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| 1 | Can you date without the apps?The same is true if girls who are too clingy towards their boyfriends. Romance and seduction can be ruined if it's rushed regardless of your sex. I'm giving advise because I want more people to "win". It's really sad when a potential relationship ends because of an ill thought phrase or from overtaken by nervous emotions. Both men and women make these mistakes because our intentions often don't match how we're perceived. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Can you date without the apps?I said "If that happened to me now then it wouldn't bother me" I have male friends that have cat-called me as I walked down the street and I've responded by laughing and giving a little banter back. For a first impression it's just not as good as being more subtle and friendly during the first few minutes of the conversation. Asking for female attention the way beggars plead for money doesn't look confident or flattering, it just looks desperate and sometimes desperation looks scary. If the firs… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveComplementing clothing/accessories is OK if you've got nothing else to go on because she at least chose it/earned it rather than her face and body that she was just lucky to be born with. The more time or work she put into something, the more likely she'll appreciate the compliment. Something that you can connect over with is better like making observations about your surroundings or commenting about something one or both of you are doing because that's can lend on to other topics. In the UK peo… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveJust don't try to organize a date within the first minute of meeting a girl. Try to make a connection and good impression then if there's any chemistry you'll both want to spend time together. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveEvolutionary speaking women are geared towards finding longterm relationship potential more attractive. Even if they never want to get married or have kids, men who appear like they're only interested in sex set off evolutionary alarm bells saying, 'run, girl, run' because the risks of a short sexual relationship or rape have worse consequences for women (pregnancy and 15+ years of childcare), more so for women in the past. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Can you date without the apps?I don't understand why you're getting down voted when you're giving decent advice. I had some scary moments when I (f29) was about 13 with adult men approaching me or cat-calling in a threatening way. If that happened to me now then it wouldn't brother me but any man approaching me on the street just to say I look good immediately becomes unattractive because I (and many other women I think) have a bad childhood association with that behaviour. Women approaching men works really well though. I r… | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)Hmm.. I think most girls would find this approach creepy and hence unattractive. There needs to be a good reason to talk to a stranger so it doesn't feel creepy. If the woman is wearing a unusual dress then a person can comment on it to start a conversation BUT he must go before the woman feels bored/suffocated/nervous. The same is true for women chatting up guys. If she's spent so long talking to a guy that he needs to end the conversation then she'll be perceived as less socially aware and les… | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 11:22 PM |
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