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2

ball is in her court. you leave her alone until she hits back
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:48 AM
4

A-grade flirting right there. go git her
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:43 PM
1

If you've accepted the situation but would like a friend. sure, respond. If the interaction or just the thought of her is giving you pain/discomfort, then cut her out
/r/seduction21/09/20 06:08 AM
29

feel free to respond butstop initiating and don't be try hard in prolonging the conversation.stop trying to change her mind about you cause she's already made up her mind. If she does change her mind , it should only because she feels it and not because you forced it And don't ever ask her out again unless she asks you out first
/r/seduction21/09/20 02:09 AM
3

ye, some of the advice are a bit extreme. But the underlying message behind them is , don't give your time/money to women who don't put in the effort or reciprocate and there is a shitton of women who don't
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:30 PM
2

Don't fake "passions", most people can or will eventually see you're faking it.You'll make great money to afford following your favorite hobbies. You should be pursueing interests you're passionate about, going fulil ham and living your dreams and then you can SHARE your life with another person. Cause when you're well versed in your passions, you'll be able to talk plenty about your own adventures. Should be less about you impressing them, but how your partner can enrich yours
/r/seduction02/09/20 07:05 PM
3

she's wasting your time, and you're wasting your breath with her
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:59 AM
4

the problem is online dating has made women lazy and just go with the person that's super witty at the start rather than go for the slow burn getting-to-know-you. So the men can't help but try the cheat code one-liner hoping it'll spark something
/r/seduction30/07/20 05:36 PM
1

Neither extremes are attractive for a long-term relationship. A good unhealthy chunk of woman can't think in-between the grey area of the two and will gravitate to one or the other for short term gratification cause it'll give them the emotional tingles. The good men are those that embody the balance of the two. However, with balance usually means stagnant and calm which doesn't "excite" those unhealthy women who just want extremes.
/r/seduction05/07/20 11:13 AM
50

so you 3rd-wheeling a married woman?
/r/seduction12/06/20 01:51 PM
1

stand him up back. If he calls. Set up a date at his place and never show up. then dump him
/r/seduction10/06/20 04:37 AM
1

just leave her be. no amount of apology will change her mind at this point. It'll make you seem beggy and needy especially if you keep msging her and she hasn't responded If she still has interest, you let her get back to you. You've played your hand. At this point, make preparations to let it go and just play it cool and MAYBE.. just maybe she'll contact you to hang out again
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:01 AM
12

the key is to NOT want your ex back
/r/seduction31/05/20 08:59 PM
7

3 months? wow, you dragged it out. should've friendzoned him hard by the first 2 weeks if you still weren't feeling it by then
/r/seduction31/05/20 06:40 PM
0

stupid man. she gave you the green light and you pussied out and started questioning it and then she started questioning it.At this point stop acting so keen. you're borderline blowing it and stop apologizing
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:19 AM
14

she immediately offered a reschedule which is acutally a good sign. And on top of that, she's following up with a "__???". Sounds more sincere than most women in OLD. so it's up to you now.
/r/seduction30/05/20 11:09 PM
35

there's this thing called Silent Permission, where you lean in but don't go all the way and see if she will advance to meet you or retract with distance which is a clear sign of no Verbally asking for permission is cute to some women but cringy overall in delivery of a romantic moment
/r/seduction26/05/20 08:32 PM
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That's mainly cause there's a lost in translation moment in the "Don't be her friend" thing. There's a difference between being friends vs being friendly just to get in her pants. If you're in it to date her from the get-go, then the girl would rather you be honest with your intentions rather than hovering like a vulture in a pretend friend state.
/r/seduction15/05/20 12:25 AM
2

That's the problem right there. you're fearful of her reaction / confrontation.Give her a challenge and stop caving in to anything. If she gives you a negative reaction, shrug it off. Cause as you already know, her actions are bullshit.Honestly if she puts a strain on the friendship cause of this, THAT'S ON HER, NOT YOU. Present your principles by not being a doormat even as a friend. You have NOTHING to lose at this point. Stop catering to her
/r/seduction24/04/20 07:44 PM
1

I personally don't subscribe to comparing "leagues" in terms purely on looks. But I do find career status a more intimidating factor. A person of high financial status woman would rarely respect a blue-collar , middle class man in the long term doesn't matter how confident the guy is IMO
/r/seduction22/04/20 08:32 PM
1

Time to quit Coffee Meets Bagel. I had a feeling something was up with that app
/r/seduction16/02/20 10:33 AM
1

I'd be careful of this type of women. She's just grooming you to be her next orbiter / "gay" best friend in the look but no touch category and saying all the right things to get you attached and feeling good about yourself
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:06 AM
1

D does come before G afterall
/r/seduction07/01/20 03:42 PM
1

Physical attractives does not make a girl out of your league, I only see them as someone who won the genetic lottery but their normal as any one else. Despite this, I'm more intimidated by women who are like manager/ceo positions making 3x times my salary lol
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:35 AM
0

what he meant to say is if there's obvious outbreak, the exposure is very likely to transmit. But carriers of the disease that have it under control will have a much lower chance of transmiting. It's not transmitted from saliva/fluids unless there's an outbreak
/r/seduction12/12/19 04:39 PM
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he's right in principle. It's just more about valueing yourself and not holding yourself down to women who are not good relationship material.. and chasing and overpursueing tends communicate her time is more valuable than yours. the unethical part is hump n dump mentality tho. Low value girls (aka the drama queen, low self esteem) will string you along and play with your heart. not the type you should be chasing and waste your time on even if they're hot.
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:12 PM
2

fingering and dirty talk
/r/seduction28/11/19 10:31 PM
1

stuff like limit serious life questions/topics. No heavy , deep questions unless it can be lead to funny stuff being funny and messing around without giving straight answers immediately.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:40 PM
1

Since you're the one with the power, go out of multiple women. 1-3 if you don't wanna be too overwhelmed.. your objective is to get to know and qualify them and see what you guys can put on the table and compliment each other. DO NOT PEDESTAL them.. you are the prize
/r/seduction18/11/19 09:59 PM
6

she forgot her lip balm
/r/seduction18/11/19 09:51 PM
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isn't this just the same thing as saying "get over it" but just less offensive? lol
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:58 PM
2

trojans are the worst. they pop 25% of the time. Durex has never failed me so far
/r/seduction12/11/19 03:29 PM
34

online dating is among the worse pool to fish from. PERIOD.
/r/seduction11/11/19 08:18 PM
2

ye. just be aloof and chill on your own like it's no big deal. doing good. just don't double text her later. Keep doing your own thing in the meantime
/r/seduction08/11/19 08:05 PM
2

treat it as no big deal for now. The point is to see how she treats you in the end in a 1 on 1, and you also don't wanna project yourself as weak / insecure by reacting badly if her hanging out with male friends. Cool it with the texting. Get her on a real 1 on 1 date instead of "group" stuff. If she's flopping around with excuses, you're done for sure
/r/seduction08/11/19 07:56 PM
1

Don't take the formal thing so seriously. Sometimes they feel sorry for their friend not able to get a date and help them not get embarassed going alone. AND STRICTLY PLATONIC. You can still play the whole thing to your advantage. Pretend you can help her friend, but she herself needs to do YOU a favor... like get her butt over to your place for sexy time
/r/seduction05/11/19 06:46 PM
2

She doesn't know what she wants. Don't take her words at face value if she claims she likes you. Girls that truely value you , won't flake on you
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:38 PM
2

Only if you want that baby
/r/seduction30/10/19 07:30 PM
5

Didn't work. Said this to a girl in the bar. Got slapped
/r/seduction30/10/19 07:16 PM
105

Accept that she's not a quality girl who will dump you on a whim
/r/seduction26/10/19 08:20 AM
1

playing too hard to get. Can't stand girls who play mind games IF (and I do mean IF) they actually had intent behind it. You don't have to ignore her. Just play it casual
/r/seduction24/10/19 02:55 PM
0

it's push n pull. give him the power briefly. If you want something to progress, you have to give him absolute permission/consent to start things off. As mentioned before, there's that possible mistake of sexual harassment so he'd rather not misinterpret casual flirting vs ACTUAL intent.Since in your case is actual intent, then you have to spell it out for him given the circumstance of a workplace romance
/r/seduction24/10/19 02:21 PM
2

I think drawing from outside validation could boost your self esteem a bit . but don't overly depend on it. Ask your close friends to give you pointers and assess your improvements. In essence, be your cheerleader (but don't have them do it all the time lol) Have to calm your inner voice that gives you doubts.
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:32 PM
2

Shy girls will take some patience to open up and you can't come on too strong. but you will have to continue to initiate without being overbearing. But if she's clamming up cause she doesn't want to lead you on. that's a whole other can of worms. If she doesn't agree to at least meet with you for a date or gives wishy washy answer with little to no enthusiasm, you'd best move on
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:28 PM
3

don't be fooled by those PUA videos. Only the most vulnerable of women let themselves be taken advantage of in this manner. The PUA's most often have encountered tons of rejections and just pick their successes in the video of the day. it's a numbers game to them
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:23 PM
3

We're creatures of habit. But accept that you've put work into yourself and changed for the better and therefore, the dynamics have changed for the better as well. Be like water, my friend, adapt to the change
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:21 PM
1

yep. pretty inreliable wish-washy. you've done all you can. Just let that ship sail till it comes back. She doesn't deserve any more attention. Do other things, meet other ppl in the meantime. Good luck sir!
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:02 PM
1

yes. sounds good
/r/seduction22/10/19 05:13 PM
1

Don't suggest hotel until she gives you a time(s) of availability I'd say literally the first line I originally responded you with already. "When are you actually free?" "get back to me on when you are able to come over". something along those lines
/r/seduction22/10/19 04:53 PM
3

good luck. let's just hope he's not too passive otherwise, i'd imagine it's a turn off for you if he never makes a move. but if you're patient, just keep at it
/r/seduction22/10/19 04:53 PM
6

ask him out for coffee 1on1. or talk to a mutual friend and drop some hints back to relay to him
/r/seduction22/10/19 04:39 PM
1

nono. I mean figure out her availability cause that's what she hasn't properly answered you on
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:49 PM
1

feels like the whole thing still left up in the air.. like no solution has been proposed yet. So you've both established you wanna meet n fuck like very soon.. good.. so you guys just haven't agreed on when n where.. I don't think it has anything to do with being too keen for this moment cause you guys already established intent. you're just figuring out the logistics
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:11 PM
1

depends how the text conversation actually ended. but ye, you got the right idea about leaving it in her court and not over pursuing.
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:56 PM
1

ye. just end it on "Ok, Just let me know when you''ve confirmed your schedule and we'll see if we can work smoething out" and then don't followup any more.
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:45 PM
1

I absolutely !$#^@# hate the "guess what you free" game and getting virtually every date suggested getting shot down. The woman needs to just say when she's actually free after your first suggestion date was rejected
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:14 PM
1

shouldn't be. but less initiating on your part. I'd say you should be doing 25% of the initiating. Don't act too keen. Cause when she knows she has you, she won't put any effort toward you.
/r/seduction17/10/19 05:16 PM
2

sticking around makes you an orbiter though. hoping she breaks it off with the person she's seeing. You'll be waiting on her beck n call in a very pathetic manner. Basically stringing you along. So that makes you a dog on her leash if you wanna take part in that up to you. I wouldn't give much priority to someone who isn't willing to give the same in return.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:45 PM
7

say "call me when you change your mind".. then never contact her again unless she contacts you specificially to work something out with you. If it's not that, shut her down and go no contact again
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:20 PM
10

some ppl are bad texter but better in person. Give her a phone call (not a text) and get her out on a date. if she's wishy washy, then give up
/r/seduction17/10/19 03:21 PM
432

You stole me keys, let me steal your phone number
/r/seduction16/10/19 08:54 PM
1

If she hasn't offered alternative dates, she's generally not feeling it with you
/r/seduction16/10/19 08:04 PM
3

wait. who was last to msg right now? I'm under the assumption you gave her a time but she didn't respond. In that case, you left the ball at her court. Give her time to answer. if no answer, leave her and move on. As far as I see, you didn't fuck anything up... She's either busy or just changed her mind on you.
/r/seduction16/10/19 07:30 PM
3

take I don't knows or maybes as no. give a pause on the contact and see if she reaches out. But it doesn't sound optimistic
/r/seduction16/10/19 07:13 PM
1

Flaking?? really? that's the ultimate turn off for me. Women don't have to do much to "GET" the man as long as they're not insecure and overbearing. Just occasionally initating and taking interest is usually enough and having good flirt game with words and touches.
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:34 PM
7

I'd go on with life and never bring it up again unless SHE does. stuff like this will ruin relationships after the threesome happens under duress
/r/seduction09/10/19 04:54 PM
2

move on. any one who says "maybe" or "I don't know" basically don't have any sincerity toward you
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:18 AM
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