s0craduction Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Great tip to automatically open more sets.		s0craduction	/r/seduction	21/05/13 07:44 PM

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3	So... i thought i was confident. Are you this nervous talking to any stranger or just girls? Either way try taking a step back and just get used to talking to new people to warmup. Go out and ask a couple people (guys and girls) for the time, where the nearest coffee place is, etc. The point is to just get comfortable talking to strangers and having a legit reason for starting the conversation will help with this. When you are comfortable with this try to extend the conversation for a minute or two with general small talk etc. …	/r/seduction	30/05/13 01:04 AM
2	What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material? They don't have to be but gender neutral ones are going to be far more successful in the long run.	/r/seduction	21/05/13 11:38 PM
1	Any advice on going about class approaches? How big is the class? If it a 200 hundred person class you can get completely blown out and just sit on the other side of the room and never see her again. But generally think of it more like social circle game just sit next to her and start a normal conversation. You will see her tons more times automatically so you can play a slow game. Then when you feel familiar enough mention something fun you are already doing with a group, group events are great because there is way less pressure on both …	/r/seduction	21/05/13 09:11 PM
1	How do you pump yourself up on nights you're just not feeling it? Watching infield videos on youtube, or movies where there is just some suave mother fucker like Bond or Gosling's character in Gangster squad. Also just go out to have fun and hang with your friends instead. If you really have fun when hanging with your friends most times this will pump me up into state halfway through the night anyways.	/r/seduction	21/05/13 09:01 PM
3	What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material? Not really. Instead talk about health in general and how you believe in taking care of your self and doing active/adventurous things. This makes it relatable she could then chime in about she loves yoga or bike riding etc.	/r/seduction	21/05/13 08:38 PM
0	What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material? It helps if its also gender neutral too. For instance if your really into cars chances are the girl won't be and will get really bored if you talk her head off about cars all night. But say your super into classical literature even if the girl isn't into literature she might still be interested in the conversation because it is something she can relate to.	/r/seduction	21/05/13 08:00 PM
3	What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material? Dancing! Real dancing though. You don't need to know how to salsa or tango, or ballroom but you need to know how to lead and how to spin a women. If you get one girl to dance with you and do this girls will line up to dance with you the rest of the night. Break dancing is NEVER cool though it will always come across as showy and try hard. Think disco style foot work like stuff you would see on soul train and maybe some glides. Those work well to modern dance music and can really impress. Not the…	/r/seduction	21/05/13 07:55 PM
2	How to build attraction over text over long periods? There is only 2 goals with text game: to keep whatever level of attraction and comfort you have; and get a meetup. Only real reason not to text is if she isn't responding. If she is responding to all your texts make a bit of light flirty small talk then suggest a meetup as soon as it feels right. Sooner is always better if its from night game because whatever attraction you had starts fading as soon as you leave that interaction and soon you'll just be that guy she talked to the other night. If …	/r/seduction	21/05/13 12:37 AM
2	How does one maintain rapport through text game in between dates? Don't even try to have a real conversation over text. If you already have another date setup then your only goal with text game should be to stay where you are at with rapport, attraction etc. not build more so like angry_dave simple one liners, and jokes keep it light. Think stuff you would see someone post on twitter.	/r/seduction	19/05/13 11:47 PM
1	One year in. Still nothing. Without knowing more it would be hard to nail it down, but I would say if they loose interest later on in the interaction then either you can't get into comfort or you are forgetting to keep attraction up after you're in comfort. You always need to keep throwing in some fun teasing stuff every now and then even deep into comfort.	/r/seduction	19/05/13 11:37 PM
2	As a 5'3 Asian male virgin in his 30s, am I doomed? Yeah! Grooming and fashion are huge, just think how much time girls spend on those things. That should tell you just how much they value those traits. I mean genetic looks. As long as you're average level in the genetics department grooming and fashion can take you way above the pack.	/r/seduction	19/05/13 12:57 PM
1	One year in. Still nothing. First if your only getting ugly girls chances are you're only hitting on ugly girls I personally wont touch anything below a 7 because I honestly wouldn't even have any enthusiasm for it and so my game would suck. I would say from this post that you might have attraction down but it sounds like your comfort game is weak and maybe your kino is a bit sloppy. If your getting blown out on your opener then you need to work on posture, fashion, and general demeanor. When using a canned opener you know…	/r/seduction	19/05/13 12:51 PM
1	Bear fishing (cold approach tactic) Love this idea I'll have to keep an eye out for these spots from now on.	/r/seduction	19/05/13 12:24 PM
5	What if you're a romantic, who is not terrible with women? I'm not sure you know what romantic means. A true romantic doesn't enjoy violin concertos by him self and cry because it's "so romantic". A real romantic enjoys making a women feel special and the feeling of sweeping a girl completely off her feet. That is exactly what seduction is all about. It's about having the skills to make every girl you speak to feel incredible. What you do with those skills is up to you.	/r/seduction	19/05/13 12:12 PM
1	As a 5'3 Asian male virgin in his 30s, am I doomed? I would second this only because it will take the pressure off of you. At 33 you're going to be feeling enormous social pressure to have done literally anything way earlier. A prostitute might alleviate that pressure, somewhat. That way you could start working on your game fresh without that pressure, and concentrate. This will only work however if it's not something that you will feel guilty or ashamed of. If this is the case it will only make your problems worse. Your looks have almost nothing…	/r/seduction	19/05/13 11:59 AM
5	21-m-virgin; realized I'm actually attractive could get girls/sex,but I have and still pussy out every time. I don't know why. Please help me. Honestly just let it all go man. If you get to the point you're getting to and can't put it in you don't really want it. If you did it seems like you could have, you are choosing not to. There is a reason there conscious or not you are choosing no sex. Stop feeling weird about it. There is a huge stigma associated with not having sex but just think of it this way. Human beings have evolved for thousands upon thousands of years and been streamlined to do one thing and that is reproduce. So it's r…	/r/seduction	18/05/13 01:07 PM
3	What should I wear to clubs? Once you wear one tailored shirt you'll never go back. A trick they do a lot in modeling is they will actually take clips and cinch up the clothes of models in the back. So that the clothes look tailored to their exact body. You can get the same thing for $15 and 5 min looking at yelp reviews. Definitely look up some reviews and find a a good one though because a good tailor will make you look amazing no matter your body type. What I have started doing is actually order bespoke shirts from moder…	/r/seduction	18/05/13 12:39 PM
1	How to be more social in college? If you can't find something that's fun for you find something that will help your career. One thing that I wish I would have done more of in college is join the student chapter of a professional group for your degree. It's a great way to learn how to network in general and get contacts that will help you in your career. If you can try volunteering to be an officer in it this will look great on resumes too. Ask yourself what you do like to do and find a club for that. At my college there was a cl…	/r/seduction	18/05/13 04:49 AM
2	Looking intimating. Yep smile! looking intimidating has way more to do with your facial expressions and demeanor than your body type. I have a friend that does body building competitively and he is huge but not intimidating at all because he always has this awesome happy grin on his face. Also body language. Don't close off your body language. Crossing your arms will send a huge stand off vibe subconsciously. All that being said you're really only going to attract a certain type of girl with that look. People will …	/r/seduction	17/05/13 11:08 PM
3	An Approach A Day [5 & 6] That's really a terrible text. When you get the number that means nothing unless you've already seeded a day 2 into the conversation, and she wants to meet up. Try to mention cool things you are doing in the next couple weeks and see if she gets amped about any of them. then later bring it back up and suggest she join you and you'll text her to hammer out the details. Saying this is blank we met at blank did you have fun is super low value. It's what every AFC says, you want to stand out from th…	/r/seduction	17/05/13 10:47 PM
2	What should I wear to clubs? Some higher end clubs will have dress codes usually collared shirt, dress shoes, pants and no hats. So watch out for this. Other than that accessories really do make a big difference. Especially if they have a story or meaning behind them. It will give you a go to conversation thread whenever you need it. Compliment her jewelry then launch into the story about yours. A HUGE pointer I can give is take your dress shirts and get them tailored. It will cost you like $15 but makes a gigantic differen…	/r/seduction	17/05/13 10:20 PM
1	Help! Picked up a ten on thursday now what ? You are just some random guy she had a 15min conversation with and felt enough attraction to give her number to at the moment but that is it. The longer you wait the more that small bit of attraction is going to fade. Ping her right away with something light and funny. It's best if you can use some kind of call back humor from your conversation. No more than one sentence make it a statement or joke nothing she has to answer etc. this keeps you from loosing value if she doesn't respond. ex: "WOW …	/r/seduction	17/05/13 09:06 PM
1	How much enthusiasm do you show talking to a new girl you just met? It needs to be modulated to the environment. If you're in a super high energy dance club it would be weird to be in a low energy state. If you're at a chill dive bar a really high energy state is going to be out of place. As long as it just comes across that you're this high energy guy it shouldn't be a problem I'm pretty high energy myself so I try to go to higher energy environments. But if you're showing enthusiasm by showering her with complements etc. that can come across as desperate. It s…	/r/seduction	17/05/13 08:34 PM
1	Earplugs and shit tests It's never been a problem for me just don't make them too small. Worst case scenario you could always dig it out with a q-tip later. Also you only need to lightly place it in your ears it's not like earplugs where your trying to block the noise its more like a noise filter, so it can be pretty loosely packed.	/r/seduction	17/05/13 08:29 PM
1	Social circle game I have a great example for this that illustrates some of the reason social circle game is both easier and more dangerous at the same time. I went over to pregame at a friend of a friends house before heading to the club. There was this 8 red head there will call her red. I introduce myself and I start right off in comfort just talking about normal stuff what she does etc. etc. One thing I made sure to do was keep light kino going. This is one thing that will help keep you out of the nice guy or …	/r/seduction	17/05/13 08:25 PM
1	Tough logistics case Pick her up at her place next time you meet up, and knock on her door so she invites you in. This will get rid of the awkwardness of you coming up, you've already been there less weird to come up for a drink etc. whatever excuse you use. Another great one is if you can cook, tell her you want to cook her dinner and show up with a bag of grocery and a bottle of wine for the date. Women melt for this kind of thing because it's in every cheesy romance movie and has been engraved in their mind since…	/r/seduction	17/05/13 08:04 PM
1	Dancing in a Night Club Game advise When you say you are a pretty good dancer I hope you mean more than just grinding. Grinding is NOT dancing. If you actually have a bit of decent footwork and can dance solo a bit just do that. I wouldn't say I'm and expert dancer but I'm definitely far beyond the basic side shuffle hand clap guy you see all the time. My technique is just go start dancing, 80% of the time a girl will just walk up and start dancing with me, then I grab her hand and spin her and we start. Once I do that once girls …	/r/seduction	17/05/13 07:50 PM
9	Earplugs and shit tests If its loud to the point that you need earplugs your not going to be doing much talking anyways. So you could always wear them on the dance floor/loud areas and them off in the quieter areas. I work in video and do a lot of work shooting edm events which get really loud. A trick I learned from a DJ friend is to tear a bit off of a cotton ball and use that. It still allows you to hear everything but modulates the level down. You can even hear people talking just fine. You can barely see it at all…	/r/seduction	17/05/13 05:19 AM