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18	I think want to be with somebody and i haven’t felt like this since i found about red pill A couple of things. The word "females" is a dead giveaway to anyone in the know that you are/have been involved heavily in the manosphere. They're people, same as everyone else, and othering them is a bad look, and almost certainly promoting some toxic thinking. Second, I don't know you, but if I had to make a judgment call, like say, in a first date scenario, I would ghost. Talking about how all your ex's are terrible is not helpful. You are the only commonality in your previous relationships a…	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/22 07:20 AM
8	Red Pill sells you one of many possible perspectives for specific behaviours, which can be very wrong...and very destructive. As an outsider, it seems like leaving is probably the best thing for you, on an individual level. A coworker of mine is going through a divorce with someone who seems red pilled in all but name after a bunch of effort to save the marriage and she is so much happier. She did a little dance when she realized she didn't have to go to football games. I swear she seems five years younger. This will almost certainly drive him deeper down his hole, but that's nobody's fault but his own. Sometimes you h…	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/22 08:35 PM
3	CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looks If you're insistent on pretending your failings don't exist; externalizing them onto something you have no control over, you'll never actually fix anything. The AA strategy doesn't work here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 08:16 AM
3	CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looks You know, I'm not going to get through, I'm just some random jackass on the internet, ask some of your female friends if they can help you figure out your failings. See if there's any common threads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 08:00 AM
3	CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looks Buddy, I'm also a dude. Autistic, mid 20's, and dating a burned out model. You very nearly hit on the point I was trying to make and yet didn't. All the people described had something to offer. I was in your boat for a few years before figuring out "nice" is not a game changing character trait but bare minimum. If you're unvalued, bring some value to the table. Nobody wanted to talk to the quiet awkward fuck. Enough people find the eccentric guy who brews his own wine, breeds weird fish, and mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 07:44 AM
3	CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looks So you're glossing over the important bits, or at least the ones that look important from where I'm sitting. Your height is working against you. But it's not a complete roadblock. If you give no reason to overlook it, then well, you're pretty much screwed. If you give people reasons to not want to be around you, well, that's not going to pan out. I'm obviously not going to dox myself by giving pictures, but my grandfather is all of 5'4" on a lucky day, and managed to marry at the age of 17, brot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 07:00 AM
3	CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looks So there's a fair bit to unpack. I'm not sure how thoroughly I'd say you fake being pleasant as, even just from your responses to other folk on here you seem like a rather angry/frustrated person with a habit of externalizing your issues. The "slave to my own brain chemistry" is not a good look, and would probably be seen as a red flag. Maybe you're just venting here though and you act normally irl. I don't actually know you. Height doesn't really matter, and looks are surmountable At least not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 06:04 AM
7	CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looks And therein lies the crux of the problem; you're perfectly content being, if I can be blunt, abrasive, bordering on a dick. Think about it this way, from a purely selfish frame of reference. what do you bring to the table in a social encounter? Are you attractive enough to convince people to ignore the prickly aspects? Are you wealthy enough or well enough connected to improve their social status? If you are, are you friendly/helpful enough to actually do so? Are you willing to commit to a long …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 05:38 AM
5	The redpill exit I don't know if I'd agree with that. There's certainly a lot of things that are out of the average persons control. The only thing you can control is your reaction to what happens in the world around you, and a lot of people struggle with that, and rightfully so.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/21 06:23 AM
5	Something my husband and I discussed, wanted to know if you all see this as well... I mean, I think that does play into it somewhat as well. After all if black folk are below you, well, at least you're better off than someone. I know there's a relevant quote, but I have no idea whom by.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/21 08:18 PM
2	Something my husband and I discussed, wanted to know if you all see this as well... I don't disagree with the majority of what you said, but I don't think everyone needs to be won over. There will always be a small handful of people who are dragged into modernity kicking and screaming, and that's fine imo, so long as it's a small enough minority that the issues they pose is smaller than that of not moving forwards.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/21 08:14 PM
18	Something my husband and I discussed, wanted to know if you all see this as well... I'm pretty sure MLK said the something along the same lines; it's why he was an avid socialist. That said, knowing that the rich like that fact, doesn't really change the fact that a lot of chuds are willingly fighting for the rich.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/21 07:24 PM