russpav Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What do women get from this sub? Is there any way to give “Reddit Gold” in the Apollo App? You deserve it for this comment. I could not agree more with what you write. Both with your criticism (concern) as well as your optimism. (compassion) Your points are incredibly we’ll balanced and thoughtful. Here’s to Humanity’s continued progress. :)	/r/MGTOW2	13/01/19 09:03 PM
1	What do women get from this sub? Yeah, you’ve got it, at least you’re on the same train of thought that I’ve been pondering. I would say from my own experience that viewing pornography makes me feel powerful, and in control, and entitled to the gratification that Iwant when I want it. Those feelings are fleeting however and ultimately an illusion anyway, at least the control part is an illusion. The real truth is that pornography is a distraction and an escape from reality. It’s choosing not to acknowledge that I feel lonely an…	/r/MGTOW2	13/01/19 05:36 PM
1	Annoying phrases Hahaha! Yeah, that would be the opposite extreme. There’s a difference between self-care and delusional narcissism. For me, because I lean so far the other way, self-care is a responsibility and commitment. Since I am a workaholic (among other addictions) I need to make an effort to create space for me and my friends. Otherwise, I’ll always make an excuse not to do things that are good for me, and provide gratitude in my life.	/r/MGTOW2	13/01/19 01:39 PM
1	What do women get from this sub? So given their differences, would you agree that women tend to use social media for emotional validation in a similar way that men tend to use pornography for physical (and emotional) validation? Clearly everyone is an individual, and recent studies are showing an increase in female pornography use, but the “digital likes” compared to the “digital visual pixels” seem to favored more heavily favored by on gender over the other. Thoughts on better understanding those differences? Especially on how…	/r/MGTOW2	13/01/19 03:57 AM
1	Annoying phrases Wait, what’s wrong with “Self-care”? To me, that term means being emotionally aware and mature enough to take care of your needs, or have the ability to ask/have a conversation about those needs in an intimate relationship. In my mind, it’s also strongly related to boundary setting.	/r/MGTOW2	13/01/19 02:53 AM
3	Banned from /r/MGTOW mega-thread This is the comment that got me banned 2 months ago. When they banned me I realized they did me a favor. “I’m glad others are seeing this trend and speaking up as well. I first subscribed to MGTOW because there were good articles about self improvement and building better habits. The trend seems more and more externally focused and less and less about self improvement. Repressing others (individuals or groups) does not free my mind, it traps it in a negative feedback loop of anger, fear and rese…	/r/MGTOW2	13/01/19 02:45 AM
1	Useful fools I only saw the one recent article on Amazon, are there others as well? Please share! Also, hiring for private corporations is a bit different than enforcing laws that supposedly apply to everyone. I wonder what Julian Assange would do with and impartial and unbiased police force.	/r/MGTOW	28/10/18 12:29 PM
3	Walking away Decide on coparenting vs. parallel parenting. Both can be positive for the child, but trying to switch back and forth creates inconsistencies and you want to minimize as many of those as possible.	/r/MGTOW	27/10/18 11:51 PM
11	Useful fools Has anyone read “The better angels of our nature”? This reminds me of the “leviathan” concept that book talks about. Throughout history, civilization’s have found less and less personal authority figures and systems. These authority systems will keep evolving until we find a completely impartial system of not only laws and rules, but enforcement methods as well. It’s something that makes me think of “I Robot” and how the greatest “Leviathan” would be an impartial, unbiased AI with robotic enforc…	/r/MGTOW	27/10/18 09:09 PM
3	My biggest regret is that i didn't GMOW sooner Never look back, especially in anger. Accept where you are now with serenity and gratitude. I used to * think about all the money I wasted, and spent before I began investing. I also *used to entertain the fantasy of having a time machine just to go back and end my 4-year codependent college relationship sooner and save myself a truckload of time and money on therapy. You know what I know now? Looking back, even for the sake of entertainment, made me miss out on some big signs for my future. I e…	/r/MGTOW	23/10/18 10:31 PM
1	Its 06/2019 , The supreme court has ruled that a person accused of a crime shall remain anonymous unless he or she is convicted. Anybody read Aesop’s fables? Familiar with “The cat and the bell.”? The moral of the story is “It’s easy to think of impossible solutions.” How could this possibly be implemented in the age of the internet? Even without the internet, these accusations and smear campaigns often start by word of mouth. Which is essentially saying it’s possible to control and ban false gossip. Which I admit would be fantastic, but further illustrates my point of impossibly.	/r/MGTOW	14/10/18 01:15 PM
15	Fixed it I wouldn’t use Tinder as the example, at least with Tinder it initiates real-life physical relationships, and both genders have a right to enjoy sex and physical connection. The comparison I use is Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat or any other digital platform that gives women emotional validationwithout a real relationship. That’s what porn does to the male brain, it let’s our brain believe we’re having sex, when we actually aren’t. The social platforms give women (and men) a way to feel like t…	/r/MGTOW	04/10/18 12:45 PM
2	Depressed, suicidal, need your help brothers. Please take the time to read and respond I am at my last resort. Get to some meetings and get some help and support. I know it’s easy to want to shut out the pain with drugs and alcohol, but I promise you it will only make it worse and prolong your suffering. Check out the sub r/stopdrinking if you want. As others have said, you’ve been given a gift at 27. Channel this pain into healthy outlets and become who you were meant to be. No man achieves their destiny by focusing on the external and other people. Turn inward and find yourself. Godspeed!	/r/MGTOW	17/09/18 09:49 PM
1	These whores are master planners Master planners that can’t find time to charge their phones. 11% battery life?! The anxiety! Hahaha	/r/MGTOW	08/09/18 07:45 PM
2	Deciding on getting a a Vasectomy My Dr. used local anesthesia and didn’t even use a needle. It was an “Aero” shot that goes through the skin. Small Laser incision, no pain. Done in 15 minutes. No baths, pools or swimming for a week, (just to be sure the incision heals) aside from that, no real downtime. Sex is the same after as it was before. No regrets.	/r/MGTOW	07/09/18 03:58 AM
11	A woman's con! Mine always told me I had “victim mentality” as well, but I legitimately had an abusive and neglectful childhood. I went to therapy for 7 years to understand that. It still didn’t help me recognize and protect myself from this unhealthy criticism.	/r/MGTOW	25/08/18 12:19 PM
5	Why do you think MGTOW is growing at such a rapid rate? The social media/internet for attention and emotional validation is hugely destructive to intimate relationships. It’s like emotional pornography for women. I don’t think either gender truly understands how badly these digital addictions are hurting their real lives. Worse than that, these addictions come from very natural places. It’s not wrong for a woman to want attention and validation, and it’s not wrong for a man to want to have sex, or see a woman naked. It’s at the core of our biology an…	/r/MGTOW	10/08/18 02:35 PM
2	MGTOW is giving me the courage to leave! Motivate me please! I second this advice. Set your boundaries and stick to them. There is nothing wrong with you wanting to go to the gym, especially while she’s asleep. I haven’t read it yet, it’s on my list, but I’ve heard the book “No more Mr.Nice Guy”. Is a great one to pick up and read for these reasons and more. Best of luck to you, and congrats figuring this out before marriage. I’m 4 months separated with two daughters and I the complications are so much more. Better to figure this out now.	/r/MGTOW	07/08/18 10:23 AM
1	Question for those who have passed the redpill rage... I disagree, it’s a fact that men have, and do, rule the world. Only just now, are civilized societies getting to a place where women can “claim” to be equals. They’re still woefully outmatched in physical, and many mental, activities as well. You don’t think that history has any lasting effect? Those apps you mention. FB, instagram, Snapchat, Tinder...were those invented by women? No. They were created by men, and not out of altruism. Each of them seek to profit from human weakness, albeit femin…	/r/MGTOW	05/08/18 02:46 AM
1	Question for those who have passed the redpill rage... The only thing changed about my views was that men carry a pretty big part of the blame as well. Can you expand on this? I am new to MGTOW and have been separated from my wife since May. I agree with some of the points on this sub, but I’m also interested in the other side. I don’t think many people on this sub care to empathize with women and understand how we got here. We’re all human. We’re all flawed. We all make mistakes and bad decisions. I like MGTOW when it’s directed at personal growth.…	/r/MGTOW	04/08/18 09:26 PM
0	A woman will ALWAYS blame a man! Blame is not only a women’s trait. Go to r/divorce or r/deadbedrooms . There are plenty of men blaming their wives for the failure of the relationship or the lack of intimacy. I’m in the middle of my own separation but I would never oversimplify relationship struggles. It always takes two. I like MGTOW when it’s building men up in their own confidence. This meme could be true of either sex. Both men and women cheat.	/r/MGTOW	31/07/18 12:00 PM
6	Wow That’s the one that got me too. “You mean I have to tolerate his imperfections and emotional needs too?” What will it take for people to realize relationships are dynamic and bilateral?	/r/MGTOW	28/07/18 12:42 AM
1	So boys talk to me about your white privilege 😎 Projection is real...so much of what people say to others, is their conscience trying to tell it to themselves. Sigh.	/r/MGTOW	27/07/18 12:06 AM
1	So boys talk to me about your white privilege 😎 That is so sad I’m so many levels.	/r/MGTOW	27/07/18 12:03 AM
1	Women are more useless than they’ve ever been historically. I think this is a bit too black and white. Have you never worked with a woman coworker or classmate that pulled their own weight? For both men and women, I subscribe to the sincere belief that the world is not made up of the top 20% of people, it’s made up of the bottom 80%. What I mean by that, is that I have pretty low expectations for both sexes until they prove they are capable of delivering “top 20” performance. Once they’re in the club, I trust them, until they’ve failed enough (a lot) to …	/r/MGTOW	26/07/18 11:57 PM
3	64,000+ There should be no reason for it to be deemed a “hate” sub it it stays focused on positive self improvement. I know some posts are venting and get emotional, but as long as the majority are encouraging and uplifting than there’s not much “hate” in that.	/r/MGTOW	23/07/18 04:52 AM
4	My mother the Narcissist and The People Of The Lie Thank you for posting. This is incredibly well written and meaningful. I’m sorry for your loss and your pain. I wish you all the peace this world has to offer.	/r/MGTOW	21/07/18 09:25 PM
1	I wouldn't doubt it. This. I am currently separated. Early in our relationship my wife/STBXW would say often that I saved her from herself, or her other bad relationships. It felt good at first. After 8 years of marriage and two kids, I am now preventing her from living her real life and being herself. Our life is a trap that she blames me for. Truthfully, I still hope we can work it out for the sake of our daughters. I do love her, and I know we can have a good life. However, I won’t allow the relationship to keep …	/r/MGTOW	19/07/18 07:21 PM
1	Detachment is the way of Man. I’ve been meditating on loving-detachment lately. As long as it doesn’t turn into denial or repression, I couldn’t agree more. We need to state our position with confidence and let life unfold. No arguing, no questioning, just be present, trust your gut, and be open to whatever life and God gives back.	/r/MGTOW	19/07/18 05:50 PM
5	damn... This would make a great sci-fi novel	/r/MGTOW	18/07/18 11:13 AM
1	GYOW Women have been, and will be, the physically weaker gender until cybernetic enhancements become standard at birth. There is a reconciliation happening with women’s rights, and this comic captures a few of the disproportionate scenarios. Both sides have value and merit. Empathetically, I can’t imagine living in a world where a majority of who I encountered on a daily basis could harm me physically. It’s not an excuse, but there are real reasons why it’s taken our society this long to get here. Me…	/r/MGTOW	16/07/18 01:53 AM
9	In modern world, all women bring to the table is sex. The moment you learn to control your lust, you realize they in fact bring nothing at all. PMO = Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm.	/r/MGTOW	13/07/18 03:54 AM
1	I find child care extremely boring. That sucks dude, I’m doubly sorry to hear that. Then again, it was never your job to parent your sister. Speaking as a person who was basically raised by his older sister, bad parenting sucks.	/r/MGTOW	01/07/18 11:21 PM
2	I find child care extremely boring. How could a child split up two parents? I’m sorry to hear your parents divorced, but my guess is that they had plenty of issues between themselves.	/r/MGTOW	01/07/18 11:37 AM