ryoga040726 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Hypothetical: asking a friend if she ever thought about you as more than a friend	Field Report	ryoga040726	/r/seduction	28/04/24 06:56 PM
0	Interested in a friend, need some timing advice	Escalation & Calibration	ryoga040726	/r/seduction	19/03/24 01:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Hypothetical: asking a friend if she ever thought about you as more than a friend Thank you for your response, and you are so right. I’ve been reflecting a lot today (along with other healthy activities like an 8 mile run), and I realize that feelings changing like this could be viewed as wanting to take a “shortcut”. I’ve been scared of rejection, and will be looking through this forum for good tips to control that fear.	/r/seduction	29/04/24 06:00 AM
1	Hypothetical: asking a friend if she ever thought about you as more than a friend Thank you. I needed to hear this. You obviously can’t see my reaction as I type this, but I’m grateful for the truth. Even if I differentiate “friendzone” from actually being a friend, the end result is the same.	/r/seduction	28/04/24 08:52 PM
5	Should I tell her that I like her? No no no. Surprising a woman emotionally = unpleasant response	/r/seduction	11/04/24 02:00 AM
49	What is a cool hobby that has helped you attract? Running. But it has to be something you love, more generally. You could get lucky & meet someone. But more broadly, it’ll make you feel good about YOURself, which is healthy energy that in turn makes others want to be around you. Including, but not limited to, potential partners.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 04:05 PM
1	Interested in a friend, need some timing advice I’m open to it. Heck, part of me even expects it. But what’s motivating me is getting confirmation of strictly platonic, or a pleasant surprise. I’ll err on the side of expecting nothing since (without selling myself short), expecting a positive response left was dead wrong.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 04:01 PM
2	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero Okay, let me get a bit more specific. 1.) Get rid of the negative attitude. You're defeating yourself before you even start doing anything based on your responses to other folks on your post. 2.) Take up a hobby. Maybe you liked board games as a kid? Find some cool ones and read up about them. Then look for anyone in your neck of the woods that shares the hobby. Note that "board game" is just a filler for any specific activity that you choose and find interesting. 3.) Better yet, find out what o…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 03:55 AM
2	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero Practice some self compassion. Do interesting things that energize you. If you can't love yourself, you can't expect to genuinely love anyone else.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 01:00 AM