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| 1 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?ei*pi + 5 is what I say. If she doesn’t get the number correct then she’s not the one for me. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Should dates be preplanned?I plan out dates and often to places I’ve never been before. Usually the first part of the date is planned out and then I usually wing it from there; I’ll look up other places close by so I have an idea. Say we go to a nice restaurant and the conversation is flowing and we’re both having a wonderful time, if she mentioned earlier her favorite bar/arcade/park/ice-rink is nearby I’ll suggest we go there afterwards. Or I’ll suggest another place to go that I recall from earlier research. | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | How do y’all get such high body counts??At 21 I was still a virgin, at 31 I’ve been with 3 women. You’re doing better than you think if you’re honest about the number of women you’ve slept with. | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Depends on your definition of sexy🖍Either new redditor learning or long time redditor looking to prove a point on another thread ... either way 😉 | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Do most women have some sort of bravado when texting?Best of luck, my mom (USA) met an old friend from Sweden a few years ago and despite the distance they’re engaged now so it’s not impossible. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 13 | Do most women have some sort of bravado when texting?Personally I think long distance gets A little more leeway with the whole “text/call for logistics” as I mean who the hell wants to set up a date for a month out and never talk between then? Either way with a long distance relationship communication is Way more important as it’s mostly digital and you can’t see the micro-responses when you talk (such as eye rolling, smirks, winks etc). Ask your partner their preference and work out what works for both of you. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 12:38 AM |
| 23 | Do most women have some sort of bravado when texting?Long distance is a little different, but I’d say keep it to a minimum still. Save the important stuff for when you visit or during a Skype/FaceTime/zoom/whatever date | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 12:30 AM |
| 10 | If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested.Gotta disagree on that one, if someone gets flaky/shows they’re not interested it’s best to just cut sling-load ... err well cut ties with them and if they want to come back it’s on them to make the move. If they’re interested they’d make an effort no matter how busy, seriously I dated a nurse on the graveyard shift who somehow had a pretty active social life too, we still made time for each other even if it wasn’t the Best timing for her or I. Some people need to learn that actions have consequ… | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 06:42 PM |
| 10 | How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date?It’s ALL clear now, I should grab Her by the balls and then go for the kiss! | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 02:47 AM |
| 72 | How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date?God that explains So much now... | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Getting into dating (Help)Aside from “pick up” books/videos (don’t use those unless you just want to hookup and not date) here’s pretty much the tried and true recipe in no particular order: 1). Have hobbies you enjoy and are passionate about. Doesn’t matter if it’s coin collecting, scuba diving, spelunking, racing, BJJ, Krav Maga etc. 2). Have a healthy lifestyle, you don’t have to squat 500lbs to get a girl you just need to take care of yourself. You just need to exercise and eat right. Besides, the number on the bar i… | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | This might sound silly, but in this day and age as a 26 year old male, is it acceptable to approach women in public you find attractive during the day?Yes, just have a set date in mind: “Are you available for coffee Sunday, I’ll meet you at [insert coffee shop] at [insert specific time]?” Or other variations such as dinner, drinks, hike whatever. Worst case she murders you but then it’s no longer any of your concern | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 8 | She’s coming over but also “sorta has a boyfriend”Pump those brakes fast. Not just because she may have a boyfriend but consider this: If she’s willing to do it for you, she’s willing to do it to you. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?There’s a few new gals at my gym post COVID, I can see this working in my favor since the current hours aren’t when I normally go. If it goes south I just revert to my normal time when they expand their hours, if it works out then work can wait. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 8 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?I wouldn’t say I have a “go to” first date idea as that just seems impersonal and not thought out. If it’s a cold approach, sure that’s one thing but if you know them a little better it’s not going to matter where you go as long as it’s planned and thought out. I’ll do dinner at a good restaurant that is known for something she likes - if I know ahead of time if I don’t then we’ll I’ll ask or I’ll find another idea. I had one date that loved wine, so I went to one that had a great wine selection… | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached and asked a girl out on coffee and got rejected.You: “Would you like to get some coffee sometime?” Her: “No [I don’t want to get some coffee sometime]” Next time try, “Are you available for coffee/drinks/dinner Friday, I’ll meet you at 8pm?” But hey, nice try and like many said she hesitated so it’s not exactly a flat out no. Just be more direct next time, set a definite plan with a set date and time - my go to is usually Friday unless I have plans. If she’s not available for the day/time you ask but offers up another day/time then it’s a yes… | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 11:03 PM |
| 4 | This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever needThe guy never told me, so I spent 6 months hardcore researching Rule 2 and I have a few candidates: 1) Don’t be a cunt 2) Never trust a Taco Bell fart on a first date There was a third one, Never propose on a first date, but that one failed two weeks ago. At least she let me register at Bass Pro. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 13 | This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever needShit happens, just get really fucking rich, hire him as your personal ball washer, pay him $250k a year and marry a playboy playmate. That’s an Alpha move right there, he cleans your balls for you so you can go balls deep on your wife. Or, you know, find someone who values you for you. Personally I like Option A but Option B may be more realistic for most. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:01 PM |
| 29 | This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever needThere’s really only two rules for attracting women that work: Rule 1) Never reveal everything you know. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Examples of implementing light hearted humour/teasing?I have a deep-ish voice, a lot of people complain they can’t hear me very well but if I talk loud enough it feels like I’m yelling. At times that can work in my favor when I talk at my normal level, it forces her to get just a little closer or I have to lean in some. Personally, I think work on how you use your eyes and smile. When I’m bantering I’ll give more of a half smirk/half smile. I’ve had a lot of people tell me they can’t tell when I’m serious or not as my sarcasm can know no bounds, so… | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | how bad are guys typically at not being themselves and trying to show the girl a fake life they don't really live?“Your honor, they were a rapist so i only ... ooooh” | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 05:13 PM |
| 11 | Examples of implementing light hearted humour/teasing?Takes practice man but every woman and every situation is different. I once made a dark joke about getting nailed to the couch versus on the couch, luckily she had a dark sense of humour too. Other gals, that wouldn’t fly. I once made a comment in front of two gals of “Why else would I be here?” when one asked if I was working today. One laughed, the other was appalled. You can blow things out of proportion, say she spills water on your couch you can say “When are you buying me a new couch?” Tot… | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 09:02 PM |
| 11 | What if a girl reachs out but then doesn't actively partecipate to the convo?I’d be insulted if you didn’t | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 05:26 PM |
| 47 | What if a girl reachs out but then doesn't actively partecipate to the convo?Either she sucks at texting (some people are just horrible with texting and better at communicating in person) or she’s kicking your tires. Typically when a woman reaches out it’s a good thing and shows she’s interested but if the conversation keeps dying then why bother? If she’s more communicative face to face then up to you if you can handle it. Next time set a Skype/FaceTime date if you can’t meet up in person for an actual date. | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 12:02 PM |
| 14 | The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.Yes and no, at times you have to approach a woman anyway and not all will approach you - some will but that’s not the norm. The point is to not make women your number one priority, if they are then you run the risk of being needy/clingy because you’re not treating them like a person and instead come off as putting them on a pedestal. Having hobbies gives you more exposure and likely ups your social circle to meet more women. Plus with those hobbies, depending on what you do, you’re more likely t… | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 05:36 PM |
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