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Totally different account. I guess for the leftover portion, my stuff is mine and his stuff is his. We don't really know what each other spends it on and don't really care since it's dedicated fun money. For things like shared goals (vacations or whatever) he saves that in his account as a separate savings account.
/r/RedPillWives12/03/19 02:05 AM
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My husband took over everything but the grocery budget when I quit my job to stay home. Basically, I just put everything into his name when it came to utilities and car payments, etc. I reapplied for my car loan and just said I wanted him to be on it since he was the one making payments. He transfers me the food money at the beginning of the month and also gives me half of what's left after paying bills and saving.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/19 06:20 PM
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Is there another topic you two could talk about? Could you start something new together like a new show to watch, new book to read, etc? Why do you feel like your stuff is trivial? Is there a way you can reframe it so you are getting satisfaction from it on your own so it doesn't matter if he's burnt out and spacing when you're talking?
/r/RedPillWives25/02/19 01:37 AM
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Good luck!! I had the same experience with the DepoProvera shot.
/r/RedPillWives01/02/19 10:50 PM
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Has he himself said the same things about being married? Or is he just watching the videos? It could be that he's feeling depressed or self conscious about himself and just happened to come across this type of thing when he was looking for some kind of self help thing.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:39 PM
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if we do our own thing I will have a lot of fallout from my mother and brother, and they will also take it out on him. Why? Is this the same brother who is living with you now? Personally, I feel like if your mom is going to act like that, you should stand up for your boyfriend if you really see him as someone you'd marry. It shouldn't have to be a him vs. them thing. He's your family too. Holidays can cause people to see things through rose-colored glasses that you otherwise wouldn't put up wit…
/r/RedPillWives19/11/18 04:13 PM
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I've used this tutorial for a plain long skirt. I used cotton spandex jersey from Spoonflower in a couple prints I liked.
/r/RedPillWives18/11/18 05:09 PM
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In the end, my mom told me to get out of her and my husbands' argument and leave them alone. No. He's your husband. She needs to GTFO if she's going to be so disrespectful. Would your husband let his own mother talk to you like she is? I know it's hard to try and reason with someone who knows how things should betm but you need to. She's your mom. So I told my mom, how I feel. And then she turned it all on me. How we're unable to take criticism or advice, and how she's not allowed to talk at all…
/r/RedPillWives18/10/18 11:02 PM
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Teaching piano lessons School crossing guard City rec league referee During certain holidays, I'd bake or make themed food for people to take to BBQs or potlucks. Just used Pinterest recipes and put up photos/prices on FB and IG. None make that much but I can bring my baby and that helps a lot. Could also do them all if I really needed to because they're all low hours part time at different times during the week.
/r/RedPillWives14/06/18 07:06 PM
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I can empathize with the low income part. It's definitely gotta be tricky to try and cook from scratch when you can barely afford the basics. Cooking is also something a lot of people just don't flat out enjoy. One of my mom's friends switched to basically all frozen meals like lasagna or whatever and it made her and her family's life easier and happier. As far as the picky thing goes, I don't know. My husband can't cook much but if he doesn't like what I've made, he just makes himself a sandwic…
/r/RedPillWives10/04/18 10:15 PM
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My school called it Early Childhood Development.
/r/RedPillWives06/03/18 05:41 PM
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Probably both. I don't think you should abandon it entirely but take it easy from here.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:56 AM
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Sort of baby related: I'm trying to get out of the initial haze of having a newborn. He's coming up on 3 weeks old and is gaining weight just fine. My normal housekeeping routine has suffered while I tried to adjust to less sleep and a hungry baby. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions on how to work in things like dishes, laundry, etc...in 2 hour segments? I try and keep his awake time focused on him so I have to stick to naptime. Maybe I just need to write it all down so I can physically se…
/r/RedPillWives28/01/18 02:40 AM
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He's turned it all around on me, saying that I push him and push him until he snaps. Told me I'm emotionally abusive. He's responsible for his own actions in the same way that you are. You can't make him do anything.
/r/RedPillWives20/12/17 12:34 AM
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I have a cleaning schedule I found on Pinterest. It has daily stuff then once a week stuff. I give myself Saturdays as a free day because that was chore day growing up and I hated that. Something I wish I did when I first moved out is make a checklist of common household needs you don't think about like a toilet plunger or drain snake. There's probably something like that on Pinterest too. I had a week where I went to Target every day because I had forgotten something. For decorating, I honestly…
/r/RedPillWives26/11/17 12:22 AM
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If you're looking for shopping suggestions, I like Shabby Apple, Downeast Basics, Mikarose or ModestPop. Some of it can be frumpy but there is a good mix of flattering without being too tight or skimpy.
/r/RedPillWives19/11/17 07:15 AM
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How about you: acknowledge the fact that you will miss spending time with her because she was pleasant and the sex was nice don't try and make this some kind of fucking power play and just cut it out and focus on finding someone else who wants to be with you or at least is down to fuck and finally take a long honest look at yourself and see what you are bringing to the table instead of throwing it all back on her for not staying with someone she's not attracted to anymore
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:56 AM
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How can I lie/manipulate her into thinking this relationship is still viable? bruhhh. Just fuck right off. It's done. It's done and you're making it worse. No reason to keep talking to her, no reason to continue putting in effort that is completely wasted. Why would you want to fuck someone who doesn't want to be with you? Cut that shit out and drop it.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:30 AM
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I came home from work to him doing the dishes when it was my week to do it. I asked why and he said he has a reminder on his phone to write me a cute note but he forgot so he decided to do dishes instead.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/17 07:03 PM
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This is my biggest pet peeve with people. Even if you're not doing it to be "sexy" it's still incredibly rude or awkward to act like that to your partner in public.
/r/RedPillWives03/08/16 12:58 AM
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She hit him and threw a tantrum over 3 bucks. It is not his fault this woman can't act like a civil human being.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:09 PM
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...pervily..
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:23 PM
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...is this for real? Bad genes? lol
/r/askTRP01/07/14 06:41 AM
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She's probably scared. She's in a place where she feels no one else would want her and why should she change? You haven't left yet. If you're in a place where you don't love her or even have a hard time tolerating her company, you owe it to yourself and her to either give an ultimatum or just leave.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 08:40 PM
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Do you know each other pretty well? Because then I'd say, "Hey, I saw this new movie/restaurant/thing is doing this thing tonight. You should come with me to it." If not, I'd ask before telling.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 08:00 PM
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Nothing is wrong with you. Well, keeping in contact probably isn't the best thing to do but that could be fixed. You didn't make a mistake. You made a good decision to get out of a relationship you weren't invested in. Just because she's rebounding left and right doesn't mean she's better. You're making her out to be something she's not. You said yourself you weren't happy anymore so trust your feelings and cut contact.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 06:09 AM
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Tell her to shut the fuck up or drive herself. It's pretty simple. If she's going to be rude and backseat drive you up the wall you don't need to spend time with her.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 05:45 AM
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