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ADVICEsailnumber40/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 12:21 AM
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It's something we all struggle with, myself included. The balance between being not being controlling and getting your needs met is a tricky one. But if you have been reading Laura Doyle you will know that having an iron-clad fist of control over your relationship is one way to ensure that your needs will never be met. You seem to have these thoughts about a perfect relationship where you are always given the space you need to recharge and the kitchen is always clean but I think you need to read…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 06:57 PM
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This is overall a good post. You hit some things on the nose about looking after yourself to be the best partner, and about how to ask for some space compassionately. Sounds like you have a very understanding partner. This is a comprehensive list, but imo you really don't have to overthink it. It's normal to ask for space, extraverts need alone time too sometimes so it's not like he won't understand what you are talking about at all. Something I realized when I co-habited is that I started being…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 06:31 PM
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Thanks for your comment. It is my opinion that normalizing hate speech makes it easier for people to hate, and makes people feel unwelcome. So that's where I come from on it
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:20 AM
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Thanks for your comment. I don't want to get into that resentment pattern, I think I just have to decide how much it truly matters to me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:15 AM
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Yes I agree. Do either of you have any suggestions on how to bring this up delicately/without hurting him
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:13 AM
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Thanks for your comment. You basically put into words my thoughts haha.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:12 AM
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We do have very different senses of humour.. I never thought it would be an issue in our relationship, we just see it differently I guess. Thanks for your comment
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:11 AM
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Thanks so much for your comment. I think the 'positive reinforcement' approach will be the route I will take.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:07 AM
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Thanks for your comment. I can see these small things leading to resentment. I can't help but feel his behaviour reflects on me! He always makes snide remarks about me being too 'PC' but.. Hate speech even as a joke is not okay. Thanks again.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 04:34 AM
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Thank you so much for your compassionate and insightful comment. It has given me a lot to consider. I guess the question is are these small incidents the hills I want to die on. I agree with not saying anything, he knows my opinions and there's not much more to do. Thanks again!
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 04:31 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/16 08:01 AM
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