sagaray304 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
672	A narrow escape	Rant/Venting	sagaray304	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 05:00 AM
259	WTF. Wow. Just. Wow. This has just opened my eyes.	Rant/Venting	sagaray304	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/17 05:41 AM
1	How to get girls to qualify themselves to you?		sagaray304	/r/askTRP	15/09/18 08:31 AM
1	Older woman at work making me uncomfortable		sagaray304	/r/askTRP	22/01/19 03:49 PM
1	Texting dirty		sagaray304	/r/askTRP	05/06/18 01:10 PM
1	How do you manage inequality in purchasing power?		sagaray304	/r/askTRP	03/02/19 06:23 AM

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12	Fat friend with a 10/10 LTR It's a form of Martyr complex. Seeking out suffering or persecution because it either feeds a psychological need or a desire to avoid responsibility. You may think she's crazy. But I bet she gets attention and pity from other women about 'putting up' with such a man or how brave she is or how much she 'suffers'. It's also why you see so many single mothers who choose to wallow in pity and poverty. Even though they can get out of it if they stop being insufferable and by including fathers (who of…	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 06:26 AM
2	I catch oneitis for any mildly attractive girl who takes interest in me If you're an adult making friends is a long term game. Everyone has jobs, families, hobbies and set friends. Temper your expectations. Focus on yourself. You can't keep people hooked because there is nothing there for them to be hooked on. Have you run a marathon where your feet bled and you have scars to show for it? Have you achieved a personal best in that climb you were looking forward to? What stories do you have to tell? That time you were robbed at gun point while travelling in a third wo…	/r/askTRP	27/06/19 02:01 PM
9	A coworker asked my boss to tell me to help her move a chair across floors, he did and I was forced to comply... what would you have done in my position? You had two options: 1) Look him in the eye and say, "this isn't my problem. She wants the chair, she can get it herself" 2) Say "sure thing boss, I'll do it right away" Here's where you went wrong. "I told them I wouldn't do it right away". This comes off as whiny, childish and pathetic. Like a hurt teenager who thinks this means its on his terms. She can't manipulate you so she's using an authority figure to do so. She's challenging you (with the garbage etc), but you're in no man's land. Slin…	/r/askTRP	16/02/19 04:46 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - February 12, 2019 Through my Red Pill lens I see only women around him, that are trying to suppress his 'toxic masculinity' and I need to stand fast. So I'm now looking for an environment Well done on standing your ground. Education from primary school is geared towards women. No normal boy can sit still, read or draw for hours at a time. Most adult men can't. Boys like activity and have an abundance of energy. Try enrolling him in a physical activity in the evenings that will wear him out. Like Ju-jitsu or boxin…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/02/19 04:24 PM
2	Midlife crisis at 28? You find your mission in work not the other way around. Exceptions apply. Here's what no one tells you. Life is not a poem or a novel where you find meaning. It's not airy fairy shit that is shoved down our throats. We don't go through this magical journey and come out the other end as the Dalai Lama rejecting worldly goods. Why do you feel that a house or a sports car is shallow? How many 28 year olds can afford a house? A sports car? Not many 40 year olds have one. Most use the word shallow as…	/r/askTRP	08/02/19 01:58 PM
1	From £1 to £90,000 My MGTOW story in pictures Well done and an inspirational post. Bit of a segway, but what toy/rope are you using with your dog? Looks sturdy and I'm always on the lookout of one that lasts for more than a few tugs!	/r/MGTOW	19/11/18 12:06 PM
3	Almost Home: Advice on how to return to empty home and kid separation? Be clear and simple. What hurts kids is not the truth but the excuses and false hope. Don't hamster away your and your daughters disappointment. Acknowledge it. E.g. if your daughter is disappointed that you are leaving again, be clear and simple. Do not promise more time with her or make it up to her etc, if you cannot fulfil that promise. Say you are disappointed too. That's it. Do not blame. That harms. This will be harder than you think as your wife will try and stuff you and use your absenc…	/r/askMRP	16/09/18 11:15 AM
55	A narrow escape "Didn't mean too, under a lot of stress, just wanted a baby". Clearly all of the above make it okay! What's fucked up is other women sympathise with her!	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 09:02 AM
53	A narrow escape I'm a lawyer. Not the criminal type. In the UK, it's all about resource allocation. It's not going to happen. I can scream and shout and shake it all about. Not going to happen. There's a saying here for civil cases. Lots of clients want to sue for the principle of it. How can they get away. They must be taught a lesson. Lessons cost money. That is the bottom line. My sister is in debt and has no assets to speak of. Her friend I don't know, I doubt she's rolling in it either. Why would I want to…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 08:00 AM
49	A narrow escape Society has fetishized single moms to martyrhood, where they can do no wrong. While men are shamed for not conforming.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 07:35 AM
30	A narrow escape There is no recourse. I asked around. Three reasons. Firstly, I am a man. Secondly, She is a woman. Thirdly, I have no proof. She can turn on the waterworks and claim defective condom etc. Technically no crime or harm has occurred. The police will not spend resources to investigate and get text messages. The condom is probably long gone. I can go privately but the cost is prohibitive.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 07:29 AM
71	A narrow escape this is spot on. I have my own place so that is not an issue. I will be reducing contact with them from now on. I don't take any shit anyway and this I know for a fact has frustrated my sister to no end. I don't babysit and I call her out on her bullshit. So she's hamstered a scenario in which she is a saviour to my undoubtably sad life! Ha	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 07:27 AM
236	A narrow escape Yes. I'm starting to get that now. I think she resents the fact that I don't have kids. She sees me living the life, car, house, cash and no kids and she doesn't like it one bit. So she's hamstering a way into bringing me down by appearing to act in my best interests.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 07:24 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 03, 2018 we sound like a family of mental patients. You sound like a normal family and a good dad trying to sort it out. So cut yourself some slack. We've been brainwashed into thinking that life is spent in coffee shops and that everyone leads a perfect life. It isn't and they don't. Remember, you can't control others (your wife). All you can do is control yourself and be a model parent for your daughter. Your daughter will come around eventually (it is exhausting to spend time with an anxious and negat…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/07/18 08:24 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - July 03, 2018 With regards to your daughter's anxiety and social issues, look at the dynamic between her and your wife and in some cases her and you. Children imbibe and absorb from those around them. It could be insignificant things like constantly saying 'be careful' when she's playing. For us, it's nothing, just a phrase, but for her its introducing hesitation and anxiety. Or your wife could always be negative and looking at how things can go wrong, e.g. it's too far, it's raining - your daughter could be …	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/07/18 04:52 AM
1	Is there a feminist movement in first world Asian countries? If so, is it similar to the types of feminist movements in Western Countries? The short answer is that it's complex and it's not about race but rather economic development. Countries that are more developed have more resources to go around. These tend to be the white western world. I'm simplifying, but more resources to go around means more time for frivolous movements - the type of feminism you're talking about. This is backed up by evidence. Women in developing countries are more likely to go into STEM fields more than women in developed countries. Women in Scandinavia …	/r/askTRP	16/06/18 02:56 PM
1	Life is hell, got married to a psychotic. Don't let her and others (the doctor) use 'illness' as an excuse to manipulate you. Schizophrenia is a long term illness, possibly life long. I can't leave her too, because the society here in India will start throwing tantrums at me, "He left her, because she was ill, she was psychotic" etc., without even knowing my side of story. At some point in the future, you will learn that society views men as being disposable, you will then regret not doing what's best for you. Stop thinking of others, s…	/r/askTRP	17/05/18 12:16 PM
2	Ice Cream...everyone loves it So, this resonated with me as I had a mother like that. It's a bigger issue and more to it than you think. You have three issues to deal with: 1) She's pitting the kids against you 2) She's affecting the kids in a negative manner 3) She's not respecting your boundaries 1) Your kids probably look up to you, respect you and want to impress you etc. She's insecure and hates it, she wants to be the one respected, loved, but she doesn't want to put the work in. So the easy option for her is to be the…	/r/askMRP	05/05/18 03:32 PM
2	Single mothers want their kids to be "special"? She wants to be seen as the heroine who sacrificed everything. In our fucked up society the more victimised you are the higher up the hierarchy you are. By calling single mothers 'brave' and generally praising them we've created a situation where it's easy for women to achieve martyrhood. The problem is there are so many single mothers now, she needs something extra to feel 'special' and get attention. It also helps that by doing that she doesn't have to take responsibility for her actions - pas…	/r/askTRP	04/04/18 05:00 AM
29	Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash? So, I have a friend who went through this (don't we all have that one friend?). There are far more experienced redpillers than I who have given you advice. It will take time for you to digest it and get through it all. BUT you don't have the time, so keep this in mind: People will try to shame you, guilt you and outright ostracize you if you don't do the right thing. What is the right thing you may ask and you have. For society, the right thing here is the woman's wellbeing - her feelings. Your …	/r/askTRP	30/03/18 05:21 AM
9	Why do mothers try to embarrass their sons? It gives them a sense of control. Especially if their husband/partner is redpill and she can't control them. Dad was redpill, never screamed or shouted (great at holding frame) which infuriated my mom even more. Shit roles downhill. Head over to /r/raisedbynarcissists/	/r/askTRP	26/03/18 03:49 AM
3	WTF. Wow. Just. Wow. This has just opened my eyes. The "honorable" thing would have been for him to recognize that she was intoxicated, refuse sexual contact, not be alone with her, and get her to a responsible, sober person for help. Right, so it's the mans job to be able to accurately judge the level of intoxication (while he himself may be under the influence) and then take appropriate action? I know you think men are Gods - after all we have the divine ability not only to calculate levels of intoxication (which vary by age, sex, body weight,…	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/17 12:34 PM
–	How do I manage and communicate with women in the office? I Agree. It's what I try to do. Its getting them to do work for me (I'm their boss) thats causing an issue.	/r/askTRP	29/05/17 05:20 PM
–	How do I manage and communicate with women in the office? treating everyone in the office with respect no matter their position Absolutely. I treat everyone with respect. I even know the cleaner. these aren't highly driven people taking charge of their lives. This I get too. Each to their own and whatever makes them happy. I don't judge. Specific criticism and validity and females on your side No specific criticism just mumblings. I personally don't think it is a valid criticism. I send the same emails to men and women. I have had no complaints and hav…	/r/askTRP	29/05/17 05:16 PM
8	PSA: Get your testosterone checked. You may have to go private or be quite assertive. The NHS/GPs don't normally do testosterone treatments unless medically necessary. This means it is having a significant impact on your life and is more than just low levels. Even then it would be the last resort sort of thing. They'll get you to try losing weight, nutritional supplements, exercising, referring you to specialists etc. Source: A friend who is a doctor could not prescribe it as being 'docile', zero motivation, etc etc that OP descri…	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/17 03:53 PM