saidittt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Try this warm-up: compliment strangers		saidittt	/r/seduction	27/01/14 09:14 PM
4	Chickened out on girl at the gym. What should I have done?		saidittt	/r/seduction	27/01/14 03:02 AM

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1	Any suggestions for a guy whose appearance (and especially face) are very noticeably blemished by a rare and aggressive form of cancer? Be honest with yourself and others. It sounds like you have a good attitude already but make sure you are comfortable with your own body and own looks first. If you meet new people and are confident in yourself, it will show. And if someone asks about your face, be honest! You certainly don't have to lie to anyone. As far as which "direction" to take, my best advice to you is to be who you want to be. Being nicely dressed and presenting yourself well is always a good idea, but the most important…	/r/seduction	08/06/14 07:30 AM
1	When I woke up this morning, I was a 28 year old virgin... Depends on if you really care that much about having sex. If you really just wanna lose you're virginity then sure get a hooker. But if you only want to lose your virginity because you feel like a loser then no. I'm a 22 year old virgin and yea the thought bothers me sometimes when I think about what others think about me, but then I remind myself that I truly don't care what others think. Yes I want to have sex but I don't want to have sex for validation from others. I want to have sex with som…	/r/seduction	30/05/14 02:16 AM
1	[FR] How to get a number in under 2 minutes. I wouldn't be so harsh on him, there's always something you can say to potentially be a little better but I'd say he did a pretty good job. He can text her with a concrete date, and no harm done!	/r/seduction	01/05/14 04:28 AM
1	[FR] How to get a number in under 2 minutes. This is a great post. I'm currently involved with someone but it's kinda on the fritz and feels like it could end soon, especially after tonight... I can feel myself slipping into that oneitis phase and losing all my confidence. But this post just reminded me that its a lot easier out there than it sometimes seems and there are tons of women to develop potential relationships with. Thanks for making my night OP!	/r/seduction	01/05/14 04:26 AM
3	How to build sexual confidence when I haven't had it for so long? You're focusing too much on yourself. Let me ask you what you're so afraid is going to happen? That you'll have bad sex? Big deal. That's how you learn and improve. You say these women are into you. Even if you perform terribly, the worst case scenario is they don't contact you again and you move on to other women with the experience you've gained. You said yourself your confident in the approach stages, so you have plenty of women to talk to. And guess what? Most women aren't expecting a perfec…	/r/seduction	28/04/14 05:46 PM
2	Chickened out on girl at the gym. What should I have done? Wow I'm surprised by these responses. First of all, I don't go to the gym to pick up girls. I go to workout. To say I'm not focused on my workout because I saw a cute girl I wanted to talk to is ridiculous. And assuming all girls don't want to talk to people at the gym is a big generalization that I think is an excuse. I can see not talking to girls with headphones in. But this girl and I had an interaction, we were sitting right next to each other, and I had an opportunity to say hi to her when…	/r/seduction	27/01/14 08:50 PM
2	Chickened out on girl at the gym. What should I have done? true. good point, I will try to use this mindset next time. I know personally I'd be impressed with a dude for cold approaching. Thanks for the advice	/r/seduction	27/01/14 03:47 AM
2	Chickened out on girl at the gym. What should I have done? Thanks, good advice. I guess I care more about people being around at the gym because I'm at a relatively small college and they are people I see all the time/will see again. Shouldn't be an excuse though.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 03:30 AM
1	Ok guys, I have two days to decide how I should aproach the girl I love. If you have never talked to her, you should get out of the mindset that you love her because you don't. Building it up into something more than it is only makes you nervous for no reason. There are some good resources on the sidebar for openers and techniques. But the first thing you gotta do is stop acting like this is the only girl for you.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 03:22 AM