sailorquaoar Archive

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2	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? When women say that men have it easy in society, or when feminists talk about male privilege and patriarchy theory. They are only looking at the top 20% of all men because women are hypergamous by nature. The other 80% of men are invisible to most women, so therefore when a woman says “men have it better” what they really mean is top men, and they are projecting their upward thinking views onto the entire male sex. The rest? Barely even human. This is the only way to explain the logic of a woman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 03:15 PM
7	Why are there no options for gender outside the binary in the sub? Just because you don’t feel masculine or identify with stereotypical “man things” doesn’t make you a different gender OP. Come on now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 07:30 PM
–	One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women age Yes you can, finasteride exists	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 06:10 PM
–	If muscles dont matter for women why are strippers/exotic dancers muscular Women deliberately obfuscate their true standards and preferences, as a way to always have the upper hand in the dating market. Because if women were honest and direct about what they like in a man, a lot of men would quickly work to meet that standard. Men have way more of a drive for active improvement than women do. When women’s preferences are known, they lose complete control of the relationship. And they don’t want men to know this! so yes, men are fed lies by mainstream culture about how …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 07:13 PM
–	"The Wall" Another look at the idea and what it really means for men. Men obsessed about this kind of thing do it because they are attracted to vapid “Stacies” who have grown up with so much comfort and privilege that they’re solipsistic and shallow. Most women are not like this, it only applies to those who are stereotypically feminine and high-maintenance in looks and behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 03:38 AM
–	[Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married. Men who deliberately and vocally prefer younger women want a sheltered and naive person with no boundaries or standards so they can get away with putting in less effort into the relationship. Even if it’s not illegal it’s absolutely predatory. And you all know it which is why you get so defensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 06:40 PM
–	[Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married. 25 and my girl is 8 yrs younger been with her for a year You’ve been dating a 17 year old for a year That’s a bit concerning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 06:17 PM
1	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? Hot poorman! I want to be the sugar daddy to an attractive sex object	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 11:04 PM
5	Why do men hate open relationships? Non-monogamy just doesn’t work. It’s just an excuse to indulge in hedonism, and it erodes your ability to bond, long-term, so any young person practicing promiscuity or polyamory, is just setting themselves up for pain in the future. Polyamory does not work, because inevitably one partner becomes the favorite and the other becomes a side piece. Jealousy is inevitable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 12:54 AM
2	Why do men hate open relationships? I refuse to believe a real person believes any of this. This is one of those strawman fake accounts made up by bitter incels to paint all women as selfish and manipulative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 12:47 AM
1	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? “Unfavorable economic conditions, hostile political and work environment, and bleak outlooks on the future have also contributed to more couples declining to have children.” Then, why does the Indian subcontinent, a region with much lower quality of life, and a much more hostile political and work environment, have the highest birth rate in the world right now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:45 PM
10	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. “alone forever 1997” Sir, you are 26. You have a lot more left to learn and experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 02:05 PM
4	A Modest Proposal: The Bachelorette Tax I do not agree with the OP of this post at all, but it’s funny to hear women say “some men just aren’t attractive and are not meant to reproduce” but then also say “beauty standards for women are too strict and nearly impossible for a real person to meet, #AllBodiesAreBeautiful!” The female imperative really is about 100% control of mating and reproduction at every level, I just wish they would be honest about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 12:41 AM
2	Male privilege is real As an addendum; if men have more privileges and opportunities, then why are most people who de-transition FtM? Being a man is hard, and the majority of women can’t handle it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 05:57 AM
3	Male privilege is real If being a man has more privilege, then, why do so many men want to transition to female? If women are objectively weaker in every possible way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 04:49 AM
1	Why dating/marrying older women is bad deal So you effectively bought a girl from a Southeast Asian country so desperate to get out of poverty that she’d marry and have kids with a middle aged low value burnout just to secure US citizenship. Your children will be hapas with identity issues, who you will most likely emotionally neglect because “a traditional feminine wife“ must do 100% of the childcare in your eyes. A few years after the kids are born she will most likely divorce you after getting fed up with being a live-in bangmaid, then…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 05:54 AM
6	Why dating/marrying older women is bad deal Why do certain types of men brag about dating women half their age? That’s not a flex like you think it is. It’s messed up to be married to someone young enough to be your daughter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 03:25 AM
2	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? I think you might actually be a lesbian if you’re more attracted to women than you are to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 06:20 PM
4	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? I’m actually physically attracted to men, don’t know what you’re on about	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 12:31 PM
4	CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV. Sounds like you’re projecting your own fears of inadequacy onto a potential partner. Not everyone is like that bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 03:05 PM
1	Are Women aged 18-25 adults, that are capable of making decisions that will impact their lives? “Half your age plus 7” is a rule I abide by, the absolute youngest you can date without running into major experience and generational gaps. Using this formula for a 48 year old man, he shouldn’t date anyone younger than 31.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 01:27 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread My S/O is 26 and has all of these, did I win?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 02:44 PM
3	What exactly makes women horny? Women obviously do care about looks, but it’s also the total package, emotions and body language factor into it way more than for the typical man. The biggest piece of advice I would give to men who are trying to understand women’s desire, is women need to FEEL SAFE with a man they are attracted to before they can get physically aroused and relaxed enough to have sex. You need to give clear, obvious verbal and physical signs to the woman you are with that she is safe with you, that you are not g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 06:11 PM
1	“Tired of taking care of a grown child” Bluepilled people deny or downplay the massive sex-based disparities that exist in 2020s dating culture and that feminism made it all so much worse; they would blame it on patriarchy and toxic masculinity instead. I want all those who feel lonely and unfulfilled to one day have a mature, mutually reciprocative loving relationship. But in order to do that, they need to stop being biologically reductionist and pessimistic. In order to love you have to value others, and value yourself. That means n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 04:17 AM
3	“Tired of taking care of a grown child” Bro you straight up admitted that you’re only with your current GF because of her looks, you’re contributing to this hedonistic dating culture leaving so many unfulfilled. Women aren’t realdolls that you can take out of a case to fuck and then put away when they become a burden to you. Your post history has shown that you’re extremely shallow and narcissistic, explicitly stating that you don’t care about women outside of their physical appearance, so of course you’re not going to get anyone with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 12:13 AM
1	Men depend on individual women more, while women depend on collective of men more If you knew he had a drug problem, then why did you decide to have a child with him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 09:36 PM
1	What features make a guy physically unattractive? My man HAS to have a full head of hair. If he’s already going bald, I will pay out of my own pocket for him to go on finasteride/minoxidil ASAP that’s how big a deal it is for me. (My boyfriend doesn’t have that issue ATM, but if he does I’m prepared) Also, he has to have a nice voice to listen to. I cannot be attracted to a man who has an effeminate lisp, even if he looks fairly masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 12:05 AM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? The fact that a woman’s weight is considered even remotely equivalent to a man’s height is yet another example of how the current dating market is overwhelmingly skewed in women’s favor. Weight can be changed, height cannot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 12:00 AM