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🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction17/11/20 01:14 AM
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I put in so much effort that it was to my detriment. I stopped becoming outcome dependent. Also, you’re basing my successes without seeing me in person. I could be ugly as fuck for all Reddit knows
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:51 PM
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Appreciate it big time, means a lot. I was raised fantastically - definitely had our ups and downs but wouldn’t want anyone else giving me direction
/r/seduction16/11/20 12:01 PM
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I know it’s hard but be kinder to yourself my dude
/r/seduction16/11/20 08:04 AM
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I definitely do have cool parents. I used to have a rocky relationship with them but I decided to be more open and transparent with them before I met this girl. When I began being nicer to my parents, I felt a lot better about myself, and that definitely attributed to a better attitude all-round
/r/seduction16/11/20 08:02 AM
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cheers brother! It was less of an issue than I thought, might have put an ice pack on the manhood for a bit hahahah
/r/seduction16/11/20 06:22 AM
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She invited me over to her house that same night after I dropped her home, but I couldn’t because my dick was hurting badly and needed to get it checked out. All good now, but we’re on a deeper level of intimacy than pre-sex
/r/seduction16/11/20 05:24 AM
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very true.. the reason I ended up hooking the girl in the first place was because I focused on the things that made me happy. Just gotta keep reminding myself to keep doing these things and not lose sight of them when things are all well and dandy. Very interesting from your perspective too - the dating world is savage for both male and females in their own ways...
/r/seduction05/04/20 08:32 AM
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Dude it’s not fine... the arrogant go on with their lives and in counter, infect people causing a chain reaction. I actually feel very guilty
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:00 AM
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can’t argue with that one, it’s dumb and irresponsible
/r/seduction05/04/20 04:17 AM
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Nothing official, but when she’s hit me up and initiated - I’m reciprocating. If someone likes you and is putting in effort and you like them back I’d say that it’s rewarding good behaviors. And who knows how things will turn out?
/r/seduction05/04/20 04:02 AM
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edit: selfish and I don’t feel good about it
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:50 AM
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Maybe I got that wrong... we’ve been going on dates here and there and she’s been hitting me up constantly, but it’s not official
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:36 AM
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Yeah look ngl should be, but let’s say I’ve had a long dry spell and don’t want it to fizzle out because kinda like this girl
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:09 AM
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I’m slowly learning how to not worry about things that aren’t in my control, but I’m definitely not there yet
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:01 AM
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Hey guys so just a question though.... it feels good to have this attention, but I don’t want to get caught in the feels and want to continue this abundance mentality. Any tips? I feel like over the isolation period I’ve been just doing the things that really interest me and I want to use this as an opportunity to learn. The last girl I got caught up on lost interest and I felt the hurt but then moved on and just don’t want to get invested in things that really shouldn’t matter.
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:59 AM
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Lot of it is validation seeking when it can’t be received when people go out and about
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:52 AM
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When you put all your eggs into one basket and put someone on a pedestal. Gotta force yourself to keep options open... we’ve all been victims to it
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:38 AM
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for sure
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:27 AM
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Yeah these are girls that have previously rejected aswell. Not giving them the satisfaction
/r/seduction05/04/20 02:04 AM
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Yeah for sure... I never really wanted to believe in spiritualistic energy, but there’s no other way to explain it. No one could have even knew that I was seeing this girl because she has NO mutual friends. No way that people could know I was seeing her - yet people can sense that energy
/r/seduction05/04/20 01:02 AM
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Sounds like a cracker of an idea, wanna join? 😂
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 10:07 PM
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True, I guess I’m having a hard time adjusting to my situation and need to stop beating myself up all the time. Not getting girls is hardly a big issue, especially with all the other shit we have to deal with. I guess I just need to put myself out there more and have that confidence to just send it
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 07:54 PM
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This is what I’ll definitely do. If I can find a pattern that’s written down in paper, I’m sure that’d help me in monumental ways
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 07:51 PM
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Oh man, I’m probably going to read this a fair few times and get some sort of diary to log how I’m feeling in the day to track myself and find different patterns in regards to what works and what doesn’t. Thanks for the response aswell, I appreciate the tile you took to write it
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 07:49 PM
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Truth.
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:06 PM
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you're fucking bang on and it appreciate it big time.
/r/seduction25/03/19 12:12 PM
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She was absolutely hammered, if I escalated in bed that would've been rape. But yeah, I agree with you on everything else. I guess I just found it more difficult to escalate with her than more feminine girls.
/r/seduction25/03/19 11:57 AM
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Sometimes doing the right thing is not always the easiest
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:45 AM
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fuck have the same problem my dude
/r/seduction09/03/19 09:57 AM
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Thanks brother 😍
/r/seduction27/02/19 09:03 PM
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Dude it’s just so raw right now... I’ve never been more ashamed of myself in my life. I guess the lesson is to strike early on when the attraction is high (it definitely dropped significantly yesterday). Because we were sitting around a table, I had no idea how to escalate or get flirty. My friend and his girlfriend were around so I get prettt self conscious when doing that. My friend was at my birthday party prior and saw that this girl was really into me, so I felt like yesterday there was a l…
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:14 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/auynh4/follow_up_first_time_a_girl_has_been_really/
/r/seduction26/02/19 12:01 PM
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Assume attraction unless indicated
/r/seduction21/02/19 10:37 PM
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Not at all man. She smokes so that’s a common thing we can talk about. We chatted for fucking ageeees
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:53 AM
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so this girl keeps laughing when i talk to her... does she like me? ​ ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:03 AM
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bad advice, don't lower your standards to get dates. You're good enough to get the hottest girls. Just go out more and meet girls IRL, real life encounters help your text game.
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:32 AM
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loved this post man... this is what the seddit sub is about - boosting self-worth with an abundance of high quality women on the side. Women aren't the be all and end all. I need to work on lots of things but have felt a momentum shift in myself and I have tried to better myself physically and mentally, so hearing this from someone else is liberating. Hats off to you man
/r/seduction31/01/19 01:43 AM
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Ok so I’ve been left on seen and don’t want to seem to desperate. I’ve sparked up the convo a couple of times but just want to get her on a date ASAP from here on because I should have done that a day ago
/r/seduction27/09/18 10:43 AM
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nah dude hahahah, it was a birthday party at a bar that she was invited to
/r/seduction25/02/18 12:52 PM
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The thing is that I feel really uncomfortable butting into a group's conversation. What was once something where everyones laughing and having a good time will turn into everyone else thinking "uggggh he's just here to chat up __".
/r/seduction25/02/18 06:39 AM
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I know how to make girls laugh and have been described by my friends as a very easy-to-get-along kind of guy, and that lots of people value my company. I just have a hard time showing intent and escalating with girls. I've never been a physical person. Singling the girl out and making a move has always been my issue.
/r/seduction04/02/18 06:29 AM
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oh for sure. I was a bit drunk
/r/seduction11/01/18 05:57 AM
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I said to her friend that "the 1st girl is hot as fuck but I will not chase a girl that's not interested in me. It's a waste of time and I've moved on."
/r/seduction11/01/18 05:45 AM
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That's pretty messed up. I still don't really understand why they'd go through the trouble of doing that.
/r/seduction11/01/18 02:15 AM
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Yeah no joke, so what course of action do you recommend
/r/seduction08/01/18 05:05 AM
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yeah I will definitely need to finesse the friend a bit more next time if the same scenario was to happen again with another girl. She messaged me this morning asking how I pulled up so at least she's messaged me. Not really sure how to go about it now (date etc.)
/r/seduction07/01/18 02:13 AM
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I made sure I wasn’t leaving the friend out before the nightclub. I found ways to bring her into the conversation when she looked a little out of place. Then at the nightclub she wouldn’t leave this girl
/r/seduction06/01/18 11:03 PM
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Thank you. I just didn’t know what to do because her friend was there the WHOLE time. These shit tests... come on! For fuck sakes I just graduated school why does it have to be so complicated. Also, the compliment was forced and I instantly knew I fucked it
/r/seduction06/01/18 10:44 PM
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not sure, this was a couple of hours ago. I'll wait until later to see what/if she says anything to me after
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:00 PM
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Yeah, my friend (who’s in a thing with her friend) said that I’m really nice and she likes me but didn’t want to... that’s what my friend told me
/r/seduction12/12/17 08:35 PM
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ah sorry, i'll edit this previous post in as well: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7ftkbe/girl_seems_interested_in_me_and_then_brings_up/ yeah, its a lost cause - i'll forget about it.
/r/seduction01/12/17 07:15 AM
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I was going to ask her out for dinner, I think she said she’s getting coffee with him so yeahhh
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:00 AM
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yeah wouldn't put it past that tbh :/
/r/seduction27/11/17 10:40 AM
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yes, they are best friends... it's a lose-lose scenario
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:07 AM
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yeah man so I think a fair amount of her friends know that I'm not into her, but they still try to wing-girl her, like wtf. Anyways, I took notice of all her flirting. The friend showed her phone to the girl i'm not into and she replied "it's like it's not noticed" alluding to the fact that I was ignoring, and then when I played dumb and asked what's up, they said "oh nothing". Also, this girl KNOWS that I'm not a naturally boring guy. I'm into the same creative stuff as her ffs.
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:46 AM
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