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1	How to not seem needy when you kind of are Hey - thanks. Fwiw, definitely not using that line to soften a blow. Speaking from experience as a woman who's dated both guys older and younger (and with more/less experience), it's much more about the man's attitude than any number. As to where to meet girls: Because you say you're also interested in expanding your social connections, I'd start with general activities first. You may get more reward out of those efforts than from online dating (although putting up a dating profile can't hurt). …	/r/seduction	25/10/20 03:00 PM
47	How to not seem needy when you kind of are Neediness is definitely a turnoff. But you can be inexperienced without being needy! They don't have to go hand in hand. Many people get into relationships that don't last because they don't get to know themselves first. In your case, you not only know yourself but also have made progress in ways that are attractive to most women: dedication to improving yourself, skilled employment, motivation to own and take care of a home, hobbies. I wouldn't be surprised if there are some women in your day t…	/r/seduction	25/10/20 04:52 AM
24	Age Doesn’t Matter Serious question: do you foresee potential interest/incompatibility issues (due to immaturity or difference in life experience) with 18-21 year olds as you enter your 40s and 50s? I agree with what you've written about women finding confidence and having your shit together attractive. That makes me curious - do you find those same qualities attractive in women? And do you ever find them lacking in young women of that age range?	/r/seduction	23/10/20 03:34 AM
1	How do I talk to anyone about anything? Without knowing more, it's a little hard to say. One general suggestion is to work on your curiosity. Most people like to share about themselves, so asking people questions about themselves that invite them to open up and share can be a great way to get the conversation flowing.	/r/seduction	22/10/20 08:47 PM
1	Is it really possible keep fucking 20 year olds into your 40s? Is it possible? Sure. But as a younger woman, I was only rarely interested by men who were a lot older. This was not because of the age difference or any taboos, but because these men usually made it clear to me they only really wanted me for my body and for the "status" they felt like they gained by being with me. Ick. They came off as immature and inappropriate, not qualities I'm into. So just want to point out that the framing here may be self-defeating. See women as full human beings, expres…	/r/seduction	22/10/20 08:41 PM

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