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why are we talking about not being in the mood? I never mentioned that and no one should be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:49 PM
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huh? you think a man gets more pleasure from penetrating a woman than she gets from being penetrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:58 PM
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i don't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:15 AM
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in society in general girls don't really have to do anything. they can just be cute and fun and just exist and get tons of life's perks. guys have to perform and excel and achieve and lead and manage and fix and control...and then they STILL also have to look good, dress well etc. and women have NO understanding or empathy for men about...well, anything, but specifically with respect to the bedroom. they don't get that men have to literally delay or sacrifice their own pleasure for hers, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:44 PM
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I truly can't. I can't imagine who wouldn't already know the answer(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:33 AM
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first of all, in most of the U.S., just about anyone can be fired from just about any job without a reason. you can't legally be fired for illegal reasons, obviously, but that simply means they'll lie or be vague about a reason and it'll be up to you to prove it was for something like that. second, when I say "no choice" I'm saying that there are many scenarios where a person's ability to secure even one job is so extremely challenged that once they have, they're compelled to hang onto that job …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:24 AM
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women are generally not very sensitive when it comes to a man who can't do something that women have become conditioned to assume all men can do by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:17 AM
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I don't even know where to start lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:38 AM
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way more women than not are attractive and sexually viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:08 AM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:08 AM
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I in fact would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:07 AM
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no choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:06 AM
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that's one requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:59 PM
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I mean, girls are inherently more attractive when they're young. it's pretty universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:56 PM
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I've had multiple jobs where coworkers who'd been there longer just didn't like me on sight and I ended up getting fired because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:48 PM
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lol "vape only"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:44 PM
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not to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:43 PM
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those girls aren't remotely fat. they're also not 200 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:42 PM
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bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:41 PM
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absolutely 100% the opposite. it's inane for you to even suggest this, as men have very few 'boxes' they need ticked by a woman, while women have seemingly infinite such requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:34 PM
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it's interesting you touched on this... to my perception, a great many women do see it as a man's 'fault' if he's not attractive to women. like if you can't figure out how to get girls, you're not a 'real man'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:32 PM
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they could be victims, of profoundly inflexible women's demands in a potential partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:29 PM
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women don't care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:26 PM
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yet every woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:24 PM
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you don't sound very purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:22 PM
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eww. "picking up pussy" and he has a son ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:21 PM
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there are absolutely legitimate sites/pages where women are earnestly (and brutally) mocking men for how disgustingly unsexy they are for basically everything they ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:19 PM
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both genders have issues. society evolved, and has for decades now gone out of its way to make sure girls and women feel supported and respected and nurtured and protected. there are 50 zillion programs, resources, regulations, initiatives etc. to empower the female (while still allowing her to be traditionally feminine – and therefore inconsistent/erratic/flighty – if that's who she is). society has not, in fact, evolved to provide more support for boys and men, more latitude in how they can sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:13 PM
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maybe it can be trained, but it's still directly counterintuitive to one's nature in a way that (a) women never even think about (okay, I guess) and (b) women fundamentally judge/mock men for (not as okay).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:57 PM
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my (rhetorical) response to virtually everything women complain about that's gender-specific is "but would you switch places?" and their answer is never "sure!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:53 PM
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that's because women's demands are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:17 PM
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but...if there's no wisdom to suggesting a change, then why are most women who enjoy the ability to choose whatever man they want to date so perpetually dissatisfied with the personalities and conduct of the "high value men" they unwaveringly date?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:56 AM
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it's incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:44 AM
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you're "not into attractive women"? how does this work exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:43 AM
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so you're not romantic or sexual, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:08 PM
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is this English?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:08 PM
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virtually every time I read of something that boys or men definitionally "need" or fundamentally "prefer", it's something that I, as a male, do not need or prefer. what does that say of me? maybe I'm not really a man? I'm being sincere here, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:04 PM
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I think perhaps a better way of seeing it might be this: Men should not have any right to be violent with women over being insulted or verbally attacked...but when women use those kinds of very triggering insults/attacks, they're likely consciously aware that the nature of them will very possibly elicit an internal response in a man that is in direct dialogue with the compulsion to be violent, or feel violent. for me personally, as a man who has lived my whole life as a gross loser, the most dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:46 AM
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this is very easy to say when you're a woman and need to do literally nothing to attract the opposite sex. and..."multiple important things"? having a romantic/sexual/intimate/loving universe as part of your life isn't interchangeable with, say, woodworking or joining a bowling league. it's a singular, massive part of what virtually every free, healthy human wants as a regular component of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:27 AM
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and, yet, you wouldn't swap places.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:29 AM
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for me? there is no solution. I'm everything unattractive to women and I'll live and die this way. it's just compounded psychologically by how maddeningly dishonest women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:40 PM
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Not following your analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:35 PM
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it's the overwhelming percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:34 PM
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it's not just getting approached. women effectively have to do nothing ever to "earn" romance, sex, companionship etc., other than perhaps being kinda cute, not extremely obese, and maybe not be actively hostile and crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:34 PM
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"a certain advantage"? they have literally every advantage, to exponential degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:28 PM
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you're kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:27 PM
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sigh lol...it's the exact fucking opposite. women believe - correctly - that they can attract a top tier man even if they're not 8-10s. men don't "expect" any particular woman to automatically be into him. what men go for and try for isn't the same as what they expect or demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:30 AM
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your*
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:26 AM
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women demand about 10 times the number of ticked boxes as men do. you have to be kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:25 AM
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meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:20 AM
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You don't think men would be less resentful of women if women weren't so shitty toward men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:54 AM
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Doesn't mean you can't go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:41 PM
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Go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:25 PM
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Is it not a huge focal component of most women's lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:50 PM
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everything about your presence here is fulltarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:25 AM
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aren't men and sex and romance and dating basically the end all, be all of most women's existences?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:20 AM
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this is for the same reason so many other things go one way from men about women and quite another from women about men. it's because men are generally attracted to women who are more vulnerable/"submissive" than themselves, or at least not at all turned off by those things, while women want to be the ones who are more vulnerable/submissive, or are free to safety be that way when necessary, and don't want men to usurp that latitude in any way by "appropriating* any of what they (we) have come to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:18 PM
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The reality is basically like this in terms of minimum requirements for being dateable, i.e. being granted at least "a shot" (at romance, partnership, intimacy, marriage, acceptance, validation, love): Men, regarding women – (she should be) nice, fun, smart, cute (a BROAD descriptor), preferably not overweight, feminine, sexual, someone who actually likes me and is interested in me and seems to care about my well-being / Women, regarding men – (he should be) nice, fun, smart, cute, preferably no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:06 PM
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I have literallyl no options. I haven't touched a girl since 2016. I have never been spoken to by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:37 PM
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do you think you're the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:23 AM
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Science says so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:23 AM
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how would unattractive guys have nothing to lose? I'd argue no guys do, but if any do, it would be attractive guys, no? unattractive guys (I'm one) are constantly made to feel bad, so every potential rejection is one more blow that contributes to breaking him for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:34 PM
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I've said this same thing in a nutshell - as a guy who's unattractive, I've noticed that girls will often react as if a fat, ugly guy being interested in them somehow makes them feel like they're unattractive. which, of course, is utterly irrational. I also have perceived, as a guy who's fascinated and fixated on all this gender/sexual politics shit, that a lot of girls, even/especially those who have submissive leanings (which is virtually all cishet women lol) get an almost sexual pleasure fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:31 PM
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yes, like other normally-functioning people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:10 AM
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not being able to actively control the existence of my desires (not the same as acting on them, at all, whatsoever) makes me a "potential rapist"? you really need a kick in the ass, you fucking weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:31 AM
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I absolutely value women who I can't fuck. I also don't want to fuck all women. but if I do wanna fuck her, and especially if I'm in love with her, then I don't value her disappointment at losing one guy friend over my own sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:04 AM
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you can't make yourself not want someone who you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:57 AM
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feelings are 174% not a choice. by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:55 AM
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how can you be platonic toward someone you don't feel platonic about? especially if you have to know all about it when they're intimate with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:53 AM
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that's some good sociopathy there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:52 AM
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you really can't conceptualize how a guy could have such strong non-platonic feelings for a girl that the reality that he can never realize those dreams, in tandem with the presence of her engaging romantically with other men, could prove torturous?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:48 AM
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that's because you're a woman. women have such an endless fount of options and such a complete deathgrip on dating and intimacy that it's nigh on impossible for them to fall that profoundly for any one man. men have a minute fraction of the sexual opportunities that women enjoy, so every dalliance becomes pregnant with import and intensity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:43 AM
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you think that men who try to date female coworkers are generally going through a shopping list of possibles at their workplace? I'd venture that in that setting it's just the opposite - that a guy may end up very attracted to a particular girl he works with, but not interested in 15 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:43 AM
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As is usually the case with most issues of sexuality/romance/dating etc...it's "exciting and fun" when you're attractive. when you know you have a significant probability of being desired. for the many of us who aren't even in that galaxy, it's simply not exciting and fun at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:40 AM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:44 PM
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no animal is "meant to be eaten."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:38 AM
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it is super irritating, though. Why do you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:14 AM
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Pure bullshit. The plastic is positively lousy with idiots who are very happy and successful and geniuses who will live and die completely unfulfilled. Intellect doesn't correlate to success in a statistically-significant way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:11 AM
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Sigh. As ever, what you actually mean is "guys who, firstly, I find broadly attractive, and then are also kinda funny." If you're notably not fundamentally attracted to a guy, being funny won't change that. He'll still just be a funny guy who you would never sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:08 AM
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I'm well aware that there's a very long list of things guys have to do in order to be attractive to girls (which is also quite daunting and which women don't understand is difficult), but we also have to be physically appealing...and I'm not saying every guy has to be Brad Pitt, but rather that if you're so unlucky that you don't have any of the aesthetic qualities that 99.999% of womankind wants, *you're fucked." You'll m my
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:45 PM
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women generally assess whether they would ever consider being intimate with a given man in about 4 seconds lol. if she's already instinctually processed from your visual presentation that she would never sleep with you, that she could not conceive of seeing you in a sexually viable light, it's over for you with her. now apply that, for some men (like me), to EVERY woman...i.e. imagine men (like me) who, owing to whatever cocktail of factors, are evaluated chemically by every single woman they ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:54 AM
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pure bullshit. 1a. confidence and charm come naturally to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:09 PM
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any woman under 40 who's not having any sex at all is choosing not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:15 AM
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I don't understand the idea that a man would either. Men who can really get meaningful pleasure from sex with someone to whom they're not particularly attracted just baffles me. I'm a man and I would much rather not have sex at all than have it with a woman who turns me off. Some of my tastes in women seem to be offbeat to some; for instance, I've always thought that the idea of Jennifer Aniston being super hot is bizarre to me..and I've had instances where I've mentioned this to others (usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:49 PM
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It's overwhelmingly more on one side than the other. Exponentially so. Even women who aren't conventionally attractive have a ton of aids at their disposal that can help play up their aesthetic appeal. I've seen tons of girls look really quite desirable when 'dolled up' properly who aren't especially pretty on their own. Whereas virtually zero unattractive men can use enhancements to meaningfully transcend their genetics and look visually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:38 PM
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