sachalamp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to be dominant with women, Part 1 Pretty bs	/r/becomeaman	30/01/15 08:44 AM
0	On the subject of sexual harassment, I was once accused of sexual harassment by my (clueless) female asst. and I'm gay... Wow	/r/MensRights	30/11/14 10:37 AM
1	On the subject of sexual harassment, I was once accused of sexual harassment by my (clueless) female asst. and I'm gay... Except some of the women are wealthy enough to not care about some settlement money.	/r/MensRights	30/11/14 10:36 AM
3	BP, why shouldn't I go RP? Some women will respect you, others won't. You're generalizing and it's in your own detriment. I can understand partially why you'd think this way if you were cheated on that many times. It's not a healthy train of thought and you'll have to make an effort to change it, but i can understand why you'd think this way. Now could you please answer this? How was your parents' relationship like? How did your father treat your mother? How did your mother treat your father? Do you believe this could've …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/14 10:35 PM
4	BP, why shouldn't I go RP? Could you please answer the other questions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/14 09:58 PM
3	BP, why shouldn't I go RP? How was your parents' relationship like? How did your father treat your mother? How did your mother treat your father? Do you believe this could've had an impact for your perception of how women behave? What is the moot point, more specifically? I'm asking if you don't believe you deserve to be treated better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/14 09:53 PM
3	BP, why shouldn't I go RP? Why would you stay in a relationship if you're not respected? Don't you think that says something about how much you don't value yourself? Don't you think you deserve better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/14 09:43 PM
3	BP, why shouldn't I go RP? You're saying you deserve it, I'm not. You didn't answer that. I'll ask it again: If you were looking for a relationship and a hot, nice, strong, confident, smart girl would be interested in you but was not respectful towards you, you'd get into such a relationship? Give me a yes or no answer, please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/14 09:32 PM
3	BP, why shouldn't I go RP? "The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function." -F. Scott Fitzgerald I've tried to explain this to you earlier. Them being wrong does not absolve you from being wrong. You being wrong does not absolve them from being wrong. We all agree that cheating is not ok. All is left is you accept your side of the coin. I'll ask you again here because you have ignored the question in the other topic multiple…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/14 09:24 PM
-15	Woman breaks up with her boyfriend of 10 months because he didn't have a strong job,was frugal,drove a 1997 toyota, wasn't money/career motivated and all her friends were moving up. Finds out later th I was initially curious about this sub but the fact that this is the TOP post of all time made me disgusted to be honest. I don't think you can see the woman POV, which was 100% justifiable. She was a perfectly reasonable person looking to settle down and being given the shaft on multiple occasions, and by no means a gold digger. The man had some trust issues and he work to should solve them.	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/11/14 09:47 AM
3	Man who went to prison as a juvenile sex offender: Lena Dunham is lucky Besides that, this is a very insightful perspective on childhood sexual experimentation and the overzealous government/societal response from a victim of both the system and sexual abuse. This is what torns me. He was probably punished more than it was necessary, and he clearly acknowledges his wrongdoings, yet Lena Dunham doesn't even register anything she did was wrong. The article rubs me the wrong way though, especially that it's coming from Salon, which, if i recall correctly, defended Lena…	/r/MensRights	11/11/14 11:32 AM
2	Meghan Trainor: Case study in how not to behave As a man, I thank you for this post. I liked the song hearing it on the air, thought it was catchy. But when i saw the video, it was WHAT THE FUCK DID I JUST WATCH. So many girls brainwashed. I mean, why take time and energy and clean up your act, and take care of your body? better use time and energy to make the world believe you're a beautiful landwhale. And shame skinny women while you're at it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtRsKl2lO_U All those bad experiences and losing weight is still n…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/14 10:03 AM
0	Are redpillers and niceguys two sides of the same coin? The're the logical approach that can work. You are what you are because of randomness. You could've just as well been anybody here on Earth, (including traits such as weakness). If you'd be them, you wouldn't have a chance of not being a victim. That given, would you appreciate if someone helped you, or at least didn't hurt you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/14 09:41 AM
1	After becoming a man I [22m] respect, my ex gf texted me. I win. I have achieved where I am not for anyone's sake but my own, and I'll text who I want, when I want, because I'm busy. Nobody is that busy to not reply 'thanks' to a message. I get it that you don't want to reply, looks like you're still not over it, that you carry a grudge (which is not particularly healthy), but busy... come on.. this topic took much longer to write than 'thanks'.	/r/seduction	07/10/14 04:30 PM
1	Had an interesting adventure last night, was curious about your thoughts on the situation. I feel no shame for the situation, but should I? Yes you should. It's called being accountable for one's action. What you did was a scum thing to do and deep down you know it. You're just here on TRP because you need some confirmation it's ok, and you know that given the nature of the sub, you'll mostly hear what you want/need to hear. Yes, she should've been acting responsilbe too, but that does not absolve your own part of the blame.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/14 05:02 PM
1	Boring girls? How to deal with not having common intrests etc. This might be your defense mechanism in order to avoid having to kiss her (i'm saying this because you did just identify yourself as the smart guy, so the intellectual route is quite common to use in such cases - you're willingly creating a dissonance). I do understand that first time is really hard though, i kindof cried a little because of stress on mine and said i can't. And i'm a guy, so yeah. Look at it the other way, would you still have these doubts if you had kissed her the first time or…	/r/seduction	17/03/14 04:38 PM
1	"But you have a girlfriend..." There's nothing awesome in using people, that was sarcasm. You come in contact with women that could fall for this behavior and you go for it. No doubt they tingle, some with daddy issues, some had bad boyfriends, some have low self esteem, etc, to them being treated poorly comes natural. I consider it morally wrong to abuse this glitch, which undoubtedly works amazing. Even if I were to completely disregard morals, I would still not engage with such a woman, or if i did, i'd most certainly not …	/r/askTRP	16/02/14 02:40 PM
1	"But you have a girlfriend..." You're awesome	/r/askTRP	14/02/14 11:17 PM
1	"But you have a girlfriend..." Use as many defense mechanisms as you need to.	/r/askTRP	31/01/14 07:59 PM
3	Is it EVER okay to tell a girl you love her first? It could be tension building if it went both ways, but it's not, so it's just control/ emotional blackmail. But you can call it whatever suits your needs best.	/r/askTRP	25/01/14 06:28 PM
1	Is it EVER okay to tell a girl you love her first? I'd wait a while, then MAYBE I'd say it when the moment was right and I felt like it. I'd let her hamster run for a while, building the tension, nigga please	/r/askTRP	25/01/14 06:06 PM
2	Is it EVER okay to tell a girl you love her first? then we know who is in control. Need for control= insecurity.	/r/askTRP	25/01/14 05:36 PM
1	Is it EVER okay to tell a girl you love her first? This is one of the biggest bullshits i have ever got the chance to read.	/r/askTRP	25/01/14 04:34 PM
3	Is it EVER okay to tell a girl you love her first? Say whatever the fuck you feel and want to say and expect nothing in return.	/r/askTRP	25/01/14 04:33 PM
1	"But you have a girlfriend..." It's interesting they hit you that hard, considering they're not even addressed to you. To feel shamed by something as neutral as that usually means that you subconsciusly feel you're in a shameful spot. Most significant is listing "respect other girls", which can't even be pejorative. But somehow, someway, it is to you. You're also defensive about your relationship approach even if, again, you are not the subject of the conversation and this is not relevant by any means. You're also justifying …	/r/askTRP	25/01/14 06:51 AM
1	"But you have a girlfriend..." ZZZZzz	/r/askTRP	23/01/14 09:05 PM
0	A Really Simple Theory of Attraction that Will Change Your Understanding of Sexuality (WATCH THIS) This is just a very delusional rationalization that's supposed to give men some upper grounds of some sort. It's an ego stroke. Women want to be desired the same way men want to be desired. Women desire men as much as men desire women.	/r/seduction	18/01/14 07:51 AM
3	It really is a Numbers Game Don't forget girls flake. Cancel. Lose interest. Act bitchy. Even if youre game is tight. But you got 50 numbers in youre phone. What you give a fuck? You aim with an uzi, emtpy three magazines on a target and you're bound by chance to get a couple of hits. Clint Eastwood comes, and does 6/6 on his revolver. It's never a numbers game. It's easier to rationalize it as one because you are less likely to fail.	/r/seduction	18/01/14 07:33 AM
5	Game tips for women (some NSFW content) I am a man. You know, if this is a list written to keep a guy, it's quite sad. Don't get me wrong, your points are good, but all of these should be done without outside motivation. When you start doing them just to please someone, they lose most of the value. Also, i don't know if this makes sense, but never be his whore. Be a whore, and only if you're comfortable with it. Being the former puts you in a vulnerable spot if you happen to be with a guy that has no moral compass.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/14 07:13 AM
2	Why do women lie/give bad advice about dating? Now I'm a man, just wondering around. I don't find the advice you mention contradictory, but i can see why it can be considered that. I feel this confusion stems from our (as people, not gender related) way of thinking that you can't have too much of a good thing. Women like it when a guy is polite, so they think asking for more of that will somehow make it better. They overshoot it (super-polite) then undershoot it (Don't expect her to say yes or acknowledge your existence), while not realizing…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/14 06:54 AM
-7	Alpha got the girl, beta just sat and watched... You're a shit friend.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 03:44 PM
-2	Sleep with sluts, but do NOT get into a LTR with a slut (?). There's just one force, that is the desire to find a companion that has good traits. Women control access to sex. Men control access to relationships. Is just men that are frustrated because women are not interested in them, so instead of doing something about it, they find a scrapegoat. They are fighting a losing battle and this makes them feel good about themselves. It's quite an intricate defense mechanism.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 09:04 AM
3	I need some advice about The Red Pill... Girls have told me that I'm "good-looking", but I'm pretty sure that is a euphemism for "You're a beta." It's a shame you're attaching a trait that you agreed to is bad to a quality. That nullifies the said quality.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 12:47 AM
1	I need some advice about The Red Pill... Being a better YOU even without consideration of (or rather DESPITE) your competition makes you more dominant and in turn more attractive. Dominance isn't irrelevant. The dominant you're reffering to is more commonly known as confidence. Just a reminder, this dialogue started on the displaying of dominance, not the dominance as a consequence you're discretely steering to.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 12:27 AM
1	Sleep with sluts, but do NOT get into a LTR with a slut (?). It does not hold value anymore. It's flogging a dead horse. Maybe lack of creativity, maybe convenience, don't know really.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 11:00 PM
0	I need some advice about The Red Pill... compete for dominance in the sense that, you strive to be better for your own sake. So we both agree that the only person one is competing with is oneself. That means the direction of process is inwards. Then the concept of displaying dominance, that is intrinsically competitive and outwards, becomes irrelevant.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 10:40 PM
-3	Sleep with sluts, but do NOT get into a LTR with a slut (?). There's no reasoning, this is where TRP implodes. This is where you broke the matrix. This is double standards galore. A slut is a man with a high partner count. But it's not the high partner count that's the problem. Rather, the high partner count is indicative that there's something wrong with him. See, if a man is good relationship material (masculine, can fight a bear, empathetic, supportive, loving, etc.) then he'll get LTRed, usually in a committed monogamous relationship. While he's in th…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 10:18 PM
-1	I need some advice about The Red Pill... What's somehing you simply know you're good at? Anything, it can be a computer game, cooking or rockets. I'll explain it from there.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 08:55 PM
-6	I need some advice about The Red Pill... Unless you're wrestling a bear or something, dominance is just oozing insecurity. Also, if you're competing or winning to be attractive, you're really wasting your time and effort.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 08:31 PM
2	Can being a man be broken into numbers? You mean an Insecurity List?	/r/becomeaman	30/12/13 10:28 PM
1	"But you have a girlfriend..." The pattern is irrelevant. It might as well be 1 guy 10 girls and 3 goats or any other variation as far as I'm concerned. As long as all the parties involved are informed and have agreed on being a part of it. This case is not of informed sides, let alone mutual agreement. It's one side knowingly misleading other(s) for own benefits. Male? Yes. Man? No	/r/askTRP	29/12/13 09:59 AM
0	Wife snitched on me... to my mother Your sister did the right thing (although the way and timing were very shitty). You are entitled to your own views and nobody should question them, however you are not entitled to be wasting someone else's life. She was already included in family holidays, it most likely wasn't a fling that started a couple of days ago, so to 'subject hasn't come up yet' is a rather petty excuse. If the other girl wants to marry, it's her right to be seeding that kind of a relationship.	/r/askTRP	27/12/13 07:51 AM
2	"But you have a girlfriend..." How about respect your girlfriend by not doing shit like this anymore and respect the other girls by not leading them around. Or break up and pursue the one you're interested in. And by the way, playing around with the thought that you're so unresitable, desirable, stringing girls, is actually your own insecurity flaring up. There's your red pill. Man up.	/r/askTRP	27/12/13 04:37 AM
4	“I Had A Dad”: About American dads, and how they failed to educate their sons. Harsh but true. Your dad was like that because of his past. The only way end the cycle is to show some empathy towards him instead of hating him.	/r/becomeaman	17/12/13 02:35 PM
2	“I Had A Dad”: About American dads, and how they failed to educate their sons. Harsh but true. I feel like the author of this article has some..."daddy" issues. IMO, he come of as whiney and someone trying to pin their shortcomings on someone else. Yep, pretty much this, but the thing is his shortcomings ARE somebody else's. The next move is to stop blaming and start correcting.	/r/becomeaman	17/12/13 02:32 PM
2	“I Had A Dad”: About American dads, and how they failed to educate their sons. Harsh but true. Well, learn to be a man and stop finding excuses why you can't. And I don't quite like this article, it is derogatory towards "dad''. Guess what, you need both a father and a dad, maybe your parent didn't nail both but probably did the best he could given the circumstances. Then again, it might be good for closure to know part of the reason you aren't a man yet.	/r/becomeaman	17/12/13 02:27 PM
1	Apologizing? You're normal, i'm happy pua didn't brainwash you. There are situations when you can say sorry for fucking something up or at least assume responsibility. And you sound mature enough to notice them.	/r/seduction	24/11/13 08:30 AM
2	[FR] F-close, but either I misread signals or it really is "it's not you it's me" Were you anxious about sex? Were you in control? What's your experience? It's pretty obvious something snapped in the sack.	/r/seduction	16/12/12 12:43 PM
1	How To get over a social disability... Like Stuttering? Were you a lefty and got forced to switch hands? Ask your parents, you can't remember on your own, the brain subconsciously blocks traumatic events. If so, use your left to just about anything , no matter how hard it feels like at first (mouse, eating, washing, juggle chinese relaxing balls and so on; writing will take a lot of patience).	/r/seduction	27/10/12 02:50 PM