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Ha he ended up working in one of the worst hospitals in the UK. Should have stuck to the books.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:35 PM
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2-3 hours three times a week is hardly all that much. I spend my entire weekends on hobbies. How unequal of me.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:52 PM
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Couples don't have to spend all their time together nor should they have to want to spend all their time together.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:29 PM
-1

It is equal. There's nothing unequal about it. I'm not so needy as to demand all free time be spent with me . I love her. I will do everything I can to make her happy.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:03 PM
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I did so once and said no to further such events. I've said no to other sexual requests and my answer was not met with any kind of anger or annoyance. Is sex and asserting your manly ownership of a woman the only meaningful sticking point in a relationship for you?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:19 PM
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I have said no to things before and it hasn't resulted in her leaving. You're projecting insecurities on to my relationship I fear.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:08 PM
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I didn't. You judge the final outcome as the mark of whether an arrangement is equal or not, I don't. I judge the decision process as they defining point. We are equals. We respect each others limits equally. This subreddit has a drive to view relationships as nothing more than a transaction which must be weighed in Spock-like terms. That's not my thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:16 AM
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Not at all. If I was forced or not consulted and accepted this as allowable I would agree. I have been consulted with throughout however.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:03 AM
1

Yes i'm happy. Really, truly, happy. Why only 'nice' and not nice? and I didn't ask twice. I asked once in relationships thread after the level of abuse and hysteria I received from an AMA gave me momentary pause.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:48 AM
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No one has made her cum from oral except myself for one, something she's a big fan of. They can fuck but I can give a more intimate loving experience because of our relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:33 AM
1

Are you talking in a purely sexual sense?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:22 AM
1

By virtue of the combination of personality, etc, that makes me unique. Just as everyone is unique. In my case i'm fortunate in that my combination is one that matches hers well and we've built a strong relationship as a result.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:56 AM
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Me.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:33 AM
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It's not something I can answer with absolute certainty but it's a risk we're both aware of and mitigate as much as possible. She may want an abortion, she may want to keep the baby, she may want the bio father involved, etc. I would support her decision making.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:18 AM
1

I'd cross that bridge if we came to it but I certainly wouldn't abandon her for a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:17 AM
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No.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:15 PM
1

No. That hasn't happened thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:26 PM
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Your hypothesis isn't unreasonable but it's not the only option. I fully believe it's possible for people to compartmentalise feelings of jealousy and fear of their partner leaving while having no thoughts or risk of leaving themselves.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 12:49 PM
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Whereabouts in the UK? If you want recommendations of good DZs to try let me know and I can help out. I'm going to the US for the courses to get started off so should end up with about 40 odd bridge and cliff jumps there and then it'll be mainly less than legal building and antenna jumps over here although there are cliffs and bridges that can be done, beachy head being one example.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 12:37 PM
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The cost is very dependent on location. I'm in the UK and was fortunate enough to be able to learn through the static line route which means a cost of £30 a jump after the initial £200 course. Now it's about £20 a jump (varies on DZ) but well worth it. Packing your own gear is actually pretty easy. Spend a weekend learning it from a good teacher and you're set. I've never had a packing error in any of my kit (touch wood) I've got a BASE first jump course coming up second half of this year and al…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:19 AM
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Not a huge amount. I don't equate love and sex and therefore I can tolerate the person I love being with others. She may feel there is a risk of love developing and therefore isn't able to tolerate it. Love is an emotion but not all emotions are love.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:57 AM
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Point taken.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:47 AM
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Neither of us equate love and sex. They're seperate things. I think I would be deeply upset for a while but hope that I would ultimately pick myself up if we were to split. I don't want us to split obviously.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:37 AM
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Probably but this girl is the one I love.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:24 AM
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It would be nice to know I can provide everything she needs. It's always good to feel like the strong, fully capable, provider rather than having to rely on others to help.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:06 AM
1

The former but that's not an option.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:55 AM
1

I'm in a relationship that's very much outwith the norms and people tend to react badly to that. Along with that this particular subreddit isn't exactly predisposed to be accepting of my situation as it apparently goes against the methods you guys are into (and please note I didn't make this thread, I came because I was informed of it by a poster here) She had 4 previous boyfriends with those relationships lasting less than a year each. In terms of sexual partners when i've asked the "how many" …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:38 AM
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The type of reactions i've had from people here is why I would find it difficult. She occasionally tells me things but I don't ask about it (except with the girl on girl, more than happy to pry there :P). That's really between them and her. The point of all of this is for her to explore and be happy, an increased level of sexual energy is just a silver lining for me. I've had one serious girlfriend before. I've had oral experiences with others though.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:17 AM
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It makes me happy but socially it's a bit awkward to explain and I don't want others prejudices to affect my life. It varies. That's part of the attraction of this for her i.e. getting to explore different people and their particular quirks. I don't hear that much about it all really though to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:07 AM
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It makes it easier in case we are in social situations together and alone and others notice her flirting, etc with someone else. Really just to save face for me. We have sex 3 or 4 times a week. The average is about twice a week for her and others. I've never tried anal and not really all that bothered by it. We did go to shibari classes and that was pretty fun and exciting so wouldn't say no to continuing it. The problem is trying to find the time to practice and it's a bit of a ballache inhibi…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:57 AM
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She can fuck other people because that's the limit I can tolerate while she is unable to tolerate me with others. We have equal opportunity to discuss and explain what is just too far for each of us. I've met a couple of them socially and only spoken to them very briefly. It was in a group social setting so I was just hanging out listening and chilling out. It felt a bit awkward at first meeting them like that mainly because I was a bit concerned they might act like dicks (I had no reason to thi…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:39 AM
1

No. I've said it before, this isn't some fetish thing and I don't do clean up. That stays between them.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:14 AM
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No more than a couple of words.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:02 AM
4

Skydiving. I got into it at university when I was around 22 (without looking at my logbook I can't give an exact age) after a summer spent working in the most god awful dull call centre. There was a stall set up in the students union for the club and I thought "what the hell" and signed up. After a lot of rainy, windy, no jumping weekends I finally got my license and i've since progressed to formation skydiving, freeflying, canopy formations, and hopefully by the end of the year i'll have made m…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:19 PM
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Well the bright side of all this reddit drama is that gf has suggested some fun things for us to do together so I imagine there is more sex on the horizon for me heh
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:08 PM
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Thanks for the vote of confidence in me being a nice guy :) If I could keep her satisfied by myself that would be great but its a fantasy and not the reality so my choice is really whether I'm happy enough to ensure her needs are met or do I go my own way. The third option of just demanding she allow me to sleep with others isn't one I would consider and I don't think it would be a positive move. If there is indeed a theory that women seek out better genes but want a provider I don't think that'…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 04:45 PM
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Yes. I've explained that the level of jealousy she feels by it is prohibitive.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 10:47 AM
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I didn't come to reddit to confirm anything of the sort. I posted an AMA because I know my relationship isn't the norm and I thought people would have lots of questions. They obviously did but all too many think it's fine to act like cocks and just insult us instead. I made the mistake of letting her see these threads after a poster on the AMA questioned why I hadn't. Bad move, now she feels like shit because of a bunch of twats online.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 10:20 AM
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PM'd
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:16 AM
-1

Doing things behind my back or without my consent.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:31 AM
1

Well I'd be pretty devastated if she did leave me and I'd want to try to patch things up. Hopefully though if it couldn't be salvaged I'd find a way to move on with my life.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 11:15 PM
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Christ a girl in her 20s enjoying sex and exploring is hardly a whore. Fucking hell chill out all of you with the insults.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:43 PM
2

Her hamster?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:11 PM
0

The thrill of someone new and different isn't something I can give her. There are things I can give that they can't and vice versa
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 05:54 PM
-5

Because I don't think love and sex are the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 05:41 PM
-14

This isn't some fetish thing. It's just a relationship choice.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 03:38 PM
-15

I'm looking at proposing in the reasonably near future if I can get my act together and pick a ring and place to propose that's decent. I gain a funny, kind, smart, and hot girlfriend who, despite the impression people have, truly does love me and I her.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 03:15 PM
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I am living life the way I want it. It's others who seem to have a massive problem with it. And to reiterate i'm not playing clean up. This isn't a fetish thing for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 03:04 PM
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See above. She's on the depot.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:45 PM
0

I'd rather not have kids and I don't see that changing any time soon. She's of the same opinion.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:33 PM
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I don't clean anything up. Whatever happens between her and others stays there.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:21 PM
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She's on the depot. Not an issue.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:11 PM
-1

I can manage.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:55 PM
-2

Yes. In the near future.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:54 PM
-1

That hasn't happened. She has left to meet people while we're out with friends but the exact reason wasn't discussed so there hasn't been awkwardness.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:50 PM
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She's met people through her hobbies, on nights out, and through work.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:39 PM
-2

You will.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:38 PM
-6

I believe she would. I doubt they really want to discuss other men when they're in bed with a girl to be quite frank
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:37 PM
-18

Only some guys and only after we've discussed it. That in itself shows she's not acting with abandon and without consideration of my concerns.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:34 PM
-4

She discussed it with me first. It had been part of dirty talk in bed for a while before she asked about making it a real thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:33 PM
-4

She's at work thanks and in a couple of months i'll be sure to come back and reply that it's not the case.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:32 PM
-8

If that's the case then it's making her happier and that's a good thing whether I like it or not.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:30 PM
-8

Playing games like that doesn't seem a mature choice.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:29 PM
-1

I think she would stay.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:28 PM
-9

I don't feel i've gotten myself into anything bad so that's fine.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:24 PM
-7

I understand her reasons and I am empathetic to the fact she struggles with jealousy. Its for that reason that I don't sleep with others because I see no reason to hurt her like that.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:23 PM
-6

No my friends know i'm someone who is secure in themselves and doesn't need to restrict others to feel good about myself.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:09 PM
-9

My parents don't know and I wouldn't consider their opinion of value. The friends that do know (a very small number) take a 'to each their own' approach.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:58 PM
-3

I'm only here because a poster messaged me about the thread.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:52 PM
-11

Its not 'leftover scraps'. Christ.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:38 PM
-2

If she were to ask I would simply say no and that would be the end of it so it doesn't really matter. And she gets lots of wild sex with me too thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:26 PM
-13

Fine then just read it as her stating that she wouldn't be able to tolerate me doing it and me accepting that.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:16 PM
-3

May I ask why you feel that's the case?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:15 PM
-4

Ah got it. Thanks. I suppose that is the case but it's something out in the open in our relationship.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:34 AM
-4

What is bp? Sorry I'm really not au fait with all the terminology here.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:33 AM
-19

I'm secure in myself. That's a good thing in my book. I don't need to define myself by my ability to control my woman or some such thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:28 AM
11

She doesn't get money with me and enjoys sex with me as much as I do with her.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:27 AM
0

Plate theory?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:16 AM
-4

She's just as well off as me. We both have professional jobs and earn exactly the same across the year.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:16 AM
-3

I really really won't. 100% straight thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:15 AM
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