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I didn't realize he was talking about pics when he said exposed til halfway through. I thought he was talking about some sort of hoe-pedia of well known hoes with their n-counts, history, STDs, and shit. The house thing is maybe too far, but n-count and STDs should be exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:43 AM
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So your opinion is that feminists and TRP also do it, so what is the difference exactly? Why is feminism not wrong for it but TRP is? And how is feminism not a cult, since your definition seems to be quite broad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:33 AM
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That is a bias, I think. People you approve of engage in it but you don't see it because they are people you approve of, but people you disapprove of also engage in it and it is now a problem because you are now aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:26 AM
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I did not say you specifically did, society as a whole does. If you do not like what society does, you have 2 choices - you can deal with it or you can attempt to change it. So what? Ok, so if you want to arbitrarily determine who gets to engage in victim mentality and who does not, no one is going to take that seriously, nor should they. The fact of the matter is people would not engage in victim mentality if our society did not incentivize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:12 AM
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Let's do this step by step so we can find out where we disagree. A man and woman agree to have sex. They agree they do not want children. If either disagree, then the responsibility is on them to stop. The responsibility is also on them to ensure that the person they are having sex with is being truthful. If you cannot ensure that, then it is your responsibility to stop. If you risk it, the risk is being taken on by you. If you are fooled, then you pay the price of the fool. It is your responsib…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:06 AM
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Vasectomies are more invasive than taking a pill. Why should I have to put more effort in to the cause when a woman could do it easier and the outcome if she didn't is more severe for her? Women are the ones who get pregnant, so more responsibility is on them. Well, it is invalid. You can recommend it all you want but no one will do it. Then we agree, and the fault also lies with them. However, men cannot force an abortion. The abortion is with the women, therefore she bears more responsibility …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:40 AM
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Say all you want about "victim mentality", but as I have grown up I have seen that it is attractive to people because it works. We live in that sort of culture now where victim mentality is rewarded. Feminism is basically victim mentality for an entire gender. Act like a victim on social media (if you're the right race/gender/orientation of course) and you get a mob to go after the one who "microaggressed" you. I don't think it has anything to do with individuals anymore, it is a cultural issue.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:32 AM
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Look up the word misogyny. It does not refer to inferiority. But if you look at all of human history, it is quite clear that reality has been biased against women. To believe otherwise is ignorant. Sorry not sorry. I'd say even in many places in the modern day. I agree, women who hold that viewpoint should abort and not bring any children into the world. Wire hangers are not banned. Would you prefer men force the abortions themselves? "Don't have sex" is not a valid answer, men should not have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:22 AM
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I'd love to respond to your points, but this just sounds like ESL rambling. Pedantic quibbling over definitions is a waste of time, male dominance is the usual meaning. Look it up. Uh huh, sure. So Islamic women deserve it correct? And women deserved it as well in the West when the patriarchy was working. So then, if women contributed to it, they should take ownership of it as well. It is as much their fault then. Because apparently without their complicity, it would "fall to the ground". Sounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:19 AM
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Your Song
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:35 PM
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I usually don't want anything to do with polyamorous people, but today I matched with a woman who has a wife but still hooks up with men. The wife is hot too. This form of polyamory is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:31 PM
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Good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:53 AM
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I think some people need to take their own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:38 AM
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I don't appreciate how pig headed and self-serving some know-it-alls can be. Yo- they are the ones who need to be shamed. C'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:32 AM
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I don't care if you think it is "ordinary". That is your opinion. I think it is ordinary to see sluts/promiscuous women as red flags. The comment you responded to was about a girl being shamed for being a virgin. The comment I responded to was about a woman on this forum who said a virgin at 35 "had something wrong with them". Not red flag. "Had something wrong with them". You're going to try to tell me that isn't shaming? Go tell someone that there's something wrong with them and then go "oh oh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:09 AM
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If you agree that virgins should not be judged for being virgins (or if you believe that promiscuous women can be judged as virgins are judged), then there was no need for you to argue with me at all or respond to me in the first place. That was my point. I do not believe that was your original point. I believe you were wrong, but do not want to admit it, so are now being revisionist and trying to pretend that was what you were saying all along because you do not want to admit you were wrong. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:51 AM
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Feminists, and honestly women in general today, also bemoan the residual effects of patriarchy. So even if it was necessary in the past, they act like it has to be atoned for and made up for in the present day by giving women Affirmative Action because of it. Now that's ridiculous. If it was needed, why should it have to be made up for? The patriarchy also just means the dominance of men. If men are the stronger gender, they are of course going to be dominant. You could say "oh strength is outda…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:48 AM
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Bruh, and I explained that doesn't matter. If the vast majority aren't sluts at 18, it is ok to judge a promiscuous 18 year old then? No one cares about your arbitrary number. We can go the same way for promiscuous women, the bigger their n count the more questions people are going to ask. My point isn't that hard to understand either, so it is hilarious how hard you're trying to intentionally misunderstand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:40 AM
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What about men feeling utterly unable to control themselves sexually? What about men continuing to raw dog women interchangeably despite their anti-family or anti-women views? Why don't other men call this out for what it is? Is men's lack of accountability purely a product of resentment? What changed? I'm still not convinced this is new phenomena. Men have always wanted to do this. What changed is that women changed and are more accepting of it. Therefore it happens more. Men have not hid being…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:36 AM
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I'd fuck her then ghost. If I can't fuck her, I try to keep it going until I could then ghost. If that just isn't happening, idk but all I know is that I would no longer be looking for a LTR with her. Idc if women don't like it. Women like this don't deserve any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:33 AM
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None of this matters, it is about girth. A girthy 4" is better than a skinny 5". You have to be above average lengthwise for girth to not matter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:30 AM
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25, 35, 55, it doesn't matter. It is still an arbitrary number. It is in no way comparable to 18 as the legal age. I can show you where it says so and society agrees on it. Society does not agree on whatever number you are arbitrarily trying to pick for older virgins. If you're trying to say every number is arbitrary, then no number is. Arbitrary has a concept because words have meanings. Correct in what sense? In what sense is it incorrect? If you have a relationship with a 16 year old, you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:00 AM
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I'm sorry but do you have reading comprehension issues or are you making logical fallacies because you can't do better? They are used as insults in the modern day. If you can't admit that, you are in denial. If you want to get pedantic, simply use the word promiscuous and change the argument to it is justifiable to judge promiscuous women. There, made it easy for you since you were struggling. All this is is literal tone policing, "use this word, not that which is a synonym". Ok. The intent of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:23 AM
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That's your opinion, and not something anyone else has to adhere to. Therefore irrelevant to me. Virgin is also used as an insult, you're absolutely lying if you pretend otherwise. And that age is still arbitrary. Being a slut is not common everywhere, so according to you it is perfectly acceptable to judge a slut in places where they are not common, correct? Just because it is common does not make it justifiable. Racism was common. Homophobia was common. Argumentum ad populum is a logical falla…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:32 AM
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I'm not the one who brought it up, so you'd have to ask the person who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:22 AM
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...do you have reading comprehension problems? I didn't say we went to the moon 1000 years ago. Those were two separate sentence, separated by other sentences, so clearly two separate concepts. Sugartits, I didn't say which gender is exactly the same as 1000 years ago. I said which one is MORE like their gender from 1000 years ago. Are you really going to pretend the role of women hasn't changed drastically since feminism? Uh huh, so according to you sluts were more common in the past than they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:22 AM
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But men have always been that way, and still built civilization and gone to the moon. Men haven't changed recently, women have. Which gender acts more like their ancestors from 1000 years ago, men or women? Therefore, if you isolate the variable, that is what is causing the change and resultant "collapse of society". So pretty weak insult there, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:11 AM
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And who decides that? Let me guess, you? You're basically making the argument that it is fine to judge people who don't fit into the mold, while also perpetuating the very reason people are hesitant to break out of the mold. So basically, if I live in a community where sluts are atypical, it is fine to judge a slut for being a slut there, correct? It would mean something is wrong with her? And how far does this go exactly? If you live in a super hick Republican area, you should be judged for bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:04 AM
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Because that has nothing to do with her looks. Are you familiar with the idiom judging a book by its cover? It is about judging a person by their internal characteristics and not their appearance. A non-virgin doesn't have a different appearance. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don%27t_judge_a_book_by_its_cover The English idiom "don't judge a book by its cover" is a metaphorical phrase that means one should not judge the worth or value of something by its outward appearance alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:48 AM
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I don't deny that. In fact, it is the virgin haters here who claim that they can just "tell" who is a virgin. Usually women against men they are trying to shame. I call BS on that all the time. And us men don't even have a hymen. Virginity is not a "construct" lmao. It has a very specific definition. It is a woman who hasn't had sex before. If that's a construct everything is. "Don't call him a first time home owner, that's just a made up construct!". Having said that, just because a virgin and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:41 AM
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It is just one example. But the general aspect is true, especially how women virgin shame men. I mean you kind of just proved it case in point in your second paragraph. I hope you can see your own bias. Because you lost your virginity in your 20s, that is arbitrarily the cut off. And if a woman had lost it at 18, somehow the 20s would be the arbitrary cut off. Because obviously they couldn't be the red flag themselves right? Especially if they're a slut instead. That couldn't be a red flag accor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:36 AM
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We should all just call all the women here genocide deniers. Apparently if you call someone a name often enough it becomes true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:24 AM
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If it is estrogen, yes. Estrogen is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:22 AM
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Exactly, it isn't a story of a virgin disaster. It is a story of a slut who used deception, which is typical of a slut and why you shouldn't marry one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:05 AM
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No, I'm just showing you how ludicrous your point is. If you think about it for just a second, you realize how stupid it is. I’m not saying you can’t learn anything about sex unless it’s from new partners, but you can certainly learn a lot more from a teacher doing prac app than you can from just watching a video or reading an article, and then winging it with no feedback. What you don't seem to understand is that once a virgin has sex, they won't just lay there mute not giving feedback. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:55 AM
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Oh sure, it's fine to judge virgins but judge a slut and everyone gets their panties in a bunch. This is also the kind of attitude girls face as described here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/x8jb4j/why_women_in_college_are_picked_on_by_her_peers/ Women like OP will shame and judge virgins, so virgin women (women being more susceptible to shaming and needing to fit in socially) will take it to heart and feel like they need to lose their virginity otherwise there is something …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:45 AM
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So? Still makes you suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:32 AM
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Oh so now these guys are a one trick pony? What a surprise. And women are supposed to learn these tricks from these "experts" who happen to be skilled in this one trick that for some reason can't be learned through any other means. You also have to luck out that these "experts" know their own separate tricks, because otherwise you could have an n=10, and then could all all know the same trick. So I guess you better be hopping from town to town cuz otherwise all these dudes are going to know thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:24 AM
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It isn't just about ugly. Obese is a big deal. Pun intended. For all I know, this dude is one of those feeders. Ugly and fit, I could see. But a fat ugly woman? Nah, there's something up. Especially if he isn't ugly and fat himself. You just didn't read the scenario closely enough. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:47 AM
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Lmao, imagine being this butthurt over a simple correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:43 AM
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I didn't say anything about your main point. I saw something that is probably inaccurate so I corrected it. The main point is irrelevant to me and I wasn't disputing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:40 AM
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And what makes you think all these dudes that this woman is fucking around with are "experts"? Women go on about how casual sex is so bad because so many men are so bad at sex. According to women's claims, a slut is more likely to pick up bad habits for sucky guys than good habits from "expert" guys. I think you're grasping at straws for very specific extenuating circumstances that aren't very common. What are these esoteric sex moves that can't be learned about otherwise? Sex is so talked about…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:39 AM
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What if the obese girl is really a transwoman? Like I said, he'd have to have a good reason. The scenario didn't indicate a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:31 AM
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So what you wasn't necessarily true if it can both be supported and contradicted (I'd like to see the source btw). And you had to unlearn what may have been false rather than it being a "true bias" that you had to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:30 AM
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Like evolutionary I'm supposed to be attracted to my own race I think it is the opposite. You're supposed to find the "out tribe" more attractive for genetic diversity and to prevent inbreeding. https://www.theguardian.com/science/2009/may/24/genes-human-attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:26 AM
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Still suspect decision making, or indicative of having some huge flaw that kept him from doing better. I doubt her personality is that unique. They could have just been friends. But I thought the scenario was that the other wife was lovely too. So it isn't a personality vs looks debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:20 AM
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I'd leave her at home probably, and if people asked I would say she is busy with work or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:11 AM
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And I keep saying, so what? For some reason you seem to think you can only figure some specific new things by having sex with someone else and it can't be learned any other way. What are these esoteric sex moves that apparently can't be learned otherwise? Maybe it is just that you specifically have trouble with other learning methods. It is just grasping at straws to rationalize your viewpoint. It is highly doubtful that you can only learn things by having sex with multiple partners and can't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:09 AM
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Of course, guy two has suspect decision making skills. Unless there was a good reason, like the obese wife is super rich and will die sooner due to her health, I wouldn't trust guy two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:00 AM
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And a woman learning to please other men helps me how? Irrelevant. Then up your Google-fu. You might have, but lots of women don't. Every other woman has some bitching to do about "sex trauma". I consider the "learn new stuff" and "baggage" to be a wash, if not tilted to the baggage side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:58 PM
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Good. Who cares if other people don't think you're good in bed if the person you're having sex with does? You don't need to have sex with other people to learn sex tips and tricks. Information is at the touch of your finger. Then you can practice it with your boo without increasing your n count. On the flip side, you're also going to pick up more baggage. I've been with a few girls who don't try stuff anymore because they have baggage about what another guy did. Not that she didn't like it, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:51 PM
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This is basically how I do it too. I technically support both sides since I don't really give a fuck about it and don't have any moral objections to women killing their fetuses. I show my pro-abortion side when with a liberal and my pro-life side when with a conservative. I hope both sides win and neither side gets what they want. In voting, I support whichever side is the underdog at the time to get it to balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:48 PM
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Sounds like you don't understand what the word hypocrisy means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:43 PM
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But that isn't what the women here claim. They try to claim that you'll always have bad sex with a virgin woman. Because apparently having sex 1 time with 100 guys somehow makes you better in bed than having sex 100 times with 1 guy. Yeah right, cuz you figuring out that Shaun from Starbucks liking a finger up the butt will really help you out in bed with your next bf. Gimme a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:43 PM
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Women are apparently the gatekeepers of sex. With great power comes great responsibility. If they want to be the gatekeepers of sex, they should also face asymmetric responsibility. They can still have abortions, wire hangers aren't getting banned. What is that stat pro-abortionists like pulling out? Abortion bans don't actually reduce abortions or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:29 PM
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Just another "men need to help women" screed. And when men need help "huur duur that's your problem to fix, men should fix it". And that is if it isn't "you deserve it", "it isn't a big enough deal", "it can't be solved" or "it is your own fault". Nah. Women have made clear they're only in it for themselves, I feel no obligation to help people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:19 PM
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Just by reading your post, I am assuming you are not from the West. Must be a non-Western thing. Haven't really heard of that happening much here. I'm sure it does happen, just like anything can happen. As for why I think it happens, even on this forum you can kind of hear the resentment for virgin women and men who value virgin women. The men must be incels or misogynists. The women must be bad at sex, gold diggers, or have terrible personalities. Crabs in a bucket mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:05 PM
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Pointing out hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:43 PM
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Projecting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:09 PM
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Female nurses are notoriously bitchy. Tiny exception for some pediatric nurses and a few rehab ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:02 PM
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The real question is, what is wrong with the other half? I like these polls on Dem and Rep views on feminism/men. It gives me hope for younger guys to know that they aren't completely cucked. But look at how women view men, they clearly aren't interested in helping them. The other side of the coin that is often left out is the impact of older "liberal" men. If you look at the polls, old geezers like feminism and devalue men more than anyone else. These old geezers basically lived an easier life …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:48 PM
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So it is reading comprehension problems. I did not say I found them unattractive, I said if a woman was unattractive due to looks it would be her looks and not virginity. The only thing I said about myself was that I did not find virginity unattractive. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:29 PM
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If you don't think they'd gold dig their own men if they could, you're mistaken. They're still gold diggers, the difference is simply opportunity. Same with American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:27 PM
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Ah yes, say something negative about women and some lady has to chime in with "men do it too". But when women say something negative about men and men say women do it too, suddenly women go "that's derailing! we're talking about women now, not men". Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:26 PM
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Also decreasing testosterone (possibly due to plastics) and worse heart health (not just individually, but genetically as well).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:24 AM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:22 AM
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It answered the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:20 AM
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Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:18 AM
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Never took the time to count, seems like a waste of time. Yep, everyone thinks they're special, but the numbers don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:17 AM
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Boohoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:16 AM
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That's what all the women who initiate divorce say. You're not as special as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:15 AM
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No I didn't, seems like a reading comprehension problem. If you're trying to refer to this: The hidden upside of so many people getting uglier is that being ugly isn't as big of a deal anymore. The point is obviously that I'm not concerned about ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:14 AM
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It isn't that deep, you are way too touchy about it. It is an idiom, a figure of speech. My assertion wasn't that only your hubby could choose divorce. I know you're saying "I'll never divorce", but I've known women long enough that what they say doesn't match what they do. So do the math again. There's a reason women initiate the majority of divorce. And I'm sure many of them said they'd never divorce as well. But also, if you are on this board, you are not the average married person. So that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:12 AM
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It isn't misogynistic. That is just a shaming tactic. It is only a problem if you buy into their method.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:01 AM
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Also, women just aren't the best at making good decisions. Just because something seems dumb for a woman to do, doesn't mean she won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:59 AM
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Even women who move from those countries to here later in life don't tend to be as man hatey.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:46 AM
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... you trying to make it 134 and 18 videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:45 AM
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There are no guarantees in life. No, I'm realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:44 AM
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You trying to make it 101?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:33 AM
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The difference is wishful thinking. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:32 AM
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That's a gamble. It can happen, but considering the divorce rates and single motherhood rates these days you're hoping for a lot. It also leaves out the fact that it can be a repeat thing. Maybe they work on it the first time, and then it comes to asking for divorce again later. I've seen that happen too. As I said, usually it is just a matter of time. Yeah, everybody who gets married marries someone who doesn't want to divorce them. As Mike Tyson said, "everyone has a plan til they get punched …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:23 AM
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I've seen other people breaking that time, so I know it is possible. There's no evidence of anyone jumping to the moon, and there's no evidence of one party wanting a divorce and it being denied in the modern day because the other party said "no". It can be dragged out, but it eventually happens. I've also seen people claim to "not believe in divorce" and then get divorced, so I know it happens. False equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:16 AM
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I think the Mayans had some sort of farming system that resulted in short term gains but was disastrous in the long term. I read about it too long ago when I visited the Yucatan. But essentially, a lot of it was their own doing. So yeah, that was a good comparison.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 04:10 AM
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No, but I haven't tried to jump to the moon in a single bounce either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:08 AM
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Doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:05 AM
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The courts do. Also, you don't need to be divorced to live as a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:04 AM
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Only a matter of time...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:03 AM
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I think they'd agree that you can reject them for it. What they want is to be free from criticism, even though they'd be the first to criticize men for having their own standards (calling them insecure, incels, hypocrites, etc). Women honestly believe they can't be criticized. Doing so makes you a "bad" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:00 AM
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This is one of the last places on Reddit that you can criticize feminism and/or women without being banned or downvote dogpiled. You'd have to go to 4chan if this place shuts down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:57 AM
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No, I do not find virgin women to be unattractive due to the virginity itself. Now if they are a virgin due to their looks, then they are unattractive - but not due to the virginity. They would still be unattractive as an ugly slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:41 AM
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I'm not technically TRP, but purple. Although that is what women want, many women are also themselves losers so can't achieve what they want to accomplish. So they settle. Sometimes they can't even land a beta bucks. If they somehow get an opportunity down the line, there's probably a good chance they'll try to take it. Also, beta bucks doesn't mean rich. It just means being used for your money. While 50k won't get you a luxurious life, if they can squeeze money out of the 50k per year, they'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:33 AM
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Most of the time, I don't even have to ask. The women I've dated usually bring it up before I do. But there's always other context clues. You know how "women talk"? So do men. Also "women talk" with men too sometimes, not just other women. And if you need a last ditch effort, alcohol is a great drug. Either they'll bring it up, or you can steer the conversation that way as part of a "drunk heart to heart". Those are just the ways I know work, I'm sure there's many others. It isn't as esoteric as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:24 AM
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If that's how you feel, why don't you ask if the bill will be split before you actually go out? That way no one is wasting their time, including you. You clearly won't consider a man who splits no matter how the date goes, so what's the point of the date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:13 AM
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If you stretch the definitions of words, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:10 AM
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Only if she's a single mother, poor bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:04 AM
1

How the turntables...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:04 AM
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Oh it was no problem at all, don't worry about it, happy to do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:01 AM
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Women somehow always remember what happened at 2:43 PM on November 2, 2019, but conveniently forget about what happened at 2:41 PM on November 2, 2019 that got them to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:59 AM
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The hidden upside of so many people getting uglier is that being ugly isn't as big of a deal anymore. Only really bitchy women are concerned about other people's ugliness at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:57 AM
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What's the end game? Total nudity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:40 AM
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Ok, my point made then. And obsession is a strong word. That's your opinion. I would say an untrue one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:38 AM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:34 AM
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I didn't bring race into it. If you inferred a race, that isn't on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:22 AM
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No, that isn't what I was arguing, that is what you mistakenly inferred, and therefore not my problem. Your second paragraph is pretty much case in point. How many men out there really have "nothing to offer". I'm sure you'd say "omigawd so many", but I doubt that is accurate. What American women like doing is denigrating and demonizing men to justify their shitty behavior. I've traveled enough to know that isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:20 AM
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Damn, they're going to be someone's mom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:57 AM
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That is a very Western-centric viewpoint. And even then, it is a very patronizing, online feminist viewpoint. Not true from what I have seen. The preference is more widespread IRL then women here would want to admit. If it weren't an issue, it wouldn't be an issue, nomsayin? Obviously guys aren't going to talk about it with you in HS, you're a girl. I was actually talking about the hymen thing that still occurs in many countries in the modern day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:54 AM
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Yep, this being another example. I just don't think this is a recent phenomenon for the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:43 AM
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I don't know how long this has been going on, but women are wearing leggings that show their full camel toe. Like you can see the exact lines going up their vulva. Maybe I just never noticed before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:39 AM
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Possibly, it always seemed like it was the peasants who were more concerned with religion, morals, and virtue. I think we just know more about the rich because more is written about them. Just because we don't know the intricate history of peasants doesn't mean they weren't concerned with it. And in the modern day, it definitely just isn't the aristocracy where that matters. It might even be the opposite, where the rich tend to be more liberal. So how did it get passed to today's lower class if …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:37 AM
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As I've grown older, I've come to realize that women need to complain/bitch to function. I honestly think most can't be happy unless they have something to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:33 AM
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Yeah, but it applies to such a wide group of people. Men wanting a virgin wife wasn't exactly rare, and women being valued for their virginity wasn't exactly rare. And it went on for so long. So you would think they would have noticed it long ago. Even today, it is a big thing in many cultures. With no signs of stopping considering all the hymen repair surgery. That's why I'm not so convinced it is so rare. You guys are trying to make it sound like having a hymen is the aberration, but it sounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:31 AM
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Surprising that it apparently "matters so little" but has been a big deal for so long, and still is in many parts of the world today. So much so that hymen repair is a big enough thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:15 AM
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My ideal type/10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:11 AM
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This particular gramma's funeral was during pride month. So there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:10 AM
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Maybe this is the real reason no one is taking global warming seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:09 AM
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When I looked it up, it said having it up to your 20s isn't unusual. What percentage of women are even virgins past their 20s? Like 2%? Didn't people use to watch the bride lose her virginity? What kind of Houdini is sneaking pig's blood in? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bedding_ceremony
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:08 AM
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Do you guys think that with global warming women will dress even more scantily (if that is even possible)? Like pretty soon women will just be coming to gramma's funeral like this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:57 AM
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I don't know if I believe that is for most women. Are there stats on this? I know hymens can break outside of sex, but it has been a time honored tradition even when women were working hard in the field. I guess it depends on how early you lose your virginity. So while a torn hymen doesn't necessarily mean you are a virgin, an intact one does (poophole loophole excluded, but that is aside from hymens anyway). Sucks for the virgins with torn hymens then I guess, but life isn't fair. I'm not even …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:52 AM
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Oh, that's good. I only brought it up here because so many women go "oh you want a virgin, HyPoCrITe" - not that the hypocrite accusation really even matters since women are plenty hypocritical in dating themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:45 AM
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Good luck proving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:41 AM
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I don't even see what point you're trying to make or how this is relevant to what I said. Good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:38 AM
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To hear the women here tell it, yes. But that isn't even what I implied. The point about the hookers is that it doesn't even matter if you go to that extreme, they're all wiped out by the born again virgin move. So while you could just fuck 10 women and become a born again virgin, why not go for broke if you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:34 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:29 AM
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This conversation got me thinking on the male hoe vs female hoe debate. What's to stop a man from sleeping around, being a "born again virgin", and then seeking a virgin wife - which isn't hypocritical because he is now a virgin too? It isn't like your dick changes, so who would even know? You can be a born again virgin slut all you want, but there's no hymen. I guess you could repair it, but it isn't the same as natural. Go fuck all the hookers you want then become a born again virgin. Also, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:28 AM
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Well, I do think you're wrong. Because I've heard your arguments for why you think what you do and they don't make sense. If you could reasonably defend your position, I'd respect it, but that hasn't happened, so... You're the one who brought up "bedding", now you're saying it doesn't matter. You see my point about how you argue your point? Right, and you tried to say establishing power over a weak man doesn't count. It obviously does as you kind of betrayed your point here. You said establishin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:23 AM
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You can always be a born again virgin. Which actually makes more sense for a man since your dick stays exactly the same after losing your virginity - it isn't like breaking a hymen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:16 AM
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Who made you the arbiter of what is ok and what is not? Sometimes people are wrong, so I'll say so. There's no rules on this for the Internet, and none that I see in the PPD rules. This isn't /r/askwomen where you can just screech "iNvAliDaTiOn". The more men you fuck in general, the less you value. But hot trumps poor. All you need to bed powerful men is to be hot yourself. You're dreaming if you think an ugly woman is going to bed powerful men just because she isn't fucking poor men. You're al…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:05 AM
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Right, but the point of talking things through with someone is getting something out of it that you wouldn't just talking to a wall. I'd say given the current training and viewpoints of the female dominated therapy industry, getting their perspective could actually do more harm than good to men. That's good. Hopefully people can afford that, I think the people most in need of it are living paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:46 PM
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Ok, and that's still wrong. Obviously not AwAlT, but enough. It isn't mutually exclusive like you think it is. If a woman could manipulate both powerful and weak men at the same exact time, she would. Fucking a poor man won't cost her her wealth. In fact, she has less risk because she has her own money and doesn't need his. PPD, if not the entire Internet, is he-said/she-said, are you new?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:43 PM
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"Who let the dumb guy/girl in?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:38 PM
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You're saying women don't want to manipulate weak men, which I assume you know is bad. I didn't say women don't want to manipulate powerful men, I said they want to manipulate weak men too. You're the one saying they won't do the latter. Reading comprehension problems I see. You can, but they can still be wrong. There's a huge gulf between only anecdotes and generalizations. For some women, not true for women in general. Most women are not middle class or above. And even middle class women will …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:36 PM
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Like I said, female thinking. And they don't see the man as powerless. If they see a guy as attractive, they assume he has power due to the halo effect Tons of women can't tell a chihuahua dressed as a mammoth from a real mammoth even though it should be obvious. And there is definitely a sizable number of women who do like bossing around a chihuahua anyway, you can't speak for all women. This is classic "women are wonderful" thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:26 PM
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Middle class women too. I've seen it happen plenty, sometimes it is a "rebellion" thing, sometimes it is something novel. A hot poor guy isn't living in poverty for long, there's plenty of women there to snatch him up and let him mooch off of her. At least for a while, and he can just bounce around. Hot people who stay poor are rare. Nah, women are no strangers to manipulation, it is female thinking to think only men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:22 PM
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Nah, lots of poor guys get tail as long as they are hot. Hotness overrules it. I think subconsciously women also think that a hot poor guy is easier to get/control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:14 PM
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I mostly agree, although money can also be a proxy for success, talent, and ambition - which I do think influences attraction. It is what you do with the money that counts. If you have enough money that you aren't worked ragged and it makes your life less stressed, you will be more sexually attractive. Not the case if you had the money but just sat on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:13 PM
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That's not the only reason, but one reason, sure - stated because the conversation is with a woman. Speak in her language, so to speak. I did. I'm responsible. And I have no regrets. But a woman seemed confused about it, so I explained it in terms she could understand. According to you. I think you're struggling with some reading comprehension here, which was obvious with the miss of the rhetorical question, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:08 PM
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Porn has always existed. It is more advanced now, but at the end of the day you're just looking at a 2d object you can't interact with. It is a symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:50 PM
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What a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:48 PM
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Besides the that, the other big scam about ThErApY is that these people are often woefully under-qualified. Have you seen the programs they go to? They're shit. Have you seen the caliber of people admitted? Shit. It sucks as a career, so it attracts less competitive people which further incentivizes to pay the field less. Why should I trust a person like that? It works for some because there's a lot of people even worse off than them, but it won't work for everyone. That's why half the time you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:45 PM
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women, even if I liked sex, I would not at all wanna play around in these streets, shit looks like a scam to me And yet so many do so often. Somethings up. Chad's dick must just be that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:37 PM
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Either pressured or used some sort of subterfuge/manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:30 PM
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Sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:21 PM
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Virtually. That's why I am posting here. This place routinely gives me cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:20 PM
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If you think American women don't call American men "Fat, loud, lazy, surface-level, and stupid" you are out of your mind. They are. You're simply wrong. Women, especially American women, are no strangers to being hypocrites. So your theory of them not doing it because they also have those attributes is flat out wrong. If you don't think foreign women also don't call their own men "fat, loud, lazy, surface-level, and stupid" you are wrong about that as well. American women don't view any men wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:17 PM
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Almost every woman I know with a high n count has some baggage about rape, regret sex, or some other sex sob story. Usually multiple. inb4 ThAt'S aLl WoMeN No, it isn't. To answer your question, I personally don't want to be a manslut because I don't like STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:14 PM
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It was a rhetorical question, do you know what that is? I can, have, and will. The OP asked a question, so I answered. Not sure why you thought anyone was asking for your approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:08 PM
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I've said this before. Western women treat Western men worse than non-Western women treat non-Western men (and even Western men), even though Western men treat Western women better than how non-Western men treat non-Western women. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:06 PM
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They vary, because as you should know from your "extensive" knowledge, America is a very diverse nation - probably one of the most diverse in the world. But if you can boil it down to something "general", stuff like "they don't do enough". Your turn. What is this "worse" stuff that non-American women believe about American men that American women apparently also don't believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:02 PM
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I don't think so, based on what has occurred. Poorly, about the same as women abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:53 PM
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Well known according to who? You? People who think like you? I think you need to check your sources. Anecdotal evidence is still anecdotal even if they are not your own experiences. And my experience from someone who is partially from America and partially from another country, and who knows women from both, also support my claim. Are you saying you are not American? So then how would you know what American women have to say about American men? In my experience, foreign women do not think any le…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:45 PM
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Oh wow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:38 PM
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You really can't say whether American women are more free than women in Africa? I mean I have been to a few African countries, but don't feel like I need to have spent time there to answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:34 PM
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Yeah, but there's more to the world than Europe and Asia. Of the ~4 billion women, would you say most are free or not free as Americans? That's what my point was. And for the France example, while the taking less care of the bodies may not apply, the other two things do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:31 PM
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I've lived abroad for years at a time. And if you think you need "extensive" conversations to hear what women have to say, you're wrong. Women are more open than you assume. At least with people they trust, perhaps that's your stumbling block? You can be 100% sure and also 100% wrong, c'est la vie. You are way overestimating the intimacy of talking about this stuff. I mean your initial comment was "you should hear what they say about men abroad", correct? And how did you get this "extensive" inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:28 PM
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Still possible, especially if you're on the Western diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:15 PM
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I am multilingual, yes. Just by knowing Spanish I can knock a big chunk out of those 45. Most people don't realize how multilingual many countries outside of America are. Arabic as well. For example, I also speak French so when I visited African countries many Americans think I need to speak the African language when French works fine. As for the rest, English is the lingua franca. You'd be surprised at how many people can speak English well even in developing countries. Because as I said, I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:14 PM
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It is very similar to that old anti-Semitic trope: Jews are somehow inferior but also control everything. That's what feminists believe about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:09 PM
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I don't know if you consider "you get what you deserve" to be blaming anyone, but that is my general opinion about women these days. Especially women who go on those "boss bitch" or "proud to be a bitch" modes. If you're gonna act like a bitch, you're gonna get treated like a bitch - end of. IMO, the proportion of women acting that way is steadily increasing, so the result is increasing too. Now having said that, I personally don't blame the entire gender because I know plenty of women who aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:01 PM
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diabetuhs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:54 PM
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I am of an ethnic minority, no one knows I am an American until I tell them so. So I've spent plenty of time hearing what women have to say about American men. Honestly, any man can do so, just say you're from Canada or something. But I have also observed just how women abroad treat men and how women here treat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:52 PM
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There's never anything that is ever exclusive 100% to any gender. There are plenty of feminine men and plenty of masculine women. But personally, I have seen it happen way more with women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:48 PM
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As a man who has done extensive traveling through 45 countries, nope. Americans and Scandinavians are some of the most man hatey women in the world. Also the French and Belgians, but they hate everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:47 PM
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Honestly, probably not any worse than what American women say about men in general here at home. So that's a wash. Even with more freedom and rights than most women abroad, American women tend to be way more man hatey.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:37 PM
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Funny that American women have so much more freedom than most women in the world, and with that freedom they still choose to act sluttier and bitchier, while also taking less care of their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:36 PM
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Fact of the matter is, there are plenty of non-Westerners dreaming of marrying American men. Not that many non-Western men dreaming of marrying American women. They know the deal, they'd get better women at home. And before women go on a "they're just in it for the money/GC" screed - that's exactly what non-Western men who go after American women are after, if not more so. At least non-Western women think American men also treat them better, non-Western men know that American women treat men lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:35 PM
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The biggest issue I see with OPs post is that America is one of the most diverse places on the planet. Certain demographics of American women are waaaaaaaay below average. Some are average, and some are slightly above. Marriage rates, class, other QoL factors often reflect this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:33 PM
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This projection of non-Western women all being gold diggers is so hilarious. It isn't like you're less likely to run into a gold digger American woman. Plenty of useless American women as well. A man who goes abroad and gets a gold digger, probably would have ended up with a gold digger here too. And men who don't end up with a gold digger here probably will get a non-gold digger non-Westerner too. However, for the first guy - if you are going to end up with a gold digger anyway, might as well g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:31 PM
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I know a few women like that. Usually they are not prizes themselves but expect a lot from any man they want to be with. And for women who claim to be "happy being single" they sure do go on OLD a lot and complain about not finding someone a lot. Late 20s isn't that bad, but north of 30 and it is a shitshow. tl;dr they deserve what they get
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:15 PM
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Sometimes I'll have convos with single moms and even move to text, a couple of times even set date plans, and then ghost. I mean she's already had a baby daddy ghost, this isn't that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:09 PM
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Any man who marries a slut/woman with 3 ex husbands deserves what he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:08 PM
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I knew what kind of woman she would be before I even clicked the link. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:55 PM
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Then I hope he takes her for everything she has and divorce r's her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:51 PM
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1) The so called "patriarchy" and the resulting position of women was needed for the development of civilization and may even be justified. There's a reason pretty much 0 successful civilizations (some backwater tribe in rural China or in Africa do not count) had a "matriarchy" or did not utilize the patriarchy in some form. 2) Women are far more emotionally abusive than society is willing to admit. 3) Women only care about "fairness" when they benefit from it. Women are completely willing to up…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:34 PM
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The researcher is from Canada, and the subjects are most likely Canadian. Don't they already have a lot of socialist policies? I do think things would be different with US subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:33 PM
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I highly doubt the validity of this study. You people are willing to believe anything just because it is called a "study", no wonder we have a replication crisis. Francesca Luberti from Nipissing U, not even a professor yet just a postdoc at a no-name university? Has anyone looked her up? Hardly an impressive pedigree, and her personal views make it quite clear this was done with an agenda. I'm just doing a quick run through of the results and this is what I see: The pairwise contrasts showed th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:27 PM
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They want a low body count to LTR, if they want to sleep with you after the first date then you are not LTR material. Non-sluts are for LTRs, sluts are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:36 AM
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Keep seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:29 AM
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Cute. I'm a psych by trade, so if you need a refill in your meds, please call my front desk. Nice try at a "CMV thread though".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:14 AM
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inb4 "nO oNe IrL cArEs If YoU'rE a SlUt"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:05 AM
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Trader Joe's used to have their own ultra-pasteurized choco milk, but they discontinued it like a month or two ago. Can't believe I have to go back to this Fairlife shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:02 AM
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Sure, I'm an upper middle class guy with a financially successful family and high income so I can easily do that. But I still want to point out your logic is weak. Your logic seems to be that the virgin needs to be compensated in the name of fAiRnEsS. Except there is no obligation for fairness. Isn't that what the harpies here screech all the time? That life isn't fair, get over it? Where's the compensation for Chad having it easier? Where's the compensation for even the ugliest woman being able…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:00 AM
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LMAO at women acting like they are doing men a favor by wearing makeup that they then need to be compensated for. Women wear makeup for themselves according to them. But also to make themselves look better. You could not wear makeup, look worse, and therefore attract less attractive men - but many women are not willing to do that. The compensation for makeup is getting the more attractive men, no additional compensation is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:47 PM
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What an incredibly idiotic thing to quibble about. His throwaway account is almost as old as yours and has more karma. Reddit isn't real life. No one in real life cares about your Reddit account. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:25 AM
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import in people from areas that will be hard hit by global warming To is obviously the Western world, which is what you are talking about is mostly occurring. From was spelled out for you in my comment above. What do you see the end stage of what you are describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:18 AM
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So what's the end stage of it? Women will all just be single mothers? Or this is how we go extinct because women don't even want to be single mothers? Just trying to figure out how this ends according to you. Personally, I don't have an issue with it. If they want to remove themselves from the gene pool, I say good. Similar to what another user said above, I think it would be efficient to import in people from areas that will be hard hit by global warming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:59 AM
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At 30? Easy drop. Never look back. I doubt that would be the worst thing she's done either, trickle truth. More stuff is hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:51 AM
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I creeped on her a bit. Eerily similar. From the Northeast, NJ and NYC - Smurf always did give me NJ girl vibes. If you look at her FB, there's a pic of her at some bar with who I assume is her future husband - and it looks like a scene out of Smurf's life. The only thing is, this is a medical sales person. Smurf is some other kind of sales I thought. I always imagined it being something targeted to women, like home decor or some shit. Also, this girl divorced in 2008 - way before Smurf revealed…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:54 AM
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Never trust someone in sales
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:20 AM
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What would a list do? The point was that you were working off a stereotype, the same kind that the reality TV show exploits. The fact that your ideas of what those relationships mirror a trashy reality show kind of shows how bad your ideas are on this. I could say the exact same for you, but I don't really need your "help" - I doubt anyone actually does except for yourself. I don't think you are the moral/ethical expert you seem to think you are. That's your opinion - and like I said, no one car…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:09 AM
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I like how the women are patting themselves on their back because apparently higher net worth (if the numbers are accurate) apparently means more success/happiness. If I were an old person with no family or legacy, I wouldn't be sitting on my money - I'd be spending it. Also, I'd work less to make less because I don't have the worry of providing for my family on me. With that lifestyle, I would trade more free time for less money every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:57 AM
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Again, that's an assumption you are making. Do you notice that you seem to work off stereotypes? The "90 Day Fiance type couple" and stuff like that. There's plenty of very successful men who prefer to date non-Western women - some of who themselves are very successful and not some "poor third worlder" you consider them to be. I didn't miss the point, I just think your point is stupid and not as enlightened as you think it is. That is an assumption you made to fit your narrative. I believe your …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:49 AM
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I agree, for those guys who actually do think that. There's some "nice guys" who don't think that and think that women are legitimately turned on by niceness. Poor bastards. They should become drug dealers, and find girls hooked on blow. Those girls actually do reward an exchange of something with pussy. Not my bag, but we live in a world where exchanging pussy for blow makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:08 AM
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The assumption that they're intentionally searching for a wife there based on the assumptions you hold about them or that a woman is searching for someone to rip off is "gross". It does happen, but that same guy would have been used for his money by a Western women or that same woman would have used her non-Western husband for his money. It doesn't have to do with Western vs non-Western. It has to do with shitty women who want to use men for their money, which the Western world also contains in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:48 AM
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Those restrictions are done at the behest of women, not men. So I think you're the odd one out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:19 AM
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That's a horrible opinion of other women you have. The proportion of non-Western women trying to use men for their money is about the same or maybe even less than Western women. Western women are no angels themselves. You're the one pretending that non-Western women think the same as you. If you think that most women share this antinatalist view, you're the one lying to yourself. Non-Western doesn't mean third world and poor. And even in "poor third world countries", not all women share the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:17 AM
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I mean, yeah if you're a woman it places the first message onus on you so it is more "ass" than apps that make the guy do it. But even so, most women just do the standard "hey" and the conversation doesn't progress unless the guy leads it from there. Every once in a while a woman will put some effort it, but it is rare. On the guy's side, it is an app that leads to slightly less no initial responses. If a girl messages first, she'll probably respond for a while at least. No guarantees of anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:03 AM
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No, many non-Western women do want kids. You are trying to make it sound like women in general do not want kids. At the very worst, they don't act like Western women and still have kids even if they don't want to - which is functionally the same result. Fertility rate differences are the proof in the pudding. Right, and it is increasing in rates as far as I know. And it isn't just Western men. Non-Western men aren't marrying Western women at the same rates as Western men are marrying non-Western…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:00 AM
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So this single women who don't need no man article is making waves on Reddit. Unfortunately, I can't actually find the data the article is referencing. Its own link goes to this, which is apparently some blog. The one source of those figures has this as the source caption: Federal Reserve Board’s Survey of Consumer Finances and author’s calculations. I tried to find it myself by going to the FED website. No luck in getting the numbers she got. Anyone know where the numbers actually came from? Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:46 AM
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I'm 30. I don't see myself getting married and having kids for another 2 years, maybe longer. Probably more like 5. Is it worth it to freeze my sperm?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:15 AM
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I looked at POF just once out of morbid curiosity with a fake account. It was disgusting. Craigslist hookup vibe. I've never done OkCupid, but I heard Redditors complaining about how it was like Tinder now that Match owns it. That viewing anyone's profile thing might have gone away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:17 PM
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Tinder is mostly trashy girls now. But they are leaking over into the other two more recently. I have been seeing a lot more Tinder girls on Hinge and especially Bumble in the last couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:07 PM
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Tinder has sucked for years now. The last time I got a Tinder hookup was in 2019. Mid-2021 just for a Tinder date. We need studies on Bumble and Hinge, which are at least limping along. But Bumble is probably going to get wrecked within a year or 2 as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:59 PM
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It has never happened to me before. But to be honest, the /r/borednignored or /r/freeuse thing does kind of turn me on. So maybe I should incorporate that stuff into my sex life soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:10 PM
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be honest about what they’re attracted to. That isn't going to happen any time soon for the majority of women and it is almost farfetched enough to not even worth being considered. Women will have a million reasons for why they shouldn't be honest - "men react blahblahblah", "no obligation to be honest", "indoctrination by the patriarchy", etc. All of which apparently trump being honest to be an honest person. I don't see it that way, but they apparently do - so expecting that is not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:00 PM
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You're doing something a lot of women do, not just towards men but other women as well (being catty); you are assuming malicious intent where there is none. You've already decided that you know the intents and understanding of how "nice guys" think, and you are convinced because it allows you to put them in the "villain" role and you (as well as other women) in the "victim" role. But consider that they aren't using "sex tokens". Nice guys legitimately think women are attracted to niceness as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:36 PM
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I think it would be more efficient to let Western women remove themselves from the gene pool evolutionarily. Then import non-Western women, who are already building parallel societies in Western nations, to make them the majority. As long as the same mistake isn't made twice, it might work out. I think the number of Western men seeking non-Western women has been increasing for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:26 PM
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