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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Advice Needed I want to upvote this more than once	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/22 04:49 AM
3	Dealing with anxious attachment style? Hah, totally with you sister. I have been doing a lot of work/healing related to this and the podcast Attached to the Invisible was really helpful to me in making connections between my attachment style and my (Christian) faith, and healing things from there. Also recommend the book Women Who Love Too Much.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/20 03:17 PM
2	What are your morning/daily/weekend routines? every other saturday is grocery/laundry day usually try to put in at least 7 miles of hiking at least one morning on the weekends and often do this with one of my gentleman suitors as I’ve found this is a good COVID-friendly date and works well for vetting also try to fit in a brief visit with my parents to bring them baked treats and build up those relationships Sunday evening (or sometimes laundry/grocery day on Saturday, depending on my energy level) is for meal prepping and making sure the h…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/20 03:00 PM
2	Has anyone here transformed from a messy to a clean/organized person? Please share your tips! I’m naturally quite messy but think I’ve gotten to a point where I’m pretty tidy and clean. You mentioned Marie Kondo, who I love, but I would recommend focusing on the more spiritual/psychological side of things than the getting rid of/storing part—exercise showing gratitude and care for your belongings and in general cultivate intentionality. I’ve also found it helpful to reframe chores as fun tasks—for instance, I only watch Desperate Housewives when I’m doing the dishes and cleaning the kitc…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/20 02:43 PM
2	I realized that “forgiving” my boyfriend of his past wrongs has enabled him into think I will always stay. I feel weak and I’m not sure how to move forward with this feeling Kind of, in the sense that it addresses a desire for attention that people try to receive from people who aren't capable/willing to give it, as a way of reaffirming and trying to "do-over" past situations in which we were neglected.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/20 01:40 PM
26	I realized that “forgiving” my boyfriend of his past wrongs has enabled him into think I will always stay. I feel weak and I’m not sure how to move forward with this feeling Hey--I was noticing a similar pattern in my relationships when I was doing some reflecting in nun mode. I found the book Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood to be really helpful in identifying where this stemmed from and how to begin to make changes to have supportive, loving relationships rather than relationships where I give boundless amounts of love to men who aren't there for me in return. Basically, a big thing in the book is acceptance. This doesn't mean not upholding boundaries or s…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/04/20 08:05 PM

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