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| 25 | [FR] 4-years older OkCupid HB7 first date F-close | Field Report | ryward64 | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Alright. How do I transcend from just messing around to sex? | ryward64 | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 02:11 AM | |
| 1 | How many partners have you had? | ryward64 | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 08:18 PM |
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| 4 | Serious question - men who cleaned up their life and became awesome, what were the biggest things that helped you?Lost 90 pounds. Focused on myself. My goals, hobbies, career, friends, and family became much more important than any girl I'm trying to fuck. Also, I don't check my phone every 5 minutes, I'll text back a girl when I feel the need to look at my phone. If that means 10 minutes or 2 hours from when they texted me, then they'll have to deal with it. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I can't drink.. can I still play the game?Dedication. I like that. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 04:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 4-years older OkCupid HB7 first date F-closeI made certain to assure her that I felt no different about her then I would a girl my age or a girl 4 years younger. We'll neg on each other, she would bring up how I was "young and inexperienced", reinforcing the idea that she's alright with being a bit older. By all means though I try to stay clear of any discussion of age just in case she does feel uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 02:39 PM |
| 6 | [FR] 4-years older OkCupid HB7 first date F-closeI laughed and told her, "I see what you did there, you cougar." She laughed and punched me in the shoulder. Assume attraction and escalate. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 12:19 AM |
| 7 | [FR] 4-years older OkCupid HB7 first date F-closeI think you're trying too hard. I usually message someone with something short and simple: "Hey, I'm ryward64. What's your name?" Or "Hey, I'll be going downtown this weekend. You wanna grab a beer?" I used to message girls like you with drawn out introductions but I found that they usually want something short and to the point. I'm not sure why? Exchange names, then ask them to tell you about themselves, then ask for a number so you can set up a date later. Works for me! | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 12:17 AM |
| 3 | [FR] 4-years older OkCupid HB7 first date F-closeI'm pretty average looking guy and having some success. What's your approach when you message someone? | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 10:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 4-years older OkCupid HB7 first date F-closeFor sure. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 09:02 PM |
| 7 | the only response to getting blown offI've done the same thing. However, what do you do in the situation where they text you a few days after you delete their number? Deleting a number can seem childish. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places?Text game is important between day1 and date1. You're going to have build rapport by being honest and open. Be casual but ask some hard hitting questions and constantly escalate, if you don't know how to properly escalate via text then check out /r/creepypms or /r/cringe, I use these as a guide on exactly what not to do/say. Also, take your time, there shouldn't be a rush to have her come over. If she feels any neediness or she feels that you're clinging onto her then she'll immediately lose int… | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 10:53 PM |
| 36 | What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places?Nice. | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 07:44 AM |
| 9 | What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places?Yeah. Now don't get me wrong, I wouldn't go about asking random girls to come over and eat with you. Make sure that she trusts you first, and there's a number of way I do this. If you're game is mostly trough texting then you're gonna have to have some back and forth leaning towards each others more intimate moments. Continually escalate through text and don't be scared to open up about yourself, this will build trust and she'll ultimately open up to you. If she is part of your social circle the… | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 07:43 AM |
| 4 | What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places?I guess I wouldn't understand in a large city. I've always been from areas with relatively small populations (Kansas, Texas, and South Dakota). Last few I've done this with have been high calibre though, so I wouldn't restrict it to how attractive they are but how comfortable they feel around you. You have to appear as someone they can trust to get an f-close anyway. Also, it's always worth asking. In all seriousness if you can have a date where you'll be isolated for any amount of time then you… | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 06:35 AM |
| 109 | What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places?Invite her over to your house and cook something together. You'll learn a lot about each other, you can be controlling, demanding, and physical by giving her a project, and you can show off some of your true colors. Also, you'll hopefully be at home by yourself where you won't have to isolate her from a crowd or friends. My last date I went on cost me about $35 (which included alcohol and food for both of us, I had plenty of leftovers afterwards) and I f-closed. We made our own pizzas and shared… | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 06:12 AM |
| 3 | I feel like the new Audi Super Bowl commercial sums up the "state" mentality Seddit preaches.Fuck yes. Took this girl out last week. HB10, jumping a few levels for me. She's got her shit together (grad school, interned at NASA last year, comes from some money). I didn't think things would go any further. 3 beers and then I watched this. Told her that she's mine tomorrow. It worked. Meeting up 7:30 tomorrow evening, don't even care if I seal the deal. I knew that if I didn't capitalize that I would regret it forever. "State"... Have it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.Yeah, man. I'm going to get a paternity yet as soon as possible. Thanks tho. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.Well if the Air Force thinks I'm qualified.... Then I'm probably qualified.... | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.Agreed. I'm not going to jump to any conclusions regarding my future until 1) the paternity test clarifies that I am the father and 2) I talk to a lawyer about my options for joining. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 12:14 AM |
| 0 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.That's the thing, I'd be willing to sign my rights away to my parents or another family member. But the Air Force prohibits the signing of my rights away, and if found out later on in life that I signed them away I'll be dishonorably discharged. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.I don't want to give my right away. That's the thing, I want to be a good father and would like to fight for custody of my child later on in life if my ex continues to live a destructive lifestyle (she was an alcoholic before she got pregnant). I guess I could marry someone else, but I'm not one to be looking for a relationship while I have another girl pregnant. If I'm going to be around then we're going to have joint custody. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.Right now we're both working close to minimum wage jobs (she's a cosmetologist and I've been working on a ranch). Had we done this I would've been making close to $3000 a month with free medical insurance and housing. I was going into a career field that makes close to 100k yearly. We could have gotten divorced about a year after the marriage, the marriage would've been a formality for the bigger picture. I just wanted to give my daughter the best life possible and this seemed like the best rout… | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.You're right. She's not in fault here. This is the policy the Air Force uses concerning single fathers joining. I might talk to a lawyer and see what I can do. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.I'm going to have her take one as soon as possible, my recruiter isn't going to serve me discharge letters until it's proven the child is mine. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Alright Men's Rights. I need some help. Pregnant ex just ruined my life.You can read up on it here | /r/MensRights | 16/01/13 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Alright. How do I transcend from just messing around to sex?Solid tip, bro. I usually go for the massage but in the heat of the moment I forget. Next time gonna just slow down and preheat the oven rather than just try to throw it in the microwave. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Alright. How do I transcend from just messing around to sex?Weird thing is, I live in a small town and I keep in touch with all these girls. We hang out on a regular basis. If they are from out of town I usually keep in touch, usually I'll ask for a date or to join in a social gathering. They usually say yes.... Maybe I'm trying to speed things up too quickly! | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Alright. How do I transcend from just messing around to sex?Okay. Last situation was making out, getting everything off except for underwear, and things were leading to oral and then she suddenly just stopped and decided to go? This has happened multiple times in the same situation with different women, give or take a few steps. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 02:43 AM |
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