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| 1 | Scientific data disproves Chad & Stacy are responsible for involuntary sexlessness in young never married men. | s00perlame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:31 PM | |
| 1 | Getting negged by a 36 year old man on OLD | MALE DEPRAVITY | s00perlame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:56 PM |
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| 1 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Men often do make those choices without their wives input which is probably why most divorces are initiated by women, because the women are miserable being with their husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Which would you want: The virgin who only gives you missionary for the rest of your life, or the non-virgin who does all the kinky stuff you like for the rest of your life?I'm bi so.... I fuck men and women. All the women I have had sex with like to feel safe and respected. I have a feeling the lack of respect is a you problem and not a women problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Which would you want: The virgin who only gives you missionary for the rest of your life, or the non-virgin who does all the kinky stuff you like for the rest of your life?You sound 17. Saying the only good sex lacks respect shows you have no idea how to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Which would you want: The virgin who only gives you missionary for the rest of your life, or the non-virgin who does all the kinky stuff you like for the rest of your life?The only good sex lacks respect? I feel sorry for your partners. Some seem to care more about performance sex than their partner actually enjoying it. The girls with low body counts probably didn't know better from their lack of experience. The more experienced women didn't want to put up with your bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsMy ex had sex with at least 20 obese women off tinder with no condoms because he had low self-esteem and would literally sleep with anyone. He is very low value. My n count is about 1/4 of his and mine would still be considered high by the standards posted here, but thanks to guys like him I've been in in at least 10 dating relationships in the past 12 years because after a few months I find out who someone really is and decide I deserve better. People can have high n counts for so many reasons,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Female friends aren't useless just because they didn't have sex with TRPersSo you're saying 1. she wasn't a good person 2. She didn't like you that much since she was dating other dudes. Where does any of this imply that you were "too nice"? She just didn't want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Female friends aren't useless just because they didn't have sex with TRPersThat's just not how it works. You're making excuses for why they weren't interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Female friends aren't useless just because they didn't have sex with TRPersNo, there was never any attraction to begin with. I've never turned down a guy for being my friend. Only because there was no romantic attraction. No woman will turn down a guy she already likes because he is a friend. Chances are you were either a shit friend or she wasn't interested to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?That some men don't take care of themselves and are neither physically, financially, or even emotionally attractive? Some of you guys are a therapist, a new diet, and a skin care routine away from being the best you there is, but instead, you guys come here to cry 😓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?Really? I see many men balding, fattening, and wrinkling in the late 20s. While the women I know actually use skincare and look early 20s in the late 20s. 35 isn't the wall TRP men would love to think it is. Most of these guys aren't rich either. Most men in my country make an average of $45k per year. Older men are just as mediocre, average, low income, and usually less attractive than their same aged counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?Mens sperm quality actually declines rapidly after 35. Men over 35 have a greater risk of children with defects. They actually do have the same fertility window in terms of quality. They just don't like to admit that. Edited. Sperm quality somehow auto corrected to "supermarket " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Female friends aren't useless just because they didn't have sex with TRPersExactly. Expecting that person to reciprocate is entitlement. Hoping they reciprocate is normal. When someone you like doesn't like you back, they didn't "friendzone" you because you were *never in the running in the first place. " It's like saying you got last place in a race you didn't run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Female friends aren't useless just because they didn't have sex with TRPersShe just posted a bunch of statistics, and you're not even going to acknowledge them and just state what you "think." Is one of the rules of TRP to have no idea how to debate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?Will she win if he divorces her for a younger model when she's 45 and has no work experience for the last 25 years? Retirement? Pension? 401k? It depends on what you call "winning". I don't care how much money my husband makes, I want to work. Most modern women do not consider relying on a man financially as "winning" despite TRPs theories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:18 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceIt sounds like you're in high school. Most people have quirks. Especially when you live with them. Like, I'm gonna leave my boyfriend because he has hemorrhoids? Nah. Everyone has something weird or embarrassing about them. Putting on a mask for people is only causing you to have shallow relationships that will never last because you can't wear a mask forever. You present a fake person, then blame the women when they don't like the real you. These "girls" wouldn't have liked you if you didn't pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?I would never do that. In my country, being legally married comes with all kinds of rights that I would need to commit to having someone's children and cohabitation. If someone would not legally connect themselves to me. I would not give them a marriage in the other senses of the word without the legal protections. I knew a guy with his girlfriend 10 years, and when he died suddenly, she had no say in his funeral or medical decisions. His asshole mom got to make the decisions since they weren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 3 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?Tinder. Didn't think it was possible but that's how it happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:49 AM |
| 3 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?Nothing is holding me back, currently. I am in a happy relationship of 5 months. What used to hold me back was mostly finding the right person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 02:32 AM |
| 7 | Discussion: Ugly Guys and Ugly Girls & the way they treat their partnersMy ex was ugly, and he had a tinder with a whole new identity and personality. He would match only with women who were 250lbs or above and text them for weeks, then eventually fuck them once and ghost. He said "fat chick's are insecure, and they will fuck you." Obviously, I got the fuck out of there. I knew him since we were kids, and no one knew he was like this. Some ugly guys are so insecure they will do anything or spend an outrageous amount of time and effort just to hurt someone they deem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:That's not why they rejected you. You're gaslighting yourself here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:37 PM |
| 0 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:I'm just saying the red pill notion that back in the day all a man had to have is some financial security, and he could easily get a wife is stupid. Like they have this fantasy that men were desired back then. They weren't; they were needed for survival. Back in the 40s and 50s, it was a different world. People were more religious, and women were subjugated. Talking about how it was in 1940/1950 is irrelevant. Of course, some women could get by in life without a husband, but usually because she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:No one rejects anyone because of their "niceness." People get rejected because the other person isn't romantically interested. If could be their appearance, hygiene, sense of humor, or lack of, lack of general things in common, live too far away, already married. There are millions of reason someone could be rejected, but being too nice is most likely not one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:Seeking arrangement is like 85% bots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:03 PM |
| 0 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:It was probably because women barely had rights at that time. Getting married was security for her life. Not a romantic endeavor. You guys think women trying to survive in the 40/50s equates to "attraction." These women were mostly never attracted to their husbands. I'm sure where, but in a time when having any husband* improved your life, it was easier to make the decision to marry. Confusing survival and societal pressures does not equate to attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderIt shows 2% of women and like an insane amount of men. So rhe fact that some women are also guilty means we should overlook the majority of men? Everything is always women's fault to misogynists lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationIt's like the men who get all pissy about women's day and then don't do anything to celebrate men's day. They're mad we won't do it for them. Confidence is very attractive to women, and the bitter cycle of men being deeply insecure is what makes them unattractive in the first place. It's technically no one's job to uplift one another, but friends should. The toxic masculinity in the replies is scary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderAlso, a retraction doesn't prove the opposite of the study true. The retraction is over a coding error. There are numerous studies done over the years that show men divorce sick wives. You're playing semantics over a study I did not even link to prove me wrong. This is why women don't take TRP men seriously because you can't even debate properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderNice try, but that retraction is for a different study than the one I linked. The one I linked was out of a completely different university. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?If that's the dream scenario why do women get so overwhelmed by matches in online dating? I just think that scripted reality shows are not a good basis to compare to real life whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?What about the Bachelorette? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderThe "only thing" includes 18 plus years plus 9 months of pregnancy. It's not "one thing" motherhood is nonstop 24/7 until your kids are old enough to fend for themselves. Caretaking and nurturing is consistent. Not a one time thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderThat's not true at all. No one blames individual men. You can blame patriarchy for things like toxic masculinity. Not individual men even if they perpetuate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderOh yes the average American man makes like $40k. The "cash and prizes" 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderSo is TRP brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderWell, it is a risk since you can literally die or become disabled from childbirth. Women lose out on careers, income, and tons of opportunity in life by being the main caregivers of children. There are dozens of risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderActually, FALSE. link Women are less likely to divorce a husband with cancer then a husband without cancer. Most female cancer patients get a divorce initiated by the husband. Nice try though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:37 PM |
| -2 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderBy holding women to the same standard, you mean a higher standard than men. Women therapists aren't able to treat men because of women, and male surgeons should be able to give women shittier surgery because women? So 100% of the blame in both scenarios here is .... women.... then you guys come here and wonder why you're single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderHow do you empathize with someone getting their first finger up the butt when we've been penetrated by medical devices yearly since high school? It's not a battle, but when we go through the exact same thing constantly and it's considered "normal" and "expected," how do you empathize with someone finally having to endure a simple medical procedure for the first time in their 50s and they make a big deal of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderProduce and raise their children. Care for them when they're sick and old. Men divorce their sick wives. Women do not leave their sick husband's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderHow can any person be held responsible for something that's happening to them while under anesthesia. That's why so many people don't take TRP men seriously because you some of you guys just say stuff to say it without any thought process or logic involved. Very childlike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Lack of empathy for the opposite genderFemale patients were significantly more likely to experience adverse effects after surgery when performed by a male surgeon vs. a female surgeon. By your logic, male surgeons shouldn't be allowed to operate on women. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2022/jan/04/women-more-likely-die-operation-male-surgeon-study | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 23 | Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill?The mentality of "how can I do as little as possible, give as little as possible, do zero self reflection, and still a 10/10 bang maid hottie who's a Virgin but porn star for me" is pretty disgusting. High level of entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?Point 1: based on insecurity Point 2: based on ego Point 3: based on sex fantasy Point 4: based on ego and insecurity Point 5: insecurity Point 6: insecurity It's almost like women's sexuality is intimidating to men 🤣 being someone's first doesn't make you the best. My first time was absolutely awful, and I knew it when it happened. Even virgins know they're supposed to cum. Not one man here has asked about the woman's goals or personality. Just going off these two unlikely arbitrary things. Hil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?I would if they weren't fucking their child's mother still, which most of them will do and continue to do for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?You make a lot of assumptions about me, which is caused by your inherent desire to belittle and degrade women because RP sees us as objects. Nah, I know plenty of guys who want to date me. I balance all the traditionally attractive traits with a lot of modern ones. Most of the guys who ask me out ate the types, realizing it's their time to settle down. I'm a homemaker type. I cook from scratch, interior decorate, love animals, and children, but I am also a college educated, hard-working feminist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?Men aren't opting out. Men are losing their shit about being lonely. Women are happy to be alone if it means we're not a mommy/bangmaid. Women of course control who we commit to. I turn down multiple men a month who are interested in dating me. You can't deny me commitment when I won't even give you the time of day. Marriage rate is going down because women are financially independent and don't need to rely on a man for housing/support, etc. Marriage rate isn't plummeting because of men's choice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 9 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?I think you're going off the notion that women dress and act in a certain way for men in general. Women don't dictate their lives by what men desire because we're financially independent and statistically more educated than men (in my country). Women do what they want, and if we find a man who likes us for who we are, then we will consider settling down. Women don't need men anymore, and a lot of us don't want a man unless he is inherently adding value to our life. We don't need to dress anyway … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleMen see women on a scale of 1 to 10. Women see men on a scale of yes or no. It's not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleMen will fuck anything. That's why. Men were having more sex in the past because they were also marrying younger. It's easier to fuck your wife than 15 different girls every month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 08:27 PM |
| 11 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleMen typically overestimate their attractiveness according to studies. like this one Maybe most guys think their an 8 when they're really a 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?Absolutely not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 01:17 PM |
| -1 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?I don't like guys who are too thin, Bad teeth, bad hygiene, no hair style just grown out messy, dirty/untrimmed finger nails, soulless eyes, too buff on top with average legs/butt, feminine voice, beer belly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedBut that's the problem with your argument. An average man can find an average woman for a relationship. What he can't do is bang a different 10/10 girl every weekend and be "Chad" on tinder. The average woman doesn't have more relationship prospects. She has more sexual prospects which TRP seem to conflate at the same thing. You guys seek to include the men looking for a pump & dump in the "options" category for a relationship when in fact they are not. TRP seems to conflate having options with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedThe research you're going by is on dating apps. Dating apps don't conflate to all real life dating. As for the apps,, casual sex for women is so unfulfilling that only 1 in 10 women orgasm on a first hook up. Why would we be hooking up with guys were a. Not attracted to b. Most likely won't even attempt to give us an orgasm. Of course women are selective for appearance when looking for casual because that's all men have to offer. Why risk it? Women are happy to be alone, therefore we shoot our s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:04 PM |
| -1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedGuys love to use the excuse of testosterone and biology but then like to say that women never take responsibility for their actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Scientific data disproves Chad & Stacy are responsible for involuntary sexlessness in young never married men.Flair added for discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:36 PM |
| -1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedWhy is it women's fault that men's standard is so low? Are you guys proud to be desperate or just enjoy the double standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipNah you can tell by the way they talk and conduct themselves. Or they seek out naive/vulnerable victims who don't know better. Hence why abusers typically seek out younger women because they have less life experience and don't know what to look out for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipExactly. Since these guys refuse to empathize with women I tried to role reverse so OP could hear how entitled and whiny he sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:07 PM |
| – | Which studies/research prove Pill philosophies and which studies debunk them?There are like hundreds of other factors to appearance than height. If you go by height maybe it's women. All the married men I know mostly average height, average looking, average income, and slightly overweight. Going by extreme outliers and the r/tinder sub isn't reality buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipWomen don't have to live by rules. We are free to fuck whoever we want whenever we want. As are you. The trouble is no one wants wants fuck you because of your misogynist attitude and you're cockblocking yourself with your own anger and nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipMen are misleading women and giving them mixed signals by making them wait for money. When someone agrees to a date with another, the implication is that there is mutual financial attraction, and interest in a financial relationship. If the man makes the woman wait for money, he is manipulating her to achieve his goals. Her desires are being ignored in favour of his selfish interest of wanting safety, comfort, certainty and commitment. If this is considered acceptable for man to do, it's also ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipFrom the other perspective. "If a man won't pay your rent after 2 weeks of dating... it is okay to tell him you're pregnant and need abortion money you can get paid anyway. Obviously there are men who have paid their girlfriends rent before, why isn't he paying mine? Trying to manipulate me into dating him? Even if the guy hasn't paid his exes rent, why doesn't he understand I need to feel special? Can't he just pay my rent because men know women LOVE getting their rent paid? He trying to manipu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipRight youre both free to walk away. You said its okay to lie about wanting a relationship to manipulate a woman into sleeping with you. Isn't it kind of a chicken and egg scenario? If you're the one who is so disgusting you're willing to manipulate her, isn't she 100% in the right to hold off for commitment? Men like you are exactly why women hold out. We don't want to encounter manipulators and liars like you, we hold out to see your true colors. Most women go by your actions and not words. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipWomen like to feel special with things like a personalized card or remembering my favorite restaurant I mentioned once a few months ago. To think a woman doesn't sleep around but somehow there is something so special about you that she will overlook her own morals to fuck you is just unrealistic. It's pure fantasy. Women aren't delusional enough to think that we're going to convince someone to change their values and morals for us because we're so special. You guys make fun of women for trying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipYeah but women aren't fish. If fish could speak I'm sure one would be like "hey those worms aren't really cutting it we prefer xyz" and fisherman would just be like "nah you're getting worms, I caught PLENTY of you guys using worms. Why listen to your expert advice when I simply do whatever I like and catch a fish after working much harder than necessary" 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:47 PM |
| 0 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipNo one has to accommodate anyone with their body. It's called bodily autonomy. You spend a lot of time with your home boys? Why don't you bend over and let one of your boys accommodate you? Oh yeah, because you don't want to. No one is entitled to another person's body. Full stop. If you're looking for sex, and she's not giving it to you. Move on. If you're that desperate for sex that the only way to get it is why manipulation.... a. That explains why you're so desperate b. Women can sense men t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:42 PM |
| – | Which studies/research prove Pill philosophies and which studies debunk them?I can tell you that as a woman, there is a threshold. For me it's "does this person repulse me?" We don't consider the personality of men who physically repulse us. Because we would never have sex with a guy that we find disgusting. We do care about physical appearance, we don't obsess over it like men do. Men on average spend way less time on their appearance and are more likely to have terrible photos. We eliminate those who are a 100% no then look at the personalities of those we find to meet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:12 PM |
| 2 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedHow do you get into the bottom 92% when most men swipe right on every profile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedMolecules don't have genders. Do you mean "cells"? Cause at least those have DNA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?We only have 7 states with common law marriage as another commenter posted. By your logic why is she responding to OP not knowing what country she is in? Were all in different places speaking our own opinions here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?A quick Google search reveals reddit users are 47% American. I'm sure every country is different, I am only commenting from my own perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?You can't take FMLA leave to care for a boyfriend. It only covers family members. "Life partners" aren't covered. If your life partner gets sick your job doesn't have to give you time off to care for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:38 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?Income tax, Ira, tax exemptions on estate/ inheritance, social security, disability, Medicare, veterans benefits, FMLA leave, filing for adoption, family rates on home/auto insurance, can't be forced to testify in court, can sue for wrongful death, visiting rights in jail or hospital. Theres more. Some benefits of marriage only come from legally recognized marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/marriage-rights-benefits-30190.html Maybe so but there are plenty of other benefits of marrying that can't be done by visiting a lawyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 18 | Ladies, what does “something long-term” mean to you?Let's not pretend that piece of paper doesn't come with rights. In the event of a partners injury or death, most unmarried couples couldn't make decisions for each other or access each other's bank accounts etc, make funeral plans, etc. I'm sure some people can not marry and file powers of attorney etc but most couples just get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isI'm sure at first glance your smile is kind. Once you open your mouth the illusion is surely shattered. I'm attractive enough to be dating a younger man who could easily be banging 20 year old according to your logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isGood luck doing that at 5'8. According you no woman will want you because you're short. Good luck getting an attractive 20 year old when you're 40 and still 5'8 with a hateful and attitude and terrible conversational skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isEnjoy being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isMan: argues with himself while I literally have to break down definitions of words he clearly doesn''t understand. Same man: I've won 🏆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isLips and mouth are physical traits. Smile is an action. But whatever you say. Me "he held my hand sweetly" you "shallow hypocrite hands are physical traits!!!!!" Go touch some grass. *Smile noun a pleased, kind, or amused facial expression, typically with the corners of the mouth turned up and the front teeth exposed. "he flashed his most winning smile"* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isYou're grasping at straws here... badly. Accepting there is sexual dimorphism in humans not being shallow. I don't have a height requirement for men. By the logic you're trying to make I would be shallow for liking penis because I can never have one. You're genuinely awful at conversation and even worse at debating. Just circlejerking yourself angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:41 AM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isSo if I don't swipe right on every profile on tinder... I'm shallow? Kind eyes is a facial expression, like a smile. Not a physical trait like breast size or weight. 'Kind' eyes reflect an inner smile and genuine concern. You can fake a smile, but it is more difficult to fake feeling. Empaths have 'kind' eyes because they have genuine feeling. Genuine feeling and care for other's well-being cause a softening of the muscles around the mouth and eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is"The adjective shallow can describe things that aren't very deep, like a shallow puddle, or people who don't have much emotional or intellectual depth, like shallow people who judge others on their looks and how much money they have" Someone having kind eyes implies they look like a kind person. It isn't shallow for liking someone to be kind. Liking someone for simply for being young, especially when you're not the same age you're valuing in a partner, is very shallow given you can never attain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isThe young part is pretty shallow yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isObviously yes. Everyone's threshold is different though. It's not shallow to like guys with kind eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isHis tinder profile said "let me cook for you" and his pics were poorly taken but he had kind eyes. He was really sweet in messages and we had a lot in common. When we met he was visibly nervous and awkward. He seemed genuine and got funnier the more comfortable we got with each other. He made me feel relaxed and safe and like we could take out time getting getting know each other. Our first time meeting we realized we're both into cooking, wine, whiskey, cheese boards, animals, plants, star wars… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isI mean I think he's handsome. Like what do you want me to say? "My boyfriend is fucking disgusting and my pussy is a charity for neckbeards?" He's handsome, kind, funny, amazing lover, great cook, extremely intelligent, nice n thicc. I wouldn't be with him if I didn't like him. He's certainly not a model though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isBro my ex who cheated was literally the ugliest one. He was short and bald and fat. I guess he had something to prove to himself. All the women he cheated with were at least 250 lbs as well so I guess he found his niche. You're not making the points that you think you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isAre you referring to now or a previous post? If you are then you're proving my point. At the time I just wanted a hookup so I hit up a good looking old fling. After a short fling there and some other dates I found my current boyfriend who is everything I want in a partner. If you're looking for shallow. You get it. Doesn't mean that's everyone's long term life goal or the best way to find a long term partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isMost of my boyfriends have been average looking, varied heights, one was bald, two were balding. So I'm not really sure what the implications are there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isPeople who wanting shallow things seem to get that and seek that out. If body/appearance is important you're gonna seek that out. Some people look for something deeper and seek that out. There is no moral high ground simply having different goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isMost functional normal men don't prioritize those things. There are plenty of men who are with their partners because they have common interests, goals, and hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How many of you men have cheated on a significant other? (All honest answers, I won’t be judging)Just break up. No point in cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about a child support cap?That would be great. More women in the workforce and more men loosing promotions and jobs for calling out to work to take care of their child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities areI think a lot of men who have said stuff like that I'm "too smart for my own good" or "smarter than them" were often fuckboi types trying to manipulate me for sex, money, attention, whatever. When a fuckboi thinks he found a victim and she can see right through them it's a very hard blow to their ego. Rejection to a fuckboi might as well be a death sentence. Men not valuing intelligence in women is kind of a sad perspective but a lot of men who are intimidated by a woman's intelligence are simpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 3 | If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine.No one wants to talk about declining sperm quality with age tho https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newscientist.com/article/mg21929275-500-mens-sperm-quality-decreases-at-age-35/amp/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Surely it's men who need to lower their standards?As an 8/10 women I'm looking for my 10/10 rich husband. I'll still fuck my 8-10/10 friends with benefits when I can and use them for rides, money, food, whatever. I get worshipped by 5s and 6s. Enjoy your fuckboiness. These women are probably using you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | UK: Why must every man on TV today be a monster? A tidal wave of male-hating shows depicts women as victims, this toxic sex war hurts us allUnfortunately it usually is the only way men care about women's rights is when it effects their loved ones. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/21 07:42 PM |
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