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2

Same. Well I'm not a virgin, but my success is rare and completely unpredictable.
/r/seduction27/07/26 08:12 AM
30

Were we? Most guys I know are pretty discouraged and automatically assume no one is interested in them. ESPECIALLY if they have evidence of it (like playing hard to get).
/r/seduction22/07/26 03:53 PM
2

Ironically, it's pretty obvious this would sometimes work if you're good looking enough.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:37 PM
5

Its incredibly obvious to anyone above room temperature IQ, what he was saying. But I guess people like you insist on throwing in a snarky comment any chance they can get. So annoying.
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:44 AM
1

Lol yeah pretty much. Break up coincidentally happened after she took a solo trip back to Seattle for a week to visit a friend and then dumped me over text. Twas a fantastic time 👌🏻👌🏻
/r/seduction20/07/26 04:07 AM
2

My last relationship was 2022 or so. Within 2 weeks shed found someone new (or maybe even earlier than that tbh). Four years later I'm still single lol.
/r/seduction20/07/26 04:00 AM
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Part of the reason why guys hold on longer than they should is because they have no other option to jump to when they kill off that relationship. Most are looking at several months at minimum of loneliness and nothing.
/r/seduction20/07/26 01:43 AM
7

You realize the reason the super Chad theory caught on, right? It's because it's the only explanation that matches all the symptoms guys are experiencing. You can give all sorts of theories and excuses and try to reason with them. But unless your explanation actually jives with the actual reality that guys are experiencing, it's not going to stick. The super Chad theory sticks because ultra attractive guys ARE getting nearly all the attention. Because average and even above average guys are gett…
/r/seduction19/07/26 10:28 PM
7

yeah bring a gift. first you get a box. then you cut a hole in the box... (no dont bring a gift)
/r/seduction07/07/26 09:26 PM
6

> I met a beautiful girl on Tinder Yeah, this is where it doesnt work for me. Somehow I don't think they can see my "limiting beliefs" from my 7 pictures and two sentence bio... so I don't think my "limiting beliefs" are the limiting factor here lmao.
/r/seduction19/06/26 07:32 PM
4

I've never been able to just chat someone up and then hookup. I think literally every single one was from an app. I need to get better at talking to girls irl lol I think my count is at 29 last I checked.
/r/seduction02/04/26 01:08 AM
1

Cringe.
/r/seduction19/03/26 04:15 PM
15

this is it for me. I hate having people talk to me when I dont want to and then having to extricate myself from the conversation. And I hate even more to feel like I'm forcing that on someone else.
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:25 PM
3

I had a 9.8 or something crazy on photofeeler and still basically get zero matches.
/r/seduction20/01/26 02:05 AM
5

Nah they responded saying I was banned and they couldn't provide the reason why for safety reasons. So not much you can do about a completely anonymous report especially when you're not even told what happened. And I remained banned. The only reason I even suspect it was that girl was because 1. She stopped talking to me suddenly and 2. She's the only one I had talked to in weeks. The date was literally just go eat pizza downtown, walk around looking at overpriced stuff in the shops and then we …
/r/seduction17/12/25 09:20 PM
7

In my case, we were having a flirty text convo after a date and it started getting ever so slightly PG13. Something along the lines of "wish you were in my bed rn" or something. Pretty vanilla. Pretty sure she fell asleep, and then felt guilty for allowing herself to be even vaguely sexual. She didn't respond. 12 hours later hinge ban. Appealed. They wouldn't tell me why I got banned so you can't been argue or provide evidence. But she's the only one I had talked to.
/r/seduction17/12/25 08:22 PM
2

Went on a pickleball date with a girl from hinge, later another, hooked up on the third. I asked her how her hinge experience was going and she specifically mentioned that one guy had used this line on her. Apparently it's saturated and too many people are using that one. She was turned off by it Of course that's only one data point. Glad it worked for you but I wonder if you were having luck despite it not because of it.
/r/seduction11/12/25 08:06 AM
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1.5 lol. Most of them dipped when I mentioned I was only there for work. But my point was that it was night and day compared to what Ive experienced back home in the US. This was in the middle of the freezing temps they had January 2024 so I honestly just wanted to get back to the hotel and float in the hot tub for hours.
/r/seduction27/11/25 02:53 AM
10

That's my point. Your home city isn't in mexico. So part of your appeal is very likely that you're assumed to be somewhat well off if you're from the US. A Mexican guy from the middle of nowhere that traveled to mexico city would NOT be having Mexican girls lining up to visit his random little Mexican village when he goes back home.
/r/seduction27/11/25 02:44 AM
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I was in Vancouver on a business trip and all of a sudden my apps were blowing up with cute Asians. You have to consider that your looks make you interesting but there's also an economic factor if you're from the states and you're visiting mexico city.
/r/seduction27/11/25 02:28 AM
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wait, why are we not engaging with her during the pasta process? Edit: you guys don't need to downvote me for asking a question. good lord.
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:52 PM
1

I'm 6'4 and have been approached literally one (1) time in my entire 32 years of life.
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:54 AM
3

I struggle with this so much. I have severe approach anxiety so I'm trying to find any kind of signs of interest (notably eye contact) and I never get any. Idk if I'm just not spotting, if people don't look at each other generally, or if I'm straight up uggo. But it's killing what little confidence I have.
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:51 AM
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The plan change + the cousin apaprently being included (???) + wanting you to bring a friend + a 6 hour reponse time the day of would completely kill the vibe for me. I would advise aborting. I dont want to hang out with someones cousin that I've never met and have to drag a friend along. Sounds like a stupid time.
/r/seduction12/09/25 04:00 PM
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Maybe I'm stupid what does her staying at her cousin's have to do with you bringing a friend? Edit: My really poorly calibrated brain says this happened: The car is warm comment might have come across as too sexual. Scared her a bit. She made up an excuse to get out of the commitment that night. Next day she's not feeling it but feels guitly about flaking again when she already committed. Tries to get you to bring a friend so it's more of a hangout and you won't make a move on her. Explicitly te…
/r/seduction12/09/25 03:47 PM
11

I think I would prioritize improving your living situation over any kind of dating. 😬
/r/seduction20/08/25 04:39 AM
7

Lol I'm 32 and it's no better 10 years earlier. It's funny because on paper I'm probably a catch. But my interests and hobbies don't align with the attention addicted lifestyles of most women I come across. So I guess we're equally un-attracted to each other.
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:10 PM
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Maybe I'm a doomer, maybe I'm just not attractive enough, idk. But I struggle to find women that will add any kind of value to my life. I already do all the traditionally female chores like cooking and cleaning and I do all the traditionally male chores like maintenance and yard work. Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place, but most women Ive run into can't do either, so a relationship just ends up being me carrying both of us. The attitude I find a lot now is "I'm the prize and that should be goo…
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:03 PM
1

"You should have more than one match." Not realistic for most guys.
/r/seduction22/06/25 08:15 AM
7

Yeah... I've literally never been dmd out of the blue. Dude was a 1 percenter so this anecdote doesn't translate to anyone else.
/r/seduction22/06/25 06:29 AM
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https://www.oeffentlichen-dienst.de/alles-wichtige-rund-um-das-thema-gehalt/300-grundschullehrer-gehalt-lehrergehalt.html Not sure where you're getting those numbers. Germany's teachers appear to start at around 52k and peak at 59k. This is the base salary, so sure, you can find examples where there are some with certain benefits that push the salary up. But by large I would not say 80k is anywhere near an accurate assessment of what a kindergarten teacher is earning in Germany.
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:30 PM
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Kindergarten teachers are paid badly pretty much everywhere. Has nothing to do with the US.
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:54 PM
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fr. 100% of girls would just shrug as I walked away. Some of us don't have the luxury of being pursued.
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:38 PM
1

Completely missed the point I was making. You're compared regardless of whether they talk about it.
/r/seduction01/06/25 06:36 AM
1

It becomes tiresome (and risky) to have to compete with her peak memories of her former partners. Guy a had a bigger dick Guy b had bigger muscles Guy c had more money You'll always be compared to the peaks in her past.
/r/seduction31/05/25 09:19 PM
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It's the standard BS dating advice just repackaged. No luck with dating? "Just be yourself" Still no luck with dating? "Work on yourself" "Women just want a decent guy that treats them well" Still no luck? "Work on your style and go the gym" All this dating advice is always completely contradictory, yet it's the most common BS that's dispensed. And don't even get me started about the double standard for advice between sexes.
/r/seduction27/05/25 08:58 PM
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Fr. I very briefly dated (aka hooked up with) a girl who did almsot anything I wanted in bed with complete enthusiasm jsut because she was (For whatever reason) completely attracted to me. Hasn't happened before or since then. She ended up being a little crazy and I cut off contact, but it was nuts while it lasted.
/r/seduction13/05/25 11:54 PM
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but it doesn't solve the initial problem of not having grapes. Yeah, this is the problem I have. Everyone's advice is always "well if she isn't into you, you don't want to bother with her anyway". Great, but it seems like no one else wants me either sooo I feel like, even though we're not supposed to say it… the only way out of this dilemma is to be initially attractive enough that she wants to invest in a conversation. It feels like no amount of "game," nothing you can say or ask, can cause her…
/r/seduction24/04/25 05:03 PM
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Guys we had it all wrong. We don't need to approach. We just have to be a 9/10 6'1 guy and the best looking in the area And the women will do all the work. Let me get right on that.
/r/seduction02/01/25 07:35 AM
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had an ONS off hinge in Germany, so yes, its a thing there. (though I didnt do particularly well)
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:07 PM
2

im loling. does this actually work?
/r/seduction07/11/24 05:51 PM
1

Get a couch. My couch is a smallish black leather one from IKEA clearance. I specifically haven't upgraded because it's small enough that you're likely to end up sitting close/cuddling lol.
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:52 AM
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"have sex with her and then lay there like this to look hot" Bruh, I think she though you were hot before you had sex lmao. The rest of us uggos can't even get to the sex part.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:43 PM
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Tinder boosts you initially. You likely won't see that happen again unless you start paying. Pretty sure bumble does the same. I have not seen the same from hinge. I briefly worked in Vancouver (extremely Asian population and I'm white), and racked up a TON of matches on bumble in the first day or two but that died off.
/r/seduction25/09/24 05:23 PM
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Id throw that shit test back at her. Isn't the rule for dealing with shit tests to never get defensive but instead agree and amplify? "I think you're gay" "Are you saying you're actually a guy?" ^ indicates you're attracted to her, and now she has to defend her femininity. But I also get told I'm too combative so maybe don't take my advice. Lmao
/r/seduction03/09/24 06:39 AM
2

Your profile is boosted because you're new. I've deleted and recreated mine before and the same thing happens. After a day or so your matches will reduce down to near nothing.
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:04 PM
1

I'm in Arizona, so outside activities are more or less off the table in the summer. But winter is the opposite. Any kind of entertainment activity pricing has gone through the roof. Movie tickets are around 15$ per seat and then of course they gouge on drinks and snacks. Needless to say I don't much enjoy going out and doing things lol.
/r/seduction26/06/24 11:21 PM
9

Oh very likely. Unfortunately that's the case for 99% of girls I've talked to though so there really isn't much of a solution.
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:19 AM
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Yeah just checked prices cus I was curious. 1.5 hours of bowling for two people would run me $45. Any of the free outdoor stuff is more or less off limits in the summer where I live as the temps get up into the 100+(40c). Ive suggested a simple ice cream date here in the US and the girl told me that was a "step down" for her and then stopped talking to me, but I know others don't have these problems. Pretty sure if the girl is into you, she'll go along with whatever. For people who are less plea…
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:15 AM
114

Idk where you live but the majority of these would easily cost me more than $20
/r/seduction25/06/24 11:58 PM
3

No lol. Zero interest in seeing her again
/r/seduction10/06/24 11:20 PM
17

Just had this happen too. I hard carried that conversation, girl had the personality of a decomposing trout. I basically just gave up half way through and started talking about my shit after she answered as if she had asked a question to continue the conversation.
/r/seduction09/06/24 05:16 PM
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This honestly isn't sufficient. I joined a group activity, and realized I just have no idea how to start a conversation with someone. Give me an opportunity to make a humorous comment sideways to start a convoy, and I'm golden. Or some other "in" where I can ask someone something that I'm genuinely interested. Like they've got a some character or band on their shirt or whatever. But I still haven't figured out how to pull an intro and convo out of thin air. I just yolod it once and told a chick …
/r/seduction03/06/24 02:19 AM
12

"I'm not self conscious I'm just a weird person and I think very differently than most people, I almost feel like I don't understand humanity a lot of the time. " ugh. 2 me irl 4 me irl
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:45 PM
3

How are you finding these girls to follow on instagram? All I see there are people I already follow and reels. I never see anything from anyone local that I don't already follow. I literally have no idea how people find local people outside of their already existing circle to follow on instagram.
/r/seduction01/04/24 06:38 AM
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as a 6'4 guy, I'd much prefer a tall chick. But that preference goes out the window completely if the personality/attitude is better eslewhere.
/r/seduction27/12/23 09:20 PM
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I dated a very hot 27/28 year old that was making twice what I made. I never had any issue with how much she made, except that she dabbled in the "rich person" lifestyle of wanting to go eat at fancy restaurants that cost like...60$ for a single plate. Eventually she broke with me because I wasn't fitting into the "power couple" thing she had envisioned for herself. And I wasn't making bad money by any means... I was around 150k at the time. So this is basically what screws these women over: "Mo…
/r/seduction27/12/23 09:18 PM
15

Yeah this is what really gets me. "Oh they'll eventually realize they're being unrealistic and become more reasonable. " Great. So I get to spend my young years frustrated and alone while they're off partying. And then when she's had her fun, I might get a chance when she's 30 and she compares me to everyone she's been with and is perpetually unhappy because she couldn't pull a Chad and settles for me. So I'm miserable first and later she joins me in misery. Great culture we've built here. I rea…
/r/seduction19/10/22 01:05 AM
3

First of all I'm not the guy you originally responded to. I'm also not upset, so idk what you're talking about. Second of all. You just used the word undesirable instead of land whale. I know what you mean. You know what you mean. Everyone knows what you mean. You can drop the white knight act of pretending like fat chicks are somehow attractive and you don't "degrade people on looks" whatever the hell that means. They're not. No one gives a shit if you're calling them land whales or not. Third …
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:06 PM
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Morbidly obese? I'm pretty sure everyone knows the definition of land whale lol.
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:27 AM
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Yeah. I agree. Haven't found a social activity that gets me out more, unfortunately.
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:44 PM
3

That's the annoying bit. Zero gym selfies. I have a single selfie with my cat. Most others are just of me on various trips Ive gone on and a single group picture of me with my coworkers at the holiday party. It's easy to tell who I am cus I literally stick out. Bio just says what my job is, interests, etc. Maybe I'm just not interesting or funny enough. Feels bad man.
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:29 AM
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My comment history is mostly me giving out information about Germany, hanging around gundeals, and having debates when I think someone is wrong lmao. Not sure how that's supposed to tell you anything about my personality since you didn't actually explain anything you supposedly found. Edit: this user started sending me harrassing messages calling me racist, misogynist, etc, for seemingly no reason. Well actually, the reason is apparently because one of my hobbies is a small collection of fire ar…
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:26 AM
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Idk man. I'm 6'4", well within normal BMI. 6 figure job. I go to the gym quite a bit but not crazy muscular. You'd think that would at least get me a little bit of interest at least on apps, but nah. Maybe my personality is just shit or something. It just seems like some people have some magic ingredient that I'm missing. Very frustrating.
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:09 AM
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m8 take a chill pill lol. If you can't see the dark humor in an over the top suggestion to an extremely annoying, and depressing fact of life that we (mostly men) have to deal with day to day, maybe YOU should be the one getting off this site, because you clearly have no sense of perspective. I guess someone forgot to tell The Office writers that you can't joke about it either. Millions of people have seen it and I guess they're all horribly traumatized by it now. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:55 AM
4

kys. Jk. But seriously, I have no idea. I had luck with one chick on Hinge who is now my girlfriend. But I think you just have to do things in person now. Last time I asked for a girls number, I was at an Aquarium. I just went over, said she was cute, and got her number. Way more fulfilling than the countless hours I wasted swiping with futility on Tinder and the other apps.
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:20 AM
13

"My friend came over, I showed him our conversation he just said "This is your women 💯"." Lmao wtf am I reading.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:25 AM
1

Use your increased agility to run circles around them until they get dizzy and tip over. Then roll them out of the club.
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:26 AM
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lol this whole post has some serious p3nguin 0f d00m vibes. *holds up spork*
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:31 AM
1

9/10 we'll say yes if the girl is attractive. I wouldnt say yes to the vast majority of girls I see on a daily basis.
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:50 AM
13

Most online dating apps allow you to link your instagram. If a bunch of the pictures show you with attractive women, you're passing preselection with flying colors. Same goes for any chick you chat with in person\ and might exchange instagrams. She'd immediately know you're not a loner and you're desirable by others.
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:31 AM
0

This is definitely not statistically significant, but I have never gotten a second date from a girl where I asked to kiss on the first date. When I just went for the kiss without asking, I sometimes got a second date, sometimes not. But I've NEVER gotten a second date when I asked to kiss. Otoh, I've also never had a kiss (asked or not) rejected.
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:29 AM
4

OP and this whole thread are a massive yikes.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:52 PM
1

Latin girls aren't much my thing but maybe I need to do the same and move to Poland or something. I have German citizenship so I thinki can pretty much live wherever in the EU. 🤔
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:03 AM
118

Dating apps allows low tier females easy access to higher tier males, that they try to get commitment out of. Dating apps allow high tier males easy access to lower tier females that are easier to pump and dump.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:00 PM
6

Unfortunately most guys have very few pictures of themselves. Including me. I can't tell you the last time someone took a picture of me that wasn't my mom taking the annual Christmas picture. Urgh.
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:54 PM
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If your instagram is full of rich guy shit, you can probably message almost any instagram "influencer" aka attention whore and she'll show up. Then you just always post picture with all your instagram hoes at your parties and pretty soon your reputation just carries itself and you don't have to do anything at all anymore.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:50 AM
1

Lol this is the same horrible argument as "girls like short guys too, just look at Tom Cruise". All these guys have a shit ton of money lol. They could be ugly af and still get girls.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:34 PM
2

2 me irl 4 me irl :( I'm pretty sure I just give off these beta vibes and no one wants that.
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:49 AM
1

I think even that's being generous. The conversation toward the upper end has gotten unbelievably high
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:36 AM
3

Same. Last time i played was in middle school. So I'm likely shit.
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:46 AM
6

Yeah pretty much. I told the girl I lost it to beforehand, and she was super nice. We didn't do much, it wasn't very good for me, it was probably pretty bad for her, nobody finished, and then we just chilled in bed for a bit. And then I asked if she could help me practice some more another time. And we kept practicing for like 2 years lmao. But no one ever mocked anyone. That's depressing.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:09 AM
2

yeah. Seems like the best strategy is to get a number and then unmatch so whatever happens, they have no way to report you. It's unfortunate, but idk how else to protect yourself from fake reports in a system that automatically believes the complaint.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:33 AM
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Literally no idea. The only thing I can think of is that I went on a date with a girl from there. Went relatively well. We're texting and I think I made some extremely minor flirty/sexual comment. Something stupid like "I'm in bed maybe you should join" or some shit like that. She probably got pissed, because she never responded. Probably reported me for some crap like sexual harassment or something and i got banned. If you Google "hinge ban no reason" there's a tonnnn of complaints about hinge …
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:21 PM
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I was doing okayish on hinge and then I got banned out of nowhere. Their policy is the typical "always believe the victim" crap, so they wouldn't even tell me what I got banned for. And i hadn't even used it for several days by that point. It's pretty shit.
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:09 PM
6

Fr. I kinda stopped taking this seriously when he suggested teaching English online for 10$.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 06:15 PM
0

That's my understanding. But this is what what they're saying to a guy who's thick and not overly long lol. So maybe they're just being nice
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:28 AM
2

That's what I've been told as well lol.
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:16 PM
11

"In another survey, 45 out of 50 sexually active undergraduate females said that penis width was more important to sexual satisfaction than penis length." Aww yiss thiccboi gang
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:03 PM
9

It's ironic too... if you ever talk to any women (moms, sisters, female friends) and they want to give you dating advice, it's always "you have to put in effort. show her you want her". Except it's the complete opposite. If she wants you, you can put in zero effort and it still works out. If she doesn't want you, no amount effort will convince her otherwise.
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:23 PM
5

Yeah you really have to recognize low interest and dip out before you're hurt/disappointed again. I may hed with a chick on bumble who responds within 5 minutes and we've got a date set up. Compared with the ones that take hours to respond and then flake out on setting a date. It's annoying.
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:03 PM
9

second degree hot oil burns on your pp.
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:15 AM
10

Because like 30% of the diagnosis are probably "yeah it's cancer and it probably isn't worth treating". And then another 30% is probably having to euthanize an animal. It's not particularly cheery.
/r/seduction10/09/21 09:36 PM
1

Ah there it is. The classic switch to ad hominem attacks while refuting none of the points I made. Always a great strategy. 👌🏻
/r/seduction10/09/21 03:57 PM
5

You're further proving that you're too dense to understand the point I was making. But you do you.
/r/seduction10/09/21 03:34 PM
4

I was basing that characterization off the many, many kids I met in Community college and summer school. Yeah, they were going to school, but many were just going through the motions without much motivation. Idk why I'm having to defend what was obviously a caricature to illustrate my point. If you're too dense to understand that some people will appear higher value than others due to many factors including, but not limited to, social life, health, physical appearance, employment, income, wealth…
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:32 AM
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Actually we do need a name for it. Because if that's the kind of person you're trying to find, then it helps to be able to accurately describe what you're looking for. And no, if he would "surely find someone" by "just going around", he wouldn't be here asking this question, you moron. "Where can I meet girls that are into cars?" "Ew. You don't need a name for that. Just flail around and maybe you'll run into one at a grocery store" No. If you're looking for a car girl, we would recommend you go…
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:56 AM
3

Wat. That's a pretty normal, and slightly funny, way to say what he's trying to say...
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:09 AM
26

Do you have a better name for it? What else do you wanna call a girl that has her shit together, is classy, etc. Vs the pothead girl that's still struggling her way through night school while working at dollar tree. Yeah it's classist, but I'm trying to maximize my chances of having something in common with a girl.
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:06 AM
1

Maybe I'm autistic, so this may not be the best advice, but I usually just say something like "Excuuuuuse me miss. I'm pretty sure that's illegal" and maybe "I am enjoying the boobs though".
/r/seduction26/08/21 04:58 AM
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I've been told I have a difficult personality to get along with. Apparently I come off as a bit of an asshole or too honest or something, idk. Some girls get offended or just peace out. But when it works, it really works. I've been told by a couple of the girls I've been with that it was refreshing that I wasn't constantly telling them they're beautiful and kissing their feet. (which is apparently what some other guys do? wtf?) But yeah, when the girl is vibing with the whole "talk shit to her/b…
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:10 AM
1

I see you didn't read what I wrote regarding the use of the word incel. Reading a romantic situation and going for a kiss without asking is far removed from actual rape and the fact you think it's even in the same universe points to a serious lack of perspective on your end as well as a complete dilution of actual rape. You clearly have no idea what it's like to attempt physical escalation on a date as a man. The number one advice both men and women give is to exude confidence. Asking for permis…
/r/seduction05/08/21 03:55 PM
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How about you stop calling everyone an incel just because they disagree with you.Generally I agree with his advice. The only advice I ever got from women was "just be yourself, theres someone for everyone" and some other crap about being "open" and "girls like a vulnerable guy" or stuff like that. It didn't work. And only once I started trying advice from GUYS regarding how to act on dates (funny, cocky, borderline arrogant, confident, "tease her like a little sister") and gaining weight and exe…
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:00 AM
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It's far more likely that I was trying to read the situation and in cases where I was unsure, I asked (and got a yes) but perhaps the reality was that the reason I was having trouble reading it was because she wasn't into me all that much (but apparently enough for a kiss), which then of course didn't result in anything further. So it could be my statistic is self selecting and therefore potentially invalid, but at least I'm not dense enough to think that n=1 is statistically significant.
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:52 AM
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Lol. Pass. Everytime I've asked to kiss, I've gotten a yes. But Anytime my dates have gone somewhere (second date, sex, etc), I did not ask. I can't recount getting past the second date on any girls that I asked to kiss. Statistics lead me to believe its a turn-off. You'll have to complain to your fellow women about it, but I no longer ask because in my experience it's been a total mood killer and results in nothing further.
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:19 AM
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Good question. Likely attention. Activate the thot patrol. B E G O N E
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:16 AM
1

I would NOT say you're "insecure about it" regarding virginity. Own it. Or the classic agree and amplify or whatever it's called. "Oh you're still a virgin?" "Of course. I don't want to live a life of Sin smirk" Or replace that stupid line with literally any other stupid joke about not having had sex. But frame it as your decision. Frame it as a joke. Say it with confidence. It's my go to for shit tests. Just go with whatever the challenge is and amplify it to a stupid degree so she laughs and f…
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:17 PM
2

Dated (and slept with) a really nice girl for about two months. Similar upbringing and both grew up on middle class income with frugal lifestyle. She ended up ending things with me because apparently it was obvious I wasn't a big spender. Yeah, i have a mortgage and a 401k. I'm not going to blow hundreds a week taking you to fancy restaurants. I'm looking for a wife, not a furnace for my money. Thought I'd found one that was different, but it ended as one of the biggest disappointments of my dat…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 03:05 PM
2

"slightest vulnerability or brushing against validation" Lmao. It's always been hilarious to me how so many women nowadays (mostly egged on by feminism) act like they're ok with a man that shows some kind of emotions. And it's the patriarchy or whatever that's made guys hide that kind of thing. But you're dead on correct about getting thrown on the garbage heap if there's even a whiff of vulnerability/insecurity. I guess it's a lot easier to talk the talk when you don't have to walk the walk. An…
/r/seduction15/05/21 04:27 AM
2

I don't really have the energy to go out after work and most of my interests are pretty solitary. Was hoping dating apps might provide an avenue for dating. But that's clearly isn't working. Fyi pretty much all my friends are in the same boat. Very few matches and each step of the process has a 5% success rate so there's basically no dates at the end of it all.
/r/seduction15/05/21 03:44 AM
10

Probably my borderline autism lmao kill me
/r/seduction14/05/21 10:03 PM
10

I'm white, 6'4, and i thought relatively good looking. Zero luck. I'm clearly doing something wrong lol.
/r/seduction14/05/21 09:45 PM
18

Drugs
/r/seduction14/05/21 02:57 PM
12

Honestly how the hell do people meet girls running? I run along this canal near my house after work and all I ever see are some old indian couples, some random sweaty jogging guy, and some kids on bikes.
/r/seduction14/05/21 06:09 AM
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No one currently alive has anyone but themselves to blame for being addicted to drugs. I guess taking responsibility for your own choices is to much to ask. With the exception of some sort of freak scenario where people are trapped in a basement and being forcibly injected with drugs, I have no sympathy for anyone addicted to drugs.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 04:14 PM
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lol they aren't reporting drug possession charges because it's "discriminatory against minorities". Yeah because whitey got you hooked on coke. Violence is also discriminatory. 13/50
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 05:39 AM
1

Lol well if it was a beta test, then i guess I passed that one. Alarm bells started ringing immediately when she brought it up which is why I didn't answer honestly with "well i don't have that problem because I don't get matches lmao" and diverted with the "are you rtrded? Just turn of notifications ya dum dum." I blew it on the second date but there's always the next one lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/20 02:44 AM
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Met a girl off hinge who was very attractive. First thing she says on the date: "how do I deal with all these notifications from hinge. It's like every minute there's another match?" She either thought guys get this much attention too (lol i get like one match every few days) or it was a shit test for me to prove my value. Anyway I looked at her like she was an idiot and asked her if she had considered turning off hinge notifications because that's usually what people do if an app bothers them t…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 08:43 PM
5

On the path to becoming a wizard. Stay strong brother.
/r/seduction14/11/20 09:48 PM
0

I didn't make any accusations. There's always tinder and what not.
/r/seduction13/11/20 11:20 PM
0

By being rational about the incredibly minimal risk and by sticking the pp in the hole. You gonna go without sex for the next three years? Good luck with that. Leaves more for the rest of us.
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:33 PM
2

For me it wasn't messy clothes. For me it was anything that wasn't perfect was immediately criticized with: "You know no girls ever going to want someone like that. Hope you're ok being single forever."
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:25 PM
1

A 1on1 date has the exposure chance of whatever the current infected percentage is. If someone is high risk of death, they're free to stay inside, but most rationally people including most of my friends and family understand the fairly low risk and understand the quality of life impact and have realized that the total lockdown way of living is not an acceptable trade-off. So yes. I would prefer old, sick people die so that the remaining 99% of the population can lead a somewhat normal life. Sue …
/r/seduction30/10/20 12:36 PM
2

The vaccine will either never come or will only be half effective. I'm 27, the clock is ticking for me. If other people want to sit inside and slowly die of depression that's their call, but I'm not going to stop meeting and dating people for the 0.00001% chance I die from getting it.
/r/seduction30/10/20 04:55 AM
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Nah. I think what he's saying is that on a somewhat non-crazy chick, the first couple things weren't so egregious that he couldn't have gotten at least a nutt out of the evening. Maybe not for this specific girl but I think he's saying that OP should have noticed that she was just trying to bang and now he knows for next time this happens.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 09:41 PM
1

You can also bring up bundy. Or various other people. But you don't. Because it's not really relevant. And I guess if that qualifies as a joke, I don't have the same humor as you people. I'm just tired of seeing politics literally everywhere and you can bet if it was a left leaning politician you'd all be singing a different tune.
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:01 PM
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Also, as much as the current climate of "consent" would lead you to believe, in my experience girls absolutely hate being asked. I used to ask "mind if I kiss you?" At the end of dates and guess who never got a second date? Now I just send it, go for the kiss without asking and apparently that shit oozes confidence and they love that. Before it was always quick peck and they'd take off and ghost me. Now it's... Better lmao.
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:29 AM
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Ever since I started "sending it" I've increased my luck. And by that I mean, don't think, just do. We're taking a walk? I'm putting my arm around her/lightly leaning. Absentmindedly playing with her hair. Then rub her arm. If her hands close by you can start playing with her fingers. Basically just try to escalate physical contact but start small. Idk what this is called (is this negging?), but light joking criticism of her outfit that she obviously specifically picked to show something off ten…
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:24 AM
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Imagine being so obsessed with the president that you have to bring him into completely unrelated conversations
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:14 AM
3

Same. It's rough. Get excited because she seemed into you and then two days later you realize you're getting ghosted again.
/r/seduction24/08/20 08:16 PM
3

"What did I do wrong? is a perfectly valid self assessment question to ask. If you're a fat blob who showers once a week and is perfectly happy playing video games all day, you're going to get rejected 99.999999% of the time. That person should absolutely ask themselves that question because the answer is literally: "you're a fat blob who showers once a week and is perfectly happy playing video games all day" And yes. The fat blob should alter himself.
/r/seduction07/08/20 05:01 AM
31

Imagine being pursued by a girl. Ugh. Has literally never happened to me. Kms
/r/seduction25/07/20 06:42 PM
7

Lift and eat peanut butter.
/r/seduction12/07/20 09:51 PM
2

I finally peaced out of dating apps yesterday after trying it for literally years. Most girls cake on makeup and don't look anything like their pictures. The few that I did have a good date with that I thought were physically attractive and had the kind of "banter" personality I do well with, ghosted me. Guess I was too boring or something. I just deleted all the dating apps. If dating isn't fun, what's the point.
/r/seduction18/06/20 04:28 AM
1

Of course. But if you're just trying to hook up, that doesn't matter. Not that I condone it, but it's a strategy some choose.
/r/seduction17/05/20 09:02 PM
2

I always found actual Turkish people to be far more reasonable than the german-turks. But maybe that's just because they were preselected due to me meeting them through University.
/r/seduction17/05/20 05:46 PM
5

French is the second most common language in lebanon. It's actually pretty common in that area of the middle east in general. And a lot of them speak near perfect English. From personal experience with a Syrian girl: a lot of middle easterners know they have a shitty reputation. This girl claimed she was French-Syrian, only because her grandparents spoke french. Why? Because a lot of people in Europe are distrustful/don't like middle eastern folks. My Turkish buddies used to go socialize and lie…
/r/seduction17/05/20 05:08 PM
1

Not really? It depends what your life is like. Each of the apps you mentioned have their own target audience. I wouldn't necessarily expect someone who has Tiktok to have linkedin. She probably wouldn't be surprised if some 50 year old guy doesnt insta. She is surprised that someone she expects is of the same class/cultural circle/stage in life, doesn't have it. Clearly this girl is really into instragram. As are many other girls. Especially the influencer types or the girls who go to spin class…
/r/seduction12/04/20 01:17 AM
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I guess I'll go ahead and disagree. What if she had asked for his phone number and he said he didn't have one. Maybe it's not creepy but it's certainly odd. She clearly think Instagram is mainstream enough that basically everyone should have one. It's clearly not as mainstream as having a phone number, but everyone needs to draw their own line what they feel comfortable doing. Even if it's just to appear "normal".
/r/seduction11/04/20 11:38 PM
12

I watched a video about getting good headshots a while back. Need to tilt your head down. It sharpens your chin/jawlines. Also smiles look fake when it's just your mouth smiling. You need to lightly squint your eyes to get wrinkles/tightness next to your eyes. Imagine something funny and notice how the muscles on the sides of your face/eyes tighten up. People subconsciously see the difference and missing that is what makes smiles look fake.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:28 PM
19

I had a girl who was super into me in high school and even though I knew that, I still pussied out about asking her out/getting a girlfriend. Regret it to this day. Do it my dude.
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:34 PM
12

Had kinda the same experience. Was involved with a girl in high school, and I was too much of a wimp to lead the relationship, so she ended things with me. I knew her from church back then and really only see her on christmas, since I only go back to my hometown for that. She has a worthless degree, is hard left (I'm right-leaning), and her new boyf is a mexican guy that wear his hat indoors at a christmas service. So if she tolerates that kind of behavior, I've realized she doesn't meet my stan…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 07:09 PM
3

This more or less happened to me as well. Had sex later than most. It was meh for me. Now I'm much more interested in improving myself. Women bore me for the most part now. Guess I need to find higher value women because so far I haven't been all that interested in what they have to offer.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 01:51 PM
1

Just got a gym membership three weeks ago, but I've been doing just the muscle targeting machine things because I'm weaksauce and don't want to injure myself doing anything complicated/fancy. And then I usually run/sprint for about 5 minutes. (and I play soccer once a week) Is this at all beneficial or should I quit that and do something else?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:35 PM
3

the pressure that black women are under to adhere to white beauty stereotypes The topic of her documentary made me LOL. Maybe they don't want to talk about your radio activity if it's about social justice bullshit like that. The only guys that care about that shit are weird hipster vegans that aren't manly enough for her.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:56 PM
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