never seen supposed RP men go to such lengths to defend such a lifestyle. This place has always been a source of knowledge and wisdom for me, but I may have to rethink who I take advice from.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 02:31 PM
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We don't have an MRP position on poly although I have encouraged poly Then let me ask you this. Is MRP truly a subset of TRP? Do you think TRP would endorse such a thing in a non plate spinning scenario? Seriously, I would like to know your responses on both questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 02:19 PM
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I don't mean to rehash an old topic, but this post brings to mind an announcement a while back of a certain non monogamy subreddit where men let their wives fuck other men (looking at you /u/rpsigmastigma). I don't have much more to say on this, only that the defense/endorsement of this lifestyle has left a bad taste in my mouth with this subreddit. And that hopefully we have repented of such endorsements.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 12:05 AM
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Understood. But you need to own the fact that you got lazy and allowed her snoop where she wasn't supposed to. There's a reason why parents don't disclose everything to their kids. Because some things they can't handle and are better off not knowing. Never do your shit on devices she can access and password protect everything. My wife has never used my phone or my computer. Even if I leave them lying around, I have passwords on all of my apps. She used to shit test me about being secretive, but …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 04:41 PM
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Forgive me if this has been already asked. Don't you guys know about passwords? Does everyone here do all their shit out in the open? Sure, we have RPW, but most women can not be trusted to understand the shit we talk about here. Most don't understand on a conscious level that they are not to be treated with equality and require a special strategy. Guys, not locking down your shit and not being vigilant will only lead to unnecessary problems. So why are we so relaxed about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 09:00 PM
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I'm going to go against the grain here as this would represent a huge problem for me. If your wife is intentionally or unintentionally flirting with guys in your presence, what the fuck do you think she'll do when you're not around. I have not experienced this with my wife, but if I did I would stomp that shit out immediately. In private of course. Because this is a sign of disrespect. Back in the olden days, men controlled the sexuality of women. And it was a good time to be a man. These days, …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 12:05 AM
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I'm a big believer of pussy on the side. So much this. As long as you keep your dirt away from your family. Too bad most of MRP does not agree with this sentiment. I would love to find other men with whom I can discuss soft harem strategies.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 04:26 PM
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If you are a high enough value man, you should be able to get away with a little more than some tinder flirting.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 04:17 PM
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Assure her you are not cheating I'm not so sure of that, as groveling at her feet is even worse than actually getting caught in bed with a tinder skank. Men covet sexual exclusivity, women covet exclusivity of commitment. Not the other way around. She should be pleased that she has your commitment despite hoards of tinder hoes you can fuck. Don't be fooled by her apparent anger. She probably secretly thinks it's hot that you have girls fawning all over you. Apologies for that? Not so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 04:12 PM
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Better to overtly remind her to keep her game sharp cause she ain't all that. If OP comes away with nothing else but this line, he'll be fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 04:05 PM
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This. Only thing don't dare call it a mistake.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 04:00 PM
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Nobody is addressing the elephant in the room. Cover your tracks and keep your shit locked down. Never mind the apologies/explanations. She should have have been able to view or access your tinder account. Personally I believe men should be able to at least flirt, approach or do whatever it takes to have 2 or more in the kitty. Admit it, it's always an appealing prospect to have a backup plan just in case. I've also seen so many guys get burned by pure carelessness. Just shit that could have eas…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 03:51 PM
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I feel the need to chime in here. Aside from the fact that TRP and sexual strategy are amoral I'd like to challenge you to do one thing. Instead of getting into a pissing contest with u/omLaLa, perhaps you should start your own thread with these viewpoints and see what kind of reception you get from the community. In this case, you'll have a better opportunity at open discussion of your opinions.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:19 AM
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Have you ever considered that neither of you are right nor wrong but merely expressing two different approaches to life? In addition, it has been clearly stated here that TRP is not the place that we should impose our morals on others. That said, I'm confused as to why you've chosen to waste your time with this petty argument. Most of us appreciate your point of view.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:00 AM
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It's not like this in all societies and was not always like this in the current one. Remember when smoking used to be good for you? Yeah it's like that. Now why would you deliberately give yourself cancer. Times change and we only tend to see what's in front of us. I was lucky to find an honorable woman who values family and by whom I have a reasonable expectation of not getting divorce raped. Besides, she has always made more money than me. However, one thing TRP has taught me is ignore AWALT t…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:18 PM
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30 people banned? Hot dam RPS don't fuck around! Seriously through, I'm a married TRPer and there are many of us on here, but I've had the misfortune of finding TRP too late in the game to have made an informed decision. Also, my generation culture wasn't quite as fucked as younger guys are faced with. That said, I'd avoid marriage like the plague in this day and age.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:00 PM
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As bp as an oil spill Lool. Why is this not a saying?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 08:53 PM
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Decent post OP. Not sure why people are getting off topic here. Nobody is actually talking about the content of the post.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:28 PM
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Women train betas. Alphas train women. If you don't train her she will train you. Solid post OP.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:12 PM
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You're not considering is that many redpillers are angry and oppose the people that promote this apollonian (sjw) society. The very people who are either apathetic to or oppose the need for masculine expression. We call these people feminists btw. Another thing is that it wasn't always like this, and whether or not this cultural shift was was carefully constructed or just cam about due to the need for an organized society, simply being unaware of it is reason enough to be a little bit angry. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 01:05 AM
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Good gosh man. Just pay the 150 and be happy you still have the choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 10:34 PM
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Sorry dude. I can hear that hamster wheel squeak louder and louder. Your gut says she cheated. She's giving you standard hamster responses. This is not good.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:40 PM
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I said previously I wasn't advocating anything but after reading this, I'd say you need to gtfo. If you're as beta as you say you are and she's been alpha widowed this is a very bad recipe. This means that you are just one more beta move away from her jumping back on the cc. That is, if she hasn't already.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:37 PM
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I hate to say it, but sometimes there's no good or palatable solution. Lift and lead might sound good, but that sort of advice does absolutely nothing for someone who harbors the anger and resentment of being blind to the true nature of women. It's not good to not be able to trust your wife for having ridden the cc either. As men, we want to be able to trust their women to some degree. Although my situation is different from yours in that I didn't marry a cc riding sloot, I also have some anger …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 02:48 PM
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I'm late to this thread but wanted to get my 2 cents in anyway. All of this talk is in an effort to achieve fairness between the sexes. As I understand, the sexual strategy of one of the sexes must be compromised in order for the other to flourish. It is my opinion that we are have already compromised our sexual strategy by foregoing actual abundance in order to have a stable family life. We are already playing the end game of the female sexual strategy by providing them with an 'alpha bux' unic…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 09:31 PM
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Endgame is whatever you want out of life at the time and will be different for everyone. I dream of having a loving wife at home while spinning multiple plates on the side. Or perhaps doing a hybrid polygamous situation where all women involved know what's up. This is clearly not the endgame of most married men. But it illustrates my point that we may all want something different. However MRP is a great place to start.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 06:10 PM
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If you stay, you'll be back when you find out what she REALLY did. Because, trust me, a woman admitting the truth will never give you the whole truth. And if she admits this much, what she really did is much worse. If you believe what she says, you're effectively saying that she doesn't have the ability to hamster. And we all know that's bullshit. Brother, you need to be on high alert because you no longer have a marriage. Chances are she fucked at least 5 or 6 dudes. And probably a couple of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/15 07:17 PM
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GPS tracker. Get one now. If you are nervous about her meeting up with old fiends that means she can not be trusted. Oh, and keylog her computer.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 09:27 PM
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how does a mid-life crises compare to taking the Redpill? I Most men on TRP have taken the pill long before marriage and family and vow never to get married. Many MRPers are just simply late to the party. Like others on here have said, mid life crisis is just a tactic to keep you in line because it is during these times that many men realize that they've been had by society. Also please see here: http://therationalmale.com/2015/04/24/the-reckoning/ https://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/t…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 04:07 PM
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comments like that from you do nothing for me, but make me want to be elsewhere. Then motherfucker, be elsewhere
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 08:27 PM
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The problem is others say that marriage itself is the ultimate Blue Pill so if we take your perspective we are all Blue Pill punks. BPP, you have a point here. We can tit for tat on this forever, so I will appreciate the fact that MRP mods are man enough to welcome discussion on opposing views and not be butthurt about it. No use in beating this horse any longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 10:04 PM
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If you think Sigma Sigma is going to give blue pill advice, frankly you're wrong. Some might say that open relationships is blue pill in and of itself. If you were receiving advice on how to stay sober, you'd want to know whether or not that advice was coming from a drunkard.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 09:22 AM
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Hey if I can't stand up for what I think is right (unpopular or not) without worrying about offending someone (mod or not) in an anonymous internet forum then where the hell can I? My opinion is that open relationships go against core RP principles, and I think there are others from this thread who agree with me on that. Is it a good principle to live and let live? Yes. But I am still compelled to say something about the endorsement of open relationships.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 08:44 AM
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That's great. Only thing, the same cuckolds posting there will also be associated with and posting to MRP. Who knows, we may even have a MRP approved as top mod over there. Wait a minute, we already do.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 02:05 AM
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No sidebar mention would be best. Sicko cuck fags is a close second. Geez. RP men endorsing and encouraging cuckoldry. Someone please restore my faith in this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 12:53 AM
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Look. Let them have their sub. Let them name it RedPillCuckold if they want. But do we have to endorse that shit here?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 10:59 PM
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Explain why we should not put it on the side-bar in order to avoid non-monogamy conversations, advice, and suggestions on MRP. Putting it on the sidebar would suggest an endorsement of cuckoldry. I admit some of this sickens me (thus my attempt to offload this on our brother Stigma) but it has been a legitimate lifestyle since the beginning of time and in many cultures throughout human history. Cuckoldry has also been a 'legitimate' lifestyle in many cultures throughout human history. I guess it…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 10:57 PM
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RPNM is for men who believe in red pill theory You sure about that?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 09:42 PM
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Wow. I thought I was the only dissenting view here. Good to see someone else sees the lunacy of this new sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 09:40 PM
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Just to be clear. I have nothing against your sub. There are far worse our there. But I do take issue with your post here supporting the sub. Doesn't seem like it belongs in a TRP related sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 08:56 PM
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I don't mean to troll this thread or to disrespect anybody, but RPNM strikes me as heresy and a slap in the face to everything RP stands for. It was said once that MRP is only a subset of RP as we stand for the same principles. With this in mind, could you imagine how some shit like this would be received in the main sub? Are we cool with letting other dudes rail our wives given the hypergamous nature of women? Isn't this the very thing the feminists are fighting to achieve? Should we even be en…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 08:12 PM
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I just subscribed to RPNM, then unsubscribed straightaway after reading this. I dream of things being the way they were in the good old days. When men can have several concubines, and a loving wife at home. Not where men have to share their women. That's just ass backwards and should not carry the TRP label if you ask me. Create a sub with one sided polygamy that favors the male then get back to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 08:03 PM
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Plot twist: OP's wife just texted the wrong person. That message was meant for the pool boy. Somebody left this comment as a joke, but it's the only one I upvoted because it's the most likely scenario.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 10:54 AM
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I can not take full credit, my friend. Just in case you thought I was born with these ideals, I too was a hapless beta at one point. However, after lurking, reading and meditating for a while, it is a different story. I don't wanna get all religious but I now live by the lessons I've learned here. I just don't want to see our stance diluted and be softened by encouraging the forgiveness of wayward women. Seriously, I'm very concerned.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 05:20 PM
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Who has two thumbs and has been married 13 years with 3 young kids and is willing to chuck it all at a moments notice? You guessed it. Now you're lucky. Emotional cheating is one thing. Orbiters gonna orbit. But actual cheating is another and she's fucking outta there. Hell, I told her to GTFO and meant it when she refused me a blowjob 3 nights in a row. On a different note, my wife was raised traditionally, where being a single mother or having a failed marriage is frowned upon. Bottom line. My…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 04:02 PM
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I don't know about that. In this situation, a guy will be paranoid and mate guarding every minute of the day. If he is truly alpha, the level of trust necessary to have a good marriage will never be there. The day I find out my wife is unfaithful she is dead to me no matter how beta I was at the time. She can be possibly reborn as a plate whereas I don't give a fuck about what she does with her life but I can never call her my wife again. As for the kids, I adopt the stoic philosophy that you sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 02:36 PM
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Dealing with dishonest and unfaithful wives You don't. But seriously, can you plate a wife? Because that's what I'd do. If she was unfaithful once, she sure as hell will be again.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 01:45 PM
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Not sure if anyone else mentioned this, but an AMA would be great.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 04:39 PM
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I've always taken the term polygamous to mean that the husband is allowed to have concubines while the wife stays faithful. While I'm not Mormon myself, I think they are the only group these days who understand what patriarchy is all about. Not sure how this jives with MRP principle, but I ambitions for that style of polygamy.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 04:17 PM
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Angels is right. The majority of TRP posts are immature and make my head hurt. When I read about some teenager's experience with some girl in his class he's trying to game, I wonder why I even bother with that sub. I guess one caveat OP forgot to mention is to be selective about the content that applies to us married guys. And that everything on TRP is not good for MRP consumption.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 03:57 PM
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Seems like you are from the old school and may be a bit out of touch with the women of the newer generation. Having been in the position of CTC myself multiple times, I can attest that even the most 'wholesome' women, especially of the liberated generation, are not to be trusted. My wife comes from a very conservative family and was raised under the tutelage of a strong patriarch. She is still to this day innocent and coy about sexual matters. Does any of this give me peace of mind about her hyp…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 05:33 AM
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Semi good point, but you are assuming that men and women are the same and should be held to the same standard. This is not true. A key that can open many locks is called a master key. But a lock that can be open by many keys is called a shitty lock. It is easy for women to get sex. But not so much for a man. Therefore you can not compare apples with oranges this way.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 05:23 AM
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Maybe a bit too militant. BPP is a hero to many of us so give the guy a little leeway
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 08:59 PM
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My wife is now confused how I can hold two separate apology standards Once you realize that men != women != children, the double standard thinking goes away. Consider that at your workplace, the boss takes certain liberties that you can't. He can tell you what to do mostly whether you agree with him or not. You understand that he can do that because he's the fucking boss. At MRP, we expect submissiveness, deference and so on. I don't think these are double standards either. Therefore it probably…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 01:35 PM
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I made it work by sacrificing sleep Hold on there buddy. You can't escape sleep. It will catch up with you one way or another. It's just one of those things you can't get away from. Furthermore, sleep deprivation is one of the main things that kill your testosterone and declines your health. I'd suggest you find something else to sacrifice. Otherwise, you're only robbing yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/15 07:49 PM
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Good insight. I think father figure is what has been missing from my strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 03:54 PM
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Contrary views are always appreciated. I will fluctuate my asshole tendencies. Perhaps develop a long term plan according to her menstrual cycles and the level of shit/comfort tests I receive. I take it that you are saying indiscriminate assholery without a strategy may not be good for the long term.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 01:17 AM
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This smells like a troll post. If it's not, perhaps you're better off without her.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 04:34 PM
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I believe the reason for the anti marriage sentiment on TRP lies within the age of the average TRP subscriber. You put a bunch of teenagers, high schoolers and college freshmen in a forum and 'enjoy the decline' becomes the order of the day. You see, the typical TRPer is not interested in enhancing or contributing to society. Their view is that it's fucked anyway so I'll have an all for me mentality. To be honest, I can see myself taking this stance had I found TRP at a young age. Young men with…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 05:53 PM
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