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Same experience. My wife said one of the reasons she fell in love with me was because I’m honest and open about how I feel. Happy, sad, whatever—she never has to guess. I think a lot of guys don’t know the difference between dumping trauma on someone and being open about their emotions. So they decide to “open up,” and that means suddenly revealing a lifetime of dark, painful, internal shit that they’ve kept hidden for months or years. Who would want to stick around a dude who has been lying for…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 04:45 AM
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Grandiosity (the “most unattractive person in history”) is often a sign of mental illness. You just look like a person. You’re not even the ugliest person on your block. Lots of people who are 5’8” have fulfilling romantic lives. Like it’s not even an issue until you make it one. Spend your money on therapy. There’s something wrong when your ideas about reality are so obviously untrue.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 04:52 AM
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So you’re in a serious relationship with a woman, and she says, “I don’t want to see you anymore because you’re too nice. If you were more of an asshole, it would have worked out. Gonna go find me someone who is super mean now.” This was the only reason for the end of the relationship? Your niceness? And this happened twice?
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 12:47 AM
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What was the context for someone saying this?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 10:57 PM
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Someone said to you “you’re too nice?” What the fuck kind of psychos are you dating?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 07:51 PM
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I have a feeling if we heard from the women in your life they’d tell very different stories about why your relationships ended.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 12:46 PM
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You should break up with her. For her sake. You’re going to wreck the relationship with your jealousy anyway, so why not just get it over with now?
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 08:10 PM
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This applies to people at work too. The difference between a boss you’ll begrudgingly do the minimum for because you have to and the “I’d follow this person into the trenches” type boss comes (partly) down to the respect and understanding they show their subordinates. The second generally commands way more power and is more successful than the first.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 10:25 PM
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Gangs/etc. are hierarchical, like most things groups of people do. I think the problem is thinking categories like “alpha” and “beta” are immutable aspects of personality instead of situational. The best chess player is the alpha at the chess club, but maybe he’s beta when he goes to a CrossFit class. Where the CrossFit king is going to be pretty beta when he walks into the chess club.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 07:22 PM
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Describe the circumstances around a stranger walking up to and saying you look dumb, please. Where were you? What were you doing? My eyes are nothing special. Before I got married, I had a reasonable number of “hook-ups” with women, like 1-night stands or drunkenly making out, or whatever. I have no doubt I could have done this a lot more if I felt like it. But it’s not all that fun, really. This has nothing to do with my “feelings.” It is my lived experience as a relatively normal man in Americ…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 09:02 PM
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You’re telling me that in your life, more than one total stranger has walked up to you and said “you look stupid?” This does not sound realistic. Women are no more driven by biological determinism than men. Whatever evolutionary predisposition there may be for preferring specific kinds of facial features (if there even are any) isnt a 100th as relevant as current cultural markers of a person considered a “good mate.” Those traits are generally humor, compassion, happiness, etc. Boiled down: “be …
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:31 PM
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Maybe women think you’re stupid because you believe they have instinctual intelligence sensors they use to measure facial geometry? Because that’s a very stupid notion.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 02:49 PM
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Physically attractive traits are cultural. You can tell because different cultures (and historical periods) have different beauty standards.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 12:59 AM
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You consider yourself a “man going your own way,” but you want to talk about women? Why? Like why don’t you actually go away?
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 01:52 PM
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The best single indicator of bearing a healthy offspring is having had a healthy child before. But for some reason, moms aren’t regarded as the sexiest by redpill types. Even though your “fertility” thing would suggest it should be. (The “some reason” is that redpill theory is horseshit.”)
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 10:17 AM
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How stupid the Nazis were cannot be overstated.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 11:00 PM
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I do mean white men. But pretty much everywhere. Not just the US. Women have only had the right to vote in the US for 100 years. The idea that “but people think it’s weird if I cry!” (Which is itself a product of the patriarchy) evens things up is silly.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 04:51 PM
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Men are massively overly represented in terms of economic, political, cultural, and religious influence because women were (and are) kept from every kind of power by thousands of years of repression. Like dude, come on.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 04:48 PM
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There is no “system.”
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 10:14 PM
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It’s not true. (And it’s so stupid.) People who are into this are weird internet cranks who, by self-definition, don’t have many meaningful relationships with actual women. But are convinced that they know more about what women think than 1) men who actually are close to real-life women, and 2) women themselves. Cretins who spend all day on message boards making up theories about human relationships are the absolute last people you should listen to about human relationships. How could they possi…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 04:22 PM
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I mean, dude, one woman on a message saying something like, “I get more randy at a certain time of the month,” isn’t the same as Women’s desire is highest during ovulation, and pretty much non-existent the rest of the time. That’s a deeply weird conclusion to come to. For adults in healthy romantic relationships, desire and sex are an expression of the relationship—connection and compatibility between two people adds up to a satisfying sex life, no matter where anyone is in their “ovulation cycl…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 05:40 PM
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You have this weird pet theory about “ovulation windows,” and it’s creepy. It’s dehumanizing. A guy remembering to take the car in for an oil change is a much better positive indicator for physical intimacy than hitting the right time in the “ovulation window.”
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 01:25 PM
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No offense, but even on a message board, you seem creepy. In my experience, “not being creepy” is a prerequisite to women liking you.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 01:18 PM
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I mean, “I am attracted to men who respect me and are fun to be around” seems like a fairly common opinion among women I know. No one has ever mentioned their ovulation window, however.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 12:47 PM
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My wife likes and desires me because I am a generally good fellow and I make her laugh. She feels valued and loved. I am not really aware of her “ovulation window,” and she is suitably “enthusiastic.” It’s not so complicated, man.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 12:21 PM
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You probably aren’t very good socially. Like you’re awkward and weird, I imagine. And that makes people uncomfortable and no one wants to be around someone who makes them uncomfortable.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 03:23 PM
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A set of weird shut-ins calls their dumb ideas “redpill.” Other dumb internet weirdos call their ideas “blackpill.”
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 12:04 PM
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Because they haven’t been close enough to enough women to understand that women are people. It’s always amazing to me that dudes with the least experience with actual women proclaim themselves the most knowledgeable about how women think. They’re like: “I know more about how women think than women themselves even know…. No, I rarely ever speak to any women, but I spend a lot of time on the subreddits where men post things.”
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 03:14 PM
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Why would you think a bunch of internet weirdos and cranks understand the world better than your friends, family, and therapist?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 03:52 PM
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Man, you sure are cool. Wow.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 09:43 AM
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You certainly seem stable and worthwhile. I envy your satisfying and fulfilling life!
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 08:27 AM
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You know, people aren’t numbers.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 08:26 AM
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I would tell a dude like that “be yourself.” Worked for me, before I got married. Also: what other choice do you have?
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 03:03 AM
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if you keep having the same kind of negative experiences with different women, you’re probably choosing women of a particular personality type, for whatever psychological reason. Like even if you don’t know you’re doing it.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 12:58 AM
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Yeah. There are sometime inconsistencies in what some women say and what they do. Just like there sometimes inconsistencies in what some men say and what they do. Because women are people and people are complicated. Human relationships can be complicated. My point is you’d be better served accepting what people (men and women) who have been in successful relationships say than accepting what men who don’t have healthy relationships say. Like how would an “incel” dude have even the faintest notio…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 12:37 AM
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So you think the opinions of dudes who don’t have healthy relationships with women are more accurate than the opinions of actual women. What have woke told you they want out of guys?
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 09:57 PM
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The problem with “black pill” or “incel” views on women is that the people who hold these views don’t interact with actual women very much. So why would you accept their opinions? Men who don’t have relationships with women are way less likely to understand what women think, and what women want, than women themselves and men who have normal male/female relationships. The reality is, women want all kinds of different things and think all kinds of different things because they are people.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 09:47 PM
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Move on from what, though? I’m saying I don’t get rejected very often because rejection is not necessary in the pursuit of romance or friendship or whatever. And when I have been rejected, I guess my reaction is to think, “well that was dumb of me.” Like, once I asked this waitress I was mildly flirting with to get cup of coffee with me, but she was married. I was like, “oh, right. Ring on the finger. Derr.” It had nothing to do with self-esteem and I wasn’t really affected one way or another. P…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 01:28 AM
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I don’t know about this at all. I hate rejection. (I don’t know if it’s “fear,” exactly, but it functions in the same way.) It’s not out of low self esteem though. It’s almost the opposite. I like myself too much to allow someone else to reject me. Because I hate rejection, I don’t put myself in a place where I will be rejected very often. Luckily, I am fairly good at social interactions. I’m outgoing (usually), friendly, etc. so it’s easy for me to talk to people and to predict when a romantic …
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 12:11 AM
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You probably don’t understand women very well. Dudes on the internet who are SURE they understand women (better than women understand themselves) usually seem like they’re not close to many actual women. Where guys who have a reasonable number of female friends or have been in a reasonable number of healthy relationships with women tend to be more like, “different women want different things, because women are people.” Coincidentally, this tends to be the same thing women say about themselves.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:46 PM
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I always think of Mick Jagger. If he had had a bad haircut, bad clothes, and awkward body language/personal presentation, he’d have been an average to unattractive fellow. But with all these things done right, he’s MICK FUCKING JAGGER.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:37 PM
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“I have confirmed my own biases by rejecting all counter evidence!”
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 08:05 PM
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You “get” being a better person and more honest, positive relationships.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/21 04:27 PM
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The whole idea of “nice” guys is so silly. Like first off, just from these comments, you don’t actually seem nice. You seem resentful, and weirdly intense about people you don’t even know. You seem troubled and frustrated. People can SMELL that on you. They can see it from your walk and hear it in your voice.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 02:44 AM
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