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| 6 | The notion that women prefer to be interested in only one man is bad advice from the Red Pill Manosphere11/10 spot on answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 04:36 PM |
| 0 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?No, it's having self awareness and respect. Hyping would be like Phyllis bragging about her UC Berks degree that she did not earn. I earned everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?No, all truth from the angel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:47 AM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?You look like you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?But most people cannot compete. They sin too far down. I'm angel 😇 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:18 AM |
| 0 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?No thanks, I'm not into fembois | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:17 AM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Ok, hope it's fantastic news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 10:07 AM |
| 0 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Then stop stalking me O_O Let other men stalk me instead. It's very simple. May the best stalker wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 09:58 AM |
| -1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Yes! Absolutely. Mama raised her child to her standards. (I mean I was already born an angel). I have always been truthful and hard-working. All my accomplishments are my own. I don't lie, cheat nor steal. I have never or plan on using others, not for their material resources or anything else. Not only that, I'm good at seeing potential in others and willing to build empires with them, not just spend their money when they are at the top. That's very like mama. I go even further than that. I'm mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItI wasted so much of my time and energy contributing to stupid visionless people with poverty mindset. No matter how much I peddled, the vehicle didn't move any faster because the person who steered didn't know how to steer. They don't even know directions. The just laughed at my plans and dreams while pretending that they have any abilities or talents whatsoever, while asking me to peddle harder? "HOW ABOUT YOU LEARN HOW TO DO YOUR JOB?!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit Ithttps://vt.tiktok.com/ZS2wjEDkn/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 05:37 AM |
| -1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?I do, but they're pussies and won't take the chance. Men these days are weak; they want sure-thing's, handout's, freebie's, etc. If they don't get what they want, they blame everyone and everything else except themselves; they whine and cry endlessly. They believe themselves deserving of everything despite putting in inadequate effort. Momma's told them "you are precious boy, so special, you deserve the whole world" and they grew up believing that. They apply the same principles in all aspects -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 03:28 AM |
| 2 | You nearly always know within 5 minutes if you have chemistry with someoneAlso, if you know about enneagram stacking... the instant pull is SX first. People who date or marry people they are not sexually pulled to, are SX blind. Many are SO first. Their partnership is to appease parents and society. They don't care to bond with their partner, as long as the title stands, they are happy. They choose partners based on how good they look on papers alone, like bragging rights. Good thing I'm SO last, my relationship is none of anyone's business. I don't think a SX blind c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | You nearly always know within 5 minutes if you have chemistry with someoneThere are couples who know each other from childhood. But yeah, in general, I think you have an explainable feeling. If I research really deeply into it, I can figure out the micro behaviors that my brain tunes into. However, I already have a description of my type and it suffices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Yeah, regardless, Daddies still "finish". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Daddies finish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Yes, emphasis on the princess treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.The same man who doesn't treat her like a princess outside the bedroom, that's who. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 01:16 PM |
| 2 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.Idk if I wanna be that close to a serial killer. But if your person doesn't torture you in ways you wanna be tortured in, does he even love you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyBubble is not burst. A Reddit rando is not important enough in my life to have that effects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyThat was what I thought: that sheet ain't real?? But then with unexplainable logic, life proved me wrong. Statistically significant number of times, it proved me wrong. After some time, instead of being like "HUH? That's literally not possible", it's wiser for me to just accept that it's "another one of those weird phenomenon again". I guess this is why people with really boring lives don't believe in miracles. Because nothing exciting has happened to them since birth. They think I'm fabricating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyHonestly? An overall asshole that is chivalrous only to you is way hotter than an average nice guy who is a doormat for everyone. I think there's generally 2 boats - women who like assholes and those who like nice guys. You cannot fake being 1 or the other; you can only find your audience. The problem with "nice guys" is that if they don't get what they want, they whine. Assholes scare away girls all the hecking time, but they don't whine. C'mon lads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?Can someone explain to me the appeal of a 3some? Like surely, you're territorial of your partner? SURELY?? Don't think I can be happy sharing my partner in any meaningful capacity with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband?Nope, I'm the opposite. My desire to please is directly correlated to how invested (I feel that) the other partner is to the relationship. But also, I don't do casual partner/hook-up/FWB. Just in the context of regular relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:17 PM |
| 0 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"I like thế selfishness, or rather, just take what you want. Don't ask, no need for so much small talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 01:46 PM |
| 2 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?I mean if you have any chemistry at all, you will suffer withdrawal. People who only entered into relationships purely for traditions / personal gains never understand that - chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:32 PM |
| 2 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?By advantage I mean like, when you're "together", there are chemicals surginh in your brains. You're on drugs but there is no securing the drug dealer? Gambling is a dangerous game, kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?Official relationship. What's the advantage of hooking up prior? Drunk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meThe best things in life are free. The second best are very expensive. Some people just skip the 1st best; they are losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 03:41 AM |
| 3 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meIdk if you know, I'm not other people. I'm just me. Phyllis's desire to deceive and impress is not me. Neither is her taste or lack thereof. Shocking, I know. If you're punishing me for other women's mistakes then you need therapy. I don't deserve that. I may have been called an angel, but I'm not ACTUALLY fking Jesus Christ. Why must I die for others' sins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 11:03 PM |
| 5 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meHappy about simple things. Priorize quality time. Not wanting things like fame and material goods to impress others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 10:59 PM |
| 12 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meI literally have never met a single man that said anything close to that. If you're making shit up again, stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 03:21 PM |
| 11 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meI personally really hate having to babysit and nag. It's so unattractive. It's in the same vein as not wanting a man that can be mistaken for a woman. I don't want to mistake you for my child. I should be able to trust in your vision and judgement. And no, constantly putting me down is also not attractive. Why don't you want to raise me up? Serious genuine question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meMaturity, like Daddy, is a state of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 03:09 PM |
| 38 | The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to meThis is kinda a hot take: (Some) men like childlike innocence. (Some) women like matured & collected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 03:08 PM |
| 0 | There is a difference between showing weakness and wallowing in self-pity all the time.Your flaws are not your weaknesses. Nobody can use your flaws against you if you're secured about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?I have learn that I like humans who resemble (the personalities of) anime characters that I crushed on when I was a child. Unpack THAT in therapy; even the therapist is confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 08:40 AM |
| 2 | What advice would you give a man who claims he has "tried everything"For a sec, I thought you meant he sampled and now is bored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 28 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areFather is a biological state. Daddy, however, is a state of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Can't even spend 0.0000125%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.What's the point of having $80M from your Dad Mike's trust fund then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Sent, you, link. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Idk what you just said. I sent you the link of the phone. Can deliveroo to meee :c | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Have you thought about improving yourself instead of bringing other people down? Be a better partner choice. Also: I broke my phone ;-; buy me a new one please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing?Ethics are for poor people. He's rich so he's obviously above ethics, duh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing?Pretty sure can already clone entire human bodies. It is simply the question of moral. Imma just give some scientists some big bucks and my stem cells, and you go ham, oki? :3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing?Wheezes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Purr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing?Cindy, is that you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing?He should care about my hopes and dreams, my worries etc. If he doesn't have any concept of me besides "heehee hot" then how does that differentiate me from a sex doll? Just get a sex doll shaped like me. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Tinglez like ASMR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 01:39 AM |
| 2 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Bad men? No! Bad boys. You don't understand, Mom. It's not a phase! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I would do it. It's like I hate doing the dishes, and if partner is neutral, he should do it. But also like, making out and fucking just naturally put you in the mood ... no? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 03:15 AM |
| 2 | The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attractionAs long as you're in the pants, does it matter the route? 🤔 I don't think going the friends route is a weasel-y way, since it's based on something more substantial and less likely to change + the risk is the friendzone. People underestimate how much it takes for someone to like you enough to genuinely become your friend. "Nice guys" don't actually become your friends. They are just exchanging politeness for brownie points. They feel entitled. There is a difference in strategies here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:29 PM |
| – | women are unlikely to date outside their than menI can guarantee you exactly 0 people in my entire life influenced my taste in Arab prince looking dudes. It's like whoever influenced furries? No, they just saw Lola at like 5 and BAM! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 04:19 AM |
| – | women are unlikely to date outside their than menWhy does it embarrasses you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 04:15 AM |
| – | women are unlikely to date outside their than menI think Chris Hemsworth is objectively handsome. But he's a bit too rugged for my taste. The vibes he gives is like he fights crocodiles, but won't sip cocktail with me in an afternoon tea setting. You get me? XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:41 AM |
| – | women are unlikely to date outside their than menMaybe for Phillipines & other South Asians. But for some reasons, many East Asians aren't active so their frames don't develop. Like women are flat bum-ed, and men don't have them broad strong shoulders. East Asians like that androgynous beauty = can easily mistake men & women. Men are overgroomed and sometimes, put on makeup. I'm not fan whatsoever. I like the clear physical differentiation between genders. I don't want to be able to mistake my man for a woman. How is it that desired? I don't u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:30 AM |
| – | women are unlikely to date outside their than menApparently, Taiwanese women have hard-on for Korean men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:19 AM |
| – | women are unlikely to date outside their than menNope. I'm from East Asia and I don't like East Asian features. My physical type is like those Arab prince looking dudes. You know the ones from right between East Europe and Middle East? A bit like Zayn Malik (before he got all tatt-ed up). I have had this physical type since teenage years. I know for sure because I used to send my friends picts of Arab princes as examples XD But looks don't really matter as much to me as personality. Personality type I have had since like 10. This is why I am a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:45 AM |
| 1 | The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can.So you're saying the goods market is inefficient? Because to me, supply and demand for specific good match at same price 👯♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can.But they are priced the same. Meaning the seller understands that the purple isn't lower value than the black jacket, just different. Yeh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can.It's like saying EVERYONE would definitely like & choose the red jacket over the blue jacket. Like EVERYONE agrees? Imagine if we can manage the same agreement for world peace the same way we do for "sexual market place". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can.It CAN be purely transactional, but if you think that way, we can't be frens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:58 AM |
| 0 | The "women want..." / "men want..." / "women think..." / "men think..." nonsense is out of control. Genders are not hivemind collectives. Neither gender is collectively conspiring together to create some kind of social outcome, everyone is just trying to deal with their own lives the best they can.Repeat after me: dating is NOT a sexual marketplace with SMV, like the NSE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?I am not hot chick. Wasn't called tom boy. Just dressed in unisex clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?T-shirts, baggy jeans, hoodie, sweats, sneakers, anything that both genders can wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?Huh? Tomboy clothes were the only clothes that fit. They were comfortable; I had no complaints. Summer break, cousins saw my clothes and said "what are you wearing?" then gave me a bunch of their clothes and makeup. Next school year, I implemented new change. It was a big hit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 01:47 PM |
| – | Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desireWhat playlist are we playing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 12:40 PM |
| – | Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desireY u so dirty dirty? Women themselves will sooner or later allow some guy to do very unholy stuff to them too. No such thing, I am a child of God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?Er, you're reppnig the wrong person. I'm the memer, not the original commentor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 12:12 PM |
| 11 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?I can confirm. I switched from tomboy clothes to female clothes in like the 12th grade, and I did not get angry. I didn't do it for attention so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 11:35 AM |
| 6 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?Don't you notice that the same word "love" mean completely different things to different people? It's so cliché that it should be abolished. The word "care" is a lot more clear in term of behaviors / actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 11:34 AM |
| 15 | Help Me Understand Where "Women aren't ENTITLED to a Relationship"; Wasn't the Problem That Women WEREN'T Seeking Relationships?Gov-assigned gf is the new era for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 11:30 AM |
| 0 | The west can have a stable and prosperous polygynous society.You know the term "hetero normative"? Why is society still "relationship normative"? I feel like if society doesn't herd people into relationships, there would be more happy couples and happy people in general. Because they spend more time in cultivating themselves and only be with people that fit them, rather than out of fear of social coercion. I remember that in highschool, I would eat lunch alone on days that my lunch period didn't align with my friends', instead of sitting with people I did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 06:47 AM |
| 0 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?I feel like the bad boi thing is not that universal 🤔 for example: my Mom's type is the goody two shoes, studios, soft spoken, zero danger, family oriented type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Hahaha, only a few mins in, but for me it's true. I like a bad boi and I cannot lie. Dark, dangerous? All I hear is hot. Finished watching. I would say that I agree with most of the video, with one exception at the end. I would never be part of a group of sleepers because my "galaxy" include having me as the one and only, fight for me, take a bullet for me. I'm ok with multiple first dates, but not a full orbit. I'm not a man so idk how true this is, but I don't think men operate in that kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Huh, what chart? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:01 AM |
| -1 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?I would love to do a survey study on that. Like "would you rather have physical chemistry or emotional chemistry"? Some relationships have both, and some have neither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 06:48 AM |
| 5 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Why not both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 06:33 AM |
| 2 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenI think the bar is just on the floor. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:13 AM |
| 7 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityI know many women who confuse apathy for stability. Until their husbands got so fed up with their lazyass bums, they served them divorce papers. Men only initiate divorce like 25% of the time, meaning these women are of minority to get booted like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityExcuse me, I watch Youtubers talk about space, books, and memes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityDramatic people need other people to have drama with. Passionate people don't really need others for their own hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityDrama is like he says she says stuff, "omg neighbor Becky says our car is outdated can you believe her?!" 😡 Passion is self-focused, like "omg, wanna go skydiving AND then see the wild animal through the safari??" 🥳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 09:45 PM |
| – | Straight women are alpha-sexualI kinda see where you're coming from. Idk if ALPHA is the right word. I'm attracted to independent assholes who can take risks. And who would protect me and take care of me, against the outside forces. It's just hot, idk what else to say. HOWEVER, I don't want a man exactly like my mother who does all of the above, but also so knit picky and always superimposing her principles onto me. Like I have mild PTSD from her scolding and picking my flaws apart 😭 I also like deep philosophical thinkers wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:58 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.Also, what is provocative is every different to each person / culture. If you look at beach cities in Europe and America, people are walking around in tiny bikini all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men and women are out here choosing to be with people they have no business being with and then complaining after the fact.Idk why some people don't understand that you can't accept every invite that comes your way? It's not rocket science?? XD Like you walk into a store with myriads of things, do you buy everything and anything? No, you look at them and you only buy the ones you like. Sometimes, you don't see anything you like, so you walk out of the store. Why is there that mindset that you gotta just buy everything because you can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:09 AM |
| 26 | Which one are you choosing to see again and which one gets the boot?I tell Tyson that I enjoy the date, but I'm not fucking him yet xD Depends on how he reacts, I would think about whether to see him for the next date or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 09:46 AM |
| 17 | Hypergamy is just the quality of men having to add something to a woman's life.I thought I had a stroke while reading your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 09:41 AM |
| 5 | Most heterosexual women are homoromantic.Eeerr I have never heard of any relationship ending because male partner cries. My Dad is a real cry baby and my Mom didn't divorce him. Mom doesn't even cry. My ex cried after Thanksgiving because he would part with his family. Idk, what a wussy baby. Here I was half the world away from mine and I wasn't crying?? xD Overall, I still like my man to be stronger than me, physically and emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Most heterosexual women are homoromantic.Idk what you're talking about. I literally: Best listener to ever listened. Wrote some damn good cards. Reminded my ex to put gas in his car. Helped him do his homework and prep for exams. Encouraged him to pursue new horizons. Took him out of his comfort zones. In general, I'm very supportive of my partner's endeavors'. Not to mention I'm very capable, so I can be his right hand (wo)man easily. If we're talking about capacity, I have confidence I can outperform most if not all of his male AND f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 10:23 AM |
| -2 | Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex?You don't like popping cherries? "Ow, it hurts, Daddy. You're tearing me." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex?My bestfriend from high school wanted to punch her V card, and she did. Crazy girl xD She's very happily married now. So cannot knock her method, can I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 06:51 AM |
| -1 | Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex?Speaking from experience? "Daddy, you popped my cherry, take responsibility uwu" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?2 sucks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:19 PM |
| 6 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeI tell them I'm crazy, but they don't believe me 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?Usually it goes like this, after some time into courtship, man drops his effort. He doesn't pay woman (real) attention and dismisses her, or doesn't support her emotionally during difficult times. Or for married couples, the burden of the household and child rearing is entirely on the woman. Woman grows resentful towards man. Woman doesn't give man intimacy, because she doesn't feel intimate towards him any longer. Ya see the trajectory? If y'all are married, I consider distancing as a pre-divor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.How long is long term? You know the well-known phenomenon that (many) guys get into relationships just to bang & stall it out. This lukewarm situation can draw out for YEARS. But eventually, they get mad for being forced into marriage... and pie their wife-to-be's with wedding cake at full force... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 05:49 AM |
| 1 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkDepends on the generalization. If you notice getting fit attract more females, then it makes sense to get fit. But it's incorrect to say "all and every women only want fit dudes". Each person has their own preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.What does "locking down" even mean? Marriage? There's divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Many women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.They want men to provide for them, protect them, buy them gifts, pay for dates and so on, all of which are signs that a man loves them, but they themselves don't want to love. Their "love" is allowing a man to provide for them and allowing him to do things like pay for dates, but there's no real action behind their "love". That it's not her responsibility. You know what that is called? Repeat after me: en-title-ment. I believe that some people are hard-wired to view everything as a transaction, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | The average American man is much more redpilled than you thinkAny dude with experience of the opposite gender would see patterns in female behavior and alter his own behavior to adjust to that. This is RP at it's core. I would be worried for you if you don't notice patterns and adjust accordingly. All living things do this. Unless you're an unanimated object... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy mean most men will forever be undesirable.There has been studies showing that we value certainty over possibilities, and we value what is ours like many times over exactly the same thing but isn't ours. So based on scientific research, true hypergamy doesn't exist. Though I agree that everything is relative. However, we do not interact with say the entire nation, only in our small circles, right? So the relativity usually applies to that small circle only, rather than say, the entire population. And the weight each person assign to each… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | If "love" is primarily conditional on transactions, wealth, education, etc., then it's not really love. So what's the point?I don't know a single stay at home partner / parent in my entire acquaintance group. Male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:58 AM |
| 1 | If "love" is primarily conditional on transactions, wealth, education, etc., then it's not really love. So what's the point?I agree. If my partner suddenly turns into a completely different person and started beating me up, I'm leaving. Heck, I'm suing. It's not love if it's inflicting / enduring some form of abuse to pass the days / life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:56 AM |
| 3 | If "love" is primarily conditional on transactions, wealth, education, etc., then it's not really love. So what's the point?My Mom was against my Dad getting promoted to VP. She doesn't like the higher-up political warfare that comes with it. Her goal was never a high earning man, because if that was the case she would never have chosen my Dad. There were plenty of much better candidates for that criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 09:02 PM |
| 6 | If "love" is primarily conditional on transactions, wealth, education, etc., then it's not really love. So what's the point?Not sure about that. Half of my parents' marriage, my Mom made substantially more than my Dad. The other half, my Dad did. I did not see any shift in respect or love. They operate as a unit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Most young men are red pilledI feel like there are WOMEN who pilled themselves too. But I think that mentality sort of reeks. Like you can smell it on other people. And the strategies are corny and obvious. At least to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyI think it's the difference between how vocal the 2 groups are: Single men whine and cry Single women just live life normally So then, whiny single men give the illusion that there are more single men out there and quiet single women give the illusion that there are fewer single women out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 05:54 AM |
| 0 | High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sexBut the downside is you're young and dumb. So maybe you don't pick so good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:49 AM |
| 14 | Women Are Happier With Less Attractive Partners, Study SaysReally? My thought would be "I want to see how hot his gf is" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Domestic violence would he reduced if men internalized the "she's not yours , it's just your turn" mantraI think many women want to be cared about. The problem is more like ... where's the care? XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Domestic violence would he reduced if men internalized the "she's not yours , it's just your turn" mantraWomen don'l seem to get this. They want a man to make her his everything but any sense of possessiveness in wanting her for himself is apparently wrong. Not every wamen. I think it's kind of hot ngl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:19 AM |
| 21 | Domestic violence would he reduced if men internalized the "she's not yours , it's just your turn" mantraI think mistreatment and abuse come from the fact that the abuser think themselves higher human-being than the abused, like they're not both equal human beings. Or that the abused owe the abuser something. Or they think that the other party won't / can't leave. Solution: just leave, and they will realize "holy sheet, I done fudging up". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.Is that height stat for US? Why do I feel like I see 6'+ all the time. Am I high? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.Can they stop from hitting the door frames at that point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.I sit around 220 at 5’10 You lift 220 or you weigh 220? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.But you can't exchange your bones? So muscles it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.a 7 at best in the face Idk why, but the way you phrased that is funny. I feel like it depends a lot on culture? Like in the West, a toned and adult-like body is more preferred over say East Asia where the baby-face and childish-ness are preferred? impressive physique, women do all of the things creepy men do: catcalling, groping, etc That's just straight up harassment... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think marriage for couples who were cohabiting before marriage do not last long.I feel like many people get married willy nilly. They're like "oh, I'm idk 30, let's get married". Or those people who give up trying at all after signing a paper. I don't think the level of commitment and purpose are necessarily linked to marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think marriage for couples who were cohabiting before marriage do not last long.They should run a filter algorithm to separate out people of faith, levels of education, income, age group, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think marriage for couples who were cohabiting before marriage do not last long.Do they filter for faith and education, etc? Did they cohabitate / not cohabitate because they had to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areLogic is STONK here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areWhat, a rectangle sat on top of a triangle? What does that mean? Like no waist?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?I honestly thought it's the Matrix thingie. Turns out it's dating thingie. At least Reddit didn't fudging introduce me to RedPill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:48 AM |
| 7 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?You mean "nice girls" and "self-victimized girls". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 2 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?Some men literally fly halfway around the world to get women. You can pay a prostitute to fuck you in the West any day of the week if you feel like it, whether it is legal or not. And it will cost a lot less than a flight to the Philippines or Colombia or Thailand. But I think some men fly to other countries because the women there are nicer to them. Double whammy if they spend on like a year's worth on hotel fees too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:24 PM |
| 0 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?There's a difference between "nice" as in being a human-being with decent values, and "nice" as in being a fake-ass people-pleaser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:21 PM |
| 2 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?That's definitely not true. Have you watched Mean Girls the movie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?I honestly think the adrenaline rush, in dating batsheet crazy women, is a legit appeal to (some) men. Like the rollercoaster of drama and fights. That's some drugs, man. Constantly working towards her love and approval yet never able to obtain them. The thrills of waking up another day to thirst for it - nothing can beat that, you know what I mean? Only slightly /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:12 PM |
| 3 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?You can be nice, and not naïve. You can be naïve, and not nice. Best route to take would be: be nice + not naïve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:09 PM |
| 2 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?I am 1 of those women. I am, in fact, very nonsensical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:05 PM |
| 6 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?Thanks for the link | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:58 AM |
| 0 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?Well... I wouldn't say nice guys are repulsive to me... I, like you, just like them a bit on the asshole side. There's something hot about a guy willing to fight, steal, kill for you. Idk, are we just broken on the inside? /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?I guess the saying "there's someone for everyone" rings true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Disgusting. Make sure to show any woman you're courting this, so she can get as far away from you as fast as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 11:24 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?It's weird because, I feel like each person has a completely different understanding of THE LEAGUE™ and where they are on that league. I have thought to myself something like this many times: "there's no way that aloof sporty cutie in the sports car would be into me; I'm not even near his league". BUT HE WAS; I JUST MISSED IT?! Still no clue how this league thing work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 11:31 AM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?Would you prefer they date someone they don’t like while they lust after chad and only stay loyal out of fear of being stoned? Lol. I guess these guys are the "nice guys" that want women to forgo attraction/chemistry and settle for the oh-so "respectful, stable, subdued" men (like themselves). But that would mean there's a MASSIVE piece of the (modern) relationship missing, since it's literally settling, out of need of some kind. We don't live in the Medieval time anymore. We aren't going to sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 11:21 AM |
| 0 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 08:59 AM |
| 5 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?I think "cars" is the new age comparison of "cows". The whole cows and milk thing. When will women stopped being compared to objects and cattles? Can we be hoomans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?She's under 18. And that's illegal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 08:53 AM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceAsk politely if said person is willing to be detained, totally at their own free will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:46 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceWow, did they provide some pointers as to why? I guess love marriages help, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?On the one hand I’d assume most women by this stage have had their fun with assholes Jokes on you. I always go for the assholes. /s somewhat desperate to have kids as their biological clock ticks faster than mens, plus they’re worrying about their beauty fading Interestingly, no. I much rather not have children than have children with someone I settle for. I think women can age pretty gracefully. Like those French ladies that have so much wisdom and class? smart, funny, sexy etc are taken, often… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:39 AM |
| 2 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?There isn't. People like who they like. That's literally just having a type. It's a very common and normal concept. Why do I like some traits and dislike others? Who the heck knows, I just do. Does that weed out many potential matches? Yeah, but there's no actual fairness in dating, is there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do thisThis should be on Blue Pill subreddit instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.Can you turn on/off the "sexlessness"? That would have been helpful when I was underage, and these weird older men were way too close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.Yup, be vulnerable WITH CONFIDENCE lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.That's why there's the terms "sapiosexual" and "demisexual". Unless I actually know someone's personality, it's very hard to feel attraction towards them. Looks alone just don't cut it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.Is it just me or college dudes don't even need sexual tension to want to get into other people's pants? XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.Yeah, definitely need both. That's why there's the term "honeymoon phase". It fades. You need to both like and love your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.What if you don't actually know how to flirt? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:37 PM |
| 3 | is anyone else who is attending college afraid because of all the rape cases going on?…I used get those assault notifications on my phone when I was a uni student. Scared me sheetless. That's why I made a point to never go to large parties with many people I didn't know. Always have someone I trust nearby to guard me and my drinks. Just don't drink more a few drinks. That's very important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.Yup. The friendzone is a real zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:30 PM |
| – | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Oh, trust me, a lot. Not sure if you have seen a 6'2'' standing next to a 5'7'' before? One can take out the other just by size alone. That's why places hire big bouncers without any weapons to guard places? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?I guess that's why the vast majority of divorces are initiated by women. Personally, I don't want to feel like anyone's mother, especially not my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:14 AM |
| 4 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?I agree with this. Which is why many wives complain that they don't find mothering their husbands the least bit attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?I think there was a study, where the sexiest thing about a woman's body is her waist ratio and men, their shoulder ratio or something like that. It's all biology - childbirth and protection of the nuclear unit. As a 5'9'' wamen, I never experienced the feeling of physical fear or protection in Asia. But the moment I landed in US, it's just "yup, that dude can totally kidnap me" or "nobody would dare mess with me if this guy is next to me". It's a real subconscious thing. Not sure if it's Daddy i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?I doubt that. Because my grandparents have like 10 children. Maybe on their way to more until my grandad got a vasectomy, to you know, stop having so many children. And I think I'm old enough to know how children are made. They have always been very lovey dovey, until the end, so my own observations go against your statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 12:03 PM |
| -2 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsI agree. That's why I want someone to consciously choose to be with me, and not because they don't have a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexThis is an over-generalization. Think about your personality. Think about their personality. Think about what you're looking for and what they're looking for. If you want a long, stable, respectful relationship and not a hook-up, better take it slow but of course, conitue to show interest. I have rejected many game-playing with this rushing mentality. I chose someone who genuinely wanted to get to know as a person at my own pace. Of course, similar sentiment on their side. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:27 AM |
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