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11	CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemic Are you implying that the legal loss of bodily autonomy is revenge against women and not the in the actual interest of children? Because you’d be right. So thanks for admitting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 03:12 AM
2	The best thing about modern world is that as a woman I can choose to have a job that pays me You’d be surprised	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 06:57 PM
0	Why is sex a nontradeable ? Society isn’t burning to the ground bc more people are fucking. Matter of fact, the more open we are about sexual education, the less you see things like teen pregnancies and STDs. I promise you the world isn’t ending because of OnlyFans, it’s ending bc the oligarchs have us pitted against each other so we can vote against each others freedom and rage bait each other into oblivion so no one notices they’ve been lining their pockets	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 04:42 AM
1	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? The relationships humans have with food vs with other humans is vastly different, but okay. I’ll bite. Think of it this way. A health food company starts selling its products under the guise of good decisions. They sell prepackaged salads, salmon dinners, loaded with vegetables and protein, low carb. But the nutrients label is inaccurate. They purposefully lie on the label about the ingredients, calories, fat, sugar, and sodium. A healthy individual who works a lot and doesn’t have time or energ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 04:06 AM
1	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? I disagree. People are not at fault for choosing bad people. Preventative action should always be encouraged, but saying it’s the victim’s fault for choosing poorly is toxic and counterproductive. That coherent enough for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 11:30 PM
1	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? You said it was women’s fault if they choose bad men. I’m making the point that it’s more complicated, for either side. And playing the finger pointing game of “well why didn’t you x, y, and z” and “how did you not notice [insert traits]” will solve literally nothing and only delegitimizes people’s experiences. People put on their best face when they start seeing someone - especially manipulators and abusers. We can talk about preventative strategy and teach people about warning signs, but to sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 11:07 PM
1	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? It takes on average seven years to leave an abuser. Whether she took the course or not, she’s right	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 10:58 PM
1	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? I didn’t say they didn’t - but you can’t complain about shitty things that women do in relationships and then turn around and say women are at fault because they don’t choose well. Maybe men could’ve done better at choosing a woman that wasn’t going to leave? Do you see the problem here. And I’m not responding to my own delusions - I’m continuing a pre-existing conversation and expressing that A) the behavior mentioned in the quote isn’t even problematic or surprising in the slightest and B) it’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 06:29 PM
1	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? Because the people who bring up these talking points are the same ones that complain about divorce rates initiated by women and injustices against men in relationships. Men are absolutely susceptible to domestic violence as well, and yes - it does need to be a conversation - but right now, the specific topic is women “choosing poorly” based on something that seemingly has nothing to do with DV. I’m making the point that the phenomenon Sandberg brings up is not exclusive to women, it’s a common t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 05:10 PM
0	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? She’s not talking about men who are obviously abusers and display all red flags from the get go. Shes stating the exact same phenomenon young men go through. Watch literally any YA movie - young people want their relationships to be exciting and adventurous (generally). The boyfriend trope young women idealize may be “edgy”, but not “I beat my partners” edgy. Obviously. As a young person, you’re intrigued by challenging norms and breaking rules. A man who is fun and a bit of a rule breaker doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 04:40 PM
0	Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply? On average, it takes seven tries to leave an abuser. Human relationships, especially those involving manipulation and control, are incredibly complex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 04:31 PM
7	Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it. so is this based off of any sources or did you pull this outta your ass	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 09:20 PM
1	Women support patriarchy oh hell yeah love that for u	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 05:44 PM
4	Women support patriarchy the difference is love and emotional intimacy. I’m sorry, but I do not get a very lovable vibe from a lot of the men here. I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect me, feels some typa way about women working/voting, blames men being lonely on me and other women, and is generally resentful against me for things that have nothing to do with me. And expects me to maintain a clean house, dinner on the table, manage the household, and bring home half the bacon. I’ve been …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 05:42 PM
6	Women support patriarchy rooting for your princess treatment, king	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 05:29 PM
2	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? Then I extend the question: do you think these women genuinely had interest in getting their partners off? Or were they selfish lovers? There was a time in which I would’ve considered myself promiscuous, I see no shame in it. I think safe sex can be a very healthy and healing thing, and I get off on my partners getting off. I can certainly say I’ve gotten better at sex since my very awkward first few times. I’m nothing to write home about, but I definitely keep my partner happy. Because I’m atte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 06:26 PM
2	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? Practice does not always make perfect, but I don’t understand how it’s a fallacy to expect experience to improve performance. If a person refuses to listen to the video games rules and strategies and has no interest in improving, they’ll get whomped by six year olds. If, however, they genuinely care about getting better and invest not only time - but effort - in doing so, they will generally improve. And most people with healthy sex lives do practice in being communicative and attentive with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 05:43 PM
-2	"Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple store Oh no it’s a flawed execution for sure. But there ARE reports of abuse and SA on there, the intention of most women on there is far from malicious. Retaliating by sharing 72,000 images of user IDs and subsequently rating their looks is a nuts reaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/25 01:10 AM
2	"Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple store I signed up for Tea about a year ago. About three or so years ago I left an abusive relationship for good and was essentially blown off by the justice system. Little to no effort to deliver my judge-approved order of protection, little to no shits given the 20+ times that order was violated, I submitted photo and textual evidence of physical assault and the my case was ruled to be”lack evidence”. He is a dangerous person and all he has is one vague statement on our local court’s public database …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 11:39 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. I didn’t say they didn’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 03:37 PM
20	Love and sex is not a right It’s not discrimination- no one is saying that. They’re saying the idea some men spread about women not enjoying sex or that the female orgasm doesn’t matter is sexist and selfish. And usually grade-A copium for being bad in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 06:30 PM
6	Sexual Shame in Women definitely agree with the right to sexual autonomy - you’re absolutely not doing anything wrong expressing and maintaining sexual boundaries. That being said, it’s the language that gives me a bad vibe. Not what you choose to do with your body and intimacy. You never hear men saying they’re “giving themselves away” or “saving themselves for x and y”. There’s no denying that the conversation revolving sex is completely different between a male and female audience. As if female sexuality is someth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 04:06 PM
2	Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around? Maybe the absolutely wonderful ones don’t think you’re absolutely wonderful. Probably because you surround yourself with weird pointed ideology. Personally, I don’t surround myself with women who generalize men for no reason. Seems like you’re part of the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 08:48 AM
6	Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around? Insecure people attract insecure people. I’ve had so many men say to me “you’re not at all like other females - I wish more were like you” - after having a basic conversation. Like…thanks? But no thanks. I’m actually exactly like a lot of “females” - you’re just hanging out in weird spaces giving off weird vibes and letting in weird people. Also lmfao “they talk about makeup instead of the war in Ukraine” is giving very much “can we talk about the political and economic state of the world right …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 08:37 AM
3	Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around? “Destroyed male only spaces” - you mean…getting jobs? Equal opportunity? what? “Everything was an all boys club” - cool, what the fuck did you want us to do? Stay in the kitchen? Good lord man. Weird that in one line you mention that women don’t have painful experiences to draw inspiration on for comedy. Not only is the whole “you need to be traumatized to make good art” thing a myth, you also mention rape in the next line? Huh?? Dude I’m just baffled by your line of thinking, ngl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 08:14 AM
7	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. you’re telling on yourself, bud	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 01:10 AM
4	Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms. I’ve definitely heard say they’re attracted to traditional and feminine behavior like cooking or childrearing. Physical labor tho is a mixed example because men and bi women are also attracted to women doing manual labor. I think it has more to do with showing skin, sweating, physical exertion, and how it triggers the “sex alert” part of our monkey brains.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:31 PM
5	Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms. There’s 100% a strange stigma surrounding bisexuality. Even my homophobic parents weren’t soothed by the fact that I also like men - told me to “pick one or the other” because I was “statistically more likely to cheat” and that it was proof I was just confused. (They’re…slightly more enlightened now. Slightly.) I have no quarrel with a man who is bi - kinda wish my boyfriend was bi (no dice - he said he might’ve been in another life, but is 100% straight in this one). My experience with straight…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:26 PM
2	People should be consistent with any criticism they have with men. Yeah - so do celebrities. This is their job. OF is not for emotional connection, if you’re using it for that then you need to find healthier social outlets. That’s not feminism, it’s an economic and social wellbeing failure of developing society that we need to correct. I work with a lot of men in sales and business. Always have. From luxury service and now starting out myself in the business world. I’ve been called some nasty shit, been groped, and looked down upon for years by rich older men. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 07:38 AM
2	People should be consistent with any criticism they have with men. By providing…porn? Which has been available since forever in some form or another? So it’s fine when men have control over the porn industry via services like pornhub, but self employed adult content creators are manipulating young men…? Please tell me where the emotional manipulation is, I genuinely don’t see it. It is a product being sold. Are alcohol distributors emotionally manipulating minors into buying a fake ID? Are they emotionally manipulating alcoholics to relapse? Or do most people c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 08:36 PM
1	People should be consistent with any criticism they have with men. How is that the creators problem? You could argue on the same note that directors of rated R movies manipulate kids into watching them because the trailer looks cool. Wdym emotional manipulation? Kids have always snuck alcohol and cigarettes and other adult things because they want to feel grown up. Of course there needs to be vigilance and parenting and discipline to avoid this as much as possible, but ultimately teens can be sneaky and stubborn. If the creator is knowingly accepting money from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 04:30 PM
2	Girls do well in school not because teachers prioritize them, it's because the female "nature" is more suitable for that environment than the male nature is. Oh hell yeah. I woulda made bank gambling on those reality shows from the early 2000s	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 05:37 PM
1	Girls do well in school not because teachers prioritize them, it's because the female "nature" is more suitable for that environment than the male nature is. I’ve always wondered why we don’t have betting on things like cooking shows, or competitions shows like drag race or ANTM. If we’re gonna be corrupt, let’s at least not leave any market untapped!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 05:02 PM
1	Girls do well in school not because teachers prioritize them, it's because the female "nature" is more suitable for that environment than the male nature is. Underpaid school staff, lack of care and investment into our education systems, I mean shit. Idk where you’re from but if you look at the US, education has been in the gutter and getting worse. Back then an mp3 player in your pocket meant detention - why the fuck are kids allowed to use their phones in class? It’s not a gender thing, it’s carelessness and neglect caused by class differences. Parents don’t have time to parent, schools are underfunded and often half staffed by people who don’t get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 05:00 PM
7	Girls do well in school not because teachers prioritize them, it's because the female "nature" is more suitable for that environment than the male nature is. Yeah it’s a weird stance to take. Also doesn’t mean shit. I went to a school where teachers hit students. I got spanked one time for crying. (Not in USA - plus that school was WAYYY outta line, my parents took me out when they found out what was happening) Abuse doesn’t create better students, it creates fear, complacency, and rebellion. The verbal abuse I endured from those teachers didn’t teach me to write in perfect cursive - I learned that later down the line with educators who cared to give…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 04:52 PM
4	Girls do well in school not because teachers prioritize them, it's because the female "nature" is more suitable for that environment than the male nature is. “Civilization will collapse” this dude is nuts. Like you said, if men won’t read because women can, that’s their problem - not mine. Sounds to me like he’s projecting who HE wants to be as a man and what HE thinks masculinity is. Women have expressed a love for a variety of men, especially the pretty boys and nerdy boys. If anything, we are embracing “feminine” traits in men nowadays more than ever. Everyone has different tastes. Personally, I’m just not into the hyper-masc dudes at all - don’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 04:46 PM
-2	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. Early 2000s and 2010s dating advice was all bullshit filler for TV and magazines. Most healthy people didn’t and don’t live like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 10:10 PM
2	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. If it makes you feel better, nothing is an absolute here. Human social interaction is hard. Takes a lot of reading between the lines - for men AND women. It’s not that women aren’t straightforward, humans generally are not. You need to assess the situation from start to finish when interacting with strangers because coming off too strong is off putting to anyone. It’s not that the wrong thing is the right thing, it’s that everyone is different and if someone is attracted to toxic traits, it’s be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 08:48 PM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating if you don’t want food poisoning, don’t eat. Simple as that. Sex is natural. Humans have always had sex for pleasure, not just for babymaking. And people here projecting their insecurities about not having sex by advocating for women losing their bodily autonomy because “she deserves it” and she “needs to take accountability” is absolutely fucking pathetic and embarrassing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 05:46 AM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating please tell me how an abortion is avoiding accountability. sounds more responsible to me than having a baby you don’t want and/or aren’t able to care for. and why is it the woman bearing the brunt of “taking accountability” and not the man who is equally as responsible? Should he be forced to stick around? Sure: he could pay child support - but he’s not the one suffering the pregnancy for nine months and relinquishing 18 years of his life to raising the child. Lastly: “taking accountability” - w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 02:54 PM
–	Why is male sexuality offensive? Yes and I mentioned those kinds of people - not worth. That’s shit behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 10:36 PM
2	Why is male sexuality offensive? I’m not talking about sexual consent - I’m talking about courting. Not all boys - but a LOT of boys - are taught through culture to keep trying. Get her more gifts, pay for her things, keep upping the ante until you can’t anymore. This results in deflated self esteem. You see it happen all the time. It’s not healthy for either party.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 07:06 PM
2	Why is male sexuality offensive? Me neither! Gross - rather just be w someone who can admit they want to be with me	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 07:53 AM
4	Why is male sexuality offensive? I promise you it’s a thing. I’m 25 years old and this was the narrative for me growing up - just opposite. If he’s mean to you, it’s because he likes you. If he’s relentless, you owe him a chance. If you don’t give him a chance, you’re a shitty and shallow person. A lot of men are taught to push. A lot of women are taught the counter: to give in. Sounds shitty both ways if you ask me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 07:52 AM
18	Why is male sexuality offensive? I hate the narrative that men receive growing up to keep trying if she’s not interested. That women love to be chased and a “no” is playing hard to get. Stop teaching our boys that, for their sake and the sake of the people they court. It’ll just whittle down at their self esteem when the repeated attempts don’t work, or worse, make their attempts more aggressive. Teach them about compatibility and consent. If someone isn’t interested, yes it sucks but ya gotta move on. If they ARE playing hard …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 09:38 PM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating yeah - the consequence is the abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 02:52 PM
2	Men, what’s something you love about being a man? Yeah…compliments are great! I love when people say hello to me, compliment my hair or my outfit, call me pretty. I grew up uggo so it’s incredibly validating! What’s not validating is yelling that my ass is thick from the other side of the street when I’m walking alone. It’s humiliating. Or asking me in an uber ride to work if I’m into “bad boys” and if I’ve ever made out with women. In a 2-seat vehicle. At 7:30 am. I feel like some men lose sight of this when saying they’d love to be catcalled.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 06:08 AM
2	Men, what’s something you love about being a man? perhaps not but I’ll take a sweater wrapped around the waist over an inconvenient public speaking boner any day lol. Periods I feel are def way less embarrassing but painful as holy hell. Boners are the opposite of painful but good lord I’d bury myself. You win some, you lose some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 05:59 AM
2	Redpill men need to raise their standards you a robot or sumn?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 11:06 PM
5	Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman. Sure. Im not trying to infantilize them. They are adults and can make their own decisions. But you also have to admit there’s a massive difference between 20 and 29 - no matter how mature you are or how much you have your shit together. And between 20 and 50/60? Cmon. Btw I paid my own bills too - I thought I did have it together. But truthfully, at 19/20 you are still EXTREMELY new to the adult world no matter how you spin it. So while they might feel comfortable dating MUCH older people, sorry…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 07:14 PM
14	Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman. yeah wtf. I was a mess when I was 22. I had no fucking clue what I wanted OR what I needed back then. and it’s only been 3 years! I’m a completely different person- I can’t IMAGINE what a much older person’s life must’ve been compared to mine. Hot or not, woman or man. This is just such a weird argument to make. There’s at least something to say about male victims of grooming being overlooked for sure…but making it about attractiveness is just… ugh. Rubs me the wrong way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 09:08 AM
1	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men Absolutely. Focus on you first. Sounds like you could definitely use some support and affirmation. And I’m sure a relationship would definitely help you feel lovable, but you should know that it’s not a cure-all. A lot of relationships fail because people get the idea that someone else will be able to fix them or make them whole or make them feel good about themselves. Men AND women. You can end up doing more harm to yourself than good. But I can definitely tell from our interaction that you’ve …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 08:42 AM
3	If you had a son and had to choose between two futures for him, would you rather he be tall & good-looking, sexually successful, but misogynistic, OR short & unattractive, romantically unsuccessful, but respectful toward women? I’m not so sure. It’s the intention that counts. If I offer to cook for my partner, it’s not because I don’t think he can do it right because he’s a man. It’s because I love him and want him to relax. If he takes the trash out for me, it’s not because I’m a woman and I can’t do it right, it’s because he knows I’m sensitive to smells and he loves me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 01:35 AM
6	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men I think we see this the worst in online echo chamber spaces. For the most part realistically, male sexuality has been the forefront of media, advertising, art, etc. Growing up, I was definitely hyper aware that women had to be more reserved about sexuality and desire - virginity was more valuable and men don’t want someone “used up”. Wearing a crop top and leggings as a 12 year old got me unsolicited comments that men might get the wrong idea about me. Grown men. Yuck. You’re right, over correct…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 06:37 PM
8	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men That’s great for you! And when in a healthy interaction, it can feel amazing being loved for your body. But men have a different social relationship than women (generally) with being objectified. A lot of us have been catcalled and prodded in public, strangers groping or grabbing you or loudly announcing sexual remarks to you. It’s humiliating. Getting a harmless compliment in a safe environment is one thing. Being publicly humiliated, put on the spot, or made to feel unsafe is another. And even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 04:29 PM
–	Men’s sexual desire has been socially castrated have you ever stepped outside wym	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 08:22 PM
3	Autistic women are not "better at masking" Women and girls have only alarmingly recently been taken seriously when it comes to autism diagnoses AND treatment. Used to be she’d get sent to a home if she was high support enough. So I don’t think that “men are disposable and women are morally superior” is really an accurate statement on mental and physical healthcare gender biases. And this isn’t going back multiple generations, this is as early as the 90s. To be fair, autism treatment has always had a problematic history for both genders, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 05:12 PM
–	Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege. Most men don’t rape women, but the vast majority of women have experienced sexual assault or harassment. Most men aren’t monsters, this is true. Most men are not even remotely dangerous. So can you imagine the level of damage done by that small percentage? If you’re dismissive of this with statements like “but I’M not a rapist” you’re part of the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/25 06:21 PM
8	Female Sexuality is innately Selfish “no pleasure from sex” ask my boyfriend how i act when im ovulating	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 07:04 AM
–	Toxic Women Push The Sexual Culture That's Ruining Things For Other Women Or that advocating for bodily autonomy is some sinister scheme to…fuck with dating culture? that part was super weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 03:34 PM
3	Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'. Oh 100%. But first they have to be comfortable single. Jumping into the first relationship you can and forcing yourself to stay there is awful for anybody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:51 AM
1	Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online dating How do you suggest we fix the system? Bc you can’t expect women to settle again into unhappy relationships without attraction. Truthfully? Men need better emotional vehicles for processing and expressing. EVERYONE, men and women, needs to get on board with men’s mental health awareness. But creating those spaces and outlets is not women’s responsibility. We can help if men ask, but we’re not gonna do it for you. Maybe then men in their 20s will be less susceptible to manosphere content and “top …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 06:02 PM
1	Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online dating Bro how is it my fault if those men have never approached a woman? I date people I meet organically, I tried dating apps and hated them. No hate on ppl who use them but if it’s affecting your ability to socialize to this degree, it’s your responsibility to work on that. I’m sorry that dating is not instant gratification. Women can support themselves now and report higher levels of happiness when single so now men need to bring something else to the table other than the social and financial requi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 09:34 PM
1	Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online dating wym?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:40 PM
2	Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online dating Dating apps are trash and not indicative of the real world. If you go to a dive bar to find a woman for a serious LTR, and leave complaining that these women only want one night stands with the top 10%, that’s on you. There’s not as many women as men on dating apps and typically, the healthier ones won’t be on there. A lot of women on dating apps just want sex and nothing else, and they don’t rlly care who it’s with. Idk about you but I’ve never dated/slept with someone who I knew was a hardened…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 04:40 PM
1	Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online dating Disgusting, and the women who try to sleep with him after reading that are vile. Point blank.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 08:21 PM
4	Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider? Once or twice a week is not abnormal? That’s how often my boyfriend and are intimate and we’re healthier than ever and in our mid 20s. And that’s coming from me, I’m the one with the higher libido who could go multiple times a day. Every relationship is different and you don’t need to fuck like rabbits to be healthy. There’s a difference between a dead bedroom, sexual incompatibility, and being genuinely content with prioritizing other aspects of the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 09:54 PM
3	Valentines Day is for Women not Men. Everyone’s into different things. If valentines and other holidays aren’t your thing, that’s fine. My partner and I just see it as an excuse to splurge on an expensive dinner (we rotate paying for dates bc we’re both broke) and spend some quality time together. This year we’re doing what he wants so we’re picking up a fancy dinner and gaming at home together. It doesn’t have to be for one partner at the expense of the other. Communicate with your partner and work with them to find something you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 07:01 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Most women I’ve seen in the comments aren’t denying it either. Some are, but I’ve also seen men say they’re so desperate for sex they’d fuck anything - which I doubt is true in practice. I guess my question is, what’s the end goal to this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 09:41 PM
–	"Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men? All good, my life has gotten significantly better since then, and I’ve been with the man I plan on marrying for two years now ❤️ we’ve never even fought, we’ve communicated through disagreements calmly and taken space when needed and we’ve both healed immensely in our time together. I don’t regret my experiences because I wouldn’t be where I am today without them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 09:40 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Do you say yes to ugly losers? Since when do men not have preferences? I’m not lowering my standards and dating/having sex with men I’m not attracted to - and I assure you, you aren’t either. For the record, i didn’t date that guy for his looks and I didn’t stick around for his looks. Maybe looks helped but looking back he wasn’t necessarily conventionally attractive. We were friends for a while first and I decided to go out with him because he was funny and sweet. Don’t minimize my experience t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 03:55 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. So yall want equal opportunity to trick women into abusing them? I know that’s not what you mean but the phrasing lmao. More seriously, yes. Pretty privilege exists. And it’s not a gendered thing, it applies to men and women and has its drawbacks in different areas. This is not news. Obviously looks matter for the initial draw but good luck keeping women interested in you or having a genuine wholesome connection with a shit personality and 0 charisma. Dating is not so simple that “attractive = m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 03:37 PM
1	"Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men? well lmk when a female CEO has a bullet for lunch and we can discuss from there. Yeah there’s obviously different perceptions of men and women, but that is very clearly used and exploited and spread by the upper class to keep us down here. At the end of the day the argument that women biologically prefer abusive or violent men is ridiculous. Yeah these evil men had their little fan clubs. These groups are not indicative of the entirety of women, men do the same thing when a female killer is hot.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 03:32 PM
1	"Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men? The stupid ones would, just as they fell for the whole “he’s a terrorist” bullshit. Again, class war - not a gender war. That agenda would be spread not because he IS misogynistic and violent, but because spats like these are perfect for keeping us distracted on what the real problem is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 03:14 PM
0	"Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men? And the higher class knew that the black men were innocent. The issue here wasn’t the gender war, it was a class war and institutionalized racism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 03:08 PM
1	"Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men? No, I don’t think MTG is on the same level of “deserves to be assassinated”. I do think if the CEO was a woman, the reaction would’ve been the same with a different angle from alt-right groups. Mangione would’ve been labeled a violent misogynist killer instead of a terrorist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 03:07 PM
23	"Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men? I was abused in my last relationship. Looking back, there were definitely signs, but they meant nothing in the moment because I was happy. I liked him, my friends liked him, it was great. Until it wasn’t. Suddenly, my friends stopped liking him. We were fighting a lot more, but arguments were slowly spun to the point where I wouldn’t even remember what we were fighting about. All I knew is that it was my fault. I stopped going out as much because he needed me home for one reason or another, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 09:34 AM
2	"Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men? idk, the hatred against someone like Marjorie Taylor Greene is without gender. That bitch sucks. If anything, left-leaning women tend to clash more with alt-right women than men do. If anything, I see upper class alt-right assholes spinning the narrative that Manione is a violent misogynist and using it to create further division. 90% of the “gender war” is actually a class war. And we eat that shit up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 09:25 AM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. then enjoy blackpill bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:48 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. You’re telling me grass is green. I’m telling you yes, but it can also be yellow or brown and has multiple shades. You’re linking scientific articles on how grass is green and how chlorophyll works and acting like I’m telling you grass is blue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:44 PM
-2	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. I’m at work and don’t care enough to provide studies on female behavior because a) I am a female, b) I talk to females, c) I understand females, and d) my dating life is fine. I’ve dated men and women. I don’t need to follow up with peer reviewed psychological data to understand human nuance and interactions. I’m just having a conversation. But you can keep yelling if you like. I don’t need psychological studies and data to continue to reinforce the points that I already told you I agreed with. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:42 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Yes, this was already addressed. We already talked about how there’s an inherent pretty privilege. Men are also obsessed with looks. This is not a gender war issue. It’s just a human thing. I like pretty people. So do you. But when presented the question “what is most important in a partner”, social conditioning generates different answers in men and women. Not malice, not virtue signaling, not “hahaha lets fuck up male perception of dating and relationships for the lolz”. Just different PERCEPT…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:34 PM
-2	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. The board was invented to do one thing but let’s be honest, there’s a lot more men than women here and it does become an echo chamber of telling women what they are, what they believe, what their true intentions are, etc etc etc. the narrative that women are lying about what they like in men is not a new one. Your personality is a product of your biology and environment. Your looks are not your full personality - and if they are, yikes. Yes, the life you live can be heavily influenced by the way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:27 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Social conditioning. Again. It’s social conditioning. Very few women are legitimately claiming looks don’t matter AT ALL. It’s just not on the forefront of our active considerations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:21 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. I never said I think we’re less superficial. I think we’re probably equally superficial and it’s more socially acceptable (with a slight change in recent years and internet culture) for men to be open about physical preferences. All in all in average, both sexes probably value looks and personality on equal scales. We just perceive the world differently based on how we were raised and the environment we exist in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 10:20 PM
2	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. That’s fair. I’d say for me at least, the attraction gets you through the door faster. But the personality, values, mutual interests, etc is what will be the glue of the relationship. It’s what will make it happy, fulfilling, and ultimately lasting longer. I agree that fewer women are willing to put up with unhappy or unsatisfactory relationships and would prefer to just be single. I think it’s a direct result of our history and not needing to be a wife to live a standard life anymore. All in al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 09:54 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Okay? We were friends for a year after our respective breakups. Feelings developed over time slowly. His personality IS attractive to me. I never said his looks didn’t matter. They both matter. I’d say looks matter more in initial attraction but personality is paramount to sustain anything more than a hookup. Unless you want a sad, shallow, lifeless relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 09:46 PM
1	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Smaller guys do exist, male victims of DV and SA exist, and they have just as much validity as female victims. But it’s extremely disproportionate. I’m not acting as if anything, there is a general standard women take to keep safe. And men are overwhelming victims of violent crime from other men. Not sure how women are involved in this one. And it’s not lying. Women aren’t trying to gaslight you. Again, it’s conditioned. There’s a difference between how you perceive yourself and the world and th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 09:41 PM
2	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. It’s conditioned. Women are expected to value these traits more - you’ve seen the reactions on this very sub when women state their preferences. Additionally, since it’s conditioned, we think actively more about traits like kindness while physical attraction is a passive feeling. Lastly, women have more to lose when a man is unkind, as men are bigger and stronger. We have to think about our safety. “Bad behavior is tolerated more with attractive men tho!” Yes, that goes both ways. Hot girls are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 06:41 PM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. I was essentially brainwashed into believing the abuse was my fault. I didn’t stick around because I found him attractive, at that point I stuck around because I loved him deeply and cared for him AND because I was a shell of a person and I lived on autopilot to survive. At this point, I was only having sex with him out of obligation and to avoid consequences - not because I was attracted to him. And yeah, obviously I found him attractive when things were better. I literally never claimed attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 04:37 PM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. You’re arguing something else entirely. I’m not saying someone who’s a 2/10 will turn into an 8/10. Physical attraction is very obviously a requirement. As it is for men. Truly don’t know why yall insist that this is either a big deal nor not obvious information. And yeah, pretty privilege is real. Idk what to tell you, you never proved personality doesn’t matter, and it’s very strange that you dedicate so much time convincing women that they are not influenced by personality when selecting a pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 02:51 PM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. I just don’t know why yall insist to die on the hill that personality doesn’t factor in at all. Obviously physical attraction is a big factor. No one wants to date someone theyre not attracted to physically. Additionally, telling women that they are WRONG about what they look for in a partner is incredibly odd behavior, but go off. “My favorite color is green” “ummm source????“ It’s subjective, weirdo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 02:45 PM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. It’s extremely conditioned at this point because women are expected to care more about these things. It’s not because we want to appear more virtuous. Additionally, how attractive they are is not something we tend to think about actively - it’s just a natural sense. Whereas things like kindness and mutual interests are VALUES that we DO actively think about and consider. It’s not so crazy and no, no one is trying to gaslight men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 08:34 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. they do into mine. womp womp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 08:29 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Outside?! Well now you’re just saying nonsense	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 08:28 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Yeah idk why ppl are pressed about it. These men are the first to say they won’t date fat girls. Everyone has a certain standard and no one wants to date someone they just aren’t into. It’s not shocking nor a revelation at all, it’s basic common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 08:27 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. I would not have gotten together with my boyfriend if it weren’t for his personality. Do I find him attractive? Yes, absolutely, but I met him several years ago when we were both with other people. I never even considered attraction towards him because I was devoted entirely to another person. It took a while for attraction to set in, and it definitely happened because we spent every day together and I love the kind of person he is. My last boyfriend pretended to be sweet and kind and turned out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 08:26 AM
5	The Age Gap "Issue" Is a Modern Invention yeah what the hell. What a strange hill to die on. Better to be ripped away from your childhood, possibly raped and impregnated only a handful of years before your first period, either dying during childbirth or spending the prime of your life serving a man and family you didn’t want? There are times when death is a better alternative - and I don’t even know which one I would prefer because both are horrid. But im sure I’d crave death if that was my life. It’s just so weird. “Well the alternativ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:26 AM
–	Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism created Yall keep talking about this and it genuinely doesn’t make sense. Accept responsibility for what exactly? Having sex? If it’s done safely, doesn’t result in a baby or disease, what is the problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/25 07:50 AM
5	UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMEN I wholeheartedly agree! I just wish we could apply the same logic to women. Because when this point is flipped, the argument is “older women CAN be hot but women in their early 20s are just biologically more attractive” when like…my friend, your attraction supposed to age with you. You’re like 45 with two kids. Like that’s fine that you find younger women attractive but the way some people double down on calling women over 30 “past their prime” is some next level fuckery. Who doesn’t love a milf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 06:06 PM
1	What's actually a normal dating progress most men feel comfortable with? Ppl have always “found icks” in normal human behavior. It was just expressed differently. “X thing she/he did turned me off/was a turn off” was a common one. It’s normal to find other generations slang “cringe” - our parents cringed at the terrible 2014 meme-speak and we cringed at the way they spoke from growing up in the 70s-90s. (Idk how old you are but that’s my experience) Same way we cringe at how middle schoolers speak and as someone who worked with kids, they think the way we talk is hys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:36 AM
7	Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex? Tampering with bc or condoms purposefully without notifying their partner is rape. No other way about it. No matter if it’s a man or a woman. No one should ever have to raise or contribute to a product of said rape. All women should have equal and adequate access to abortion, and all men should be able to opt out of raising a kid they don’t want. Provided they make that clear during early pregnancy and the woman is aware they will be raising the child by themselves. Without access to abortion, n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 09:06 PM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating oh so you can’t read https://preview.redd.it/6hpwmvxz1q9e1.jpeg?width=1638&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=09950035642304c59bc5705ed4b116b19a39bf73	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 05:16 AM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating What doesn’t make sense is that you treat men like sex-crazed creatures and women as the prey. If they have sex and get pregnant, they deserved it. If they can’t get pregnant, they owe it to men. Men have agency and intelligence. Give them that credit, bc you’re just as bad if not worse than misandrists for this take. You’re treating this as a predator-prey situation, when sex and relationships are about connection and communication. And most men get that. Not the top 10% or even 20%, I’d wager …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 05:05 AM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating You tell me what reproductive rights have to do with “dying a virgin”. No one owes you sex. But if we’re gonna appoint a national abortion ban to keep people accountable for the consequences of sex, men should be held equally accountable. The vasectomy is being nice tho, that still allows them to fuck without real consequence. How about if men got their testes removed? The point of reproductive rights is that you’re not being forced alter your body against your will. That’s what pregnancy is. Ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 04:45 AM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating eh yknow. been ill with a winter flu but other than that, can’t complain. What this sounds like to me is blaming someone for getting food poisoning after eating sushi and saying they should take accountability instead of seeing a doctor. Sex is natural. Humans have always had sex for pleasure. Chances are your grandma also went wild in the sheets premaritably. Yea, there’s risks involved, but no one uses abortion as birth control, it’s expensive as fuck. Abortion is a medical procedure. I have t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:51 AM
2	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating Bro what??? U good? Genuinely	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 12:30 AM
2	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating Ok babes pay child support, get snipped, or shut up. Take that so called accountability. Or go fuck dudes. Again, I think you’re rlly just projecting bc u don’t fuck. Don’t make that everyone else’s problem please	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 10:08 PM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating Self absorbed? For…fucking? The most natural human act besides eating, drinking, and sleeping? What are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 10:04 PM
1	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating No, because you’re not carrying it. Yall won’t shut the fuck up about women and accountability for having sex until the subject of child support comes up. You wanna talk consequence for having sex? There it is. Do I think we need better reform with how the courts handle this issue? Absolutely. But it’s just gonna get worse if abortion isn’t a choice in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 10:00 PM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating if ur not fucking just say that	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 09:58 PM
4	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating So humans should only have sex for the purpose of childbearing? Not for pleasure? Alright. Two way street. No reproductive rights for me nor for thee. Mandatory vasectomies. Unless you can prove to a medical professional you intend on having children immediately, no reversals. If pregnancy fails within a six week time period, snipped again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 06:00 PM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating It could also easily be higher rates of religious belief - which generally looks down on/doesn’t allow divorce. But it doesn’t matter. That is not the conversation. A national abortion ban is not remotely close to being a good thing and it’s a very odd hill to die on as a man who can’t even get pregnant and doesn’t live in the US anyway. It’s a horrifying reality. I don’t know where you live, but I hope the women there are better off. You want stable marriages and increased impulse control? Fund…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 05:43 PM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating Pregnancy is not a “little miracle” - it is a serious health condition that can very quickly and very easily result in deadly complications. Abortion bans DO prevent lots of women from getting the care they need and it HAS ALREADY resulted in death. Additionally, desperate women will make desperate decisions. I say this as someone who has gotten an abortion, that pregnancy would’ve ruined my life. I don’t know what I would’ve done without access to personal and private medical care for my own bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 05:31 PM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating The result is dead women, unhappy families, and neglected/unwanted children. People are going to fuck. They always have and always will. A national abortion ban is not going to result in stable marriages, and the proposal that access to sex and sexual healthcare generates unhappy couples is ridiculous. Comprehensive sex ed and bodily autonomy. Nothing less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 03:59 PM
1	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world Indigenous latinas, Afro latinas, we come in all shapes and flavors. my point is that this is a weird thing to say	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:02 PM
1	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world I show compassion for people who express their frustration in a way that doesn’t demean entire groups of people. Tends to be rare on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 02:35 PM
2	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world Jesus Christ dude, it’s a vent sub. And it’s totally understandable to be upset and disappointed with the world for something like getting promoted for appearances. It’s completely fair to be upset that you could’ve been treated differently your whole life, minus one thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 09:37 AM
1	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world These rates have to do with class issues, not gender or “SMV”. Yes, women being able to actually function within society lowered birth rates a bit. But the drastic decline we are seeing is economic. We can barely afford our groceries, why the hell would we wanna pop one out - esp without universal healthcare and the insane health risk pregnancy is in the first place. As for marriage and dating, humans are just lonelier than ever. A product of social media, overworking, mental illness, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 09:33 AM
3	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world it’s bc it’s not real, it’s just a heavy dose of grade a copium. We’re not robots or video game characters with a set list of stats, functioning on matrices and algorithms. Not how humans work. We are complex social and emotional creatures and the majority of the shit we do makes no sense - and it doesn’t have to. Going to lengths to analyze and explain why you get no bitches is probably linked to the reason why you get no bitches. It’s an excuse to label women as shallow and entitled when the c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 09:28 AM
6	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world imagine not fucking with latinas. what strange criteria you have bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 09:19 AM
9	Would you date an Ai with a real human body? I don’t think I could. That’s a pretty intense power imbalance - even though it’s not human, it feels wrong to purchase a body and mold it to my liking and my will. I don’t feel comfortable with that kind of control over something that looks and acts sentient. Not to mention, I know I purchased her. I know she’s not real. That connection would feel quite empty no matter how realistic she is - I feel I may continue to crave the real thing and I’d just feel worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 05:01 AM
2	Is a lot of this stuff an American cultural problem? …damn. that one hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 01:38 AM
34	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? It’s not a gender war thing lmao. PEOPLE are lonely and unhappy because no one can afford to live - let alone have kids. We’re working ourselves to death and lots of people are too depressed or broke to have hobbies. The older you get, the harder it is to make meaningful friendships - and many people don’t even try as the internet is so readily available. Men and women both go through this. But for some reason, the narrative has turned into “women are unhappier bc feminism and independence - it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:11 PM
1	Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other women I’ve had older men say this to me when they’re hitting on me. Completely unprompted and presented as a compliment. “You’re nothing like women my age” or “you’re mature for your age, I wish I could say that about older women” or “younger women these days are so much better than older women” etc. it’s not a compliment lol it’s gross. There are absolutely older men that belittle women their age. Obviously not all men, obviously not even the majority, but the minority of men who do this are very lou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 07:35 PM
2	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. oh yikes	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:36 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. btw props to being a man and completely missing a joke that is very clearly an overdone Elden Ring reference and taking it personally. embarrassing, quite frankly. humiliating even.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:26 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. ooo I’m sure your momma would love to see what you say online about women	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:24 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:23 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. You were clearly raised by a single father	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:16 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. Keep it up with therapy, that’s a good step! If necessary, keep searching until you find one that works with you. And learning from past experiences is great, that’s what helps retain a relationship with people who mesh with you. Platonic AND romantic. That’s honestly the best advice I can give you without knowing you. Seek romance the way you seek out friendships. Mutual interests, niche communities, etc. Let it develop naturally. Forcing it can be uncomfortable (for women AND men). Once you st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:13 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. maidenless behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:03 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. pobrecito el nene :,(	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:01 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. the problem with yall is you feel the need to police the behavior of women who are hurting NO ONE to meet YOUR standards when they wouldn’t date you anyway. Mind your business. If she wanna throw it back and you don’t like that, move on. THATS why yall can’t get laid. You’re too focused on women you’re not even compatible with and shaming them for not being compatible with you? What??? Grow up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 06:52 AM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. Then you don’t understand how manipulative/abusive relationship dynamics work, and I strongly hope you don’t end up in one. If someone gets fucked over by someone they trusted, let them fucking complain. And if you’re a man, Jesus, be someone who can be trusted to talk to. If I were a man and I were going through problems with my relationship, I would not feel comfortable talking to you. No wonder men have such a big mental illness problem, the support system is atrocious. I had someone tell me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 09:04 PM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. I don’t even want to hear it when a huge red/blackpill/manospere talking point is men getting cheated on during marriage or the divorce rate initiated by women. No one says “well he should’ve picked better, it’s his fault.” So what you’re saying is “we already let you have choices, now shut up”	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:58 PM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. have you tried, I don’t know, asking the women you’re with? it’s not gonna be one-size-fits-all. Some women are traditional, some women are breadwinners, some women like equal footing, some women prefer to stay single and casual. We all have different standards and literally all you have to do is communicate with your partner/potential dates. If you’re not compatible, move on - don’t rant baseless accusations like OP. And if women bad and you don’t feel they’d give you a solid response, talk to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:53 PM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. awwww but I love hedonism. worked out well for me but good luck to you babes! xxx	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:41 PM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. You’re just mad because bad bitches with wet-ass pussies don’t want to see if your dick can handle that shit :,(	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:37 PM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. Yeah I don’t see his point here. Phrased like it’s men who are pressured to wait until marriage while women are praised for having a body count. Oh wait- it’s almost like it’s the complete opposite. Compatibility is the key word here. You’re not going to mesh with everyone, and not everyone will mesh with you. Attractive people may have it easier putting their foot through the door, but to maintain a relationship worth having takes a LOT of work and sometimes people just don’t match. Relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:35 PM
8	Q4W: How would you coach a guy? bro it’s just advice, you don’t have to follow it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 01:56 AM
1	The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own Fault this is some next level copium, I’m honestly kind of impressed	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 03:27 PM
5	The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own Fault bruh most of them are not even gay. and you can tell, too. anyone can see that what they’re selling is a fantasy and is obviously not real lesbian sex. mans probably still thinks scissoring is standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 05:27 AM
5	The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own Fault I’ve had sex with women and with men. I can’t finish from penetration alone but I assure you that I put a LOT of effort and attention towards my sexual partners, and I expect the same from them. Men or women. And no, the technique or “type of sex” doesn’t change - save for one has a real dick and the other sometimes uses a fake one. If a partner is not willing to give my body the attention I gave them, we are not sexually compatible and I am not interested. The only women I have met who don’t ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 05:24 AM
6	The popular advice "Happy wife, happy life" what does this even mean? so you want us to fuck everyone else or…? Day in and day out there’s whining that women won’t give men what they want, but if they have a body count they’re whores. Esp if one of them happens to be attractive. I don’t get your standard bro. “The most disgusting thing a woman could do is fuck anyone else besides me specifically!” That’s what you sound like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 10:00 AM
5	The popular advice "Happy wife, happy life" don’t speak out of turn, put your husband’s needs before yours, follow his schedule and authority, and god forbid you don’t open your legs when he wants you to. happy life indeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 09:56 AM
1	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? Jesus you’re 19 years old dude. You’re still so young. Please get some help before this takes over your whole life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 03:39 PM
0	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? You’re responding to a comment that says women bring nothing to the table. How is that not misogynistic? The problem here isn’t “women bad”, the problem is parasocial relationships and unaddressed men’s mental health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 03:05 PM
2	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? He’s a child and he had some very severe mental health issues to begin with. And now his family is milking the shit out of his death and he’s becoming a joke/a talking point for misogyny. He’s a human being and died tragically young, let him rest for fucks sake. The ink hasn’t dried on his death certificate and already his legacy has turned into some chronically online mess. You using his tragedy as an example for blackpill conspiracy is abhorrent. And if you don’t believe so, you need some seri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 08:41 PM
4	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? No worries. In the movie, the town Kevin Bacon moves to has outlawed dancing - as dance is inherently provocative and sexual. So looks like you don’t have a problem with the dancing at all. You have a problem with cheating, and you see dance as a potential conduit for cheating. And I get it. Cheating is wrong, cowardly, and shameful. I do not tolerate it myself and I don’t expect my boyfriend to. But in this instance, when men/women don’t want their partners going out and dancing, it signals dis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 08:36 PM
7	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? Are you from the town in Footloose? I get what you mean, but it is simply not the case. Even when women dance more provocatively, it’s just because it’s fun. Some women do it for male attention, but for the most part it’s just a good time. Nothing wrong with wanting to feel sexy, and dance is a form of human expression as old as civilization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 08:16 PM
1	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? dude that was a kid. don’t use his very recent tragedy as an example to push your narrative. that’s fucked up and we know better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 08:11 PM
10	Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship? hey let’s go together! I have a groupon 🥰	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 08:07 PM
3	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10399954/ Refers to porn-related addictive behaviors. Key: addictive behavior. Not an abuse disorder, but rather as a result of underlying stimuli and circumstance like a feeling the individual lacks control or as a result from stress. There is no physical addiction, but at this point, porn consumption has affected the individual’s psyche, behavior, and daily life. You’re gonna sit here and tell me people watching eight different porn scenes at the same t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:33 PM
3	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. “Porn abuse disorder” may not be psychologically recognized, but porn is most definitely addictive. Anything that produces dopamine can be. It may not generate physical dependence, but it definitely has the potential to create an emotional and psychological dependence - very oftentimes indicative of something underlying. I have nothing against porn. I watch it pretty often. I think it can also be a healthy tool in the right mindset. But it can absolutely 100% be addictive for some people. Same w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:10 PM
2	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work I just don’t understand what the point of this “game” is. Yes, some women (not all) could go into porn or stripping or other sex work - in which the demand for women is higher. That does not mean these are not male dominated fields. As is pretty much every other workspace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 09:04 PM
3	Women have an advantage over men in the ability to earn by sex work Someone should tell him to go into porn directing or editing or sumn. Guarantee they hire way more men than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 06:48 PM
4	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? I’ve cut off friends who knowingly sleep with men that are in relationships. Or who cheat on their partners. The way I view it when my friends engage with toxic behaviors is: what’s stopping them from being toxic towards me? And why would I be friends with someone who doesn’t share my values? I don’t tolerate cheating. I think it’s nasty behavior. My values are important to me and I don’t want friends who are okay with cheating, just like I wouldn’t want friends who are racist or homophobic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 11:10 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do For sure, and I don’t think a simple conversation on consent will cover it - but I think more cultural openness on the topic of sex would help. If I’m being an idealist, I’d say it’d be nice if women could feel comfortable disclosing their body count, and men could feel comfortable disclosing lack of experience. I think somewhere along the line, we mistook sex as sacred - which it can be, personally. But when you take a natural concept and apply universal laws to it, it’s gonna make a mess. Huma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 07:52 AM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do I think we’re saying very similar things? Apologies if I came off aggressive, I’ve been responding to a lot of different people, I may have had you confused. Hard to comb through the people having normal conversation and the weirdos saying women like me don’t have a place in society and aren’t capable of true love (???). I think the balanced perspective comes in minding your business when two consenting adults are doing consenting adult things. Don’t remember who it was at this point, but there …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 01:27 AM
-1	Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit it I don’t know enough about the case to say who was the abuser and who wasn’t, but mutual abuse doesn’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 12:29 AM
2	How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it? silly silly	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 06:06 PM
-1	Women hate sluts more than men do How is it being transformed??? Yall are acting like sex outside of marriage is such a new thing, people have been having casual sex since always. Literally it is more natural. It isn’t transforming shit, people are just more okay with sharing and talking about it now. Humans just have a rlly weird and warped perspective of sex and power dynamics and like to use it to shame others and bring themselves up: either as righteous and holier-than-thou, or as proof of conquest. Shits fucking weird, be n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 06:05 PM
0	Women hate sluts more than men do I don’t know you babe, just trying to add to the discussion. “Oh no! Unhingedtherapist254 doesn’t think I can have meaningful relationships! I must gouge my eyes out posthaste!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 05:25 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do how would you define true love?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 05:22 PM
7	Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people. yeah starving to death and going crazy from the heat/cold exposure and coping with drugs/alcohol is a very different situation Once you get to the point of comparing women to dumpster chicken, you’re too far gone I fear	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 03:49 PM
4	How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it? Yes, I said that already. What exactly is the endgame with this discussion? You clearly had that locked and loaded before you even read my comment, because I addressed that at the beginning	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 04:26 AM
5	How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it? I don’t understand the need to compare these things in hypotheticals. There are comments asking if you’d believe your daughter if she was SAd. Yes? Similarly I’d believe my son if he was SAd. It’s much, MUCH more common than false accusations. That being said, false accusations do happen. I’d like to believe I’d know my son’s character enough, but then again, you never know. I’d be involved in the investigation, I’d ask questions, I wouldn’t automatically assume innocent or guilty. Would I contr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 03:08 AM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do Oh LOL no worries at all!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 12:38 AM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do I’m sorry my response was awful? I’m a little confused, is that what you meant to write? I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m a big believer that old dogs can learn new tricks. If that’s what you want to do, no reason not to go for it unless you’re uncomfortable with it. Don’t listen to the weirdos on this sub, they’ve got a lot going on. I recommend you try out dating without romance. Find a friend with benefits you can meet with every once in a while to grab lunch with and eventually get intimate w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 11:58 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do I’m sensing some internalized misogyny. She’s encountered struggles in her dating life and it’s easier to have someone to blame. We’ve all been there. Whenever I didn’t land the role I wanted or didn’t get a solo, I found myself feeling resentment towards the one who did. But it doesn’t solve anything, and her relationships are not my responsibility. I’m not sleeping with taken men. Turning against women who have different lifestyles than you is far more harmful to us than honoring each others d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:02 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do I grew up in an ultra conservative household, too. Was taught super backwards ideas of women and virginity. Glad I got the hell outta there! I got sick of feeling ashamed for enjoying the things that brought me pleasure and fulfillment. Casual sex was great for me because it allowed me to get to know what I wanted, what my needs were, and what I enjoyed. It also taught me how different people can be in bed, what they enjoy, what makes them feel taken care of. It taught me how to communicate and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 09:49 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do I’m in a wonderful relationship right now and we have a great sex life. If anything, it made us better communicators in the bedroom. How does it cheapen it specifically? Because I genuinely still don’t see the issue here. If you don’t want a woman with a high body count, don’t date one. That’s fine and you’re entitled to your boundaries. But who are you to speak on the experiences of people who live differently from you and are hurting no one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:57 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do I’m actually so much in love! Marrying the man of my dreams, couldn’t be happier. I’m happy, healthy, and know how to communicate. He treats me well, makes me feel safe, showers me with affection - I do the same for him. We build each other up, as it should be! I can’t wait to start a family with him. I’m hoping for a boy and a girl and I want to give them the best lives I can. I don’t see the problem. Jealousy maybe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:55 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do I’m flourishing AND thriving! Dk what ur talking about :) far from invisible hon i can guarantee that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:52 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do When it comes to personal choice that hurts no one?? Mind ya business. My body count does not affect you baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:52 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do Oh I’m not triggered. This is a debate sub, we’re having a discussion. And I don’t feel guilty either, I left that feeling behind a long time ago. I’d like for you to show me where you reached that conclusion, I am not quite seeing it. What’s empowering and liberating is making my own choices on what to do with my own body and being able to do so safely, AKA with access to birth control and women’s healthcare. Can you please explain to me how that’s causing harm to anyone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:01 PM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do I don’t think you’re being mean, and I also don’t think you’re particularly treading carefully either. I just think you’re misguided. I would love to see these studies. I have seen no such thing. Sexual liberation is a complicated subject, and in my opinion, it needs to be supported by three big things: access to birth control, competent sex education, and access to abortion and women’s healthcare. Without these things, of course sex in GENERAL can be harmful to women. But other than that, I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 03:57 PM
0	Women hate sluts more than men do Very strange how we exclusively hold women accountable for these things. If we’re going to hold such heteronormative debates on discussions of gender and sex, shouldn’t we at least admit it takes two to tango? These “sluts” are sleeping with SOMEONE. and I guarantee you I cannot pull the top 10-15% of men, as they like to argue. Sounds like cope to me, that’s why they like to claim that women don’t even like sex or that it soils them. And it’s not about being uptight, don’t push yourself to do a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 03:52 PM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do Yeah you sound sane. I don’t understand blaming other women for your own struggles in dating. As if men didn’t have agency. Men are not helpless to slutty women, and they are not being claimed en masse. If you can’t find a committed relationship, I’m sorry to hear that but that’s on you. It’s literally no one else’s responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:55 AM
-2	Women hate sluts more than men do Hi! I’m a woman! I see nothing wrong with adult women participating in sexual promiscuity and kink so long as it’s all consensual. I’ve engaged in plenty of casual sex sessions and usually slept around with my partners before dating them. I love sex on a first date. I love sex no strings attached. I LOVE me some kink, including degradation. I once was sleeping with three men at once, took the necessary safety measures, and guess what! It didn’t lower my value. It was healing and raised my confid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:53 AM
3	Women hate sluts more than men do I don’t think it has to be special for everyone. What’s actually wrong with casual sex other than the fact that you don’t like it? Personally, I found it very healing and I learned a lot about myself. I speak pretty openly about sex (to willing parties obv) and I don’t intend on changing that. If people think I’m a slut for that, that’s fine. I’ll carry the title with pride.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 04:43 AM
–	Would you trade places with women in the dating game? I’m usually the one who makes the first move. I get impatient lol like I didn’t come here to fuck around. I wasted too much time waiting, not knowing, and missing chances. Nothing wrong with ladies making the first move - esp if the man is too shy (I love shy lil nerdy boys!). I’ve gotten rejected a lot, but it still boosts my confidence that I even put myself out there in the first place, and it’s helped me avoid a lot of potential situationships lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 01:21 AM
3	Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likes Absolutely. OLD wasn’t for me, I didn’t enjoy it. Someone on this sub actually told me I was the problem for not finding connection on these apps, which is an interesting take… I guess he wanted me to pop my pussy for every profile that popped up or something. I just always felt like something was missing, and I realized I do much better getting to know people IRL with shared interests and activities. That being said, I know some people who did great with OLD, long term relationships and everyth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 10:38 PM
6	Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality? I concur. It’s strange that the first reaction is “women, are you aware of this?” Not taking any shots at OP bc he makes a lot of good points and I don’t want to invalidate his feelings, I just think he’s a bit misguided. humanity in general has just always had strange perceptions of sexuality. It’s not exclusive to women or men, so blaming each other like this is kinda silly and solves nothing. If men feel uncomfortable expressing their sexuality because of other creepy men ruining it for every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 10:29 PM
1	What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you? I’m horrible with numbers, too. I expect my partner to know something as simple as my birthday. It’s not this huge expectation, and men typically expect that too. If that’s such a big ask that it “infuriates” you (which is a bit dramatic - I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones) then we are not compatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 02:10 PM
1	What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you? Yeah but they’re not mutually exclusive events. It’s not one or the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 01:43 PM
1	What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you? Well, some would count that as an action. It’s obviously not just about memorizing dates. I don’t remember most of my friend’s birthdays either - but I get them something thoughtful when I realize it’s coming up. Maybe I’ll help plan something or cover a dinner. A partner, however, should know when your birthday is if it’s long term. Super weird if they don’t, IMO. I know this is shocking to hear, but sometimes it’s nice when someone cares enough to remember a small detail like your birthday and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 08:50 PM
3	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Perhaps older generations, I’m seeing it less and less. I certainly don’t see it that way, it’s actually the other way around in my relationship. It’s such a silly way to live right now, we’re all broke as shit. Least you can do is support each other when you can lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 08:45 PM
3	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Yeah this doesn’t sound like a gender thing, everything in there screams that they never should’ve gotten married. I don’t think either of them wanted that, so just about anything is bound to build resentment. She sucks for her “be a man” comments and he deserves better, but I think ppl are confusing what the takeaway should be here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 08:31 PM
2	What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you? Oh wow, you’re rlly upset about this huh. Hey man, like I said, my partner values these things too and he’s a man. Everyone’s got different values. Don’t blame women bc ur memory sucks. Also rlly weird u know nothing about your best friend. Doesn’t sound like a friendship I’d want. But to each their own my guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 08:54 PM
5	What is the worst thing a partner could ever say to you? Aw. Perhaps. I suppose everyone has different values. I would be sad if my boyfriend forgot about my birthday - not because I specifically care about birthdays, but it’s thoughtful to remember and acknowledge those details. I know my boyfriend would be sad if I forgot his, too. He was over the moon when he learned I had his phone number memorized lol, such a small thing. People look for different things in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 08:36 PM
4	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are And some women go their whole lives never getting an orgasm from their husbands. I think the underlying issue here is our inability to talk and learn about sex like mature adults. Luckily now, there’s more information available than ever. I’ve never seen an educated woman give a shit about this, and I’ve also seen that men are becoming increasingly aware of how to be mindful of their partner in the bedroom. If we can continue having these conversations like adults and understand that sometimes p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 09:45 AM
4	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are There are many valid points and concerns in the post. But it feels less like an expression of frustration and genuinely wanting to start a conversation and more like a jab. When in reality, the concept of virginity as a whole - to describe men or women - is fucking stupid anyway. And anyone giving it enough value to judge others with it is an idiot. Lots of men are obsessed with women’s virginity. Lots of women are inconsiderate of men’s problems in the bedroom and their feelings on it. Shitty p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 09:38 AM
5	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are And it’s harmless when men joke that women are in their prime between 12-18? Or that we secretly enjoy rape if it’s an attractive man? Or that we’re worn through and carry the dna of every man we’ve been with? That we’re used cars, houses, broken locks, etc? If someone online is being genuine in putting men down for things they can’t control, they are a shit person. If they are making a lighthearted joke like the one mentioned above, anyone with nuance will know it’s just a light tease over some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 09:32 AM
1	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are Yeah I’m sure it feels bad but this pointed narrative at women for it is childish and immature. There are better, more constructive ways to express dissatisfaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 09:26 AM
4	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are Some of yall need serious help that’s way above my skill level. Frankly the comment I received earlier was disturbing enough, when I was trying to show support and contribute to the conversation in a constructive way rather than this doomer mindset yall are subscribed to. Good luck with all that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 09:24 AM
-1	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are Yikes you have issues. I guarantee you there’s no mask, we’ve been together a long time and I was close to him for even longer. You thinking it’s for my “entertainment” is sick, and says a lot about you. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 09:21 AM
1	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are I’m friends with men who are still virgins (mid to late twenties) or who lost their virginity late. None of us care. We were happy for the ones who got laid because sex is fun, but we didn’t think they were better for it. The topic of virginity and dating does come up, and they have ears ready to listen when they need to vent or are seeking advice. And none of them have ever bought into this manosphere bullshit and advocate against it. It just sounds like immaturity to me. And beating yourself u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:39 AM
1	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are Sounds like you’re surrounding yourself with the wrong people. These mindsets tend to create a vicious cycle of ATTRACTING the wrong people, too. I’m sorry you ever felt this way, it’s disgusting. No one should ever feel like they need to earn love, but unfortunately many of us do. I’ve been there in relationships, it’s absolute dogshit. But once you solidify yourself in this mentality, it becomes really difficult to escape. I’m still working on it. I was in a relationship where I had to buy lov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:34 AM
15	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are When I read these posts, I can’t help but feel that a lot of people are either A) terminally online or B) just surrounding themselves with shit people. I’ve never cared about stuff like virginity, premature ejaculation, ED, etc. It’s normal. It happens. I have a hard time finishing very often, and I know how awful it is to get in your own head about it. Decent people don’t hold it against you. I don’t know anyone that does, and if I heard my friends talking like that, I’d think they’re kinda imm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:24 AM
2	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? The comment you responded to stated women will get shamed for their choice to not have kids. They said they will never understand why people can’t respect someone’s choice. You said, “what’s there to understand” and provided a list on why people argue “women should have kids” - you did not say, “reasons why women might choose to have kids”. You specifically phrased your response as a rebuttal. So it kinda seems like you’re the person the commenters are talking about. Correct me if I’m wrong, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 07:20 PM
10	What is the appropriate response for a gamer bf/husband to his woman that protests his hobby? I play video games, too. Very often with my partner. We just play the game for fun, and if we lose, we joke about it. No actual anger is in play. I did date someone who used to chuck his controller. One time it broke and a piece hit me in the eye. He would be super shitty to me when he lost. He would also force me to play video games with him that I did not want to play, at all my free hours. Any protest meant that I hated his hobby. I definitely began to resent his videogames lol. His behavior …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:57 PM
41	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? Those are reasons to have kids yourself, not valid reasons to shame other people for their decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 03:39 PM
1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? I can see how that can be a concern. I won’t say it doesn’t happen. However, I will say sometimes all it takes is people getting to know each other better. It’s not so simple as attractive vs unattractive. They might find you attractive physically but not know you well enough to be into you romantically or even sexually. As friendships progress, you get to know each other better. Example: I’m bisexual. I have plenty of female friends. All of them attractive, my roommate and a friend I met throug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 05:36 AM
1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? He asked me out from getting to know me? And it wasn’t out of nowhere. It had been building. You don’t walk up to a stranger and say, “do you want to be my friend?” You build a rapport. And women don’t have a problem with male friends asking them out. They take issue when they find out that was the only reason they became friends with you. They did the work on becoming someone you trusted only for them to give you an ultimatum “date me or lose me”. That’s shitty, male or female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 05:27 AM
0	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? I think human relationships are more complicated than that and I notice these subs definitely follow a “one size fits all” approach to them. Like there’s a formula or algorithm that will predict human behavior and relationships every time and that’s how all humans exist, and this is simply not true. There are trends, sure, but you can’t just reduce the entirety of human experience to “what I would do”. And no, he asked me out. We were friends while in different relationships, then we left those …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 11:07 PM
-1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? Idk dude I was friends with my bf for four years before we started dating. It made our relationship much stronger	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:07 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Where’s that second stat from because I can’t find it. If you’re a woman, yikes girl. It’s almost as if women have historically had to get married to live. Women primarily marrying for love is a very new thing, which is why people are getting married much later in life. A lot of women, a lot of our own parents, got married too early, without knowing each other well enough, before living their own lives - ending up in unhappy marriages. Women aren’t fleeing their husbands left and right for funsi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 08:21 AM
1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? It’s an example, not a universal. I’m trying to explain that male sexuality is complex - not just biological. Whether you want it to be or not. And everyone not falling into one category or another, like you said, is proof of that. If he would still smash, that’s great. Good for him. There’s also plenty of guys who wouldn’t. So the example didn’t work. Okay. Him smashing his ex is not indicative of male sexuality not being a pure biological urge. And I think trying to argue that, while arguing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 08:12 AM
5	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Seriously like what? And the post implies that this woman in question is committed. “Let me punish you for the actions of others”. Good riddance in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 08:06 AM
-1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? And taste is subjective. What one woman might find ugly is attractive to someone else. I’m immensely attracted to Pete Davidson and everyone I know thinks he’s ugly. I actually thought Gerard Way was quite unattractive until I got really into his music - now I think he’s fine as hell. I used to think my exes were hot, now I wouldn’t sleep with them even if I was single. One of them I actually now find repulsive to look at. I also think a lot of people forget men and women can be friends, and the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 08:04 AM
1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? Except, yes it is. Sexuality is driven by sociological, psychological, and biological components. The simplest and most common example is guys getting too nervous their first time and not being able to perform/performing early. Human sexuality is complex and diverse because we are complex social creatures. If someone, male or female, perceives male sexuality AS A WHOLE as a simple biological urge they act on, they are wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 07:59 AM
1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? I’m sorry y’all have had this experience. I’m in my 20s and have very rarely run into people like this. It does happen but I do see it happening less. Honestly, all I have to say is demonizing women and saying they don’t care is not going to help the issue, and it definitely won’t attract a woman who DOES care. I see men doing this way more than I see men advocating for men’s mental health. Not saying you do, just pointing out a trend I’ve noticed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:21 AM
1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? Damn. May I ask how old you are? I wonder if it’s just a crazy difference between age groups. Most of the women I’ve known and interacted with don’t function this way in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:15 AM
-3	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? oh shit okay. Not for me but you do you. The above paragraph is how I and other people I know function, but we’re all different. As mentioned, sexuality is complex and unique to the individual. have fun bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:11 AM
12	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman yikes bro. last I checked, the last time I was left severely traumatized from a relationship, it was a man. and I don’t say this kinda shit. It’s almost as if this does nothing to contribute to the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 12:10 AM
-1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? It’s just hyperbole :) for fun. But in all seriousness - it’s not the action. It’s the intent behind the action. Feeling taken care of, or like someone is going the extra mile to help you, or someone is being thoughtful for you, or someone trusts you more than most. Now THATS sexy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:40 PM
-3	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? All sexuality is complex. Most of us don’t subscribe to the “men will fuck anything” idea - it’s incredibly harmful to both men and women. I’m sorry, do you not value anything else besides sex in a relationship? I don’t think you’re getting what women mean, so let me give you the opposite scenario. Say your long-term-girlfriend, who is by all accounts a 10, has been cheating on you for months. You don’t see her the same way anymore. Are you feeling sexually attracted to her at all? Probably not.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:37 PM
-1	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? what women are you talking about? i love it when my man is vulnerable, it means he trusts me to handle his heart with care and to have helpful input. And i make more money than him, so it’s not wealth he’s bringing to the table. He takes care of me and makes me feel loved. He contributes around the house. Being around him makes me feel seen and safe. Sure i found him attractive, but what made me fall in love with him and become sexually attracted enough to make a move, is the way he acts. A lot …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:29 PM
32	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman I think you’re being generous in your analysis. It’s saying women wanted this, women enabled it, women devalue marriage and relationships, and they deserve to be left for it. This post carries a lot of resentment and underlying issues. Healthy people don’t view marriage and relationships like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 03:45 PM
1	CMV: Hitting "the wall" as a woman should be embraced! A not uncommon response to rape or sexual assault is making yourself “ugly” or undesirable. Sometimes even subconsciously. And the response is to make yourself unwanted. Sometimes when you experience something awful like this, a huge part of the blow goes to your perception of self, and something that you might’ve been proud of (your beauty) is suddenly something you despise about yourself. Less drastically so, you may experience this on a simple night out. You want to wear something you look be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 07:54 AM
2	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires Well, no, obviously they are not the same thing. I don’t think anyone is actually arguing that tho. Maybe a couple ppl here and there, but most people understand they’re not the same. By equality we mean equal opportunity, equal quality of life, and equal respect. Sorry if I misunderstood your comment but I don’t rlly know what you mean by this. Would you mind elaborating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 07:08 AM
4	CMV: Hitting "the wall" as a woman should be embraced! I see your point, and I agree to an extent. Most straight women don’t want zero male attention. It’s the kind of attention that’s the problem. I don’t get hit on a lot, less so these days as I’ve kinda “glowed down” in the last couple years. But I’ve had good experiences and bad experiences. If a guy offers to buy me a drink, that’s a nice gesture and I’ll accept it (being safe, of course, and only accepting it directly from the bartender). If a guy tells me I look nice, I’ll accept the complime…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 09:28 AM
22	CMV: Hitting "the wall" as a woman should be embraced! bro what are you smoking	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 09:18 AM
7	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires You cannot be serious. Do you think that just because you haven’t experienced something that it doesn’t happen? Police are on the side of the women 100% of the time? What? What world do you live in dude? I guarantee that is not true. If it was, my ex would be in prison - or at the very least, experienced some form of legal consequence as a result of repeatedly breaking the law. If it was true, rape victims would get justice 100% of the time. No one would ask her what she was wearing. You know, i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:43 PM
1	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar Who is saying men only have one shot at romance? This is not the norm. Most men I know have been in multiple relationships. Women absolutely do generalize men. Those are shitty women and fake feminists that do more harm to our community than good. Those subs area widely known to be terrible spaces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:31 PM
12	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires My brother in Christ I have seen it happen. Yikes to that first sentence, too. I may have had family and friends that supported me when I left a man that beat me left and right on the reg, but when he was stalking me and violating his restraining order, I had no help from police. Nobody “catered” to me, not even a slap on the wrist. He got away with it. Do some research on it. Especially if you have sisters or women in your life that are close to you. No, it’s not the majority and it’s not super…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:25 PM
18	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires In what ways are men and women different that would justify people not minding their own business and keeping their shitty judgement to themselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:20 PM
4	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires Thank you. I’ve even heard shit like casual sex increases testosterone in women and gives them “masculine energy” which is unnatural because women are supposed to be pure. Idk about everyone else but I love casual sex and I haven’t grown a dick yet so	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:19 PM
14	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires Yes. Also in the US, by extremely traditional and religious families. Especially if they’re married. It’s actually quite common for the family manipulate and coerce the woman to stay with the abusive husband, because divorce is not recognized by many churches. In South Korea, this is a MASSIVE problem. DV is rampant over there and it’s an extremely taboo subject. It’s seen as distasteful to discuss and shameful to the family of the victim. Because of this social stigma, many women are forced to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:17 PM
9	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires I think it’s also the result in placing too many expectations on male sexuality to be dominant and masculine. It’s become a subject of pride. Women participating in “guy activities” like videogames or sports, or dressing like a guy, is comparatively culturally accepted. Sure there’s plenty of controlling shitheads that complain about this because they think they can control women’s appearance and behavior to match their own attraction. But overall, most people don’t bat an eye. But a man dressin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 08:09 PM
14	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires I see your point dude, but it’s really hard to agree that it’s misandry when women are the ones facing the consequences. I think it’s less so misandry and more so the cultural product of historically viewing women as objects for male pleasure. It’s not that male sexuality is impure, it’s that male sexuality historically has been weaponized against women to establish ownership. That’s where comparisons like “women are x objects” come from. I’m sure you’ve heard “a new car is more valuable than a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:59 PM
2	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar I think a lot of this also stems from men not having healthy coping habits and emotional outlets for heartbreak. Heartbreak is part of life. Rejection is part of life. Grief is part of life. I really wish a lot of y’all were given the skills to self soothe and seek help in a healthy way instead of coping via mass generalization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 08:42 AM
2	How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men? What’s harmful to men isn’t having the choice to be traditional; it’s being raised to believe they don’t have a choice to begin with, and having that reinforced by the way you’re treated by the people around you in whichever space you may occupy. This is becoming more and more accepted, luckily, and as women are raised to have the choice to have jobs and not have kids if that’s the path they want, awareness is growing for men’s mental health and decent people advocate for men to embrace vulnerab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 07:59 AM
0	How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men? I still pull him out every once in a while lol and he hangs out with his boys once or twice a month in person. He does like going out and being social, he just needs the social battery to recharge hella	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 12:40 AM
3	How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men? It’s okay to want traditional gender roles in a relationship - men or women. What’s not okay is enforcing these roles on your partner, not communicating this to dates and feeling entitled to a certain treatment, or expecting all men or all women to follow YOUR standards and seeing them as less than when they don’t. THATS what’s harmful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 06:51 AM
7	How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men? My bf is an introvert and has charisma up the ass. People love him right away. He’s just approachable and chill. Me? Extroverted but a hot mess socially. I trip on my words and confidence is a “fake it till you make it” typa situation. It’s a cruel irony and a perfect match lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 06:48 AM
5	How come introverted men seem less attractive to women than extroverted men? My boyfriend is extremely introverted, but knows to put himself out there because he wants human connection. Now that he has friends and a girlfriend he rlly just chills at home on discord when he’s not at work lol. If he hadn’t put himself out there, though, we likely wouldn’t have gotten close to begin with. I think he’s the best to be around, not boring at all and I never thought he was. But it would’ve been hard to meet him in the first place if he had never left his dorm years ago and becom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 06:45 AM
–	Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive? my brother in Christ, I am in a healthy loving relationship, and I am a woman with a sex drive dating a man with a sex drive. he doesn’t expect sex out of me for good behavior, but I am sexually attracted to the way that he treats me because it makes me feel secure and loved. your views on sex, relationships, and women is very indicative of some deep personal issues. mayhaps get that checked out, my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:55 AM
–	Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive? Are you kidding me? Every time my man picks me up from work without asking or does my chores on his day off, I start sweatin and go weak in the knees. Yeah he’s cute as hell and I always thought he was attractive but it was def personality that made me truly want him	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:18 AM
-4	Why men today struggle in dating Yeah exactly. Not gonna lie, it doesn’t surprise me one bit when i see someone online complaining about struggling with dating, but follows up the lament with terms like “smv”and other chronically online shit. We’re not houses, we’re human beings. Yes, a lot of women prefer “chads” but for the most part, people are attracted to confidence. Personally, I don’t like heavily assertive men. I like men who are kind and emotionally vulnerable. I like for my partner to treat me with empathy, respect, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 03:39 AM
24	In 20 years, will women blame men for allowing their sexual liberation? B-b-but what about in 20 years when you’re childless and used up!!!! You’re the downfall of the human race!!!! (Why won’t women fuck me 😢) /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 08:56 PM
16	In 20 years, will women blame men for allowing their sexual liberation? My parents are extremely traditional - Asian-Latino Catholicism paired with immigrant status will do that to you. Even they are hell bent on me getting a stable career, and I agree with them. My mom is a SAHM, never had a job in her life, and she regrets it. Financial autonomy and self sufficiency is a powerful thing. These men know that. It’s not “sexual liberation” that is the problem. They don’t like the threat to unchecked power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 08:54 PM
14	In 20 years, will women blame men for allowing their sexual liberation? My brother in Christ, women (and men, too) are going to psychiatrists more because mental health awareness is on the rise (as it should be) and women are actually being treated now. In the days you’re fantasizing about, y’all just sent your women to the asylum if they ever complained. Respectfully, sit back down. This doesn’t make any coherent sense at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 08:50 PM
-2	Are men becoming ok with no sex? Cool, that’s all you got out of everything I said, but I added the “attractive and tall” as a jab. Glad to see my point got proven bc that was the only thing you read and felt the need to comment on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 06:13 AM
2	Are men becoming ok with no sex? I wrote a whole response and accidentally deleted it. Kicking myself rn. The cause and effect of why some men turn out that way is important, but that is completely separate from justification. You are right there. What do I expect them to do? The same thing everyone does when experiencing heartbreak, loss, loneliness, or trauma. Go to therapy, see a coach, get a new look, develop some hobbies, strengthen your social circle or try to get a new one, anything that will boost your sense of confiden…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:55 AM
1	Are men becoming ok with no sex? My man I’ve asked out every man or woman I’ve ever been interested in. Do you live under a rock? Seriously, do you have sisters? A mother? Any women in your life that you’ve had a genuine interaction with? I’ve been rejected so many goddamn times, it’s embarrassing. All of my friends have expressed interest in other men and gotten rejected before. I think out of the six or so relationships I’ve been in, the only time a man asked ME out and I said yes is my current relationship. Before that, it w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:24 AM
2	Are men becoming ok with no sex? I don’t believe they have the same problems, but let’s not sit here and pretend many men don’t react to their issues in dating with hatred towards women and a feeling of indignant entitlement. Rejection and loneliness are a part of life, how you react is up to you. And if your reaction is spouting false statements online, that’s one hell of a legacy you’re leaving behind and a memory I’m not sure you’ll be too fond of twenty years from now. Women don’t have it easy in dating, women do end up lon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:09 AM
5	Are men becoming ok with no sex? That’s not what feminism is. If a number of women here or there promote hatred and violence against men in the name of feminism, they are delusional and dangerous. As are the men who do that towards women. But you can’t sit here and tell me that gender violence is not disproportionately aimed against women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 01:02 AM
3	Are men becoming ok with no sex? I know plenty of women who have not found a partner. It is not an extreme outlier, and I’m not talking about people with physical deformities or disabilities. Dating app statistics are not indicative of real world interactions, and believing they are is incredibly unhealthy. As a woman, let me tell you that the majority of us are not looking for the top 5%. You wouldn’t fuck just about anybody who asks because you have standards, and sexuality and romance are very much about compatibility. Women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 11:24 PM
2	Are men becoming ok with no sex? My friend, I am simply saying that the statement that women always have options for mates is false. I don’t know where people got the idea that any woman can almost instantaneously find any partner they want and that sex is an unlimited resource for women, that is very much untrue, and believing that will only make you more bitter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 11:06 PM
1	Are men becoming ok with no sex? I did. Now I’m with a man who is attractive, tall, and treats me with a respect and love I’ve never known before. We’re getting married after I complete my masters. Hope ur doing well too, hon	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 08:48 PM
4	Are men becoming ok with no sex? A general you. These communities of men. Lonely women who don’t have luck in the dating or sexual “market” do exist, and generally they are referred to as cat ladies or spinsters. Does that make better sense? Because you knew what I meant from the beginning and are purposefully evading my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 08:31 PM
-2	Are men becoming ok with no sex? My ex didn’t have a criminal history, had no evidence of being prone to violence, and was cheated on in his last relationship, so he told me that cheating was vile and something he could never do. I didn’t pick him because he was attractive. He actually was not conventionally attractive and was “short” according to most people’s standards. I fell in love with him because he was sweet, made me laugh, and he was passionate about the things he loved. I genuinely thought I picked well. He turned out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 08:29 PM
5	Are men becoming ok with no sex? No, they don’t. But these lonely women don’t receive the empathy you expect women to give to men. You call these women “cat ladies” or “spinsters”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 08:17 PM
-4	Are men becoming ok with no sex? Honestly. By snap, I don’t think he means “go on a long, angry tangent”. We’ve seen what happens when men “snap” and their excuse is no sex. It’s not a real excuse, it’s a cover for their own hatred and entitlement towards women. You see the same with shit men in even sexually active relationships or marriages. You’ve seen what happens when women deny their abusive partners sex. Anything ranging from temper tantrums, coercion, manipulation and gaslighting, physical violence, to forced rape. But …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 08:14 PM
6	Are men becoming ok with no sex? Truthfully, i am not surprised. SK has a severe DV problem where the cultural expectation is to keep quiet and deal. I live in the US and lord knows my protections when I was being abused were few and far between, but at least I had people who loved me and supported me through it. I would’ve lost my mind if my own friends and family were urging me to keep things on the DL or try to convince me that it was in my head and I had to understand “his perspective”. If that had been my experience, or if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 08:04 PM
0	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread okay then why hang out around these communities then? be picky, that’s fine. I’m happy for you, I’m glad you feel fulfilled in life - and you’re right, sex isn’t everything and it’s dangerous to measure your value based off the people you’ve slept with. read that last part again - that goes both ways. your value isn’t measured by your body count - low or high. it doesn’t matter if you’re a virgin or if you sleep around. let people be happy, treat others with respect, and love yourself. that’s it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 06:03 AM
-1	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread my personal actions shouldn’t upset you because it has nothing to do with you. I can be sexually attracted to someone but not be compatible with them romantically lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 05:55 AM
2	What advice do you have for women to avoid being pumped and dumped oooh thank you! yes we are very excited! these things just get on my nerves sumn fierce. like my boyfriend and I have known each other for years, we were close friends for a long time before we started dating. we saw each other in and out of relationships. even when we started sleeping together, he has NEVER made me feel obligated to do so. even when he confessed his feelings, he was respectful and it never jeopardized our friendship. what’s absolutely crazy is that when you treat a woman with l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/23 11:27 PM
4	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread they act like we’re running some sort of conspiracy to exclude certain types of men, like be so fucking fr. Maybe a lot of it has to do with stunted development, shitty personalities, and a severe lack of therapy. Not to mention, people fall into these ideologies at an increasingly younger age. Ain’t no way you’re labeling yourself as “involuntary celibate” at 22. You’re so young and could be doing so much work on yourself, going out and having real experiences and getting to know people. You ga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/23 11:17 PM
8	What advice do you have for women to avoid being pumped and dumped fr, human relationships don’t function on these over-calculated strategies. it’s fine to have a personal rule to go by, but not everyone is going to function this way and it’s not going to work with everyone. the most important part is getting along and forming a connection. some women will want to have sex right away, others won’t want sex at all - both are perfectly okay as long as there’s sexual compatibility. My last relationship lasted four years and we slept together on the first date (he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/23 11:13 PM
2	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread a lot of these debates miss the mark entirely because they fail to consider women as complex social creatures. “I couldn’t have sex with her right away, I had to take her on dates first >:(“ yeah congrats, she likes your personality and sees potential in you as a long term partner - which probably means regular, dependable sex. but a lot of these men are self fulfilling prophesies. they’ll get upset that sex didn’t come out after a compliment and a nice dinner and they’ll self sabotage, followed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/23 11:02 PM