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I absolutely DO NOT support the current prez in any way but I don’t see the connection you’re trying to make? I’m part of these groups because I was cheated on by my ex husband and it was honestly the most traumatic experience of my life that completely changed me as a person and I don’t think I’ll ever recover. If there’s any way to reduce the chances of that happening again I’m gonna be on board. I don’t post but I lurk and periodically search for people I know (although I’ve never seen any po…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:20 PM
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It doesn’t bother me at all unless he’s extremely unregulated. Crying after a major loss is normal and expected. Crying over spilled milk is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:14 PM
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I think it’s moderately hard work but saying it’s “the hardest job in the world” is not true. The stress of worrying about getting fired, commuting, following a dress code, workplace politics etc. isn’t there. Also once the kids are in school and the older they get, the more breaks/flexibility you get. I know several women who are/wanna be SAHMs because even a part time minimum wage job is too much for them to handle for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:12 PM
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Very few. The only one I know who claims to be one is super delusional about her own looks and has close to zero experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:05 PM
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I can acknowledge that other guys are attractive but it’s usually just a passing thought/observation. I might feel a little awkward around a random hot guy but that’s about it. Flirting is cheating imo and I’m not about that so I wouldn’t go out of my way to talk to him more than I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:04 PM
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Not always but often. However being a “loser” is largely about mindset and is usually changeable to some extent. And there’s a difference between NEVER attracting women and not attracting women as often as you want/not attracting “hot enough” women. Talking about this subject regularly irl is big loser behavior and will turn almost everyone off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:23 PM
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If she doesn’t care about getting with taken men or worse, purposely pursues men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:58 PM
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Some insecurity is fine. Extreme insecurity and constant self deprecation is not. Or being insecure but doing nothing to change that. I had an ex who gained a lot of weight during our relationship and always called himself fat but still smoked weed every day, ate junk food and didn’t exercise. It was a major turnoff and led to me losing attraction to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:51 PM
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The simple answer? Money doesn’t turn me on. I know I “should” care about financial stability but it doesn’t have any effect on my sexual attraction to someone. As long as he’s not unemployed I don’t really care what he does for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:25 PM
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For me personally once someone meets my “line” or attractiveness, the attraction can grow based on sexual chemistry and personality. It doesn’t really matter how far over that line they are as long as they meet my baseline if that makes sense? However if they’re beneath that line I’ll probably always see them as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:21 PM
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Intelligent, honest, socially aware, knows how to dress, perfect hygiene/smells good, good in bed and decently attractive (to me). I personally don’t care about his job or income.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:18 PM
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I work in customer service and maybe once a week? Rarely enough for them to stand out but often enough that it’s not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:36 PM
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I want the guy I’m with to be attracted to me. I’m a decent looking woman who takes care of herself and I recognize that I’m not everyone’s type, but I’m enough people’s type that I don’t need to degrade myself like the woman described here. I also would never hook up with I guy I wasn’t attracted to. Not fully attracted to? Maybe. But there has to be something there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:35 PM
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Cold approach. I’m fine with the other two, but meeting someone irl lets me know immediately if there’s something there or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:50 PM
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I genuinely have never noticed this. Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:44 PM
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A. I’d be bothered by some of his viewpoints, but at the end of the day I can’t wish unnecessary hardship on my own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:34 PM
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No. My emotional connections usually develop after the physical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:42 AM
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If I stay over at his place and he still makes no moves, I’m gonna think there’s something wrong with one or both of us. I like when men are forward and direct about what they want. I don’t mind sleeping with a guy early on and actually kinda prefer it because it’s hard to commit to a relationship with someone when you don’t know whether or not you’re sexually compatible, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:41 AM
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No. Nothing against them but I’m not attracted to trans men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:37 AM
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Yep. That timeframe is ridiculous. If it had been like a year then I’d kinda get it but jobs don’t always work out and it takes a while to find a new one sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:29 AM
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Personally I wouldn’t do this. I’ve had casual flings as rebounds before but wouldn’t seriously commit to someone I didn’t see a long term future with. I’ve fallen out of love with two long term boyfriends before and broke up with each of them within the month of realizing that I lost feelings for them. The idea of staying with someone I wasn’t into at all felt horribly uncomfortable. And no, I wouldn’t cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:04 AM
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Yes. Having no sense of style is unattractive. Sweats (unless you’re visibly athletic), pajama pants in public and unflattering haircuts come to mind. Acne and very dry skin are unattractive, and usually easy to fix or reduce. Some accessories like a nice watch or necklace can really pull an outfit together. Smelling good by showering regularly, wearing deodorant and using a small amount of cologne is important. Bad hygiene is THE biggest ick and will turn off everyone except similarly crusty an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:29 PM
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I answered your question. I need both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:39 AM
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They’re equally important and essential. Looks get someone in the door but personality makes for a lasting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:07 AM
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Have some boundaries. Not be friends with people he’s attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:22 PM
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Mostly when it comes to female friends because I’ve had bad experiences with the “girl best friend” in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:57 PM
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I think most women want men who are good people and physically attractive at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:40 PM
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I don’t think it’s a big deal. But I’m quite paranoid myself so he’d have to deal with a similar level of scrutiny from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:38 PM
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These types of women tend to make terrible friends due to all around selfishness so I try to stay away from them. I’ve recently started calling it out when I feel safe doing so, like snitching on cheaters and stuff like that. It has blown up in my face but I don’t regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:37 PM
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I’ve had celebrity crushes since I was 12 and really into Justin Bieber. Every guy I’ve been with has had a crush on Megan Fox or something. It’s normal and not serious the vast majority of the time. I think it’s healthier to have a shallow crush/attraction on a famous person that you have no chance with than someone irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:34 PM
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I have no opinion until I know his age. Into his mid to late 20’s, it gets a bit weird. It either gives fuckboy or socially inept depending on his looks and social skills. Of course everyone should be judged on a case by case basis and it doesn’t make a guy a bad person, but realistically most women want a guy with SOME experience after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:31 PM
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Stable. Able to support himself and pay his own bills. Idk the exact number amount but in my area, that would be around $70-80K a year minimum. I also work and although I have a low paying job at the moment, I’m in school. I don’t need a guy to pay for me, but we can’t be scraping by. We need to have some ability to save in case of medical emergencies and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:27 PM
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I wouldn’t encourage it but I know realistically they will do it anyway if given the opportunity. I plan to educate them the best I can at a young age. Any support given to a teenage daughter who gets pregnant and decides to keep it will be for the child’s benefit only. I’d be mad as hell but it would be hard to punish her without also punishing the kid. I’d advise OP to leave because he’s clearly unhappy and didn’t sign up for this. If he chooses to stay yet continues to complain, that’s on him…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:31 PM
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This is true for most men. The amount of effort needed and potential results vary depending on your starting point. Having a fit body with some visible muscle is attractive to most women. Getting a proper haircut can make an enormous difference in how your face looks and your overall vibe/style. The amount of men I see who wear sweatpants or even pajamas in public, are scrawny or overweight, do nothing to style their hair, and don’t address very fixable flaws like chapped lips and dirty nails is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:54 AM
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I think this is more true than this sub thinks but not universally true. A lot of normal looking dudes completely check out of dating and don’t even try. This leads to worse social skills and sometimes worse looks if they think going to the gym and getting regular haircuts and stuff isn’t worth it. Being willing to fail is an important part of personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:20 PM
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I don’t have an answer. Any amount of honesty is gonna be seen as trying to clear his name rather than simply telling the truth. It’s fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:14 PM
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It would really weird me out. I’m aware that false allegations happen and are traumatic and fully support harsh punishments for those who make them. But this would completely take me out of the mood. I think simply asking “is this okay?” should be enough the vast majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:34 AM
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It’s the same pool of guys. I don’t wait for sex unless I’m on my period but I’m still down to do other stuff most of the time. And if I’m not into the guy, it won’t go beyond one date to avoid wasting anyone’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:08 PM
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In my experience, this just kinda happened naturally. If you vibe with someone and feel comfortable with them, you naturally get physically closer- sitting closer together, arms around each other, etc. I’ve never once had a guy think less of me for having sex on the first date and most of my long term relationships have started that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:06 PM
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50-50 is fine when we’re both healthy and working. If either or us is temporarily out of work, then there’s no other option than to have the other partner cover bills until we can go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:10 PM
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-intentionally looking or glancing: It probably happens often for both very ugly (1-2’s) and very hot (9-10’s) men because they stand out. It might happen every once in a while for above average guys, and almost never for below average to regular guys. -matches? Just a couple times a year with extreme effort for below average guys. For average guys, give or take a point or two in either direction, maybe a few times a month. For above average guys, a few times a week. For hot guys? Too many to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:49 AM
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Very mature, I respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:05 AM
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I didn’t say it’s right or that they should get a pass. I believe that being honest is the kindest thing you can do to someone because it allows them to make a fully informed decision about whether or not they want to be around you, be your friend, etc. Personally I can’t be friends with people who sugar coat things or straight up lie about them because it makes me uncomfortable and I have a very hard time with hints. But going back to lying when it comes to relationships, I don’t see this chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:58 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:14 PM
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Women mostly want guys who are hot and nice. These men exist, but they tend to get partnered up quickly. Pretty privilege exists for men as well, so yeah, hot guys can get away with a bit more than average or ugly ones. Also I agree with most people on here that women are dishonest about their genuine preferences. The difference is, I think the dishonesty comes from a genuine unawareness or a fear of coming off as judgmental or rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:56 PM
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Nice! I’m glad things worked out for you guys and you were able to overcome the awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:33 PM
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It happens, but we hear about it less. Women are less likely to make moves in general and men tend to have a hard time picking up on hints. A lot of women THINK they’re dropping obvious hints but end up being so subtle that it goes unnoticed. Also, women can and do get rejected by their male friends. The difference is, only the most socially inept women will admit this publicly. The idea that “men are easy” and “men will fuck everyone” makes it socially unacceptable for a woman to talk about not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:57 PM
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No, the issues are just different. If the urge to cheat is there, hot guys have an easier time finding someone who’s down. But ugly guys can and do still sext strangers online, pay for OF, or cheat with very disgusting women. Guys who have enough options but aren’t like celebrity/athlete level hot also don’t have the same hangups about missing out or resenting their gf’s for a “higher body count.” At the same time, they have to put in SOME effort when it comes to meeting someone and making a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:34 PM
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This is true. My close friend is in a DND group with tons of these couples. They’re just not noticeable because they’re in bed by 10 and not at the club, and aren’t super attractive most of the time. I think in general, being your type’s type makes finding partners way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:27 PM
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Flowers, chocolates, books etc are fine gifts under $20. I’m not sure what type of gift you thought I was talking about, but there are plenty of meaningful ones that everyone can’t afford. And it’s just a fact that most people on the planet aren’t rich. Who is telling men to give women they find less desirable a chance? Again, men have free will and can just choose not to date them, problem solved. I don’t think you understand that some men genuinely like women that you personally aren’t attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:34 PM
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I don’t either. I’ve been trying to reason with him for a while now but keep getting extreme, exaggerated opinions that have no basis in actual human behavior at all. Maybe it’s for shock value? But we’ll see if we get somewhere. I agree that you can’t buy love and should spend time together talking and really getting to know each other. Walks are a great way to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:17 AM
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Who are they? Most people aren’t rich… Some people enjoy treating their partners every once in a while. A brunch here and there is nothing. If it’s all the time then yes I agree that’s excessive. Also idk what scale you’re using but 6-8’s are also semi rare and not easy to date. Between them and the “500 lb bridge troll” 1’s are tons of women, MOST women, and the ones average men will realistically have a chance with. Do you genuinely believe that men can’t be attracted to anyone who’s not a 9+?…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:12 AM
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No, I don’t think the average/mid woman is the average man’s first choice. I also think 9’s and 10’s are quite rare, some areas have none, and an above average or cute woman is more than enough for many. That’s why I think the cutoff is lower, but not that low. So again, I kind of agree. You lost me in the second half ngl. I doubt most men can even afford Nobu but many would probably love to take their girl there if it were financially possible. No one is stopping a woman from paying for her own…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:09 PM
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Hm I never thought about it like that but that makes sense. What should the bottom 80% of women do then, if they’re not good enough to have money spent on them? Just assume every guy is settling because they’re not celebrity level hot? 6-8’s are still above average to hot and seem to have plenty of people interested in them. Like I kinda agree but I think the cutoff is lower if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:53 PM
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I don’t understand why people have such a problem with coffee dates. It’s a smart idea to meet for the first time in a public place for safety reasons, and you can always go somewhere better after if the chemistry is there. Like maybe don’t go to Dunkin but there are some nicer cafes out there with good atmospheres.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:35 PM
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Somewhat. I personally don’t do this, as strong physical attraction must be present for me to even consider a relationship with someone. But my friend is doing this right now and I struggle to understand how. She values stability because she had a traumatic upbringing. She’s above average and dating a man who’s objectively beneath her physical league- shorter than her, fat, and no sense of style. He said he wants her to compliment him more and call him handsome and stuff, so she lies to shut him…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:09 PM
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For women: alternative styles like brightly colored hair and septum rings, often very out of shape For men: very skinny or very chubby gamer dudes. Often with long hair, no sense of style and bad skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:40 PM
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I know an above average guy (conventional 8 imo) that got 5 ish matches a week and a below average guy (conventional 3 imo) that got about 2 matches a month. They both live in the same small city. So I would guess 1-2 matches per week in highly populated areas. The hot guy hooked up with a different woman about once a month. He knew he had enough options and gave each girl a chance before dating one of them who he’s still with. The ugly guy hooked up with two people in a year after a lot of effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:29 PM
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It’s true to some extent but is often exaggerated. Having SOME edge is attractive and exciting. You don’t have to have tattoos all over your body or multiple felonies to achieve this. Having a couple tattoos, dressing well/trendy, and being very confident are all traits that give bad boy energy without taking it to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:21 PM
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I would never support any legal restrictions on divorce. But I don’t think it should be thrown around as easily as it currently is. I’d be flattered if a guy was so sure about me that he didn’t see divorce as an option. It’s a sign that he’s willing to work on problems instead of leaving during ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:09 PM
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Depends on the reason why. If it’s a medical reason, then I could deal with that. I would miss sex but it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker if I really love them and have been with them for a long time. If not then I’d be very concerned and insulted. I’m fine with a low frequency or taking a break due to extreme circumstances. But if they just didn’t feel like it anymore and did nothing to fix the problem then I’d consider leaving after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:05 PM
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Jealousy for the most part. Also the poly people I know tend to have “that look” and a…lower standard of hygiene that I’m personally not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:01 PM
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idk I guess some people are unwilling to date people they’re not attracted to even if that severely limits their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:28 PM
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Most people are attracted to fit people regardless of what they themselves look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:43 AM
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Yes. Well done tattoos add style and edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:40 AM
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Yeah, both things can be true at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:08 AM
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Yes. They’ll pine after conventionally perfect women but are willing to hook up and date down because they tend to view sex as a need and can also single out features they like on an otherwise unimpressive woman. Men on here and irl think just not being fat and showering is enough to be hot (like that 19-21 bmi discourse). Then they’ll call these so called “hot and skinny” women ugly for having imperfect facial features, being flat chested, having no ass etc. Men are dishonest about their prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:30 PM
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I disagree. Losing it at 17 and “getting it over with” was a massive relief. It took the mystery away, made me realize it’s possible to find people who are into me, and helped me relate to my friends. I’m not religious and don’t have any major hangups about sex so it was purely a bucket list type thing for me. My self esteem was (and still is) trash so losing it before turning 18 felt like an accomplishment. I know it sounds dumb, and people have told me so, but that’s my honest opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:22 PM
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No. I don’t get them very often and I would love to receive more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:35 PM
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Passive aggression and indirect communication. Talking about someone behind their back or throwing hints when they make a mistake instead of telling that person directly and clearly, either because they like having something to gossip about or they don’t wanna seem “mean.” Male coworkers and bosses might be tougher and meaner in general but it’s easier to know where you stand with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:23 PM
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Anything more than once out of curiosity at a very young age (like under 21) would be a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:03 PM
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This hasn’t been my experience. I’ll only consider dating a guy if he falls within the range of my type. It’s something I know right away from the moment I see him, pass/fail. When I was very young I dated people I wasn’t fully attracted to and it ended badly because I’d spend tons of time convincing myself he was hot when that wasn’t the case. If a guy checks all my other boxes but isn’t attractive to me, it’s not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:03 PM
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I prefer hazel or brown eyes. They often give deep or mysterious vibes. I think blue eyes are overrated but that’s just my personal taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:28 PM
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It’s a dealbreaker for me. I love to read but I’m okay with guys who don’t like reading books very often. But not being able to is something else. How would we text? What about signing important legal or medical documents? It would be a safety issue at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:41 PM
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Mine too. I’ve never had attraction grow over time to someone I wasn’t already into from the beginning. I know some people are like that but it’s hard to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:22 PM
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I can think of a few different reasons based on women I know irl. Some might genuinely have unconventional preferences like being into chubby or bald men but people don’t believe them, especially if they happen to be pretty. Some might be talking about features they find acceptable but don’t prefer, like not minding if a man is short but get misinterpreted as saying they prefer those traits and then get accused of lying. Some have multiple different types/no types and be into both dad bods and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:31 AM
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Indirect communication and passive aggression. I know women who drop hints because they’re too scared to say the thing they wanna say then get mad when the other person doesn’t pick up on their hints. I’ve dealt with this in workplaces before and it’s frustrating to know someone doesn’t like you but not know why. I feel like men are usually more blunt if they have an issue. Men tend to get really mad and explode when they’re mad but once the issue is resolved, it’s over. I find that easier to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:47 PM
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Bringing it up like that IS creepy, especially on your profile. It shows a lack of social awareness and comes off as entitled, both of which can drive otherwise interested women away. If we’re talking a lot before the first date and things get flirty then the conversation might naturally lead there, which I’m personally fine with. I’ve had sex or done something physical on the first date with most of my exes. It’s something that happened naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:35 PM
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No, that’s a pretty average looking guy. I see men like that at my retail job on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:35 PM
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I wouldn’t be mad but it would take some getting used to. I get why he’d wait that long because if he had told her when they were more casual, she probably would’ve been more likely to tell others or immediately leave. I think I’d try to understand it and get over the weirdness of it, but there’s a chance it wouldn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:31 PM
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I find them extremely obnoxious. From my experience, these types of guys are more likely to be rude to women who don’t fit the beauty standard which is gross and hurtful. I don’t mind a difference in political views but I do mind people who make being reactionary contrarians their entire personality. It’s possible to be conservative and respectful and I try to be open minded about where people are coming from even if I disagree with their opinions, but this person sounds like a classic bully who…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:55 PM
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No, this sounds pretty neutral and unproblematic to me. When it comes to friendships people tend to have more in common with their own gender (not always) and I know many guys who avoid talking to women out of fear of being seen as creepy, which I sympathize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:44 PM
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I only know one woman who cares to the point of it being a dealbreaker. She’s 5’0, not conventionally attractive and hasn’t had a relationship in like 4 years. Most women just want a guy that’s taller than them. Some have a preference for tall men but it isn’t a dealbreaker. I’m 5’2 and 5’8 is fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:29 PM
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I’m a woman who thinks she’s gross. Heavy on the “just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.” The men involved are also gross to me and being involved in something like this is a massive, nonnegotiable dealbreaker. However, I also recognize that the vast majority of people don’t act like this and don’t see it as a reflection on an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:22 PM
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I’ve been in this situation and it hurts terribly. I’m not great at reading people and don’t get hit on often enough to know whether someone is attracted to me or attracted to me enough. I’d avoid intimacy altogether until my urges got too strong and just watch porn instead. He’d let me get him off maybe 1-2 times a month in the dark with no reciprocation. Any attempts to talk it out were filled with empty promises, intimacy once to shut me up then nothing. It was also extremely embarrassing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:24 AM
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I was/am very shy and socially awkward my whole life. I feel out of place compared to other women my age and am mostly invisible to men, but I have had some decent romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:45 AM
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I’m embarrassed about it, especially when other people notice. I don’t like to be pitied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:25 PM
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He is like that in general but treated others slightly better, like cooking for his ex for example instead of making me buy him fast food multiple times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:58 PM
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I have been in this situation multiple times and am currently in this situation. It’s to the point where my friends and family are asking if I’m ok, which is very embarrassing. I no longer expect birthday or Christmas presents. 50/50 is the best case scenario for me as I often pay more despite making a dollar above minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:45 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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