rwenceslau Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Would I be better with my old plates/ONS lifestyle?		rwenceslau	/r/askTRP	18/07/18 04:22 PM

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1	Red Flags 101: The Absent Father I can totally relate to this one. I got into a LTR with a girl with the same issue (even worse, her dad cheated her mother and left when she was 6). She used to tell me that her dad leaving the house was the first memory she remembers from early childhood. Most part of the relationship was wasted by constant arguments and her trying to control me. Fear of abandonment plus the fear of being cheated is a terrible combo. What I observed is that a lot of times she would want to become more submissiv…	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/18 07:17 PM
21	Ex saw me on Tinder, messaged me and brought back my oneitis What's wrong with you? Oneitis. You already know. Basically you did everything she expected you to. Got jealous. Delete her number and block her from all social media. Work on yourself. She's definitely not a high quality woman.	/r/askTRP	04/12/18 09:03 PM
3	How the fuck can I stop being so needy. Get busy. Take ownership of things. At your workplace (maybe that presentation that nobody wants to do). At the gym (spend like 10 minutes after the workout to help the noob that don't know how to deadlift). At school or college (there are tons of extracurricular activities that you can join). Help a friend that is going through a hard time. When you change from a spectator and start going to the spotlight of the groups around, you will have no time to fantasize about that pretty girl. You natur…	/r/askTRP	04/12/18 12:37 AM
2	How do I be more productive? Two things: First: Maybe you're not organizing your time properly. Create a schedule of things you must do in the night before or at the beginning of the day. A simple checklist on your phone/laptop will do. Just make sure you set small goals to cross out during the day (it's scientifically proved that crossing an item from a checklist triggers the sensation of fulfillment on your brain, motivating you to do the next thing on that list). Second: Maybe you are more productive at evening/night. Th…	/r/askTRP	04/12/18 12:25 AM
1	LTR or Solid Job Opportunity? Leaving to pursuit your opportunity worse case scenario: you hating the new city after a few months, leaving the town with slightly more money and experience. Get back home to work again, fresh new prospects (maybe your LTR still wanting you back). Staying for your LTR worst case scenario: marrying, your girl starting to resent you, baby, divorce-rape in a couple of years and the eternal regret of not pursuing your dream. This is a no-brainer. Men are made for taking risks. It's your time to…	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 12:16 AM
1	Any game devs/ computer science majors here? I've got both CS bachelor's and masters degree. Math and computational thinking will be heavy specially during the first couple of years. After that you get it and things will be slightly easier (but never comfortable). The whole course is very demanding and time consuming. Stay away from LTRs like it was the plague. Take your off time to develop your social skills. It will help you a lot with women and networking as well. Don't be the nerdy guy that sits in front of the computer the whole weeke…	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 03:15 AM
3	LTR angry I moved on... am I an asshole? Its over man. You even tried to confirm if you were really done. She made the call. Is up to you to decide how long should be your grieving time. Don't beat yourself up. You can do whatever you want. Enjoy.	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 02:41 AM