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safeforw0rk/r/seduction13/06/14 02:23 PM
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I haven't done it right yet! just enjoy whatever it is you end up liking about it :)
/r/seduction20/01/16 08:44 PM
1

only took a year! nice work! Braces at 25 was the best thing I ever did for myself. if you are hesitating the investment is worth more than you can imagine. It's easy, you just have to endure.
/r/seduction15/12/15 12:57 AM
8

You better be able to sell yourself. Even if you're a trashman its all about how you carry yourself. If you are already letting yourself get intimidated by the imaginary doctor then yeah, you're gonna need to be rich but doctors and lawyers are still people that need to fuck
/r/seduction28/11/15 05:38 PM
0

look into their eyes. also hands.
/r/seduction12/11/15 03:36 PM
2

Go karts. Mini golf with alcohol, tourist stuff
/r/seduction09/11/15 03:00 AM
3

You're thinking about this far too much. If I tripped and fell flat on my face I would get up and carry on, laugh at any subsequent jokes, if they're funny, and let it pass 30seconds later. Trying to "play it off" will leave you open to ridicule.
/r/seduction16/10/15 06:10 PM
54

I wont say hang out, it doesn't escalate and keeps your intentions neutral. I prefer "Get Together." women always seemed to respond well to it and its slightly out of the normal lexicon
/r/seduction22/09/15 11:57 PM
2

if you're going in with expectations that are out of your control, you are not going to have a good time. just go hvae fun, make them all your best friends if you're hanging out and that will build the attraction naturally.
/r/seduction11/09/15 10:59 PM
2

Dont let her sleep over.
/r/seduction08/09/15 06:37 PM
11

the 2 women were going to talk about you the rest of the day anyways. might as well give them something real to talk about anyways. dont beat yourself over it though, thats a tough one!
/r/seduction26/08/15 11:47 PM
3

do you tap your foot when you sit idle? break that habit immediately by keeping both your heels on the ground, focus on that and you can't shake your leg. coffee is a good place to start, i recommend trying to change venue. find something fun to do near by and before your coffee is empty leave to the park, statue, lake etc. Shitty to say this but it will seem spontaneous and get you guys outside and away from a place that is nearly impossible to escalate.
/r/seduction20/08/15 03:40 AM
0

If there is a guy really dogging on her, buy him a drink.
/r/seduction25/05/15 10:03 AM
0

Don't let her stay the night
/r/seduction19/05/15 04:53 PM
1

Talk to more girls.
/r/seduction06/05/15 06:18 AM
-1

Stop comparing yourself and be the best guy you can be. I have never met a ten, tens in my mind are unapproachable.
/r/seduction01/05/15 03:04 AM
1

Or speak from your gut instead of your throat
/r/seduction27/04/15 06:26 PM
3

If you are getting a trim for her then you are wrong...get your cut at your normal interval. Own what you have no matter if its the day of your trim or when you're shaggy.
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:52 AM
3

Challenge accepted, don't tell me what to do
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:49 AM
0

Start saying hello and smiling to strangers on the street. This is a very small step but it is significant.
/r/seduction26/03/15 07:17 PM
5

Text her a direct thing to do ie, happy hour at xyz cafe, best mules in town, 6pm Thursday. see what happens.
/r/seduction18/03/15 06:19 PM
0

There is no polite way to be an asshole...
/r/seduction02/02/15 07:16 PM
4

no you dumb shit, its getting to know people better, not just trying to get laid. seduction isn't just about getting your rocks off, its about bettering yourself and the only way to do that is to talk to people. Old, young, hippy, hipster. you buy the guy a drink, you talk to him, you talk to her, your night at the bar is tha mucht better. if you don't see the value in talking to people and getting to know them just a bit better maybe you are here for the wrong reasons. maybe you should are bett…
/r/seduction15/01/15 06:23 PM
4

You ALWAYS make friends with the guys that your girl is around. Get their approval and she will take key with it and approve with them. This works great when opening up a large set, the girl isn't the target, us men defend against the intruder. when the men of the group allow you in is a good time to start talking to her. hell, if you are suave enough you could ask them if they mind you taking her away from them, of course have her hand in your hand as you're doing it and do it anyways. Bam, chi…
/r/seduction15/01/15 02:20 PM
4

A kiss isn't as big as you think it is. It makes her feel validated in that moment and that was enough for her. Most of us have been there. Go for the 3rd "date" but learn from it. You're talking about A LOT of texting. This doesn't build attraction, it builds report and when all you have is report with no attraction, you're just a friend. We all know you will ride this to the end and she will have a great friend while you just keep wanting more. You have already fulfilled her needs without hold…
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:47 AM
2

It's just not worth it, move on!
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:31 AM
8

Dude, it's hard for a girl to get the courage to break it off and this is how she figures she can down grade it. In her head by calling you a friend she can now justify whatever interaction you guys have without the need to escalate. You are just a friend, if you are OK with that then cool but if you want to fuck, go somewhere else and don't get oneitis too.
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:13 AM
6

you didn't get the look. the look doesn't exist ;)
/r/seduction21/12/14 08:15 PM
1

1) get your feelings hurt, whats the worst that happens as you walk around town looking at people in their eyes. I'm saying go around town just saying hello, looking people in the eyes, and smiling. you get a feel for when you are being creepy and when you arent.
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:14 PM
1

I personally dont ask for an excuse or base my decision on how good of an excuse they have. unless i care about the person i dont care if they had to wash their hair or groom their dog. sucks if they had to go to a funeral though.
/r/seduction09/11/14 07:15 PM
7

Move on. There is no time for flakes. If they contact you again to hang out then its whatever, there flake doesn't effect me in the slightest. People flaking and not saying anything is more of them just being afraid to tell someone they can't hang out for whatever reason. Who am I to force someone to hang out with me. They didn't want to hang out then I am better off not getting together with them. You can normally tell if someone is going to flake on you in advance of the actual flake.
/r/seduction09/11/14 03:19 PM
1

Ramen!
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:56 PM
1

just say hello to everyone you pass by!
/r/seduction22/08/14 01:49 PM
1

i know you dont want to hear to just let it happen or do what comes naturally, thats the point of this site, to help...th ething is you need to learn what not to do the same as what to do. making mistakes, especially with a tinder target, is a great thing. say whatever you want, calibrate and play around wit hteasing her and complimenting her. make it somewhat of a challenge for her. Have fun! be the guy that chicks want to be around.
/r/seduction11/08/14 04:24 PM
2

place your goals on what you can do, dont make them outcome dependant. talk to 10/15/20 PEOPLE!!!! if you just approach girls you will make it about them. It's not. It's about learning to talk to everyone.
/r/seduction04/08/14 02:09 PM
1

"Nice talking to you," "have a good day" always works well for me.
/r/seduction21/07/14 08:15 PM
1

thats why i ALWAYS ask, How do you guys know each other.
/r/seduction21/07/14 06:27 PM
1

go in with the intent of talking to the woman but you will have to befriend the men too. this case maybe not so mcuh since you already had her attention but if you are to open a group, friending the men will bring instant comfort to her. she still gets the attention though.
/r/seduction21/07/14 06:27 PM
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disagree.
/r/seduction24/06/14 10:20 PM
2

us men dont talk about our relationships the same way either. we will bitch and moan to a buddy or friend of ours but it will normally end there and its back to wahtever we were doing. women will drink wine and ponder the meaning of life over it.
/r/seduction24/06/14 10:20 PM
1

i got ya man...download the truth or dare app...sit close and play that. EDIT: phones are lame, bring truth or dare cards, a board game, something that your heads will bump over
/r/seduction20/06/14 06:17 PM
2

Make small attainable goals, every time you accomplish that goal, you are just adding to your awesome. pick bigger and bigger goals later on.
/r/seduction18/06/14 02:40 PM
2

part of not giving a shit is learning the mechanism that causes this and understanding that it doesnt matter what you do, its just something that happens. not internalizing it is the biggest part.
/r/seduction18/06/14 02:38 PM
2

If your hook up is doing this, then get rid of the cunt, if your GF is doing this then maybe it will depending on the dynamics of your relationship. Here is what I got out of it...no its not ok for her to just be a bitch and we have to deal with it, but its gonna happen. for longer term relationships (1yr+) you are going to deal with this at some point and she is telling you to just ignore her and give som chances for her to calm down but let her get to that decision on her own. If that doesnt w…
/r/seduction13/06/14 04:08 PM
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I wanted to post this here b/c most of the time these articles highlight that women want to be treated like princesses. This is explaining how to treat them like a princess properly. Grain of salt, make sure your way is congruent with you but in essence its easy to take away what you want from this and come out with more tools in your belt.
/r/seduction13/06/14 02:24 PM
2

i'll get downvoted b/c its reddit but thats cool. all my experiences with Mexican chicks is that they want to produce babies...and a lot of them! sure its a generalization but its apart of the culture. their clocks seem to tick much sooner than others.
/r/seduction12/06/14 05:55 PM
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she wants kids, i guarantee it
/r/seduction12/06/14 02:34 PM
1

you should just keep going to school...
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:30 PM
1

causation and correlation error. the reason they look like they dont care and look so good at it is b/c they know how...
/r/seduction30/05/14 08:18 PM
2

setting clear expectations is key to avoiding this.
/r/seduction20/05/14 06:02 PM
20

come here often?
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:34 PM
3

truth or dare, duh!
/r/seduction09/05/14 06:10 AM
1

if its legitimate reasons for rescheduling, then its ok, if its a bs reason i would just have plans made up for times when you arent hanging out so when she goes to try and resched you just dont have the time for her b/c its already booked up. she will get the hint.
/r/seduction18/03/14 05:07 PM
4

and the learning continues! you will not be seen as any more attractive to any female in that room. if your teacher is a woman you are screwed.
/r/seduction05/03/14 07:21 PM
7

wash your dick!
/r/seduction20/02/14 09:36 PM
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