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this synopsis was so fucking embarrassing lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:16 AM
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I met someone recently (who just became my bf!) and he is literally the sweetest guy I’ve ever met. He is SO affectionate it’s amazing. He says he masturbates/d (stopping because we’re having sex now) a lot, so I was extremely surprised when he said he never watches porn and just uses his imagination. I actually believe him. I honestly didn’t think it was possible for guys to go without it. He’s never even begun to do any choking shit or asked to, and I can tell slapping my ass is really not his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:12 PM
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yeah, there’s a difference between being busy and being flaky lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:23 PM
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i am laughing so fucking hard oh my GOD dsofkjkdmejkfds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:41 AM
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same. i'm not gonna try so hard anymore. or try at all, really; it's absolutely pointless. FDS is so solid because it really just responds to how men act—if you are ever chasing them or feel like you have to to see them, they don't want you; if they want you, they'll chase you. there's a guy i met recently whom i'm super into, but i leave it all up to him. we're about to meet for the 8th time in a pretty relatively short amount of time, and every single one of those times was initiated/set up by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:41 AM
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getting asked for photos to make sure i'm skinny enough feels so gross and dehumanizing. i'm not overweight at all but ugh, fuck off. and it's never the attractive ones asking this, it's the ones that look like a pile of poop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:11 AM
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too much effort, all they want is sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 02:13 AM
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they love to go on about how polyamory works and how they’re so enlightened but 70% of the sub is people being upset, jealous, left out, etc. sounds solid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:46 PM
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and then he's so dumb that he admits to it? yeah, so funny, real cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:18 PM
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it scares me how few 'good' ones there are...as someone attracted to men, the good ones' existences are just enough to keep me from falling into a massive pit of despair, but at the same time, they're so rare i feel like i'll never find one and be subject to one asshole after another for the rest of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:43 PM
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what helps me with this is remembering that basically every single time i tried to impress a guy, i regretted it, even if it was minor. i would always do something stupid or embarrassing or corny and cringe about it later lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:32 PM
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is there anything less sexy than some random (inevitably mediocre-looking) dude putting out an ad for hook ups? jfc. 'pick me! sign me up!' yeah, sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:22 AM
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and literally the only reason they put this is to trick you into thinking they want more than sex and ~aren't like other guys~ so that you're more interested, you hook up with them, and then they move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:21 AM
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this comment is absolutely killing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:19 AM
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somehow they still think being immediately negative and judgey will make people want to swipe on them. like reverse psychology or something. 'well if she sees this she'll want to prove she can hold a conversation with me' lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:19 AM
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if i see this bio one more time i'm ending it. it's so gross and yes, always from the ugliest men, the ones whose 'good time' consists of 2 minutes of sad pumping before kicking you out it was maybe clever (in a sleazy way, of course) the first few times you saw it, but now it's like 1/4 of every guy on apps. and no one ever thinks 'maybe tons of guys have this stupid bio and maybe it's cliche as hell now and maybe women are sick of seeing this corny shit.' they just keep living in pathetic igno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:17 AM
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No, it was the dork who was still wearing a hat and goggles in a photo in the cabin, while his friends were dressed normally for indoors. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:13 AM
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fake school/job (School of Hard Knocks) i am DYING. i HATE this, it's hysterical. also, it's 2019 and guys still think putting that they work at dunder mifflin is cute. also, i've actually seen so many where all the photos are group photos. talk about pathetic. it makes me laugh. they're just hoping those swiping think you're attracted to one of the guys in multiple photos and you'll swipe based on someone else. unreal. but they won't hesitate for a second to call women out for having no full bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:12 AM
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LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 07:55 PM
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yessssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 07:52 PM
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And don't double text to make sure he got the message. God bless. This is why advice on other subs drives me insane. Why the fuck do you ever need to double text someone? If it's mid conversation and they don't respond, they either 1) don't want to or 2) forgot, which speaks for itself. Would you ever forget to text back someone you're into? Like, legit forget? Ha. It's not about being 'afraid' to be 'shameless' or 'playing games'—it's common fucking sense. Recent retort I got to the above was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 07:27 PM
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sucks you feel like you can never show your true feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 12:02 AM
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her virginity? as if i weren’t vomiting enough already he is such a pathetic loser of a man. shacking up with a kid he works with (at walmart...) five seconds after knowing her, tossing aside a 5-year relationship like it’s nothing? also he’s clearly a predator. disgusting. holy shit, he did you such a favor you’re young and haven’t married him and can go on to do so much better it’s not even funny. he is nowhere near as good as it gets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 02:20 PM
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lmaoooo literally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 10:54 AM
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exactly. if it’s “too few” then they’ll think you’re a clingy prude trying to get married next week. you literally can’t win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:53 PM
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seriously lmao this is so fucking stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:49 PM
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"only to lose those feelings the second after having sex with her" this is the worst. i just met a guy i reeeeally like and i'm trying to hold off on sex, which sucks because it feels so arbitrary, but at the same time, i know i'd regret it and ruin it if i did. i'm legit scared to have sex with him. it's sad, really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:22 AM
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/r/murderedbywords
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:20 AM
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the "subtle" date downgrade. a classic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:19 AM
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i am dying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:18 AM
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yeah what the fuck lmao. i was trying to see if i missed that they'd had previous dates...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:17 AM
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men have tragic hairlines as early as mid twenties these days, yet *we* age badly. i have to laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:20 PM
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i didn’t even realize it until relatively recently but it kind of blew my mind. of course i get pissed because i still wanna touch when they wanna go to sleep. i have fucking blue balls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:35 AM
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i really don't get why men continue to act like women getting dates paid for or 'free food' is some massive scam against poor unsuspecting innocent schmucks. it's just fucking food. the way they talk about it you'd think food is gold. also, when i go on dates, i'm not trying to go all out or gorge on exciting, amazing food. i get something boring, simple, reasonably portioned, and non messy. what a thrill!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 10:57 PM
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yeah, i definitely can see it now smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:37 AM
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love bombing me for a few days then feeling emasculated by it so completely withdrawing from me for awhile oof this HIT so many times...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 12:19 PM
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also how is it 'prostitution' if the whole point is to not have sex early on? i also love how people act like getting food paid for is some awful scam inflicted upon poor men, like women get some sick, deep enjoyment out of it. it's just food lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:32 PM
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i was recently in a city with a military base and lol the army guys i ran into...god, they love lovebombing. one asked me to be his gf the second day we hung out (which was one day after the first...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:27 PM
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so true. maybe it's cynical of me but i don't take 'female friends' seriously when it comes to guys. they're flirty acquaintances or people they want to fuck. they don't care about women as people otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:14 AM
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the number of times i thought i connected with some random on a dating app after a few days of talking is laughable. there will always be another, and it's never anywhere near as deep as you think. forget him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:07 AM
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it's funny he says sex will 'keep him interested,' because he clearly doesn't genuinely like you if he's telling you to put out or get out lmao what the fuck i agree with the others, block him and move on. don't engage further, it's pointless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:04 AM
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i agree completely. you shouldn't have to chase guys down to confirm. it's childish. if they haven't double checked with me, they clearly don't give a shit, don't really care about seeing me, and don't respect my time, period. i leave it up to them to confirm because if they do, then i know they're into me. if they don't, they're avoidant flakes whom i'm wasting energy on and shouldn't bother going out with anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:01 AM
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seriously. this is one of the most pathetic things i've ever read. she's a terrible person because she was seeing other people (as he could too) and had sex with someone while NOT in a relationship with him? what a fucking joke. i'm sorry that this woman wasted 7 months on this giant baby aside from weeding out fragile losers like this one, there's no upside to being honest with men about things like this. they'll always judge you, to varying degrees. absolutely pointless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:57 PM
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yeah, the fading is a terrible sign. he's already bored and flaky this early on? they scheduled a date and he couldn't follow through with it or let her know ahead of time that he 'wasn't going to be able to make it'? bye. if she hadn't texted him, would he have said anything at all? doubt it. this is lame at any age, but with college-aged guys it's more expected. at 29? what a joke don't text him, OP. it's unlikely that he'll try to contact you again, but if he does, it won't be substantial and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:52 PM
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what the hell? she did all this throughout the first few weeks of knowing him? good god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 03:53 PM
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I know but it sucks his ridiculous actions are affecting her so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 02:36 PM
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He’s clearly a wreck of a person overall and I wish OP would use that to stop feeling bad. I literally lost count of the red flags. Lol @ him dangling exclusivity over her head like a carrot. “If you had been a good girl, you would’ve had the honor of being my girlfriend.” Someone who does that is sure as hell not someone to miss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 02:08 PM
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I went on a date with a guy early this year, and we were at a bar, and he randomly decided to point out an overweight woman and her size, like a 12-year-old boy. What a massive turnoff. I swear, most guys are only nice to you because they want to fuck you. As soon as that's off the table or if they never wanted it in the first place, you're garbage to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 11:00 AM
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#1 i can't emphasize enough. it's such a red flag. if he's asking that, 99.9% chance he sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 04:59 PM
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he was extremely into me and very optimistic about it. It was a little overwhelming! He wanted me to like drop everything in my life to spend time with him constantly. classic love bombing. these guys always disappear the fastest. he kept insisting he still liked me beyond sex and was just going through a hard time in life and couldn’t emotionally invest in a relationship. He said he needed something “simple.” I wasn’t happy with this but he insisted so much and resisted my attempts to break it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 12:58 PM
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Flake maneuver All that needs to be said, oh god. This is a classic. He said he was getting sick but that he would 'still be happy to meet' (lmao irl) because he knew that you would say 'let's reschedule' instead of trying to drag a 'sick' him out of bed, because how would that make you look? That's weird, no one does that, you always reschedule. He was flaking without blatantly flaking, which is so pathetic and childish. If you don't want to go out with someone, just fucking say so? I can't. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 12:47 PM
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I really don't think he was rejecting you "for things in your life beyond your control." You wrote that he hasn't tried to see you for like two months, and then he does this? He clearly was looking for an out and the ex-bf thing you told him was a convenient excuse. Oh, man, he's 51? I assumed early 20s before I saw that. This guy sucks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 12:41 PM
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What the actual fuck is that pathetic ass post omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 11:44 PM
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lol yep. a couple years ago i had sent a guy a long text because we were in the middle of talking about something, probably too heavy for the length of our situationship, but whatever. he didn't reply, but later that same day, he looked at my snap story, after which i texted him that i knew he had gotten my text and was just ignoring it, obviously, and that he didn't have to reply because i was bowing out. of course he replied immediately. LMAO. they truly just don't give a fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 05:17 PM
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just stop talking. doesn't seem like he does, but if he wants to talk to you he'll try harder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 04:56 PM
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yep. i've done this multiple times, thought i could get them to be more into me, be in a relationship with me, etc. it never happens. usually they're avoiding being in an official relationship with you because they just don't want one with you, period, even if they're cool with having sex with you. because sex doesn't mean much to them or make them feel much, generally. obviously not all guys, but most. unless you're just as detached as they are - which you're not, because if you're thinking abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 04:14 PM
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i hate how the comments are all like 'well, this happened to me and now he's my long-term bf! don't listen to advice from the internet because everything's different!' great, truth debunked! uh...it's true more often than not that the person trying to have a label-free relationship is doing so because they don't care enough about the other person or like them enough to commit to. obviously there are exceptions because there are exceptions to literally everything. what do we get out of denying th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 04:04 PM
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Not to be dramatic, but I once posted about a really extreme case (guy was sticking his finger in my mouth in the car less than two hours after we met...and so on (no sex tho), wanted to see me the next day, texted me a bit the day after, and then fell off the face of the earth basically) I encountered on a date on the Tinder sub, and a few people were suggesting a personality disorder. Can't remember the name, but...not to armchair diagnose, but based on all the symptoms I read, it really fit. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 03:31 PM
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it’s not our fault that men are so desperate they swipe right on 99% of people. yet that means we’re just drowning in quality options!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 11:58 AM
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This is really weird, but not surprising. In my experience, when guys are gung-ho immediately and give you all that "I wanna get to know you not just hook up" crap right off the bat, they're going to bail super fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:08 PM
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Anyone who asks about a 'number' is someone I lose most interest in almost immediately. It's immature and just lends itself to judgment, one way or another - usually another, which is negative. I've been with a lot of people because I was naive, new to sex, in a really dark place, and thought constant male validation would make me feel better. I was obviously wrong, and I wish I hadn't done that, but I did. I was always safe, and it's not like I ever cheated on anyone, but the number alone is so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 01:51 PM
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it's legit terrifying how willing guys are to have sex without a condom. i've had a handful of hookups this year, and literally all of them tried to start it raw. 'i forgot' 'i was in the heat of the moment' um what the fuck is wrong with you? and then they keep insisting on it. that they're clean, they can't stay hard with them, etc. what gets me the most is that they 1) not once ask if i'm clean 2) literally never! ask if i'm on the pill. so you don't care about stds OR knocking up a stranger.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 09:24 PM
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a transaction in which the woman gets basically nothing in return, to boot. i have to laugh. then they wonder why they get ghosted. they come on reddit and complain about women being superficial and ghosting, all that crap. gee, wonder why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:23 PM
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yep, the guys who send these messages off the bat are by far the worst in bed. it's hilarious really. it's literally code for 'i wanna use you as a flesh light for five minutes, is that cool?' thanks for letting me know up front, i'll pass! only grateful for the fact i don't have to waste any more time to later find out how gross they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:21 PM
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