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As someone who comes from an upper-class lifestyle with a high paying job, women put those type of men into the "husband" zone, not the "I will fuck this stranger" zone. Lots of these women aren't actually into the guys they're with when you give off the professional vibe. Its why a woman will fuck a mechanic during the day and go on a nice dinner date with a "husband zone" guy at night and not fuck him.
/r/seduction22/04/21 06:05 PM
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Because you can't control or have limited influence over anything mentioned above, but you can control if you have a hobby/are an interesting person. Obviously no amount of game can make someone who has the appearance of a cavetroll hookup with supermodels, but any guy can have a reasonably good love life by having good game.
/r/seduction03/04/21 05:00 PM
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Looks obviously matter, the advice you hear on the sub is you can overcome looks with good game to a point. If you're average looking, girls aren't going to approach you and give you their number, but you can meet attractive women as an average looking guy with the right mindset/game.
/r/seduction13/09/20 08:29 PM
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Really great write up, thank you! Loved reading it
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 04:55 PM
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Idk man, one of the biggest pimps I know is in a wheel chair. This guy married someone 10 years younger than him, has multiple mistress that his wife is friends with and literally charmed the entire store I worked at (this was while I worked retail). Personality really is king IMO
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:20 AM
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The be fun rule is the most important imo. Hot girls will date down if the guy is fun
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 01:11 PM
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I wouldn't ask women for advice on how to pickup women IMO. But here is my two cents. Create a snap. It's a low investment tool for social proof and makes communicating with women much easier. You don't really have to use outside as a message app. Unless you're in the top 10% of men (have pictures of fun activities, cool people, exciting places etc). Instagram is either neutral or negative for pickup and is entirely avoidable.
/r/seduction29/04/20 12:47 PM
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When I was 18 I was very overweight, poorly dressed/hygiene and was a lazy stoner burn out. Now at 27 have a great physique, started a professional service career and dress very well. I have a long-term girlfriend so I’m a longer in the game but I noticed women are much more receptive to me than previously. I’ve had a few women be very overt (overly touchy, ask for my phone number etc). Most men have the capacity to make changes that will give them the love life they want if they put the work in…
/r/seduction07/04/20 02:45 PM
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I’m literally agreeing with you. Having a high income I believe hurts attracting women
/r/seduction24/12/19 05:37 PM
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Having enough of an income to live how you want is important. Anything after that hurts with women. They will put you into the provider basket instead of the lover basket
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:40 PM
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IMO online dating for guys is stacked against you. Women really love the process of seduction (way more so than guys imo) and online dating takes away women favorite part of dating. I was in a pretty similar position to you when I was 21 and it really sucked because I felt trapped. Despite doing everything "right" I just did not have any opportunities to meeting women in the places I worked/studied/friend group (all were male dominated). What clicked for me was going out into the city and spendi…
/r/seduction30/09/19 12:53 PM
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Dayyyyumm bro, amazing job!
/r/seduction29/09/19 05:23 PM
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Minneapolis is where I live and it’s worked well before
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:04 AM
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Nice job man. Daytime at healthy grocery stores almost feels like cheating
/r/seduction13/08/19 12:52 PM
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Wow really good post. Do you have further readings on this? This material is absolutely fascinating
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 12:25 AM
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You are correct, but I was referring to the lifting/diet/supplementation aspects of it
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 11:57 AM
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This 100%. People don't accidentally get "too jacked and not tone". The way to get a bodybuilder body and brad pits body are the exact same.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:02 PM
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Step 1: attract one plate lol
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:29 AM
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Don’t be a sad cunt, we’re all going to make it brah
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:13 AM
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These type of post are why i come to this subreddit
/r/seduction24/07/19 01:37 PM
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I'll be honest; I am not the most handsome man ever and my girlfriend is better looking than I am, but my girlfriend is attracted to me because I can make her laugh.
/r/seduction14/06/19 02:32 PM
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It's legitmately pretty awesome once you get good at it. Honestly at this point I feel my game is tighter solo than going out with friends
/r/seduction07/06/19 10:45 PM
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So sad it’s gone :/
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:34 PM
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Literally loved that vid. Can’t believe it’s gone
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:50 PM
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Went dancing the other night with my friend with some pretty disappointing results. How do you approach girls to dance? I think a couple girls wanted too, but I had no idea of how to get it started?
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:13 PM
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Really great post. I stopped caring what others thought about me a couple of years ago and my life has improved dramatically.
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:10 PM
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It's really not as bad as it sounds. You have to read social cues, but alot of times groups are down to meet new people
/r/seduction10/12/18 04:11 PM
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Nice job bro! Going out solo is pretty great once you get accumulated to it
/r/seduction10/12/18 04:10 PM
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Not that much different than a nightclub. Make sure to go to every social event even if they sound boring.
/r/seduction09/12/18 04:57 PM
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Fairly decent looking guy, never once had it happen to me. Every sexual interaction I've ever had with a girl was pushed by me. I'll sometimes get IOI's in clubs or w/e, but eve that's been pretty limited
/r/seduction25/11/18 03:03 PM
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Just two thoughts ​ 1) Relationships do have some give and take. Hanging out with your girlfriends sister is boring as fuck, but sometimes I'll just do what she wants if its important to her. There'll come a time when you want her to do something that she doesn't want to do (my office get togethers for example). ​ 2) The rest of this post is solid fucking gold. This is more or less how I've been handing my relationship for the last 5 years and its going fucking amazingly.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 02:41 PM
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Wow awesome FR. Thank you for posting. Mind posting some details about the hardbody?
/r/seduction25/09/18 02:33 PM
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?? There are a lot of clubs that won't even let you in before 25
/r/seduction01/09/18 03:26 PM
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Your insecurity about your weight is more unattractive than your weight
/r/seduction29/08/18 05:57 PM
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Thank you for the tips! The biggest problem is we both moved in with our parents after college. A threesome with the women I love and some complete random is my biggest fantasy. Especially if the girls were super into each other. Maybe someday!
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:12 PM
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I feel it. My girl loves threesome porn but said she'd get too jealous for one IRL. Feels bad man
/r/seduction26/08/18 05:46 PM
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Do you think that helps? I always heard the general consensus is that muscles don't help much
/r/seduction26/08/18 05:36 PM
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Same. I really love my gf of 5 years, but tinder seems so awesome
/r/seduction26/08/18 05:34 PM
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Creating, beta alanine, fish oil and ephredine
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:27 PM
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Rsd has a podcast that's pretty decent. It's their free tour
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:48 PM
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Some of those 14 years old are crazy over developed and hang out places they shouldn't.
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:36 PM
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Go to college areas and just approach. Most college freshman/sophomores are 18ish. It's fundamentally no different than approaching any other type of girl. Some are going to think you're an old creep, some will specifically like the fact you're older and most will be neutral/don't care about your age
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:35 PM
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It's tough. If you cut out the bullshit (mind numbing tv, video games etc) you'd be surprised how much time you have. I workout 6 days a week, meditate, read and write and my 7:30-4:00 job with an 1:30 commuting time (combines both ways) leaves me plenty of time to work on my goals.
/r/seduction19/07/18 12:38 PM
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It's really tough. Unless you're very handsome/fun lifestyle/wealthy social media is stacked against you. Girls gets hundreds of DM's from thirsty dudes
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:03 PM
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Exact same situation as you. Literally 100%. Either commit to her 100% and stay loyal, let her know you're going to try and get side pussy or be a man and break it off. There is no problem with wanting to fuck other women, but don't string her along while you get some side pussy while she thinks she's in a monogamous relationship. That's unfair to her. How would you feel if she was fucking other men behind your back. Even if you fucked 1000 women before you current girlfriend, you're still going…
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:54 PM
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Tread very carefully. In my experience most girls are not open to being approached in a gym
/r/seduction11/07/18 08:34 PM
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That is fucking incredible. Congratulations on the weight loss. It is so easy to gain weight in office jobs. Especially when they bring in shit like bagels, donuts and pizza
/r/seduction10/07/18 05:36 PM
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Certified party animal my brother. As a soon to be auditor, loss the belly fat. Nothing worst than a fat accountant
/r/seduction10/07/18 04:49 PM
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It was a small EDM show with everyone looking at the stage. I tried tapping girls on the shoulder and doing the come here finger move. It was hard to get into girls line of sight/strike up a conversation just because everyone is so tightly packed together and their eyes are glued to the stage
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:24 AM
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For sure. I've got an ugly ducking story where I was unattractive in high school but became fairly handsome by the end of college. Lifting weights can even give you a better jawline for the facial symmetry for a "better" face
/r/seduction08/07/18 04:49 PM
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Its been a while since I've had more than one sexual partner (currently in a LTR for four years) but when I did have two consistent partners plus trying to find new ones my social circle was going out constantly. Pretty much every friday./saturday we'd go to the same venue and try and make friends and go to weekday events/parties. I'd mostly go to the same venue which made me feel comfortable in my environment and made approaching girls/making friends much easier. Honestly having a great social …
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:22 PM
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I couldn't find that, link would be nice
/r/seduction28/06/18 03:42 PM
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Definitely agree
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:11 PM
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Being good looking is not 100% of what makes a man attractive. I've seen so many examples of ugly guys dating beautiful women or vice versa. It certainly helps, but its totally possible for an ugly faced man to date beautiful women
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:09 AM
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This is more or less true. I've always believed like attracts like. HB9 girls mostly get HB9 guys
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:07 AM
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I really liked the FR so thank you for your contribution.
/r/seduction09/04/18 02:08 AM
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This is the right answer. For everything this sub tries to teach about getting girls, having fun in life is the easiest way to do it. Most girls would rather hang out with a fun average joe than a boring chiseled chad. Women live on good vibes and if you can give women good vibes you'll always have a good sex life. Disagree a little on the negging though. Don't be a dick about it, but if you can make a lighthearted joke at the girls expense they'll love you for it. The keyword here is LIGHTHEART…
/r/seduction07/04/18 11:47 AM
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That's my biggest problem. I'm a terrible dancer. Love to have fun on the floor thouhj
/r/seduction26/03/18 08:32 PM
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I've always been somewhat attractive, but I used to be overweight, dressed badly and lacked any confidence in myself. When I first got into seduction four years ago I improved alot of parts of my life and starting approaching alot more. Nowaday I have a gorgeous girlfriend. It gets better if you put the effort in
/r/seduction28/02/18 02:27 PM
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Don't have any good advice, but good luck in your travels!
/r/seduction29/11/17 03:50 PM
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Nice write up! Were theyre any resources you found particular helpful in learning game?
/r/seduction27/09/17 12:42 PM
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Don't get too down on yourself; most guys on this subreddit have had similar experiences. It takes a great awakening for men to internalize TRP truths and these awakening are always incredibly painful. For me I started dating the best girl in the world; at the time I remember feeling so lucky this perfect girl wanted to date me (objectively speaking HB6). Life was pure ecstasy. I found out months later that she was fucking my good friend and a couple other guys. That sent me on a downward spiral…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 03:31 PM
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Awesome FR man! love these kinds of post
/r/seduction16/02/16 02:10 PM
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I'm not saying its 100% on men in the dating process or that women aren't involved. But what I am saying that its much harder for men. You said you'll scare men away by being too aggressive or obvious. Being a man you're judged on much more than just being too aggressive/obvious. If any part of the seduction process is lagging for men (approach, humor/social, not aggressive enough, or too aggressive you're automatically rejected).
/r/seduction01/02/16 04:16 PM
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In my experience it has always been me leading the interaction with women I'm interested in (I approach, lead the convo, ask for the number, setup the date and go for the physical intimacy at the end of the date). The situation you're talking about is (probably) average women looking women going after (probably) a top tier man. Women are very rarely proactive with seduction when its anything other than the best looking men. I'm an above average looking guy (not top tier by any means) whose had z…
/r/seduction01/02/16 04:12 PM
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I enjoyed the fun of it too, trying to seduce a woman is really exciting. I also believe dating is easier for men (once you acquire seduction skills that is) because women have to take what they can get (they definatly have the final say, but they can only chose from the men who approached them) whereas men can be much more picky with who they chose to approach.
/r/seduction01/02/16 04:06 PM
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really good field report man! I had the same issues when I was in high school too. It made me obsessive about working out and eating healthy, but no matter how my body looked I would feel self conscious about it. Being able to look in the mirror and feel happy really is a mental thing
/r/seduction30/12/15 03:09 PM
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She's already cheated on you and is using the open relationship thing to continue fucking the other guy. It really sucks but you need to pull the plug while you can still exit painlessly. She is going to fuck other guys regardless of what you chose to do exit now while she doesn't have all the power
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:56 PM
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3 vices Porn/masturbation Frivolous spending ( I spend way too much of my money on food out). Putting off assignments Activity I want to do one interesting thing I week. I have a busy schedule which makes me inclined to stay in all the time. I need to go out more
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:46 PM
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Is sex God method really that good? I saw a post on r sex a while back criticizing the book. I've just assumed since that post it was a cheesy ebook trying to make a quick dollar
/r/askTRP12/10/15 01:52 PM
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That's awesome man! Be sure to keep us in the loop with a update or FR!
/r/seduction08/10/15 02:48 PM
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Just wanted to provide some my viewpoint. I'm 6'5 and fairly good looking. I'm 22 and just lost my v card last year. Being tall and handsome did nothing for my since my game was shit. Flip side is guys like rsd Tyler (short and ugly) fuck a lot of gorgeous women constantly. Game is salesmanship of your product (money,looks,status etc). You can have a bad salesmen sell a good product but doesn't close on sales. Similarly you can have an amazing salesmen (game) sell a bad product and people (women…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:57 PM
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Cutting so I drink skim. Cutting is so goddamn terrible
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:51 PM
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I wouldn't leave your daytime job. I'm just an accounting student without a lot of real world experience, but my family knows a lot of successful people. None of them ever quit their job until the startup was getting a sustainable revenue stream. Just my two cents
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:49 PM
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I get all my ideas from YouTube and reddit YouTube: Fitmencook Michaelkoryfitness Proteinchef Reddit: Mealprepsunday Fitmeals Eatcheapandhealthy Fit meals is mostly for cardio bunnies and doesn't have much for bodybuilding but occasionally you get something from it Fitmencook is the best though. He has the perfect channel for bodybuilding cooking
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:47 PM
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Junior in accounting program. On cpa track. My goal is to get into the big 4 accounting firms out of college. Realistically I'll probably work in a small cpa firm
/r/askTRP01/08/15 03:37 PM
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wants sex everyday raised by good family goes to very good school enrolled in a difficult school program and has job related to field low partner count ( as a man you'll never really know her count, but with the evidence I've gathered I presume it to be low)
/r/askTRP27/07/15 07:28 PM
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Really great post. Junior accounting student though and the CPA comment is right on point. Most CPAs are extremely overweight and socially retarded.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 07:16 PM
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I do 3 sunny side up eggs, two servings of egg whites and a cup of Greek yogurt (same breakfast every morning for a long time). It's easy, tasty and fast
/r/askTRP14/07/15 07:47 PM
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Idk if this is what you were looking for but I'll chime in. I'm from the US and the definition of a "poor" college kid from a middle class family. I work 25 hours a week at a decent paying retail job and attend classes in the fall & spring. I live at home, my car is paid for and my parents pay for basic living expenses (phone, food rent etc). I normally have enough money to do what I want within reason (i can afford a gym membership, whey protein, go to events/concerts sparingly get drinks etc).…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:21 PM
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Stoicism is good for some people (when I started my redpill journey, I talked too much and was really frigidity). After applying stoicism into my life it brought me down to a more "normal" level. Do not confuse stoicism with being boring. A redpill man needs to still be charismatic and outgoing. Still be the rock who is unmovable in your convictions but also have fun! Be funny and make good jobs. Lead the conversations in social settings.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 11:44 AM
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Don't forget to have fun. Amused mastery still requires to be amused (which isn't stoic). Just because you don't talk much with your friends doesn't mean you mastered a redpill trait; just the opposite. Being charming is a part of the dna of a redpill man. Being alpha requires you to be funny and be the leader of the conversation. Stoicism is still important, but that advice is meant for people who are overt emotional and have outbursts. Try working on being funny, witty and engaged in conversat…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 04:54 PM
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I'm going into my senior year majoring in accounting. I'm doing okay on the career/academic side. I just feel like I'm wasting my life. I've done nothing interesting with my life and I've wasted it playing nonstop video games. Once I've discover the redpill my life's improved tremendously (lifting,girls career). But I still feel like I piss my time away with magic and DnD but I don't know what to replace it with (very poor college student)
/r/askTRP11/06/15 04:11 PM
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The problem is I don't know what to build. I have a GF so I'm not interested in going out and gaming women. I lift and have a good nutritional program down and making great progress in the gym. I'm doing very well in school. What else do I do? I feel very stuck in a rut and going nowhere (very passionless man).
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:53 PM
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A young womens prime time is Friday/saturday night anyway so inviting them to dates on weekdays is going to increase your changes of getting them over anyway. Mark Manson talks about this in Models, where he'd invite girls on dates on wednesdays, otherwise boring days of the week and that helped him. I don't believe this is as big of a deal as you're making it out to be. There will be girls who get turned off by your work schedule but those are the kind of girls that you don't want in your life …
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:08 PM
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I have two suggestions in mind. 1) what type of work do you do? Is there any way you can work more normal hours within that line of work? Is this an industry that you want to be in? Realistically is there any kind of work that you could do with more normal hours? Odd shifts like that are always going to harm your social life. Society in the US was built around the 9-5 mentality and alot of institutions keep these hours in mind. Any deviation from these working hours are going to hurt you imo. 2)…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 01:39 PM
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Is this a long term strategy? Are you going to coach surf until retirement? When you have medical issues are you going to "bum" a doctor visit. You can put off your problems temporarily, but you'll have to deal with the issue you have no useful skills sooner or later
/r/askTRP28/05/15 04:20 PM
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What's your back up plan? I work at a place where slot of people gave up on trying to have careers (home improvement store). If you drop out of school you won't be able to travel the world (or really be able to even pay for basic living expenses). By having a rock star life I'm assuming parties and what not? That cost a lot of money. Unless you have a clear plan for a CAREER then it'd be a bad idea.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:30 PM
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I'm in a pretty similar situation too you and here is my summer plan 1) read one book a week. I'm mostly reading books recommended from TRP. 2) getting a perfect diet and workout plan. My goal is to go back to school shredded as fuck 3) socialize with new people. It doesn't matter if you don't have slot of friends, you can go solo to bars, clubs or do meet ups.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 06:08 PM
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I personally wouldn't apologize. You'd be breaking got frame by caving into hers. If it comes up you could say you regretted your decision, but I wouldn't specifically go to her and apologize
/r/askTRP23/05/15 04:21 PM
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I believe she was legitimately concerned for her safety and this wasn't a shit test. She respected you enough to tell you about her problem and wanted you to solve it for her. You fucked up man
/r/askTRP23/05/15 02:16 PM
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The core principle of the redpill is truth; no longer can you look at the world with Disney tinted lenses. The truth isn't always pretty but it's important you know it so you can optimize your actions to best serve you. With this information you can now act in your own best interest and compartmentalize this girl in a way that best served you. You know she has many ltr red flags and should never be treated as girlfriend material.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 02:13 PM
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Eating less isn't the answer to nessecarily get a good body composition. I'm heavier set but I haven't been eating a lot of food and still losing fat (lots of protein, whole grain starches, fruits, vegetables and nuts). If you really want a hard body, just eating less isn't enough
/r/seduction14/05/15 02:45 PM
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Absolutely incredible post.
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