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Many times there's nothing to learn from. He was just bigger, the situation itself was more exciting, or he was special in some other way. It's not being the best that men worry about - it's that there's a chance they can never be able to be the best because of something that can't be changed or improved on. If putting in more effort was a definite way to eventually be her best partner, most men wouldn't be insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:46 AM
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Low value was used semi-facetiously here. But, it's a fact that some men will have to put in more effort to be as attractive as many other men are effortlessly, and even then may fall short due to things that are not able to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:52 PM
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Question for fellow "low value" men: how do you avoid self-improvement burnout? Always feels like it takes constant 110% effort for no visible progress because unchangeable things will always be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:12 PM
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I would say it's moreso about what they feel than what they see. And no women is going to mistake an average size for a big dick once they feel it. I don't doubt that women can enjoy an average or even small size, but it arguably decreases a man's status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:22 PM
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I can't imagine an average size garners much respect though, let alone a smaller size. And part of being a HVM is being respected by women and other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:07 PM
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Do you think one can be a HVM without having a big dick? Or one step further, with a small dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:58 PM
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Just to list a few things: height, (potentially) ethnicity, baseline social skills, facial attractiveness, voice sound/depth, lack of natural talent/aptitude*, hell even dick size, I'm blanking on the rest but essentially think of the least attractive version of every unchangeable trait and you can guarantee I have it. The only exception probably is that I'm not bald. *) going to explain some of these: Baseline social skills: Not immutable, I know, but like I mentioned it takes great effort to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:52 AM
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I can't imagine I'll be satisfied with a life of mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:19 AM
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Not just romance and sex, but that's a big part of it. I'm not under the delusion that there's zero chance for me, but I do think it'll be much more difficult. When you have less to offer at baseline, people are gonna be less forgiving. For what it's worth, I think the most likely outcome for me in regards to relationships is that I'll find a girl who's kind of lukewarm about me and finds me tolerable. This applies to friends too. Making platonic friends has been difficult since COVID and I find…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:16 AM
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It's so frustrating having to make up for every immutable trait. Just feels like I'll never be truly content with myself because I have to be literally perfect in every modifiable trait to compensate for everything I lack otherwise. And we all know perfection is impossible, so it's a lose-lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:04 AM
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Probably not. Attractive people bring other people to the app. I'm most likely the minority in that I literally want the app to rate me exactly how I am and show me people in that range.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:10 AM
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I've been on it for about 3 weeks so maybe it takes longer. But also, I'm in NYC where the baseline is like an 8 so maybe that's part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:08 AM
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Problem is they never show me the 1-4s. It's all straight 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:05 PM
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Dating apps kinda piss me off. I know I'm a 4, please show me the 1-4s. Stop showing me literal models. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:03 PM
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As in, you're not into dominant men or you don't think he'll be able to be dominant enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:00 PM
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He certainly can be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:58 PM
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Q4W: A guy who's shy and somewhat awkward* in normal life, but a "bad boy" (i.e. dominant, adventurous, etc.) in the bedroom. Is that something that appeals to you? Or would it feel weird or unconvincing because of his personality outside of the bedroom? *Not crippling shyness/awkwardness, but enough where you could notice it from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:06 PM
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Are there any traits, barring disabilities, that prevent a LVM from ever becoming a HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:32 AM
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Why do you think this? Why is the assumption here that "any girlfriend I get will NEVER love me"? ... Why do you assume you're the one, of all the people she's dated, that is the WORST in bed? I'm not OP but I'll openly tell on myself because yes, I assume this to be true, and I believe that no amount of effort I put in will make this not true. Don't get me wrong, I'd still try my hardest to please her, but I don't see the point in getting myself worked up with false hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:30 PM
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How can one work on being interesting to girls? Like when a girl says she talked to a guy for hours and was interested in him the whole time. I haven't had many crazy experiences or anything and I tend to be more of a homebody, so I have no idea how I could go about making a woman feel anything when talking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:55 PM
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A few things. I can't figure out how to be interesting to talk to. I've heard the whole "be interested" thing but after awhile I run out of things to talk about. I don't know how to lead a conversation when there's nothing in particular to talk about For specifically dating, I don't know how to be charming and charismatic enough to be interesting to women. Assuming she finds my looks acceptable, I don't know how to build attraction further.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:37 AM
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Is there a routine or a list of actionable steps one can follow for male self improvement? Not just stuff like gym/career/etc., but also developing more attractive social skills and becoming more of a "man" for lack of a better term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:54 AM
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Now I'm curious, what AI tool is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:42 AM
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I mean like you said, it has to be guitar/drums/piano/singing (not bass btw) and you have to play a popular genre. I play jazz piano and write contemporary classical music but obviously no one's gonna care about that lol. That being said, I can see alto/tenor sax, trumpet, violin, and cello being considered "cool/attractive" as well. Not so much the rest of the instruments in your standard wind band or orchestra.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:04 PM
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Does something like a male glow up/HVM routine exist? Something with granular, actionable steps I can check off one by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:56 PM
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Does something like a male glow up/HVM routine exist? Something with granular, actionable steps I can check off one by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:20 AM
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