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No. Can't get it up unless they're at least a 7. Spoiled by my HB9 ex-wife...
/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:26 PM
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Separated for about 8 months here. Late 30s. Officially divorced for a few weeks from a HB9.5 (together for 15 years until she cheated.. Harsh times but TRP saved me!) I didn't hang around and have had 4 opportunities the last 2 months. The first went ok, but was too drunk so didn't finish. 2nd & 3rd were no good... Couldn't get it up. Head was a mess. Same girl, early 20s. Hot body but maybe just a HB7. Was thinking too much about it. The last one I got some sildenafil (viagra) wow... Bigger, h…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 07:38 PM
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I have a few activity shots (one in my wetsuit looking out over the beach & waves as the sun rises, one finishing a triathlon, one paddleboarding), one with my hot ex, one with me dressed up in fancy dress/costume, one head shot. I also link to instagram for the sole purpose of showing how cool my life is :-D I went against the general advice and put a more mysterious one first so they look into me before swiping. No text. They can ask that shit if they have questions.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 07:36 AM
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Ask her to teach you how to serve, kino all over that shit, it should be fun
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:47 PM
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Late 30s, not a problem, 21 year olds fine. Got some comment I ignored when I was out with one - "she's only about 18 that's disgusting"... amused mastery ensued. The guy was pissed I didn't retaliate!
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:40 PM
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I can't get it up with ugly girls it's a no for me!
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:38 PM
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Software Engineer - learn to code, build something yourself, host your code on Github, demonstrate to a company you can build things You can learn a lot online!
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:58 PM
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Making them laugh is good... ask them "I have an important question before we go any further... are you a cat or dog person?"... they wonder WTF and you can have fun with it... e.g. "I'll tell you in person" or "shit after all this time I don't know if this is going to work out... we'll have to see.. maybe meet for a drink to find out if I can get over you being a cat person"... anything to make them think they have to work in some way to win you over. It's also fun. Had some good success with t…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:07 PM
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Get some good pics first... I had some default Facebook pics for the first couple of weeks... then dug up some good ones, deleted my account and all good :-)
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:57 PM
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6'2" triathlete here; love cycling too. Some chicks love the slim fit look (I get compliments, am in my late 30s, but even a 21 year old I had over last year was loving it) I also do some bodyweight, yoga and kettlebell work (Turkish get up is amazing for core & shoulders) all of those add enough muscle for me to not affect my racing performance. I am thinking of bulking up a little more but not much, need to keep weight down for ironman...... I would agree being confident in your body is far mo…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:29 PM
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Great to hear. I'm in my late 30s. Separated for a few months. Divorce almost finalised. Wife met somebody else... now I'm happy. My list of recent girls includes a 21 year old fuck buddy... and I had 3 dates last week. Fun times. I keep fit, compete in triathlons that I started about a year before I split from my ex-wife (doing a full ironman this year) turns out it's knocked quite a few years off me - I shave my head because genetics, but apparently look nearer 30.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 10:54 PM
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Go out on your own... I have no problem doing this. I have some good friends but have moved somewhere I haven't made the effort to develop relationships where I feel the need to be alpha in a group. IDGAF really. If you have an interesting/adventurous night they may want to come next time. Surprising what kind of things can happen when you're out on your own and meet a few people.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 06:28 PM
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I'm similar - 36, just divorced, got two kids (5 & 7) who live with my ex-wife mostly, I have them a couple of times a week. I definitely don't want a LTR either... she would have to be something special and totally down with how I want to live my life... Am almost ready to thank my ex-wife for setting me free, I feel strong & happy with my life.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:27 AM
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Recently divorced my wife; been together for 15 years.. Kids are 5 & 7 They live with her mostly, I have them to stay regularly though. I couldn't handle her lies. I'm enjoying my single life... but also want to hear what other say about raising a son to not get screwed over like I did. I wasn't 100% beta, was relatively easy to get out of my ways, I kept in shape, and now am happy with myself and my life. Good start posting in here, there is a lot of great info, sidebar is essential. Edit: Clar…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:21 AM
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Thanks for all the comments... I'll try weights & Zinc. Had an ideal fuck buddy round last night. Young. Wild. Just wanted to fuck. Had a few drinks (not many) and dick didn't work. Soooo frustrating!!! Think I'll go to the doc and see if he can prescribe something in the short term. Am pretty sure it's all in my head. Never had this problem but am recently divorced and stressed out at work...
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:50 PM
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I'm new to this but dating a couple of younger women (8/9 years younger).. One asked how I felt about dating a younger woman... I said yeah maybe she's a bit young... Worked well as she wanted to prove she wasn't.. But if asked directly, ask them to guess. My Facebook (& therefore Tinder) DOB is 4 years younger... Doesn't do any harm
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:31 PM
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I started doing triathlons this year. Also jumped out of a plane solo and started DJing again. Love all of those things to do. They don't do my SMV any harm
/r/askTRP16/12/15 12:00 AM
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Yep me too... What an idiot!! So funny... Only a few months later I can't believe I wrote that shit......
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:24 PM
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I'm in a similar position.. 37 just going through a divorce. Kept in great shape (triathlon, not lifting, so athletic vs. usual advice in here). Anyway so far so good... Am happy she cheated and I quickly filed for divorce. AWALT. I swallowed the red pill and whilst I'm new to all this I can only see a positive future. Need to work on my game a bit & increase my SMV further; am very successful in my job, ironman is usually fairly impressive, I'm a recent beta bux and been far too nice... I know …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 12:57 PM
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I would try and keep everything as separate as possible... I moved house yesterday, from the family house, split from my wife and issued divorce proceedings... I'll have the kids every 2nd weekend and every Wednesday so the rest of the time is mine; my job wouldn't really allow me to have them much more than that anyway. 1st night out was last night and it was very successful... I thought I might have doubts but I didn't... came naturally... if anything she was the one wondering (knows the basic…
/r/askTRP06/12/15 09:46 PM
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I concur... fixed me up; only moved out of my marital home yesterday, after being with my wife for 15 years (last 6 months went south; she fucked around so I filed for divorce) - went out last night on a hot date and it was awesome!!
/r/askTRP06/12/15 07:13 PM
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Thanks for the replies... It was a 100% success :-)
/r/askTRP06/12/15 01:13 PM
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Thanks - some of the kino moves are good! I'm pretty confident (or wouldn't have asked out a really hot younger woman..!) keep very fit (triathlete) and find it easy to make people laugh.. If I don't k-close I'll definitely need to read up some more but think my natural game is ok as I've had opportunities to cheat when I've been out before.. will report back on Sunday (or Monday depending on how well it goes!!!)
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:11 PM
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Thanks - good idea in theory... I should wait maybe... but we have agreed terms etc. although not finalised
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:48 PM
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