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Yeah it seems pretty wild if you’re only used boyfriend style game. It can be very surprising what actually works on women though.
/r/seduction03/02/26 07:48 AM
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I was interested in a woman who told me she was demisexual. Then she got with a guy who turned out to be abusive and after she left him she complained to me about her various health and financial problems. It was then I learned that I was demicompassionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:05 AM
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They got hurt by chads and now they’re directing their anger at men who did nothing to hurt them. It’s total bullshit
/r/EverydayMisandry28/11/25 12:08 AM
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Which calculations do you do when looking at someone to determine if they are attractive? If the answer is "None", then the physics capabilities of the brain are probably not involved in that determination.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:43 PM
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It means you get to pay the highest price. Often because you have the most ability to pay, not because she desires you most
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:12 PM
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The suffragettes would be so proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:51 AM
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For many of us men, that's the first thing we tried, because it seems rather obvious. And then nearly all of us learn that the advice is terrible.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/25 07:59 AM
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Probably because ancient women who were attracted to high status men were more likely to produce lots of surviving descendants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:02 PM
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The college metaphor is great. I think that a lot of the “red pill rage” that some men experience is from the frustration of being constantly lied to about basic facts about women, especially from the women in their lives that they trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:32 AM
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I just don’t think they deceive men in pursuit of casual sex. Yeah the more common female lie is, "of course you're the father!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:30 AM
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romance: something I'm not interested in if sex is off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:36 PM
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Sounds like my mother. I recommend reading "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents", I think you'll find it very enlightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:57 AM
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I could see this incentivizing women to get married instead of casual sex Another very important point is that this will disincentivize women from attempting to "trap" a man with a baby. The current situation where a woman can trick a man into causing a pregnancy, and then extract resources from him for 2 decades without any penalties, is incredibly unjust. When I was in my 20s, I was dating a woman who told me that she was on implantable birth control and therefore we should have unprotected se…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:06 AM
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If you don't care about me having no reproductive rights, don't expect me to care about you losing yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:31 PM
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Not necessarily. Women lie about being on birth control in order to trick a man into getting them pregnant. I know this because it happened to me. In that case, the person who lied should bear the consequences, not the person who was lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:23 PM
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Otherwise he can be kept in the dark until it's too late and is financially responsible. Incentivize the mother to notify the father. The mother needs to notify any potential fathers (with a process server for example, like in a lawsuit), and as soon as he receives notice, he has X days to make his choice regardless of remaining time to have an abortion. If she notifies ASAP, then he needs to make his decision with enough time for her to decide to abort or not. If she tries to keep him in the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:20 PM
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I think the key insight into women here is that men use language to describe reality, but women often use language to try and shape reality.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 09:43 PM
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He was clearly overestimating your ability to understand an analogy. He's making a point on behalf of neurodivergent people and as one of those people, I see nothing wrong with that. Using us to shame him because you're unable to respond to the argument however, is not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:35 AM
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As a woman, when that story came out about Aziz Ansari came out, my bullshit detector just about exploded. I mean come on. Just because she was uncomfortable, doesn’t mean he could read her mind. She willingly got naked, oral both ways and he was supposed to read non consent? Equating a violent crime with a guy not reading silent cues, is insane. I agree 100%. I had people unfriend me for daring to express this view. Women need to take responsibility for communicating in these situations because…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:26 AM
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Yes, especially when the penalties for non-consensual tea serving are severe. If a man is going to be punished (legally or otherwise) for not having a woman's consent, then we need a definition of consent that is unambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:19 AM
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> humans are not bound by evolution. We are absolutely products of our evolutionary history, and our preferences in mating and dating reflect this in profound ways. Since men are rewarded with greater sexual access for achieving power, success, and status, they seek those things with greater motivation than women will and this results in more men having power in society. If women really wanted to "smash the patriarchy" they could simply refuse to reproduce with high-status, aggressive, competiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:14 AM
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> The patriarchy is the devil of the feminist religion, and he’s whatever is the most convenient. So true. They need a devil / patriarchy to blame everything on. > Feminism is rebellion against nature itself Including female nature. For eons, women have been sexually selecting men who are strong, capable and dominant. Those men built a civilization which is more comfortable for women than any time in history. Then feminism comes along and says that men are problematic and need to change. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:59 AM
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So, "unconditional love" means love without any conditions, except for some specific conditions which you are choosing. This is just silly. Let's just use the commonly understood meanings for words like "unconditional", instead of redefining them arbitrarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:07 PM
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It's so annoying when we want to complain to women and they give us solutions, as if we can't think of them ourselves. Sometimes we just want to vent and get empathy, ladies. Is that such a foreign concept to your minds?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/24 08:09 PM
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> I don’t think men choosing not to do something that is an open option for them can be pointed to as a sign of misfortune or discrimination that justifies festering anger and hatred. Now if only women could apply this logic to the choices women make which have contributed to the wage gap over the past few decades...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:32 PM
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I've broken up with women who didn't like giving head. Not wanting to do it at all would be a deal breaker for me in terms of being monogamous. Find another woman who will do the things you like.
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:06 AM
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If you don't want to, then don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 PM
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I'll believe that women prefer beta traits when there's a popular category of romance novels where the male character is a beta male, instead of a billionaire vampire / werewolf / pirate alpha male. If women "prefer" beta males for relationships but overwhelmingly have sexual fantasies about alpha male types, then this definition of "prefer" is not really going to convince men that being a beta male is in any way preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:47 PM
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that's right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:25 AM
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Right, it definitely can't be because it's easier to stop one egg from being released as opposed to billions of sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:18 PM
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Women typically don't understand that men's standards for commitment are higher than their standards for casual sex. This video explains it very accurately
/r/seduction06/11/24 09:58 PM
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She doesn't want to ruin this great deal she has where she gets everything she wants (free babysitting and emotional labor) and you get nothing you want. https://theonion.com/but-if-we-started-dating-it-would-ruin-our-friendship-w-1819584582/
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:02 PM
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When a woman does say she wants a man who is 6,5 trustfund blue eyes, men get angry because many realize they won’t realistically be able to achieve it. I would much prefer that women are honest about these preferences. So that everyone can tell them how incredibly few men meet these standards, and that her expectation to secure a monogamous commitment from such a man is very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:45 PM
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This is the kind of answer you give when you want to tell a person what they want to hear, rather than what they need to hear. "You must have been too perfect for him and he was just insecure!" This nonsense may make people feel good but it doesn't help them identify problems that they need to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:02 PM
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Yeah, maybe I just don't understand it. Or maybe... this is a nearly universal experience for men, to pursue friendship with a woman he's attracted to rather than making his romantic interest known up front, only to later find out that she has no interest in anything other than friendship. So universal, in fact, that it's often depicted in entertainment as an example of something that rarely if ever leads to a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:10 PM
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Maybe try to become friends with the opposite sex before the intention of trying to get in their panties happens? So you're advising men to put themselves in the friend zone. Then, when they finally make a move, women criticize them by saying they were being deceptive by "pretending to be a friend" rather than make their romantic intentions clear up front. This is terrible advice, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:39 PM
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situationship = the fuck zone, the female version of being in the friend zone. Staying in either zone for a period of time does not entitle you to more from the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:44 PM
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It's called "social media" now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:36 PM
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That's what I say to women I'm dating when I tell them to pay for dinner and that we're going to an orgy on the first date. She can't point to an internationally-recognized rulebook, so therefore it's a traditional date. Works every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:39 AM
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Yeah, according to women the main thing that matters to them is personality so l spent all my savings on personality pills and i always support their decision to pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:17 PM
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I used to be that way, but I listened to women expressing their preferences online so I got a height and dick reduction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:45 PM
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in romance books, men are frequently described as being strong beyond the strongest of men, super tall, big dicked, alpha males, even though women claim they arent attracted to those traits and thats just men being wrong I often bring up this point when women deny being attracted to these things. If women are attracted to a different kind of man, then where are the bestselling romance novels portraying that alternative type of man? Women often complain that men don't trust or believe what they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:24 PM
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I have been, which is why I've been working tirelessly to become a billionaire vampire pirate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:19 PM
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Yeah I used to be very pro-choice, but after many discussions with women about paternity fraud I realized that they have nearly 0 empathy for men in that situation, and insist that men should continue to have 0 rights when it comes to their own choice to be a father. So when they complain about their abortion rights being rolled back, I now find it hard to give a shit, really. If they don't care about men's struggles, don't expect me to care about theirs.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 06:41 AM
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And musical skill is an honest signal, like the peacock tail... it signifies genetic health because it requires lots of genes to be functioning well in order to result in musical talent. So the women attracted to musicians were more likely to have healthy babies than the ones who weren't. It's quite likely that this led to runaway sexual selection, which resulted in the brain and skull getting larger so fast that it caused problems during childbirth. And then as a side effect, we became intellig…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:17 PM
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It kind of seems like those guys view agreeableness as "lets me call the shots" and "doesn't ask me to do things" I think that the ideal is that he gets the final decision making authority, and with that authority comes the responsibility for dealing with the consequences of that decision. What we dislike is being held responsible for decisions we didn't make. Or if she makes a decision, and then doesn't take responsibility for it afterwards. This would be broken leadership. And it's not "doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:27 AM
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Ironically, it's the men who are overly agreeable who have terrible dating outcomes with women, and typically find their way to the red pill looking for ways to have better outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:08 AM
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When a woman has dating preferences, it's "having standards" When a man has dating preferences, it's misogyny, discrimination, body shaming, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:00 AM
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That would make western women feel bad, and therefore must be attacked as being evil misogyny because there is no other explanation which feels ok to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:12 PM
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What dating problems do they complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:06 PM
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It was to say, "Hey, shit is bad out here, fix your shit men!" I've literally warned women to stay away from a specific man who has gone to jail for violence against women, then watched them pursue that man, and later complain about badly he treated them and other women. But when I dare to say that women need to be personally responsible for their own safety rather than expecting men to make the world 100% safe, they respond that I must be one of the problematic men that is inspiring them to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:13 PM
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Taking the stats a woman is harmed based on encounters, a bear is more dangerous. More people die from taking selfies than from shark attacks. But for some reason, when I see a woman taking a selfie, I'M the bad guy for swatting the phone out of her hand and telling her to swim with sharks instead. They don't seem to appreciate my attempt to keep them safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:04 PM
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of course nobody is going to be onboard with your cause if you outwardly lie to them, gaslight them for calling out your insincerity and then later tacitly admit that you were just making everything up the whole time. This is an insane way to have a discussion. I'd be willing to bet this viral bear meme created A LOT of new anti-feminist men who were previously neutral on the topic. And it influenced precisely 0 predatory men into not being predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:37 AM
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You’re essentially making an argument where you’re calling out the optics of the discourse, but not the morality itself. I asked some of them if the choice was between bear and "black man" or "muslim man" would they expect people in those groups to complain, and go figure... suddenly they understood how offensive the question would be in those contexts. But somehow if you remove the adjective, the question is supposed to be received well and any objection is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:33 AM
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I have yet to see a single woman chose bear who wasn't immediately called a "pick me" by another woman. So it's obvious that many women are picking bear to fit in with the group. Which makes the whole thing even more stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:27 AM
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There were so many women whose smug condescension was just overwhelming. And lots of women who would say "They just don't get it!" Which allows them to portray men as dumb for objecting to the situation, in order to feel a sense of superiority, while doing zilch to actually fix the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:21 AM
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Apparently many do. If you tell them that women, like all adults, have a responsibility to protect themselves, many will say, "Stop telling women to protect themselves! Tell men not to assault women!" That's just so incredibly naive and idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:17 AM
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99.9% of the women who smugly answer “Bear” to that particular question would shit themselves and beg every known deity to send a man to save them were they actually alone in the wild with a bear I know women who would react this way to a spider. So yeah, it's pretty hard to take the "bear" choice as anything but lying due to peer pressure / attention seeking / emotional manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:05 AM
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The more I realize how little women care about these issues, and how they are able to victimize men without consequences, the less I feel motivated to give a shit about their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:14 PM
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And how do women police other women who commit paternity fraud or emotionally abuse their spouses? I’ve never seen it done. I've had an argument on here recently with a woman who couldn't even comprehend what paternity fraud was until I explained it 3 different ways, and then when she finally comprehended, she claimed it was something I was "making up" because I must be misogynistic. In other discussions about when a man discovers that he's been raising another man's kids for years, I always see…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:34 AM
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And to do what? Like seriously, are we supposed to become vigilantes? Yes, I've decided to become part of the solution. By hiding in the woods, looking for men who are alone and potentially violent, and then using violence on them before they can be violent to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:13 AM
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"Each year worldwide there are ~ 10 deaths attributable to shark attacks compared with ~ 150 deaths worldwide caused by falling coconuts." link So if you see a child on a beach walking under coconut trees, and there's a shark in the water, you should tell the child to go in the water where it's less dangerous, right? Because your understanding of statistics and probability is definitely not in Dunning-Kruger territory, and the stats are clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:11 PM
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Classic sign of bullshit. Makes dubious claim, gets challenged, responds with "prove me wrong!" You made the claim, the burden of proof is on you to provide evidence for your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:45 PM
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1/3 of men would commit rape if there were no consequences. Where'd you get that stat, from the Institute of Misandrist Bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:35 PM
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I've been having a discussion on a debate sub with a woman who first did not understand what paternity fraud even was, and then claimed that it was "uncommon" and I was "making it up" because I was misogynist. Even when they do understand the concept, the empathy they have for cuckolded men is nearly nonexistent. Yet they expect and even demand men to empathize with and help women with issues that affect them. Observing this extreme one-sidedness has made extremely unmotivated to advocate for wo…
/r/MensRights04/05/24 02:02 PM
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He consented when HE HAD SEX Wow. You are really bad at reading comprehension. We're talking about paternity fraud. A man having sex with a woman has nothing to do with consenting to raising another man's kid. If he’s having sex with the mother, it’s going to be his child. It seems like you're the one confused about how babies are made. Multiple men having sex with a woman are not all going to be the father. You're either trolling or too dumb to understand this topic. Either way, I'm out. Go bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:45 PM
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He consented when he had unprotected sex He consented to raise another man's child when he had unprotected sex? That's the most asinine argument I've ever heard. Stop blaming woman for mens bad bru or lack of personal responsibility Bad bru? Huh? What does paternity fraud have to do with a man's lack of personal responsibility? He should never be held responsible for another man's offspring without his informed prior consent. This is absolutely a situation where the woman should be blamed. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:05 PM
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If a person lies for their own financial benefit, it's fraud. And it's especially insidious when that lie results in manipulating another person's time, energy, and finances for years without their informed consent. You consider consent to be an important concept, right? If a woman's consent is important when a man wants to use her for reproductive purposes, then you should understand why a man's consent is important when a woman wants to use him for reproductive purposes. And I would argue that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:34 PM
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The men who decide to walk away are not the ones that they fear. And the men that they fear are not the ones who will decide to walk away. They want the violent, abusive men to leave them alone, but posting memes trashing men in general does next to nothing to deter the men who are actual threats. You're not going to shame a psychopath into having empathy for you. It's similar to how women will put lots of negative things on their dating profiles like, "Not looking for hookups or fuckboys, don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:06 PM
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It's not just about rights which have been "taken away" but also rights which men have never had. Men do not have the same parental rights as women. If a woman becomes pregnant in the US, the woman can unilaterally decide to get an abortion (in places where it is legal) against the father's will, or decide not to have an abortion, against the father's wishes. If she keeps the child, he is on the hook for child support and has no right to opt out of this situation. This situation could be made mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:34 PM
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People need to understand men who do that stuff are genuinely fucked up. It’s not like it’s a line of reasoning they happened upon and thought compelling. They are totally aware society in the wider sense says “that’s fucked up” and they do it anyway. What on earth makes one think a person like that is ripe for having their mind changed when the threat of jail seems to do little to dissuade them? This is basically what I say when someone uses the ridiculous argument of "Don't tell women to prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:50 PM
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A lot of women in modern society are misandrists and while lacking physical strength to harm, they have terrific social power to harm men. And if they have a moral preset of misandry (men are worse than bears) they have no moral limitations against using all their social power to harm men. Thus - these women are dangerous. Dont argue with them. Identify them and separate from them. Well said. There's no point in arguing with these women; they will not be persuaded and will resort to shaming and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:46 PM
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Yes. I enjoy formal sex and if I put on a tuxedo to boink, she'd better be dressed up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:00 AM
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My mother would try to control me through guilt, shame and yelling. Mine too. And she doesn't understand why I barely talk to her anymore. BTW I recommend the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents." If your mom is like mine, you'll read it and think, "Holy shit, was this written about my mom, specifically?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:51 AM
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RP rhetoric has result in massacres seriously look it up Laziest argument ever. Bad experiences with relationships are what leads many men to the red pill. They also lead some men to stew in anger due to disillusionment and in a few rare cases, that has led to violence. Red Pill is not the root cause of the violence. It simply tries to give men an accurate map of reality, in contrast to the fairytale blue pill nonsense they've been fed, which they've learned from experience is BS. Many of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:02 PM
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Wow, there are so many commenters in this thread who didn't get that you were asking about men putting women in the friend zone. When you're swapping men and women, the same concept typically needs to be translated to match the other's experience. The best translation for the "friend zone" is the "fuck zone", which is when a woman is having sex with a guy and he has zero intention of committing to her or being monogamous. And I'm pretty sure women understand that frustration, despite having litt…
/r/seduction11/04/24 09:31 PM
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"Hey I think you're cute. Let's get a drink." It's as easy as that. If he declines, it was not meant to be. But being rejected is better than the regret of never trying.
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:33 AM
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Well, I'm not going to ignore my instincts and pursue promiscuous women for commitment just because women think it's wrong not to do so. And if a woman has a problem with that, she can go kick rocks. Especially after realizing how women have surprisingly little empathy for men who have been fooled into raising another man's children. So if you want to complain about double standards on this, I will show you my field of fucks to give, which is barren and empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:47 PM
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Why would men want to control women's sexuality? To prevent men being cuckolded. The same problem that males of nearly every sexual reproducing species have evolved defenses against. In the case of humans, that defense includes strong sexual jealousy and an instinctual aversion to investing in promiscuous women and their offspring. Complaining about how this is unfair is like a short, fat, unemployed guy complaining about how unfair it is that women aren't flocking to him. You're not going to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:33 AM
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The standards are a result of evolution. There may have been men in the past who preferred to commit to promiscuous women, but for some reason they didn't pass their genes on very effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:41 PM
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And then when those redditors complain about their dating situation, they get: "have you tried not being a misogynist?" As if their dating struggles imply they must be a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:27 AM
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a point that isn’t really there like with alphas and hypergamy. The times I've attracted women most easily were a direct result of situations where I was the "situational alpha", such as being on stage presenting to a crowd, being the leader of a group, or winning a competition. Way more easily than times when I attempted to attract a woman by being nice, funny, charming, complimentary, romantic, giving gifts, "being myself," and all that other blue pill nonsense. When I try the things the red p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:26 PM
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Red pill is a praxeology. It describes how women actually behave and what they respond to, rather than listening to what they say about their preferences and desires. Instead of telling men how they should behave according to some ideals, it describes what actually works to achieve the goals that men want to achieve. Men typically encounter it after years of following the politically correct blue pill view of women and experiencing miserable results. Sometimes right after a breakup, which is why…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:42 PM
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I envy you a bit. I've had lots of female friends who were fun to be around, but never any who gave great advice or were good wing-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:35 PM
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They're often "fair weather" friends. They are there for you if there's fun to be had or they need something, but if you're having rough times and need help, my guy friends are way more reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:13 PM
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Sometimes yes. However in my experience, sometimes a female friend will try to sabotage other women's romantic interest in me, even if she has already expressed a lack of romantic interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:08 PM
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That jerk took all the funding away from my university's octogon wheel research group!
/r/MensRights21/02/24 02:00 AM
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Also most stable women generally don't want to be with dudes they know are woman beaters Stable women? Maybe not. But surely you've seen or heard of incidents where a woman is being beaten on by her boyfriend, and then another man steps in to stop the boyfriend and gets attacked by the woman? It's an unfortunate reality that women can be seen exhibiting more loyalty to men who abuse them than to men who try to save them from abuse. And that alone speaks to their attraction to violent men, even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 PM
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That would be true if women were not attracted to violent men, and that is observably not the case. Related: https://www.mattridley.co.uk/blog/polygamy-fuels-violence/ https://news.ubc.ca/2012/01/23/monogamy-reduces-major-social-problems-of-polygamist-cultures/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgWvh-AQTEY
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:01 PM
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Of course. Then you're in the Prince Charming category. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL13EeEhgag
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:19 PM
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they really do preach how women aren’t adults and how they don’t deserve the freedom to choose to live on their own without men and society punishing them for it and pressuring them to submit. The whole women shouldn’t be allowed to vote, have a good career or a bank account is really off putting. Then add how women shouldn’t have access to abortion, no fault divorce, child support or even child custody and that a husband can’t rape his wife because she is his property. It seems that red pill me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:59 PM
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Agreed. We can observe that societies with a high degree of polygamy result in violence and crime by men who are excluded from mating opportunities, and women's collective behavior is moving us in the direction of increased polygamy. Adults should be able to discuss this trend and it's possible worrying consequences without being censored. If it hurts someone's feelings to think about the possible negative consequences of their views, then they probably shouldn't be in a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:46 PM
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YouTube comment section is toxic everywhere. Red Pill men in general don't hate women. But it's important to remember than when men first encounter the Red Pill they are typically in an "anger phase." This is often because they have recently had a very bad experience with a woman which they are grieving. Then they encounter the praxeology of the red pill, which causes them to realize that their beliefs about women, dating, and relationships don't match with reality. This often results in a man f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:38 PM
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Cat on the keyboard?
/r/MensRights30/01/24 06:43 PM
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emotional tampon I had a woman try to do this to me last week. I had only interacted with her for like 2 weeks at some social gatherings and was about to ask her on a real date. Then late one night, she comes over needing to talk about some terrible situation. Soon I found out that the "situation" was just a minorly disappointing date she went on that evening. She told me about this and cried about how much she wanted a serious boyfriend. While talking about how much she liked this other guy, sh…
/r/MensRights29/01/24 04:06 PM
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There'd be no need for them if women at large (not the ones on this particular forum) were not pathological about downplaying the imposrtance of looks. And the importance of her perceiving the man as better, stronger, competent, capable of leading, etc. And the explanation of Alpha Fux and Beta Bux is saving countless men from falling prey to women who want to turn them into walking ATMs in loveless marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:57 PM
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it's hard to understand how someone could genuinely think this. Not really, this is a clear case of bias. They say things she doesn't agree with, therefore she is inclined to side with people who are attacking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:04 AM
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Wow, that's extremely generous of them to provide free publicity to the whatever podcast like that. That will be great for driving their viewership.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:17 AM
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Yes, some hetero men prefer butts but that is very different than "not liking" breasts.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:39 PM
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You can be hetero and not like breasts. I suppose this is possible but I imagine it is extremely rare.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:25 PM
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She was clearly using "tea" as a double entendre. In reference to "spilling the tea" which means sharing juicy gossip. "Oh you're her DIRECT manager... I wasn't expecting that much tea"
/r/MensRights13/01/24 02:38 PM
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Sounds great, let's see them fill all of the difficult jobs including the military. They keep saying they can do anything a man can, so let's see it.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/24 02:05 AM
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Then make it a transparent condition of marriage, instead of excusing a woman stealing from her husband
/r/MensRights11/01/24 01:03 AM
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"Communism is a perfect utopia! So every time it hasn't worked out, it's not Real Communism (tm)! Give us another chance, it'll be great next time, we promise!" Hell no. That foolishness has resulted in far too much suffering.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 11:07 AM
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I was shooting heroin and reading “The Fountainhead” in the front seat of my privately owned police cruiser when a call came in. I put a quarter in the radio to activate it. It was the chief. “Bad news, detective. We got a situation.” “What? Is the mayor trying to ban trans fats again?” “Worse. Somebody just stole four hundred and forty-seven million dollars’ worth of bitcoins.” The heroin needle practically fell out of my arm. “What kind of monster would do something like that? Bitcoins are the…
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:30 PM
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Cuckolding (a key part of the dual mating strategy) is observed in nearly all sexually reproducing animals and males have evolved a diverse number of strategies to counteract it. It would be odd if human sexuality was somehow missing this dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:27 AM
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Of course it’s debated. The need for women to conceal their sexual strategy from men is so great, they evolved to be the only primate with hidden estrus. And since this is largely driven by unconscious urges, they are barely even aware of this instinct themselves. As a side note, try asking women about their thoughts on men who find out years later that they’ve been unknowingly raising another man’s kids and see how likely they are to say that he should just “man up” and stay for the children. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:01 AM
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the man follows suite as his exposure to her being pregnant lowers his hormones I think what makes more sense is that this fits into women's dual mating strategy. When she's ovulating, she seeks out the man with the best genes for her baby (Alpha Fucks). When she's not, she seeks out a man who is better at provisioning (Beta Bucks). This is related to studies which shows that married women who are having affairs will seek out the affair partner on days when they are ovulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:49 PM
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You're proposing a pill to treat the pain that many men experience with dating, so I'm proposing a pill to treat the pain that many women experience with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:24 AM
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Cool, let's create a pill for women which takes away their desire for emotional connection and commitment, that will get rid of the pain of getting pumped and dumped by fuckbois. I look forward to seeing the ads for both pills!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:57 PM
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Hyperbabery
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:08 PM
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Not necessarily. Because attraction is not a choice; it operates underneath the level of conscious thought. When a woman sees a man who is getting attention from other women, she's not consciously thinking "he's popular with the ladies, therefore he must have desirable genes. I should have his baby." It just causes her to feel an instinctual emotion of sexual attraction (along with various other things she observes about him, like his height, strength, masculinity, etc). Now, she might be at a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:29 PM
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The post title says that women judge a man based on how popular he is with other women. This affects his sexual attractiveness more than his desirability as a long-term partner. Women don't "always prefer fuckboys," they have different priorities based on their stage of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:36 PM
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That’s like giving financial advice like this: “Just don’t be poor bro, be rich”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:52 PM
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Yes, especially when they age or have children. This is the dual mating strategy: Alpha Fux when they’re young and hot, Beta Bux when they are older and need resources and security
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:50 PM
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Not consciously. But the way a man acts when he has no options (neediness, urgency, too much attention, etc) tends to make a woman feel less attracted than the way a man acts when he does have other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:33 PM
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Because him having options affects his attitude and behavior towards her in various ways. If he's giving her tons of attention and displays a fear of losing her, then it's less likely that he's distracted by other women. A lot of dating advice for men is based around avoiding the behaviors of the man who has no women, and emulating the behaviors of the man who has several women, because this has shown to be effective in maintaining female attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:31 PM
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According the Grand Unified hoe_math model, Dating other women subtracts from your "good guy" score but not your "bad boy" score Explained Here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:06 PM
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That's the obvious first thing that many men think of: ask a woman how to get a woman. If this was a reliable strategy, we wouldn't see threads like this so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:42 AM
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I don't think it's a matter of women knowing the right advice, and choosing not to give it. I used to think it was, and I resented the women in my life (including my mother) for giving me such ineffective advice on how to date women. After all, I thought it was obvious that they would be the best ones to give advice. But I came to realize that the problem is that I needed to learn to be more masculine and attractive, and most women are simply incapable of teaching a man how to do this. Their att…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:39 AM
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Here's an important anti-scam feature missing from dating apps: - After exchanging contact info, you can "unmatch" from the person, but that person still has the ability to report your profile if you attempt to scam them on WhatsApp or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:48 PM
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She's a grifter who obviously stole all her talking points from other successful creators like Kevin Samuels, Rollo, and Fresh n Fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:21 AM
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Misogynist don't get laid because they are misogynists. They are misogynists because they get laid, they get to see through the smoke and mirrors and get to experience the dirt of women. Exactly. When I was a young feminist who put women on a pedastal, I was also an incel. As I improved my life and got more experience with women, I experienced their true nature and can no longer view them with the idealism which I had before.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 10:02 PM
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Women dont want to enter into your gross deal of give me your 20s and I will give commitment even though I will find you inferior and unattractive compared to your 20yr old self. Or you could wait until after your 30s to find a man, whom you will find inferior and unattractive compared to the men you could attract in your 20s. Then you can join the chorus of women complaining about men and asking "Where have all the good men gone?" Men evolved a strong preference to commit to women in their 20s …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:56 PM
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r/FreeDiningStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:11 AM
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So rape by women is not only possible, it's incentivized.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/23 02:41 PM
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Not the worst subreddit. Have you been to female dating strategy or Diabla?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/23 07:23 PM
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and more specifically, a derogatory term for any man who says something which implies that woman are less than perfect in online debate.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 07:53 AM
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Logic is an oppressive tool of the patriarchy and can only be trusted in situations where it produces a result which makes women feel good.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 07:48 AM
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Exactly. Women created the patriarchy by preferentially dating high status men. If they really want to "smash the patriarchy" they would reproduce with the feminist nice guys whom they tend to put in the friend zone for later recruitment as step dads.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 07:46 AM
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But all males are perfect according to you Weak attempt at a strawman argument. You should try making an argument that doesn't depend on lying about what the other person said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:24 AM
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Well my moon sign is an asparagus so I’m obviously superior to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:38 PM
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you're just saying that because mercury is currently in your gatorade.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:22 AM
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Dating Down
/r/MensRights16/09/23 12:58 AM
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Dating Down
/r/MensRights16/09/23 12:57 AM
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Quick! Women's behavior is being viewed in a less than perfect light! We must redirect blame to the men!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:26 PM
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It's a bit more complicated than "both sides are doing the same thing". Only a small fraction of men are able to date multiple women simultaneously. Whereas most women are capable of dating multiple men. This fundamental imbalance between the sexes is what is moving us towards polygyny. https://medium.com/@bellehookwrite/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy-a70cbee8e4db
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:14 PM
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they're mostly just depressed Which will increasingly lead to suicide, and I count that as violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:01 PM
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well maybe not nothing, if you're willing to play for the other team.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:16 AM
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But the consequences are lasting if children are produced. Which is increasingly the case. This produces single mothers who expect other men to play the step father role and invest in another man's kids. And men have a strong instinctual reluctance to take this deal. This is going to lead to all kinds of unintended consequences and historically it gets violent. Monogamy/Marriage is a compromise between the competing sexual strategies of men and women. It has worked pretty well for thousands of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:07 AM
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Sounds like the thinking that led to communist revolutions in the past. They smash the current system, expecting to build a utopia and then, oops.. they've created a hellish dystopia instead. Maybe feminists should build a small proof of concept society first so we can see the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:44 AM
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But this is already happening with so many women accepting FWB and "situationships"... it just means that she's sharing a guy with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:17 PM
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And these internet forums have supplemented men's need for status. Any status which does not translate into more sexual options will not be appealing to most men. And reddit karma does not get a man laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:04 PM
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The current situation is trending towards polygamy. Most women desire only the most high status men, and they are preferring to share those men (knowingly or not) rather than committing to average men. And history has shown that polygamy fuels violence. So, by "smashing the patriarchy" and eliminating the norm of monogamy, we are likely regressing to a much more violent society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:47 PM
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Can you explain what part of this is warped and why? This is a debate sub, after all... debate usually consists of more than just, "you're wrong, goodbye."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:22 PM
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Yes, the women are overwhelmingly older German women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:09 PM
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Almost nobody is sympathetic to incels, they're the group that everybody likes to shit on. But what does this have to do with incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:00 PM
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The Beach Boys on the Kenyan coast make good money providing services to older European women who visit. I heard various stories while visiting Watamu
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:17 AM
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sluts still become moms Sure they do, but the key issue is... do the kids belong to the man who committed to them? The whole reason that men have an instinctual repulsion to committing to promiscuous women is that over evolutionary time, these women have been more likely to cuckold men. If the opposite were true, men would have evolved a strong instinctual attraction to these women, because they would have been more likely to pass on the man's genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:00 AM
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There's a sucker born every minute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:56 AM
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I once considered myself a feminist. But after decades of experience with women and witnessing how they treat men, especially in regards to this subject, my desire to advocate for women's causes has been completely annihilated. In our current society, my energy is better spent advocating for the needs of men, not women who claim perpetual victim status while being blind to their own privilege and oblivious or even hostile to men's suffering.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 11:51 PM
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instead of empathising with a group of people undergoing hardship I'm continually surprised at how little empathy women have for uniquely male struggles. Especially the ones who say that "feminism is about equality." To see this for yourself, just bring up the topic of paternity fraud with them. For instance, there have been stories in recent years where a woman tricks a man into raising another man's kids and then he finds out after several years and decides to abandon the family. A majority of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 09:50 PM
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I only know one guy who struggles a lot. He works as a software engineer. The attributes that lead to success in software engineering also tend to result in struggles with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:31 PM
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ChatGPT summary of the summary: In a struggling economy, the writer frequently faces unwanted approaches from locals asking for money, many of which are unsettling, persistent, and invasive. These interactions prompt the author to draw parallels with how women might feel when approached by unfamiliar men. The writer acknowledges patterns of dishonesty, pushiness, and boundary violations in these encounters. Emphasizing empathy, the author relates these experiences to the discomfort and fear wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:44 PM
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So they don't love women, they just want women's bodies. Sounds like you're projecting a woman's mindset onto men. Men are completely capable of loving women, but still have a strong instinct to mate with more than one woman. And they should not be shamed for this completely natural desire. ​ However, fortunately, there are plenty of men who want to have a relationship with a woman and don't just want meaningless, casual sex. Those men would still happily accept casual sex if it was offered to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:22 PM
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Why don't they just choose their best option? Because for many men, having sex with many women is more appealing than a relationship with one woman. ​ Are they unable to love a woman? Sure they are able to love a woman, but that doesn't mean they stop wanting sexual variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:41 PM
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Yeah it’s the later stages that are less great
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:53 AM
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If she brings that enthusiasm to the bedroom, then sign me up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:47 AM
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I think women get mad at men for manipulating them because manipulation is their territory and they don't like competition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:56 PM
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Bodily autonomy? If he has sex and causes a pregnancy he won’t have any rights to opt out of paternal responsibility. He has to pay child support or otherwise he can enjoy bodily autonomy in jail. In some cases, even with a DNA test proving that he’s not the father. Even in states where abortion is illegal, a woman can give up a child for adoption or leave it at a fire station. Men have no such options. I never hear any women complaining about how this is unfair for men. But they expect men to c…
/r/MensRights06/08/23 08:52 PM
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if she's serious about you you get her time and her energy and then eventually sex as well. the guy she's seeing casually doesn't get that If you honestly believe that this a great deal for the guy who is waiting, then be open and honest with him about the other guys you're hooking up with while he waits. After all, they are getting a bad deal and you can explain that to him. Then he can fully appreciate how amazing it is that you like him so much that you're willing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:24 PM
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Agreed. I'd much rather be the guy she hooks up with soon and complains about. Especially if being "liked" results in a 3 month celibacy period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:17 PM
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Marriage isn't a transaction anymore But it is a contract with the state, which then gets to dictate how the marriage is ended via divorce, usually resulting in large financial transfers from the husband to the wife. So not only is the wife financially incentivized to break the contract, but she can do so for any reason. In many places, she can even be caught having an affair and there is no real effect on her financial gain after divorce. And putting aside the finances, the emotional devastatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:29 PM
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yeah, those younger women are predators, taking advantage of an older man's resources, status, and life experience for selfish reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:53 PM
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What about guys who don't want to pay for dates at all? Are they unable to be serious about relationships? I think we all know how most women would answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:33 PM
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Absolutely not. I'd rather have woman A. I've already experienced having a very hot gf who enjoyed attention from other men and it was not worth it. Plus, if she's making $500k / year she's not going to spend it on her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:55 AM
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I wouldn't know... I lived there for several months and I met lots of foreigners, but they were mostly white Europeans. I met very few Americans, but only white/asian. I did hear from Kenyans that black people from America will sometimes go there expecting to have a kinship with the locals due to skin color, but they find that black people from other cultures there are typically considered more of an "other" than "one of us." There are 40+ tribes in Kenya, and tribal identity is more important t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:02 PM
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I want to be loved for who I am Good luck with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:46 AM
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Dating in Nairobi as a white guy is like shooting fish in a barrel. However, the city is dangerous and surprisingly expensive for what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:44 AM
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Girls bring in the cash for club owners. That's why women get in free. They are there to make the men spend money. In some places in Eastern Europe (looking at you, Bucharest), the girls are literally hired by the club to be there. Some even set up tinder dates and insist that you meet her at one specific bar, and she won't leave. And that place will have drink prices which are very high for the area.
/r/seduction10/07/23 03:28 PM
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It's biology. Men have way more testosterone than women. Testosterone makes an individual more dominant, aggressive, and competitive. These traits make a person more likely to be a leader. Women have been sexually selecting men with these traits for millions of years. In general, straight women are attracted to masculine traits and straight men are attracted to feminine ones. All this talk about "sexism", "insecurity" and "fragility" is just gaslighting from ideologues. There are a few human soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:12 AM
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Which is why these women are perceived as very masculine. Straight men are not generally attracted to masculine women. Accusing men of being "insecure" is just a coping strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:55 PM
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Ok then, good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:13 PM
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You claim that men want women on their financial level, and that’s simply not a priority for men at all. HVM go after what they want, not what you think they should want. There’s a reason that the idea of a CEO dating his secretary is much more common than CEO dating an a executive. Men value youth and femininity way above a woman’s finances or career
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:55 PM
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How does her degree improve her dating options? A male doctor will date a college dropout working at Starbucks if she’s attractive. If anything it hurts her options because she will feel she is “too good” for men with less education.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:05 PM
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I hope this doesn’t affect the EBDB. I’m staying at a EBDBBNB all month
/r/MensRights04/06/23 10:24 PM
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You can disable follower notifications. Unfortunately Reddit does not allow you to report them if they have no comments or posts. But you can block at least
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:41 PM
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You're bringing logic to a situation ruled by emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:56 AM
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Any criticism of women these days gets you branded as a misogynist incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:37 PM
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A: “That woman had zero sexual interest in me” B: “you got rejected?” A: “no, she chose to have sex with me.” B: “huh?”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:38 PM
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trying to sleep with her husband. They often have ZERO interest in the man Pick one. Sexual interest is much different than zero interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:54 PM
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I don't know how you were scammed, I was hoping you would provide some context.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:17 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:09 AM
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It's so easy to make a man happy but western women seem unable or unwilling to do it for the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:04 AM
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I have a well paying remote software job but I work US hours and living in Asia would require working night shift, essentially. Is that your situation as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:01 AM
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How can a person avoid being scammed in the way that you were?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:00 AM
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Source: am a self respecting man That's great, dude! I'm sure that you will impart those values to your wife's boyfriend's children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:36 PM
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Yes, they were the ones most easily converted into loyal followers of Big Brother
/r/MensRights10/05/23 10:08 PM
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So it’s all because of poultry prices. Just as I suspected!
/r/MensRights29/04/23 10:54 PM
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Ok professor, walk us through the logic you used to reach that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:45 PM
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So you only jump to illogical conclusions? Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:06 AM
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No, it only implies that he's attracted to her. He probably hasn't had time to determine if she's a good person and develop feelings for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:26 PM
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I wasn’t talking about morality. You keep trying to reduce this to a moral judgement of sex being “good” or “bad” and then you expect that to apply to both men and women. Reality has no need to conform to your expectations like that. Evolution has created behavior based on the amoral sexual strategy which is effective for each sex. Having sex with lots of partners is a good reproductive strategy for a man’s genes. It results in his genes making lots of copies for little to no parental investment…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:53 PM
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The issue calls for more nuance than "sex is bad" or "sex is good" Men have evolved a strong instinctual desire to have sex with as many women as possible, and a strong aversion to committing to promiscuous women. Is this selfish? Yes, because our genes are selfish and evolution results from the best strategy for replicating our genes. It doesn't care about moral concepts like fairness or "hypocrisy". Because women have higher standards, a man cannot be promiscuous unless he is among the most at…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:04 PM
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Would it be hypocritical to say that "giving away money too easily" is bad for one's finances, while also accepting free money that a person is handing out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:33 PM
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well that explains why women are repulsed by bad boys, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:47 AM
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It may be surprising at first how much women resist paternity testing, and how little empathy they seem to have about the male problem of paternity uncertainty. But if you consider that women have evolved concealed ovulation to make it easier to pursue the sexual strategy of cuckolding men, it becomes less surprising that their psychology has also been shaped to allow women to pursue this strategy more effectively. The female incentive to cuckold males is far more ancient than humanity and it ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:53 PM
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Yeah, nobody would.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 11:20 PM
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Women spend a great deal of time deceiving men about what they really want in relationships and the things that they're attracted to. Worse, they even punish the men who make the foolish mistake of listening to them (as opposed to watching their actions.) And this is what really causes the anger phase that men have at the start of the red pill. They are already frustrated from years of experiencing the inconsistency of blue pill lies, and they often find the redpill after a disastrous interactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:53 AM
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Yes, that is what most men expect when they are naive to women. Part of gaining wisdom as a hetero man is coming to terms with the reality of Briffault's Law
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:12 PM
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It's super common for women to leave if she perceives her man as weak. But when men share these stories, they get shamed, downvoted, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:10 PM
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Neither are men's. It's based on repulsion, not insecurity. Committing to promiscuous women has proven to be an excellent way to be cuckolded, which is why men have evolved a strong repulsion to it. And attempting to shame men is not going to override biological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:05 PM
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Woman expresses a dating preference: "She has standards!" Man expresses a dating preference: "He's insecure / misogynistic!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:13 AM
0

They'd rather try to change the entire world, instead of changing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:28 PM
1

men just aren’t tall and facially hot enough and they’re doomed to remain sexless forever These are the immutable characteristics being discussed. I don't know why you are bringing up men who cheat in a discussion about sexless men being shamed for their genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:08 PM
4

How did I shame women for their preferences, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:03 PM
2

Nailed it. Men are being shamed for their immutable characteristics and for daring to discuss the realities about the dating market and female nature. This is driving immense resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:11 PM
2

r/FreeDiningStrategy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:46 PM
4

And that not very often even offering or making the gesture to pay any part of it. Or if they do offer, it's often a test. If he accepts her offer to split the bill, then he fails and he doesn't get a second date. And later these women wonder why men view them as duplicitous and untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:10 PM
3

They are waiting for "better" men. Sometimes indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:16 PM
3

I'm not going "all victim on this," I'm pointing out a double standard. ​ I think OP is very accurate in why I do not think OP is accurate in attributing the male preference for female purity to be about "sexual hedonism." A much better explanation is that this preference is one of many consequences of paternal uncertainty. Males of most species are never really sure which offspring are theirs and females of most species (including humans) are incentivized to practice cuckoldry. From the perspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:16 AM
44

Of course we once again see that men aren’t allowed to have a single standard meanwhile every standard a women has must always be respected and never questioned "A Man expressing a dating preference is called 'misogynistic'. A woman expressing a dating preference is called 'having standards.' "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:18 PM
4

So one of them will cheat and somehow get all the other seven of them to also have sex? Yes. Ask her who's idea it was to go to Miami or the one taking the lead to organize everything. That's the one who has an itch she is eager to scratch, and she's bringing along partners in crime. ​ if one of her friends is being stupid and reckless I expect her to save them not join them. That's a very male perspective. If they encounter a rich guy at the club and he invites them over to his VIP section tabl…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 03:34 AM
3

Ok, guys trip to Tijuana / Thailand / Rio de Janeiro
/r/MensRights10/03/23 01:11 AM
1

Andrew Tate is not equivalent to the redpill. He's basically a violent pimp who has gained a following because men who have no success with women will tend to emulate any man who appears to have abundant sexual access to women. The redpill predates Tate. It's a collection of wisdom based not on morality but on what has been observed to actually work with women. This includes the observation that if a man is giving a woman the best orgasms of her life, she will be devoted to him in a way that few…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 08:30 PM
1

Of course it includes giving her an orgasm. Stop putting words in my mouth. That seems to be your pattern: make up stuff that someone never said, then criticize them for it.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 03:06 AM
-6

The red pill says that men should fuck a woman well. Nice try at a strawman though
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 12:01 AM
3

That sounds familiar.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 09:22 AM
2

The "Beach Boys" in Kenya regularly sell sex to older female tourists from Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:52 PM
1

Yes, I love Brazil
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:50 PM
7

And it's often a much more honest interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:50 PM
10

Being boring is the ultimate attraction sin to women... they'll keep coming back to the guy who beats them. But if you're boring they'll lose interest, cheat, and generally treat you like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:44 PM
31

I think a lot of guys come away from these experiences thinking "fuck I don't want to be me anymore, I want to be the other guy in these scenarios" This is exactly it. Society lies to men about women and these experiences make men angry about being deceived. Red pill comes along and says, they lied to you about the rules, here are the real ones, and here's a better strategy for playing the game. And that strategy does tend to work better for most men. just shame and belittle men for even having …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:52 AM
1

Yes, she’s an athlete who plays volleyball at a fairly high level
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:04 AM
-1

JustPearlyThings called herself mid I think she would make a good wife. Fairly attractive, athletic, good personality, feminine, intelligent, and she's not one of the many women infected with the misandry encouraged by modern feminism. I've dated women who are very attractive and while it's exciting at first, the entitlement and attitude of those women eventually far outweighed their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:00 AM
31

and unless women are calling each other out on this (which I highly doubt), their delusion persists.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:05 PM
3

passive to a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:48 AM
2

Ah, so that's why so many romance novels feature fat funny dudes as the love interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:40 PM
2

He doesn't live in Egypt, he lives in a remote area (of the US, I assume)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:19 PM
1

He doesn't live in Egypt, he lives in a remote area (of the US, I assume)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:19 PM
4

You go to straight conversion therapy to learn how to suppress your straight impulses.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 07:07 PM
5

she goes on daily foodie calls.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 04:48 PM
8

Based on how feminists operate subreddits and other online groups, a matriarchy in real life would be an oppressive totalitarian hellhole.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/23 04:57 PM
9

Vera Mindy Chokalingam, professionally known as Mindy Kaling Wait a sec... her real name is Chokalingam? Lingam = penis, so her name is basically Choke-A-Dick?
/r/MensRights20/01/23 05:37 PM
-1

If the roles were reversed, she would absolutely think he was the bad guy and reddit would pile on him.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 05:06 AM
2

Religion. Strict Parents. Lack of confidence / experience. Low self-esteem. Lots of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:30 PM
1

inb4 someone rants about polyamory
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:29 PM
0

Well, I have noticed that women show much more interest when I have a girlfriend already and stop chasing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:31 PM
1

You say "Matter of fact" but then you give an opinion which is unsupported by evidence. You admit that sexual selection in animals is often based on appearance, but you assert that they don't have a concept of physical beauty. Not only is this is a distinction without a difference, but you don't really have evidence that the distinction exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:37 PM
7

The Virgin Mary lied about an affair and things got a bit out of control
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:05 PM
15

Women tend to approach men who are out of their league (for relationships), wind up not getting a relationship, and then concluding that her approaching him was the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:31 PM
6

You’re not a witch, you just have candles, crystals, and daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:12 AM
11

And she won’t give you a standing ovation either
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 06:45 PM
2

Hey my wingnut bingo card is almost full, can you use a few more buzzwords from OANN / Fox?
/r/AntiFeminists25/12/22 05:16 PM
1

if that's all you want from her. This stance is problematic because it takes a man's healthy, strong desire for sex and tries to frame it as a bad thing. Sex isn't the only thing we want, but not getting it is a big problem. Imagine you had a house with no working bathroom. You wouldn't say that the bathroom was the only part of the house you wanted when you moved in, but if it's not working, that's a huge problem and worth changing houses for. ​ Y'all pretend you don't need affection or love. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:14 PM
2

porn is nowhere near as enjoyable and fulfilling as sex. It's a cheap substitute for the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:54 AM
12

He's doing the most, and getting the least.
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 07:48 AM
5

Yes I have, they usually cheated on their hot girlfriends who were loyal to him despite knowing about the cheating. And I’ve seen women treat nice law abiding guys like trash. So when women talk about their preferences it doesn’t match observed reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:40 PM
5

Yeah! It's like, "She has one of your offspring, she has you for 2 decades"
/r/MensRights07/12/22 06:07 PM
5

Something about... mining for platinum I think?
/r/MensRights07/12/22 06:04 PM
3

There is violence and lots of it already, that’s kinda why women have started stepping away from guys. Women are safer now than at any point in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:52 PM
1

Ok, cool. Matriarchal societies have existed in the past. Can you give us an example of one of those we should emulate? Or at the very least, which one provides the best evidence that putting women in charge will improve our lives?
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 08:48 AM
2

Same here. ADHD and this is how I reacted to my last really bad breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:08 PM
1

I fell in love with my dream girl. Then she became a nightmare!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:15 AM
1

Most men would happily date a feminine woman who pays her own bills. The issue is that it is rare to find such a woman. Economic success is highly correlated with masculine personality traits like being disagreeable, competitive, and dominant. Women like to tell stories about men like "men are intimidated by strong independent woman" but in reality most men are turned off by the masculine personality traits in those women. And if given the choice between a masculine woman who pays her own bills …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:47 PM
2

Take away the arousal and I’m not interested in a monogamous relationship. It’s a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:23 AM
4

I mean, that sounds nice. I would be ok with her paying the bills. It just doesn't arouse me. And the real issue is that the masculine energy those women often have is a massive turn-off. You can try logic all you want, but my dick doesn't understand logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:24 AM
3

Same way I feel about a woman exuding dominant "boss babe" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:59 AM
4

cool. I used to not expect a woman to be submissive. Then I dated a submissive woman and it was so much better that I now filter for that trait very early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:50 AM
1

As an intelligent man, I value intelligent women for relationship. But that does not affect my sexual attraction to her. Her prettiness and submissiveness does attract me, and her agreeableness make me more likely to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:43 AM
-1

This is clearly evidence of an oppressive patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:25 AM
1

Yeah women would love it if the guys were segregated into gyms for attractive or unattractive men
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 02:58 PM
1

Yes, feminism is popular around the world, including within the UN. But when you use the dog whistle term of "globalists" then you are making a thinly veiled implication that this is some Jewish conspiracy. You don't have any evidence for that, just an argument that if an idea is popular around the world, it must be the result of central organization. But that's ridiculous. Feminism is an idea that appeals to women, and women exist all around the world. That's a much simpler explanation than jum…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 07:10 PM
1

Feminism is a tool of globalists. I was with you until this part. The world is changing in complex ways. It's tempting to come up with a simple cause for this, like a shadowy cabal of people who have a secret plan. This is the same kind of thinking which our ancestors used to come up with the idea of gods controlling the weather. The reality is much simpler. Lots of people are acting according to their own selfish interests, not according to some grand conspiracy.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:39 PM
1

This explains the origin of "slut shaming", because somehow we figured out in the last several million years that women who aren't selective enough result in the gene pool's quality being reduced, thus reducing the woman's sexual value Not quite. Most men will happily have sex with "sluts" so it does not diminish their sexual value. It diminishes their relationship value, however, because men have evolved various traits to protect them from cuckoldry, including a reluctance to commit to promiscu…
/r/MensRights09/11/22 08:29 PM
2

well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:04 PM
3

Yeah they also hate when men are deceptive. Perhaps for similar reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:02 PM
7

Because those women are not saving enough for retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:08 AM
1

and her kids are her world. They come first, and if you can't handle that swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:01 AM
6

It’s bigoted? Why? Because it might be offensive to men? Or because it might be offensive to women who have slept with men? I think I already know the answer.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 12:26 AM
62

Women compliment each other and don't really mean it. Men insult each other and don't really mean it.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:30 PM
9

some lesbians take their sexuality as some kind of position of moral superiority Yeah. Ever heard of "gold star" lesbians?
/r/MensRights25/10/22 09:28 PM
25

A lot of women feel entitled to more and more from men. And the expectations are getting unrealistic. So men are asking what we’re getting in return. And it turns out that not only can women not provide a satisfactory answer, but they get offended at the question. And men are rightfully concluding that this is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:39 PM
0

With a capitalism focused society that can’t happen. Everyone will just go to basically their own stuff. I'm not convinced this is true, it seems likely to just be part of this "blame bad everything on capitalism" trend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:48 AM
2

marrying a wife that would help them It's also quite likely that the marriage winds up unhappy, leads to divorce, etc. Many men are looking at marriage and concluding that the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:46 AM
6

RIP Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:20 PM
30

The reality changes based on the need of the current argument being made.
/r/AntiFeminists07/10/22 11:00 PM
1

buying an extra apple Oh wow, now we're objectifying men by comparing them to apples?! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:51 PM
2

No, it does not need to be the same because the biological reality of the sexes is different. Men evolved to feel this way due to cuckolding. Men who happily committed to high n-count women weren't as successful at passing on their genes. Our genes have encoded partner selection wisdom into our emotions and it's bullshit that men are shamed for having this instinctual preference. If committing to promiscuous women was advantageous for men in the past, they would be highly sought after as partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:46 PM
7

*Genghis Khan’s genes have entered the chat *
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:59 PM
8

But you're not going to give some fake reason, like, "she's awkward / creepy / etc"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:17 AM
1

Men would rather not waste their romantic efforts on a woman if it's not going to lead to sex. Especially in this age of "foodie calls." If you start with the sex, then that is no longer a concern. You've proven your interest in a authentic way, the man has experienced those post-coital bonding hormones, and he decides he wants to deepen the relationship.
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:01 AM
8

Borderline Personality Disorder.
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:59 PM
1

This is not a person trying to have a good faith discussion, they are just trolling or they are here with an axe to grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:55 PM
-1

Hmm, you didn't seem to mention the women saying "Kill all men." What a convenient thing to exclude from your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:49 PM
1

It's a lot like how the communists love to blame everything on the bourgeoisie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:48 PM
1

Here comes the metaphor police! Everybody hide your illustrative comparisons!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:41 PM
1

It seems like you're just here to rant about wartime violence against women, not to understand how evolution has shaped male mate preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:37 PM
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The explanation depends on what is convenient to the argument being made. For example, when discussing why men should pay for dates, every cent that women spend on clothing and makeup is used for the benefit of the man. In other situations, women spend money on these things for other reasons and how dare you attribute it to attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:23 PM
7

Men want women to throw themselves at them for an ego boost, but don’t actually want the women who do. I've had a passionate relationship start from her asking me out. So I personally think that this ridiculous. I think what is more likely is that women tend to ask out the men who have lots of options, they get rejected once, and then they give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:34 AM
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In other words: - It's inconceivable that women give hints which cannot be reliably interpreted. - If a man doesn't act on a hint, it's solely his problem and that's unattractive. - There's a deadline for him to make the right response and that cannot be changed. Sounds super reasonable!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:19 AM
2

Abortion bans also violate the 1st amendment freedom of religion. The Old Testament (Numbers 5:14) outlines an abortion ceremony to be performed by a priest where a woman drinks a potion which causes an abortion. It's actually the only time in the Bible where the topic of abortion is discussed. Any law which prohibits the ceremonial abortion prescribed by the Bible is therefore violating people's ability to free exercise of religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:48 AM
12

Well, they've "smashed the patriarchy" by removing men from families and empowering single motherhood. Men are motivated to fight and die to protect their own families. But not so much for a society in which they are far more likely to be denied a family, love, and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:32 AM
22

Radical feminist rhetoric is so toxic. It really is. And no amount of progress for women seems to cause them to declare victory, they have to maintain that grip on victimhood by inventing new ways to demonize men. Men are seeing this and becoming antifeminist as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:22 AM
5

he might wonder who is being real with him and who is there just to make money. I have the same confusion at the strip club. Does she really like me? Or is it just about the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:48 AM
2

"So what if she starts spending the night at her ex's place, can you explain why exactly that's a problem? She's a person with free will and you shouldn't try to control her!" Forget this clown. If she's meeting up with an ex she's clearly not over, it is totally ok to decide that you don't want to put up with that and immediately drop her. She's not entitled to your continued attention, and you don't have to justify this to some random redditor who is trying to convince you to ignore giant red …
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 10:33 PM
1

Hey, news flash: if you've found that men only want you for sex, it's probably because this personality of yours is causing them to head for the hills afterwards. We don't want women who bring us lots of conflict and argument. Those are the women that men tolerate just long enough to get laid, and then they run away, to seek women who are more pleasant company. And then you get hurt and spew your toxic anger out at all men, but you'll refuse to consider how you might be part of the problem. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:58 PM
1

and to make matters worse, society actively gaslights men into believing things about women which are counterproductive to being successful with them. When men ask for advice from women in their life whom they trust, they get bad or ineffective information. It's incredibly, deeply, frustrating for many men in a way that women simply cannot fathom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:38 PM
1

oh look, another woman who doesn't understand shit about men but intends to demonize all of them because one treated her poorly. Maybe instead of spewing this toxicity into the world you should go talk to a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:17 PM
1

wow, you beat the hell out of that strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:48 PM
6

Yeah don’t hold your breath waiting for women to hold each other accountable for mistreatment of men
/r/MensRights25/08/22 09:45 AM
4

What about the species gap? I'm pretty sure she made way more money than the dinosaurs.
/r/AntiFeminists16/08/22 10:03 PM
2

ok, so does that mean that anything in the world that you don't like was caused by them?
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 08:20 AM
4

Can we get a source for this Rockerfeller claim? Or is this just conspiratorial nonsense?
/r/AntiFeminists10/08/22 11:38 PM
4

And because that person is now shown to be a bad person, they deserve to be treated poorly and denied sex.
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 09:10 AM
4

And if there is domination and it works for them, that's ok too.
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 07:51 AM
1

Sounds like she really wants to play Yahtzee. You should suggest that instead.
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:19 PM
3

Yes, it's doable for some people. But it's also ok to decide that ending the friendship is the right decision for you. Sometimes it's best to invest that time and energy in other ways, in order to get the relationship you desire.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 11:23 PM
5

slow clap.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/22 09:53 PM
20

Men and women objectify each other. But for some reason we typically only hear complaints about men objectifying women. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:58 PM
1

What country are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:54 PM
1

I've often heard women (in the USA) say that they will offer to split the bill on the first date as a test, and if the guy allows them to, he won't get a second date. Or if the date has gone poorly, they will insist on splitting the bill to signal a lack of interest. But to suggest that women (in the US) are mostly not expecting men to pay for dates is frankly absurd to hear as a man who has a few decades of dating experience there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:53 PM
3

Duties: Collecting benefits, Keeping house tidy for when Jody comes over
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/22 07:22 AM
2

So men should demand what they want in return. If she’s requiring you to be fulfilling traditional masculine responsibilities, insist on her fulfilling traditional feminine responsibilities. They can’t just change the deal to get more benefits for themselves and less responsibility, that’s bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:59 AM
-3

Are you implying that women stopping expecting men to pay for dates 70 years ago? lol. More like 70 years too early.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:52 AM
2

You’re moving the goal posts. You tried to put the blame on OP, saying that he was “chasing toxic”. I’m not disputing that the women are toxic. I’m challenging you for trying to put the responsibility on him for the women which are pursuing him. And we never said anything about these being the only women we’re interacting with, I don’t know why you’re assuming that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:38 PM
4

So the women you’re talking about seem to fill a specific toxic subset. Do you chasing toxic if fine? This is a common thing that men experience when they find success by their 30's. They suddenly become targeted by women they knew when they were younger, and the women are doing the chasing. It's not about men "chasing toxic." This happened to me too when I hit 34. Multiple woman I knew in high school / college saw that I had a successful career and started pursuing me aggressively. One was even…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:18 PM
18

Men who experience constant rejection shouldn't try to figure out why, because that's basically like having a cuckold fetish. Also, maybe they are gay. Excellent analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:07 PM
38

In the glorious feminist future, she’ll be able to charge you with rape after you break up and she realizes all these times you wronged her.
/r/AntiFeminists05/07/22 12:03 PM
5

That's why she told him to meet her at the club. Probably gave him the exact time, too. OP: next time, you lead the situation. Don't let her lead or you'll regret it.
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:45 PM
11

They never stood up and said something when men were complaining about how we have no say in preventing abortion or being forced into parenthood and decades of child support against our will, even if we can prove we are not the biological father. And we should remind them of this when they expect us to help them now. Address our issues first, because we know you'll stop caring once you get your issues taken care of.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/22 12:19 PM
5

wanting to form a relationship What kind of relationship, though? One that eventually becomes a dead bedroom, or one in which she gets bored and decides to cheat with the kind of guy she hooked up with in the past? These are very real concerns that men have. We are not really interested in a relationship with a woman who lacks sexual desire for us. And we absolutely despise the idea of being cuckolded.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:23 PM
6

"Women are often just as horny as men!" Um, no. No they are not.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 07:34 PM
1

Yeah, it's attractive to women seeking commitment, like single mothers who need a provider to take care of another man's children. This does not mean that women are having more babies with successful men, so it's possible that intelligence does not increase genetic fitness as much as you might assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:15 PM
2

shorty want a thug.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:55 PM
3

In societies where this happens, it results in a large number of men who lack the money to get a single woman, and they resort to violence and theft in order to get sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:44 PM
1

But if women fuck (and make babies with) the attractive simpletons, it doesn't really matter if the most attractive ones are smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:42 PM
1

And you have to consider that the married guy may not have married a childless woman. And she may cuckold him with the pool boy / tennis instructor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:27 PM
37

I genuinely believe nothing of what I read here from female posters. I know it is utter horseshit. Yes, the way that women continue to deny the reality that many of us have experienced firsthand makes it very hard to think of women as credible sources of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:45 AM
44

This is right on the money. It doesn't matter how many times I hear feminists bitching about red pill ideas, my own lived experience shows that they are far more accurate than anything a woman will ever tell you about how to be successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:42 AM
9

One example does not a trend make
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 08:03 PM
6

He’s in a band called Oasis
/r/AntiFeminists18/06/22 08:09 PM
-6

No, this is a very masculine way of looking at things. Men view things in terms of competition and we like to analyze and systematize things. You sound like a woman coming from a place of privilege in the dating market, where you can just wait around “being yourself” and relationships will just magically happen. Men can’t afford that luxury. We have to make the magic happen, and that often requires seeking understanding first.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 10:45 AM
2

I think it’s reasonable to assume that “attractive” means those to whom the highest proportion of people are attracted. Bringing up how this is influenced by society and culture makes it seem like you are here to dispute the validity of what OP considers attractive.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 10:35 AM
4

You don't understand what MGTOW even is. It's not just "men who do not like women" who are avoiding women entirely. MGTOW avoid marriage and cohabitation with women, specifically because they have been burned by those situations or have determined by watching other men that those things fail a cost/benefit analysis. Many of them still date women casually. They have just learned that marriage is an extremely risky deal for men so they are avoiding that. It's easy to label them as misogynistic bec…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 01:13 PM
2

Because it's irrelevant to MGTOW, unless they are bisexual. Men who become MGTOW typically go there after being betrayed by women, often in horrible ways. What's the point of telling them that men are also capable of betraying women? They aren't going to date men. And telling them this isn't going to inspire a man to pursue marriage again after experiencing a brutal divorce.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 12:57 PM
3

This reads like a sock puppet post written by a woman who thinks she understands how MGTOWs think.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 12:13 PM
0

Also, they never accept any advice from women regarding how to treat them This is completely untrue. For many men, asking women for advice is one of the FIRST things that they try. But then they discover that the advice is not as effective as the advice they get from other men.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 02:13 PM
86

Malicious compliance. Love it.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 03:51 AM
1

Have you ever heard of... punctuation? And paragraphs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:24 PM
18

God made the world and created Adam in a paradise called the garden of Eden. Used a rib from Adam to create Eve as a helper. God told Adam not to eat fruit from the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Snake tells Eve to eat the fruit, so she does, and gives some to Adam. God finds out and kicks them out of the garden, and curses humanity forever. Then they create all of humanity. The incest this implies is glossed over because reasons. Then there’s various mythology like the Tower of Babel to ex…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 11:11 PM
5

No, by redefining the terms, non-white people can't be racist, and women can't be sexist, abusive, or rapists. Matriarchy is double plus good (by definition), and terms like "matriarchal violence" are grammatically incorrect because violence is redefined as an action that a male does to a female or male.
/r/AntiFeminists12/06/22 05:53 PM
8

Yeah, but she won't be able to run fast enough to catch him and she has no car. Basically a fast walk or slow jog is sufficient.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:47 PM
3

Don’t hate the player, hate the game
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:52 PM
0

I work in AI and I think your claim is bullshit. Feel free to prove me wrong with a link
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:52 PM
18

Maybe he has a humiliation kink and is very sexually fulfilled by her
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 03:29 PM
0

And I reject this "predatory" nonsense. You are just infantilizing women in a situation you know nothing about, in order to demonize men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:49 PM
1

Women will often attempt to shame men for being men and having the typical mating preferences most men have. Usually for self-serving reasons. Screw that. I refuse to be shamed for being a man. We need to resist this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:24 AM
0

So 18 year old women are not responsible enough to have agency over who they date? Do you prefer a system where male guardians have authority over the actions of young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:11 AM
-1

But it is impressive to men. Regardless of how much women try to shame men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:41 AM
0

18 yo women are children, when women want to shame men for dating them. In every other respect, they are to be treated like fully mature adults with complete agency and equality to men. Except for equal responsibilities for things like military conscription. Also, when a woman expresses her dating preferences, it's called "having standards". When a man express his dating preferences, it's "misogynistic" or "objectifying" or some other flavor of shameful. And remember, when in doubt, blame the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:18 AM
2

Those are the women who are especially clueless about men. And they probably don't rely on other knowledge to get through life, either, I'm guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:13 AM
1

Women are exploiting men but when men complain about this, very few people seem to care. Men are adapting by putting less time and money into the courting process, so then women complain that men are "cheap." Of course this second message gets widely broadcast, because it's trendy to shit on men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:02 AM
1

You read that backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:49 PM
5

May her cup runneth over.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 01:25 AM
13

And someone thought that was funny enough to share on FB?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/22 01:57 PM
1

Syllables You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. prin-cess. 2 syllables.
/r/AntiFeminists27/05/22 12:55 PM
6

This right here is the answer. Sex is the most valuable thing she can offer. If she’s giving it to other men quickly and making you wait, she’s wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:27 PM
5

No, you don’t understand. He spends less on her because he likes her MORE and sees her as a serious partner. He doesn’t want her to judge him for being too loose with his wallet. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:16 PM
4

He told her not to fuck around. She insisted on fucking around, and then she found out.
/r/AntiFeminists21/05/22 07:50 PM
2

It's 2.62 times as hard, which is close to 3.
/r/AntiFeminists21/05/22 07:47 PM
12

yes, and they are confused why they aren't being picked
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 09:31 PM
3

ragefapping I'm gonna steal that one
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 09:30 PM
14

Oh shit, the arguments are hard to respond to! Um... Small dick energy!
/r/MensRights14/05/22 10:01 PM
16

When in doubt, blame the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 09:53 PM
2

He said that the average man is not high value. So in other words, he said that the average man is not above average. How dare he! I'm from Lake Wobegon, where all men are above average / High Value!
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 08:48 PM
2

No, a prostitute is more respectable because they will provide something in return on the first encounter.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/22 07:20 PM
-5

Um, no. MGTOW does not advocate staying away from people or even not having girlfriends. And they do not tell men to avoid friends (male or female) or to not date women. Their position is that marrying or cohabitating with women is not worth it for them. As in, it fails a cost/benefit analysis. Many of the men in that community find their way there after going through terrible divorces or other traumatic experiences with women. And they have decided to avoid similar trauma in the future.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 10:45 PM
0

Cool. So if someone breaks in during the night, do you flip a coin to see who faces the threat? Or do traditional gender roles suddenly apply in that situation?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 06:00 PM
1

Well, communists claim that capitalism is bad because workers are exploited. They offer communism as an alternative. But whenever that system is attempted, it ends up being a society with even more exploitation and misery. So just because there are problems with one system, doesn’t mean that getting rid of it would be a good thing. Patriarchy may be the same. It may not be perfect, but before we “smash the patriarchy” it would be wise to know what the alternative is and whether it would actually…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 01:47 AM
1

I see. No use wasting time on a precise definition if you’re just trying to say “patriarchy bad”
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 01:38 AM
0

0%, 50%, and 100% are all fractions. So your definition is meaningless
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 12:28 AM
10

i have guys friends that i would suggest This wording is ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:56 PM
2

a woman won't stay in a relatonship wth someone they can't do fun stuff with. That’s also why men don’t want to be friends with most women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:42 PM
9

Viable, sure. But it sounds like nothing has actually happened yet. I think he’s talking about actual relationships, not hypothetical possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:23 AM
2

Maybe you should suggest that she calls in to Kevin Samuels for advice on how to find that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:52 PM
5

These are general observations, not a claim that applies to 100% of women. Congratulations on being an exception. But it doesn’t change the fact that many women want to be with men who are more successful or otherwise superior in status, strength, etc. This has been observed across many cultures and time periods. Or would you say that most women are willing to partner with a man if she considers herself superior to him in every way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:56 AM
10

men are more likely to be turned off by women more successful than them. The bigger issue is female hypergamy. Women typically only want to date/marry men who are "at their level", as in more successful than they are. Or if they do date down, they will often find it difficult to respect the man. So as a woman earns more, her pool of acceptable men shrinks. But, her success does not make her more attractive to the men she wants. And those men have a lot of options. Women typically don't like to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:57 PM
15

Women's complaints are much more likely to be about the difficulty of finding a husband. If you watch a popular show where women call in for advice, they never express difficulty finding men for sex. Instead, they are trying to figure out how to find a man for marriage/LTR. And as many of these shows have highlighted, the women often suffer from a surprising amount of entitlement and delusion when they describe their requirements for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:33 PM
2

You don’t have to be a piece of shit to attract women. Guys who are successful with women are often mislabeled as jerks because Nice Guy behavior is expected from men by society when it comes to women Another reason is that the guys who are less successful with women (often by following dating advice they hear from women) wind up in the friend zone, where they get to hear women complain about the "jerks" they are dating after the couple has a fight. The friendzone guy will rarely/never hear whic…
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:17 PM
9

Same here. In fact I've realized that at least one was sabotaging me with other women. It seemed that she didn't want to date me but didn't want to lose my attention, either. I dropped her like a bad habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:09 PM
6

I'd trade all of them for a primary partner. in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:05 PM
1

But how will I roast my dumpster marshmallows for the dumpster s’mores?
/r/MensRights28/03/22 06:31 PM
48

a cuck, literally I pointed this out on Facebook while explaining that Will probably has pent-up rage from his wife making him a literal cuckold. I was immediately hit with the classic "Who hurt you?" deflection and others implying that I must be projecting a secret cuckold fetish. So apparently it's not acceptable in our culture for men to honestly discuss the immense emotional impact of being cheated on and emasculated by a woman. Imagine if a woman posted about the emotional consequences of b…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 04:02 PM
3

I have no desire to own property or take on debt with a girlfriend, but if I did I would work with a lawyer to figure out how to do it with a corporate structure rather than assuming marriage was the best option. That's almost certainly cheaper than losing half my stuff and paying alimony. Having children is the only reason I can think of where the benefits of being married could outweigh the downsides of getting divorced. And even then after significant vetting, premarital counseling, and a sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:57 AM
11

As a man, marriage has huge risks and very few benefits. I would prefer to just have a long-term girlfriend. Similar benefits, far fewer risks. If the sexual relationship stops, I should be able to end the relationship and start a new one without having to lose half of my stuff and making monthly payments to an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:07 PM
14

If it's cheap, let her pay. She can get free meals from her dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:20 PM
9

It's a problem when they never seem to be available to do favors when you need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:12 PM
5

For others I was being used as a personal therapist. Their issues were 100% the priority and whenever on the rare occasion I wanted to talk about myself I'd be ignored. This definitely resonates with me. It's especially annoying when it's a friend who you are attracted to and she wants to talk about her issues with other men all the time. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:10 PM
1

No one is forcing them. Men settle for single mothers when they don't have better options. Women have sexual power because it is far easier for them to get sex. Only the top men have comparable sexual power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:56 PM
1

I never said or implied that the women aren't enjoying the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:31 PM
1

She's able to have sex with a 7-8 (her SMV) so she assumes that she can have a 7-8 for a relationship (her RMV). However her RMV is not that high. She thinks that her RMV matches her SMV when it actually doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:28 PM
1

you say you disagree but you essentially just restated my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:14 PM
1

single mothers who are looking for betas to help take care of their kids that they had with some alpha. Being ignored by women until they need you to provide for another man's kids causes far more resentment in men than the average woman can comprehend. Especially since that woman will treat the man as if she is doing HIM a favor. ​ They are jealous of women’s sexual power. And resentful of women's insistence on downplaying this power in order to play the victim card at every opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:01 PM
1

The men make me want to do better and the women don't. The manosphere encourages men to improve their dating success via self-improvement. Spaces like FDS encourage women to do so by acting more entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:57 PM
2

Meta-projection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:51 PM
1

Some women get a false sense of SMV level, because they can get casual sex with guys above them. some women,get it, but, they will just will keep trying and hope they get lucky, some do. Or rather they confuse their SMV with their RMV. They assume that if they can get a 7-8 guy in bed, then this is their "league" for a relationship. And then they feel that they are too good for the type of guys whom they could actually lock down for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:48 PM
1

I agree that porn is unhealthy but simply stating that it is bad because it is "not natural" is to commit the naturalistic fallacy.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:40 PM
3

yes, of course. I started seeing another woman and she got demoted to acquaintance whom I saw only with other friends. A woman who behaves like that does not deserve my time or attention.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:28 PM
2

She very obviously wanted you and you didn’t get the hint or just weren’t into her that way. No, she did not. She flirted only in the presence of other women. When we were alone, she went back to behaving platonically. Whenever I flirted in private, she responded with complete apathy. She very obviously wanted my attention and was jealous when other women were getting it.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:22 PM
2

No, absolutely none of this behavior was detectable when I was initially pursuing her.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:36 AM
6

Yeah I’ve tried this and it was a waste of time. One girl I befriended would subtly sabotage me around any friend of hers which showed interest in me. And if she saw me with a woman I was dating, she would suddenly flirt with me very obviously which made the woman I was with uncomfortable / suspicious of this “friend” And the friendship was very one sided. Mostly her asking for favors and constantly talking about the other guys she wanted to hook up with.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:23 AM
2

> But if at any time you’re going to apply logic to a woman that you wouldn’t to apply to yourself or any other man, then yes, that’s misogyny. Not always. Men and women are different. They have different biology, different mate preferences, and are affected differently by sex. So we can apply different logic to men and women. Regardless of what feminist literature you like to read, not everything you disagree with is misogyny. Using that word is just an attempt to use emotional manipulation to …
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:24 PM
1

Ok, then it’s misandrist when women don’t want to date men who regularly hire sex workers. And also because they are insecure and worried that they won’t measure up to the pros. It’s definitely only due to reasons we can shame them for. I know this because it feels right to me and agrees with my existing biases.
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:09 AM
8

That's what many women want to believe. Any male opinion they don't like is framed as insecurity and responded to with shaming language. But the reality is that many men find promiscuous women repulsive. Especially if they are looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction02/03/22 05:21 PM
3

You're confusing the genetic programming which gives us desires with conscious thought. A person can have a strong desire to have sex as a result of biology and a strong desire to not be a parent as a result of conscious thought. How is this so confusing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:20 AM
4

You're not getting it. Ejaculating onto random surfaces did not result in offspring in the past. Therefore the desire to do this was not selected for. For most of human history, a man having sex with a woman usually resulted in replicating his genes into the next generation. That's why everything which made him more likely to have sex and produce successful children was strongly selected for. Like having a strong drive to have sex with a variety of women, and jealously guarding his mate to prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:13 AM
2

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:30 PM
4

The sisterhood must be protected from wrongthink
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 02:42 PM
1

If only he had used a cum box instead
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:19 AM
8

These women are generally independent & def don't need your money to raise their kid. And yet I've noticed, as a man with a great career, that the single mothers who express interest in me are often the types who would have ignored me before they had kids. My ability to be a potential provider for their kids is the obvious explanation for this.
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:10 PM
5

HelloFellowKids.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:04 AM
1

This guy knows the game
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:55 PM
2

Yeah he already has a dead bedroom relationship before the wedding and then he realizes she was probably regularly giving head in the club bathroom for Chad. He was excited because she’s the hottest woman he’s ever dated but then he realizes what a shitty deal this is for him. He’s giving the most and getting the least. Plus she’ll soon be cheating on him and divorcing him. Then he’ll be paying her monthly expenses in alimony so she doesn’t have to work while she’s with the next guy. The betas a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:19 PM
2

Exactly. Giving the most and getting the least is the essence of the beta bux rage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:03 PM
14

Sure, but what men really want is for women to just not be easy (full stop) rather than be easy with everyone else and fake it with us I think it is so much worse to find out that a woman is easy for everyone else except you than it is to think she is easy because she had sex with you on the first date. It basically shows that she is perfectly ok deceiving you about her sexual behavior with other men. Not too hard to imagine that she'll be able to justify cheating later on, as long as you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:21 PM
4

I fully agree. Learn game from guys who are successful, and ignore advice from women or men who lack experience with women.
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:17 PM
–

I used to take girlfriends to fancy dinners and expensive vacations. If I don't do that for my fiancee / wife, she has no right to get mad at me, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:15 PM
35

No, not "duh." A typical man will find a woman attractive or not regardless of what other men think about her. The idea that a woman's attraction to a man will increase when she sees other women interested in him is a strange and foreign concept to many men.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:19 PM
1

> Start liking women, or stop dating them. You are falsely assuming that men in this situation don't like women. That is precisely the problem, however. The men who get friendzoned typically do like the woman very much. However, he wants more than just friendship. > If you don't want to be friends with a woman after being rejected, you can just say no. If you went to be friend with a woman, because you think you would want to be friends with her, then do that. This is bad advice, because when a …
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:06 PM
1

Oh, so you’re saying that if a man wants to date a woman, and she rejects him, then he should be happy with a friendship with her where he listens to her talking about the men which she chose to date instead of him? And having a problem with this arrangement means that you’re an “incel”? lol, ok.
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:16 PM
4

Lol ok. Let me know when they can kill a spider on their own without shrieking for a man to help. Such a display of girl power when they do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:34 PM
2

I’m seriously thinking about that. I had a woman “forget” to tell me that she had “forgotten “ to take her BC years ago and I’ve been careful about using condoms since then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:32 PM
5

And yet single mothers have been hunting me ever since my career took off. I’d rather be used for fun than as a bailout.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:20 PM
1

He's right. I spend the last few years experimenting with early retirement and it does become unsatisfying quickly. I'm now working again and it feels better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:37 PM
8

Flying broom colors?
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/22 03:10 AM
30

“I can’t make an intelligent argument so I’ll just add an annoying cackle after every point I make”
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/22 06:57 PM
43

Such an annoying cackle. She sounds like a chick who flunked out of witch school.
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/22 06:51 PM
9

Precisely. It’s the poor treatment that makes people receptive to these ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:12 PM
2

You have to swipe to get messages though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:53 PM
16

It was the shirtless pics of him holding a fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:52 PM
6

Studying astrology would be more lucrative then gender studies, and the bullshit level is pretty much equal
/r/MensRights27/12/21 04:06 AM
3

In general, yes. If she's attractive and showing interest, many men will give her a shot. But then there are other questions... is she paying for the dates? Is she going to pay the greater share of expenses if they live together? These are expectations placed on a man who makes more, but women are not known for being willing to provide for men. Men have learned that many women have an attitude of "my money is my money and his money is OUR money". So, we don't put much value on a woman's money, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:53 PM
9

It's just as confusing as why men don't think that being called a "nice guy" or a "great friend" is a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:25 PM
10

They think they can counter millions of years of evolution with a propaganda campaign. Not gonna happen.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen05/12/21 09:20 PM
9

It's not being hard on a person to expect them to walk the walk if they talk the talk. Let her be a strong and independent woman and earn her own money.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 04:03 PM
7

Hire only women and let us know how that works out for you.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/21 01:55 PM
12

No true redditor would link to something which is common knowledge
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/21 01:13 PM
3

Or kill a spider without reacting like they're in mortal danger.
/r/AntiFeminists24/11/21 03:26 PM
11

She goes for seconds. And thirds
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 02:24 PM
2

The problem is when people fail to understand the man's perspective, or deny that work is required like the comment above. Also it's assumed that expecting the man to have to put in "work" is ok, but if he expects something in return for that work, that's not ok. If women object to men placing expectations on women, then men can rightly object to the expectations which women place on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:23 PM
2

This is an excellent description of the male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:26 PM
14

Many women do project their own strong in-group bias onto men and assume we act the same way towards our own gender. That’s why they spend so much time talking about the “patriarchy.” And also because it’s easier to invent a simple explanation for complex things. This basically implies that an oppressive matriarchy would probably exist if women had sufficient power.
/r/AntiFeminists08/10/21 09:17 AM
2

I think this is part of why Kevin Samuels has become so popular lately
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 07:52 AM
8

When you put it that way, it sounds like mental illness masquerading as an academic discipline
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/09/21 10:22 PM
26

Well said. As a man gets older and wiser he learns to decode this language to get the true meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:31 PM
3

That’s why the smarter HVM are avoiding monogamous relationships these days.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 03:42 PM
-3

When women are highly desirable (hot, young, and fit) they have lots of options and they tend to use that to their advantage. When men are highly desirable (tall, rich, and strong) they have lots of options and they tend to use that to their advantage. Women complain about this because they want to enjoy their options when they are young and hot to get lots of free stuff from men, then select a highly desirable man. But they don’t want that man to enjoy his options to get sex from other women, w…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 01:43 PM
-5

Sex is a powerful biological urge which is tied into men’s identity. And women have a very hard time empathizing with the male experience. So your response is not very surprising. Telling men to just deal with a sexless existence is not realistic when there are options to satisfying his sexual urges. Women regularly use systems which rely on men trapped in poverty and trying to feed their children. But that suffering is invisible to them. When men try to discuss our struggles, women often react …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 05:47 AM
-2

Most men these days are starved for sex. So if real love isn’t an option they will take easy sex instead
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 05:15 AM
1

Screw that he’s already paid for plenty
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:32 PM
1

I know girls who will let a guy take her out and spend money on her, then hook up with another guy later that night. OP, this is quite possibly happening to you.
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:24 PM
1

When women start treating broke platonic guy friends to free food, we might start to take your opinion seriously
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:17 PM
3

They should stop trying, it's pathetic. I agree! I'm sick of women shaming men for our natural attraction to younger women. It never seems to be young women who do this, it's always women who are older and envious of the younger women. But of course it's never the young women's responsibility, they are treated like helpless victims with no agency whenever it's convenient to do so. So it's always the man's fault, because it's fashionable to shit on men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:57 PM
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Now you're saying that it's dumb for people to want to be with the partners they find most attractive? That's not only absurd; it's hypocritical because women do the exact same thing... they seek out the most attractive possible men to partner with. Just because you are not attracted to youth the same way that men are doesn't mean that you are morally superior to men and that men have nefarious reasons for being attracted to women in the prime of their childbearing years. Stop demonizing men for…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:40 AM
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You're trying to justify why you like younger women. It's all because of good things and none of the weird or bad things, you say. Of course you would. Yet another woman over 30 who is trying to shame men who are attracted to women in their 20s. We have evolved to find women in their 20s to be the most attractive. It's really as simple as that. No amount of shaming attempts is going to change that basic fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:16 AM
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And then she’ll divorce you if she’s not sufficiently attracted. This is why I hide my net worth from the women I date. I’d prefer to be rejected by gold diggers and FDS types as early as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:35 PM
3

But he needs a base level of physical attraction, right? You’re not getting turned on by a fat neckbeard with a 180 IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:33 PM
7

FDS tries to insult certain types of women by calling them “pick me” girls. I prefer to call them “wife material”. Because I actively avoid women who act in the ways that FDS promotes.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 07:52 AM
1

95+% of men get married at least once in their lives. Do you have a source for that stat? Because I found one which gives a figure closer to 78%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:24 PM
1

No, you're implying that I'm into sexual harrassment and rape on these shaky ass grounds, because you suck at making actual arguments and the feminists taught you to jump to personal attacks. I can guarantee you that almost none of them would ever look at a sexist fuck with your attitude. LOL. I've fucked women who are married to super feminist men. They make good husbands, because they don't try to "control" their women and prevent them from hanging out with male "friends." Your future wife's b…
/r/AntiFeminists17/09/21 08:05 AM
1

Ah, another insufferable male feminist. Sounds like you're in your early 20s and you haven't actually experienced many women yet. You probably think that declaring yourself a feminist makes you super desirable to the ladies. Boy, are you in for a reality check. You think that a guy not wanting to marry a sex worker is "all for slut shaming" and now you're bringing sexual harassment and rape into the discussion for some unknown reason? Sounds like you're projecting all kinds of nefarious shit on …
/r/AntiFeminists17/09/21 07:43 AM
2

Another example of the oppressive patriarchy at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:18 PM
1

No, that's nonsense. I'm allowed to have a preference for a woman who isn't fucking other men for money. And that preference does not mean that I'm trying to objectify and control her. Project your uber-woke bullshit elsewhere. You sound like a sock puppet. Are you actually a female sex worker trying to convince men to wife up women like you? Your shaming tactics are useless on me, it's not going to change my natural aversion to committing to promiscuous woman.
/r/AntiFeminists16/09/21 11:27 AM
1

Go marry a former sex worker then. Let us know how it works out for you
/r/AntiFeminists15/09/21 09:28 PM
0

I absolutely agree. I’m tired of these bullshit attitudes from modern feminist influenced women and that’s why I left the USA to find a more feminine girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:17 PM
1

Yeah I also wanted to date a stripper in college. But I know for a fact that in the world of adult men, a man with a wife who was a former stripper or adult star would not be well respected. There’s a reason high status men avoid committing to promiscuous women.
/r/AntiFeminists15/09/21 09:15 PM
1

This is absolutely the right answer. I don’t understand why women have such a hard time understanding this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:57 PM
1

I'm pretty sure that your "plenty" is still a minority. I can't think of many men of status who willingly marry former strippers or sex workers. If you want to do that, go right on ahead and find out how that works out for you.
/r/AntiFeminists15/09/21 06:15 PM
1

because plenty of guys want a woman who's slept with everyone What do you mean by "want"? Men will have sex with these women, but generally won't marry them. This distinction is very important yet many women tend to be oblivious about this.
/r/AntiFeminists15/09/21 01:30 PM
1

what else can you offer besides a paycheck we can't touch, degrees we can't use and debt we don't want? This is a great line.
/r/AntiFeminists15/09/21 01:26 PM
1

I’ve never heard this before, can you link some kind of source please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:18 PM
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And a society full of single mothers and men who are unwilling to marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:02 AM
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This is talking about hypergamy. Women want to marry a man who makes more money than they do. They will often stay single rather than "marrying down." This has been observed across many cultures and many different time periods, which points to it being based in biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:01 AM
2

And also, "strive to be the best version of yourself"
/r/seduction10/09/21 10:04 PM
1

Yes. I've known several chads, and the amount of sex they get is astonishing.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 09:08 AM
3

If the Earth was a plane, travel companies would have offered expensive tours to see the edge of the known world by now.
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/21 09:59 PM
2

Methinks a sealion has appeared. Let's find out!
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/21 09:56 PM
1

Sounds like we've had very similar experiences with dating and red pill.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 06:14 PM
1

I always tell men that if they want advice on how to be better with women, get laid more, get a high quality girlfriend, etc. don’t ask women for advice. Ask for advice from the guy who is really good with women. Same with the whole “don’t ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman.” I absolutely agree. I got downvoted for saying something like that on a recent post. The post was made by a woman who was complaining about how men don't take dating advice from women. A lot of women will…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 01:59 PM
1

Yes, women disincentive it with their own behavior, and then complain that men won't do it. And then they downvote those who speak the truth. This is part of why men find it hard to take many women seriously when they try to give advice to men: because their words and actions are so incongruent.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 07:52 AM
3

And it's the fault of the Mercedes dealer that they are stuck at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:43 PM
6

This is the way. I can tell this comes from a man with experience.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:08 PM
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Me: *Notes an observation about women* You: It's your fault because of the women you're chasing. Other Bad things are going to happen to you, too. Isn't it funny how these responses always find a way for a man to be at fault, rather than holding women to be accountable for anything?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 02:25 AM
1

After such brilliant use of shaming tactics and emotional arguments, your eloquence and use of emojis is truly impressive. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:23 PM
1

K 😂 You are clearly a master debater.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:40 PM
1

No, you're just making assumptions about me and finding a convenient reason to dismiss my argument with an ad hominem and an emotionally manipulative use of fake pity. I've witnessed multiple men in my life who have been financially ruined by divorce. This doesn't mean that I hate women, it means that I have rightfully concluded that marriage is a bad deal for men with massive downside. Too many women refuse to hear this viewpoint and dismiss it as misogyny, because that aligns better with their…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:38 PM
1

When this alternate masculinity gets men laid, it will become more popular
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 07:35 AM
4

And I think it’s gross that women expect to meet a successful man and then have exclusive access to his money when she didn’t help earn it. And she can take half of it in a divorce! That’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:40 PM
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If a woman wants to enjoy casual sex in their 20s, that's fine. Just be prepared to accept the consequences of that decision. A lot of women hit 35/40 with kids and no husband, and then they feel entitled to marry a financially successful man who was building his career while she was partying with other men in her 20s. And then they get angry when that man doesn't want to commit to her. Again, you can see many examples of this mentality in the women who call in to Kevin Samuels. Or in the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:32 PM
1

Are you a woman, how do you know so much about what women do? I'm a man with many years of life experience dating various women (including single mothers), and I've studied evolutionary biology and how it relates to sexuality. Early in my life, getting women was difficult. As I became more successful in my career, women became much more interested in me. And single mothers started to pursue me. Including ones who had rejected me earlier in life. It's incredibly obvious based on personal experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:13 PM
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No, not really. The emotions and instincts we have surrounding reproduction are too powerful to ignore or attempt to socialize away. This is like telling women that it's unfair discrimination to not desire shorter men. You can try to argue or shame them all you want with talk about being "developed and evolved" but it's not really going to change their preference. And it's going to be rather obvious if a short guy is pushing this agenda that he's doing so for selfish reasons, just like women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:00 PM
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Women who have slept with a lot of men are not being rejected the way you say they are. Hell I know a married sex worker 🤣 So what? I know men who would be willing to marry a sex worker. Mostly because they don't have many other options. Just because a few exceptions to a rule can be found, it does not invalidate that the rule is true for the vast majority of cases. I bet your married sex worker friend is not with a high-status man who is desired by many other attractive women. She could have do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:57 PM
2

No, cuckoldry is extremely common throughout the animal kingdom. It’s been an issue as long as there have been females and it’s especially pronounced in species like ours which require high paternal investment. If cuckoldry was uncommon, males of various species would not have evolved strong instincts related to preventing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:44 PM
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If they’re single now they’re paying for their own kids. Why does that change when dating? If it does then men can say no. This viewpoint sounds incredibly naive. Most men hearing this would laugh, especially if they had dated single mothers before. Have you ever listened to Kevin Samuels? He constantly has women calling in to his show who are single mothers, and they universally want a "High Value Man" who makes a lot of money so that they can provide for them and their children. ​ For a single…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:32 PM
3

The red pill emphasizes things like lifting weights, being confident, holding frame, and not putting women on a pedestal. And you're trying to tell us this only works on women with personality disorders? Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:23 PM
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No, it's not. The real losers are men who have been tricked into investing in another man's kids for years, thinking they were his own. This is way worse than being a single dad or being childless. This is a deep, instinctual fear that men have. Due to our paternal uncertainty, we have evolved to be very concerned about traits in women which are risk factors for cuckoldry. And one of those traits is a promiscuous past. When women argue that men should "get over this", it's so obviously due to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:15 PM
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So what? This is a false equivalence. The issue with single mothers is that they typically expect their next man to pay for the previous man's kids. This is not as much of an issue with single fathers - they are not typically looking for financially successful women to provide for another woman's children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:08 PM
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It does though. Polygamous societies are plagued by violence and crime as men without women resort to desperate means in order to get access to women. Men who have a family to support are motivated to work hard and contribute to a better community. This causes a stable society which advances more quickly. Monogamy results in stronger societies which outcompete other societal structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:59 PM
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This shows that they are more likely to drop out of there are fewer women in the classes. It says nothing about creepy professors and grade discrimination. That probably explains some of the effect, but saying that is preventing an entire industry from having women is quite a stretch. Also you don't need a degree to become a programmer. I've hired self taught programmers before. I've never encountered a self taught female programmer though. I tutored a girlfriend briefly but she lost interest in…
/r/MensRights22/08/21 09:10 AM
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Imagine complaining that you were unable to pursue a high paying career because you didn't see people like you doing it on television. So now there has been that hacker girl on NCIS, should we expect a flood of goth girls in tech?
/r/MensRights22/08/21 08:51 AM
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Ok, is there evidence for that besides anecdotes?
/r/MensRights21/08/21 02:18 PM
1

More important for what? Getting an invite to “just be friends?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:59 AM
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I have not previously witnessed it, but I admit that workplace sexism probably exists. Are you saying that this is the main reason why the people who choose to enter STEM careers are 90% male? Because I think a much better explanation is that women are free to choose what interests them, and they prefer other subjects to STEM. This can be seen in Finland, which is extremely egalitarian and feminist. In that country, despite significant efforts to balance the sex ratio in various careers, there i…
/r/MensRights21/08/21 11:55 AM
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I think people are too quick to dismiss someone as sexist simply because they challenge feminist talking points.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 11:37 AM
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They tend to jump into shaming language quickly if you dare to challenge them. Pickme if you’re a woman, incel if you’re a man. Ad hominem attacks are a clear sign of a losing argument
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/21 10:46 AM
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Yes well high paying careers are competitive and require dealing with people who are not always friendly. I’ve encountered lots of male assholes in the software world. If you want to be successful in a competitive environment you need a thick skin. Do women think that attaining significant career success is easy and comfortable for men? Men don’t get to make excuses that they aren’t successful because people at work hurt their feelings.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 10:42 AM
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She sounds really oppressed
/r/MensRights21/08/21 10:10 AM
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There’s lots of six figure jobs in software but women are far less likely to pursue those careers, even when colleges are trying to recruit women into STEM. I guess it’s easier to play victim and blame the “patriarchy” for everything.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 10:09 AM
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And feminism relies heavily on the apex fallacy.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 10:06 AM
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I agree. People are best served by accepting reality and adapting to it. All the best dating advice is self improvement. Im a guy who gained a bunch of weight during the pandemic and noticed that my dating success got worse. How should I deal with this? I could work to lose weight and become more attractive to women. Or I could whine about how unfair it is that women are not trying to date fat guys and try to shame them into accepting me. I’ve encountered many women lately who choose to do the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:47 AM
1

But what actually ruined the relationship? How did the other partner find out?
/r/MensRights19/08/21 02:59 PM
2

You have an opportunity to learn this lesson the easy way
/r/MensRights19/08/21 01:21 PM
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This is what happens to people who are never held accountable for their actions
/r/MensRights19/08/21 01:20 PM
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I have absolutely no problem with women pursuing the men who’s vibe they are more attracted to, but own it and be honest about it! Stop trying to avoid accountability for your decisions. You are adults. Stop trying to convince men that what they’re clearly seeing in front of their eyes is a figment of their imagination. This right here. This resonates with me. I'm so tired of trying to talk about the realities of dating with women who seem unwilling to admit what I can witness with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:23 PM
4

So he should do free labor for the slim chance of sexual rewards? Maybe she should just pay up front
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 05:55 PM
4

Let them go topless AND get drafted. Equality!
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:38 PM
5

Smash the matriarchy! I mean, patriarchy!
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:29 PM
5

What in the actual cuck?!
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 05:49 AM
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I know, right?! For $10k you can have sex with 100 different "entertainers" in Tijuana. And many of them are hotter than this woman.
/r/MensRights27/07/21 01:17 PM
1

A strange way, you have chosen; to order those words, and add punctuation
/r/MensRights27/07/21 12:58 PM
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if she declines you, tell her "it sucks but I'm not comfortable being just your friend" , she'll definitely respect you more after that Regardless of how she reacts, this is the path of wisdom. If you accept an offer of "let's just be friends," she will often want to talk to you about other men she is hooking up with, which is a special kind of hell. I made that mistake a few times. One woman seemed to treat me more like a free therapist than an actual friend. Once I took away all the conversati…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:34 AM
1

Found the scientologist.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 08:26 AM
1

Yep, MGTOW doesn't recruit, we just watch them arrive (after they have had personal experience with modern women)
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 10:07 PM
5

Red pillers don't care about the correctness of the analysis as long as the advice gets them laid.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 04:49 AM
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The cheapest sex is the sex you pay for.
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:23 AM
1

It wasn't claiming that women only want money. It was explaining that if a women is attracted to a guy's job, then she is attracted to the money / security / comfort associated with that job, which is the betabux strategy. Women enthusiastically offer sex and genuine desire to the rock star. They'll marry Billy the accountant since he provides security, but Billy does not have groupies following him around, throwing panties at him while he does their taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:09 PM
1

Oh, I think the power and the hot mistress are definitely part of the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:54 PM
1

Why would she need to stay home with no kids if she could be out earning so they could retire early or live the high life? She would rather stay home all day and spend his money. Working or having kids is not as fun
/r/MGTOW212/07/21 06:45 PM
7

Free Dinner Strategy F'ing Delusional Spinsters Females Desiring Simps
/r/MGTOW212/07/21 04:46 PM
1

And then she will complain that he doesn't do half of the housework.
/r/MGTOW212/07/21 04:40 PM
1

I mean, all human evolution points out that if women could have done it better then we would have a female-dominated world by now. Successful systems replace disfunctional systems, this is the core principle behind evolution of civilizations in a nutshell. There have been matriarchal societies throughout history. But most people can't even name one. And even if you've studied them, which ones can you hold up as thriving and being worthy of emulation? If putting women in power results in a better…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:13 AM
0

Can you link to some historical evidence for this view of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:58 AM
6

yeah, why in the world would a smart, financially secure man do such a thing?!
/r/MensRights02/07/21 04:47 AM
3

oh, just like her boyfriend had, years ago?
/r/MensRights02/07/21 04:46 AM
7

I have a good friend who is bisexual and he often tells me how easy it is to hookup with men and how he doesn’t even know where to start with women. I’m like, dude… they’re not worth the hassle. If you like men too, stick with them.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 10:19 PM
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>> You speak like someone who has never been seduced by a narcissist. > A tad bit dramatic no? No, it's not. More people need to be educated on the danger of narcissistic relationships. > Thus, if you are smart enough to navigate this world you are smart enough to know when you are being taken advantage of in personal relationships Yeah, no shit. That's why I didn't marry her. And when she realized that I wasn't falling into her trap, her mask came off and I saw the disgusting reality of who she…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:18 PM
1

You speak like someone who has never been seduced by a narcissist. Or someone who doesn't understand that a man can be gifted at book learning and yet not understand how women work. And there are lots of high school dropouts who find it easy to get into relationships. Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:21 PM
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well played
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:26 AM
8

Um... how much experience do you have with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:20 AM
2

Nah, I thought I was ready to be a parent 5-10 years ago but now I'm really enjoying the freedom of having plenty of money and no child-related responsibilities. I think that having a kid is bad solution to loneliness. It just seems like a way to add a huge burden of responsibility to my life which will make it harder to have quality time with other adults. Plus when I see the trends of climate change and overpopulation, I think the world is better off without me bringing more humans into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:53 AM
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yep I know Ivy League CS majors who can't get a date, have no motivation to work although they make 200K a year. No incentive anymore. Yeah I found myself in a similar situation a few years ago. I was making great money but after a string of bad experiences with women, I lost my ambition and motivation to keep working on my career. As I made more money, I started to attract gold-digger types who wouldn't bother with me when I was younger. My high school crush came back into my life when I was ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:07 AM
1

Reddit won't let you? What do you mean exactly?
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 04:03 AM
0

Jesus is coming back! Everybody, look busy!
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 03:31 PM
0

Then a bunch of incest happened, then God told a guy to build a boat so he could do some genocide, Tower of Babel caused all the languages, yadda yadda… Cool story bro
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 02:02 PM
0

received that wisdom from God, directly. :) And God made women to be like this, because He's perfect and stuff?
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 06:28 AM
5

Ah, so she was willing to have a threesome with other guys but not you. I've had a woman tell me this before. So I told her that I was willing to take previous girlfriends on fancy vacations, but not her.
/r/MGTOW222/06/21 08:12 PM
1

Socializing with people is not a magical / supernatural phenomenon. It can be analyzed scientifically. Science is our best method for separating what is true and false. That includes human behavior. Also, Anti science rhetoric is damaging our society. I proudly stand with Science
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:49 PM
1

Yes, many of us do think that scientific research is superior to a few people's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:17 PM
1

Shrooms, Lsd, and 2cb are fun to have sex on too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:05 PM
5

Yes, viagra + mdma makes for an awesome sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:12 PM
1

Things are happening that you don't like, so you invent this story that it's all the result of a coordinated intentional plan by the "elite"? We live in a complex world with lots of things happening. It's tempting to grasp at simple explanations like "all the bad stuff is happening because of a group of evil elites". That doesn't make it true. Obsession with conspiracy theories is poison for the mind and it's way too common these days.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 06:45 PM
2

Agreed. Playing the provider game is a bad strategy for men to get laid. If anything it causes women to hold off on sex. I have a guy friend who is fairly attractive. In his early 20s he was broke but pulling lots of women for ONSs. They thought he was hot so it didn't matter when they got back to his basic apartment, they were happy to have sex right away. A few years later his career had advanced considerably and he moved to a much nicer place. He told me that he immediately noticed a change: …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:42 PM
1

And what man doesn't want to feel special by having sex with the woman he just took out to dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:21 PM
1

cool, then we should normalize dating where the men are not expected to make so many transactions in order to make a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:29 PM
5

A guy who has seen a prostitute knows how to get his needs met, from various women, for a set payment. A guy about to marry thinks he's going to get his needs met, but in reality he's giving a huge amount of power to one specific woman who gets to choose when or if his needs get met, and also she gets cash and prizes if the marriage falls apart. Even if she cheats. Of course women hate prostitutes. They are an enemy to the pussy cartel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:30 AM
3

Capitalism creates wealth. It lifts entire societies out of subsistence and poverty. Then the Marxists come along and say, "Oh look at how unfair this society is. We'll make it fair. Those greedy rich people are the problem. Let's take their money." And if they are given power, they take a free and prosperous society and turn it into one that is oppressed and impoverished.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 03:34 AM
5

Nah hell is slightly colder than Saudi Arabia.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 03:26 AM
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they spend all day wailing about the nonexistent Male privilege and how its males who are blind. Feminism is a lot like Marxism. They are constantly complaining about systematic oppression by an oppressive class of others, even in places where those others no longer have as much power. They need an enemy to rally the troops. Similarly, Feminists want to "smash the patriarchy" just like communists want to overthrow capitalism to create a supposed utopia. We learned with the communists that the ut…
/r/MensRights09/06/21 03:25 AM
1

I would rather vote for a trained monkey over Trump, because the monkey would do a better job and throw less poop then that narcissistic imbecile. Good to know that he’ll probably be in prison soon for his many crimes. Btw it’s “you’re“. It’s funny how quick you are to insult someone’s intelligence when you haven’t even mastered your native language yet. That’s a unbelievable amount of families trying to transition their kid. Maybe they’re afraid the boys will turn out like you. Or maybe you’re …
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 09:38 PM
3

Buy a dog, die alone.
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 01:17 PM
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Yeah women like to reframe this as being "threatened" or "intimidated" as if it's a defect in the man. But that's not how we see it. A woman who is combative or argumentative is simply less attractive to us as a long term partner. Most of us want a feminine woman who cultivates an environment of peace and refuge. We don't want one with masculine energy we constantly have to struggle with.
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 08:55 PM
0

Now we have mentally ill parents transitioning their 12yo daughters or sons to trans because it’s hip and they can now be part of the LGBTQ+ community. Sounds like you're reading a lot of right-wing fear porn if you're worried about this kind of thing
/r/MGTOW203/06/21 06:35 PM
5

Your use of precise language and ability to admit when you’re wrong remind me of so many women that I’ve encountered before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:19 PM
5

Saying that women don’t like handsome men because they have harems is like saying that no one goes downtown anymore because it’s too crowded.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:08 PM
4

Ah, so when you say "WE don’t gaf about handsome men" you really mean that YOU, personally, don't like handsome men because too many other women are interested in them. And you found this out because you initially DID "gaf about them" You call us liars when we say what we want so 🤷‍♀️ Perhaps this could be because what you say doesn't really match what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:34 PM
3

If you don’t GAF about handsome men, why would you even be asking about their availability?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:29 PM
2

So if women don’t care about handsome men, how do they have harems, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:19 PM
6

Because we don’t gaf about handsome men. They have harems and the clap. Ah, so all the observation evidence about women's preferences must be wrong. Thanks for clearing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:36 AM
2

If it comes on tiny stamps then no, that acid is magic
/r/MensRights23/05/21 06:35 PM
1

Alkalattack
/r/MensRights23/05/21 06:30 PM
3

Poison disrupts the working of a biological system in a harmful way. Acid melts many materials by disrupting chemical bonds. It wants to give protons away which steals electrons and breaks molecules apart
/r/MensRights23/05/21 06:28 PM
12

I’m a man and I don’t understand why you think pick me girls are unappealing to us. Are you getting this from FDS perhaps? I actively avoid women who act like what FDS advises.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:29 PM
14

Females Dying Single
/r/MensRights19/05/21 11:42 PM
1

The only women I’ve wanted to marry would have been terrible choices for marriage. So maybe I have have a broken picker. And maybe young people high on hormones and lust aren’t competent at picking life partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:38 PM
1

Do you live in a place where prostitution is legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:43 AM
1

He mostly lives rent free in the heads of his cult members, especially the Qcumbers
/r/MensRights27/04/21 02:44 AM
-6

He's talking about that guy who lost the 2020 election for US President and then spent months claiming it was fraudulent, but was consistently unable to produce any evidence of these claims in front of the many judges his lawyers appeared in front of. The guy with a strong reputation for lying, being ignorant of most subjects, and defrauding clients. The guy who is no longer allowed to operate a charity due to fraud. That guy used to say that the media is the enemy of the people, because they da…
/r/MensRights26/04/21 09:20 PM
1

Yes but the point is that what women say and what they do are often inconsistent. Men care about looks and we tend to be honest about that fact.
/r/MGTOW226/04/21 12:48 AM
26

I always find it funny how women say that gender roles are rooted in sexism but the vast majority still want them in their dating life. Exactly! They can't seem to admit that maybe gender roles exist because of biology, including the mate preferences of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:59 PM
18

Are you the type that needs to make everything political? Or is Biden actually relevant to this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:46 PM
22

And culture is just peer pressure from dead people
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:04 PM
5

What is minmax...... They meant that basically they are treating dating like a mathematical optimization problem.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:41 AM
11

FTSIO (Fuck This Shit, I'm Out) On the same theme, a common saying in that sub is: "Enjoy the Decline"
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:35 AM
24

Free Dinner Strategy? They did you a favor.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:33 AM
0

Losing the social debate? Who cares winning an argument when they're winning the war?
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:30 AM
6

Of course, as a feminist this girl believed people like him needed to be killed. When I asked her if she was serious she confirmed it, adamantly supporting mass extermination. I have trouble believing this is real. But if it is, it puts the term "feminazi" in a new light. Why aren't you mentioning the details of these groups?
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:27 AM
19

Let's call it what is. It's bigotry. This particular type of bigotry is currently fashionable, for now at least.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:25 AM
6

Like we have a fundamental moral failure built into us (hence the previous commenter’s comparison to racism) that we have to be taught to resist or something. Yes, and I would add that there are many people with personality disorders where they lack things like empathy for others, and are therefore much more likely to be rapists. The jail population has a much higher percentage of psychopaths and sociopaths than the general population, which means they are much more likely to commit crimes like …
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:20 AM
126

I really dislike arguing feminism with most women, because they often lack empathy for men's issues and without even a willingness to see from a man's perspective, the discussion is largely pointless.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:06 AM
1

Never talk to the police without a lawyer. Anything you tell the police can be used against you, but it can never be used to help you. Bringing evidence to the police, with which you could possibly be charged of a crime, and talking to them without a lawyer present, is the height of foolishness.
/r/MensRights18/04/21 02:04 PM
8

Can we get a TL;DR?
/r/MensRights15/04/21 04:56 AM
22

I feel any man is a king I disagree. Not every man is a king, not every woman is a queen. Some people have great character, others have terrible character and you don't want them in your life. Telling everyone to refer to themselves as "king" or "queen" devalues the terms and encourages people to be delusional in their expectations from others.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 02:14 AM
11

Kevin Samuels That man is speaking the truth to women like few other men can or will.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 02:08 AM
5

Maybe because it's a low effort post
/r/MensRights04/04/21 02:03 PM
2

but he doesn't get the love, devotion, affection, monogamy, time, trust, company, and support, or extremely high level of respect given to the right man. Sex is ALL that the fwb is getting. Wow, you make LTRs / marriage sound amazing. If this were all true, I would expect there to be many men singing the praises of marriage to other men. And furthermore, I would expect the men who get lots of casual sex to talk about how unfulfilling it is. As it happens, I know several men right now who are ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:19 PM
0

Put out by the third date, youre a slut. LOL I have never seen the opinion that a woman is a slut if she puts out on the second or third date in the red pill community. It may be expressed there but it certainly isn't common. The more common viewpoint is that the more attracted she is to you, the faster she will have sex with you. So just because she made one guy wait, it doesn't mean she will make all men wait. And if she makes you wait a long time, it means that she isn't very attracted to you…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 04:59 PM
3

You know what else affects a man's entire lineage? Being cuckolded. From the perspective of our genes, this is a fate equivalent to death. Which is why men have evolved powerful emotions to prevent becoming a cuckold. This is why men experience intense sexual jealousy and why we instinctively avoid falling in love with women who have a high body count. There were likely men in the ancient past who did not care if their women had sex with other men. And ones who gladly committed to promiscuous wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:01 PM
4

Why do women need to know how much money men have and what our job is? Is it your finances? No. Of course, our partner should know if we can afford to pay for the basics of life but whether a man shares his real job or whether he lives with his parents is 100% up to the discretion of that individual. It is their experience, their life. Some women just find alternate ways to judge us and demean us, with finances being another example. Let’s do better, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:25 PM
4

They don't say to have sex freely with anyone. This is not what we are talking about though. We are talking about how women will make a guy wait for sex if he is "relationship material" while also having FWB relationships with other men. Men used to assume that if a woman made HIM wait for sex, that meant that she would make ALL men wait for sex and therefore was more likely to be a faithful wife. And if she gave sex away easily, she would be like that for other men, too. Which means that the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:32 PM
17

People respond to incentives. If women collectively make "High Value" guys wait for sex while having sex freely with other guys, then they are incentivizing men to avoid being considered as "High Value". So FDS is basically a strategy which selects for easily manipulated, foolish men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:19 PM
13

She's a pickmesha! Off with her head!
/r/MensRights27/03/21 04:07 PM
3

Big Pimp Energy over here. This deserves more upvotes
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 08:03 PM
2

There's a classic post on the Rational Male which your situation reminds me about: Saving the Best
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 07:53 PM
12

Group of men hit on a woman who is alone: Creepy harrassment. Group of men ignore a woman who is alone: The fuck?! They must be gay.
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 05:27 PM
-6

You're offering feminism as an alternative for men who want to improve their dating life? Um, no. A lot of men who wind up taking the red pill start out as feminists. They are often forced to re-examine their worldview after painful dating experiences show them that they don't understand female nature.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/21 05:12 PM
1

Then why are you trying to brag about having sex with some poor unhealthy women? "Poor unhealthy women"? "Bragging?" You keep trying to invent all these details in order to make emotionally manipulative arguments. I was explaining, for the benefit of other men, about the reality of dating women in the western world. They will often sleep quickly with a man to whom they are attracted, while stringing along other men who take them on romantic dates (in order to make him think they are not easy to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:13 PM
1

Nothing to brag about. Better hide this information. I don't give a fuck what you think about me, random internet person. And I'm certainly not asking for your advice. Nah. I don't date promiscuous men and don't have much to fight about. Also, I am pretty good at having long term relationships with no drama. Yeah, sure you are. You're the perfect queen of perfectville who never does anything wrong, ever. And your hobby is going on the internet and talking shit to anonymous strangers to try and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:30 PM
2

And yet you sleep around because you mostly attract women who are unpleasant. You don't know anything about whom I "mostly attract." And it's not relevant to the discussion. Take your assumptions elsewhere. You sound like the type of woman who will always find a way to blame a man rather than holding a woman responsible for her own behavior. I can already picture how frustrating it must be for the men in your life when arguments occur. Then you are not attracted. We are talking about sexual attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:17 PM
2

I was talking about women to whom I'm attracted but won't date. I wasn't asking "Where have all the nice girls gone?" The women who are pleasant company are the ones who become my girlfriend. It seems that you are more concerned with attempting an insult instead of having a meaningful conversation. Nice try, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:17 PM
2

"it's like my dad always said... the brothers who fuck together, stay together"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 03:07 PM
3

"not attracted but don't mind to use her for sex." No, "attraction" is not the right word. If I wasn't attracted to her, I wouldn't have sex with her. There are MANY women whom I'm attracted to and would have sex with, yet I don't consider them good relationship partners due to their personality. Often, specifically, because they have a sense of entitlement or they are simply unpleasant to be around for very long. Does this mean that I'm "using them for sex"? No. I don't owe a woman anything sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:46 PM
1

the stories you hear of a woman asking a group of men to invite their friends to bang her out I never hear these stories. Sounds like a porn situation. Are you hearing them online or in your social circle?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/21 08:09 PM
3

The linked comment is well written and I agree. Also it was a shock to me how many married women are actively looking for men to have an affair with. I was already wary of marriage after seeing guys around me go through bad divorces. Realizing how often married women cheat, and how easily they can get away with it, was one of the final nails in the coffin. Woman think very few men are worthy of easy casual sex. And men need to realize that very few women are worthy of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:38 PM
3

No, men will typically only sleep with women they have some attraction to. The bar is simply higher for a woman he pursues for an LTR. Yes, an inexperienced man will try to win a very attractive woman over by any means necessary if he wants an LTR. A more experienced man, however, knows that over investing in a woman is a bad strategy. You might “win her over” for awhile but it’s likely going to be a one sided relationship. She’ll be using you for your resources. This often leads to things like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:29 PM
2

The best relationships are those in which both parties are immediately interested and both state their intentions clearly and honestly. The couple has sex immediately and the guy commits immediately. I agree, this is my ideal relationship pattern and unfortunately this experience is relatively rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:34 PM
1

He didn't say that he would never pay for dates. He said that she wouldn't EXPECT him to pay for dates. That is a very crucial point. In other words, many of us are actively filtering out women who follow the advice of the Free Dinner Strategy sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:30 PM
1

Generally she's a risky deal. She looks for sex and ignored all other traits which she should to pay attention to. I don't consider that "risky" at all. Because sex is the benefit I'm seeking as a man, and everything else in dating is the cost I'm paying to get that benefit. The riskiest women are those who are all cost and no benefit. They make you spend lots of time, money, and attention on them without getting any sex in return. This is the reason why men complain about the "friend zone" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:21 PM
4

A LTR that treats you like a casual sex partner is not the sort of partner that will take care of you when you're sick. I was with a woman who proclaimed that she would love me forever and support me through any struggles. Then life sent me a struggle and she reacted by immediately (and secretly) looking for her next man while continuing to proclaim her intention to be there for me. Men tend to learn the hard way that expecting a woman to act out of loyalty or gratitude is often a foolish expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:00 PM
16

Being a whore is not a problem for me. However, it's a problem, when later you try to shame men into treating you differently. Don't get mad at me for not wanting to buy the cow if everybody else has been getting the milk for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:30 PM
1

What guys don't want is a girl that was super easy and slutty for other men and only becomes the modest good girl for them. That's the polar opposite of what guys want. Exactly. This is why you hear stories of men who discover how their wife used to be much more sexually open before marriage, and willing to do things with other men that she won't do for her husband. Learning this typically causes the man to be disgusted and it destroys the marriage. And for many of us other men, it makes us incr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:28 PM
9

Good luck with that. Let us know when her Water Buffalo gets sick and needs expensive treatment from the vet.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 05:59 PM
2

Not if you say "no homo" afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:53 PM
13

Yeah except many of the single mothers I know got bored with their husband and had an affair which ruined the marriage. Even if she is blameless, she's bringing a massive responsibility to the table, so unless she's offering an amazing benefit to being with her instead of other women, it's a net negative.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 03:19 PM
-1

A guy who recognizes and filters out women playing the Free Dinner Strategy games is a man who respects himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:27 PM
1

That’s the spirit, bro
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/21 07:07 AM
-3

I didn't intend to pursue a married woman, actually... she was the one pursuing me from the start. And by that point she was already having an affair with a man she worked with. She asked me out and started the lovebombing very early on, while I was dealing with the grief of my father dying. I feel remorse for breaking up a marriage, but in truth, she was already looking for a way out before I got involved.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/21 08:06 PM
14

I came so close to proposing to my dream girl. She was my high school crush and we reunited 15 years after graduation when she was growing tired of her marriage. She pursued me and professed her love for me. I was hooked instantly and fell hard for her. I didn't catch the many red flags that she was a narcissist: her chameleon-like behavior, sudden fits of rage (which made me walk on eggshells), and constant bragging about herself. She was the most gorgeous women who had ever been interested in …
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/21 07:35 PM
15

By that logic, the Democratic Republic of North Korea is a Democratic Republic.
/r/MensRights10/03/21 02:13 PM
4

Dyslexics of the world, untie!
/r/MensRights10/03/21 06:28 AM
5

They just redefine sexism to exclude things which benefit women. Double plus good.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 02:56 PM
2

You underestimate how easy it is for women to hide affairs.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/21 03:53 PM
4

Affair Partner. The most common reason that women decide to leave a relationship while giving nonsensical explanations.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/21 03:52 PM
25

Female Dating Strategy. But BadOman’s comment is accurate, it might as well stand for Free Dinner Strategy
/r/MensRights06/03/21 11:04 PM
3

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:25 PM
17

Better life goals? Fuck that. I’m 40 and travel full time. I have over $1M net worth. I could be working hard to be richer but why? So a woman can take my money in a divorce? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:34 PM
7

Men know that many of their friends are getting laid quickly without going on lots of dates first. So if a girl wants to take it slow, it’s tempting to think that she is uninterested or simply enjoying the attention without having a real interest. After 3 dates, if she’s not going to meet my needs for intimacy, why should I keep meeting her needs for romance? Especially when the competition will meet my needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:08 AM
1

Maybe r/offmydick will be more accepting
/r/MensRights25/02/21 04:58 AM
1

Man bad, woman good.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 04:56 AM
2

Or profiles with only their instagram handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:29 PM
2

Well, they do exist. A trophy wife is when a beautiful woman marries a financially well-off man. In essence, she uses her body to attract a man with resources. We almost never see the opposite situation, where a physically attractive man marries a less attractive but wealthy woman. Why is this? It's because men and women have different priorities when it comes to mating, and therefore when you are trying to make an analogy in which men and women are switched, you need to substitute one priority …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:06 PM
8

Hmm, I don’t remember any showing up to 6th grade career day though. Yeah, but I bet there were some trophy wives there. Or is that another phenomenon that you just learned about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:18 AM
15

Wait till you learn about the world's oldest profession! It turns out that people are willing to trade one for the other!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:06 AM
24

I wonder how she would feel if she had worked hard to develop the relationship but he was not paying for dates or giving her the attention she craved, and then she found out he was buying expensive gifts and taking other women out on the amazing, romantic dates which she dreamed of experiencing. Women whom he claimed to not really care much about. Or at least not as much as he cared about her. Would she feel like maybe his value as a partner had suddenly plummeted? And that she had basically bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:40 AM
33

She couldn't understand why he broke things off with her, because she really liked him, and was taking it slow because she liked him "He very much wants to have sex exclusively with me and he's willing to work really hard for it. How on Earth could he have a problem with me handing it out for free to random strangers who don't care about me?" - Her, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:29 AM
10

And a short skirt!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:20 AM
1

Impossible? No. Difficult? Perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:16 AM
4

It’ll lead to fewer pregnancies because women will no longer have as many “accidental” pregnancies after “forgetting” to take their birth control when they know that the man is no longer automatically obligated to pay for the child
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:00 AM
1

I usually like to watch Star Wars in the theater. If she’s in one, however, I’ll just pirate it and hand out copies to my friends.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 03:33 AM
7

Lucky you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:29 PM
3

And where are the men who have experienced these women to share their experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:49 PM
14

Truth. So many women do this. Tell her a secret and she will absolutely use it against you when she is angry. Even if it has nothing to do with the argument, if there is a weapon she can use against you, she will. Even my own mother does this. And I agree, if you don't believe this, then it may because you simply don't WANT to believe it. So test it on an actual woman. Try crying in front of them and sharing an embarrassing or hurtful secret with her. Then watch what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:46 PM
14

These are wise words that many of us had to learn the hard way. Despite what she tells you, opening up to her or trying to lean on her for emotional support is highly likely to kill her attraction for you. Reminds me of an ex who made lofty declarations of love and her willingness to support me as I dealt with grief from the death of two family members. In reality she started pursuing another relationship as soon I started expressing my sadness to her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:36 PM
20

A younger version of myself would have thought the same thing about this comment. After experiences with my last few girlfriends, however, I think that this opinion is more valid than many people are willing to admit. If you're a man, and you disagree, try crying in front of a girlfriend / lover sometimes and see how she treats you afterward. Especially if she's previously told you that wants you to "be sensitive" and "emotionally available". You might be surprised by what you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:29 PM
13

Citation needed
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 09:21 AM
10

You can think of religions as self-replicating, non-biological organisms which compete with other religions and evolve. Some religions have certain traits which lead to a growth in the number of followers, like: emphasizing having children and raising them in the religion, encouraging people to gain converts, and shunning people who leave the religion. These religions grow quickly over time. Other religions which don't have these features grow more slowly over time or they fade into obscurity. F…
/r/MGTOW227/01/21 04:36 PM
5

What else do you believe? That Japan won WWII?
/r/MGTOW226/01/21 02:49 PM
5

Saint Peter don’t you call me cause I can’t go I owe my soul to this mortgage and Ho
/r/MGTOW221/01/21 04:24 PM
7

Yeah especially the more educated women in Nairobi
/r/MGTOW219/01/21 07:34 PM
2

It’s near Kisumu
/r/MGTOW219/01/21 07:33 PM
22

Do you mean hit with a shovel? Or “spayed”?
/r/MGTOW216/01/21 08:59 PM
5

By this definition I'm proud to be a man child. To the FDS types I'm a nomad / backpacker with an ok job who wears simple clothing and doesn't own a house or a car and doesn't like to spend money on women. So they assume that I'm broke and a LVM. Which is exactly my intention. Little do they know I crossed $1M net worth this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 03:14 PM
1

Literally? Are the grapes being flung at them or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:08 AM
7

women need to be the ones to approach. We need to normalize women approaching men. Women are way less likely to be rejected or accused of sexual harassment and men are WAY less likely to bitch and moan about being approached by women. Good job, I think you have may have just convinced them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:27 AM
56

That's what I think sometimes. I'm in an area with a thriving gay party scene and the gay guys I know appear to be having a great time. But the women I've been meeting here are either unattractive, narcissistic, or have some kind of glaring personality issues. Ugh.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 08:26 PM
8

Yes, this right here. In my experience, female friends are quick to ask for favors, but rarely offer help or accept requests when they are needed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:57 PM
3

The lesson I took from the Secret is that teaching people about magical thinking is very lucrative.
/r/MensRights18/12/20 03:50 PM
26

but women also need to let go of some of the privileges to be equal with men Narrator: they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:07 PM
7

you’re used to guys making the first move. That's the privileged part
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:01 PM
8

ok, but what if they never actually make it to the job interview, because they are worried about not getting the job, and there are ways of getting a job which don't require an interview? Can we conclude that they are unwilling to do the interview, due to fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 01:59 PM
8

This is true. Source: am financially secure man traveling the world appearing to be a broke backpacker
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 07:05 PM
6

r/confidentlyincorrect
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 08:44 PM
4

Men care about sex, and are willing to string along a woman they don’t really care about for low-effort sex. Women prize marriage because it weeds these guys out, which is an achievement. Plus, attention, acknowledgement, social status, a party/goodies Yes, men care about sex. We also enjoy relationships. However, I reject this notion that men are somehow bad for not wanting or delaying marriage. Many men desire a long term relationship with a woman, but we want to avoid the extremely destructiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:10 PM
3

Reminds me of a point from the book "Women's Infidelity": Women love to GET married, but they don't love BEING married. This book is a great read BTW, especially for men who are married or considering if they want to get married. It discusses the process of thought and emotion that women go through when they begin to lose interest in their husbands and begin an affair. I've shared it with women who have had affairs and they report that the book is very much spot-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:56 PM
0

Yeah if it were true, most married men would be loudly encouraging other men to get married. But instead, they typically warn other men not to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:52 PM
3

Well, the married life itself might be ok, but the divorce is usually much worse for men. Yeah and after seeing a few bad divorces, I find it very hard to believe that the supposed benefits of marriage are worth the downsides of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:51 PM
1

-women and men are viewed as equal for positions of leadership and women have about half of the political and social power First of all, it looks like you are advocating for equality of outcome, not equality of opportunity. In the US and many other western countries, women have had the right to vote for decades. Many women candidates have run for office and won. In what way is "the patriarchy" preventing women from having "half of the political and social power"? And how do you even measure "soc…
/r/MensRights02/11/20 02:36 PM
1

Ok I’ll ask another way: What does society look like after the patriarchy is smashed? What is different and what is the same?
/r/MensRights31/10/20 06:41 PM
2

They claim this, but never seem to have a good explanation of what system will replace it and how we know that it will result in less oppression. It reminds me of communist revolutionaries, who hate capitalism and convince others that it needs to be dismantled. The problem is that they replace it with a system which causes far more suffering.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 06:32 PM
1

Ok, tell a guy that his girlfriend has slept with 2 guys before him and sucked off 100 and watch his reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:49 AM
1

Maybe he can setup a Sting to trap her.
/r/MGTOW219/10/20 12:40 PM
3

"you'd look better if you smiled!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:41 AM
5

Fashism: an authoritarian political philosophy emphasizing military uniforms and traditional outfits
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:59 PM
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Oh, whoops my bad. It’s because the spirit of the devil has come upon them and women are unsolvable enigmas. There I fixed it
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 02:26 PM
2

We are a complex system yet when you look into why we have degenerated you always find the jews. Why is our immigration system retarded? Jews. Why is our education system retarded? Jews. Why have we been fighting in the Middle East for 18 years? Jews. Who did 9/11? Jews. Who controls the media that keeps pushing divisive lies? Jews. Your acting like a coward. Wow, I did Nazi that coming! Yeah, it's a complex system but ignorant racists always love pointing to simple explanations for complex thin…
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 02:01 PM
1

Who 'they' are depends on your politics. So you're claiming that there is some group of boogeymen pulling the strings, but rather than give evidence for this claim, you're telling us that we're supposed to just fill in the details according to our existing biases? No thanks. This is the path to the dark side of conspiracy theory and other delusion. And more often than not, "they" or "them" is a dog whistle referring to the Jews. Our society is a complex system and complex systems often exhibit i…
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 12:26 PM
1

Ok, sure. When an 89 year old man marries a 19 year old woman, maybe it's not the case 100% of the time that the man is after sex and the woman is after money. But if I were to bet that these were the underlying motivations, I think I would win that bet over 90% of the time. Maybe even 99% of the time.
/r/MensRights13/10/20 01:44 PM
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Will he, though? When he wants sex, she can just say, "But honey, we just had sex a little while ago" or otherwise stall until the dementia makes him forget. I doubt he's getting much out of this situation.
/r/MensRights13/10/20 09:22 AM
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Shortly before deleting her Twitter account (@BeanHype) under increased viral scrutiny, Stone maintained that their relationship was built on love. Meanwhile, she was plotting future loves with other suitors publicly. But it is based on love, she said so herself! /s
/r/MensRights13/10/20 09:17 AM
1

This is the simple truth. There’s no use wanting closure. I’ve come to realize that any contact I make after a breakup is soon regretted. The wise move is to immediately go no contact, and move on with your life. Easier said than done, of course, but it’s definitely the right move
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 10:05 AM
2

Yeah, WTF? I know a guy who caught someone giving his new bride a foot massage, so he threw him out of a window
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 07:57 AM
7

check your privilege!
/r/MensRights06/10/20 08:35 PM
4

I love Budapest. I would consider living there, but I've heard that the taxes and regulations around moving there are a huge pain in the ass, and the government bureaucracy is a major downside. I guess I'll just stick to visiting every few years.
/r/MGTOW206/10/20 08:14 PM
39

It's impossible to be sexist against men because reasons! Derpity derp
/r/MensRights06/10/20 07:25 PM
86

Agreed. If the mother has the right to opt-out of parenthood, the man should have the same right. This would put a stop to so many unwanted babies, since a woman could no longer use it to turn a man into an indentured servant.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 07:19 PM
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There’s nothing new under the sun. I've read Ecclesiastes. And the rest of the Bible. I highly recommend that people read the texts BEFORE making a public commitment to a religion. The problem is, most people get emotionally influenced to commit to a religion, and THEN they read the texts. This is backwards. If you've already committed to a religion, especially in public, and then you read the stories, you might think, "Oh this is a weird story, but I've already signed up and I don't want to dis…
/r/MGTOW202/10/20 05:56 AM
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The incels have taken over the original mgtow sub. This is a community of men who have identities which do not revolve around commitment to women. We still have and enjoy sex. It sounds like you're looking for the mensrights sub.
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 09:01 PM
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Agreed. Religion and the military have been systems of controlling people for most of human history. They can easily take control of your life. Religion is the ultimate mind virus. They (the major monotheistic ones at least) exploit your natural fear of death by promising you a fantastic afterlife which no one has ever seen. Religion often takes over your finances, your family, and much of your time. It encourages you to spread itself to others, especially to impressionable children to repeat th…
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 08:52 PM
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I agree. I simply can't see what benefits marriage provides to me as a man which make the risks worth it. Once you take the red pill and understand the true nature of women, or you experience what they can be like when a relationship ends, marrying one seems like an incredibly foolish gamble. As others have said: "Getting married for sex is like buying a 747 for the free peanuts"
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 03:11 PM
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I've never been married but it seems super overrated to me. I've seen men in my family have their lives ruined by bad divorces. And marriages which are both long and happy are very rare in my experience. It seems like most marriages are great for a few years, and then they become a long, stressful grind. Also, I've seen multiple cases where a wife cheated on her financially well-off husband with some deadbeat, and then got a huge payout in the divorce with alimony on top. Then she buys a house w…
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 01:20 PM
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More than just carefully created... if she doesn't have her own legal counsel when she signs it, or she signs it too close to the wedding date, she can use these as arguments to throw out the whole prenup upon divorce. And, surprisingly... women don't seem to care about how unromantic their actions are during contentious divorces.
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 12:52 PM
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It's called a prenuptial agreement in the US, usually abbreviated as prenup. Usually men only get them if they have significant assets before marriage, or they are wise to the realities of women and divorce. Women often push back when a prenup is suggested, with complaints about it being "unromantic" and "unnecessary". If the prenup is not created carefully, it can be dismissed by a judge in divorce, so it's not without it's risks. Relationship advisor Kanye West recommends a prenup thusly, in h…
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 12:21 PM
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and then gets jealous because it's easy for the woman to get casual sex but not him and this leads to arguments and a breakup. Yes, this is has been my experience, both as an observer of open relationships and trying one out myself. In my case, my girlfriend loved using the "open relationship" as an excuse/justification for cheating. She cheated on her husband with me, then convinced him to open the relationship (by pretending that she had not yet cheated). He was encouraged to get a girlfriend,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:06 PM
4

Can you provide a source for these ancient commentators?
/r/MGTOW221/09/20 07:36 PM
3

Who came up with the idea of opening the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:38 AM
3

Indeed. Women can easily enslave men with child support obligations and men need to work for more rights in this area.
/r/MensRights12/09/20 10:20 AM
1

He’s basically just regurgitating manosphere content
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 09:38 AM
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A similar thing happened to me. I got a woman pregnant who I had been dating only a few months. She told me that she planned to keep it and I prepared to become a father. I even went to one of the OBGYN appointments with her. Then she dumped me and skipped town to get back with her ex. They had divorced due to lack of ability to have a child. I learned that her ex was using heroin and so I planned to move to this other city to fight for custody in order to try and protect the child. But she got …
/r/MensRights12/09/20 08:24 AM
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but when you add 15 to 0 on a scale to hundred Yeah... what are you trying to say here?
/r/MensRights03/09/20 02:23 PM
2

Yeah I missed a lot of signals too https://youtu.be/uKT4f_u7sNQ
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:37 AM
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That’s about 10 times more than I will spend on a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:33 AM
4

¿Donde estás? Me gusta carne barato
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:33 AM
2

There are plenty of cases where people have been prosecuted and imprisoned for welfare fraud. This is vague and does not quantify the problem in any meaningful way. What percentage of the program is fraud? If it's a low figure, like single digit, then I think many people would say that it's not a terrible thing. Because the social benefit provided by these programs outweighs a small amount lost due to fraud or inefficiency. Governor officials and lawmakers whom actually view the data realize tha…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 04:11 PM
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the program is used and abused often Republicans love to claim this and support it with anecdotes, but I never see them using any good evidence to support this key claim.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:19 PM
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I think that is a much more valid point than the one being made by this anti-poor propaganda meme
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:16 PM
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Hey, I'm all about facts. Please share the source of that claim.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:03 PM
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I'm no fan of feminism, but I'm also no fan of bullshit. This meme implies that people who receive government benefits are living a comfortable, care-free lifestyle, which is absurd. And even if there is a poor person somewhere who is living this fantasy life of comfort without working, how is feminism responsible for that? It's really just blatant propaganda. It reminds me of the "welfare queen" myth that started under Reagan as a way to pit the middle class against poor people (a strategy whic…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 02:40 PM
4

In Celsius
/r/MensRights26/08/20 07:23 AM
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So you prefer to pay a woman you’re not going to fuck that night? Sounds like marriage
/r/MGTOW226/08/20 07:00 AM
3

Probably due to MGTOWs listening to Joe "Have you tried DMT?" Rogan. I'm not sure why r/benzodiazepines is so high on the list, however...
/r/MGTOW224/08/20 09:39 AM
1

Sounds like you're describing what happened to me 4 years ago with the woman I was preparing to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:34 PM
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Yes, men who adore women and believe in the whole romance, true love, happily forever after ideal tend to be punished the most after interacting with real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:25 PM
0

Exactly. But being frank about female nature is still considered misogynistic by many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:15 PM
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how easy it was to get a woman who was married or in a LTR, to cheat Seriously. When you are sexually successful with women, you get to see firsthand how readily married women will cheat (especially bored stay at home wives). And it becomes much harder to view marriage as being a good deal for the husband. But of course if you talk frankly about female dual mating strategy, cheating wives, and how marriage is a shitty deal for (beta) men, you get accused of being a misogynistic incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:14 PM
2

Women should get the exclusive right to make the abort / don't abort decision. She bears all the risks of the pregnancy, therefore it is her responsibility to decide. However, men should have rights to opt-out of child support to balance their lack of rights in making the abortion decision. Here's what I think would be fair: If the mother is not married to the father, she needs to obtain his consent to be obligated for future child support during the period where abortion is legal. If the father…
/r/MensRights10/08/20 04:01 PM
1

I think the key detail you are missing here is that 420 is code for smoking cannabis.
/r/MGTOW210/08/20 08:34 AM
7

There are gay men who are neo-Nazis and supporters of various other anti-gay ideologies. Many of the most homophobic conservative politicians have turned out to be closeted gay men. Human psychology is more complex than most people realize.
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 06:08 PM
1

BPD... wow, that's more like dodging a cannonball, brother.
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 02:14 PM
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I came very close to marrying a narcissist. Fortunately she dropped the mask and exposed her true self before I did. Dodged a bullet there.
/r/MGTOW205/08/20 06:19 PM
3

Great content, this deserves to be it's own post.
/r/MGTOW227/07/20 11:20 AM
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If a girl ever suggests an open relationship and it's not 100% what you want...dump her instantly, she's already got one foot out the door anyway. In my experience, this is absolutely true. She's not going to risk the consequences of making this request if she doesn't already have the other guy lined up. And usually she's already had sex with him.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 03:03 PM
1

Yeah you are definitely well versed in this delusional nonsense. You must be a regular attendee at Jesus book club! Enjoy your relationship with your imaginary zombie friend. But go sell your crazy elsewhere. I’m not buying it.
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 06:44 PM
1

My relationship is just as real as yours, has just as much evidence supporting it, and is just as easy to prove. And since you’re a non believer, you’ll be stuck with the version of the afterlife with a volcano full of flat beer and ugly strippers. Because the Flying Spaghetti Monster doesn’t torture people for eternity. Only evil, sadistic, gods do that.
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 06:00 PM
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Yeah and I have a relationship with the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Wherever you are on Earth, may He touch you with His noodly appendage. Accept him now and you will enjoy an afterlife of strippers and a beer volcano. For He has promised this. Ramen.
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 05:40 PM
1

So you picked the first one you learned about and declared that the others were false. Surprise! That’s what the people who believe in different religions do, too. If you had been born in Saudi Arabia instead, you would be a Muslim, insisting that was the truth.
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 04:49 PM
1

Jesus is a fictional character. The gospels were written decades after the events they talk about. And then the Bible was assembled by the council of Nicea hundreds of years later. The elements of the Jesus story were copied from stories of various other God-men which were well known in that time and place. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_World%27s_Sixteen_Crucified_Saviors After you die, you have the same experience you did before you were born: nothingness. Religion sells people a story of a…
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 03:08 PM
2

Did you study those other religions before deciding they were false? Or did you just go with the first religion you learned about?
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 02:54 PM
1

What will you say when you stand before Allah and are judged for not following Islam? Or what if Zeus judges you for not honoring him? What will you do then? I have no fear of fictitious entities. Also, you clearly don’t understand the word “falsifiable”. Maybe you should try reading more than one book?
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 02:48 PM
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This is yet another version of the typical theist response: "If science is done right it'll agree with the answer I insist upon!" Which is a very ignorant view of how science works. Science starts with questions and follows the evidence to find the answers. Religion starts with the answers, ignores the evidence, and if you ask a question it can't handle, you're given lines like "You have to have faith" or "God works in mysterious ways". Science demands adherence to evidence, not any particular t…
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 02:35 PM
3

there is nothing magical about it, at all. So if it's not magical at all... this creation should be totally consistent with science, then, right?
/r/MGTOW202/07/20 07:29 AM
4

Let's play complete the analogy. They say that marrying for sex is like buying a 747 for the free peanuts. So marrying for FIRE is like... ?
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 04:00 PM
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But instead, she fired him so that she could FIRE with his money.
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 10:57 AM
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Ok, so you clearly dislike women and the government. But this is not sufficient reason to believe that the government is brainwashing women. If you don't have evidence for this, it's just a fantasy that you invented. There are too many people who see something they don't like in this world, and then start telling stories about how it's part of a grand conspiracy. And because of the confirmation bias, other people start to believe in this imaginary conspiracy without any basis in reality. There's…
/r/MGTOW224/06/20 10:59 AM
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wanted to wait and take it slow so all the drama in our group over her settles down Translation: I'm about to use you to increase the level of drama over me.
/r/MGTOW224/05/20 03:15 PM
4

This guy Leykises
/r/MGTOW222/05/20 07:14 AM
1

360 degree turn? I’m guessing this wasn’t a math teacher
/r/MGTOW215/05/20 08:03 AM
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She liked the feels and excitement of doing something wrong. Logic went right out the window. Pursuing her feelz and Gina tingles was more important then right and wrong. She was willing to throw out years of marriage to chase what felt good in the moment. I've had a very similar experience. She did not give a shit about the implications on her existing marriage or kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 12:12 PM
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If they were truly doing the exact same work for less pay, then the only corporations which would continue to hire men are those which hate money.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 03:22 PM
6

fattening food in the world is wedding cake! Consuming wedding cake has also been shown to lead to a huge decline in blowjobs, according to my married guy friends. That's why my wedding won't have a cake! Cause I'm way too smrt for that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 07:11 AM
1

Nmoms are great at yelling at you when you don't meet their expectations. As for teaching, coaching, or otherwise parenting to help you meet those expectations... not so much.
/r/MGTOW225/04/20 07:45 AM
1

Are you my brother?
/r/MGTOW225/04/20 05:22 AM
2

The soldier in this meme didn't reproduce... so that's not a solution for his predicament.
/r/MensRights22/04/20 01:10 PM
1

Yes, I'm new to that sub but I've been exploring Tantra for several years so I'm not totally new to the concept.
/r/MGTOW217/04/20 04:04 PM
1

Dopamine is a troublesome chemical. Especially for those who struggle with addictions of any kind. I just started a NoFap reset a week ago. Partly to give my dopamine system a break. But mostly to reset my sex hormone balance. I’ve found it valuable in the past. This time I’m going for 90 days but I feel happier and more confident after only 7 days. If any of you have never tried this before I recommend an experiment for at least a few weeks. Just be warned that after a few weeks of bathing in t…
/r/MGTOW217/04/20 05:50 AM
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They're projecting. This is the attitude of the kind of man to whom she is attracted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 04:05 PM
3

He does have good days, and medical marijuana helps with the tremors and night terrors so he actually sleeps good without having to take a massive drug cocktail of prescriptions every night that racked up ridiculous costs. There is lots of evidence emerging that psilocybin (from magic mushrooms) are a very effective treatment for PTSD. The FDA has designated it as a "breakthrough therapy" now, two times.
/r/MensRights16/04/20 06:18 AM
8

I've dated Psychology majors and there is very little you can do with a bachelor's in that field. Definitely going to need a PhD if you want to use your psychology training.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 06:15 AM
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Sociopaths are great at ascending hierarchies of all kinds. It's easier to achieve when one is not burdened by pesky things like fear and empathy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 06:13 AM
15

also: "no hookups", "real man", "spoil me", "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 06:08 AM
2

WayTLDW.
/r/MGTOW210/04/20 07:21 AM
1

Your situation is like someone bashing a shitty fast food chain but also puts effort and time on going there to eat I prefer steak, but every now and then I'll get a cheap burger at a fast food joint. It's enjoyable every now and then. However, if that fast food joint wanted to pressure me into a situation where I ONLY ate there and started paying vast sums of money to do so... I might start bashing them for the absurdity of that idea.
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 05:48 AM
1

Nice bot
/r/MGTOW202/04/20 05:42 AM
5

"its alot of ladies there looking for good men." Yeah, lots of women there looking for good providers. You might even get lucky and find the "born-again virgin" types who won't have sex until marriage even though they are single moms. Come to my church and check out all the various options for working on a plantation!
/r/MGTOW201/04/20 07:57 PM
3

This is especially true for females with Cluster B personality types (BPD / NPD) etc. They are very much like chameleons who change their entire personality to match yours. At least in the initial phases. I've experienced this myself and was a bit creepy but I didn't realize at the time what a huge red flag it really is.
/r/MGTOW221/03/20 05:29 PM
5

The infinity gauntlet from Avengers Infinity War
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 04:08 AM
6

By far the best one for me is when the girl is enamored with me and I like her just enough to keep her around. I completely agree. I was head over heels in love with a woman a few years ago and was considering marriage. Then she started treating me like shit. The last few months of that relationship were miserable. Now I'm with a woman who is enamored with me and loves to be submissive. I like her but I'm not crazy in love with her. And yet this relationship is way more stress free and enjoyable…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 04:58 AM
4

(limerick stage ends) Reminds me of when the Limerick stage ended with my ex. It was right after our trip to Nantucket.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 07:45 PM
3

Are you my brother?
/r/MGTOW07/08/19 05:31 AM
3

yeah, he never said that he wouldn't marry her if she cheated. Therefore, it's his fault.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 05:23 AM
0

Talking about delusional conspiracies of elite control gets you upvotes around here. No need for evidence.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 07:25 PM
11

Oh yeah, totally reasonable explanation
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 02:24 AM
13

And then her relationship with her father has been poisoned by a decade of mistrust. What could go wrong?!
/r/MensRights28/05/19 07:03 PM
13

Yes, we must all work together to demonize men for their affairs, and protect women from shame by keeping their affairs secret.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 07:02 PM
47

In other words: Ladies... don't finger bang yourself while talking to someone. ​ I suppose that's technically valid advice.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 04:17 PM
3

Look, I don't know how that pencil wound up in the dog's butt.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 04:12 PM
25

They can be used for things other than writing.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:59 PM
11

Most people need to learn this the hard way. Until then, they are rarely ready to hear this.
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 04:38 AM
1

Why do married men often die before their wives? Because they want to.
/r/MGTOW15/05/19 02:08 AM
4

More likely it's so she can get another chance to match with all the Beta Bucks that she swiped left on before.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 05:56 AM
3

They don't because of the oppressive patriarchy.
/r/MensRights08/05/19 05:24 PM
9

Gotta treat her mean to keep her keen.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 01:29 AM
0

Yeah it must have been a secret nefarious plan by the Democrats. LBJ had perfect knowledge about how the Great Society scheme would play out, like some kind of movie supervillian. And all Democrats are in on the plan... they get updates at the regular Illuminati meetings. ​ What is the deal with all the kooky conspiracies in this sub?!
/r/MGTOW06/05/19 03:24 PM
2

Yes, I totally agree. I had many of the same thoughts during the grieving process, which went on for well over a year.
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 07:45 PM
2

Amen to that. A few years ago, I was stuck in a miserable relationship with a gorgeous single mom who I was planning to marry. But then she suddenly started treating me like shit and cheating on me. I dumped her ass and was miserable for a long time. But now, I'm living the dream. Running my own location independent business while I travel the world full-time. I never could have had this awesome life if I stayed committed to that bitch. Good riddance!
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 07:15 PM
2

Yeah, and she dances naked every night under the bloody pentagram on her ceiling. Cause that's required by the secret elite Hollywood Illuminati rules.
/r/MGTOW05/05/19 06:46 AM
2

... and typically, the only ones who can do that are affiliated with the DeBeers diamond cartel.
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 12:06 AM
2

I'm not going to say women are evil. But they are for sure a bad investment. The cost to benefit ratio is low and the risk to benefit ratio is very high. ​ Very well said. That's a succinct way of summing up the analysis on LTRs from a man's perspective.
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 01:12 PM
1

You're not ready for this sub, yet. Wait till you see a formerly sweet and kind woman rip a man's life apart without remorse and then you'll understand. This is most often seen during divorce. If it happens to you, this place is like a hospital where you can come and heal, by finding brothers who have had similar experiences. Until then, enjoy the illusion that women are wonderful creatures of goodness and integrity who fart rose scented perfume. It's kind of like Santa Claus... enjoy the belief…
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 02:11 AM
1

Some of them do. I revealed to a woman I'm seeing that I was reading "Women: The Ownership Manual." She started reading it too and we found that it was a huge turn-on for both of us. It turned our relationship into more of a master/slave dynamic which led to lots of sexy fun times.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 09:35 PM
3

Actually, no... things are being run by lizard people from outer space. The evidence for this is just as substantial as it is for your claim.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 06:05 PM
4

Don't try to control her. Just leave her if she violates your boundaries. And her not meeting up with random dudes she meets online is a valid boundary. Especially when you know that he's not interested in platonic friendship. ​ If she was really committed to you, she wouldn't do stupid shit like this.
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 04:33 PM
4

Are you worthy enough to throw your hotdog down my hallway?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/19 04:38 PM
6

"If I had know how ice cold your heart was, I would have given you a heater instead"
/r/MGTOW16/04/19 01:28 AM
1

I’ll say I don’t understand how you could just turn your back on a child you raised as your own for 3 years. ​ How dare you realize that you've been enslaved for 3 years and have the audacity to not want to be enslaved for 15+ more years! Get back to work and make money to provide for the kid you were tricked into treating as your own!
/r/MGTOW14/04/19 02:54 AM
1

Haha yeah
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 08:33 PM
12

Yes, I once interviewed a woman for a data science type role, and she claimed to have something like 8 years experience working on databases. I asked her to write a very simple SQL query. She had no idea how to do it. I ended the interview immediately, about 10 min in. ​ For those unfamiliar with this stuff, this is like somebody claiming to be an experienced mechanic and being confused when you ask how to change the oil in a car.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 01:08 PM
8

It's not about the nail! ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 04:45 AM
22

Yeah my ex tried to imply I was being cheap for not wanting to buy her a real diamond engagement ring. Uh no, I'm just aware of how the diamond cartel has been scamming consumers for 100 years and I have no desire to be part of that scam.
/r/MGTOW09/04/19 09:03 PM
4

This is in line with my experience as well
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 02:35 AM
1

Well they are probably made from organisms which are vegetarian / vegan, so maybe that's close enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/19 12:24 AM
11

Looking for a creampie licker! Line up, chumps!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 06:41 PM
3

Plus or minus two inches... where?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 10:39 PM
4

Yeah, if the wage gap is really so big, then why doesn't some corporation destroy the competition by hiring only women, saving a ton of money on wages, and making a much higher profit? I see three reasons why: Women are not actually capable of doing the same work as men The wage gap is a lie No corporations like money enough to try this. I'm pretty sure that #3 is not the correct explanation.
/r/MGTOW18/03/19 12:43 AM
2

We want to know which country to avoid. And the city, too, would be helpful.
/r/MGTOW15/03/19 04:45 AM
4

I dunno, he seems like the type who might be susceptible to a conman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 07:53 PM
14

The reason cohabiting before marriage was taboo was because it would lead to premarital sex. The people on this sub don't object to cohabitation because of taboos about premarital sex. It's because it causes a man to give up far too much freedom and power in the relationship. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 05:27 PM
-1

Maybe she would have more success with men if she canceled that tattoo and got a boob job instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 06:19 PM
4

Yeah. My ex had a six figure debt from a bad home purchase decision, two small children (unwilling to have one with me), and she still asked if I would support her while she went and pursued a PhD in education. I balked on saying yes to this and I talked about maybe not getting married for awhile when I saw how expensive she would be as a wife. A month later she was cheating on me. ​ So clearly, I was only useful as a walking wallet to her. Good riddance.
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 03:58 PM
10

This is very close to my experience with poly. If a woman wants to open the relationship, it's already over.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 07:50 PM
20

Diamonds have a high price because a cartel restricts their supply. FTFY.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 06:25 PM
1

Which will be underwater property in the near future
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 08:14 PM
1

I'm pretty sure that my relationship with my ex girlfriend started going downhill once I mentioned my refusal to buy diamonds and support the diamond cartel. Good riddance. Once I saw her sociopathic side I was horrified that I very nearly proposed to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 06:56 PM
14

Yeah and if that happens, tell those strange women to leave the men's room.
/r/MensRights11/01/19 03:11 PM
3

Yes. If a guy can marry an 8 or a 9, he's not going to turn down no strings sex from a 6 or a 7. Just like a guy who mostly eats steak will occasionally grab a burger from McDonald's.
/r/MGTOW28/12/18 03:03 AM
1

She's probably thinking, "How much more awful do I have to be to this guy for him to finally dump me?"
/r/TheRedPill26/12/18 01:45 AM
15

Bullshit. This is one of the most commonly quoted statistics in the manosphere. If you've been following this for years, there's no way that you haven't seen this by now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 12:34 PM
11

That's exactly why I try not to be too interesting.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 05:58 PM
3

Yeah often because they want to get back to their boyfriend or husband
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 05:46 AM
2

Jet emotions are the most complex of all.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 04:13 AM
8

What's an "ife"?
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 07:24 PM
2

Dude it's not 1993 anymore. Colombia is safe now.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 05:52 PM
1

And to this day, he is still charging up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/18 07:13 PM
23

Especially after he goes to that conference.
/r/MensRights13/11/18 05:00 PM
1

It's like "man the helm." Keep your focus on your mission. Having a mission which is more important to you than any woman will make you much more attractive than a man who focuses primarily on women.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 03:57 AM
1

I have a degree in physics and I've studied quantum mechanics at the university level. No physicist would claim that this happens by magic but they also would not say that there's a cause. Simply a probability of it happening at any given moment. And including that probability is crucial in many calculations such as those in Quantum Field Theory. Scientists are not generally trying to worm away from explanations or to deceive. They are simply trying to avoid giving an answer which is not support…
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 09:32 PM
1

this is nothing compared to the mental gymnastics that religious people engage in when you ask them difficult questions about their religion.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 09:24 PM
1

Magically? Like something done by an invisible sky wizard?
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 09:21 PM
1

Thor is very real. With every lightning strike and boom of Thunder, he is there speaking to us all. What other possible explanation could there be? I have borne witness to the power of Thor, and yet you have shown that your hatred for him is real. When the storm rages and The Lightning Strikes, you will get what you deserve for your lack of faith in the God of thunder.
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 12:25 AM
2

Your lack of respect for Thor is what causes him to continue giving us powerful storms. And more than anything it validates his existence.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 11:22 PM
1

Your logic is flawed. Quantum mechanics shows that particles pop into existence all the time. this is the basis of Hawking radiation near black holes. You can get something from nothing. even if God does exist, it's a pretty big leap to choose any of the thousands of human religions that have been developed over the centuries as being correct. They are all based on documents that make wild claims with very little evidence and are indistinguishable from mythology. The Bible for instance contains …
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 10:54 PM
1

And maybe the universe created itself. Or it was created by another universe collapsing. This requires much less of a conceptual leap than imagining an infinitely complex being who not only created himself and the universe, but also created a world full of evidence that we evolved over billions of years without a creator. Oh, and for some reason it's also very important to him that a certain tribe trims the extra skin on their dicks and avoids eating bacon and lobster. Because surely the creator…
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 09:09 PM
5

On a related note, what created God? That's a much harder question to answer than what existed before the Big Bang.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 06:49 PM
18

It must have been by God though. Women never lie about cheating.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 06:47 PM
5

May the Flying Spaghetti Monster touch you with His noodly appendage.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 08:35 PM
2

!redditsilver bitch
/r/MGTOW24/05/18 05:51 AM
2

Dude, you have it all wrong. He's a lizard person. This is how he communicates with the secret lizard person satellites so that the information gets back to the Homeworld.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/18 03:50 PM
2

How about I buy a shiny new luxury car, drive it hard for 10 years and then sell it to you for full price? Whaddya say?!
/r/MGTOW05/05/18 11:09 PM
3

Yes, many are hit and miss.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 05:13 PM
4

Yes, but there is a limited amount of wealth. Money is just one representation of that.
/r/MGTOW31/01/18 10:33 PM
4

What a woman tells you she wants often has more to do with what she wants the relationship with you to be, rather than what she wants in general with any man. For example, she might tell you that she doesn't do casual sex in order to seek your commitment, but then the next night she's in the club getting railed in the bathroom stall by Chad.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 08:54 PM
2

Nope. He had agreed to an open relationship and then she chose me over him.
/r/MGTOW22/11/17 06:09 AM
1

I had a husband text me once, asking me to stop seeing his wife. Nope.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 11:10 PM
2

Their cards are too opaque.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 08:37 AM
1

Thank you so much for being a rare female, who speaks the truth that men need to hear.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 05:46 AM
3

And you can often assume that the prettiest girls are shitty humans by default, until proven wrong. Pretty girls can get away with being shitty much more easily. Largely because everyone in BP land assumes that their beauty implies virtue and innocence.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:32 PM
1

Some girls prefer older men. Treat her like a bratty little sister and fuck her brains out. She probably can't get that from the boys her age.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 06:57 PM
3

Yeah, same here. The craziness is well hidden, and all the more shocking when it comes out.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 11:53 AM
8

Yeah I was hesitant to marry her because our relationship started by her cheating on her husband with me. Then she convinced him to do a polyamorous relationship in order to date me. After their divorce, she and I became serious and started talking about marriage. The oneitis was extremely strong and I was betaized despite my better instincts. Only took 9 months before she started cheating on me, and then coerced me into a polyamorous relationship. After experiencing that miserable situation for…
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 09:27 PM
12

As an aspiring entrepreneur, this is a huge reason to not get married. Can you post a link? PS: Thank god I didn't marry my narcissistic, cheating ex. The divorce rape would have been epic.
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 08:12 PM
1

Yeah. Or maybe she's a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:41 PM
2

Yeah, the lies were the worst part. In retrospect, it seems like she was lying purely for the enjoyment of deceiving me: she would volunteer unnecessary information, and then when it was revealed to be a lie later, she would give her bullshit rationalizations. In the last week of the relationship I was extremely depressed and she knew it. In response, she started tearing me down and attacking my insecurities. I've dated many women, but never one who showed such a shocking lack of empathy. Then I…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 08:56 PM
1

Man, you dodged a bullet from a .357 Magnum. Not just because of her debt, and her kids... but her fucked-up personality alone could sink you if you had married her. Yeah, I agree. She cheated on her husband multiple times (including with me) and treated him like crap. I was foolish to want to jump into that role expecting things to be different for me. Probably she's BPD, as you say, but could also be an NPD (narcissist) or even a sociopath (also referred to as psychopath, also referred to as a…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 11:10 PM
1

I know, right?!! She literally never said "thank you" for the vacation or anything around it, until I pointed out how unappreciated I felt for spending all this money on her without her thanking me. She must have been too busy thinking about her coworker and how to pretend that she wasn't already screwing him behind my back before I took her on that trip. Such an entitled, lying, cheating bitch.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 10:57 PM
2

Debt is a huge iceberg lurking beneath the surface of many chicks. I narrowly avoided being sunk by this iceberg. Earlier this year I was planning to marry my oneitis. She was in bad financial shape: The woman had over $100k in debt due to a foreclosure (from buying a $500k home in her mid twenties), two small children, and was making $80k in a city where the cost of living requires a family of three to make at least $70k to live comfortably. She was paying child support to the ex husband, who m…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 05:08 PM
3

Not casual = "I'd like to break all social norms here and ask you out on a date" Casual = "Let's grab drinks" She'll know it's a date. Making it explicit and building it up as a huge thing is awkward. Just act like this is no big deal because you do it all the time. Like she's just one of several girls you've asked out lately, and you don't care "breaking social norms" to ask her out, because you do whatever the fuck you feel like.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 05:23 PM
12

I think those last two lines could be replaced with: I enjoyed meeting you. Let's grab drinks next week at (place).
/r/askTRP04/08/16 10:17 PM
4

This is so true. I was coerced into an open relationship by my ex and she started treating me like shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 01:02 AM
2

Or like the 26 letters in the alphabet.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 03:07 PM
5

I wish there was a transcript, I don't have 35 min to listen to this right now.
/r/MGTOW26/07/16 05:36 PM
1

Welcome to The Red Pill (tm).
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:40 PM
1

Mine even described her own behavior as sociopathic when i caught her in a lie!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 07:17 PM
1

Same here. Acted like a perfect unicorn until i was no longer useful. Then she started banging her coworker and became a raging cunt overnight.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 07:16 PM
13

She starts by love bombing you early on and the sex is amazing You feel like it's too good to be true and this must be the love of your life. She becomes a chameleon, copying all of your interests These are the early signs, Google for the others. They get you hooked on them (idealization), then start tearing you down (devaluation) before they leave you in the most devastating, humiliating way possible (discard). All of this gives the sadistic bitches an intoxicating ego boost.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 07:13 PM
2

Don't tell me what to do, you cuckold bitch.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 07:03 PM
6

Sounds like my ex. Read up on borderline personality disorder.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 02:52 AM
3

Sounds like it's not a problem for you. Work on other areas of your life instead.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:49 PM
5

Have you ever intended to have only one drink, but once you started you ended up drinking more than you intended? That's the drink taking the drink.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:48 PM
1

What part of the world are you in?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 01:20 PM
5

I'd like to help you out. The thing is, if you require someone to check up on you over the Internet, it's probably not going to work for very long. You have to do it for yourself, and it helps if you admit total defeat to alcohol (the first step of AA). If you need accountability, get someone who sees you regularly who you can't bullshit if you slip up, and who you can call if you are having the temptation to drink. If you can't think of someone, go to an AA meeting and get a sponsor. There are …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:41 AM
97

excessive drinking Yup. This is a huge part of what made me super beta in past relationships. Ancient proverb: First the man takes the drink Then the drink takes the drink Then the drink takes the man That last line is great because it could mean death, or that drinking will rob you of your masculinity. In my case it was nearly both. It made me fat, slow, depressed, and unable to run my life. My woman lost her respect and attraction to me, and this made me contemplate suicide. My solution was to…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 08:55 PM
1

Yes, I am definitely the winner here. I was totally willing to marry her, help her out of her 6-figure debt, be a stepdad to her two kids... but she thought it was more important to bang her coworker and wave it in my face. And after I called her out for her lies, her response was to suggest that I should basically compete with him for the privilege of marrying her. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuck that! I suddenly realized how absurd of a situation I was in. I had given this selfish bitch all the power, she was…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:37 PM
15

Similar story here. Dated a BPD girl and after she took me to the heights of love, she started subtly tearing me down. Then it wasn't so subtle. One week i was feeling depressed and suicidal and i revealed to her that i was feeling low. So she amped up the attacks on the things she knew i was insecure about. Once i realized she was intentionally hurting me, without remorse, the gloves came off. I gave her a brutal dumping and told our mutual friends what a shitty person she actually was. She did…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 03:02 PM
4

No need to read the whole series. Each book is about 80% regurgitation of the content from previous books.
/r/MGTOW18/07/16 06:16 PM
4

Yea, yea, yea. Shitty men like me or you find joy in self diagnosing BPD in their shitty women. Nothing to see here, please move along. The idea that she has BPD came from a therapist actually, who contributed to the DSM-IV. Not just me trying to point fingers. Own it, dude. It was you who started drinking and thinking about death. It was you who has not left that relationship. I own it. I failed at my responsibility to control my addiction, maintain my happiness, and be the leader in the relati…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 12:10 AM
3

Same here. Just got my heart broken by the "love of my life" / unicorn. Didn't think i needed to game her because she said she loved me from our teenage years. I trusted her completely. When life started getting stressful. I dropped my guard, shared my insecurities and weaknesses Next thing i know, she is controlling the whole relationship, openly cucking me with another man, and treating me like shit. I became a miserable alcoholic and suicidal. Later i figured out she probably has borderline p…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 09:29 PM
3

Yeah, i just broke up with one. I had loved her since high school, and when she pursued me 15 years later it was incredible. Especially since she was still married. I thought she was the love of my life. It was a dream come true. Then it suddenly became a nightmare, so i dumped her. Only after i started seeing a therapist did I realize that she was BPD. I've been reading more about relationships with BPD girls and my god, it explains the confusing parts of our relationship so well!
/r/askTRP09/07/16 02:54 PM
2

psychotropic 'quit smoking' pills Wellbutrin will do this quite effectively
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 05:16 PM
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