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Perfect!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/21 07:44 PM
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I think you need to reconsider your therapist. She should not be imposing her own opinions on you. Especially if it goes against your values.
/r/RedPillWives14/06/21 10:14 PM
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Wow, I definitely hear you. Ugh it’s the worst feeling. Do you mind if I DM you regarding this topic?
/r/RedPillWives14/06/21 02:27 PM
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I’ve turned into such an angry person. It stems from when my parents tried to ruin our relationship. And that anger has been stuck with me. I project my aggression towards him to the point of disrespect. Due to that anger, I show little to no tenderness or affection. I am very impulsive and I interrupt him when he speaks. I don’t listen when I need to. I could go on but this is the gist.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/21 10:18 PM
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I may be on the verge of a divorce. I just don’t know how to be a wife and give my husband what he needs :(
/r/RedPillWives09/06/21 08:24 PM
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It’s normal. Getting an orgasm can feel like you want to pee. However, it is good to pee beforehand to rule it out.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 03:10 PM
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I currently have similar struggles as well. I feel like I’m drowning.
/r/RedPillWives22/05/21 10:07 PM
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What kind of volunteer opportunities are out there with the pandemic ?
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 02:07 PM
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I tried applying these principles in my marriage but I have failed, and now my husband is considering divorce. :(
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/21 09:45 PM
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I’m in your same shoes and because of it My husband wants a divorce. :(
/r/RedPillWives16/05/21 08:33 PM
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Don’t chase! Let him figure it out if he really wants to go out with you. Don’t waste your time thinking about it if he hasn’t called you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/21 12:17 PM
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Try posting this on a men’s subreddit to get a guys perspective. They are good at strategizing and protecting themselves. I’m sure they will have some advice for you as a female.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 03:18 PM
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Hi there, you seem like the perfect wife, and I need help being that for my husband. I would love to speak with you vía DM to hopefully get some advice if possible. I really need help.
/r/RedPillWives02/05/21 10:32 PM
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I’m having a real difficult time doing this and it’s costing me my marriage. :( I can’t seem to figure it out
/r/RedPillWives02/05/21 10:30 PM
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You should still be you. There are men out there who find your drive attractive. Particularly men who are going somewhere in life and want a partner to climb to the top with. Don’t doubt yourself, just stay positive and positivity will manifest. Don’t say you don’t have confidence about something because when you do, the lack of confidence becomes a manifestation and you end up not being confident. There’s nothing wrong with being driven and feminine at the same time. Just as long as you underst…
/r/RedPillWives29/04/21 08:42 PM
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Two good reads: Surrendered wife and Fascinating woman
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 07:42 PM
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Perfect overview
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 02:52 PM
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A man who is looking for a wife does not find it attractive that the woman has slept with too many men. It lessens your pair bonding abilities when wanting to really love when in a serious relationship. It’s important for a woman to stay pure for her man/husband. Sleeping with too many men allows you to be vulnerable to all of those masculine energies, which again may affect the way you are with you husband. (Not saying all men are like this. But the good faithful honest ones. Not too many good …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 10:35 PM
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Hi there, this is my two cents from experience. Men don’t like to be rushed, especially when it comes to marriage. Real men (not boys) have a plan and know when to execute. Most men want a woman who can trust and follow their plan. They want a ride or die woman who can let them lead. Men want the best for their women, and oftentimes are methodical with their decision making. Be patient. It sounds like he wants to marry you and it sounds like he is waiting for the right moment. As far as the fina…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 06:06 PM
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I am in the same boat. There is a scarcity of feminine energy. If you lived in the USA, we’d be friends lol. I can be a virtual friend though. I hope you do find a group of friends to hang out with.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 01:23 AM
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In the same way. Thank you for your post
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 08:02 PM
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Hi, I don’t have a problem attending a funeral. I am the type who can attend something and not partake on the practices; however, I just don’t like how my lifestyle change is seen as not caring for the family and as something that doesn’t need respect. I also don’t like being guilted into things (as my parents love to do). However, my husband is very against it and I want to honor him, but I also don’t want my family to feel like I don’t care about them. That’s where the conflict is. It’s either…
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 08:58 PM
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It seems like the root of the problem is that your husband does not like spending money on gifts or others spending money on gifts for him. I think the best way to show him that you care about his likes and dislikes is to make him something homemade. It can be something simple. A handwritten letter. Crafting a bottle opener. Etc. It will show him that you put thought and effort into what you think may make him happy and feel loved by all of you. I think that will warm his heart and put a smile o…
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 03:51 AM
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Hi there. Congratulations on your achievements. I would love to learn how to have constructive arguments with my spouse without resentment or frustration. Do you mind providing me with some helpful tips to fix this issue. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 05:25 PM
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Congratulations! I’m sure that was a great feeling. Would you be willing to explain your journey of learning these concepts and checking yourself? I struggle with that and would love some first hand advice. You can DM me if you’d like.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 05:20 PM
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I’m currently on and off the anger phase; however, when I do get in these phases, I project it onto my husband or to myself. I engage in negative self talk and blame myself for a lot. I’m starting to lose the ability to control my emotions in order to be more tender and gentle. I have a hard time maintaining my femininity and calmness during the heat of the moment. I need to work on my emotional intelligence and problem solving skills in order to navigate these problems. Like you mentioned, the …
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 06:24 PM
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Hi, thank you for your feedback. Do you mind if I send you a DM?
/r/RedPillWives07/11/20 02:20 AM
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Hi, thank you so much. I sent you a DM.
/r/RedPillWives04/11/20 04:17 PM
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Thank you for your advice and support. It means a lot to me :)
/r/RedPillWives28/10/20 05:17 PM
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I had the same thing happened two days ago. I flipped shit on my husband while he was driving. It was bad and now he is contemplating divorce.
/r/RedPillWives27/10/20 03:56 PM
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Thank you for your feedback. Can I DM you? I need someone to talk to.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 05:08 PM
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Thank you for your support. :)
/r/RedPillWives27/09/20 02:36 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It gives me hope
/r/RedPillWives27/09/20 02:18 PM
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Yea I thought she should too. Hope she is ok. And no problem.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 09:49 PM
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Hi there. Laney also mentored me. She reached out to me last month but I didn’t see it until a couple days ago, and when I went to respond, I saw that her profile has been deleted. I don’t think you did anything wrong. Hopefully she is ok.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 09:44 PM
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Yes, I’m aware that he is tired of my shit. And yes, I have been reading the surrendered wife and sometimes watch YouTube videos on how to behave in a marriage etc. I am aware though that sometimes there are things or topics that come up, that will trigger me to the point where I forget what I’ve learned. I’m not surprised that he is divorcing me; however, I am shocked that he actually wrote the letter. There is so much trouble in our history and thus it has shaped me into such a shitty person. …
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 06:21 PM
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Thank you. It’s difficult but I’ll have to eventually. I’m trying so hard not to keep begging him to stay. I feel horrible because he is the best man I’ve ever had. It just kills me inside.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 01:23 PM
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I think that the days leading the event, I guess I get anxious or something idk. And it could be something small and we will fight over it. He is already on edge and will get upset over anything. So he is at that point. To the point where he wrote me a divorce letter and it’s sitting on his desk until he is ready to hand it to me.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 02:01 AM
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Can you tell me a time when something similar happened and how did you handle it. If you don’t mind?
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 01:21 AM
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I ended up not going and I didn’t say anything to my friends and family about it. They’ve been calling me and I just haven’t answered them because I don’t want to see or speak to anyone anymore. Now I am in bad standing with them and My husband wrote me a letter of divorce. So... I’m just broken
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 12:40 AM
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Thanks so much. This means a lot to me. I don’t even know what to feel. There’s just so many emotions that it’s not allowing me to think clearly. I ended up not going to the wedding and I haven’t answered my mothers phone calls either checking to see where I’m at...Ill listen to the podcast. Hopefully it gives me a sense of hope.
/r/RedPillWives25/09/20 09:35 PM
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Well, he is divorcing me. He wrote me a letter of divorce and put it on his desk....I’m shattered
/r/RedPillWives25/09/20 08:23 PM
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Thank you. I will check it out
/r/RedPillWives25/09/20 06:33 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWives25/09/20 06:33 PM
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Thank you so much for your feedback. I didn’t know that suggestions kill marriages. In fact, my husband has told me to make suggestions instead of imposing my opinion. However, my suggestion was not wanted when I gave it and it just blew up. We argue so much that sometimes I feel like giving up. I’m trying to keep my optimism high. I offered an apology but he doesn’t care too much about them anymore. They are hot air to him basically. I am concerned about my marriage; however, when I’m in a situ…
/r/RedPillWives25/09/20 06:13 PM
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Thank you. He doesn’t do counseling. 😒
/r/RedPillWives25/09/20 05:09 PM
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Our relationship has been filled with lots of arguments unfortunately. We fought two days ago because he wanted to go somewhere and I made a suggestion to take two cars so that I can do my errands once we finish with his. He got upset because I always suggest something for me when he wants to do something. From there, things took a huge downturn. To the point where the topic of divorce came up couple times and today he just told me he thinks he is not in love with me anymore. He says he got up a…
/r/RedPillWives25/09/20 05:02 PM
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Think you so much. Your feedback was extremely helpful. Best wishes to you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 04:51 PM
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Thank you for your feedback. My husband also says that I focus too much on social media or what other people say instead of speaking factually and logically. I feel like my mind is constantly racing and I don’t sit down and think. I’m too impulsive sometimes also and that allows me to make even more mistakes. However, as you said, I have to pause and think before I speak. When you meditate, what kinds of things do you do to help you refocus and relax?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 06:15 PM
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Its interesting that you brought up the topic about pair bonding. I was not knowledgable about that term but once I figured it out, I realized that unfortunately, I am having some trouble pair bonding with my husband. I have slept with multiple men in my past and I feel like it has made me jaded and does not allow me to get closer to my husband how I should. (I felt this way even before marrying him but was not aware why I felt this way.) I am not this happy go lucky person how I used to be. I a…
/r/RedPillWives28/08/20 02:47 PM
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