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/r/seduction16/12/19 11:30 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding me. When I say the kind of chick you take home to meet your mom I’m just referring to the type of chick you marry. As a rule you don’t take chicks to meet your family unless it’s a serious relationship. I’m not referring to seeking familial validation for your woman. You don’t know me or my personal history but, trust me, I’m the last guy that you’d see seeking validation from anyone but myself for what I do. I see where you are coming from, based on this last pos…
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:11 AM
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I’m not going to debate social power dynamics on here but, I will refute your comment about guys having more lovers than women. It’s far easier for chicks to get laid. You have to remember that they don’t even have to try to get it. It’s trying to get them all the time. As a rule, women tend to have more lovers than men do. Just saying. As far as someone to take home to mom, party girls don’t tend to make good keepers. There are a lot of reasons for this. It’s not just some moralistic point. For…
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:35 AM
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I find nothing at all wrong with your method if it works for you. One thing I’d like to point put that I find interesting. You say you don’t take club girls too seriously. So, they are just there to have a good time with not the kind to keep around. I totally agree and I think most guys do, at least if they have given any thought to who they enter relationships with. ...and if they are willing to be honest about it. I, personally, avoid party girls like the plague when it comes to women for poss…
/r/seduction08/12/19 02:35 AM
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And he’s using it that way.
/r/seduction08/12/19 02:16 AM
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Not really anymore. Everyone is rushing to lose their virginity, now, and made to feel ashamed of they don’t have sex early in life. It’s actually promiscuity that you can’t shame anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/19 02:43 AM
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Society in general pushes it. Media, music, movies. And everyone, including a lot of parents, is afraid to say otherwise to kids for fear of suppressing their sexuality in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/19 02:39 AM
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👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/19 02:34 AM
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It’s not just millennial women but, you’re right about people from the old country. And people from older generations. Women in days gone by played hard to get. They made a guy work for it and put time into it so they knew he was really interested in more than a good time. No one buys the cow if they can get the milk for free. It’s not like that now. Women don’t play hard to get and pass milk samples out like dairy farmers at a country fair. If she seems to be playing hard to get its because she…
/r/seduction03/09/19 12:05 PM
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This is true but, you also shouldn’t chase after a girl if she doesn’t actually respond or if she acts totally disinterested.
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:53 AM
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I don’t know. This is kind of like the OP. If I go out with a chick and the first date isn’t really rememberable and her responses to me aren’t all that eager or warm, I might give it a second date chance to impress me if she asked or was interested in it but, I wouldn’t go chasing after it. Unless the first date is nothing more than sitting in the dark watching a movie and not really communicating, she should have seen enough the first date to know if she’s really interested or not. If she’s no…
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:50 AM
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Agreed
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:25 AM
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I had wanted to say that but, thankfully, I didn’t have to lol
/r/seduction22/08/19 02:56 AM
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Actually, you’re right. Approaching girls is much simpler than guys think it is. And you’re right, again. The key is not to care about the romantic outcome and just live your life.
/r/seduction22/08/19 02:54 AM
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There you go guys. Follow that advice and eventually you’re bound to find someone. It’s that simple.
/r/seduction17/07/19 12:09 AM
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There’s a thread on another sub asking women what men shouldn’t be insecure about. And women posted all the things they don’t care about in a guy. They don’t care if he’s fat or if he’s too thin. They don’t care if he’s short, thru don’t care if he’s bald or has hair. They don’t care if he’s got good skin. They don’t care if he’s well dressed, has a nice car, or has money. They don’t care about the size of his penis. One woman said she didn’t care if he was dumb. They didn’t care if he was emoti…
/r/seduction16/07/19 11:04 PM
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Ok. Whatever. Loads of women end up with the same type of abusive jerks over and over again and can’t figure out why. It can’t possibly be because they are looking for strong confident men, subconsciously, but, not many nice strong confident men are left because nice guys have been trying to be exactly what women say they want and jerks are the only ones who don’t because they dive care what women want. Can’t be that. I think you don’t understand what a real alpha make even is. Everyone keeps a …
/r/seduction16/07/19 09:44 PM
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Not trying to sound mean but, you misunderstand cats and women, actually. Cats turn up a dead mouse for a live mouse because they are predators and not scavengers. A dead mouse might not be good to eat. A live one is fresh meat. Women don’t do the things they do out of spite or because it’s a fun game. They do it for the same reasons we all do what we do: nature has designed us with survival strategies and, although we hate to admit it, like all animals we are driven by what nature has made us. …
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:44 AM
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This for sure
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:15 PM
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Even when you’re in a relationship a woman has to know she doesn’t just have you. She has to be aware that you’ll leave if she steps over the wrong boundaries and that she has to try to make you happy in order to keep you. If you ever become too easy to have, as in she doesn’t have to try and she knows you’ll still stay, she will think she’s settled and can do better. It’s a sad truth but it is a truth.
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:14 PM
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It’s in the way you walk and the way you move. It’s in your voice and how you speak. It’s in you’re eye context.
/r/seduction03/06/19 04:29 AM
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Don’t be ludicrous. Its not predator talk. It’s the truth. The guy is young. She likes him and he likes her. She 17. In a few months she will legally be 18. Then she can do as she pleases and neither one of them has to worry about it. For as long as there has been a state mandated legal age of consent, there have been young men waiting for the girl they love to have her 18th birthday. Were they being predators? Not at all. She’s 17 not 12. She’s months away from turning 18. Is she actually going…
/r/seduction02/06/19 06:02 PM
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Thanks. I don’t mind, i have trained in and taught kenjutdu and isijutdu. But, for ten years I taught the kunst des fechtens. It’s the German medieval combat system. It includes all the weapons and hand to hand. Interestingly, since it was developed under similar situations and conditions as jujutsu, which evolved from the original samurai hand to hand system, it’s hand to hand component is similar as it’s a grappling art focusing on limb locks, bone breaks, and throws. It actually uses leverage…
/r/seduction01/06/19 02:42 PM
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lol that’s funny.
/r/seduction01/06/19 01:15 PM
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Learn to ride. It’s great. Just make sure you learn to ride really well. I’ve had a few clubs try to prospect me ( you don’t call motorcycle gangs a gang. It’s always a club). I’ve always politely declined. It’s flattering but, real 1% clubs are bad mojo, there’s the jail time which ends up being inevitable. They tell you what kind of bike you have to ride and there are mandatory runs you often have to go on or they fine you. It’s an ISSUE if you get caught wearing colors in another club’s terri…
/r/seduction01/06/19 06:34 AM
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Maybe talk to her a bit. You know, by text or however you’re presently talking. Get to know each other some. I think you shouldn’t just let it go if she told you she’d like to go out with you. Let me tell you, it’s hard to tell how her parents will respond. I’ve had parents respond in all kinds of ways. As far as younger chicks go, I’ll give you three different examples: When I was 40, this chick that worked at the grocery store across from the job site I worked at hit on me ( I mention her in a…
/r/seduction01/06/19 05:57 AM
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She won’t be 17 forever. Food for thought
/r/seduction01/06/19 05:20 AM
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Dude. That’s no age gap at all. Just wait for her next birthday and she’s legal. Seriously passed up opportunity. When you’re older and wiser, you’ll regret that. Lol once you hit 40, a 20 year age gap is just fine. But? I’m glad you learned that lesson. A lot of guys never do.
/r/seduction01/06/19 05:18 AM
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Excellent answer and the final statement was brilliant.
/r/seduction27/05/19 07:38 AM
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You need to learn to control the mind. Buddhism is a good way to learn this. Your problem is something called the abiding place of the mind. If you do not control your mind, it will wander to negative places and create ridiculous unfounded scenarios of an impending disaster. A good example. A few years after my father was killed my mother started going to singles dances with other ladies that were widows. She would invite me along. There was always a belt ( like the rings of Saturn ) of guys sta…
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:45 PM
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Yes. You have to act like a man; confident, secure, strong, and dominant.
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:22 PM
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Sort of. By seeing you a few times it gives her a chance to speak to you and feel your personality out a bit. That makes her feel comfortable being forward enough to actually ask you out, Women you see only once, usually won’t be that forward. They will flirt and let you know that they are interested but, they usually don’t just ask you out. For instance, I was out to dinner with my mother and her boyfriend at Cracker Barrel once and out waitress was really just waiting on me. She would come and…
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:43 AM
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I’d suggest talking to people that are around you in a friendly manner. If it’s s woman that you like, you can let your eye contact and your body language let her know you view her as a possible ‘mate’ and then, if her responses are encouraging, I’d advance some sort of invitation to spend more time together. For instance, if she showed a positive response to my attention ( and you have to kind of understand what’s just a yes this is a friendly conversation type response and what’s a response th…
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:01 PM
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I definitely agree with you there. If your father was from an older generation where men were men, you likely grew up to act like a man. If your father was from a generation that bought into this masculinity is bad and you should embrace your feminine side hippy ideal, you probably did not learn what it means to be a man. You probably learned than manliness is sexist and insensitive and brutish. And, you’re right, a woman can’t teach a boy to be a man just like a father really isn’t equipped to …
/r/seduction19/05/19 01:56 PM
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Of course. That’s what you want to be.
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:18 AM
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What isn’t? Everything I e said is true. I have no reason to lie. It’s not like you even know who I am that I’d lie to make myself look good to you. That’s foolish. You can choose to believe what you will but, I took the time to write all that so other guys could try to learn from it and improve their lives. One thing I’ll tell. You for sure is that I recently wavered from the way I normally act towards women for s. Jock who was like a bird with a broken wing and I got to see how guys who are to…
/r/seduction18/05/19 08:31 PM
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Certainly. My father was a real man if there ever was one and he taught me how to be s man; what a man is.
/r/seduction18/05/19 04:16 PM
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That’s out of order. Confidence is first. Appearance is second, money is third behind these except for with certain kinds of women. I’ve never had a lot of money. And there have been times I have been fat. But, I am confident as hell. I’ve always had a woman, even just a loose connection for sex, since I was 18 and several long lasting relationships. Money has not been on my side and because of weight fluctuations at different times, looks have been compromised, but the confidence has been consi…
/r/seduction18/05/19 07:04 AM
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That is actually true. I’ve dated a number of women that were ‘way out of my league’.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:55 AM
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You should always be your best self, regardless. So be yourself I’d really saying be your best self. People who are saying that are saying that you have good qualities and that you should let those shine through rather than try to be or pretend to be something you are not.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:52 AM
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I have to disagree. You probably run into women all the time who give you subtle hints that they are attracted or interested in you and you just don’t know it. If you knew it when you saw it you could respond in such a way to move things along.
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:49 AM
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Thanks. Sorry it’s all posted in reverse order. And I’m sorry it’s so long. It was all pretty pertinent to what I was trying to get across. I hope you find it useful. I’m pretty self aware. It’s all about drinking from the Well of Wyrd. Understanding how the layers of past action have guided shakes the present reality and understanding how past action combines with present actions to create the future. If you grasp these things, you can better control the future by wisely controlling the present…
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:57 AM
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Ok. That’s it. It were three long posts and I didn’t know how to get them to post in proper sequence so they are backwards. But, that’s my experience in life. That’s how I got to be confident and secure and sure of myself.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:47 AM
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Fourth post. They are posted in reverse unless I can fix it. Look below for the first three. By this time, I was super confident with women. I knew they liked me and I was pretty damn sure I was good in bed. All of my later experiences with women were this way. About a third of my girlfriends had never before had an orgasm during sex. One had only ever had orgasms during oral but they had never been frequent. My present GF, like my first one, had never had any guy able to give her an orgasm in a…
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:45 AM
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This is the third post. Like the second, it ended up above the ones before it. Please read them first. Throughout my teens, I had women flirting with me all the time. My mom and other people around me would see it and tell me about it but, at that time in life, I couldn’t see it because I didn’t think of myself as being attractive to women. There were several different girls in 12th grade that were throwing all the signs blatantly but, although I thought that they liked me, I wasn’t sure because…
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:44 AM
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Note: I just noticed this post posted above the first one; kind of backwards. I don’t know Reddit well enough to know how to fix that. If a moderator could sort me out and let me know how to do it properly, I’d be thankful. Otherwise, if your reading this, go below to read the first one first. Before moving on, I want to touch on a few things I thought of while driving home. One thing I gained at the crab house is this: I had entered the world of men ( as a young teen ) and I had not only been a…
/r/seduction17/05/19 11:53 PM
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No, you will run into them and they will reach out to you. That’s what I am saying
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:57 PM
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Yep
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:56 PM
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Looks are everything with men. Not with women. Character and acting like a man is everything with women
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:56 PM
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5’7” in high school but, 5’6” now. If you follow a reply I’m making to someone else, you’ll get the answer to that.
/r/seduction17/05/19 09:33 PM
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Ok. I’ll give you everything I know that I have done that works and will help you out. First, when I get stressed or depressed I gain weight. Know that. My mother has always been a very negative oppressive influence on my life. I was never over weight before I started school. I was a very active child. I’ve always been a very active person and, even when I have been over weight, I’m very physically capable. My mother found it traumatizing when I started school and she made it traumatizing for me…
/r/seduction17/05/19 09:31 PM
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Work. Two at a bar while I was shooting pool. At the grocery store. At a convenience store when I was out of state on a motorcycle trip. A martial arts class I was teaching at a college. A teacher teaching an adult education class I was taking. My present GF I met at the marina where I keep my sailboat. She and her then boyfriend bought the boat next to mine. Places like that. Just in regular everyday places I was at.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:00 PM
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Wow dude. I’ll have to think about that one. I mean, you see true examples of male behavior in sagas, like the volsung saga and in a lot of migration age and Viking age literature, if you look at pre 1960’s history, you’ll see a lot of examples. The generation that fought ww2, still acted like men and there is a lot of material from that generation. It’s all through history. You’ll see it in a lot of older movies. But, my main source of how to be a man was my father and he died just before y2k, …
/r/seduction17/05/19 03:48 AM
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Very much so. My girlfriend considers herself a feminist but she doesn’t identify herself with what we all call feminists at all. She likes traditional male female roles. It’s like she pointed out, feminists seek to destroy masculinity in men and feminize men. But, at the same time, they seek to destroy femininity in women. They hate all that is traditionally female and feel/claim that women only have value of they act like men, what you end up with is two genders that are not really male or fem…
/r/seduction17/05/19 03:41 AM
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Yeah, I see that now.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:15 AM
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Ok. You’re right. I always thought that game meant slick talking and pick up lines. Fakery to get women.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:14 AM
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No. I haven’t. They don’t actually want both. What they want is a man that acts like a man in every way. My father was a real man. If I am even half the man he was, I’ll be proud of myself. He was always strong and confident and courageous. He was calm in a crisis. He led the family. You could depend on him. He was never weak. He was extremely secure in himself. But, that security allowed him to care about other. He wasn’t a crybaby like so ms y men you see on TV but, he had compassion and was l…
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:03 AM
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I don’t know that that’s exactly true, I actually think that the majority of men, now a days, simply don’t act very strong, confident, or secure, I think the majority of men chase after women and, when they get them, they let their women walk all over them. They won’t put their foot down and they aren’t willing to leave if they don’t get treated with respect. You have to be irking to leave. Even if you’ve been with a chick for ten years. Guys will let things that bother them go just to keep the …
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:56 PM
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Yeah. That’s one way. You have to be willing to stand by your standards and principles. But, it’s not just her bullshit. You can’t let everyone else walk over you either. And, that’s not achieved by walking around like an asshole with a chip on your shoulder being a dick to everyone. I’m a really nice, friendly guy. But, I’m strong, confident, secure, and I expect people to show me respect. I don’t bow down to other people’s opinions or social trends. I am firm and resolute. People are like anim…
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:57 PM
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Dude. That’s not true at all. I have not been without a girlfriend, even a short term fling, since I was 18. There were s few periods where I was seeing three, and once four, women at a time. I don’t ‘have game’. I’m just myself always. And I’ve never once chased after a woman. Chicks hit on me. Hell, my first real GF practically stalked me. She ended up driving to my parents’ house to ask me out. I’m literally never the aggressor with women. They hit on me, sometimes more subtly and sometimes v…
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:36 PM
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The biggest lie society tells us is that women want men that are sensitive and emotional and timidly apologetic for being a man. That’s the biggest load of hog wash. Guys like that end up being in the eternal friend zone or stomped on by women. Women want men who act like men. They want men that are strong, secure , bold, and confident. Sure, they want you to be a good guy; someone that will care about them and hold them when they cry. Someone that will make them feel beautiful and desired. But,…
/r/seduction16/05/19 09:24 PM
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Hmmm well, I do actually have a lot of things I’m into. I sail and I ride motorcycles. I make things, like I built my own chopper. I practice martial arts and taught it for nearly ten years. I like to hike and I’m an artist and I like to draw and paint and I’ve made jewelry with silver and gold and even set stones, I wrote poetry, and a number of other things I haven’t mentioned but, I’m not sure what made you say that because I only mentioned martial arts and sailing, here. Lol But, your right.…
/r/seduction09/05/19 09:32 PM
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Different ways. My first girlfriend actually stalked me ( that’s what they would call it now ) for some time before coming to my house to ask me out, Another girlfriend told a friend that she liked me so he could subtly let me know. Another girlfriend worked at a grocery store across from a construction site I worked on. I used to go in for lunch. She started taking to me every day. Even gave me a nickname. Then, one day, she gave me her number ‘in case I needed help on the job site ‘ and told m…
/r/seduction09/05/19 04:33 AM
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Not true at all. All my girlfriends hit on me. I didn’t chase after them. And I’ve seen women hit on other guys. It’s all about the vibe that you put out.
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:37 AM
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I hit puberty. Honestly, if you want to know what to do. Act like a man. Guys are so metrosexual now. Women want men who act like men even if they say they don’t. You need to be strong, confident, secure, assertive, and relaxed in your own body. If you are, it will show and women will hit on you. You won’t have to try hitting on them.
/r/seduction09/05/19 01:05 AM
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