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Sad.... They’d be better off spending this energy on improving their shit behavior. I love how we are called femcels even though the choice is falling on us to make. I got a huge reminder of that very recently when I gave in to a hookup and was instantly ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:41 PM
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Ugh... someone reposted this in trashy. Not cool.. . . https://www.reddit.com/r/trashy/comments/gqc8ix/i_wonder_why_shes_still_single/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:13 AM
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Hmmm I like this theory, it makes sense. Any way to combat that behavior. It’s so hard to explain to someone why this shit is not okay. I literally have been hit with “oh you’re so jealous it’s adorable”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:08 PM
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I love all of this. 👏🏻👏🏻 saving these comments to pep myself up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:00 AM
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A picture has yet to happen to me but I don’t think I could hold in my laughter if it happened. That’s so ridiculous! Thank you, internet friend ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:09 AM
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girl, wow seriously. You threw all of the insecurity I had towards this situation out the window. You said everything I was trying to figure out in the best possible way. Thank you 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:49 PM
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Oh yeah I totally knew what he meant by massage 😂 I’m not about to break quarantine to be disappointed by your amazing “massage skills” lol This dude has honestly given off strange vibes from the start and I’m absolutely over it by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:30 PM
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Yes! Just say “I’ve heard I give good massages”. Like why is that so hard for them? I swear, men will always try to lump me in a category and I get so damn mad lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:21 PM
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Please consider a weekly thread like some have suggested! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:30 PM
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I’d be rich if I got a dollar for the amount of times I thought to myself “I’m not here to be your therapist and help you work through your baggage”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:16 PM
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I had 1 last guy’s number that I was texting after deleting my tinder. I absolutely can not deal with OLD anymore, the amount of disrespectful shit I run in to is not worth it anymore. So anyway, that dude texted me this morning that he’s not over his ex from 4 months ago so he can’t date at the moment 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:10 PM
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I told my ex that he wasn’t listening to me and was acting immature. He yelled “I can’t believe you just said that to me!!” and then legitimately walked out of my house. If I had the same reaction, he would have called me dramatic. When I told him that’s not a normal reaction and he needs to be able to take some criticism he basically said “I’m not going to stay in a place where someone is saying such mean and hurtful things”. Such a man-baby. Bonus story!!!: last weekend I found out a close fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:27 PM
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I feel attacked .... jk jk But, I actually needed to read this 😓 I’ve saved it and will re-read it many times. I tend to do this x4 because I have borderline personality disorder. Regardless, it just takes work as you said. I’ve noticed not having mindfulness and pausing sometimes makes me tend to be swept up in the romantic feelings. Ladies, my 4 years in therapy has taught me the most simple solution to some of these wacky things we do, and it’s legitimately just taking the time to go over you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:31 PM
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Don’t you know it will literally FALL OFF if he doesn’t cum tonight?! On top of that, how can you expect him to cum if you’ve gained 15 lbs. think of the men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:56 PM
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“This one was able to make me cum, lemme share it like a damn Pokémon card”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:04 PM
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Right?! Sorry these dozens of naked women aren’t doing it for ya. Uck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:23 PM
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Girl no apology needed! I have such a hate for the culture of a naked woman needing to dance on a guy that’s about to be married. They don’t “deserve it” because they’re about to be “chained down”. I wouldn’t marry someone who treated our marriage like a life sentence in prison. Be strong, he’s obviously trying to gaslight you in to denying how much this meant for you not to go. It wasn’t a crazy/unreasonable request!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:34 PM
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All of my cousins are married to wealthy guys and I have a grandmother who constantly tried to insult me by bringing up the fact that I’m not married. She’s so proud of my cousins and thinks they’re the epitome of success. 3/4 of those husbands are cheaters. 1 is still cheating when he’s out of state for work and 2 fucked strippers at bachelor parties. The last guy, while not a cheater, is a controlling asshole. I’m not sure why she’s still in the mindset that husband equals success. I’d rather …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:26 PM
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Super gimmicky 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:14 AM
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Yeah I don’t love bumble but for me, it’s definitely better than tinder :/ I feel like on tinder they assume you’re DTF immediately. But yeah, I like the “lol “ ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:18 PM
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You’re my hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:03 PM
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I used to try to explain to them why they’re being a douche, maybe in some weird way I was trying to help them but I’m done. They don’t care anyway. Less is more. I’m gonna ignore it 🤟🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:44 PM
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I think that’s exactly it, too unfortunately. That’s where I was leaning, just let the message sit and not respond. If he ends up asking what happened, I guess I could pretty much mention that he never actually asked if I was down to text? Ty 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:37 PM
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I literally never said that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:51 PM
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I’m aware that they’re different, but you’re able to have one of these personality disorders and have similar symptoms. I unknowingly manipulate situations, not with anger but with suggestions and guilt. It’s a habit I have to work on constantly. I check off every other thing that someone with BPD has. My entire point is that it’s hurtful to read your diagnosis as an insult for someone else. My mom, also abusive, has diagnosed bipolar disorder. She doesn’t take medication/therapy for it so our r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:51 PM
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I’m sorry that your experiences with people with a BPD diagnosis has been bad. The second I got my diagnosis I dove in to therapy and I work my butt off to handle my unstable emotions. I hate that I have this diagnosis. It’s embarrassing and I have to constantly worry about when I can tell someone, mostly because of stigma likes yours. I’m asking everyone around me to be honest with me and my behavior so that I can learn and adapt. It would do you good to stop clumping everyone in categories. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:01 PM
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Thanks friend, I love the community here & I’d like us all to support each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:40 PM
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I can tell you I have had a whole lot of insane situations happen, I have put people in my life through things that I still have guilt over. I have never acted ratchet and blamed another woman for sleeping with someone I was with. My engagement ended two years ago due to cheating and I have never spoken to the other woman. Edit: I meant to bring the second paragraph in to my reasoning about other women. If I feel weird or jealous over someone I’m dating I’d talk to the dude about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:56 PM
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As someone with BPD, that’s a little harsh. Not every mental illness is the same, I have never done something like what is stated above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:49 PM
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The same thing happened to me. She turned on me the very next day accusing him of being at my house since he wasn’t home. Years later they ended up coming in to the restaurant I worked at and tried to get me fired when they realized I was their waitress. My boss told me about it and said he didn’t believe that I “basically threw their plates of food at them”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:48 PM
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Less is more! Another lesson I’m learning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:36 AM
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No joke, what is your response? Because I hate when this happens so much & I’ve just started blocking them but I’d like to let them know that they suck before I do(but in a cool chick way ♥️😎)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 11:50 AM
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One of my lowest moments was continuing hanging out with a dude who had just gotten a divorce. His ex-wife left him for someone else and he was bitter af and talked about it constantly. My engagement had ended about 6 months earlier so I was trying to give him some slack and my self-esteem was super low at this point. So we ended up drinking one night and started to have sex. Three mins in, this grown ass man starts CRYING and then jumps up and runs in to the shower and turns on the water. Of co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:58 PM
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I love that you responded by saying this was a happy ending, because it didn’t say anything about her meeting a new guy & he’s amazing blah blah blah. She’s out here living her live, single and happy, and that totally IS a happy ending! Yay for independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:16 PM
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It’s deleted what did he say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:18 PM
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To add to your last sentence, there are also people who are flimsy with their BC while sleeping with LVM & REALLY do not think about the lifelong involvement with the guy, An old friend of mine would constantly cry to me about her boyfriend and all of the terrible shit he did. He had 2 kids already, didn’t have custody of either because of something his ex-wife did (okay🙄) So, I randomly find out once day she doesn’t use BC cause of “hormones” & doesn’t like the feeling of condoms. I tell her th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:39 PM
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Sid from Toy Story looking mother fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:52 PM
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Try again sir, as you can see in her profile she is NOT a drinker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/19 12:00 PM
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I do this EVERY TIME because when I first meet someone I like them TOO much & want to be around them 24/7. So annoying to deal with, I’m sure 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 02:15 AM
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Right because for decades there hasn’t been “The Game” and other techniques that men have used. There hasn’t been thousands of references in song and cinema about chasing women and the tactics they use to get laid. Because we stopped putting up with those games, it now means we are playing them? Naw dog, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 11:23 PM
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She does! Violetclair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 09:48 PM
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I love this artist! She has the best motivational little doodles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 07:37 PM
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