sadcrab69 Archive

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-3	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Yeah I’m not taking about people that go on a few dates and decide together that they are ready. I’m talking about men like OP, who base their value as a man on whether she lets him hit on the first date. That to me is not healthy and if that is the mentality it’s impossible to have a successful relationship because you’re already comparing yourself to your perception of her exes, and coming in with unrealistic expectations for her (Ie; ik she let Chad hit on the first date, if she doesn’t bang …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 03:07 PM
1	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Yes this is exactly my point!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 03:01 PM
2	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Just because sex with a new person is usually exciting the first time, doesn’t mean it will last. It’s a bad way to look at long term relationships. Girls will often do more early on and it’s the same with men. We all to an extent act better than we are when trying to attract a mate. I think it’s wiser to hold off until everyone knows each other. Sexual compatibility shouldn’t be the priority in a heathy long term relationships. There’s a reason lust and love were connected with war gods in most…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 06:04 AM
6	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? No solid relationship can be established on sex alone, that’s why the concept of a one night stand exists. Women do exist that have the same mentality, thats why, for the sake of men and women, we should all be more selective. You are significantly less likely to catch an std from someone who you’ve spent time getting to know than a one night stand. Obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 04:44 AM
3	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Actually that’s exactly what OP is implying, so likely, yes ☠️	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 04:16 AM
8	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? YES, it’s like just because I’m on a date with you, does not mean I want to fuck your brains out. I don’t care how attractive you are I still have to make sure you’re not going to be a creep or a fucking liability later. Also the other stuff too like I’m happily engaged now, but I was terrified of sex before I met my fiance. I’d only had it once and it was horrible. I dated so many guys and fucked none of them. Not because they weren’t attractive or less of a man, but because I wasn’t fucking re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 04:08 AM
6	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Im moreso concerned about men literally staking thier identity on whether they can lay a woman on the first date, like OP. Like if you go into a relationship with that mentality then you’re already fucking it up. Not to even mention the potential consequences of that behavior that you’ve listed. Men need to stop perceiving female sexuality like it’s the same as theirs. At least in my experience I have never felt so attracted to ANY man that I’d fuck him on the first date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 04:05 AM
9	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Right? There are men and women who will literally have sex with anything, it’s in everyone’s best interest to be selective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 03:57 AM
4	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? Intuition isn’t real, it’s just taking the time to analyze behavior and having the self-awareness and social awareness to know what that behavior means. Also how is that relevant? What point are you trying to make?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 03:53 AM
12	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? I’m an atheist but I whole heartedly agree that there is way too much emphasis placed on sex early on relationships. That’s stuff that both parties should be gatekeeping until they get to know each other first. Like it’s really just common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 02:48 AM
15	What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes? If you think all women are on TikTok and collectively use a single video as a guide to our dating lives, then you are delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 02:41 AM
1	The Red Pill advice for women is lame So I agree with your first point, but did you ever consider why that is? It’s because men tell other men that they should be happy that they ‘got laid’ if it’s with a woman and if it’s a man it’s ‘demasulating and they should never tell anyone’ women didn’t invent this shit, we all live in a judgemental society. I’ve known plenty of women who haven’t reported thier assaults either for fear of what the guy might do to her. I don’t think men live with that fear. Have you thought about why women do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 02:18 PM
1	The Red Pill advice for women is lame Ok so men underreporting, that sounds like an issue that men more or less are responsible for, women too underreport, not as much so, but for the same reason. Social stigma and for women moreso fear of retribution. Yeah believe it or not, all women don’t immediately side with the “victim” regardless of gender. I agree this is an issue,but plenty of feminists do talk about it. So it’s a straw man to say they don’t. The very social stigmas you claim are in place, were created BY men. Do you think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 05:53 AM
2	The Red Pill advice for women is lame First of all women still don’t ’dominate’ stem, they don’t get promoted more often then men, nor do they get paid more. how often do male teachers and male nurses complain about sexual discrimination, harassment, or lower wages? The answer is not very often. Instead they get promoted faster (yes I did look it up) and more often than their female colleagues despite making up a way smaller percentage of the labor force. Look up the glass-escalator effect if you have questions, though I know you wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 03:56 AM
2	The Red Pill advice for women is lame Ok how would you go about equalizing female dominated spaces? It’s not women’s fault that men aren’t driven to pursue higher education and instead favor blue collar jobs which they still dominate in those fields and said jobs are often higher paid (oil feild, hvac, welding, electric, trucking, etc) than the very jobs women go to college for and ‘dominate’ said fields for (like teaching and nursing, really can’t think of many examples)I don’t know what men are complaining about, they literally ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 02:42 AM
–	BP is synonymous with low testosterone. Disappointing, I thought you had a fire in your heart. *anyone can read Aristotle quotes and think themselves smart	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 04:06 AM
–	BP is synonymous with low testosterone. No I can fathom that pretty easily actually, I think you’re the one who’s struggling with it. Still waiting for a point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 04:04 AM
–	BP is synonymous with low testosterone. Underperformer in what? Make a point if you want to argue big guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 03:54 AM
–	BP is synonymous with low testosterone. I didn’t say that, believe it or not the validation of others really isn’t that important to me, I know when I’m right and I know when I’m wrong. And I’ll admit to both freely. Also Aristotle probably wasnt the greatest Greek philosopher, his work just happened to survive. I think the real slave is the guy who thinks he sounds cool on the internet though insulting others using…Ancient Greek philosophers? Very original	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 03:53 AM
–	BP is synonymous with low testosterone. That’s not confidence that’s pure ego. Confidence is not a personality trait, it’s a transient emotion that can come from internal or external sources. And if it’s permanent then that’s a mental illness called narcissism, or maybe mania, or you’re just not very bright. No one is born to be anything. Only someone who has truly never experienced hardship or real life can so confidently say that their ‘fire will never go out’ go live a fucking life dork.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 03:46 AM