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| 2 | what makes a man seductive?Being comfortable in your own skin and not being swayed to change. Women respect this a lot. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | When a girl brings up a perceived weakness of yours… twiceDon’t let her see an ounce of insecurity . Own that bald head and she will respect the shit out of you | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 02:12 AM |
| 13 | What's the difference between the guys who get the girls and the guys who don't?Arrogance mixed with humility. In other words, you need to figure out how to be cocky and humble at the same time. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | What about direct approach?This approach is poor. Women need to build rapport first before attraction is made. They aren't just going to be attracted to you instantly without any prior conversation. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Guy Dressed Like a Santa, and Girls Were All Over HimWomen associate Santa with fun, nostalgia, warm feeling , like seeing someone dress up as a Disney character. It’s just a fun, silly thing to do. Women let their guard down when they see that because they don’t feel a threatening vibe. They trust Santy Claus. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Well when you’re 18 years old , looking cute can be enough . When you get older, just being cute doesn’t cut it . | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Personally , I prefer if my woman is a hidden gem. I enjoy the fact that other men aren’t tempting her constantly with thoughts of leaving me. From my experience, women are the opposite. They want the hottest item in town, and they want to flaunt it around town. It helps their self esteem that they can score such a perceived high value person | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?I wish it wasn’t like this either, it sucks for men. Men have to be of a certain status / standard to score a beautiful woman. They have to use strategy, they have to play games. Sometimes, they have to bullshit their way into it. It’s not as easy as just being good looking. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Being a high value man just means that you are very desirable to other women. When women sense that a man is undesirable, they are embarrassed to be around him. However, if they are with a very desirable man, they feel proud of themselves , like they have accomplished something. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?These things are universal. Every woman wants to laugh , have fun and know that their man is high value. These are basic human desires | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Perceived value. Women need to perceive you of being a high-value man in order to find you sexy. They need to think that you are a hot ticket item. Also, there needs to be a dangerousness to you. Women aren't attracted to rule-followers, they want someone who's fun and willing to bend the rules (not to the point of being a criminal, but just enough to get away with it.) She will associate you with having fun and feeling cool. Humor is huge as well. If you keep a woman laughing, she will associat… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Let's just do a little analysis here. To get 2-3 dates a week while closing the deal on at least 1-2 per week, you need to be top-tier good looking IN ADDITION TO being really confident and charismatic. Confidence by itself isn't going to cut it. Also, whatever OP is telling these women must be a God-tier level of bullshit. So what is this thread really about? If you read between the lines, the advice here is: 1. Be Better Looking 2. Learn How to Bullshit. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Does anyone understand what it’s like to accomplish this, realistically? Dating women takes time, attention, money, thought, it’s a whole process. And OP comes along saying he closes the deal more than once a week, and actually has ongoing relationships with all of them. It’s bullshit, guys. This isn’t a realistic picture of a desired result. This is like making dating a full time job, and having quantity over quality. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 11:37 AM |
| 24 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)From my point of view, this isn’t helpful , it’s just bragging and bullshit mostly. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:47 AM |
| 2 | So 8 days ago a random girl approached me and said something….interesting to me. What did she mean? What should I have done?When a woman says she likes your shirt, she’s really saying, “ I like how you look. You look good.” Last time a women gave me an aggressive comment like that, I put my arm right around her neck and took her inside the concert venue, and we spend the rest of the night together. Ended up sleeping together. If a women is aggressive with you, she is basically telling you that it’s ok to be aggressive with her too. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls in college, what contact info do I get?If she's in your class, it's easy to get the phone number. You just have to say that you want to exchange info incase you need to get a homework assignment or something. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | 40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong?Tinder sucked for me. Bumble worked much better, and I met my current gf on POF. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I even talk to girls without coming off as a friend?A good way to build attraction is to be funny, and tease them a bit, like they are your bratty sister. This playful and light-hearted energy is how you want them to associate you. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 39 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.She is saying, this can happen again if you’re cool . In other words , don’t get all lovey dovey, don’t tell people about it, just be cool about it. You’ll possibly have a FWB here if you act accordingly. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Women do this if they are at a certain level of attracted to you. They are attracted enough to give you a chance. Taking this time to give you a chance can make their attraction to you stronger or weaker. In this case, the woman gave it thought, and found that you weren't relationship-material for her. You could keep seeing her if you keep it cool and don't mention relationship stuff, but if you bring all that up, she will label you as needy/clingy and desperate for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | how do you talk to a girl when she's being boring?Best way to get someone's attention is to take away your own. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girlWomen care a lot about the opinion of others. If they think you're cool and sexy to other women, they will also find you sexy. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 18 | Does living at home in the suburbs kill my dating life?Some women don't date men who live at home, so that will narrow down the dating pool. Also, you can't bring women to the home, so that's also limiting. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:07 PM |
| 35 | Does living at home in the suburbs kill my dating life?It will limit you a slight bit, but you'll still crush it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I am not desired sexually by womenSo stop acting creepy and being disgusting. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction?In some cases with immature women, they will assume you are ghosting, and forget about the date. In cases of more mature women, this will actually build more attraction on their side. You need to gauge her attraction level to you and her level of maturity, and then take it from there. If she seems pretty attracted already, then it might be ok to text a few times. If she seems on the fence, she may feel smothered by you texting her. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?Being funny is huge. Confidence and the ability to produce income are also big. Learning to cook is a big one. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:23 PM |
| 3 | just hardcore f'ed a perfect 20 out of 10 first time.Sounds awesome. If you’re cool about it and don’t confess your love to her, she’ll likely let you do it again . Just go on with your relationship and don’t bring it up to her. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:38 PM |
| -1 | I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pubAsk her questions, show that you're interested in her and that you think she's special and remarkable. A good ice breaker question I like to ask is, "What kind of stuffed animal do you sleep with?" It's an intriguing question and can lead to more conversation. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkSo you want the nudes, but only on your terms? Why would you judge a female for showing interest in you, and being vulnerable with you? I don't understand. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women love thugs so much?It's the same reason you want to be friends with a thug over a nice guy: they're more fun, funnier, dangerous, and you feel cool around them. Ultimately, they will choose the nicer guys when they get older and want to settle down, but they will never forget how much fun they had with the bad boys. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Why can’t I even look women in the eyes?It's because you think they are better than you. Deep down, you need to work on your confidence and know that you deserve a good looking women, and they are at your same level. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?Tell her you would like to continue dating her, but you also want to date other people. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl plays hard to get?If she's making it difficult, then she's probably not very interested or barely interested. Don't ask her things like, "are you still down?" It makes her think you're thirsty and desperate, you should just know if she's down. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How to know if a guy truly likes you?I typically put women in the "no-go" box (5% of women) , the hook up box (85% of women), or the wifey box (10% of women). | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | If a woman says shes engaged, do you give her your number anyway or you just leave it be?If she wants to bang someone, she's going to do it. Whether it's you, or some other lucky schlub. Give her the number if she asks for it, it's not your problem. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | What does not giving a fuck/not giving a shit mean exactly?To me, it means that you are unaffected by criticism. Women are turned off by sensitive men, who seek approval. When women see that you do not require anyone's approval, they respect that. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick?She's going to be more turned off if you don't send one. She's put herself out there, now you have to show her those 5.5 inches. Just make it look nice for the camera, no one can really tell the accurate size from a cell phone picture . | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | can you call girls that aren't your girlfriend dear or babe?Hell yea you can, but only if they’re giving you the vibe. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 11:31 PM |
| 15 | Do people go to bars alone? Male or femaleI've done this many times and have met several women this way. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Are Modern Women's dating standards too high? Why or why not?The standards have gone up since dating app's came out. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Female friend sent me [M 22] a nude out of the blueShe's trying to make it clear that fucking is happening next week. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Do women who aren’t interested in you romantically actually want to be friends? Or are they just being kind and letting you down easy?It can't hurt to go out with her. She could be interested, and if she's not, she will tell her girl friends what a good guy you are. I've gotten referrals from women like that. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidI played drums in a bad for about 5 years and I have only gotten laid maybe twice from women at the shows. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach northern womenI'm from NJ and the women aren't as friendly and approachable. It's taken me a while to figure out the approach. Basically, you have to approach without them knowing you're approaching. If they smell thirstiness on you, you're done. You have to seem INTERESTING, not INTERESTED. There's no straight-forward answer I can give you. All I can say is, you have the first twenty seconds speaking to them to intrigue them. Whatever you say better be funny/interesting/intriguing and have them feeling the n… | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 07:50 PM |
| 9 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?Women find you sexy if OTHER women find you sexy. I feel like it comes from insecurity, like women will be embarrassed if other women think her man is gross. They can't bear the shame of being with a nonsexy person. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do female friends get jealous when their male friends flirt with and talk with other women?Women find you sexy if OTHER women find you sexy. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Why all the games and shit tests? (M17)Girls don't want to be chased. If you seem to eager, they get turned off. Your job is to be interesting and let them chase you. Something that you are saying to them must be wrong, I just wouldn't know what it is. Girls test because they have to make sure you are man enough for them. It's easy for guys to test girls, we just have to look at them. Women HAVE TO test us, otherwise they won't know if they are into us. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it absolutely necessary to be above average inorder to have a decent dating life?It's much more important for you to be interesting than be above average looking. Focus on that. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?You don't have to worry about your looks, as a guy. It's a factor, but it's not the main point of attraction. Luckily for us, women are attracted to men for DIFFERENT reasons than looks. You can't talk to women and force them to be interested in you. They may sense that you're trying too hard. When they get the sense that you're thirsty, they try to flee. You have to seem INTERESTING, not INTERESTED. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Obviously I found it easier and easier as I got older, but by the time I was about 33 I felt like a seasoned pro. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 03:07 PM |
| 3 | What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dormJust hang out, have fun, make her laugh. Remember this though: DO NOT FREEZE UP when the moment is right. She obviously wants to hook up, so don't be nervous. I've done this with girls, and totally blew it. Cozy up to her, sitting close enough that your legs are touching. After a while, if the vibe is right, you can do the "kiss test" to see if she is ready to kiss you. How to do this: While you're talking to her close, glance down at her lips a few times, then look back into her eyes. If she al… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]2-4 months, from my experience. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being so seriousYou don't need to actually have a sister. I don't have one. I'm just saying, act in that regard. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough?If you seem like you are desperate for attention, I agree, you seem needy. You just have to be able to read the room, and know when you're being too extra. Make sure you're not talking over people or taking too much of the limelight. I don't mind being an entertainment monkey, as long as that's not my only job. It's a great thing if a woman sees you, and think's *laughter* *fun* *Jokes*, you want people to associate you with these things so you are easy and fun to be around. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 09:32 PM |
| 69 | Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough?From my perspective, chasing is bad. The ideal way is to make women interested in you, and let them come to you. If you chase, they will smell desperation and run away. All you should be doing is making them laugh, peeking their interest, and showing them that you can be trusted. When you can see that they're being drawn to you, you ask them to join you on a date. That proposal of the date should be the only "chasing" you do. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being so seriousWhen you're with a woman, just treat her like a bratty sister. Tease her a little bit, joke around, just have fun. Make her associate you with laughing and having fun. When I'm around any woman, I'm always cracking dad jokes and just trying to make them laugh. There's enough seriousness and anxiety in the world, so just show women that you can give them a break from all that. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 03:02 PM |
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