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You can already learn what women think by observing their behaviour and reading studies on women's attraction to men. Man...you really just cant. Its nowhere near the same. Social skills with women are a real and impprtant thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:01 PM
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Theres an avalanche of misogyny out there, man. Women are harassed more in the street than they were 10/20 years ago. Manosphere content is opnely women hating. Men make increidbly sexist jokes openly and frequently. Politicians are getting voted in who take away womens rights. There is a genuine culture of hating women as a scapegoat for all the problems affecting men. If youre a decent guy who doesnt contribute to it, doesnt mean it isnt happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:21 AM
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Males are always the ones thrown in front of danger, the load bearers, the hard laborers, in almost all species. Men are the physically stronger sex with the mindset for physicality/conflict. They are not 'thrown' in front of danger, they naturally assume that role. Women 'made' men do it? What kind of weak complaint is that? But we arent talking about that, we are talking about the gendered expectation on men to be emotionless/never vulnerable, and that their needs to be suportef arent taken se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:25 AM
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Weakness is a vice for men but not women. Shyness is a vice for men but not women. Unemployment kills a man's marriage hopes, but not women's. Autism is a dating death sentence for men but not women. Male domestic violence victims are laughed at and mocked. Women victims are not. Men who are victims of women WHO CREATED THIS?! WHO SHAPED THE WORLD SO THAT MEN ARE EXPECTED TO LIVE UP TO AN IMPOSSIBLE STANDARD OF STRENGTH AND TOUGHNESS AND EMOTIONAL DETACHMENT? The main driver in men, reinforcing …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:01 AM
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"I dont think any of the reasons young men are angry at the world/life/women/themselves are legitimate - after all, they live in the west! Life has never been better. They have no reason to be angry" ...is the kind of argument youre making. If young men can be angry/hate things about the world, deapite the material wealth around us, why cant women? No reason ppd should just be a safe space for mens greivances, as much as redpillers want it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:46 AM
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Its considered the same thing when negative attitudes to women become actual real life hostile behaviour towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:35 AM
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The western right: "Muslims are barbaric and uncultered, look how they oppress women" The western right when its pointed out they believe the same misogyny as conservative Islam, and are voting in misogynistic politicians making the same stuff law: "How fucking dare you, im not a hypocrite"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:30 AM
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Nobody who spends all their time on forums talking about relationships is the guy who takes any woman. That is actually a kind of guy who exists. I met a couple at uni. They arent necessarily the best looking, but they turn out alright. Crucially, theyve got the confidence and social skills to make a range of women feel comfortable. And they are good with the shy ones. Nobody should be open to dating anyone, thats desperation. And thats why, for all their superior dating success, I wouldnt want …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:16 PM
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Yeah. Its seen as empowering because modern women are not being 'tied to the roles of the past'. The social pressure on women to have kids use to be huge, on top of the lack of employment prospects Nowadays, as much as the narrative hangs about, the only people women are defying by not having kids are their families. Societal norms have given way to capitalism. If you are looking after yourself and you dont want kids...nobody is coming for you. I am happy to be a man in a socoety that doesnt tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:30 PM
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He told me that his mom and grandma would tell him that any women would be lucky to have him and that he just needed to be nice and wait and see. So I doubt it is porn, it’s likely mommy and grandma, and the men believed them. Yeah, advice from a different time. Mom and grandma didn't have to try hard to find third spaces to meet men. Those spaces just existed. People don't fall into each others laps now like they used to. Having a clean shirt and straight teeth isn't an achievement like it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:43 PM
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Red Pill men on here demand perpetual babying. All their greivances must be 100% legit and true, but the moment anything is happening to anyone else - especially women - it must be false. When men are rejected for superficial reasons, its because women are spiteful and cruel. When a woman is rejected for similar reasons, she 'shouldnt expect men to pick her, because shes not what men want'. Hmmm, wouldnt that also make men 'spiteful and cruel', then? 🧐 They wont admit they are simply biased agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:36 PM
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Avalanche of delusion in your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:13 PM
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People are very bad at relating to problems different from their own, because their framework for the world is thinking everything would be better if their problems were fixed. Thats not considering what its like being a different person with different problems. So a guy whose tried really hard to get female attention, but has failed, looks at a woman who has men throwing themselves at her and thinks: 'wow, she has it so easy. All my problems would be solved if my life was like that' What hes no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:01 PM
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You must be so lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:03 PM
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Its not cheating. Me and my gf are not suddenly chaste when talking to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:22 PM
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Micro-cheat Being in a relationship doeant stop you having flirty conversations with the opposite sex. If anything, having a relaxed and confident energy draws more people to you (this is commonly reported by men). I wouldnt want to be told to not do this just cos my girfriend is jealous. Its just social interaction, and as long as im not actively pretending im single and interested, I dont see the big deal. Similarly, the same would happen with her, and I dont mind. You cant own your girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:48 PM
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How would you feel if a new girlfriend opened up to you and said 'I tried to get with a bunch of guys but they didnt think I was hot enough?' You can sympathise, but theres not much you can do about it. Its also kind of saying 'men dont give me a chance' just as you are giving her a chance. Its a neurosis that you are countering with your presence, so you cant really do any more. Just because somwthing feels like a burden on yourself, doesnt mean the person listening can help, or has to apprecia…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:34 PM
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Ive felt raw anger in situations where Ive opened up. Its scary. For myself and for the people im talking to. It feels like opening up a wound. The thing is, one cant expect people not to be scared of you. Especially girlfriends - who are vulnerable to your strength, and simply dont know how you are going to act given you are in unfamiliar territory. Their fear resonse is normal. It can make you feel alienated, but they havent done anything wrong. You have to process the emotion and do it with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:09 PM
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You are describing the most objectionable woman possible who exhibits every single possible cruel respone to a man opening up - all in one. This is grievance mountain. All women are imperfect, but the idea that you meet someone and they are going to do this to you is exactly what holds men back. It comes from a place of insecuriry and assumed opposition. Some guys arent very good at opening up, even when they are invited to. A lot of that isnt coming from a bad place, they just dont have a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:56 PM
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The 'bad boys'/'villains' in films represent an idealised version of an actual 'bad' man. A woman can imagine, via the film, being courted by the dark, mysterious dude. While the realistic consequences of being with that person are far away. Theres a similar 'bad girl' trope in movies. An extroverted, risk taking, wise cracking girl who causes chaos and doesnt pick up the tab. In the film she seems so fun and exciting. In real life, that woman is probably an alcoholic with a short fuse and a sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:41 PM
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This entire forum is people making suppositions and generalisations without evidence. 'Women say they want a nice guy, but secretly they want chad and they don't care if he's abusive [zero citations]'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:12 PM
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Now tell me, where and when are we hearing about men’s struggles? Namely, emotional repression and collective dehumanization of men as emotional beings? Most (not all, but most) of this was deatroyed by men. The framework on conventional masculinity does not permit weakness and vulnerability. So, it becomes 'unmanly' to talk about feelings or admit you are struggling to get through life. Opening up is 'weak'. Women play a role in upholding gender norms. But the culture that enforces normative ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:29 PM
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I have a lot of sympathy for guys who are alone and have lacked the social skills/confidence/opportunities to have a relationship. A good relationship is life fulfilling. If deabtes and conversations and learning new things help, its worthwhile. What I dont sympathise with, is the men who use online spaces (like ppd) to turn every gender discussion into 'why have women always wanted men destroyed?' Thats not a conversation, thats propaganda and grievance, never intended to be good faith. Youre r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:24 PM
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Social skills are a hard thing to teach. And you can see how depressing and amgering it is to not be able to express yourself and connect with people the way you want. But what do you do when I guy is ranting and raving about everything else and cant admit their own weaknesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:38 PM
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Projection is a common trait among online debators. The guys claiming that society has become become too 'feminised', and we need a return to 'real masculinity' are nearly always insecure about their own masculinity and how they fit into that gender role. I dont think actual masculine guys are that bothered about those debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:35 PM
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Despite all the progress women have made, they still cling to certain "patriarchal" ideals. And one of them is that the man she's with has to be better than her. Bigger, stronger, richer. As cheesy as this sounds, this narrative still not only exists but thrives. I dont think anyone claiming that being wealthy, fit and strong, or good looking arent attractive. Its that internalising those things over: being kind and loving, fun to hang around with, responsible and mature, emotional intelligence …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:23 PM
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True. Men are not being 'discriminated against' by women though. We live under capitalism, which has elements of patriarchy. The discrimination men face is failing to get decent employment and financial standing in society, which leads to mental health problems, a lack of success, and falling self belief. They have also been alienated by societal strucutre and dont get good oppprtunties to socialise. Women didnt create that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:57 PM
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Look, I don’t wanna be right about this stuff, I just am. Lol. Young American men - who are significantly 'red pilled' - are the loneliest and most sexless generation. It's a response to a crisis, but also a solution that doesnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:09 PM
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A minority of damaged women, yeah. The kind that you guys like...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:05 AM
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Not exploitation in the illegal sense. The models/anyone who profits of the industry are manipulating the loneliness of men to drain their bank accounts. Are the men 'willing'? Is a gambler 'willingly' losing their paycheck to a predatoty bookie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:04 PM
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Im sure most of the paying subcribers 'know' how it really works. What they cant admit to themselves in their loneliness, and the fact that no amount of OF interactions will fix that. They are being exploited but they cant pull themselves away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:58 PM
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Unfortunately, in these times people are craving love and connection as much - if not more - than sexual gratification. OF allows people (men) to get a false sense of intimacy and desire from a model. Not just that they find the model hot, but they get the illusion that they want you. A woman sharing a nude - even if its across a screen, even though they paid for it, even though she is doing the excat same thing for any other subscriber - can feel like an intimate moment youre part of. Which nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:51 PM
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I do kind of miss the days when redpillers were more like 'pickup artists' (what cringe phrase thst is, but anyway) and were basically just focused on their own success. 'Yup, I am employing a cynical strategy to get me laid and I dont care for much else'. I mean, I didnt remotely agree with their phislophy, but at least it was mostly inward looking. Now redpill feels like a giant, relentless grievance project. Trying to convince men that women are the root of all their problems and must be brou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:56 PM
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Bro went to town haha. Sexual- social approval is one hell of a drug. Like you say, its more than having someone like you, its being praised that you will be liked by other women in general, which is obviously a big step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:00 PM
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Everyone seems to be slightly missing the point - this is a survey of teenage boys, not adult men. Im not surprised theres a (moderate) correlation between dating success and misogynistic beliefs at that age. More confident, outgoing boys tend to want to play up what 'men' they are. Does that convert to adulthood though? Lots of shy-er teenage boys turn into decent men that women are more interested in. Many teenage 'jocks' turn into messy adults who cant reliably hold down jobs/relationships et…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:08 AM
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Ive never had a woman harass me here. What are saying to them? I wouldnt say Ive been harassed by a guy either. But I suspect thats because im male and debating another guy is acceptable. Its when some men get debated by a woman, that they cant handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:13 PM
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Youre only competing with 'Men who get women' if the competition is to be just like that guy - not to just find a date who fits withyou. In a sense you arent competing at all, because, theres never been a larger pool of single women in all age groups. Singlehood is just growing and growing. More people lonely in both genders. If more guys had a bit more internal confidence and some social skills to be in tune with women just a little bit, then they would find there are loads of potential dates. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:06 PM
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They are also competing with the peace a woman feels when she is single. This one sentence let's me know that a woman is a toxic Bruh what? Read that back to yourself for a moment. "Peace" in this context doesnt mean 'quiet and tranquility'. It means internal happiness - in other words, if you actively make her less happy then the relationship is not worthwhile. Any man who cant imagine making a potential partner happier with his presence and actions has got some seriously internalised hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:39 PM
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What coubtries have men actually faced conscription in recently? Russia? Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:06 PM
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Load of bollocks. Youre the ones who need to be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:07 PM
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And this is what red pill teaches. The 'self improvement' is a shallow facade. Its about teaching men to successfully manipulate women, so they dont have to improve themselves. 'Negging' came right at the beginning of the movement..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:26 PM
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This is why anti-redpillers talk about showing your kind side, vulnerablility, opening up about your interests, your feelings, etc. Abusive, distant, controlling men dont do that generally. Women are more vulnerable on a physical level when it comes to dating. They like to see a man who has a kind side, it signals he isnt going to be a bad partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:57 PM
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Women are sought after more than men, generally, but they are selecting men who wont be abusive, distant, and controlling in return for intimacy. A lot of the men being rejected either are these guys, or make no effort to differentiate themselves from those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:52 PM
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Men: "Checking out of society is reasonable when I never got the chance to get a job or my own house, and there are no social spaces any more" (fair enough) Women: "Checking out of dating is reasonable when I can live a happier life on my own than be with terrible men" Men: "...no not like that".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:48 PM
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I get it, it is really hard and confusing to know what to do when you lack social skills. Society doesnt raise young men right in many ways. Its not the lacking social skills that men should feel culpable for...its the response to it, its the tripling down on toxix masculinity and misoginy. The blame game is destroying young men's minds. Rather than going 'hey what do I do on dates? I get nervous, im not sure what to say, i feel a bit insecure and lacking in confidence' (which is fine), its "Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:43 PM
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Racism is real, white conservatism/nationaliam is a real political movement in America that has always sought influence. Implying feminism or just generally female independence is an equivalent force to white supremacy is completely insane. Society is clearly more patriarchal than matriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:33 PM
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Implying that women have ruined dating 'by setting impossible standards' is flat out ignoring the incredibly low effort a lot of men these days make to better themselves as individuals and/or be good potential boyfreinds. Women do not want fucking slobs who make no effort in conversation or to even be respectful and friendly on a basic level. Not to mention the amount of physical and emotional abuse that men engage in when they get in a relationship. YOU might be happy with a bang-maid in an emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:14 PM
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From an evolutionary perspective, fairness is basically a necessary element for a specie to meaningfully cooperate That applies to e.g sharing food, but its not so straightforward with romance. Yes, if you participate in society honestly and with good will to others, you will probably find yourself with the chance for romantic interest. Theres no guarantee though, you really just have to have skills in bonding with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:10 PM
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Woman orgasm is at least 3-5x times longer. So the pleasure is better for woman. Errr, okay. 'Skill issue' for men, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:10 PM
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And all the studies say women orgasm far less in casual sex, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:37 PM
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Those men aren’t more desirable to women because of their high self esteem; they have high self esteem because they’re more desirable to women. I think this sentence gets more at the red pill/anti red pill divide more than any other. What youre saying is basically: men have immutable traits and they will determine how easy romance is. If you are 'lower value' then God has punished you, but theres a chance at 'revenge' by having a strategy (i.e. red pill). The strategy is cynical, but it might wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:43 AM
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Redpill men: 'Feminists say terrible things about us, like we are deliverately manipulative, its so unfair' Also redpill men:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:27 AM
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Not really. Men say they like a woman whose less combative, brings peace, and is more willing to support them in what they want to accomplish in life and family Okay so they want a girlfriend that just goes along with whatever you are doing in life. Presumably that means all these guys have their shit together and are offeeing somwthing to younger women? Except it seems to be the exact opposite on red pill forums. Dont pretend bro, some of the attraction of younger women to these old dudebros is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:25 AM
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Everyone I know seems to be good freinds with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:11 PM
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Such a joke reading of history. Women would slave away cooking, cleaning, washing (laundry by hand was a brutal), shopping, every domestic job which was 10x harder back then without appliances. They also did do many industrial jobs that were dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:06 AM
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Youre looking at it in too binary a way. Its not that you can know 100% about someone after one date, but 100% od the time, you can learn some things. Things can always be hidden, but its very hard to completely hide your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:47 AM
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I really dont know about that. A lot of terrible people know how to hide their worst behaviours/traits when they are meeting someone. Also a lot of 'red flag' stuff is subjective. For some, declaring a political alliegance on their profile is a red flag, for others its not. Nobody is gonna admit 'I dont take no for an answer during sex' on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:40 AM
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Its destroying otherwise decent guys. Latches on to a small bit of i security in their soul, and ruins it. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:30 AM
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Its ridiculous that men will hide behind 'well what about the bad stuff women do' in response to talking about sexual assault. As if there is any sort of equivalency to sexually forcing yourself on someone less strong than you. Red pillers go on and on about the physical superiority of men. Yet, when its pointed out that men use this physical superiority to hurt women they are supposed to care for, suddenly its denial and deflection and minimsing. Despite the evidence supporting what women say. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:29 AM
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Welllll....some of them are.....lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:38 AM
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Yeah but, do you actually defend/agree with the synopsis?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:08 PM
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The red riders are gonna seethe at your take 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:16 AM
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A lot of guys pretend to be nice for a while/hide their mental health problems, and then it comes out once the relationship is 'locked in'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:59 AM
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Nobody is saying looks dont help. Im saying kindness helps more than being a c*nt. Also nobody is claiming cocky arseholes never get girls. But redpillers religiously focus on such men rather than opening themselves to the reality that being good to women makes relationships actually work. And amy of them can tell and prefer kind men, even on early dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:28 AM
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This guy is a pickme and a panderer Thats clearly a personal insult. And then you flipped out when someone made a joke at you...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:12 AM
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Its the women. The women are telling men not to show their natural urges and freedoms! ....simultaneously, women are also dating macho men even if they are complete arseholes, which means they are shallow and disproves 'bluepill theory' This definitely isnt a contradiction whatsoever. Also women cause chemtrails, and its their fault when a man stubs his toe, and they cause all the sports teams to lose, and its their fault when you cant find the tv remote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:09 AM
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Highest IQ femcel. This is a femcel equivalent of starting to cry when losing an argument. Bit personal, but ok- Attack the points, not the human, it is simple. BRO YOU CANT EVEN GET THROUGH A FUCKING PARAGRAPH WITHOUT CONTRADICTING YOURSELF. One. Fucking. Paragraph. Is ad hominem okay or not?!?!? Which is it?!? Im dying to know.... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:03 AM
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Personal anecdotes are considered illogical arguments because it's just one example and not a statistic And the person telling them could easily be making them up to fit their narrative Fucking hell....RED PILLERS USE UNSOURCED PERSONAL ANECDOTES ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME. All men are disgusted by women with a sexual history I mean, ffs. Dont complain about objectivity and then type this blatantly unsourced generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:42 AM
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Men who ended up behaving badly or lashing out got into relationships in the first place. Men who struggle to date don't get chances to demonstrate anything to differentiate themselves from those guys. I dont know what your experience of life is, bit its just not true. Do you seriously think guys who are more sensitive and kind to women dont get girls at all? Thats so warped. Im not saying its some massive advamtage on date 1, but it helps beyond that a lot, and its really helpful to maintain lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:36 AM
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So your argument is that 'some men arent benefitting from having moderate social skills and being respectful to women, its just about looks and thats the only thing that matters'? Okay, well, lol I diagree. Women are flat out reporting that creepy, overly agressive or sexualising behaviour from men on dates, combined with misogynistic comments, is putting them off men. Given two average looking guys, the one that doesnt behave like that is going to fair better. The bar is not high. Redpill weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:32 AM
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They wont listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:34 AM
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You think that guy was way above average? Feel like you are straining extremely hard to make a point. just world theory What with all the buzzwords...he said so many men are behaving anti-socially to women, life is easier for average guys who know how to show a minimum level of respect to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:25 AM
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You sure about those numbers? USA population is just over 300 million, right? Not everyone eligible to vote (kids, non citizens). And then turnout is always 50-60% for elections. And then Trump won the popular vote 51-49 or something. Without googling it, those numbers have to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:43 AM
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Uhhhh yeah? Thats...pretty much his point? A man comfortable in his skin doesnt care much for comments about his looks. And that self-ease is exacrly what makes him more attractive. Rather than being a hyper-defensive redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:40 AM
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Funny how you guys will say anything derogatory about women or non-redpill men, but the moment the jokes are turned on you, its all 'ad hominem tactics'. You could almost call it...fragility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:26 AM
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The best thing that a man can probably do who isn't a misogynist is find a country where the women don't already hate men just for existing. Im from the UK and there is so much 'feminists have destroyed EVERYTHING' content here, so I suppose that puts the UK on the list of spooky misandrist countries (according to you guys) But, on my travels, I have discovered...drumroll please...most women arent actually evil and want similar things to men - someone to have a good time with and go home with at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:23 AM
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Picking up my longsword now, comrade. Where do we meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:11 PM
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Well, its good that at least some of you are honest, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:09 PM
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Buddy, a sterotypical 'alpha male' has never read a forum like this in his life (or if he did it made no diffefence). Some guys can just naturally talk game and pick up women. They may have a complete cynical view of women, too. (But, to really think like that, their relationships wont be happy) Dudes be foreveralone because they arent that guy. Pretending to be him isnt going to work, its just gonna come across as fake. They are probably closer to the down to earth, in touch with who he is 'blu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:07 PM
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Where does my belief in Pastafarianism fit into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:39 PM
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Red Pillers pretend anti-red pill logic is inaliable law, rather than a rule of thumb. Of course there are successful misogynists. Confidence is a thing. I dont think those guys are happy long term though. I think they have short relationships, or long unfulfilling ones. Its cancerous to who you are to actually hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:34 PM
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But you ignored all the calmer, happier, more openly emotional, less bigoted men, who succeed in long term relationships....to focus on that guy. The horny misogynist has something you identify with now, but the guys in long term relationships have something you might not understand...but it would beenfit your life to be open to the idea the path they forged is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:25 PM
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Just one more episode of Fresh and Fit bro, youll understand bro, I promise...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:13 PM
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We dont actually live in sides though. Its a demented world of fiction invented by self proscribed 'red pillers'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:12 PM
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The point of the Red Pill is for men to understand women and improve enough in order to attract them. The men who subscribe to TRP believe that they are not as attractive as they want to be, so it’s why they become part of that movement. The only thing you can learn from the red pill is how to double down on all the angriest, most unhinged, least charitable things you think about women in your worst moment. Men should not. Fucking. Do this. It will just make them more miserable, wothdeawn and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:11 PM
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the funny dichotomy of redpillers prizing being a 'hookup guy', but also demanding women respect them at all times Cant have it both ways, my man...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:23 AM
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Not sure about that. Some guys definitely give off a 'hookup vibe'. I rember some lads at uni that found it easy to sleep with girls but didnt understand why none of them would stay around. I.e. 'He looks like a decent bang but hes completely unserious and I wouldnt feel bad ghosting him the next day'. Its a bit of a poison pill....not that a lonely redpiller would appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:21 AM
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Dont know if you understand this, but men who care about their partners dont see them 'hitting the wall' Partly because its made up misoginistic bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:07 AM
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Dude, the redpill movement is not merely asking women to empathise. No way. They think women should shoulder the blame for clear structural failings of sociwty. And are asking women to become submissive doormats to the whims of guys who arent intereated in any introspection. Second of all, nearly all redpill influencers are explicitly pro-capitalist, pro-social darwinist bullshitters who support the status quo and actively want it to get worse. The common enemy is capitalism and the rich. But re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:03 AM
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Wut? Sorry? Can you answer without using a bunch of random redpill phrases? Or is that too difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:24 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:17 AM
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Why are you posting another mans ideas? Redpill is parrotted so much, its for beta sheeple. A real man comes up with an indeoendent theory, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:16 AM
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Women literally do more housework on average. Every single study shows it. Even when a couple plan to raise children equally, women end up doing more of the child rearing. Every study shows it. You cant seriously believe what you say is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:50 AM
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Lots of men care about women's problems. A lot of male discussion online is so fucking incredibly hostile to women. So many right wing men claim that women dont care, and then at the same post stuff that mocks, deminishes, decrys women. And vote for women hating politicians. Thats what they call a 'toxic relationship', you know? Its not all men, but it is the men that redpill-adjacent men amplify.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:38 AM
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The red pill talked about disregarding the feelings of who you are talking to and just playing a game. Horseshit they were the first to talk about 'social skills' The 'fake it til you make it' advice might have helped skme guys, but from most peoples perspective, they wete talking about 'anti' socual skills. I.e. 'dont try and read the room, just act like a youre a man'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:51 AM
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I would really, really not guess that, lol. The murder and rape statistics are very much against your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:45 PM
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Now, what if some of those men who answered that question happened to think about a revenge fantasy involving some woman that destroyed his life?. The number of men who have had their lives 'destroyed' by a woman, is pretty small A lot of guys claim this, maybe on a bad day, about an ex wife, but in reality it takes 2 to tango in a divorce. The cases of femicide are nearly all a man massively blowing something out of proportion, and/or them losing control when their partner wants to leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:23 PM
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Yes the 'propaganda' that women, who have suffered greatly historically, should be allowed to vote, get bank accpunts, initiate divorce and have abortions. You dont have to have been 'brainwashed' to believe in emancipation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:01 PM
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What are you even talking about, how is this relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:38 PM
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No, he was never interested, but she was a 2-faced person and he was upset by that Errrrr...lol. Why would he be upset about her party/sex life if he wasmt interested? That makes absolutely zero sense. As a friend, i know some people have different sides to their personality and their social lives. If someone likes to party but only has quiet drinks with me, thats their business, not mine. Why should i care? If i want to party with them, I ask.... Sounds like your friend was interested and is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:49 PM
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Yeah men have collectively 'lost social skills' whilst women are all perfect angels. It's always men's fault. Of course. Youre not even reading are you? I said its not all womens fault. Implying there is some blame, of cpurse there is. Your redpill defenses immediately come up the moment men are even slightly criticised and you cant even get to the end of the sentence without wailing 'misandry'. Grow up and admit that a lot of men have lost their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:34 PM
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Men have lost social skills. Not really their fault, but no, it's mot all down to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:20 PM
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Idk who your male friends are that this your belief but most dudes just want one girl to actually like them Okay. But then why the fuck do they all champion these manosphere grifters who claim society is 'heriarchical' and that they should, effectively, aim to be a 'warlord with concubines? Women want the same thing too. If redpillers can humanise lonely men, why cant they humanise women too (who, increasingly, are also single)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:28 PM
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Red pill means that women want more from a man than his dangly bits, like an actual personality or something. I know it's hard to grasp, but some men actually know that to get a woman wet you have to do more than cry on her. Jesus christ.... The Red Pill movement categorically depicts women as charicatures - shallow, selfish, hypocriyical narcissists - who, because of their antagonistic relationship to men, should be 'gamed'. How does the fuck does that square with 'red pill teaches men that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:07 PM
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A good looking guy can have that too Assuming a 'good looking guy' just waltzes around never having to try at anything is a seriously warped way of looking at life. And it will nwver help you personally. Focus on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:56 PM
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Aside from it not really workijg that way ('hot girls' are picky too)...like, why is that the standard? Best way to make yourself miserable in life is to pine after 'having everything', meaning what you do have is never enoufh. Money, friends etc. Theres always someone with more. Shouldnt people focus on 'I would like a gf whose similar to me, and maybe some more freinds?'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:48 PM
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The number of guys who waltz about 'getting girls' based on their looks is prettt small..walk down the street and most people are just average looking. Thw redpill obsession seems to stem from excuse making and insecurity. Some 'good looking' guys have bricks for personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:43 PM
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Alright, well assuming youre pig ugly (if thats what you claim)...what are you gonna do about it? Write a complaint letter to god? 99.9% of men out there dont 'have it all', we are all trying to make it through life without every advantage to hand. Make the most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:38 PM
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Ah okay, i didnt. Well thats...more fair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:02 PM
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Oh look, a thread where men complain about being lonely, and then a redpiller talks like this to women in the comments. Colour me shocked. Never sawbit coming. I hope you personally dont make complaints. Because its pretty easy to identify where you are going wrong..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:49 PM
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Its mostly just used because conversations about guys not being able to get dates/romance/sex are awkward, and its an easy way to avoid the actual conversation. The thing is, its hard to just flat tell someone they are awkward, and not good at communicating in a way women like. Its a very personal thing to say, and also there isnt a quick fixnsolutiom. External things like 'get fit, shower and shave, get nicer clothes' are objwcrive and easy to point at. How to bwcome socially at ease with yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:03 PM
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More normal back then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:52 PM
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That's what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:56 PM
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Lol. Stereotyping women doesnt bother you (because its facts and logic, right?), but I bet you are at pains to defend men of their toxic learned behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:52 PM
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If you go back to say, the 60s/70s, yes rape and sexual abuse was a bit more normalised than today. But it was also the time of society becoming more liberating for women (and in some ways for men). Things were headed in the other way. Feminism went hand in hand with lots of sex happening - as much as that sentence may make you recoil. To think women only have sex with men when they are forced, is so horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:43 PM
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Sometimes talking to redpillers is like trying to convince a blind man that sight is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:17 PM
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Women are coerced into doing a lot of stuff - in the knowledge, if they do fight, they are less likely to win. Men choose to fight more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:49 PM
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Would you rather have responsibilities and expectations (which are not always entirely fair), or have limits aggressively put on who you can be? The former gives you more agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:42 PM
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Men escalate situations, which creates victims when one of them takes it too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:39 PM
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Something tells me you would not respond well to a critique of the ways women are disadvantaged against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:33 PM
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Incel is a state of mind, like New York was for Nas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:19 AM
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They want hard lines, definitive answers. They want a formula. See attached pic. They to gamify life. If I do X, I’ll get Y result. But life is way messier than that and that’s where blue pill gets it right. Most people are nice. People just want to love and be loved. You don’t have to be perfect to be happy. Yeah and this is the problem with online debate and with rp ideology in general. Alot of young, red pill inclined men are basically saying: 'Give me some rule, or definitive way of action t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:20 AM
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The reason I am 'anti-red pill', is not because red pill hasnt picked up on problems within the modern world, or because its wrong to speak about male loneliness or lack of romantic success Its because the red pill diagnosis is cancerous. The core of it misogynistic, and internalising it is cancerous to men too. And its overhwelmingly driven by grifters who want to use the movement to enrich themselves and get men to become more reactionary. Its a dead end for humanity. Where people feel alienat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:50 PM
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The average dude would love to treat you like a human being but your angst is misplaced due to constantly chasing Chad around the Waffle House dumpster. This is the most r/purplepilldebate sentence ive ever read. You are describing a charicature of a women that exists in lower frequency than 'red pillers' depict. Second of all...if you dated someone, you would change how you treated them because of past relationships? It seems to me that male insecurity about former boyfreinds does more damage t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:19 AM
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Grow up, man. Thats all i have to say. You cannot possibly ask to get sincere replies from people on other threads and reply like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:04 AM
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You are smart enough to work a job and look after yourself, right? But you are seriously asking if someone with an average physical appearance has ever found love? This is why, in the anti-red pill corner, we argue against their idea that women and men can't be friends. If you can imagine genuine friendship, it might be easier to conceptualise love
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:45 PM
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Cost of living (rent, bills, food) vs wages is at an all time low, the rich are richer than ever, yet this is really about pepple occasionally buying expensive stuff? I'm not the simp. You're trapped in a bullshit game and you're vouching for the people making you play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:13 PM
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Rent takes up the majority of people's paychecks bro. Weddings didnt bankrupt people back in the 'golden era'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:02 PM
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Nope hate your own stupidity and irresponsible financial decisions Come on, man...i used to have these debates a while ago Nobody can seriously say America isnt screwing over the vast majoroty of its people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:50 PM
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If you are 'trad', you better hate the ever living fuck out of capitalism - eespecially the psycho deregulated American kind. Your ruling class have destroyed wages and the job market, and removed the housing supply. So 'raising a family's on a single income' is now a laughable idea (unless you are mid level in tech/finance/engineering or something shit). How wife be trad when no money? Wife need work! But then wife no trad. Trad man......sad...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:12 PM
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Fair enough. I can't tell what is satire on here. There's quite a few comments agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:18 AM
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Gay men are still men. Masculine communication is direct, linear, and straightforward. All relationship conflicts can be resolved with ease and minimal emotional baggage. Lol. Lmao, even. Men have higher sex drives. Both partners will have roughly equal strength in libido. No dead bedrooms. It's far from being that straight forward. It is more egalitarian. No pressure to be the stoic provider/protector. Men can lean on each other when times get tough. Gay male relationships are like two co-pilot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:35 AM
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I'm saying it just doesn't come up in conversation with a girl. I'd find it a bit weird if she asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:13 PM
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When does this naturally come up in conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:33 AM
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Yeah 100% People don't realise how much mutual bonds and societal connections have broken down in the west. A lot of people have never experieced them, and so, when they are stuck feeling alienated and angry, they dont even understand it fully. Post WW2, society was going in a positive direction - most jobs, blue or white collar, contributed positively to development of the world. People lived in tighter knit communties and had stronger bonds at the workplace, partly via trade unions. So ordinar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:50 PM
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You read all that and decided to be a victim, which is exactly OP's point. She hit the nail on the head of a lot of young men's issues. All the men I find attractive don't want me or use me." "I don't want the men who want me." "I don't find most men attractive." She did not say or imply that in any shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:21 AM
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People should watch Mad Men. Realistic depiction of high powered businessmen in 1960s new york. They all have 'perfect' housewives and 'perfect'children in their 'perfect' suburban homes. But they serial cheaters, partying with their secretaries in the city while their wives sit at hone alone. It encapsulates the emptiness of being unfaithful to the person you married. They look like they are having fun but they are all depressed, confused alcoholics beneath the facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:23 AM
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Your girlfriend is RUINING her BIOLOGICAL IMPERATIVE to raise a CHILD THST ISNT HERS. She is a VICTIM of your MANIPULATION and she represents THE END OF WESTERN CIVILISATION!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:05 PM
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It's hard to understand why you'd prefer something that objectively doesn't function as nature intended. 'Not functioning as nature intended' would be erectile disfunction. Imagine you had that - no PIV sex ever. Grass is always greener, or maybe not. A smaller dick is just a smaller dick. It's not like most girls don't have their own insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:09 PM
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And being perma-insecure, comparing everything all the time, mjst be a huge turn off. "Is chad in the room with us right now?'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:06 PM
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I guarantee you have never talked to girls about dicks, then. I've heard a variety of opinions/preferences, but mostly it boils down to 'I just want him to be enthusiastic and attentive during sex'. Unless you have a really really small penis, it's really aboit how you use it . I feel sorry for people who don't know what sexual chemistry is, because if you'd ever experienced it, you would not care much about your dick size. You'd just focus on performing and having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:04 PM
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In your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:56 PM
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Elon Musk is the ideal. Convince the world you are Tony Stark. Get so rich, you become a death star of wealth. Buy a social media platform so everyone has to listen to your opinions at all time (ultimate conservative ideal). Start having children with as many women as possible. Do some eugenics shit so most of them are male. Be completely negligent of most of them, occasionally coming to see them for a photoshoot. Pick a favourite and carry him round like a human shield, so assassination would r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:08 AM
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And now the US has a party in charge, who have constantly cried about 'free speech' impingement, who have no interest in free speech at all. People who are speaking out about Musk, Trump, reactionary Republican policies, or Palestine, are being thrown in jail. Anyone whose a sufficient enemy or Trump or the Reoiblican party might be thrown in jail. Right wing 'free speech absolutists' are lapping it up. It's all a game. Every political pundit who has ever 'championed free speech' is a dickhead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:20 PM
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There's two uses of the term 'radical feminist', that the 3 brain cells on this sub cannot work out. The first use is to describe militant types of 'second wave' feminism, that came along with the cultural revolution of the 60s. Some of these women were keen on violent direct action, or living in men-free communes. This is how older people would recognise the term and its how I would use it. The second meaning is just a pejorative term for modern feminists, akin to the 'blue haired SJW' stereoty…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:10 PM
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A poor regular dude will be living on the streets if his wifey divorces him. He will be “starving” because he only had a loaf 🍞 of bread to his name in the first place. How divorce pretty much works in all Western countries is: assets accumulated during marriage are split, assets owned before the marriage are kept by the respective people. People do not end up destitute after marriages. Unless they were destitute anyway. The gripe is usually over the fact one person was the breadwinner or the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:38 AM
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Man, what's with all the level headed comments on here recently? I thought this was just a forum for redpillers to do their angry little speeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:47 PM
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Men are just expected to get it, like its something you obtain during puberty, or it's something they teach you in school. Except female attraction doesn't come with your growth spurt. And there is no school, public or private, that teaches teenagers or adults how to date well or how to have sex well or literally anything relating to romantic human interactions. In the recent past, this was hardly necessary. Post World War 2, young people were just happy to be alive, and everyone was keen to cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:13 PM
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I agree. Bit why do men - especially red pill ones - talk about women in such horrible ways if they want relationships? Its alright to have issues, sure, but believing that women have effectively destroyed men is a ridiculous and self-defeating attitude. That will never be attractive to women, obviously. Ultimately, it's propaganda by grifters, swallowed up by damaged young men coping with their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:09 PM
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... have you considered a millenial boyboss with a psyche degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:51 PM
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Might be exaggerating, but I've read an avalanche of bullshit about women and non-redpillers on here, so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:40 PM
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Feel like the tide is turning a little on this forum, and it's good to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:37 PM
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Oh no, a generalisation about conservatives! Oh noooo! Im sure you will be up in arms - conservatives are well known for never generalising women, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:35 PM
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The red pill sphere is completely dominated by abuse of women - saying they don't behave 'correctly' any more, how 'degrade' themselves, how they are cruel and unfair and unsubmissive to men, etc etc. It's literally a giant circlejerk of hate and control proaganda. The self improvement stuff was buried loooong ago. Listen, 'redpillripper' (lol) - it's not 2010 any more and the red pill sphere isn't centred around mild PUA and self improvement tips. That's litterally how you talk, doing your funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:21 PM
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Redpill bs is getting called out on here more and more on here. Its good to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:10 PM
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Doesn't invalidate the fact the other 90% of women reject shorter men out of hand. 90%. That's the bit I was calling bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:35 PM
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Begging for a single redpill stat to not a bullshit number pulled from your ass. Please. One time. Make your point without exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:19 PM
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From page 12 of that report: 36.3% of women and 17.1% of men have have experienced sexual violence in their lifetime So, clearly more women. Your presentation of that data is confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:13 PM
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Sorry, this can't be true. I'm here to bash women and your anecdote doesn't fit my agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:06 PM
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Women have social circles 🤷‍♀️ The idea of a single woman whose reasonably content angers redpillers a huge amount - and its not just the 'she's not giving sex' thing. It's the fact that she's having an alright time with life, and they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:51 AM
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You think people being lonely, having little to no freinds, spending time at home alone...has nothing to do with the decline in romantic relationships? That's basically an insane position.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:40 AM
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It really is though. Shifting the topic to social relationships is an attempt to distract from the issue that many men are very clear about. You're clear about it, but...what is it you want exactly? The problems are linked, society is less social, has fewer meaningful communal spaces, and people are losing/never gaining social skills. If it was just about male/female relations, then we'd see lots of people happy with their social lives but u happy with their romantic ones. But it's both. People …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:39 AM
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A long term relationship is for building a family and structure and bonding you two to create a foundation for the children and family to stand upon. That's YOUR definition. And this is why it is fundamentally impossible to debate redpillers. They are trapped in the viewpoint of American Christian conservatism. They reflexively reject opposing views and alternative ideas of lifestyle, because they cannot even conceive of them - or conceive of people experiencing the world in different ways. How …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:06 AM
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Yeah. Confidence is a slippery thing. You can tell someone whose unfit how to get fit. You can mark a path for someone whose poor, how to get rich (as much as that massively depends on your circumstances and some luck). Those things are transparent. But how do you explain how to get confident? What's the path? Also, I don't think incel types like the idea much. If you're poor, you know a)it's down to your circumstances, like growing up in a poor household, and b) its down to personal choices, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:57 PM
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You never talk about the deadbeat fathers who dodge childrearing responsibility though. Its a misogonystic trend. They should be made to pay. A man can't complain about his bamk account being emptied, if they try and take 0 or close to 0% stake in the childrearing. The courts protect women for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:28 PM
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....and this immediately gets to why the financial burden of often more is the fathers side. 50/50 Custody is often highly impractical, and not even wanted by parents. Kids go to school and it's often easier for them to be at one parents house for weekdays/other for weekends. Also mothers tend to want to be with their kids a little more, and kids want the nurture of their mothers more. Esp young kids. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with this being the other way around - but, it's a social con…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:26 PM
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Really don't want to admit that a guy with average or "below average" looks, whose not necessarily rich or talented, can and do get girls, huh? Nice parallel universe you live in. It happens all the time, I don't understand the denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:04 AM
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Maybe it works for women, but it's a horrible strategy for men Well if it has worked for x number of women, it's worked for the same number of men! (assuming we're talking about hetero relationships) Quick maths.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:56 PM
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Your son has internalised misogyny, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:00 AM
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Redpill ignorance causes that kind of attitude in young boys, it's absolutely blatant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:59 AM
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Andrew Tater Tot sells subscriptions at $80 a month or some shit. The Manosphere is his biggest grift. But no, that doesn't make him richer than shareholders of the world's largest corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:43 PM
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Oh you weren't talking about OP, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:35 PM
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Check out his profile, lol. I aspire to love anything as much as he hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:02 PM
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Do you not think, with obvious historical oppression such as being denied the vote, that women have a right to be angry at men? If it was the inverse, I suspect you would be absolutely raging at this historical injustice and excuse saying 'all women are evil'. The oppressed have a right to be angry at their oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:59 PM
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Redpillers constantly venerate narcisstic psychopaths. Apparently if you are rich, you are everything a man is supposed to be. Regardless of how you got there. It's so cowardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:53 PM
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In the UK I don't think Tinder is taken too seriously l, adn that probably works as an advantage. 10 years ago when it was more 'serious' I guess it swayed towards men a bit. But Tinder bottomed out, people left due to an avalanche of spammy men and fake women's accounts. Now it's kinda seen as a 'joke', but in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:02 PM
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America is literally falling apart lol, salaries aren't gonna save the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:20 AM
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This post a little confusing, but one of your main points is that the earnings gap is misleading because men share their incomes with their families, right? All over the world men are expected to fulfil the role as breadwinner There's several counter points to that. A big % of adults today don't have children, or even a partner. So a lot of men and women simply aren't providers. Whatever the causes of the gender pay gap, non-providing men are going to be better off (on average) than non-providin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:32 PM
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You dont really think all women's problems are invented in their head? Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:56 AM
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I'm not saying this is like useful advice on the spot or anything. But...if you could get over your insecurities about your physical appearance/fitness/job/earnings etc and love yourself a bit more, those other qualities could shine as you look for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:22 AM
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Is your self-confidence doomed and gone forever? Or could you possibly, if things changed, get some back? If your opinion of yourself is at the same level as people who didn't like you on dates, you'll never ever be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:11 AM
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I'm just framing things in an oppositional way - the same way hundreds of redpill comments do here, every day. Don't hate the player. Tbf...I am generalising. The core of 'alpha-male'/redpill/whatever philosophy is that a man should try and always be in control, and counter to any 'threats' to his dominance. Internalise that and you'll believe that a woman with a well paying job presents a threat. There will be 'redpillers' out there who have partners with higher paying jobs, sure. But they wont…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:02 AM
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My immediate reaction to that statement is: that's such a low opinion of yourself. You dont bring anything to a relationship that isn't some sort of stat or material good? A partner would never care for you because of who you are? You dont have any intrinsic value, and you can't form a bond with someone? I think your sentiment is echoed by a lot of young guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:20 AM
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Everything you've said is de facto "blue-pill", because red pill says a man's self worth is based on him earning more than his woman. It just makes it so obvious so many red pillers here don't date. What percentage of 18-40 women have jobs now? Hiw many of them are well paid white collar jobs? Why the fuck would you turn a woman down because they earned more than you? That's literally more than half the dating pool for some men. Internalising traditional masculinity means any 'advantage' a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:43 AM
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Redpillers and tradcons exist in the same fetid soup, tradcons are just slightly more in denial. If tradcons didn't act like the most insecure, confused, angry, virtue signally people I'd actually believe they cared about tradition. Redpillers are more open about their real viewpoints...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:35 AM
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victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:19 PM
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The crux of what you've said is def not red pill, and it's selfish attempts to scare women. Change your flair. You're better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:49 AM
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This entire thread is picking out evidence extrenmely selectively, trying to paint women as all man haters. Nobody is saying in this thread 'actually its a minrotiy of women who think all men are condemnded'. If you look at any broad, well done survey, it does not show that women hate all men. 'Women are lying' I thought we werent doing generalisations? You guys are on the back foot real fast, real fast....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:35 PM
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So violence statistics dont justify making broad judgements against men. Okay. But picking quotes from the angriest women, and from women talking about these violence stats...and youre telling me 'women' have a problem with hating men? So youre saying makibg broad generalisations about either sex is wrong? Are you sure? The vast majority of women do not think all men are 'condemned'. This is EXACTLY the broad brush strike that men on here try to paint women with. Youpost hundreds and hundreds of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:32 PM
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That's a thread in a feminist subreddit discussing stats like men are the perpatrators of acid attacks, strangulations in almost every instance are men. Forced rape, domestic violence, over 90% of the time its men. Could any of you admit that women have a right to feel aggrieved at men because they are subject to this kind of abuse and violence? Perhaps you guys could never admit that women because that would involve some contrtium for the actions of our sex. Imagine if it was the other way roun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:10 PM
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It's much easier to say you are 'constantly attacked' than to admit you are insecure, the judgement that everyone feels has got to you, and you don't know what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:20 AM
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. It's a product of communism Unfathomably based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:41 AM
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Not OP, but I really do think a lot of people are not good at deconstructing the social and political/economic forces that affect them. Seeing yourself in the context of wider problems - problems not caused by one person or set of people - can really help to see the world more philosophically and destress, to an extent. A whole generation of young people feeling alienated, anxious, scared and defensive *all at once * is clearly a societal problem, this isnt a few random people having a bad time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:01 PM
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Bet you 10 bucks he links something absolutely generic and bland. 'Life advice for being a man', that isn't really red pill at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:46 PM
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This forum is full of upvoted red pill comments that massively generalise women. "They are shallow, selfish and heartless". Then generalise women heavily, and then play innocent when they are generalised back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:43 PM
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hahahahha you're a freak
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:37 AM
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Right wingers absolutely detest free speech when it doesn't advantage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:50 PM
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It's because this place of myopic morons who refuse to agree with anything apart from their talking points. As someone who doesn't think women are evil, who doesn't care about all this performative masculine bullshit that redpill tells me I should fake, who doesn't think men have been wronged by gender wars any more than women have. That hasn't experience cynical tactics helping out with dating... ...why would I hang around here? Its lame. And redpillers agree with some properly deranged stuff t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:34 AM
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Tie them up in knots. They do it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:24 AM
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You mean 'cultures where its normal to harass women'. Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:14 PM
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You bros seriously think redpill is 'cold hard truth' and non-redpill is 'sugar coating things'. Nobody non redpill will answer your question with that setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:53 PM
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Do you mean this famous video? Those men aren't serious, or (much like the misogynists online) need lessons in approaching women in actually sociable situations. You can't expect a woman literally going somewhere to want to stop and talk to you on no notice. Particularly when the approach is 'hey beautifull' shouted from 5 metres away. You cant be seriously complaining from this video that women are generally unapproachable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:31 PM
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Thay seems too high for 18-24 year olds. How was the question phrased?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:55 PM
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But.... It didn't used to be this way, did it? Society has changed, its not some universal eternal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:54 PM
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Okay...I've worked out what the fuck is going on. '7 times violent crime rate in UK compared to UK' seemed insane...and it is. USA and UK have different violent crime definitions https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2010/crime-in-the-u.s.-2010/violent-crime FBI violent crime definition: violent crime is composed of four offenses: murder and nonnegligent manslaughter, forcible rape, robbery, and aggravated assault Aggravated assault I think means assault with injury. Meanwhile... https://www.ons.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:49 PM
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Where did you find this blog? There is so much misinformation on that page, it's completely ridiculous. First off - the author goes on about 'undereported crime rates' in the UK - but completely fails to mention that robberies (the most common violent crime) are likely only reported 50% of the time in the United States A bit selective, no? Its interesting comparing crimes in the US and UK, but the narrative that blog pushes is incredibly biased. I can say more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:53 PM
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Rates of violence and sexual violence by men against women are way, way higher than the inverse. That's a cold fact. And It's not an insignificant, 'once in a blue moon' kinda thing. Its widespread. There is so much misogyny online, no matter how much people deny it. It encourages men to see women as evil and witholding something unfairly from them. It leads to violence. I've seen some pretty rapey stuff on here, and this isn't nearly the worst online forum. Its absolutely fair for women to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:43 PM
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Mental illness, but symptomatic of a broader misogynistic trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:35 PM
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That men will take advantage of women in vulnerable situations is literally a leftist/feminist talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:03 PM
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We dated, i liked her. However, it was always a problem. I just didn't trust her at all. Every time we fought that would come up. What if she had said the same to you? Explain why it isn't a double standard. Why should a woman trust a man who has slept around? I feel like 'body count' can be indicative of things, but on its own, is pretty meaningless. .e.g maybe someone has had 3 long term relationships but outside of them, has slept around. I don't see the problem if they are committed when in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:20 AM
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You should write fortune cookies or something, very cryptic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:07 PM
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Said toolbox: Go to the gym, large muscles fix everything Wimmin bad amirite Treat friends, women, and life in general as an adversarial, materialistic game Pretend you're a tough manly man and you will get the respect and acceptance you secretly desire
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:24 AM
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Capitalism didn't die in the 70s, it just morphed through a crisis. Capitalism begets incredibly pervasive corruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:50 PM
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The right are basically simps for free market capitalism, but its that capitalism which is straining young people to the point of not wanting kids. No true traditionalist can vouch for this economic system.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:13 PM
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Good lord, you really think its all womens fault. The correlation is with society being peaceful and developed - which comes along with women being independent.The possibility to do other things apart from a)survive and b) procreate, means...People start to think. I mean even if.you want kids, why have more than 2 or 3? It's just extra work. Few people choose it. And then take all the people who decide just not to have them for various reasons. Declining birthrate. And then you add the pressures…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:16 AM
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We are under unchecked capitalism, our system is just going to collapse anyway. Just as an example - putting aside climate change, financial and economic collapses, migration crisis - even if everything rise was working, we are destroying the topsoil at a rate that will see declining yields in the 2030s. Farming based on profit with no care for the land will just destroy it eventually. We won't be able to sustain 8bn people in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:42 PM
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I'm lucky with my upbringing - but I've still ended up suffering from stress, social anxiety, (some) money issues and just a general apathy and alienation from society. Why would I bring a child into that? Never mind meeting someone I actually love - I think I'd be seriously idiotic to bring a child into this decaying world. Things aren't going to get better. Having a child is a commitment that things will either be good or have hope of improving in the next 20,30,50 years. I don't see it happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:37 PM
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It's also other women seeing that you are sociable and not a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:19 PM
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Red pill is straight up lying when they say women's 'preference' is macho, broad, hairy men. Women are attracted to the whole range- if they weren't, then men would be different. If women were only attracted to macho men then only macho men would exist, via natural selection. Also, what's makes a man 'manly' is way more than skin deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:09 AM
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In the earth 20th century, the human race almost died out. Women were demanding 6ft or taller men, but almost none existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:45 PM
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What's that sound? Dozens of redpillers screeching in the distance...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:26 PM
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My experience of guys who are successful + work physical jobs is - they have no need, nor time, for insecure masculinity. There isn't anything for them to prove, so don't subscribe to proving it. They are happy to let other people be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:11 PM
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Guys short of sex cannot comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:13 AM
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I'm not, I'm escaping the belligerent, gold-digging, masculine, Western fat-nasties. Without standards, in the USA, I could have menopausal fatties queued up outside my door. Why bother when my hand is better? I go to Asia to find a girlfriend in her prime among the most beautiful women on Earth. Hahahaha. You deserve everything you get in life, and you will surely get it too. Good luck finding a wife that actually gives a flying fuck about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:39 AM
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Of course. But white western men often assume Asian women will sacrifice freedom to be with them + their wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:34 AM
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Passport bros (incredible they actually want to use such a revealing term) have such low opinions of the 'Thai brides' they are seeking. They really think they don't realise what the game is. Seek a wife in explotstive circumstances, get a wife whose loyalty doesn't go very far...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:29 AM
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Did you go to Asia because you thought it would be easier to find an 'attractive and subservient partner'? Or do you have another explanation? There are perfectly legitimate reasons to move to Thailand etc, but you just described yourself as a 'passport bro'....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:25 AM
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Lmao yeah not an undertone of stubbornness in this comment, no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:31 PM
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What came first, the chicken or the egg? Being tall, big, strong has been a sign of manliness forever...but who started it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:31 PM
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Woman/UK/feminist/maths teacher Doesn't this forum completely do your head in? I enjoy a good debate, but arguing with all these redpill teenage yanks is giving me headaches...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:39 PM
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It's not caused by therapy bro, it's caused by deep structural failings of society. Therapy is a band aid, one which doesn't address the root causes. But it isn't the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:07 PM
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Ive said in the past 'I get that Maria Sharapova is objectively a good lookign woman...but im not attracted to her' and nobody ever believes me. Some people really dislike the idea that theres some subjectivity to attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:08 PM
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Its kinda hard to describe chemistry. ​ If youre searching around for some objectivity on this - theres lots of research on pheremones and attractiveness. We are drawn to some peoples pheremones and put off by others. Hence why people say 'I love his/her smell'. Pheremones carry genetic indicators, so they are a way of sussing out if potential partners are 'good matches'. Of course, its all happenign subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:06 PM
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Getting so much attention and having to filter people is easier than getting no attention at all Everyone struggles in a way or another but straight men have it harder that even social studies validate that Sigh... Consider this proxy hypothetical, which removes gender from the equation. Imagine you're transformed back into a 12 year old and: Situation 1: You are at secondary/high school, and you have no friends. Nobody bothers you, school is reasonably pleasant, but you are alone at break times…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:17 AM
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Blaming women for everything dating related is right-wing and there's hoards of people like that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:35 AM
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I get what you're saying, but this place is clearly swarmed by right wingers and people with adjacent views. It's not really both sides in a balanced way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:04 PM
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Do feel like im arguing with a lot of teenage boys on this sub - who act like theyve translated the Rosetta Stone because they've read some redpill theory. At least you're upfront and you don't seem like you're too bad, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:47 AM
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OP might have worked as a bartender for a long time but I question his reading of social dynamics. Thought it was pretty common knowledge a girl will use her friends to reject a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:13 PM
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Red pillers are wrong about most stuff, but boy do they put some effort into their threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:12 PM
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People want to believe the game is unfair rather than believe that actually its kinda easy - if you are on top of your own insecurities. Who wants to admit the answer is right in front of them, but they aren't able to grasp it because of internal weakness? But it's kinda toxic for guys because a) this society has co ditions which are really bad for learning normal socialisation and b) men are supposed to be tough so find it incredibly hard to admit insecurities. I get some complements on my look…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:31 AM
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Yep. It's really just about being comfortable in the space around the opposite sex. A moderate amount of confidence and self ease. Nothing special. Conversations get going. You realise women are just people. There are things you can talk about with them. It can be fun. There's no massive pressure to perform. And eventually you find someone you like/find attractive and it goes from there. I hate redpill stuff not just for being reactionary, but because it tells men they have to perform. Live up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:23 AM
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She's not saying that's 100% successful. She saying it's a good start. In what world is having a normal conversation with a woman a bad start? This place and red pill forums are completely insane. They convince men they have to put on some sort of display to get women's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:57 AM
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Imagine if every time you talked to a guy where there was some potential attraction...he stops mid sentence and starts backflipping away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:55 AM
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He will probably get work somewhere, while other places won't welcome him back. Yet another wealthy and powerful person has got off on charges of abuse. The poor mod here, basically admitting that he agrees with 'feminists' that the justice system screws victims - guaranteed get him shot down. It does screw victims. The wealthy and powerful are pathological abusers m, and the system protects them. Can anyone say with 100% certainty that he was definitely guilty in any of these cases? No. But - t…
/r/MensRights27/07/23 03:43 PM
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The serial killer thing is clear selection bias. The most successful serial killers were frequently the charismatic and charming ones. That's how they got close to women. Less confident and charismatic men won't have had the opportunity. That doesn't mean women like serial killers, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:40 PM
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This forum is 90% a soapbox for redpillers while 'bluepillers'/normal people talk them down from their swivel-eyed opinions. The most annoying thing is them being completely certain and uncompromsing on their broad and very partisan observations about women, sex and dating. I've never declared 'Women ARE ALL reasonable people, NOT SELFISH or SUPERFICIAL, and the way to get then is ALWAYS to be a good man and show kindness and empathy.' Because that kind of universal statement sounds silly. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:37 PM
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Only 'pill' forums create an environment where such an obvious statement is a debate. Yes! Of course! There an obvious evolutionary reason a man might be more attracted to a 30 or 35 year old than a 18 year old - women that age are more likely to be competent partners and mothers, having presumably had some experience. The incels and redpillers want to gaslight older women becacaue they have no chance them. 18 year olds are subject to being manipulated more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:39 AM
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I imagine it is extremely hard work being you every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:30 PM
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I'm sorry im being deeply sarcastic 😂 thought it was obvious enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:57 PM
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Lots of red pillers getting really defensive in the comments. You can't accept the greater world doesn't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:45 PM
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I’ve always gotten along with men really well and had healthy, positive and mutually supportive connections with men Im going to stop you right there. As a red pill man, I am a truth seeker, and from honing my skills on TRP forums I am aware that...you are lying! All relationships are adversarial, nobody likes each other, and your male friends are just faking it because they fancy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:44 PM
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I've been looking for this study, or at least one with similar results, for a while, I saw it like 5 years ago and I couldn't find it since. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:38 PM
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You’re not allowed to be human if you want to be an attractive man. The expectation of performed masculinity is always there. You drop it they leave. Performed masculinity is something that to an extent neither sex actually wants, and yet both are expecting it to be there. Toxic gender stereotypes are hurting all of us. Call me an feminist SJW whatever bs, I don't care, its true. Women didn't create this, we all did. But it's more on men, maybe, to break the conventional roles down, as we are ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:25 PM
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Without looking I guess that at least 40% of the sub are male and under 25. I wouldn't be surprised if that number was much higher, 50-60% Edit - 40% is about right, multiplying male×under 25
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:33 PM
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The crappy OLD dynamics are created as much by men as they are women. You don't think men are wasting womens time by indiscriminately trying to match, and making no effort whatsoever to discern if they are a good match? Like that's basically encouraged in red pill circles. Or really just in the 'hurr hurr OLD amirite? Just swipe right until you run out of matches and then go back to bed.' Honestly, if these apps are so shit, stop using them. Nobodies forcing you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:22 PM
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When will redpillers accept that men having no filter whatsoever on OLD forces women to apply a high standard filter themselves? ~ phrasing women's dating issues the way redpillers phrase theirs... This is basically true. Women are naturally more guarded when it comes to dating. And they get way too many applications from men. So they have to stringently select. Second of all, has it occurred to a single red piller here to not phrase what they are saying in such a pejorative way towards women? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:20 PM
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America has chosen it, because America's all consuming god is capitalism and free market economics. Europe worships a bit less at that alter, and has a less individualistic perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:00 PM
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If I was a woman, I would use 'Do you like Andrew Tate?' as an easy to way to weed out losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:06 AM
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Jesus Christ. How did you make that jump? Seek some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:05 AM
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It's an incredibly awkward thing to ask someone early doors and I really don't think people actually do it. Once you're dating/seeing each other more regularly, yeah it comes up. Also you can pick up social cues from people to determine how promiscuous they've been (red pill challenge - read women [impossible]).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:00 AM
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Alot of men on this forum reduce women to looks. And reduce themselves to like a bunch of numbers (I am x tall, y/10 attractive, earn z much money). Life is more complicated than that. Women with sociable personalities get more in life. It's really not all about looks. Alot of things that apply to men, apply to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:13 PM
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I've not really noticed a correlation between loudness and attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:10 PM
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Dude, the people who really push this n count thing are morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:14 PM
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The people who obsess over body count on here aren't just like: "It's just my preference" They are making a point of shaming women for promiscuity, saying that its something deeply wrong with society, and being hypocritical themselves because they don't have the same stabdard for men. Those people deserve to be wound up. If it's just your individual preference I mean, whatever. I don't see the world in such black and white ways but personal boundaries aren't anyone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:12 PM
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Of all the topics red pillers obsess over, I find it the funniest. Poor boys have obviously never been out in the wild. 'Body count' (horrible phrase) is not something that comes up in conversation until you're already with someone. But imagine you do ask girl, and she answers honestly...are you really gonna turn her down if you're already attracted to her and she is to you? Biblical levels of small dick energy. No wonder the red pillers can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:01 PM
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I guess high t correlates (reasonably) with natural muscle mass and therefore propensity to gain weight. But actually gaining fat lowers your natural levels. So the 'winners' are high t men who work hard to keep their weight down. I wouldn't be surprised if I was like the try guys, on the lower side. But I don't really feel bad about it or see why I should. I am fit, active, driven, and def not overweight. I'm thinking it's microplastics in the water, hormones in the food It's a bit like low spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:13 PM
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So I looked up whats going on with testosterone levels - a common theme in 'manosphere' conversations. They are apparently dropping in young men. I had no idea what the cause or solution was gonna be, but I thought maybe it might be red pill propaganda adjacent. Like lifting weights, being aggressive, eating meat or reading a Ben Shapiro novel and trying to debate people in the street. That sort of thing. But nooooooooooo - the only real concrete answer is weight. Being overweight is proven to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:45 PM
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I'm like...the inverse of this. I am tall but I dont reckon I could take anyone in a fight, lmao. As I said in my post, I had the experience average height in another country. Initially, its intimidating. But I got used to it because...I never carried myself/thought myself to be a tough guy anyway so I guess the situation just felt normal for me after a while. Like whatever, heights not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:42 PM
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6'5 "My wife just reminded me of the time I shot the bird to a guy in a mall for being taller than me. Basically, it's an identity thing. I'm the tall guy. Insecurity does not have height boundaries.... I like being relatively tall and all, but I just ...don't intuitively feel like how that makes me better than other people. I just doesn't seem like a big deal to me. Shorter guys might say 'try being our height, youd understand what a big deal it is.' WELL...I went to the Netherlands on holiday …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:36 PM
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This is the perfect argument, basically. 'Being with an 18 year old when you are 35+ is weird, creepy, and will be a deeply imbalanced relationship. Its not healthy, I look down on men that do that' 'Yeah but it's LEGAL, so fucking what. You can't tell me what to do FEMINAZI' 'So the only thing stopping you from dating, say, a 16 year old, is the law? Cos there's really not that much difference between those ages. Don't you have any internal moral compass of your own? You just do unethical, expl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:15 PM
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My preference is someone who earns loadsa money for sure. But...I thought redpillers felt threatened by women who make bank? Don't they want to be the 'breadwinners'?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:00 PM
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I'd get off shitty apps if you are feeling confident. Tinder is objectively terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:57 PM
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I think women dont want to put in the effort in finding a guy who isn’t in it for sex. It’s HARD af but possible. You can see the problem when women basically get SPAMMED by dozens of men who a) Have put no effort in and b) Just want sex, not to form a respectable relationship. Men they want to avoid, basically. This makes dating apps a chore and encourages women to have a strong vetting process. Which means...some reasonable matches get thrown by the wayside. Do any redpillers understand this? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:15 PM
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Who told you that? I've never heard that advice ever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:00 PM
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Red pillers - deny climate science, lie about science and scientists Blue pillers - agree with the science, but struggle with concrete solutions. "You see, blue pillers have let us down" 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:59 PM
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Jordan Peterson and a bunch of red pill yourubers told me climate science isn't real bro, everything's gonna be fine 👌👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:26 PM
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41% of 18-29 women are single vs 51% of 18-29 men. Well those are depressing numbers. But anyway...couldn't this be explained by 'women date older men' thing? That's as old as time. Has this actually got worse? That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:24 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:21 PM
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I keep hearing: 'Increasing % of men are getting no action....but that's NOT the case for young women, they are, on average, just as active. So a minority of Chads are getting with multiple women/women are being chad selective. Thus proving TRP theory'. Does anyone have any actual data for this? I don't believe it. All Google comes up with is 'millenials/gen z are less active' (non gender specific).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:00 PM
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Ah, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:42 PM
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You'll be downvoted for expressing your personal experience. The red pillers don't want to hear anything outside theor worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:26 PM
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Being emotionally vulnerable: There is no single quicker way for a woman to lose attraction and respect for you than being "vulnerable" with her. And it should go without saying, but I'm not talking about trauma dumping on some girl you just met a week ago. I'm talking about expressing actual vulnerabilities in a relationship. Without fail every time this topic comes up there are a million anecdotes from men who found this out the hard way. God damn. This is how you guys really think? This is yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:24 PM
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Everything is about the master race with you guys. It's great being tall/big...until food shortages come along. That's why primitive man was 5ft and under. Resource scarcity. An underrated point in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:10 PM
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Its crazy how much of a difference a few inches makes. Like between 5'8 and 5'10 its 138k more per year vs 24k more per year. per year This is miles off. You're quoting 'over entire career/long period' data. 6ft men earn, on average, 100k more over a 30 year period than 5ft4 men So between a tall and a very short guy, the difference is 3k per year. That's a decent amount, but its not insane money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:08 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:42 AM
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Lmao its a gamergate-r in the wild. You guys really saw what you wanted to see with that story. Poor Zoe Quinn. Is game reviewing an insidious, incestuous industry that dupes the public? Yes. But blaming just women for it is childish and quite frankly, plain incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:11 AM
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In primitive times, not all adults would have children, but they would still help raise the children of the clan. Thus, giving the childless fulfilling lives. Now we are all separated into 'nuclear families'. We either are entirely responsible for our offspring, or are childless in empty homes. Which is kinda shit arrangement IMO. My mate is helping a little bit with his GFs daughter. He never wanted kids himself, but he likes being a step-dad on the side. It's not one size fits all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:50 AM
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They have no definition of it, because Melvin might have that too, and then we’re back to, “looks are all that matters”. How come average or ugly guys do get girlfriends? Even if they aren't as successful on average, many of them still do. Many guys have at least some internal confidence (it's not a binary thing, more like its on a scale). And there's def a correlation between confidence and succcess, even for guys without amazing good looks. Saying 'the natural disadvantages I was born with hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:53 AM
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'Women only want the top x% of men' 'I will choose to ignore all the ordinary women dating the ordinary men, because I'm not one of those men, and it's easier to believe the game was rigged against me'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:01 PM
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'My experience + some theory = a universal truth which I must share with the Internet' Ive got this nail called 'red piller', BRB gonna hammer it into my head.... Here's the thing. I'm not cynical about relationships. In my experience, most people, at different times, find happy (or at least net positive) relationships. True love does happen. People can be selfless and happy and kind and fall in love. Women aren't generally evil, or out to ruin mens lives... But I get that other people's experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:59 PM
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Men are telling women it matters. I am a man. It does not matter to me. I exist. Sorry red pillers, these generalisations of yours, they ain't so hot. I care about a potential girlfriends lifestyle. I would care if she doesn't have self control, or is easily manipulated, or goes on benders all the time. I care about being faithful if we want a monogamous relationship. But none of those things are the same as 'she's slept with more men than I have women'. I went to a doctor and you know what they…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:49 PM
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And uhhhh...whose fault is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:45 PM
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I think the argument would be that it has to do with the belief that men still hold the balance of aggregate power in society. They literally do. They don't hold all the power all the time in all spaces, that's not how the world works. But this is a patriarchal world. How many of the world's richest people are men? The top 100 is at least 90% men. Most powerful politicians are also, predominantly, but not excessively, men. Men both command and staff the majority of police and armed forces. Men e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:38 PM
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The cycle of 'casuals enjoying the environment created by a good inner circle, and then ruining said environment' is indeed pretty common. It happens to lots of subreddits. But I massively disagree with the generalisation that women spoil spaces. A lot of multilayer online games are incredibly toxic to women. They are mocked, insulted, abused and get endless sexual comments if they join voice chats. Mainstream games like Call of Duty. And then they all leave. You won't find many women in the voi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:33 PM
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Already on it. Oh, wait...commas are important!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:53 PM
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When I was growing up I got the sense that high body count was something for a 'man' to aspire to - but not in an overly serious way. 'Notches on the bedpost' kinda talk. Women's was talked about less. Now I older and society is a bit less competitive and nobody cares too much either way a bunch of massive fucking losers have congregated on a forum to collectively embarass themselves obsessing over how many men that women might have slept with. Like it's the be all and end all of a woman - or in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:50 AM
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I feel like you've inadvertently demonstrated the male problem with emotions What is wrong with a woman wanting affirmation about a relationship? Oh no, how terrible! Bro come on. If you are worried about life and you feel like your gf doesn't understand, than either a) she sucks or b) you're not expressing your emotions/problems very well. From experience, b) is definitely a common problem in relationships where both parties care for one another. The world would be a much better place if the se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:11 AM
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Men like to solve their problems. ...yeah speaking as a man, who knows other men, we are absolutely terrible at solving our emotional problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:56 AM
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I push back on a lot of stereotypes about women, but my experience is that nearly all girlfriends need/want positive affirmation in a relationship. To be told they are beautiful, they are loved, they are strong etc. What's the cost of saying nice things to your girlfriend? None, none at all. Just do it you fucking loser 🤣. This society breeds insecurity into nearly all of us. Women wear theres on their sleeve more than men. You know what, it's probably healthier than bottling it. Us men might ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:44 AM
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There's a lesson for red pill dweebs. Pretty much all of your heroes are grifters. They spout right wing stuff to make money, not because they really believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:19 PM
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You don't understand bro. Women ruined everything bro. Nobody is getting sex any more. Brad Pitt? Henry Caville? Year long dry spells. All sex having has stopped. Why? WIMMINNNNSSSSS EGGGOOOOOOSSSSS have destroyed all happiness on earth. They are also responsible for 98% of carbon dioxide emissions. Probably. Someone told me that on the Hustle University discord, so it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:17 AM
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It was a general comment, not necessarily aimed at you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:05 PM
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Insecurity, mistrust, suspicion seems to underpin all red pill thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:33 PM
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This is just the alternate version of 'Women can have sex when they want'....and is even less true than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:31 PM
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This probably sounded good in your red pill subreddits, but out in the real world, it's total ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:29 PM
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What are the right wing degenerates actually complaining about on here? They bemoan the state of things (as we all do) but then lay the entire blame at the feet of women. And then they are surprised when women don't want to talk to, or date them? Not only is it wrong to just blame women, it's also a weak, self defeating logic that excuses their own anger and impotence - rather than putting emphasis on themselves to change. And there's a horrendous, rapey 'something must be done' undertone about …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:12 PM
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Neoliberalism and dismantling of societal structures under capitalism is to blame. The right cannot/will not analyse capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:00 PM
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Brother I hear you like fanfiction, do you ever spend money on it? Cos I can write better stuff than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:57 PM
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Men on here are very keen to point out 'biological realities'. But what about the reality that most of the time, women don't care as much as men about random hookups? there's plenty who would also just given the opportunity like to be a good boyfriend to them There's an epidemic of loneliness going on, but the causes are complex. Seems to be an underlying assumption that women are withholding relationships unfairly. Why don't the men assess themselves and what they are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 PM
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And to women, attention is love. You have a ridiculous and depressing view of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:56 PM
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Day 56428 of 'Conservative/redpilled men are hypocrites'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:48 AM
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You still have to give signals. Mostly, men have to lead if its getting romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:19 PM
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Another thread about a good listener who feels women trap him in the 'friend zone' - or, he does it to himself. You don't have to use social skills just to be a sympathetic but unassertive friend. You can use them to...make it clear you're attracted to them, while having a good conversation. Not being able to assert yourself comes back to insecurity. It has nothing to do with being a good listener. Social skills and insecurity can be quite different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:17 PM
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Society basically doesn't exist if we dont help people who are apparently in distress. 99 times out of 100 it will be genuine. I don't care if that 1 time it would be a trap or put me in harms way. Society is incredibly fractured and broken, and it's worse in North America. But I don't need peoples projections about how to live. Being completely 'sigma' is just not human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:04 PM
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Could you imagine a societal expectation to spend an hour getting ready every day before leaving the house? And being judged for not wearing makeup and putting that prep in? Insanity. I always laugh when men say life is harder for men... leaving the house with 5 mins prep should be an acceptable norm for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:06 AM
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The point in my OP is... well, pretty convenient not defining your terms and wanting to debate people that have their terms defined, dont you think? They can criticize RP but cant be criticized back. Its an easy way out and debate always end in an unfufiling manner That's a bit like saying it's convenient for someone to argue against an extreme political view without defining their own. Red Pill is making the societal assertions - that things should be different from how they are. I.e. Men need …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:56 AM
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Exactly. I will never flair as Blue Pill - even though that's exactly how Red Pillers would define me as - because Blue Pill is something Red Pillers came up with. It's inherently pejorative. I don't believe: Treating women as equals Being respectful and kind (oh no! what a soy thing to say! /s) Listening to people, working with people, seeking cooperation before individualism Being at ease with myself for not 100% fitting the alpha male stereotype (red pillers - impossible mode) Rejecting being…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:45 AM
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Exactly. The normal people aren't here, they are out there living life. The Internet is full of the terminally online and the heavily opinionated. People with minor mental health issues and grudges to bare. Not average Joes. If I could give one piece of advice to young men, it's find any way you can to increase your contact time with the real world and meet new people...cos the real world is nothing like these forums! Theres definitely women (and men) on the left who emphasise kindness, respectf…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:24 AM
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If you care enough, research his background, what he's said, his brothel ownership, and the court case. 'Donald Trump didn't sleep with Epstiens girls cos there's no smoking gun' - the defence thats mounted for Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:20 PM
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What if...some women prefer not being approached all the itme? That being approached constantly doesnt make some girls lives any better. Always seems to come back to 'attractive women are evil cos they get something unfairly' reasoning. Life aint that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:53 PM
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Can you gain confidence by reading about other peoples? I mean, confidence is a realy difficult thing, there arent any easy answers to finding it for sure...But ive never read about any other guys attempts at hoking up and gained something from it. The answers are from within, not without imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:58 PM
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Do you red pill gentlesirs actually believe every single woman gets multiple cold approaches? I mean, come on... 'All women are drowning in potential sexual partners' - the hilarious red pill myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:56 PM
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All 'alpha' or macho men arent rapists/abusive. All guys who pay attention 'rp theory' arent bad, or even come away from it behaving worse to women. In fact, most guys who 'learn' to be more successful with women, whatever they read, probably get a bit more humanised form the experience and calm the fuck down about women being evil and all that bollocks. But the overlap between red pill, the far right and rape culture is there for all to see. It ultimately teaches women are below us men - less i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:52 PM
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There's nothing inherently woman hating about 'taking control' - it's when it's done in a way that hurts your gf, and despite objections. Rough sex is a good example. If you talk about the rough sex before and after, you know its consensual and what's cool/what isn't. But you don't need permission in the actual moment for every little thing...cos then, it wouldn't be dominating rough sex at all, would it. But woman hating rough sex would be like doing it without consent, despite objections, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:34 PM
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You didn't watch til the end of the film then 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:25 PM
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Red pillers will never accept this because they want to believe the game is unfairly rigged against them. They don't want to face difficult truths about their own charisma, self confidence, being at ease with themselves. Also redpillers have a very narrow hierarchical view of society. Slobs who are good with women disturb this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:12 PM
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I'm gonna disagree. I think inner confidence matters more. Good looks open up more opportunities, no doubt, but being good at conversation, feeling at ease with yourself and with potential mates, having a presence, is what pushes things forward. "Yeah but I'm average/below average looking, I used to be confident but women kept rejecting me! The game is rigged against me, its not my fault..." Nothing anyone says will likely change the mind of people that think that way, but - they don't actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:09 PM
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Gonna have to be 'strong' this winter with the insane heating bills happening. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:23 PM
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Skinny jeans look ridiculous on any guy who doesn’t have thin legs They look ridiculous on guys who do have skinny legs too...I'm advertising the fact I have chicken legs. Why would I want to do that? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:23 PM
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Talking to red piller and they will start screaming about 'shelf-life', 'prime age', 'women past 35 basically aren't people' etc etc. Attraction isn't that reductive, but it also misses the point that we look for different things at different ages. A man in his 40s, 50s might be looking less for someone to have kids with and more for a life partner. Hence, they stay attracted to women the same age. It makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:21 PM
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There are some points I'll debate red pillers on, but that one is 100% about their own insecurities. They've put sex and relationships on this massive pedestal, and then are worried about having a partner more experienced than them. Not having had much sex/relationships isn't a big deal. Neither is having lots. Both are normal. They don't define us. It ain't a competition, and it's certainly not a competition with the opposite sex. People are welcome to have 'standards' if they want. Seems like …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:15 PM
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At least you admit it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:42 PM
2

'Men wanting to hold women to account to standards they don't have to follow'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:33 PM
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You sound a bit triggered. If politicians were actually held account for sexual infidelity, Boris Johnson wouldn't be an MP, never mind Prime Minister. The man has 10 children and is a serial cheater. Of course red pill losers would probably laud him as an alpha...by their measurements, that's exactly what he is. Not a great look for the Finnish PM, but this is at the lowest end of the scale, surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:30 PM
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What do you mean a losing position? What are you on about? Sex is about fun, enjoyment, primal urges (and procreation if you're into that kinda thing). It's not a competitive quiz show. If you go around with that attitude you are just among yourself depressed and unavailable to loads of women. How would you ever even get to a 'high number' - so important for us, apparently - without sleeping with more experienced women? I'd be a virgin if I refused them lmaoooooo. 'Macho incel' logic is like fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:33 PM
2

Every reply to your comment is pretty repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:45 PM
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Not saying you have to. Can you be friends even if you are attracted to them, but its not going to work out for whatever reason? Also I feel like there are degrees of attraction. If im slightly attracted to my friends gf then...I don't see it as a big deal. Its a common situation we all end up in. Neither avoiding them/being cold to them/pursuing them despite the situation seem like good ideas. I just...stay friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:44 PM
1

A pool party isn't the same as randomly doing it in the street
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:38 PM
5

Womens nakedness is always seen as sexualised. Men can do it 'for a laugh'. Double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:48 PM
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'Its impossible to just be friends with a woman. You're either interested in her or youre lying to yourself' I've seen this from a few red pill men and not only is it incredibly smooth-brained, it also reveals a lot about what type of men red pillers are. Some more religious/conservative cultures separate men and women quite a lot, but its not like that in most of the west and seems insane to choose it or to want it. Being friends is just a natural thing if you socialise and know many people. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:47 PM
1

Lots of men chase the love, security, support of relationship. They might just be less vocal about it. Some women want sex more than their partners do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:06 PM
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The lesser version of the Fred/Donald Trump dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:11 PM
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When we are takings Simps - I.e. suckers who irrationally buy something from a creator to make themselves feel better - a decent number of men cultivate a simp following. They aren't selling sex, they are selling lifestyle bullshit in one form or another. 'Here's how to be like me' self-improvement crap. Look at Andrew Tate. If he called his course 'I got rich off sex trafficking - but I will pretend I got rich off something else and sell that to you University' I don't think he would have so ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:38 AM
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As a brit I always find it funny when people put their weight in their bio. Are you a prize hog that needs weighing? I think height plus photos is usually enough. And I'd apply that to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:30 PM
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I can't make you read the article properly if you don't want to. He literally admitted it (although he claims these incidents were consensual...the victims/witnesses disagree)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:47 AM
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https://www.vox.com/culture/2017/11/9/16629400/louis-ck-allegations-masturbation The day after the Times report dropped, C.K. issued a much different statement, beginning with, “These stories are true.” Also look up what Sarah silverman has said about him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:37 AM
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Real life isn't like being a videogame character where buffing 'stats' = success. Plenty of men with few redeeming characteristics are really successful with casual sex. They are lazy, slobbish, unreliable, unambitious, not even well dressed..a list of stuff conventional 'man theory' says not to be. BUT what they are, is comfortable in their own skin, sociable, and know how make women feel at ease (particularly at parties). Don't mean to blow some red pill mind here, but a) I don't resent these …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:34 AM
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Louis CK exposed himself to unwitting fans, amongst other deviant behaviour. Sarah Silverman, his friend, has talked about how much he loves getting his dick out in inappropriate situations. This thread is a great opportunity to downplay his behaviour, right? A bigger wrong doesn't excuse an (unrelated) lesser one. Nice implication 'women don't give a fuck', yeah this is totally all women. If someone made a generalisation about men based on assault or rape stats you'd be keen to say 'not all men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:05 AM
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Most social interactions don't start with the pretext of 'hitting on someone'. They just start with talking about...stuff. Of you prefer dating apps then good for you. But I def don't share your perspective on what talking to women I meet in person is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:49 AM
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They are implying some sort of forced copulation scenario OP. That's all I can think. It's like in Peep Show where Mark jokingly suggests everyone should just line up at a party in attractiveness order and just pair off. They actually want something like that...cos that would be 'justice'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:38 AM
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It’s amazing how modern people do not see the value in basic empathy/compassion anymore. Agreed This sub is toxic asf, people are so rude to each other and treat each other like robots. From what I've seen so far, agreed. Like…why does there need to be some “solution”? Agreed. Maybe just try and be a decent human being and have some empathy for a problem tons of men (and some women) face. Yep. I notice this talking point repeatedly, if men simply want and ask for basic empathy/compassion from wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:31 AM
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If men are struggling on dating apps and feel like they are superficially judged then....why don't they try meeting people in person? That's still how most relationships kick off. I feel like red pill-type men are viewing the world in a negative light exaggerated by their insecurities. Are dating apps superficial? Yes, fundamentally yes, interactions start with looking at pics of each other. But there is plenty of range for self expression on them. As has been pointed out, a sense of humour/maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:14 AM
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People like OP are very loud here, but they don't necessarily represent the majority opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:49 PM
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To echo what other people are saying in this thread, you're only seeing it from one side. Thinking sleeping around is wonderful and ego boosting and the apex of achievement is largely a male perspective. Women on the whole don't tend to view it in the same way. For women, casual sex is riskier, and there's a biological element to them not seeing it as attractive. They want the guy to (hypothetically) stay around if they get pregnant (we have contraception nowadays but our evolutionary instincts …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:48 PM
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I like FDS purely for the 12 foot broom it sends up the arse of loads of men on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:56 PM
2

Nobody should get more surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:46 PM
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The red pill mindset is so warped that not only do they put 'alpha men'/'being alpha' and 'hot women' on some ridiculous pedestal, which they negatively compare themselves to...they refuse to realise most people are just average. If they admit that then they have to admit their worldviewi doesnt fit with reality. What is the obsession with labelling everyone and putting them in a magical hierarchy? It's just jibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:40 PM
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a) People are though. Plenty of single people (men) here vocal about the fact they aren't having sex or long term relationships and they are really struggling with that. 'I'd just like someone' is a pretty common sentiment. b) Probably a throwaway comment but are you really calling 'average man in relationship with average woman' beta? That's a...weird , slightly unhinged way of looking at the world Some guys talk like relationships and romance are some sort of evil game that's been designed aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:31 PM
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